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| 1 | Is there any book from a womanizer who slept with hundreds of women and how he did it?4 years? Dude your approach must suck. I hope you're following language classes. Besides that constant exposure is key. Watch local tv (with subtitles if possible) and write down words you don't understant. When you're outside don't resort to English because it's easy but force yourself to speak the local language. You'll probably always have an accent but you can get amazingly fluent if you work hard enough. I'm fluent in three languages so I'm a living example. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Is there any book from a womanizer who slept with hundreds of women and how he did it?you know, you could integrate and learn the local language. It's a bit far fetched, I know, but give it a try | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | What are your insights about self-esteem?What an amazing reply. Thank you sir! | /r/seduction | 14/07/18 08:11 AM |
| 4 | Out of curiosity, what is your definition of self confidence?I will quote the late Nathaniel Branden: Self-esteem is the disposition to experience oneself as competent to cope with the basic challenges of life and as worthy of happiness. | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Building confidence although being overweight?True confidence has nothing to do with your looks (although it makes it easier). What confidence issues do you have besides your weight? You're a bit younger than me and have more experience with women than I have, so I think your confidence isn't that bad at all. | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Fear and anxiety is not something to be scared of. It is your mind's indicator of what you should overcome next. It shows you your current limitations and gives you a chance to grow beyond them. That feeling you get before you approach? It's not a bad sign...this is actually a great mindset. Thanks | /r/seduction | 04/07/18 11:42 PM |
| 1 | The IDGAF paradoxI'll circumvent your paradox: DGAF about things that aren't in your direct control. Lifting -> your choise so GAF! Height -> nothing you can do about this, DGAF Rejected by a girl -> you can't force her to like you so DGAF balding -> you can't help this: DGAF Your style -> While you can't prevent balding, you can manage your hairsyle. Don't comb over you few remaining hairs but shave it, get a wig, transplant, whatever etc. etc. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 12:10 AM |
| – | Is game oversold?I disagree. Like I said, pua tricks aren't necesarry. But being good with women is a skill. I'm good looking. I've overheard girls tell each other I'm gorgeous. Yet I completely lack 'game' (ie sexual confidence around women) so I fuck it up every time. Despite my good looks. | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 05:53 PM |
| – | Is game oversold?Sure, some of the 'tricks' can be. I personally see game as confidence with women. You don't need stuff like FTC and peacocking to be good with women (allthough it helps for many!). | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Tired of nightgameAbsolutely. I guess I've reached the age where I'm no longer interested in going to clubs every week. | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Tired of nightgameWow, I appreciate the advice! I'm actually quite bad at direct openers, I guess I'll have to learn a lot. | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Tired of nightgameYeah I've been thinking about the club part too. I started a language class last year but except for 1 girl everyone is over 40 lol | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Tired of nightgameHow so? | /r/seduction | 17/06/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Ways to become more confident in yourself?What I'm saying is lifting is not the best advice for someone that's looking to increase his confidence. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Cannot go to the gym anymore...Wanna eat some? | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Ways to become more confident in yourself?If you cannot lift due to medical reasons (see one of the recent posts) this isn't true. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Cannot go to the gym anymore...Hey man, I know how you feel. I had to give up lifting after 3 years due to an injury. I felt like crap at first, thinking I'd be a pussy forever. Seeing that muscle mass melt every day is depressing. But now I feel fine. Sure I'd prefer being able to lift, but I don't really care anymore. I focus on other areas of my life. Figure out what sports you can do. You might not get ripped but become a great runner or swimmer. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Cannot go to the gym anymore...Yeah dude, just ignore your doctor's advice and life bruh | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Ways to become more confident in yourself?This. It's a shame that most of TRP's advice is pushed away by noobs who jus scream 'LIFT BRUUUUUUH' We all know that fat guy who is awesome and great with women. Or skinny guys that are scaring as fuck when mad. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Ways to become more confident in yourself?I agree, but your advice is too general. Lose and lose again. Sure you'll realise that you're still alive, but your confidence will be shattered because you always fail. A pretty bad outcome. You should learn from your failures and then try again. But never blindly try and try again. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Ways to become more confident in yourself?Lousy advice. Once you stop lifting, you lose all the confidence. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Friends going to destroy themselves through marriageYou could tell him about a prenup, make sure he can prove that his purchases are actually his, etc. But no, don't try to make him change his mind, even if he's close. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Friends going to destroy themselves through marriageUnless it's a really close friend, do not, I repeat, DO NOT do anything. Maybe they'll be happy, maybe they won't. Changing his mind about his love will only make him resent you. Be there for them if the marriage fails, at least if they didn't drop you completely before. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Would you fuck a prostitute? Why (not)?I'm not from the US. It's semi-legal where I live | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Would you fuck a prostitute? Why (not)?Would you visit a hooker to have sex with her | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Would you fuck a prostitute? Why (not)?Yeah, I understan ya. But how do you feel when fucking 'normal' chicks? | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Would you fuck a prostitute? Why (not)?Any more credible source? Sure the risk of getting something per dude she's fucking is smaller because she's doing it safe, but a hooker fucks so many guys though | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Would you fuck a prostitute? Why (not)?Yeah that's what I meant. The catching something part is what's holding me back | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | I have some free time, how can I spend it improving myself?I completely understand what you mean. But I'd do it for the experience, to know what it feels like. No intention of doing this regularly (I don't have the cash for it tbh). And it's been a while since I got laid, lol | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Two weekf off, what can I do in my spare time?Like room says, this would be a one-time endeavor. Fucking hookers is frowned opon, considered 'not normal', so fucking one would be stepping outside my comfort zone as a nice guy. No plans to turn this into a habit. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Two weekf off, what can I do in my spare time?Touché my friend. But to be honest, escorts fuck way more guys than other girls. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | If anyone needs help with the opposite sex reply to this post and I’ll try to get back to everyone helping them.Sure I suck with women ;) | /r/seduction | 01/04/18 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Is the mystery method still useful?please explain. Why? which books? basic psychology or game specific books? | /r/seduction | 01/04/18 12:30 AM |
| 0 | Why so much focus on lifting?good stuff! | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Why so much focus on lifting?Great that you're confident without being huge. I agree that everyone should have high self-esteem regardless of external factors (not that being huge, succesful, handsome, etc. don't help). Where does your confidence come from? | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 02:38 PM |
| – | How did you raise your self-esteem?I don't mean which goals to pursue, but how to write a goal, review it etc. | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How did you raise your self-esteem?You'll actually be over 3700% better thanks to the compouding effect. Amazing if you think about it! Thanks for the tip, I will keep it in mind with the good weather coming up | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 11:16 PM |
| – | How did you raise your self-esteem?You're definitely right about it being a mucle! But it's hard to lift heavy weights with weak muscles :-( | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 11:15 PM |
| – | How did you raise your self-esteem?Any tips in setting goals? | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 11:10 PM |
| 1 | How did you raise your self-esteem?Nathaniel Branden also talks about self-acceptance in the six pillars of self-esteem. I've put the book on my to read list! | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 11:10 PM |
| 3 | How did you raise your self-esteem?Body language definitely helps! | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 11:09 PM |
| – | How did you raise your self-esteem?Conversations aren't really the issue. I mean, I definitely could be a better conversationalist, but I'm doing okay. But when someone (eg a coworker) tries to take advantage of me, or my boss is acting inpolite, I don't have the courage/assertiveness to put them in their place. Reading "when I say no I feel guilty" has helped me, but only in certain situations. | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 11:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with guys enterning your set and how do you keep your state intact after getting rejcted?You paved the way for the guy. She wasn't interested at all, yet you stayed with her and probably creeped her out. He 'saved' her from you. | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Decent at street game, bad at parties( infield examples)Thx! | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Decent at street game, bad at parties( infield examples)Am I blind here? What book? | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Help a 10 year long keyboard jockey get out and learn gameGreat read | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Help a 10 year long keyboard jockey get out and learn gameI feel ya man. Thanks for the inspring words! | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Help a 10 year long keyboard jockey get out and learn gameVery good post, thank you. The immersion sounds like a very good idea. I'll check up on your assertivenes program | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 11:03 PM |
| 1 | How to build confidence/self-esteem so it's not dependent on my success with girls?Read the six pillars of self-esteem, specifically pillars two and four Self-acceptance Self-assertiveness These offer a clue of what you're looking for. But I'm right there with you in your search for confidence | /r/askTRP | 25/02/18 01:33 PM |
| 1 | How betas manage to be bf ?So how do you get one? I'm always friendzoned so looks like I'm even too nice to be betabucks | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with insults from other guys?There's a line between busting each others balls for fun and insulting someone. I think OP is talking about the latter | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 12:34 AM |
| 1 | How can I learn from someone else?Yeah that poses a certain risk, however he's not the guy to gossip about other people (at least not when he's talking to me). | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 12:17 AM |
| 2 | How can I learn from someone else?That's some solid advice man, thanks. Only problem is getting alone with him since we work office hours and he's not the type to do many overtime | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 01:21 AM |
| 2 | What would you do if you were the "beta" in a group of longtime friends?I understand your situation. My experience: it isn't worth trying to change your standing. Like someone else said, your role in the group is fixed and it is very, very hard to change this. Your energy is best spent on your current group and meeting new people. A few weeks ago I went out with my high school group after about 1.5 years. I was a really shy kid in school so I was very happy to have this circle. Mind you, I genuinly remember them as friends, they are good guys. But I was absolelutely… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Can one be a liberal and still be Alpha? Are they mutually exclusive?Being alpha is doing and thinking whatever the fuck you want. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Disabled WomenI had some classes with a girl like this. I was amazed at the stuff she could still do, even send texts | /r/askTRP | 16/12/17 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Where the hell do you guys find good LTR material?A good looking woman who likes to suck dick does not compute with a low n-count | /r/askTRP | 16/12/17 07:37 PM |
| 1 | What is “the Game”It's a PUA book written by Neil Strauss I believe | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 11:54 PM |
| 0 | How to accept myself, with my weakness(es)Accepting yourself is the first step to improvement. See the 6 pillars of self esteem | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 11:48 PM |
| -1 | How do you guys always come up with a witty response?How do you think comedy will help me with this? | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 01:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys always come up with a witty response?Standard bantering just comes with practice. Don't hang around people who put you down maliciously. It's not simply guys having fun, this guy has targetted me for some reason. Any help in cutting him out from my circle of friends? For what it's worth, this is a shit response to a shit insult. It sounds like something out of junior high. Don't even validate it with a response. How would you reply? I love analyzing this, I can never learn enough answers to shit tests (abd that's the problem: I can… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 01:26 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys always come up with a witty response?I agree with both of you. but it's hard to cut someone out when he's part of my main gang, especially when I'm the one who introduced him. I may stop inviting him, but others will still invite him. Besides, there will always be people trying to shit on you, whether it's at work, an amog at a party or who knows. So I need to become better at holding frame. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 01:22 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with cringey girls?Don't want to hurt her feelz I guess | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 10:51 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with cringey girls?Yup gonna go with the ignore route. Thing is I liked talking to her and wouldn't mind hanging out, just nothing sexual | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 10:51 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with cringey girls?She is kinda fat ... | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 10:50 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with cringey girls?Totally not interested in her, why should I fuck her? I'd feel digusting afterwards (or worse, won't even get it up because I'm not attracted) Mid 20s | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Books on self esteemWill check it out! | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Books on self esteemLooks like a great book on assertiveness, thanks! | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Books on self esteemJup I've read it and has more to do with mindfullness | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Books on self esteemThanks for the recommendation, I'll put it on my reading list. However it's not what I'm looking for at this moment. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 08:21 PM |
| 2 | In what countries in the world is being an Indian guy and SMV boost to local women?Go improve yourself my friend | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you take notes while reading a book?Interesting replies. Do any of you make slides in powerpoint to summarize what they read? I always use these made by professors to study for my exams (and read the book where more clearance is needed) | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Are there really any countries in the world where being or looking ethnically Indian is not a hit to your SMV but more of a neutral thing or an SMV boost?G*d damnit you beat me to it! | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 02:06 AM |
| 4 | Any successful and confident people here that I can PM asking for advice with confidence and seduction?:)Why pm? I'd love to hear what these guys have to tell | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Seeing a woman who rejected you with a lesser SMV guySure I get that. But I'm thinking that investing my time in game and simple pua techniques will give me a higher ROI on getting women than regular self improvement. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Seeing a woman who rejected you with a lesser SMV guyI appreciate the advice, I will definitely check out this stuff. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Seeing a woman who rejected you with a lesser SMV guyThis is what I'm realizing. So what's the use of SMV then if it's better to be a low SMV guy with tight game than a good-high SMV guy with lousy game like me. Should I abandon my goal of self improvement and just go out every day to learn game? | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 03:31 AM |
| – | [Method] I have trying out this NLP method called the 'greatest hits' to raise self-esteem and confidence for the past 23 days , and it fucking works. This is how you do it.Sounds intresting, where's the scientific research on this? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/17 02:19 PM |
| 1 | How to become financially independent? - to all the (future) RP selfmade menI hear ya man. I'm from Belgium where taxes are even higher. Saving as much as possible is the only thing I can do while waiting for some interesting investment opportunities | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How to become financially independent? - to all the (future) RP selfmade menI hear ya man. I'm from Belgium where taxes are even higher. Saving as much as possible is the only thing I can do while waiting for some interesting investment opportunities | /r/askTRP | 10/06/17 01:13 AM |
| 3 | How to Liberate Yourself From Low Self-EsteemWhat a coincidence, Im also reading this book! However, while I find his analysis of self esteem extremely good, he doesn't offer very much too raise imo. 90% of his treatments consists of writing sentenced, it's not very helpfull for me. Or am I doing something wrong here? | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 01:26 AM |
| – | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread May 29Trp doesn't care about money? He's a power hungry narcissist. I don't understand TRP's fascination with him at all, he has the complete opposite of IDGAF | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/17 10:02 PM |
| 3 | As you evolve into RP, does it sometimes seem like there's a secret society of sex?LOL ! Amazing episode & it really fits the question lol | /r/askTRP | 25/05/17 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Didn't think that I'd take rejection this badWhy is indirect the worst? | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Didn't think that I'd take rejection this badWill try to work on being more outcome independent! | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Didn't think that I'd take rejection this badJust to be clear: I opened the first set of girls expecting to be rejected. I know that opener sucked. It's the last girl that was impolite. I don't think I have a desperate vibe (Ive been alone for quite some time now so a few months more don't matter. I was also dancing and having fun. But I'll definitely keep your advice in mind! | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Didn't think that I'd take rejection this badCould you elaborate on the difference between asking if a beard fits me or the more general question "de you like beards?" | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Didn't think that I'd take rejection this badWise words, I'll remember them! | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Didn't think that I'd take rejection this badYeah this pretty much. I think now that it's not the rejection itself that sucks, but they way that she rejected me. | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 12:00 PM |
| 1 | What sports to do with a weak back?Thanks for the advice man, I appreciate it! | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 10:17 PM |
| 1 | What sports to do with a weak back?I still have my gym subscription for about a month, so I'll test it this week or the next one. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | What sports to do with a weak back?Thanks for the help. Right now my only focus is getting rid of the pain so I'll definitely do what you say! I've done some research and cycling seems to be good too, can you confirm this? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 09:57 PM |
| 1 | What sports to do with a weak back?I can still run, but wouldn't that be bad because of the constant shocks? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 08:01 PM |
| 2 | What sports to do with a weak back?Oh I'll swim, anything to get rid of the pain. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I feel as if I'm social and funny in some situations, but at other times (when the girl is attractive) I get socially awkward or say dumb things. How do I change that?I laughed! | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Injuries At The Gym: How To Push Through Adversity.I injured my rotator cuffs 2 years ago and it still hasn't healed - it prevents me from lifting. Seen a doctor, I've done physio etc. Any tips? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/16 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Sales helpInvestemt advisor. So officially I won't be 'selling' but 'advising' people. Obviously my bank has internal sales targets that need to be met. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/16 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Sales helpCan't believe I never heard of this guy before | /r/askTRP | 21/08/16 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Is revenge worth it?If you could do something that would only hurt her, I'd say maybeeeeee. But this will fuck up an entire family. Don't do it man, totally not worth it. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/16 11:43 PM |
| 1 | The Subtle Art of Not Giving a FuckSomeone on TRP (I forgot who, sorry) said it in a way that clicked for me: Don't give a fuck about things you can't control. Example about your looks: DGAF about being short or balding (as far as I know male pattern baldness can't be helped by eating healthier or sleeping more, but maybe a professional can explain this better). Do give a fuck about being overweight or really skinny. Yes you might have bad genes that causes you gain weight really easily (or vice versa), but it is in your control … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/16 12:51 AM |
| 1 | [Video] Nigel Farage in EU Parliament TodayI'm talking about some of the replies here | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 09:29 PM |
| -1 | [Video] Nigel Farage in EU Parliament TodaySeriously, I LOVE TRP but these absurd political views are making me question some of you guys... | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Do you know guys who are REALLY good with women? What makes them so good?Good stuff man, your blog just got a new follower! Any more tips? | /r/seduction | 07/06/16 03:41 PM |
| 8 | Do you know guys who are REALLY good with women? What makes them so good?I agree with you that having no shame is a big plus! Still have to work hard on this one | /r/seduction | 07/06/16 11:54 AM |
| 1 | How to spend less time online?Will definitely tyy that! | /r/askTRP | 05/06/16 07:17 PM |
| 53 | How my ex changed after break-upWhy are your friends hanging out with your ex? They probably want to get in her pants -> they're not real friends | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/16 01:07 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Went to a festival and completely failed. I am recently unpluggedWOW great advice, I'm gonna use this ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/16 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it's possible to be an alpha male who shuns political correctness but also a liberal who supports someone like Bernie Sanders?I don't consider myself to be RP yet, so I'm in no position to give others advice. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/16 02:32 PM |
| 9 | Do you think it's possible to be an alpha male who shuns political correctness but also a liberal who supports someone like Bernie Sanders?Good that you think that way. And I'm not necessarily disagreeing with you, I just wish we could have more open minded discussions about politics on TRP | /r/askTRP | 23/05/16 01:23 AM |
| 12 | Do you think it's possible to be an alpha male who shuns political correctness but also a liberal who supports someone like Bernie Sanders?TRP fascinates me with how much of its content is spot on and how people are willing to discuss anything, not caring about political correctness. yet when it comes to politics, there is little debate in the RP community. Trump is the only choice. I can understand how the RP finds Trump fascinating with his amazing frame skills, but you can be alpha/red/whatever even if you have another political opinion. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/16 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Help, I'm 17 years old and I have trouble getting it up before sex.four possible reasons: You watch too much porn and/or jack off too much Physical/health: eath healthier (loose weight if you're overweight) and stop smoking and drinking alcohol Anxiety related the girl is fugly Do you get boners when waking up and random boners throughout the day? If so then it probably won't be physical. Taking Viagra MIGHT help if anxiety is the reason, but be very careful. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/16 01:08 PM |
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