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| 6 | Anyone want to mentor me?Haha. You remind me of myself when I first found TRP. I could see for the first time that I was a complete fuck up and I needed to fix it. I read a post on the sidebar that said essentially, “we know it’s confusing and hard. Don’t worry, we’re here to hold your hand and help you through this.” I read that sentence with a sigh of relief... “phew... I’m so lost. I’m really glad someone’s going to help me.” And then I read the very next sentence: “What the fuck man? Let go of my hand you pussy!” Or… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Pretty sure my wife is cheating. For those who have been in similar situations, how did you moniter her phone?You are correct, in part. I'm going to assume iOS here instead of Android since that was my situation. If you don't jailbreak her phone you are limited to her iCloud backups. If she doesn't backup, you'll have to figure out how to get her to enable backups and you'll only be able to do an update every 24 hrs. For me, it worked to tell her that she was going to lose all of her photos if she lost or broke her phone. She didn't know how, so she gave me her phone to enable the backup. If her phone r… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Pretty sure my wife is cheating. For those who have been in similar situations, how did you moniter her phone?I've done this, as evidenced by my post history. You need her Apple ID and password. Then, get MSpy. Done. I'm sorry man. This is not an easy road. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Thanks! Looking forward to the silver lining of prime pussy. | /r/askMRP | 25/04/17 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Thanks. That's the plan, but I do climb and do MMA, so there is some cardio there, but both are sports I can't live without.... since I think both sports are pretty RP, they stay. Plus, I lift when done climbing or sparring. Right now I don't ever plan to get married or end up in LTR again. And for the foreseeable future, I'm just going to play. It's the silver lining I guess. | /r/askMRP | 24/04/17 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Confirmed. She's cheatingGo read my next post. You're a bit behind. | /r/askMRP | 24/04/17 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Always easy to blame, especially in hind sight. Any actual value there? | /r/askMRP | 24/04/17 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Glad my experience was an enjoyable read. | /r/askMRP | 24/04/17 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Wish there was flair or some shit for being called a "legend." (Kidding). Thank you. As the numbness wears off, and the pain sets in, I'm starting to realize just how good it was that I had that numbness. I'd be a total dick to her and I'd be a total pussy if I were to try to do the same thing now, even just a few days later. I stay kind and move along with the plan I established because it's working so well right now... and for the kids. | /r/askMRP | 24/04/17 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Yes. You can. I'd make a whole post about it, but it doesn't seem to fit here. Maybe I'll put it in a YSK and link it. | /r/askMRP | 24/04/17 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Done | /r/askMRP | 24/04/17 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Last night was about showing myself that I have what it takes still. Confirmed, I can still lock down a 6 at the club. Onward and upward. | /r/askMRP | 23/04/17 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.You make this whole experience almost sound like it's fun. Right now it hurts like hell. Going out tonight. Any advice on how NOT to be that dick who cries about his recent divorce/separation all night long? I'd much rather go find a hot piece of ass (preferably two) to bring home tonight. | /r/askMRP | 22/04/17 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Ha! If you saw them, there's no doubt. Those little mammals are mini me's in every sense. | /r/askMRP | 22/04/17 06:36 PM |
| 5 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.I have complete control over the boys and my house at this point. But I'm not interested in putting them in the middle of this. They love her and frankly, she's a good mom. She's just a lying slut with me. I have no plans to claim that she abandoned the home and kids unless she decides to lawyer up and try to take me for all I'm worth. If she does, then the guns come out. Then she can fight re home, adulteress, custody.... right now, everything is amicable. I owe her nothing. I'll hold each card… | /r/askMRP | 22/04/17 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.She's already offered "non committal hand jobs." Not going there. I just know I'm strangely horny as hell. More than normal. I need to go out as soon as the kids aren't with me for a weekend. | /r/askMRP | 22/04/17 06:40 AM |
| 8 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Yep. A risk to be sure. And a calculated one. I did the best that I could. She could potentially fight it out in court and cost everyone (me) a shit ton of money. But isn't it worth trying the amicable and cost effective approach first? The comments above as to what you'd do if you were her lawyer is precisely why the system is broken. Because you'd enter with a character attack and greed. I could end up there and I even told the wife that when I went through the agreement. The result is costly … | /r/askMRP | 22/04/17 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.For the record, she told her parents before I called. Everything else is accurate. | /r/askMRP | 22/04/17 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Sounds nice. | /r/askMRP | 22/04/17 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Ick. Just ick. | /r/askMRP | 22/04/17 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Get a good reputable PI. I happen to work at a law firm where we use a reputable company. They cost $100/hr. | /r/askMRP | 22/04/17 04:45 AM |
| 3 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Why? I don't really remember asking for it. Fully conscious I wouldn't have done it. Ambien. Lesson learned. | /r/askMRP | 22/04/17 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Thanks! | /r/askMRP | 22/04/17 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.To the extent I can help with my own experience, I'm happy to try. | /r/askMRP | 21/04/17 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.She may. It's a risk. A calculated one. And I didn't push her around and was as kind as possible. I spent extra time explaining the right to counsel provisions. We'll see how it turns out. For now, I'm avoiding litigation. | /r/askMRP | 21/04/17 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Geekass lawyers like you and ME. But I'm a patent attorney, not a family law attorney. Yes, fault is clear, done, and dusted. But the separation agreement goes into any divorce. NO alimony. None. And without significant legal costs. I'm putting money before the dissolution. | /r/askMRP | 21/04/17 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Hopefully this is a very RP approach. In all fairness I don't know what the years will bring. I'm thinking about the next few. How many can you think through? | /r/askMRP | 21/04/17 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Think! Because this way she's fucking GONE for at least the few months it takes me to heal just a little bit. Read my post above.... believe it or not I really have thought this shit through. For three days before I acted. EDIT* and because this way I don't pay any child support while she lives with her parents. I'm trying to start a new business. I need the money. | /r/askMRP | 21/04/17 08:25 PM |
| 4 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Because the goal is to be firm and direct but not to spurn her into litigation. I CAN divorce her immediately, and the fact of her adultery will be public. Or she can sign the separation agreement that gives her no alimony etc and I'll let her file for a no fault divorce for whatever bull shit reason she wants. Your approach is scorched earth. That can only end in expensive litigation and acrimony. I'm taking a different approach. It's firm and concrete, but it's also amicable. I don't want to p… | /r/askMRP | 21/04/17 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.Don't get the wrong idea. Her moving to another state until school is out is my idea. She wants to fight her way back into my life. I told her I thought that was nearly impossible, but that it was certainly impossible if she stayed anywhere near Chad -- that she needed to get as far away from him as possible if she ever wanted even a remote chance with me. She keeps telling me that she's going to fight her way back into our lives. I either don't respond or I tell her that I've been fighting for … | /r/askMRP | 21/04/17 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Update on the wife's affair. She's gone... It's done.I'm not keeping them from her. But as of the day she left I made it clear that she needed to go sort her shit out. That crying and not taking a shower and forgetting to eat etc would not fly. She agreed that the boys would be best here at the house with me for the next few days. It's all in the agreement. | /r/askMRP | 21/04/17 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Confirmed. She's cheatingThanks. I am a wreck. I'm just trying hard not to let it show now that the wife is back home with the boys. At least not until the divorce papers are ready. edit: fixed a ton of typos | /r/askMRP | 12/04/17 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Confirmed. She's cheatingYep. Just like that. Except that at least that guy is actually having sex with a woman while you can't. Seriously.... Leave it alone man. The entire goal here is to learn and help each other learn. You're not gaining anything here | /r/askMRP | 12/04/17 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Confirmed. She's cheatingNaw... Reals over feels would be to tell me she's cheating or to honestly tell me I can do better. Your comments are nothing more than an emotional orgasm. Cum on yourself next time. | /r/askMRP | 12/04/17 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Confirmed. She's cheatingReally, where is the benefit in that comment, for anyone? Feel better now? | /r/askMRP | 12/04/17 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Confirmed. She's cheatingShe's home, she's affectionate, clearly scared, and I'm pissed. This is going to be hard. | /r/askMRP | 12/04/17 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Confirmed. She's cheatingThis is awful! | /r/askMRP | 12/04/17 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Confirmed. She's cheatingFor the record, I spoke to 3 attorneys today. #1 I'm in an at fault state, not in a no fault state. #2 despite a previous recommendation to use recording devices, I don't plan to. #3 she's a self righteous one and will deny deny deny unless I give her clear proof, as in showing her a video of them fucking. I'll continue talking to attorneys and we'll take their advice. | /r/askMRP | 12/04/17 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Confirmed. She's cheatingI agree. What I want is to provide for my boys without providing for her. I'd also like the story set straight in the minds of my boys so that they never think that this was their fault, my fault, or that what their Mom did is ok. I also want to be the primary caregiver for both of my sons. Wife should have plenty of time with them, but young as they are, they have their own feelings and thoughts and shouldn't be forced to spend time with her if they don't want to. | /r/askMRP | 11/04/17 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Confirmed. She's cheatingFair enough. I'll let at least some parts of the revenge fantasy go before she gets home tomorrow. | /r/askMRP | 11/04/17 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Confirmed. She's cheatingHow to do this quietly? | /r/askMRP | 11/04/17 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Confirmed. She's cheatingFair. What you hear from me is the bravado before talking to my attorney (later today). This is a state that recognizes at fault divorce and what I've read suggests that evidence of adultery can heavily decrease the amount of alimony and child support that I owe. That could all be wrong. I should probably shut up now and get to work. | /r/askMRP | 11/04/17 01:19 PM |
| 5 | Confirmed. She's cheatingFair. It's the rage talking. She's out of town with the boys until tomorrow so I have a bit of time to cool down, get recording devices purchased and planted throughout the house, get an attorney, get a PI, and act normal. Lots to do today! | /r/askMRP | 11/04/17 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Confirmed. She's cheatingDone and done. Thanks mate. | /r/askMRP | 11/04/17 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Confirmed. She's cheatingThe only reason I'm angry at myself is for not looking sooner. I agree 100% that I'm at fault for several things, but I'm also excited for the possibilities of the future. ALL cheating proof has been or will be permanently stored digitally off site for safe keeping. Incidentally, she's already on guard... She just changed her iCloud password, which means I don't get any additional downloads from her phone for the time being. And she called me a few times yesterday to "make sure I was OK." Both a… | /r/askMRP | 11/04/17 12:52 PM |
| 13 | Confirmed. She's cheatingFrankly, I worked for three years doing everything I could to save my marriage. She wanted to cheat for the sake of cheating. It excites her. We'll see if it still excites her when it's not hidden anymore. In large part, while I woke up feeling gut punched this morning, I'm also relieved and calm.... See, I didn't take it lying down. I fought as hard as I could with every weapon I had to save my family for three years. I did see it coming the first time three years ago, and I did everything in m… | /r/askMRP | 11/04/17 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Confirmed. She's cheatingTry mSpy and Dr. Fone. You'll need at least her iCloud password and username. | /r/askMRP | 11/04/17 11:56 AM |
| 1 | How to respond?Thanks. I appreciate that advice! Gotta figure out how to move past the fear. | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 06:32 PM |
| 1 | How to respond?Now have her phone backing up to iCloud again. | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 03:37 PM |
| 1 | How to respond?That's really good advice. Actually having divorce papers on hand for that fallout moment. Thanks! | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How to respond?I don't know what all of my options are... Admittedly, I've got tunnel vision right now... I just want to go find an attractive bitch and fuck her silly right this minute. Not the right solution, I know... | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How to respond?Seems opposite of what RP is about... Improving myself. The business won't start until June. I've got a little bit of time. | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 02:23 PM |
| 1 | How to respond?Ive got two little manmals involved. Having kids changes things. 1) I don't want to teach my sons that this is how a relationship is supposed to be like, that you're supposed to just ignore your cheating ass wife and let it continue. 2) I don't want to expose my sons to this and make them deal with the shit storm she's created for them. It's a bit of a conundrum unless I ignore them and just focus on making myself happy/better. | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 02:19 PM |
| 1 | How to respond?Awesome link. Thanks! | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 02:12 PM |
| 1 | How to respond?I use Dr Fone by Wondershare. Originally, I had a fingerprint to her phone and she kept iCloud backups. Now, however, as I learned yesterday, she's deleted all iCloud backups, doesn't back up her phone or pictures to iCloud contrary to what she's told me recently, and last night when I made a simple change she needed to her phone, she anxiously sat looking over my shoulder the whole time.... Sigh.... I get it, I get it... | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 12:33 PM |
| 0 | How to respond?Fair enough and good points. Can I leave if she spins me as untrusting? In honesty, no, not yet. Oneitis... Pathetic... Call it whatever you want and I won't deny it. I know where I should be on that. I'm there if I get past the "probably" that you mentioned. Then, no matter what, I'm making the right move and shes gone... tonight... But if i don't actually KNOW? The beta kicks in and tells me to hold on. In good news I'm going to an awesome bachelor party on Sat./Sun. Maybe a little turn about … | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 04:20 AM |
| 3 | How to respond?Except that of course she's stopped allowing her phone to backup and she's deleted all backups... Sigh... Ok... Writing in the wall... I see it now. Now I'm just angry... Off to MMA I go. | /r/askMRP | 06/04/17 09:48 PM |
| 1 | How to respond?Not really. It's pretty bad. She's hot, but it's 100% starfish sex. | /r/askMRP | 06/04/17 09:44 PM |
| 3 | How to respond?If written by another guy, I'd be shocked that he hadn't connected the dots yet and left. You're absolutely right. | /r/askMRP | 06/04/17 09:37 PM |
| 1 | How to respond?All things are possible to he who has the shared AppleID password. Don't need to access the phone to download and recover from her iCloud backups... | /r/askMRP | 06/04/17 08:15 PM |
| 3 | How to respond?Great advice. Her phone does have a password, and my fingerprint has been removed as authorized. I chalked it up to her wanting legitimate privacy in light of my having downloaded her phone the last time (years ago and with her knowledge and consent), but I can see that it's much more than that now. Thanks everyone! I was struggling with the idea that verifying was slimy and distrustful of me. I see that it's not a beta move. I'll download her phone now. | /r/askMRP | 06/04/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How to respond?Ha! Text her with a simple "He Knows!" Doesn't sound like mine, but who the hell knows. | /r/askMRP | 06/04/17 07:55 PM |
| 4 | How to respond?You've personally responded to my other posts and interacted with me enough to know that I'm not trolling. Nope, I'm not fucking with you. | /r/askMRP | 06/04/17 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How to respond?You're right. It was a very pathetic thing to do. Not that I won't do pathetically beta things now (It's almost guaranteed), but I'd like to think I wouldn't do it the same way if I'd found RP before all of that. I kept telling myself that I needed to do everything in my power to make it work... If it was going to end, it wouldn't be my fault. NOT my position now, but it was then, and frankly, I thought it was a pretty alpha move to take her keys and phone, wake her up, hand her a plane ticket, … | /r/askMRP | 06/04/17 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Better than last night ;)This is a good point and one I didn't think much about. But I did spend time initiating throughout the day. I spent time rubbing her back and feet. The previous day was the scheduled sex day (totally different topic... No need to give me shit about it) and we'd talked about a make up that evening when the boys were in bed. And she knew I was approaching her at that moment specifically for sex. She was typing on her phone and said "wait a minute" which I politely did. I'm not sure I'd have carrie… | /r/askMRP | 26/01/17 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Better than last night ;)Added to the post above. You're absolutely right. I was elated about the result and the blood apparently hadn't found its way back to my brain yet. Thanks for pointing it out. | /r/askMRP | 26/01/17 03:11 PM |
| 1 | I'm furious... At myselfI'm one of those guys you called Rambo and told to slow down. Glad I listened and did that, but apparently I took it too far. Just back from literally throwing the wife over my shoulder, carrying her upstairs, throwing her on the bed, and fucking her silly. Damndest thing... She whined and complained the whole way up the stairs and when I started taking her clothes off. I went down on her and she waited about 30 seconds to tell me she wanted to have sex and have an orgasm, like now! I stood up a… | /r/askMRP | 26/01/17 03:38 AM |
| 1 | I'm furious... At myselfI'll have to go back and read up on covert contracts. No, I literally don't see the covert contract. But I'm gonna go carry the wife upstairs and fuck her silly now, so it'll have to wait until tomorrow. | /r/askMRP | 26/01/17 02:07 AM |
| 1 | I'm furious... At myselfThanks u/BluepillProfessor. Help me understand... Where's the covert contract, and how did I get butt hurt? Scheduled sex, certainly. A top ten in how not to do it, absolutely. No argument at all. It's funny... Several of those thoughts telling me not to go down and throw her over my shoulder came from reading your book and some of your comments to previous posts. I didn't want to scale up too fast (the thought was "dimmer switch, not light switch") etc. Total side comment... | /r/askMRP | 26/01/17 12:30 AM |
| 1 | I'm furious... At myselfMy thoughts exactly. Not going to think about it. Just going to do it. | /r/askMRP | 25/01/17 03:35 PM |
| -1 | I'm furious... At myselfScheduled sex came two years ago from MC. I have another post in here where I wanted to cancel scheduled sex. Cooler heads made great suggestions. I've told her that I'll initiate whenever and wherever I want to... But that scheduled sex also remains in addition. No blaming here. It's not her fault at all. I screwed up. I was a pansy. The blame belongs with me. There's no victim puke going on here. It's just a recount of last night's experience for two reasons: 1) so that I can look back at my e… | /r/askMRP | 25/01/17 03:34 PM |
| 1 | What are some things I can do to love myself more and/or appreciate what I have?Oh, and since this started as a post about how to live yourself more, nothing will make you walk taller than having your dick sucked by a woman who can only communicate with you through body language.;) | /r/askTRP | 24/01/17 01:57 AM |
| 2 | What are some things I can do to love myself more and/or appreciate what I have?You're right, you'll never fuck one of them... Not at this rate anyway. Have you tried what I suggested? I'm guessing not. Start trying to speak their language... Literally. Although your local to AU, they aren't. They'll eat up any chance to be with a man who is interested in them, their culture, etc. The language thing I mentioned is good, and then use Google translate to talk to them and ask them about home. Ask them to cook their native food for you. Ask them to teach you how they like to ki… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/17 01:26 AM |
| 2 | What are some things I can do to love myself more and/or appreciate what I have?You're not making sense. You say you can't go to a third world country because of summer school, and also that the girls at summer school don't speak English. Why do the girls in your AU summer school not speak English? But assuming you're going to school every day with a bunch of foreign chicks, I gotta tell you, you are missing out If you aren't spinning multiple foreign plates. If they don't speak English that means you have a total in. Pick the hottest one, figure out what language she speak… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/17 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Her new tactic when I don't fail hershit test, She calls me RRRRIIIICK.If I'm I the middle of cooking food and getting ingredients how am I not inconvenienced (compared to her getting off the couch to grab a pre-wrapped mini York Peppermint Patti), by stopping and walking back into the living room to hand her the requested candy? I'll grant you, it's a minor inconvenience. Before finding MRP I'd have brought her one, noticed that she only had half a bag of them left, and gone to the store that night to buy her another bag (i'm exaggerating... I'd have gotten them t… | /r/askMRP | 23/01/17 04:23 AM |
| 3 | Her new tactic when I don't fail hershit test, She calls me RRRRIIIICK.Jesus tells it like it is. Thanks Jesus. Working on frame. I know I'm improving and the fact that this bugs me at all is frustrating to me. Exactly why I posted to ask about it. | /r/askMRP | 23/01/17 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Her new tactic when I don't fail hershit test, She calls me RRRRIIIICK.I am as a matter of fact. 4500 cal per day. | /r/askMRP | 22/01/17 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Her new tactic when I don't fail hershit test, She calls me RRRRIIIICK.Uh... Name's not Rick, bitch. ;) | /r/askMRP | 22/01/17 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Her new tactic when I don't fail hershit test, She calls me RRRRIIIICK.6'3" | /r/askMRP | 22/01/17 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Her new tactic when I don't fail hershit test, She calls me RRRRIIIICK.Yep, I'm aware. Mma, lifting, climbing, and not being afraid to dirty bulk should help. I really think I need to ultimately be 210. | /r/askMRP | 22/01/17 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Her new tactic when I don't fail hershit test, She calls me RRRRIIIICK.A Shit test I'm apparently failing since she uses it so often. Anyone have a good response? -- Not Rick | /r/askMRP | 22/01/17 04:48 AM |
| 3 | Her new tactic when I don't fail hershit test, She calls me RRRRIIIICK.166 lbs. Dunno on bf, I'm skinny and lifting heavy and eating everything in sight to bulk. EDIT: target weight is 190. | /r/askMRP | 22/01/17 04:43 AM |
| 1 | How do I track her cycle if...Thanks. Easier said than done. She's been on them for over a decade. | /r/askMRP | 22/01/17 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Ending scheduled sexI hope not. I try to make it clear by the way I respond to her denial. I make it a point to smile, say "Ok babe," stop any keno or other affection, and change the subject to engage her on a different unrelated topic (it's been hard to find a topic to move to, so I try to have one in mind before I even start initiating... Just in case). I talk to her for 2-3 minutes just so it's clear that I'm not butt hurt, and then I tell her I'm gonna go get a good workout. I don't wait to see how she reacts, … | /r/askMRP | 19/01/17 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Ending scheduled sexI've been in this same position. In fact, there's a post about it here, similar to yours. If you want to end scheduled sex, end it. But I don't think this is what you really want. Tell me if I'm in the right ball park here: you want MORE sex not less, and you think that if scheduled sex is off, you can successfully initiate more. The idea that she is fucking you out of obligation or a negotiated desire drives you nuts... That's not how it's supposed to work. So it might even decline a little in … | /r/askMRP | 19/01/17 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Heading home to an inquiry (shit test?)Dunno. This is the first time I've tried it. I like the idea of having a stylist to help me at least get my new wardrobe started. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/17 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Heading home to an inquiry (shit test?)Yep. I've made lots of climbing references there. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/17 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Heading home to an inquiry (shit test?)If I hadn't already told my wife to "climb on" during sex, this would be gold. As it is though, it would have earned me a retort like "yah, and what do you tell her after that? You tell her to 'climb on'. And we both know what that means." | /r/askMRP | 13/01/17 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Heading home to an inquiry (shit test?)Got it. Thanks. I do get confused. The question "so how was climbing Trunk Club girl" came with the intonation that says "you're trying to get into her pants." Just as a report, I think I handled it fine.... My response: it was good. Her: was she upset that you weren't climbing ALOONNNE (with that tone that can't be exposed via text)? Me: nope. Her: changed the subject. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/17 02:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I track her cycle if...Uh.... Yeah... My dad... The guy who taught me to be blue pill. | /r/askMRP | 07/01/17 03:08 AM |
| 2 | How do I track her cycle if...The original question is totally legit. Read the fucking sidebar. Knowing where she's at in her cycle makes a lot of sense for a few reasons. Let's start here... I grew up with a mom who would frequently double ovulate (she'd tell us that anyway) and be off the rails bat shit crazy for two to three weeks at a time. I'm talking about a complete melt down about whether the 8 year old put every dish where it belonged when he emptied the dishwasher, resulting in a ransacked kitchen with the box of C… | /r/askMRP | 06/01/17 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I track her cycle if...Uh.... Sidebar. | /r/askMRP | 05/01/17 02:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I track her cycle if...Totally my fuck up for letting her on my account in the first place. I'll fix it. It'll give her hamster something else to spin about. | /r/askMRP | 05/01/17 01:16 PM |
| 2 | How do I track her cycle if...Well then... I guess I have my answer. She doesn't ovulate. | /r/askMRP | 05/01/17 01:11 PM |
| 2 | How do I track her cycle if...I don't even know if it's a hormonal iud. I'll have to ask. | /r/askMRP | 05/01/17 10:58 AM |
| 1 | How do I track her cycle if...Ah. I didn't know if her cycle was weird because of the SSRI or the IUD. | /r/askMRP | 05/01/17 10:45 AM |
| 0 | How do I track her cycle if...Thanks! I might try that. Of course, she'll think it's weird when she sees the app pop up on her phone... I really need to get her off of my iTunes acct. | /r/askMRP | 05/01/17 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Basic question re: fetching tasksThis rings a couple bells for me... 2 days ago we were having sex when her vibrator ran out of batteries. Frustration apparent she said "do you have any batteries?" Clearly a fetch request. She knows exactly where the batteries are and could say "hang on, I'll be right back." I missed it and ran down the stairs with my hard on flopping away to flacidness to get her batteries... Doh. Such a BP move. Tonight I was heading to the gym. Mon, Wed, and Fri. every week. She knows it. Boys are both aware… | /r/askMRP | 05/01/17 08:29 AM |
| 0 | How'd I do? Still fucking it up?Fair and accurate assessment. I didn't really plan to be an ass. I just started by being frustrated at the pestering and aggressive invasion... Felt like I needed to protect my brother, and tried to just STFU. When she responded do aggressively I felt like I shouldn't give in, so I tried sticking with what I was learning. I just fucked it up. What do you suggest? Apologize for being a dip shit? | /r/askMRP | 23/12/16 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How'd I do? Still fucking it up?That's certianly true | /r/askMRP | 23/12/16 12:08 AM |
| 1 | How'd I do? Still fucking it up?Thanks. I don't have a problem apologizing. I've been doing that since before we were married. I guess I'll go completely back to beta, lift, and give her her way on everything except the job hunt until I understand all of MRP. | /r/askMRP | 23/12/16 12:05 AM |
| 1 | How'd I do? Still fucking it up?Thanks for the comment. I'm making my way through your book right now actually. But I'm not sure what being a lawyer has to do with having had the time to get through all the sidebar material yet. To not go Rambo do you suggest remaining BP until all sidebar material is completely read and understood? And then, what do you implement when? | /r/askMRP | 22/12/16 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How'd I do? Still fucking it up?Thanks. I appreciate the comment u/rfl52. A lot of the comments seem to be saying the same thing (arbitrary moving aside): 1) weak frame. I completely agree. I gave up my frame 13 years ago to live with my head up her ass. I've recently started trying to pull out but it's painful for her and I've got 13 years worth of her shit clogging my eyes, nose, and throat. Had my mom's Shit everywhere for the years before the head transplant to my wife's ass hole. I'll keep learning. 2) drew the arbitrary … | /r/askMRP | 22/12/16 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Shit test fucked up? Not handled well?Ha! Yeah, on further reading I could see that the Ambien I took really had an impact and I did a REALLY poor job of writing the post. I'm not so fragile that anonymous guys calling me names or criticizing me will hurt my feelings. I was just able to see that the post was so bad that it won't help anyone learn anything. :). | /r/askMRP | 21/12/16 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Shit test fucked up? Not handled well?I love putting up the ski rack... When I'm going to go skiing. | /r/askMRP | 20/12/16 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Shit test fucked up? Not handled well?Yep, you're absolutely right. thanks | /r/askMRP | 20/12/16 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Shit test fucked up? Not handled well?All of the comments here are accurate. Yep, I victim puked and then came to mrp to complain. Truth is that it all happened during a session with MC. I didn't want to put any of the sit on the table and finally did when MC badgered me enough for not saying anything and being aloof. Once it started I completely lost what very little frame I had and opened the BP flood gates. Now I'm depressed about the fact that I'm losing my job, have a strong sense that wife is cheating (couldn't blame Herr I gu… | /r/askMRP | 20/12/16 02:45 PM |
| 0 | Shit test fucked up? Not handled well?I'm doing a lot of these things, but there are things in here I'll put into motion ASAP. Thank you! | /r/askMRP | 20/12/16 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Shit test fucked up? Not handled well?She thinks it looks "cool." I'm the only one who skis. She does not. Never has. Has repeatedly said she doesn't want to. I've asked her not to put the ski rack up because having a $300 ski rack exposed to the elements all winter long for no reason other than "cool looks" doesn't help anybody. Incidentally, although I talk to her about it every year she says she doesn't remember. She has a steel trap of a memory for everyone's name, their dog's name, what they are planning to do for kwanza in 202… | /r/askMRP | 20/12/16 11:52 AM |
| 0 | Shit test fucked up? Not handled well?What do you suggest? | /r/askMRP | 20/12/16 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Experience with a beta father and domineering motherHell yes, thus is exactly how I was raised. Mom was a bitch. She controlled everyone anti way she could... Yelling, screaming, throwing things, destroying the house and making us clean it up again, criticizing us about every little thing, and somehow convincing us that this is how "unconditional love" works. Bull Shit. Dad was a total beta... He worked to bring home the money for her to spend and I never once saw him put her in her place. Dad never had any laws or boundaries. The most upset I ev… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/16 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Read about Your Brain On Porn. Anyone else here gone through NoPorn and the consequential Flatline?As a married bloke, I want to have options (and I do), but don't want to fuck any of them just yet. Feeling like that would be a real Rambo move. I'd rather the wife meets the plates and gets jealous. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/16 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Any solid wingman in the Montgomery, AL area?If you're ever in MD, hit me up. But not AL.:) | /r/askTRP | 20/12/16 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Read about Your Brain On Porn. Anyone else here gone through NoPorn and the consequential Flatline?I'm trying to do this now as well... No porn, no fap. From experience, will power will be enough for a couple weeks, but then something's gonna happen and make it really hard to stick with. I'm 1 week into it and doing fine for now. What do you guys suggest for overcoming the hard temptation? | /r/askTRP | 20/12/16 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Tell me about the shit tests you've seen in marriage. How'd you respond (correct/incorrect)?Yes. I agree. This was probably the best one I'd read. Just not a lot of examples for married guys... Not that he should have... The article was great. | /r/askMRP | 15/12/16 08:23 AM |
| 0 | Tell me about the shit tests you've seen in marriage. How'd you respond (correct/incorrect)?;-) | /r/askMRP | 14/12/16 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Tell me about the shit tests you've seen in marriage. How'd you respond (correct/incorrect)?It's true, I am a lazy fuck--I'll work on that. But I don't understand. What makes me a lazy fuck in this case? The part where I recognize that I've been a beta all my life and start doing everything I can to improve myself, where I read up on and still don't fully understand something, or where I notice that it's not covered in the sidebar and think it would be cool to put a list of shit tests together that people can learn from? | /r/askMRP | 14/12/16 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Tell me about the shit tests you've seen in marriage. How'd you respond (correct/incorrect)?Wouldn't it be awesome to have a solid repository/thread of shit/comfort tests followed by an answer or possible answers? | /r/askMRP | 14/12/16 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?Thanks! Not getting angry is another beta characteristic for me in a lot of ways. I just let her walk all over me and take it. That's what my dad did with my mom, it's what I thought I saw my grandfather do with my grandmother (although he's far more alpha than I ever realized and was just responding to her with AM), and it's what all women ever have taught me... Real men don't get angry... BS... If you look at my last post though, for once I did get angry and I let her know it... I also got but… | /r/askMRP | 13/12/16 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?She's really got physically attractive going (except for the tits, which are uneven and saggy... all totally fixable ;-)), but not sex, pleasantness, or respect. The other thing she's got is being the mother of my two absolutely amazing sons, who I wouldn't give up for an instant! And making the prospect of dividing my assets to pay alimony a pain in the ass that I'm not to a DNGAF point about yet. | /r/askMRP | 13/12/16 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?Reading as fast as possible. Lifting like my manhood depends on it... 'cause it really does, whether SO or another hot chick rides it, the dick needs to come with more than my skinny-ass rock climber's physique. | /r/askMRP | 13/12/16 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?I'm probably overthinking it, but if I do it on a scheduled sex night, she'll be ready to starfish. She'll say something like "What are you doing? I don't like it. Can we just go have sex?" To which, how do I respond? "Ugh! Me Tarzan... You Jane... Tarzan want eat Jane's pussy till 'OOOooh fuuuck!!!'" | /r/askMRP | 13/12/16 08:53 AM |
| 3 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?Read his 12 levels of dread during my flight just now. Good stuff. I'll take your recommendation. Thanks! | /r/askMRP | 13/12/16 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?Thanks! I'm in on the 60 days of dread. But I'm not waiting till Jan 25 to get started. It started awhile ago and I'll keep moving forward and join the group on 1/25 to keep going. | /r/askMRP | 13/12/16 08:25 AM |
| 3 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?Damn it. Now I'll give it some more thought. In the past, I've told MC that it was so bad that I'd told SO I wasn't interested in sex that way, and left. His response was to tell me I'd missed out because of my own expectations because she'd been there, naked and willing, and I made the decision to walk away. When you put it that way, it sounds like I missed out on something pretty great... your chocolate cake. But when it's happening, it can be like being offered sugar free, egg free, and oil f… | /r/askMRP | 13/12/16 08:20 AM |
| 3 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?You'd be wrong. But I did it the wrong way. When MC asked her how often she had an orgasm, she admitted to having an orgasm every single time we have sex. But here's why... On our honeymoon, I introduced her to the joys of a bullet vibe (yep, waited until wedding for sex... religion). I expected it to be a thing that we occasionally played around with, but it wasn't. Instead, it's the thing that must always be there. And in true beta fashion, it was my job to get her a cum rag every time, and to… | /r/askMRP | 13/12/16 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?Ha! Perfect! She'll assume I'm just kidding... Funny though, she has dream at least once a week where I decide to fuck another woman or leave her and she panics and fights with "the bitch". She tells me about the dreams and I never tell her it wouldn't happen. | /r/askMRP | 12/12/16 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?With you, because you've been beta Zactly. | /r/askMRP | 12/12/16 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?All makes great sense. Thank you! I was worried about what I'd say/do when she tried to draw me in to a long conversation about "why?" | /r/askMRP | 12/12/16 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?Thank you! | /r/askMRP | 12/12/16 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?How do I end the scheduled sex? Thoughts on the best way? | /r/askMRP | 12/12/16 10:49 PM |
| 4 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?This! My thoughts exactly (but better said). I do have IOIs from other women. I was given unsolicited room keys in Vegas, and I've received explicit offers from others. Even my skinny 165 lbs 6'3" ass... I've always stopped them short of sex. Partly because I've been a BP loser, partly cause in a religious guy and think I'd go to hell for it, partly cause... Well, you get the idea... I've just been too big a pansy to actually sick my penis in another pussy. How do I escalate the dread game witho… | /r/askMRP | 12/12/16 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?Right. MC didn't say "no game". He said, "this will take the mystery out of it. Wife won't feel guilty for not having sex and she won't think that everything you do means you want sex. Plus, you'll get it three times a week (yep, after a few months, she wanted to drop to 2x and MC and I agreed that 2x would be fine if she was actually into it... We went to 2x but it's definitely not enthusiastic... But how could it be? She's essentially doing something that "feels good, but doesn't ever need/wan… | /r/askMRP | 12/12/16 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Ending "scheduled" sex. Advice?Real question: Where in the sidebar material is the info on upping dread in marriage? I was reading up on plate theory recently and got stopped at the very end of the posts when he said "if you're married, you CANT spin plates." I was kinda looking forward to donning a bunch of plates until then. Author also says not to overtly tell girls that you're seeing other girls, but not to hide it either. Not sure how to do that to create dread. | /r/askMRP | 12/12/16 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPInteresting. I wasn't even thinking that I might have blown it by not showing MIL that I was the Leader in my house. I thought that was the wife's domain and she'd be frustrated if I stepped in. Saying it now I realize how lame and BP that was. You're absolutely right! Thank you for pointing it out. | /r/askMRP | 04/12/16 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPIt was YOUR post! Thank you! | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 09:45 PM |
| 0 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPI still don't understand. How does being glad I don't have to figure out how to counter MC mean that I'm "so happy to have someone else tell the bad girl that she was being bad?" | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPThanks. | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPMIL is very controlling. No doubt. If wife had ever once said, I can't tell her that, or, I need help, or... anything except for walking out right after I told MIL to sleep in the other room to say "mom, just do whatever you want to do," I'd agree completely. But in 3-4 different conversations over multiple days, she'd asked me and then agreed that it would be best for the kids to sleep in a different room. The reasons for wanting the kids to sleep in the other room? Irrelevant at this point, bu… | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPI don't understand. What about the fact that wife decided to call MC means that I want him to fuck my wife for me? | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPAbsolutely right. I'm a determined guy. I'm not much fun recently. Pook is good stuff. I'll give it another read. Thanks! | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPNo, she didn't see my vision. At this point though, she might get that pleasing MIL was the wrong move. This is likely the first time I've asserted myself when she's fine something like this with MIL, though, so it might need training. | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPShe agreed and has told me several times that she likes it. But it is total starfish sex. Has been since day 1 though. I'll leave it as is and work on myself for now. | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPPaid mine once, 2 years ago. Now he's just always there, whenever we need him. | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPYeah. I did. He's not perfect, but he saved my marriage. Not pushing a BP agenda. I didn't understand him until I found MRP, but he'd tell me things like "she's like handling a goose. Grab her firmly or she'll flap around and hurt you or herself. | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPStill have game with other women, but she shuts that shit down. I'm no fun with her. I'll improve that. | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 03:57 PM |
| 0 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPThanks. I'm not sure where the Ramboing line is at. I'll keep reading and learning. You're right... It was passive aggressive. Somehow I thought that correcting her in front if MIL was "wrong." It would be better the way you suggested. Thank you! | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPI'm giving fucks where fucks aren't needed. I take her too seriously. Thanks! | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPAll very very good points. No history of smothering small children. Just snoring, keeping the kids up and making them cranky zombies the next day. I didn't think I'd gotten butt hurt over any of it, but you're right, I did. Are you saying this wasn't a shit test, to see if I'd stand up to her when she decided she'd rather please her mom than keep her word? If not, what was it? Learning... Lots to learn. Thanks. | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPThanks for this! Really well thought out and helpful. You're absolutely right on all points. I did lead and make the decision (not in my original post), but then became a pussy and went with "we agreed" instead of "you asked and I told you... Your mother sleeps in the guest room." Your response has made it clear that I didn't NGAF like I told myself. I was afraid of her. Damn it! Thank you. "What the fuck? Have you read? Kino, initiate, push/pull. Overt, and especially planned future overt sex d… | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPThanks! Absolutely right. All rock. No oak. | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RP"Why?" "Why not tell her to go tell her mother that it's best if she sleep in the guest room? That's what you both agreed to, and your wife sabotaged it. Now she has to fix it." Right, I could have. Probably a scared pussy. "You are treating your wife as though she has equal say in the decisions of the marriage. She does not want this. She wants you to lead. She wants to follow. When she leads, everybody fucks up. Don't you get this?" I'm starting to get it. She'd come and asked where the boys s… | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPThis. Thanks. | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPCompletely agree on both points. Re #2, it comes frankly from the marriage counselor. Wife decided she "needed advanced warning." MC pointed out that I'd get sex 3x per week if I just gave her advanced warning. That was over a year ago and I can see that it's very BP of me to ask four sex a day in advance, but I decided it would be a nuclear Rambo move to just stop doing that at the beginning of this RP trek of mine. Total pussy move, but I'm keeping that one the way it is for the next little bi… | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RPThanks! I agree. I digressed quite a bit at the end. I guess I didn't want to give the impression that I'm entitled or think my wife should see me as an AF because I've been taking the red pill for a whole month now. Giving fucks where fucks aren't needed. The "pleasant conversation" statement is gold! I'll try it out. I was wondering how to STFU without just giving her the silent treatment. Thanks! | /r/askMRP | 02/12/16 07:17 AM |
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