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Take pride in where you are. It isn't something to be ashamed of. You're a work in progress just like everyone here. Don't beat yourself up about it, just keep working. You're overthinking the approach thing. Just do it, it's really that simple. If you're too scared to approach, you don't deserve to have her. Men are the risk takers. We're the hunters. Go out there and pursue what you want. Even if you fail, you'll be relieved that you even attempted it in the first place. Anything is better tha…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 03:55 PM
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Someone here once described swallowing TRP like a second puberty. Pretty accurate if you ask me. As for relationships, you've got to be able to stand on your own before you can support someone else. Surprisingly few people are able to do that.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 09:03 PM
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If I had a girl seriously make me take a sip of a drink that I got for her, I'd down it and then leave. The implication is that she isn't comfortable with you, or that she's paranoid as fuck. Either are bad enough for me to dip out. edit: Glad to see we're all in agreement here.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 07:20 PM
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It's funny how accurate this thread is. Men are the romantics. She doesn't think about me at all. She's more concerned with what feels good right now. I stopped feeling good, so I got replaced. And I wouldn't want it to be any different. Women can only see what's happening in front of them. It's pretty fascinating to me, how they can be so childlike and shortsighted. While it can feel awful to be on the bad side of a woman's nature, it can also be wonderful. When I'm with a good woman, she allow…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 04:01 PM
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No, it is laughable. What else should she do, though? I wouldn't exactly be happy to know that I'm number 19 in line for her mouth. But see, we're talking strategy here. She has a high count, it's a disadvantage. We don't go broadcasting our disadvantages, we want to minimize them. If lying is the optimal strategy, it's what she should do.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 11:46 PM
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Lie about your count if asked. Play the born again virgin game, honestly. Just be prepared for the type of men you want to recognize the lie from a mile away. More importantly, make yourself someone who is worth being with even despite your history. You may not land the sort of man you want this way, but you can get some top tier BB this way.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 07:11 PM
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Nah, just teach her to play heads up.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 10:36 PM
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This is damn good advice. One of the first "dates" I'll take a girl on is teaching her to play poker. It's something I love and something I'm pretty damn good at. They absolutely eat that shit up. They love the risk taking. They love the mind games, once they pick up on them. The other one I really enjoy is to take them kayaking. Easy to teach, requires teamwork (so I can determine how they work in a captain/first mate dynamic), and girls love the water. It's all about doing what you enjoy doing…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 03:47 PM
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Feminism amuses me because it is a shit test of societal proportions. It's so funny to see how women are all about "not needing no man" and waving it in our faces proudly until collectively men do something about it. Women want to shit test on a societal level, fine. We'll dread game on a societal level. The difference? Men genuinely do not need women in the same way that women need men. This backlash against sex bots only goes to show that.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 08:02 PM
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You have to consider the fact that most guys out here actually feel lucky to even have a girl around. So in that case, they don't even consider that the girl has literally just said that she's done with having her fun. They just care that a girl is giving them the time of day.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 01:32 AM
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A woman who doesn't give oral sex is not a woman at all Oh no, she's definitely a woman. She's just a woman who's holding all of the cards in the relationship. A woman's primary function is as a parasite, never forget it. They'll all do the least that they have to in order to get what they want.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 11:22 AM
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I love the whole "they foooorced me to do it!" excuse. Yeah, I'm sure each of those guys held her down, put a knife to her throat, and forced her. I bet she was in tears during the whole experience, you know, since she was raped and all. And people wonder why I don't fuck with girls who claim they've been "raped" before. You can't fucking tell if they're being serious or not, and they're broken as fuck regardless of whether it's true or not. Cry wolf enough times, this is what happens.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 11:18 AM
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It's a weird feeling to be assertive and dominant after spending so long being a beta fuck. You say you feel bad about it. Why? Assertive and dominant men are what the world wants. Mother nature demands it. Society wants to be taken by the hand and led by the strong. Consumers want to be sold shit by innovative businessmen who push the boundaries. Women want to be fucked by a dominant man. The world wants you to hold it down and fuck it roughly. Are you man enough to do it?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 04:08 PM
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I see we dated the same girl.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 02:29 PM
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Everyone here is entitled to be pissed, you're right, but it's a horrible way to spend your energy. I'm not blind with anger, but I've seen what the typical woman is and I'm left with disgust. It's an aversion, not a hate. I think that's as close to acceptance as I can hope for. Where the poster that you're correcting went wrong is by assuming that we have to accept them and play the game. It's not true. I've dropped out of "the game" and I'm better off for it. I also paradoxically have more wom…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 09:02 PM
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Women have left a sour taste in my mouth, so it makes sense to be "sour af." I accept their nature, but it doesn't mean that I have to like it or excuse it. Fuck playing the game. The only time I want a woman around is when my dick is hard.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 08:54 PM
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I don't understand how anyone leaves the anger phase. I've been trying to make peace with womens' nature for quite some time now. My best rationalization is the stoic philosophy of "if it's natural, it can't be bad" (paraphrasing here, but you get the idea). Without getting into the fact that this argument is a logical fallacy (appeal to nature), then what? A woman's behavior is natural, as is a parasite's nature. As is a predator's nature. Being natural doesn't make their nature any less cruel,…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 02:21 PM
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I've actually become repulsed by them. Sluts are fucking disgusting. I can't wait to become old as fuck and lose my sex drive.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 02:09 PM
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This means that these women are disproportionately affected by a system designed for men Funny, I thought prison was designed for criminals. Oh, wait..
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 04:03 AM
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I've just come to accept that women have a life cycle. You meet them, everything is new and fun for a while, you settle into a routine that has its charms, and then from there everything goes to shit. Some last longer than others. No need to get caught up over one girl, though. I've come to realize that what I like in a girl is very basic and therefore easily replaceable. None of them are special. None of them are very different from one another, either. You can mold pretty much any girl into be…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 11:48 AM
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You have to do some funny things to break through the plateaus. Once I ate grilled chicken and celery for a week straight to get through it, another time I completely wrecked my diet and accomplished it.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 06:42 PM
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Good post, but I've got to disagree with something. Allow yourself a cheat day once per week (if you deserve it!) For a long time, I'd been trying to lose weight. And I rewarded myself in a similar way. Once per week I'd have a cheat day. Rewarding myself with food is, quite frankly, what got me into this mess to begin with. It's an unhealthy mentality. Cheat days will happen frequently enough on their own. Don't plan them and especially don't look forward to them. They should be negative things…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 07:36 PM
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Good analysis. So essentially forgiveness is a way to discharge negative emotions and it doesn't play a part in whether or not you choose to enforce your boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 04:36 PM
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No, you are not experiencing anything by doing cardio So you're saying it's all in my mind? Even then, that's good enough for me. I've experienced a huge boost in many of those things that you've listed - confidence, posture for sure, and concentration, and endurance. If that's all in my mind, I'm still better off for it.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 02:31 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean by "I don't do any of it." Sure, I don't lift. Was I advocating for lifting? No, just exercise in general, which is definitely something I do, alongside keeping a tight diet and mediating each day. I'm not sure what made you feel the need to try to keep me honest, but I find that to be the real funny thing here. Is there anything wrong with my post, or did you feel that since I pointed out my flaws that I was a bad voice for the advice to be coming from?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 02:22 PM
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I will be starting it soon, but for now the most important thing is to just get weight off of my body. It's also important that this is sustainable, and I've got a routine that I've been very successful with. I'll change it when it's time. I appreciate the advice.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 01:55 PM
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Oh, no, they aren't suffering. That's not what I meant. It's hard to word this the right way, but really the best I can do is this. Look at a woman's life and all of its aspects. As a man, I could never want any part of that. I'm wired to be a man, as are you. While comparatively, they may have it easier, I could never accept that easier path. It viscerally disgusts me, because I am wired to be a man. Just know that as a man, while you may carry a heavier load than a woman, you were also designe…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 01:37 PM
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The most blue pill thing you can do is to destroy your body with shitty eating habits and letting your body (and therefore your mind) become lazy by never exercising. Admittedly, I don't lift (yet) because I'm working on dropping a significant amount of weight, but I think that I'm experiencing similar mental benefits that you guys who lift experience through the cardio that I'm doing. Exercise is just so damn good for the mind. Completely disregarding the physical benefits, it's something that …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 01:32 PM
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Haha, they do have it good. Being a man is a lot better, though. No matter how fucked up society becomes and no matter how many benefits women receive, it doesn't change the fact that women are born with their value. Imagine a life where you have things handed to you because you have a vagina. Because people want to fuck you (and not in the way that you, as a man, want to be fucked). A life where the men you're attracted to just want to fuck you and get rid of you, and the ones that repulse you …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 01:17 PM
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They are, by the men who have standards at all. You must not underestimate the power of male thirst. A lot of men out here are so helpless that they will settle for anything that comes along. They aren't out here seeking girls that they'd truly want to have relationships with or have sex with. They're underselling themselves (or maybe not, since the average guy is borderline retarded and has no real interests or skills) and thus they accept the first thing with a vagina that comes around.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 01:06 PM
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The cycle as I understand it is something like this. Ride the CC until hitting the wall > realize she can't lock down an alpha > settle for the best option that will accept her (only betas as this point) > pop out kids, become unhaaaaappy, divorce beta for cash and prizes > a second ride on the CC or become a cat lady.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 12:57 PM
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Jesus Christ. What I find funny about this situation is that the beta probably thinks he has strong boundaries and self respect, he's just making this exception because he loves her so much. I've been there. Maybe not this deep, but I've been there. I think this brings up an interesting topic to discuss - forgiveness. Obviously nobody should let a girl get away with the actions described in the OP. But where is the line? I think that TRP is a pretty extreme model because that is what is necessar…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 12:53 PM
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Certainly not. There will always be a beta willing to "man up" and look past her "flaws."
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 12:34 PM
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You would be surprised at the amount of attention even landwhales get.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 12:32 PM
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Fair enough. In this case, yes, be yourself. Just make sure it's your best self.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 10:06 PM
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Being yourself means doing as you like Consider this. Do you want to be yourself, as you are right now, forever? I'll give you my answer, and that's "hell no." Blue pill me would've continued down the path and never questioned it. "Oh, she was just a bitch. I'm perfect just how I am and one day the perfect girl will notice!" That's what "just be yourself" boils down to. It's a "don't worry, the details will sort themselves out and the outcome will take care of itself" strategy, which is not a st…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 09:30 PM
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Any guy who gets hung up on the fact that you like to fuck a lot is probably not going to be a good long-term match for you. Show of hands, how many of you don't want a woman who wants to fuck you a lot? I think we're all in agreement here that the problem is the amount of partners, not the enjoyment of sex.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 08:24 PM
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The "just be yourself" advice that women parrot all the time is actually good advice in their mind. You have to keep in mind, though, that this is a woman's advice. For a woman, it is enough to show up with a vagina and "be herself." Men must create themselves. If you want to "be yourself," be prepared to reap the consequences that come along with it. It's completely shit advice for a man. You are not good enough as you are. You can always be more, better, faster, stronger. That's what men do. W…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 08:19 PM
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I can't explain it, but women seem to love cruelty. Now don't get me wrong, it's a tactic that should be used sparingly (not because cruelty is wrong, but because your thunder bolts will lose their edge if you throw them too often), but in my experience, nothing drives them as wild as a good bit of cruelty as described in this post. Note how 8 months later that bitch was still calling you and crying. My best explanation is that a healthy dose of cruelty signals high value. "He's so mean, he does…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 02:50 PM
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Get your confidence up motherfucker. You didn't pull her with this jealous bitch mentality and you certainly won't keep her around with it.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 09:29 PM
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I've been reading the Tao Te Ching lately, which is a book that has many lessons and revelations, but especially an emphasis on eliminating desires. Despite this, the book also states that "the way" (of the Tao) is empty, and therefore it is not enough to simply follow it. We're human, we have desires and needs. It's our responsibility to regulate ourselves and to always keep things in perspective. Desiring not to be hungry anymore does not satiate your hunger, and it should be common sense to u…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 03:04 PM
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I read Meditations early on when I found TRP and you're right, it'll pull you out of the anger phase pretty quickly. It just puts so many things into perspective and makes you realize that insignificant things do not deserve the energy that you've been giving them.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:59 PM
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The whole "YOU SHOULD TRUUUUUUUUUST ME!" thing is absolutely ridiculous, and is a power play. Imagine if you wanted to purchase stock from a start-up company and if you asked to see the stockholder reports, they responded with "you should trust us!" I hope that one day in the future people (men, mostly, since women already know, at least subconsciously) understand that marriage is a financial contract rather than the next step in a relationship. Marriage involves many risks that a man must take …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 11:56 AM
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Damn, good analysis of "playing hard to get."
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 11:18 PM
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They wonder why we won't commit because they assume that us committing happens as easily and with the same consequences as when they fuck around and ride the carousel (in other words, with no consequences. Thanks feminism and birth control). What they don't realize is that men have everything to lose when entering into a committed relationship. Tell me what a girl stakes in a committed relationship. She can't fuck other guys? If she wanted to, she has that option. If she's decent looking at all,…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:50 PM
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But what can you do? Go against your natural instincts to provide or otherwise give a fuck about them. Enjoying the decline is the only realistic option left.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:41 PM
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The great thing about TRP is that it teaches us that while some of our problems aren't our fault (blue pill conditioning can be blamed for our issues with women and relationships, for example), it is still our responsibility to fix our problems. They don't get fixed by assigning blame, they get fixed by getting out there and doing the damn thing, like you said.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:25 PM
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but most the time he was a horny guy begged not to use a condom and told she was on the pill when she wasn't. This hits a little too close to home for me in a past life. Wrap it the fuck up, guys.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:16 PM
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Yep, that was me. Afraid of being alone. She wasn't good company, just your typical basic bitch that watches netflix and is always on her phone. Is it bad if Netflix is a red flag for me now?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:10 PM
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I thought I'd seen it all. God fucking damn.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 07:33 PM
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Dude, my past is fucking shameful. I was always all about "communication" and "supporting" and shit. What I sorely misunderstood was that everything I needed to understand was already being communicated through her actions (or lack thereof). If your girl isn't fucking you, she's fucking someone else. Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 07:10 PM
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I'd say it becomes easier to understand when you factor in the fact that ideals such as honor and loyalty aren't exactly instilled into women, but then I'd be lying. It isn't any easier to understand and there's no point to try to understand something so twisted. The best we can do is accept their nature and choose how we respond.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 07:03 PM
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based on how absolutely perfect my fiancé is for me, and I for him I can't help but to wonder if his opinion of this is different, or would be if he knew that she was meeting up with her old friend Chad.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 06:53 PM
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The craziest thing? Easy access to sex is, to me, the biggest benefit of having a committed relationship. Not anymore, though. I can open up tinder and have a different girl to fuck every night this week. Compare that to my last relationshit where I'd be "lucky" to get laid once or twice a month because she wasn't feeling it. You aren't feeling giving me the main benefit of the relationship? That's cool, I don't feel like giving you my resources. Good fucking riddance. Relationships aren't worth…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 02:33 PM
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gets raped marries the rapist Yeah get the fuck out of here. This is what we're dealing with today, gentlemen.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 02:27 PM
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It's weird when you realize how real the women are wonderful effect is. I had the same train of thought as OP about an ex. My rational conclusion? The pussy was damn good and I was seeing things in her character that weren't actually there, if only to distract myself from the fact that she only had one good trait about herself.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 02:16 PM
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And really, why would we want to own them in this day and age? Committing to the common women today is similar to buying a crack house in a bad neighborhood (to keep the housing analogy going). Even when you find a "good one" it wouldn't take you long to realize that despite its pleasant outward appearance, the roof is leaky, there are holes in the walls, and someone had been killed in it before you moved in. Renting is the way to go. Enjoy that nice condo for the weekend and then get out.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 02:08 PM
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If she makes you wait, she isn't attracted to you in the way that you want her to be.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 07:17 PM
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Can confirm, you're a fuckboy. Should you be ashamed of it? Nah. It's just the latest word used to shame men into manning up and committing to these retarded sluts.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 09:00 PM
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Fuck your morals. They're for you, and mine are for me. We're talking strategy here, which is amoral and uncaring towards your opinions on "stealing another man's money" or the like.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:35 PM
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I really do believe that The 48 Laws will be looked back on in the same way that masterpieces like The Art of War and The Prince are looked at today. Brilliant, brilliant book. Changed my whole perspective.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:31 PM
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I've read how 70% of divorces are initiated by women for reasons they seldom understand; such as they're bored If this isn't enough to convince you that marriage is a fucking horrid idea, nothing will. Also, how the fuck are people bored? There's unlimited shit to do in life. You can't pack it all into the few years that you have on this earth. People who are bored in life are unintelligent and ungrateful for the time that they have on this earth. To answer your question, a modern day philosophe…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:57 PM
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Only thing I've never really liked about calling TRP "sexual strategy" is that it goes much deeper than that. TRP is a strategy for life. I'm much more successful than I've ever been in all aspects of my life thanks to TRP - sexual, financial, mental, physical, everything. Sexual strategy is just a small part of the equation, but it's one that is directly enhanced by all of the other aspects. Running improves not only my physical success, but my sexual success. Becoming more intelligent, learnin…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 04:38 PM
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Your last point under lessons learned is something that I've been interested in for a while because I spend so much time listening to music. I've always disliked country music, but until I found TRP I could never understand why. Way too many betas doing their thing in country music. When I first came across TRP and my relationship was ending at the time, I came across Hatebreed's album, The Divinity of Purpose. To this day it's still in my rotation. Give it a shot, even if you aren't too keen on…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 02:46 PM
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aaaaaaaand touchdown. Holy shit, that's a terrifying situation though.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 11:43 PM
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Hasn't been as physical as I'd like since I'm recovering from an injury, but it's definitely been productive in other aspects. Hope it's been good for you too, bud.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 10:40 PM
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If I've learned anything during my few years on this earth, it's that escaping problems does not equal solving them. Yeah, some guys will be happy fucking their sex bot. Hell, I'm sure in the short term it's a great solution to the problems that face incels. I thought video games and porn were a great solution, too. And then you realize that you're just a lonely animal that doesn't even know how to follow his base instincts in order to get what he wants. I'll be damned if I settle for fucking a …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 05:48 PM
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Why in the fuck would ever want to "recover" this
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 01:53 AM
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Yup, this clip always gets me pumped the fuck up. Time to get off the fucking Internet and put some work in.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 09:54 PM
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Damn this shit makes me sad. It's not even the women part of the equation, it's the whole fucking thing. Convenience has changed our way of life forever, and I'm not sure if it's a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 03:37 PM
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And now I'm an incel again, this time by choice.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 08:08 PM
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This is my exact reason I give when people ask why I don't play them anymore.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 10:03 PM
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Day game is where you find the quality, for sure. Night game seems like an extravagant waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 10:02 PM
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With regard to number 4, I realized I liked "exploring" games because I had a desire to explore that wasn't being met. Once I started getting out in the real world and exploring, the desire to game receded. Turns out I enjoyed League of Legends so much because I was missing out on group activities that involved competition. It's almost as if games were made in order to give us an outlet to realize our unmet desires.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 07:10 PM
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When you're spending so much time in a fantasy world, there's only one logical conclusion - you aren't pleased with the real world that surrounds you. I'm not sure why video games have such a following on TRP (any time I've mentioned them in a negative way, I get downvoted as well), but I also feel that video games have no place in a red pill lifestyle. Escapism doesn't solve anything, getting out there and sculpting your world to be what you want it to be does.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 07:08 PM
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I'm going to finish up a paper I'm working on today, then I'm going to bike for an hour or two, read a chapter of the book I'm currently reading, make dinner, and get to bed early. ...Because tomorrow I'm heading out on a road trip with some old friends (lost contact with them when I started being a reclusive faggot and playing video games all the fucking time) and we're heading to the coast for a kayaking trip on the bay. This is some shit I'd never dream of doing back in the old days. Honestly…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 03:38 PM
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You don't. However, if he comes to you looking for advice, drop some knowledge on him. Trying to save someone who doesn't want to be saved will only tarnish you.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 12:32 AM
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A gross consequence of not obeying law 4 - always say less than necessary. I find that disregarding this law has the most potential to royally fuck you. Let this be an example; even the most harmless chatter can be your downfall.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 12:30 AM
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Can someone explain to me why the fuck you paid $2,800 per month? Child support should mean that you're supporting the child. There's no fucking way that a child needs that much to survive. You just know that money is being spent on shit that the woman doesn't actually need.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 01:01 PM
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I know exactly how you feel. You can never go wrong doing your own thing. If people come along for the ride, cool. If not, who cares?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:12 AM
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Don't give me gold, give me an update in a year from now when you've lifted like an animal, read all the recommended books here, got good at your badass hobbies that you enjoy, and have plated your ex girlfriend for being a silly hoe. You're gonna make it, dude. All you can do is laugh at how ridiculous this shit is. It's a fucked up world but we can make the best of it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:57 PM
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Haha my man, you're going to look back at this post and laugh at how foolish you were. The only way from here is up!
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:50 PM
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She'll fuck chad either way. I mean, she already has... Look dude. This shit fucking sucks. I hate that you're going through it and I've been through it with you. You have a huge heart. I can tell because even after all this shit, all you can talk about is how you still love her. But don't waste that heart on someone who doesn't want it and doesn't deserve it. You're better than that and you will end up in a better place with a better girl if that's what you want and you works towards it. The be…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:44 PM
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I'm proud of you. Not because you want to be an "asshole" that gets laid, but because you see what you want and you're willing to work to get it. That's what separates the men from the boys. Everyone here has given you solid broad advice, so I'll give you a few of my own specifics. 1) Structure your day. Have a plan for your day and do your best to not deviate from it. This way, you don't waste your time (your most valuable resource). Fill your day up with productive things that will make you a …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 02:25 PM
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This is some Gone Girl level shit right here. And then you realize... AWALT. They're all capable of this and do act like this at times. Maybe the outcome is less severe and she doesn't encourage you to kill yourself, but a woman will, without question, eventually take advantage of you to further her own goals. Just how they work. Guard yourselves.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 01:57 PM
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Give monk mode a try, it's helped me a ton. Pick up a new book, learn to cook some new dishes, try all sorts of fun things. One of my personal favorites is going on a solo camping trip. Just me, a tent, a fire, supplies for a few days, and a book.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 01:49 PM
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I have bipolar and this illness does sometimes rob me of my logic. Can we just be honest with ourselves? It's more like I have a vagina and this ailment means I am mostly incapable of logic.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 01:33 PM
1

You're exactly right. I'm somewhere towards the back end of the anger phase (I think... I hope) and some days I'll be able to laugh it off as women being women. Some days I'm not so lucky and I spend far too much time being bitter over the truth. What upsets me most is the lie that we're told of "love." You know, the Disney brand of love. The unconditional, always-caring love. Coming to terms with the fact that humans are just another animal acting on their instincts, no matter how advanced, is …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 11:32 PM
1

Thanks for linking that, I'd been looking for a term to use to describe this phenomenon.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 11:24 PM
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Nobody that I know of is shaming women for having a period. I'd definitely and gladly shame this nasty cunt for bleeding everywhere, though. Shit's unsanitary, not to mention very inconsiderate to others. If this woman can run around leaking blood from her genitals, I demand to be able to run around and piss on everything to mark my territory. It's natural, don't shame me for it.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 06:20 PM
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Good points. You have a certain amount of fucks you can give out and since, like you said, society isn't going to hold a woman's feet to the fire, we shouldn't be giving out fucks to things that won't be changing.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 03:41 AM
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tl;dr: yeah it's like that. I don't think it's a coping mechanism as much as it is "I can't control it, so I choose to give less fucks" but you hit the nail on the head with saying that it's RP's version of a pussy pass (not to mention the fact that arguing that something is good or acceptable because it is natural is a fallacy). "She's just a girl, bro, of course she did some dumb shit lmao AWALT what did you expect?" is all too common and I expect it's because many men here take this red pill …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 12:53 AM
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There is a noticeable trend here where a lot of you excuse women because "don't blame the fish for being a fish" I noticed the same thing and posted a comment similar to this earlier. I've been thinking about this throughout the day and I think that so many men here take the "it's in her nature, nothing to get upset about" route because it is less mentally taxing than to be consumed and emotional about the way that women are in 2015. They're right, that's the nature of women and no matter how we…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 11:44 PM
2

Opt out as in going full MGTOW. I don't mean bugging out and leaving modern society, haha. You're right, though. Love it or hate it, women do what they do. At least they're predictable (AWALT).
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 10:26 PM
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My only problem with this is that a fire, a lightning strike, a flood, and a blizzard are just results of nature acting on inanimate objects or the elements. While hypergamy and the AF/BB sexual strategy are natural, women are concious beings. The woman in the story in the OP made a conscious decision to cuck this guy. It's self serving, not random like nature. That being said, being self serving is indeed the nature of a woman, so in a way, you're correct. A fire is not evil because it burns me…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 09:24 PM
2

Elaborate on this, I'm interested in your thoughts on religion and its relation to hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 08:22 PM
2

When you look at it that way, we are all just tools being used by Mother Nature for her own purposes.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 04:53 PM
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God damn though. I just don't understand how anyone makes it out of the anger phase. I think I'm through it and, never failing, I'm shown another example of how shitty women can be. Yeah, it's natural. I get it. It makes me sick, though. I don't understand how guys here can just laugh it off as "it's in their nature" and just accept it for what it is. This is the sort of shit that I can't stand for. Perhaps I just need time to let the anger phase die down, but it won't be any time soon. In fact,…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 04:44 PM
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TRP says that it's just in a woman's nature to do this, but I'm sick of excusing shitty behavior under the "it's natural, that's what they do bro" shit that gets passed around here. Yeah, it's natural. And it's also fucking evil. We all have natural urges that we suppress to live in a peaceful society. Maybe it's natural, but I'm done excusing it. It's fucked up and horrible.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 12:48 PM
3

It makes sense. I'm much happier with plates than I am with an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 03:17 AM
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100%. I believe that everyone here (at least at one point) would've loved to have met the right girl, settled down, and lived happily ever after. Many still probably feel this way. So why do we want to fuck hoes if what we really want is a good girl? Plain and simple, good girls don't exist. If they do exist, they exist in such a small quantity that we may as well say that they don't exist. Not to mention the fact that, assuming you find a unicorn, she could turn on you at any moment due to livi…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 12:27 AM
3

You may not realize it, but this is one of the best things that could've happened to you. Knowledge comes along with a heaping dose of pain. While it hurts to know what you know about her, be grateful that you know and are free to choose to rid yourself of someone who would stab you in the back like that. This is the beginning of the rest of your life. Read the sidebar, read the recommended books (search this sub for essential books), exercise, diet, and find things that genuinely make you happy…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 08:12 PM
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You're right. And actually, I'm glad that I got myself into that scenario. My frame may have been broken, but only because it wasn't solid in the first place. I welcome the breaking of my frame. While it's painful and it takes time to build back up, I'd rather have a faulty one knocked down rather than let it go unchallenged and have it hurt me in the long run. Something tells me that the frame I'm constructing now will be much more permanent.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 07:42 PM
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Just a warning to any new guys out there who think they might find themselves in this sort of situation. Your frame better be rock fucking solid. I found myself in this same sort of situation, with the ex wanting to talk things out and "hang out." So I had her over to my place, showed her how good I was doing without her (if I tried to explain how good I'm doing in comparison to back then, you guys wouldn't believe me) and I was dominant and all that good shit. To make a long story short, I fuck…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 04:18 PM
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Do you want a new car and nice clothes? If so, go out there and get those things. If not, there's nothing wrong with having an older model that gets good mileage and dressing the way that you want to. It's all about living the life that you want. Nobody here can answer these sorts of things for you.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 01:27 PM
1

they sure did love to talk things through. Do you know why? Because the more you talk things out (and this goes for any relationship - business, friendship, romantic, everything) the more the other party has a chance to get what they want in the given situation. In some of these situations, compromise is okay and even in the best interest of a relationship. For instance, you should rarely be an uncompromising asshole when it comes to business relationships. That just isn't how it works. However,…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 10:01 PM
2

You are feeling shame, not guilt. Allow me to explain the difference. Guilt is internal, you feel it because you've done something that doesn't line up with your personal code. Shame, however, is external, coming from other people, or in this case, your blue pill brainwashing. You handled the situation well, but you should've cut the girl off the second time it happened. First time? Sure, I'll cover you, but you'll be paying me back the next time I see you. Why? Because that's how I would treat …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 01:30 PM
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Don't participate, that's how. Have a plate that's really into you? Ignore her for a few days and see what she does. We need to do this on a society-wide level with feminists. Let them die alone.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 01:22 PM
9

Blood, as in blood of the oath, and water, as in the water of the womb.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 01:17 PM
1

don't care about the marriage institution I care about equality" What a revealing statement. Marriage, in my opinion, is an area that shows just how much inequality there really is between men and women. The entire process (not even speaking on divorce) is a one sided ordeal, where a man typically spends a ridiculous amount of money on a ring. I can't at least get a watch or something? And then, not to mention the fact that, once married, the guy has given up his only real power - the ability to…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 01:12 PM
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Hell no I wouldn't. TRP changed (and probably saved) my life. It got me out of a relationship that would've ended in divorce rape, got me focused on my coursework (went from barely scraping by to excelling at everything I do), helped me discover what I enjoy doing in my freetime, made me more cultured (instead of playing video games and living like a slob, I exercise, eat healthily, and read books. I'm reading Plato's Republic right now, which I highly recommend). Since April, I've lost 54 pound…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 01:00 PM
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To quote what someone else said in a thread a few weeks ago, "when you're used to special treatment, normal treatment seems unfair." Paraphrased but definitely applies in this case. She shouldn't feel used and it is ridiculous. If anything, the guy should. At least he finally made the right move and withdrew his resources.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 12:47 PM
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Two possibilities. The first is what you've suggested, that they had a friendship and he caught feelings. There's nothing wrong with that. I wouldn't crucify someone for that. The second is that he became "friends" with her and started doing favors for her in an attempt to win her over. My reason for suspecting that this is the case is the fact that the friendship seems incredibly one sided from the evidence in the OP. It goes on and on about things that the guy did for her, yet never mentions a…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 10:07 PM
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It matters because it is a faulty strategy and the majority of posts in this thread are defending his good action but overlooking months of bad ones. I completely agree, his response to being rejected is the best response. I'm not saying he's an asshole for ending the friendship, I'm saying he's an asshole because the evidence points to him only ending the relationship because he didn't get what he wanted out of it, which means he used friendship as a camouflage for his real intentions. If a man…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 09:54 PM
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100%. Doing favors for others sets a bad precedent for a relationship (whether that be a friendship or otherwise) to start on. It starts the relationship off with the assumption that the one doing favors is below the other.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:39 PM
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Sounds like you bought the female "Nice Guy" narrative hook, line and sinker. There are two possibilities. One, he entered into a friendship with the girl, no expectations other than friendship. Over time, he developed feelings and decided to ask her out. He gets rejected, he withdraws his time and energy. Perfectly fair. Two, he enters friendship with the girl. It's massively one-sided (pretty evident from the text), he sticks with it anyways because he is attracted to her and hopes to escape t…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:27 PM
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You're massively missing the point. There can be no attraction between a man and a woman who have a friendship, else the friendship is a smokescreen to cover up the true intentions of one of the parties. While he did make the only sensible move after being rejected, the whole relationship was based on ulterior motives. Had he just approached her and been upfront with her from the get-go, he would not have wasted his resources trying to sneakily obtain what he really wanted out of the relationshi…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:12 PM
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How would you feel if you and I were friends and you found out that I was only your friend because I wanted something from you? There's a word for people who behave this way and it's called "manipulative." I believe you put quotations around the wrong word in the title, OP. They don't belong around "asshole," they belong around "friend." The comments in this thread are extremely revealing and show just how many people here are still in the anger phase. Jumping to blame the woman is not the right…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 07:50 PM
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No, not the case at all. If he were truly a friend, he wouldn't have to "divert his resources to better prospects." Why? Because a friend does things out of kindness and selflessness, not because the other person is a "prospect."
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 07:44 PM
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Thank god someone in this thread gets it. This nice guy was using favors as a smokescreen to get close to her, hoping that he'd magically escape the friend zone he placed himself in and end up winning his princess over. Be straightforward with your intentions, but also have social graces. If you fuck up this balance, you'll either come off as a "creep" or a "pervert" or you'll end up on the other side of the spectrum, being a "nice" guy that's operating under the smoke and mirrors of "friendship…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 07:36 PM
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Nail on the head, man. To sculpt your reality, you must change (or manipulate) what was there before you imposed your will on it. Doing this is the pinnacle of manhood.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 04:22 PM
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You're exactly right. TRP has taught me how to be a man, above all else. I've discovered my goals for life and I have plans for achieving them. Manipulation is done best when it doesn't have to be done at all. Compare the power you have over a girl who is begging for your cock versus a girl that has her bitch shield up. One will be much easier to work with (virtually zero work involved) and the other, you will have a hard time breaking through her defenses. Being the sort of man who doesn't have…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 04:17 PM
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You're absolutely right. The best way to manipulate is to make it seem effortless. If you're a salesman and you approach a potential client, it's much better to not think about how nice his money is going to feel in your pocket. It's much better instead to actually have a great product to sell to them, and to genuinely believe that they're going to love said product. So too, must your frame be when approaching women. Being genuinely interested in offering others something (or at least appearing …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 03:42 PM
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You know, ultimately I believe TRP teaches men to be manipulative. Sounds horrible, right? It isn't. Manipulation is the art of getting what you want. Everyone manipulates one another to some degree. Every relationship - friendships, romantic relationships, and familial relationships - involve power games and manipulation to some degree. But for some reason, it's only socially acceptable to admit this in terms of business to consumer relationships. If you're a human trying to reach a goal that i…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 03:19 PM
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Good stuff as always, GLO. But this is just the tip of the iceberg. For any RP young men out there looking for a major, give marketing a shot. I believe that some of the concepts that I was taught during my Consumer Behavior and Professional Selling courses are what ultimately brought me here. Marketing is as red pill as it gets.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 02:56 PM
4

You can accomplish more with a partner than you can alone. You can accomplish more without a leech than you can with a partner.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 02:11 PM
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I'm going through this as well. Some days I'll see the light at the end of the tunnel. It isn't as bright as you want it to be. You end up just seeing through the bullshit, no matter how hard you try to enjoy it. It's pretty rough, but I prefer it to living in a blue pill fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 03:18 AM
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I'm in real need of learning to enjoy being alone. It's an irrational fear, I know, because my life is great. I'm doing great things every day. Each day I live is better than the last. But it gets lonely sometimes. I meditate, exercise, work on projects, and keep myself well rested, but sometimes (like now) I really hate the solidarity.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 01:34 AM
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You're right, but it sounds like a slight anger, not the nuclear rage that we're used to associating with the anger phase. Perhaps there's another phase somewhere between anger and depression where you carry on with your mission, but you're also heavily disillusioned with the world around you.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 01:26 AM
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Fuuuuuuuuuck thaaaaaaaaaaaat shiiiiiiiiiiiiit.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 05:44 PM
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I know how you feel. Have two plates, never want to see them because I'm busy running, practicing my hobbies, and studying. I believe that, a large majority of the time, a woman will drag a man down. Perhaps that's a bad way to put it... It isn't always negative. What I mean is that there is an opportunity cost. This applies to all things. I know exactly how you feel when you say that you'd rather stay in with no friends than go out and ruin your sleep schedule, fuck up your diet with excessive …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 05:34 PM
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In this case, do whatever you can. Lifting isn't the pinnacle of red pill behavior like everyone here seems to think. 90% of this stuff is mental.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 12:02 PM
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Yeah, absolutely. Alphas don't have to explain themselves. They are afforded this luxury because of the inherent power of being the alpha. Along with not explaining themselves, their frame goes uncontested, also due to the inherent powers of being the alpha. A beta, meanwhile, must exist within this frame, lest he put himself at risk of the consequences of challenging the alpha's frame. This all goes back to the line of mine that you quoted. Alphas are afforded the luxury of living by their own …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 03:49 AM
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I agree with what you've said. I posed these questions for OP to get a better understanding of himself. Namely, I wanted to show him that his word doesn't mean what he wants it to mean, and that if he truly wants to live up to his current moral code, he will need to reflect that with actions, not words.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 10:04 PM
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Obviously I know this is wrong (morally) Ask yourself, what is obvious about this? What is "immoral" about doing what you want? What were the reasons behind your actions? (Why did you fuck someone else?) When you can answer those questions for yourself, you'll know where you truly stand on cheating. It's honorable to feel negatively about cheating, sure. But examine what your actions are. If loyalty were highly important to you, I believe that you would've acted differently. Be honest with yours…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:24 PM
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Whether you choose to use it or not is up to you, of course. Personally, I'd be satisfied with never seeing her again. If she came crawling back, though, assuming she's a decent looking girl, I'd probably fuck her. Power is simply needing the other party less than they need you (or in this case, want). If you chose to never see her again, that's still power on your part because it was by your choice, not hers. And yes, pulling shit like this would definitely cross a line for me as well. Not a ba…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:21 PM
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The consequences of failing this shit test include losing the girl in the end anyways. The heaviest consequence of all is that she gains all of the power of the relationship. Better to lose her sooner than later, in this case.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:10 PM
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Shit, man. I'm not even half way there and I feel this way. When you're just winning, nobody can bring you down. You even welcome the struggles that come your way - just another thing to absolutely crush. The mark of a man is how openly he accepts challenge. The biggest takeaway from TRP for me was this. No longer do I look at a finance problem that I'm working on and think "oh god, this is so fucking dreadful." I welcome it with open arms because I know how damn satisfying it'll be when I solve…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:08 PM
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Let's view the outcomes of the game. 1) You cave, lose frame, and go crawling back to her. She has all of the power. 2) You call her bluff and you walk away. She no longer holds any power, but neither do you. 3) You call her bluff and you walk away. She realizes now that if she doesn't back-pedal, she'll have to find a new victim and that all of her groundwork that she's done on you will be lost. There is a good chance that, if you just disappear for a moment, she will get curious and take the b…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:00 PM
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Just read through that thread and it seems like a lot of people misunderstood what you were trying to convey through it. I think I got the gist of it. Essentially, you're saying that an alpha is more concerned with reality rather than explaining reality. As an example, we wouldn't care what we call a rose, it is just as sweet by any other name. Betas, on the other hand, are caught up in the theory of things, rather than the reality. A beta is more interested in being correct about something smal…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 08:53 PM
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In this situation, it's very important to communicate abundance mentality. You must paint the picture that if the relationship ends, she would be the one losing out. And trust me, she would lose out far more than you would. A woman like this wants complete control of the relationship. She uses tactics like these in order to get you to submit to her frame. It's important to realize that people like this don't actually want to end the relationship - they want you to submit and to take the loss. If…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 05:17 PM
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Because our outlooks differ when it comes to ideals. I see them as a restraint to my own happiness. Selfish? Maybe. Easier to live with than denying myself what I want? Easily. You say I've stooped down to playing the game. I say I've chosen the only rational option available. In the end, we should live and die by our own code, nobody else's. As much as I dislike the truth behind human interactions, it doesn't change the fact that since I don't plan on killing myself or being an incel, I must wo…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 03:01 PM
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I felt like you for the longest time. I dropped out of the game for the same reason, I wanted loyalty. And you're right, the sort of loyalty that I wanted - and that you want - is unattainable. It goes against human nature and crosses into idealism. Machiavelli famously wrote that it is better to be feared than loved. However, I think by "fear" he was referring to a sort of respect that has a perverse twist to it. Therefore, I conclude that dependence is the closest thing you and I will ever get…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 01:57 PM
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Keeping a physical one has a certain charm to it. If I use the notes on my phone on the days that I don't have time to physically write it all out, I'll always go back and write it out. Do what's most comfortable for you. Keeping a physical one bothered me for a while because of the possibility of others getting their hands on it. To solve that, I got a very plain looking sketch book (hardback) and I keep it on a shelf surrounded with other books.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 01:29 PM
6

Meditation and exercise are non-negotiable. Everyone should be doing those things.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 11:02 PM
2

Can't speak for the entirety of guys here, but I believe that all relationships are open. Whether I'm truly committed to someone or not is a direct measure of how pleased I am with them. In the case of relationships, if a single girl is satisfying my needs and bringing some value to the table, sure, I'll give her exclusivity. Otherwise, the relationship stays open. The second that the relationship changes and I'm not being fulfilled by it, it is open again (and if mistakes were made, possibly en…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 09:11 PM
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Everything about a high partner count demonstrates low value. If men are the gatekeepers of commitment and women are the gatekeepers of sex, a woman with a high partner count has let many men through the gates of sex without being able to retain commitment. Basically, she's let a lot of guys fuck her without being able to keep one around. It's very telling of a woman if she finds herself in this situation. It means that, outside of sex, she likely brings little or nothing to the table of a relat…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 08:47 PM
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I approve of this idea so much that I think it should be expanded. Agree and Amplify crushes shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 07:33 PM
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Basically it's really important to deal with and process your emotions. A journal is good for this because writing is more easily accessible than other ways of processing your emotions (cheaper than therapy that would probably be useless or even negative for you, easier to do than making a piece of art, etc.). It's extremely easy to pull out a notebook and just write about your day or your state of mind. While a journal would be beneficial for most everyone to keep, I think it's especially impor…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 07:29 PM
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Something I don't see here often is talk of having a journal. It's undeniably important.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 06:00 PM
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Fuck relationships and its shitty, obviously-biased advice. If the roles were reversed, do you think for a second that the OP would be so heavily downvoted? Nothing OP did was wrong in any way. They both knew the deal - drama free friends with benefits. Girl brings drama and somehow it's the fault of the man. So typical of relationships, yet still as dirty as the first time I experienced their blatant bias towards women. And hell, it goes past fault. Now it's the man's responsibility to fix the …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 04:54 PM
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The game does continue. It always does, I suppose. However, it must continue at a table with lower stakes. Your blackjack table analogy is brilliant. It's all a game. Choose an optimal strategy for the best chance at success. If you are a logical person, you know this to be true. Most people, however, like the abstract ideas presented to us by popular media far too much to view the world with a critical eye. You could almost compare the red and blue pills to different ways that players of a game…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 02:11 PM
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It isn't about getting women for me. I fall a lot closer to MGTOW than I do towards PUA. From time to time, a woman is nice, but it isn't why I'm doing what I do. I stay away from video games because of my past with them. Heavy addiction. I used them to escape the bullshit in my life rather than confronting it head on. Once I stopped doing that and started fixing my problems, I realized that I didn't even like video games. I started losing weight, getting out of my room, and realized that I enjo…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 02:01 PM
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I suppose it depends on how far you want to take it. I consider myself benevolent enough. I do my best to speak the truth, treat others with the dignity that is due them (which it seems like Chad from the OP has gone above and beyond in doing with the young lady), and for the most part I do my best to improve the lives of those around me. However, the only reason I am able to act in such a way is because I have thunderbolts ready to throw the second that someone steps out of line and takes advan…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 01:45 PM
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This entire post is spot-fucking-on. And it's sad, really. Consider how you felt when you swallowed the pill and realized that you'd been lied to, that you'd been made a fool of, and how much time you'd wasted by playing the game of life with such a faulty strategy. Women end up experiencing this sometimes as well. Like Billy Beta doesn't understand why he can't get his HB9 that he orbits to fuck him, women wonder why Chad Thundercock won't commit to them. The difference between men and women in…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 01:24 PM
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I heard once that all anger comes from a place of fear. Definitely the case with your cousins.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 01:06 PM
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I didn't mean doing it in person. I meant to have a weekly (daily depending on the book, maybe?) thread to discuss a certain book. It was done a few months back with the 48 laws of power. Perhaps we could do it again with another of Greene's books.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 03:33 AM
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Perhaps many people, including hot girls, are just destined for Netflix and computers. I don't believe in destiny. It comes down to ignorance versus knowledge. When I swallowed the red pill, I immediately cut the shit out of my life. Bad habits, bad influences, bad lifestyle. You name it, it changed. Because I gained the knowledge of knowing that my life and potential was being wasted. In this case, many people indeed are "destined" for mediocrity, because they either 1) never gain this knowledg…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 02:19 AM
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Would anyone be interested in doing something like this? I recall seeing a collection of threads that covered one law from the 48 laws of power each day. I'd definitely be game for a red pill book club.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 01:29 AM
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wouldn't loyalty mean she stays with the biological father of her children because that's what really is the best for her children? No, my friend. You've got to remember that we're talking about women here. "Loyalty" in this case doesn't necessarily mean the rational, dependent sort of loyalty that we believe in, but rather a more abstract and... "Adaptable" sort. In other words, "loyalty" in this case means fuck all, but you could've surmised as much from reading the first two sentences of this…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 10:34 PM
3

I knew I left a book out of my list. I'm ashamed, The Prince is one of my absolute favorites.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 09:16 PM
2

All of these pieces of advice are very good, especially the advice regarding negotiation. It's all frame. Once you own the frame, it's all yours.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 09:15 PM
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Here's a shopping list. The 48 Laws of Power The 33 Strategies of War The Art of War The Art of Seduction How to Win Friends & Influence People The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Read these books, internalize the knowledge inside of them, and you'll be just fine. As for how to give a proper handshake, it's all about a firm grip and eye contact. A handshake will tell you a lot about another man. A firm grip with eye contact is the handshake of a confident and capable man. But seriously, get …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 05:58 PM
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KELLY: Your Twitter account has several disparaging comments about women's looks. You once told a contestant that it would be a pretty picture to see her on her knees. Does that sound like the temperament of a man we should elect as president? Can't believe he didn't take this opportunity to make a Bill Clinton joke.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 01:02 PM
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Hit the nail on the head. And see, it's not just people who are addicted to social media. Nobody is living life anymore. Your average girl fills up her time with Netflix binges. Your average guy fills his time with video games and porn. I know because I used to be this guy. My life was wake up late in the afternoon, shower (at least I did that, huh?), eat some junk, hop onto league of legends for 8-12 hours, fap, fall asleep. It's disturbing how much of my life I wasted, thinking that somehow th…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 12:59 PM
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What the fuck did I just read
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 08:33 PM
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Your second point touches on something really important for men to grasp. You mention that faithfulness on one's part does not ensure faithfulness from the other, and you're absolutely right. But let's dig deeper. Why should faithfulness on one's part guarantee that it is returned? Because it is the right thing to do? Because all humans deserve the respect that is shown to them? Believing that your faithfulness or love or goodwill of any sort should be reciprocated is downright manipulative. Wha…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:51 PM
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It seems borderline impossible. I salute you guys for trying.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:33 PM
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No, I don't plan to do either of those things. I was never partial to children to begin with, but after I'd spent some time on this sub, any desire for children (who come along with a high chance of paying child support) quickly went away. Marriage is the funny one. I always wanted to find "the one." Everyone does, right? But after my personal experiences and learning from others' experiences (not just here, but also married/divorced people around me in my own life), I have no desire to get marr…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:22 PM
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The 80/20 thing isn't absolute, but it's a good estimate and it serves as an illustration that shows that a large majority of men (the 80%) are either starving or living off of crumbs in terms of pussy while a smaller minority (the 20%) are feasting. The numbers are less important than the point itself. I don't fall into that 20%. I still get laid fairly often. The difference is greater than we think. Those 20% aren't getting laid "fairly often." They're covered in females wanting their attentio…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 03:55 PM
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Yeah, it's 100% just their nature. That's why most days it doesn't bother me and I'm able to laugh it off. I really do wonder what a woman's purpose in my life is, though. Outside of sex, nothing. I don't see much point in putting in all of the effort required to have a relationship when all I get in return is a fucking parasite trying to attach itself to my status, my financials, my social circle, etc. I don't even want kids. Even if I did, it's not a realistic option anymore. The risks are far…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 03:19 PM
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The longer I spend on this sub the more I lean towards full-on MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 02:27 PM
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"You deserve" is absolutely one of the most powerful phrases used in marketing and selling. It makes people feel special, entitled, and superior. You're gassing up their ego. You see it all the time. "Get the money you deserve!" is always the message from those lawyers that you see on daytime television. "Take this magic pill and get the happiness that you deserve!" Countless other examples but you definitely get the point. "You deserve" is such a powerful phrase because the vast majority of peo…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 03:50 AM
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No, you do not need psychiatric help. This is all normal and natural. It's normal and healthy to regret some things you've said in anger. I have my regrets as well. The key difference is that while I regret saying those things, all of them were true. I had a right to be angry in my situation and, just like you, when enough was enough, I went all out and nuked her from orbit. I said horrible things, but in those horrible things, a lot of truth was mixed in. And I honestly felt relieved the moment…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 03:12 AM
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Gonna piggyback onto this comment because it segues into what I had to say pretty well. I noticed /u/SpaceRunaway mentioned that he isn't really redpilled and it seemed like he just needed a place to vent his frustrations. I see a lot of that happening around here so I wanted to give some advice here to anyone who's just stumbling on the red pill or having a shitty time with relationships. 1) Read the side bar - no matter what you think of the posts you see here - read the side bar. A lot of pos…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 11:56 PM
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What the fuck did I just read
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 06:19 PM
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"Aim high" can be explained better by this.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 06:20 PM
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Some of them run the fuck away from the guy if they start feeling tempted This happened with my unicorn recently. Girl went on a mission trip where she was surrounded by her invisible sky man buddies every day for three months, writes me a letter saying that she loves me but it's not a godly sort of love, that she couldn't do this over the phone or in person because I'd tempt her to "stray from the path" and that she'll always remember me LOL. Not sure if proudest moment or biggest loss since TR…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 12:57 PM
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This shit makes me sick. So many things wrong. Yeah, let me just rush to commit to the first girl I come across, I'm sure women will appreciate the fact that I have low standards and accept the first girl to throw herself at me. Rushing to commit is absolutely the dumbest thing you can do. It's the male version of being a slut. And what's this shit about your girl becoming your life? How fucking pathetic and unrealistic can you be? I'm not suggesting that if I were to find a good girl and enter …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 06:16 AM
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Then she did the one thing that actually made me stop crying. She offered to have sex with me. And this is supposed to make him feel better? I think it'd hurt me more to be offered pity sex. How pathetic he must feel.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 06:51 PM
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This poor bastard. Marriage is already bad enough in my opinion, even if you find a "unicorn." But this takes it to a new level. You want to know where you can find the lowest quality girls on this earth? Tinder. Tinder is the embodiment of the CC and it's a great place to find a girl whose entire value is derived from her pussy. I'm not saying I haven't had some great times with some girls from tinder, but can they ever be anything more than plates? Absolutely not, because a girl who thinks tha…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 01:25 PM
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Damn that last part really hit home with me. Quit playing video games and suddenly I had no friends anymore. Where are they? Oh, they're sitting in front of a computer for 8 hours a day still? Nah, you can keep that. I don't think people really understand what "friendship" is anymore.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 08:54 PM
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I guess I'll never understand the feel-good bullshit that the world is trying to feed us. Even at a young age, I was disenchanted with all of this shit. People are so obsessed with feelings these days that they'll do or say anything to never feel even slightly uncomfortable. People hate putting effort into anything and it confuses the shit out of me. Not because I don't have the propensity to be a lazy cunt (I definitely do), but because you know what actually feels good? Being good at some shit…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 06:24 PM
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Anger phase is fucking amazing. I couldn't sleep, I couldn't focus on any of the daily bullshit in my life. All I could do is put my rage into the best productive outlets I had at the time. I lost so much weight. I didn't have an appetite and I just wanted to fucking run all the time. I made lots of music to let my emotions out. Lots of angry stuff. I picked up plates like it was nothing because I genuinely didn't give a fuck about what anyone thought of me. It was a good time aside from, you kn…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 05:55 PM
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Do you want a false rape charge? Because this is how you get one. Man the fuck up and be glad you got out when you did.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 04:12 AM
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Is it really a woman's feelings that gives them power, or the fact that everyone will cater to said feelings that gives them power? A woman has an inherent importance that she is born with. She automatically has a place in the world, regardless of how much of a hamplanet she is. Off topic, I guarantee that the whales in OPs story have men desperate to sleep with them. A man, however, starts with nothing. We are useless and we are replaceable. And it should be this way. If I'm going to sit around…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 04:10 PM
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This is only a question to you because you're young. At the end of the day, pussy is a bad investment.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 07:35 PM
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Oh definitely. PUA is what started it all for me. I remember staying up late when I was young watching fuze and that show Keys to the VIP would come on. I thought it was hilarious. Surely it doesn't work like this. Haha. I was so young and naive. I'll never say that PUA doesn't work. I see it more like some people see crossfit or other controversial exercising methods. Yeah, it might not be the best, but it's much better than nothing. I think that PUA and much of Red Pill is far too caught up on…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:51 PM
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Not two sides of the same coin, but two different stages in a series of stages. Red pill evolved from PUA. It is the next step in a series of evolutions. The OP states that PUA deals in the how, TRP deals in the why. I would say that PUA deals in specifics - set steps and checkpoints that you run through with girls, memorized lines, scripts, whatever. I like to compare PUA to teaching an animal a trick. Take a parrot, for example. They can learn to "speak." What the animal is actually learning, …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:35 PM
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If everyone who came here just started with No More Mr Nice Guy before even reading a single post, so many of this sub's problems would be fixed.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:21 PM
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Right, which is why businesses with shit products don't have many repeat customers and often end up in legal troubles and eventually going out of business. The thing with the SMP is that it is self regulating. Women are pretty damn good at seeing through the bullshit. I would also argue that game isn't exactly sleazy. I consider it just another facet of self improvement, improving your personality and ability to maneuver through social situations. There is nothing sleazy about improving your bod…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 02:58 AM
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Let him figure it out on his own. He'll eventually end up here if he looks for it. But let's be honest, most people are fine and some are even happy with being in the matrix. Don't save them, they don't want to be saved.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 11:57 PM
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It's purely to protect their ego. In my example, when I began to give a damn about my health, it made the people around me do the same and they weren't comfortable with their discoveries - that they were unhealthy and heading down a bad path. They attempt to shame us for our improvements because they want to feel good about their mediocrity.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 06:01 PM
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I'm not sure if I'd say you lost frame when you went off on your friends. I think you lost frame you when let others control the night. I mean, it is your birthday, right? If you had something you wanted to do, you should've done it. You were sucked into doing what others wanted, and that's when you lost frame. Anger is a valid and proper response in some cases. Don't feel bad for it. Next time, know what is going to please you and do that. You seemed really bothered by staying out late, eating …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 04:40 PM
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Attraction for men is different than attraction for women. I'm an ugly motherfucker, but somehow I have no problem landing women. They don't look at me and definitively choose whether they're attracted to me or not. Sure, looks help a ton. Improving looks is great and worthwhile. It's no different than having good packaging for your product. But at the end of the day, a woman can find you attractive (or unattractive) for a million different reasons. The one thing that all women have in common wh…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 04:23 PM
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Game is necessary no matter how great of a man you are. Unless you are famous, you likely will not have many women (at least the sort of women that you want) being interested in you without you doing some sort of selling. That's what game is - selling yourself. Would we shame a business for having good salespeople? No, that's part of being in business. But what if their product is complete shit? They'll still sell some product, but it'll be much more difficult for them to do so. They likely won'…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 03:07 PM
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It's not about fucking and it really isn't even about girls. What it boils down to is being a man that isn't afraid of taking what he wants, doing what he wants, living the life that he wants. It's about not being a little bitch and being afraid to speak up. It's about not letting another opportunity pass by. Nobody's saying to approach every woman and nobody's saying to approach any woman purely to fuck them. Approach them because you think they look like good company. Approach them because you…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 01:45 PM
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When you're more invested in other peoples' opinions of you than your own, that's when you start to fear rejection. Think about it this way - you're losing frame in the hardest way possible. If I walk up to a girl and she rejects me, so fucking what? I'm a fucking badass and I have shit going for me. I don't want to be in the company of a broad so dumb that she doesn't see what a fucking catch I am for longer than it takes her to reject me. Because my time is valuable and I am valuable and I don…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 01:37 PM
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You really never can show weakness around them. Not because they don't care, not because they're evil and unloving, but because, like you said, their programming will cause them to think differently of you. If you show weakness in front of a woman, your relationship with her will be changing. It changes the power dynamic, which is what all relationships are based on. The difference is that your close male friends won't judge you for your weakness because they can truly sympathize with you and un…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 10:30 PM
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it isn't about blame at all for me. I understand that I was lied to, that we all were. We were taught to be beta, like you said. But it is my responsibility to change things. There's no misplaced guilt here. It is downright shameful that we have been corrupted, brainwashed, and lied to. I feel anger about it regularly. But I also know that it is my responsibility to stand up and fix my problems.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 09:46 PM
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I don't believe anyone on this sub wants to lie to me. That being said, I don't just automatically trust anything blindly. The red pill should make you question everything. So when I'm reading posts here, I do look at them with a critical eye. Some people here are misguided and others are just starting their journeys. I don't look down on anyone, but yes, some people do give poor advice here. I don't believe they intentionally want to mislead us, though. They are just misled themselves. I take c…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 06:55 PM
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My motivation is purely to never feel the way I used to feel. I felt powerless, obsessive, and I dunno.. Retarded really. I was a slave to "my" desires. And TRP helped me figure out what my desires really were. Gone are the days of me wanting to give give give to some selfish bitch. I thought marriage and a family would make me happy. And in a perfect world, where all of my sacrifices would be appreciated, I still think marriage and a family would make me happy. But TRP has shown me that the odd…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 06:48 PM
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It's lonely and depressing at times for me too. And I chalk it up as me still having some hope that TRP is wrong. Deep down, I want to be wrong about women, about love, about all of this. Because the truth is an ugly motherfucker. But as much as I want to be wrong, I want to be free even more. So I take the red pill every day. And sometimes I get sad over how hollow relationships between people are. Sometimes it hurts to see things for what they are. People only give a fuck about you as much as …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 12:45 PM
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I realized that no one is gonna solve my problems except me. If I want something I have to go out and take it, or take advantage of the situation. This is what it's all about.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 04:23 PM
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This really connects with me because I've just realized that I need to spend more time internalizing the pill. I'd been feeling like I was hot shit lately because things have been going well for me - I'm down almost 50 pounds, picked up hobbies, got a bit of game - and I decided to see my ex yesterday. Let me tell you, if you ever think you're hot shit and you've completely dealt with your old ways, go talk to your ex that you have/had oneitis for. My frame was completely crushed by the end of t…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 05:09 AM
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"Love" is the greatest lie ever told. You really can get just about anyone to do damn near whatever you want if you can convince them that "love" is the motive behind their actions. Why is this? Because so many of us are controlled by outside validation and are brainwashed by media - music, movies, books - to believe in these fairy tales. "Love" these days is anything but loving. It's self-sacrificing and self-harming. It's an addiction, no matter how well it may be sugar coated by society. Do y…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 01:01 PM
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It's a marketing principle. If you're hated, you're at least on a consumer's radar, in their awareness group. Changing perceptions is difficult, but not nearly as difficult as getting people to look at you the first time. If they look at you and are disgusted, they've at least looked. If you play it well, you can change perceptions and turn that disgust into something positive.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:15 PM
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From my experience, anger used appropriately can be the most effective and powerful force that a man can wield. I've absolutely kicked ass since my reality was shattered and I don't want to stop.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:12 PM
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If you're ever caught cheating, just end things anyways. She'll never forgive you and she'll always wonder if it'll happen again. At best, she'll be paranoid and insecure, at worst she'll demand all of your freedom as proof that you aren't fucking around on her again. You can't live a fulfilling life if you're always apologizing or spending all of your time and energy ensuring someone else that it won't happen again (hint: it probably will happen again if you've done it once, let's just be hones…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 12:37 PM
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at that point, I felt like the biggest champ on the fucking planet. Something that TRP has taught me is that I should feel like a champ at all times. Why would I be nervous about a girl? I'm amazing, I've got things to offer to women and to this world. Stop living in fear! Every one of us is capable of greatness if we work for it. Shying away from it is choosing to live in fear and mediocrity. That's as blue pill as it gets.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 04:05 AM
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Man, that's unreal. Absolutely disgusting. I must say this every single day, but really THANK GOD THANK GOD I found TRP at a young age. Thank you for sharing your experiences and knowledge so that I don't have to learn some things the hard way. I've realized marriage was a bad deal for a while now, but this is just the last straw. 68% and then 23% in taxes is absolutely insane. I can't imagine not being able to keep even half of what I earn. And 23% in taxes is fucking incredible. What a wake up…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 03:39 AM
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65%?! That's more than half of what he fucking earns! What the actual fuck is wrong with this world?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 09:34 PM
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Highly recommend exercise and meditation. The exercise should leave you too tired to use that anger in any other way than a productive one, and the meditation will leave you too at peace to really give a fuck about it. Ultimately you want that anger to become pure energy - a driving force in you to take action. This is learning to wield anger without cutting yourself with it. After you've learned to do that, you just need to set goals (see the sidebar) and you'll have the roadmap to guide your n…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 09:16 PM
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Sometimes the only real advice is "quit being such a fucking pussy." When you first start out, yeah it's fucking hard. Yeah it's confusing as shit. Yeah there's pain. That's because you're a fucking pussy, doing shit that men do. Of course it's going to hurt a bitch at first! You should fucking relish in that pain. That pain is the feeling of becoming a man, one fucking step, one rep, one day at a time. Something I experienced that was sort of touched on in the OP is feeling like you need a pers…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 08:34 PM
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You aren't sadistic. It's just the nature of things. You'd naturally be close to your LTR, right? As a guy, you're supposed to be the stoic rock for her to cling to in times of trouble. Well, this is damn sure one of those times. Where this poor bastard went wrong was by offering unconditional love and support to this broad. Think about it in terms of a market place. This guy is basically saying that he'll pay any amount of commitment, love, and support for this girl's sex/affection. Naturally, …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:34 PM
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My God... This reads like someone wrote a biography of my life. The only difference is that in April I said fuck it, went nuclear on her, and left that worthless cunt out on the curb where she belonged in the first place. And yes, OP, she was fucking other guys the whole time she was with this beta. This story is far too similar to my own for it to have a different conclusion than my own.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 05:58 PM
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Been having a rough patch here for about a week or two where I haven't gotten as much done as I'd have liked to. It's definitely related to the fact that my anger phase is coming to an end. Probably for the best, but damn I've accomplished a lot through it.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 05:48 AM
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Brutal. Love it. Also what's up with everyone suddenly giving a fuck about morals here? Too many fucking faggots trying to lecture a grown ass man in this thread lmfao.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 03:59 PM
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The end goal for me is to just be successful in whatever I pursue. So in that respect there is no "end" goal, just a never-ending list of goals. Every time this question comes up, the answer is basically whatever the fuck you want it to be.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 07:03 PM
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Even if she wasn't fat as fuck, no smart man would "fall in love" with some whore from tinder.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 03:29 PM
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Absolutely. Money is really nothing in comparison to time. And then when you consider the emotional trauma of being betrayed, lied to, left in the dirt, and losing any children that you have? Fuck that. Fuck that fuck that fuck that.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 05:09 PM
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I provided the house. No amount of cooking, cleaning, or "being a good housewife" could balance out that fact. Marriage is fucking retarded.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 05:02 PM
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What happened is that you didn't hold frame. You were too trusting, thus falling into another's frame easily. If you're going to get into the game, make sure you get your shit proper. As it stands, you seem like a fuckboy. Be a man. Know how the common TRP advice is "no commitment before sex?" Apply that to everything. Get your shit up front, regardless of whether you're selling weed behind a motel or playing office politics.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 02:40 AM
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The whole point is to ensure women get their AF and then get to lock them down. "If you don't make me your girlfriend/wife/whatever, I'll accuse you of rape" is going to be a thing in the near future.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 01:09 AM
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I experienced something similar. When you're freshly unplugged, you're going to be on some other shit.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 09:17 PM
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Great insight, something I haven't considered before. (Not to go off on a tangent but I make it my goal to try and bridge the gap between Black men and the world. I admire this goal of yours, OP.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 07:24 PM
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I was never too keen on the idea of marriage before reading this post, but you know what? Marriage fucking disgusts me. What a raw fucking deal. It's just such a kick to the teeth to realize that as a man, you're responsible for every single fucking thing, and you can't expect anything at all. Women do not know what the word "fair" means.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 07:16 PM
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Stay busy from this moment on. An idle mind is dangerous in these situations.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 04:03 AM
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I don't see anything wrong with listening to a good friend talk about their problems. That's just being a good friend in return, in my mind. Being an emotional tampon is whenever you're doing this, but you're not getting anything out of the friendship. That being said, I never want to hear someone's relationship woes. Shit is way too easy to fix to be miserable over so there's no point in talking about it.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 05:37 PM
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I fought the urge to ask her why, and to have a proper break up "talk", but TRP has taught me better, and so I fought the urge to do something I would've done in the past This is good. Believe me when I tell you that there's nothing to gain from doing so. Believe me when I also tell you that this is a daily occurrence in your new life. Every day, you'll be tempted to go back to your old ways. Don't.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 01:04 AM
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It's the circle of life. You're either hunting and killing or you're living off of the scraps of others.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 12:59 AM
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One thing I always told my last LTR was that I wouldn't have kids. She'd always go "whyyyyyyyy? They're so cute" or whatever. I'd always respond with "you do know that you have to have sex to have kids, right?" Turns out there was plenty of sex happening, just not with me.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 05:37 PM
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Closed mouths don't get fed.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 11:58 PM
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knowing a certain woman and yourself are never destined to be together, or just not being wanted by a certain person? So much wrong here, where the fuck do I begin... Destiny is bullshit. Nothing is pre-destined, nothing is "supposed" to be happen. Things happen because of 1) random chance or 2) outside forces acting upon that object. You make your own destiny by getting up each day and working towards it. Love is a delusion. All love is unrequited and goes unappreciated. What, you expected some…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 11:24 PM
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Experienced the same thing. My anger and sadness turned into laughter. Here I am, thinking I'm the one who got fucked over, but I'm living better than ever while she's out sucking dick for attention because that's all she has to offer in this world. And then I go back to working on myself because I'm a fucking badass now that I'm not letting such a venomous bitch control my life.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 08:32 PM
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Do it anyways to prove a point.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 08:25 PM
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I can't speak for the rest of you guys, but I definitely got my revenge. I wake up and get it every morning when I hit the gym, when I ace an exam, when I generally just kick life's ass. The best version of myself is a complete fucking catch, the likes of which a basic bitch like her will never have the opportunity to land again. Whether she cares or not is a different story, but fuck her, my life is fucking amazing now. Living well truly is the best revenge.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 12:52 PM
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You can't sit around and read this sub all day or constantly think about "how fucked up" the world is. You'll end up wanting to jump off of a bridge. The truth isn't always fun. But I'd rather suffer, knowing the truth, and working towards a better life for myself, than to lay down and accept someone else's idea for my life. You've either accepted TRP or you haven't. Not wanting to accept it doesn't change this fact. Nobody wants to accept it. There is no going back, but you're going to try anyw…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 02:58 PM
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It's not that you aren't RP or alpha enough. OP is just more psychopathic and Machiavellian than you. It's something I went through when I first swallowed TRP and I imagine it's something a lot of people here go through. When you can just manipulate and do whatever the fuck you want to others, not give them a damn thing, yet still get everything and more that you want from them, that power is alluring as hell. I had moral problems with it and had to chill out. There's nothing wrong with not want…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 08:00 PM
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Sexual strategy is amoral and all, not gonna lecture on and on about that. I'm just jealous that OP can demonstrate such a level of psychopathy and not feel a thing. I tried the whole hardcore DT thing for a while and yeah it was effective as hell, but it fucked me up.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 07:54 PM
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I just don't even know what the fuck goes on in these guys' minds. I was borderline retarded back in my BP days, but damn..
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 06:18 PM
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Neither of these are issues unless you have a problem maintaining frame. The high N-count women can think they deserve an equally high price tag all they want. It doesn't matter because you're not a fool and you know you can get a similar product for much less effort and investment within the hour. As for the second point, yeah. You've got to maintain frame constantly. I don't see anything wrong with treating a girl well if she deserves it, but it's a definite balancing act. I believe that it's …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 11:21 PM
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The whole point of abundance mentality is to fend off oneitis. It's just a mental shortcut that leads to outcome independence, or the "I will be fine without her" mentality. This is an important state of mind to reach if you're ever going to be the sort of man who deserves the sort of girls who are paper unicorn status. I think where a lot of guys get it twisted is that they think the "bitches ain't shit" mentality is going to work on these paper unicorn types. Speaking from experience, it isn't…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 07:05 PM
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Hey, if you can pull it off, I'll be impressed as fuck. I've run some pretty weird game before so I know it's possible, but don't get your hopes up. "Weird game" should only be used when you genuinely don't give a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 03:20 AM
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Have your anger phase followed by monk mode. Trying to skip the anger phase is denial. You're mad as fuck and you have the right to be. Take it out at the gym and find other productive things to channel your rage into. It'll get easier over time. Eventually you'll come to terms with how things are and you'll be happier and have realistic expectations of other people.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 11:53 PM
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Yeah, he was fine up until that part. He had done well to make himself come off as mysterious and aloof, then ruins it with that shit about his Asian friend that doesn't even fit into the conversation anywhere. You can actually see the point in the conversation where she loses all interest. "Hmm that's interesting" What she means is, "what the fuck are you saying? You're weird as fuck." If you ever get a response like this, just don't respond. She's contributing nothing and anything you say afte…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 04:25 PM
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The further I progress through business school and the further I read through this sub, the stronger the analogy becomes. The sexual marketplace as a concept is so fucking solid that at times it's scary how accurate it is.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 03:56 PM
2

Yeah, sure. Both coding and chess enforce and strengthen logical thinking. You're going to learn to see the patterns and to follow logical steps. Chess is very strategic, of course. I feel, I dunno.. sharper? after I've spent some time playing it. My awareness is up and I think ahead in situations now, not just in-game. Coding is also great for me personally because I'm also a fairly creative person. If you understand the logic behind your coding language, you can create all sorts of things with…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 01:41 AM
3

One recommendation I'll give you is to read. Look around this sub for some ideas, but off the top of my head I'll recommend Meditations by Aurelius, The 48 Laws of Power by Greene, and How to Win Friends and Influence People by Carnegie. Reading takes up a huge part of my day and if you're in a situation where you want to (or in my case, NEED to) improve yourself, it should take up a large part of yours as well. Don't just read, though. Take the knowledge in, absorb it. Think on the wisdom you'v…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 05:40 PM
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People don't get it. It's not enough to deliver something of value in this world. It's important have a set of skills or some useful knowledge or whatever it is that you're going to contribute to society, but that's not enough. You have to know your worth. This world will swallow you whole if you aren't able to set your price and stick to it. You're a nice guy with an equally nice bank account? See how fast people run from you when you cut them off. Emotional tampon/beta orbiter for that really …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 12:44 PM
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Right versus Left comes down to Truth versus Ideals. The way things are versus the way things "should" be. Red pill versus Blue pill is this way as well. Where the idealistic go wrong is not being able to see potential versus actual. The difference between Red Pill and Blue Pill is simple. Blue Pill cries and whines that "life isn't faaaaaair!" Meanwhile, Red Pill is out there putting in the hours.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 12:03 AM
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In sales you're taught exactly what was said in the OP - an objection is an opportunity. An objection shows that your customer is engaged, listening, and concerned. And if you handle their concerns the appropriate way, you're going to get their money. A girl shit testing you is no different.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 10:20 PM
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I've found that "treating women badly" is just a shortcut that people use here to describe what happened to the girl in the OP. I highly doubt Chad actually treated her poorly at any point in time.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 09:55 PM
5

Part of me wants to find an explanation for this behavior, but then the better parts of me don't care enough to waste the mental energy necessary to try to understand the backwards ass shit that people do. I've started to notice that the bigger "asshole" you are, the better off you tend to be. So keep doing you, bro.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 06:08 PM
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Out of curiosity, what are your red flags? Mine is that gut feeling. You know when you just feel something is "off" about a person? I'm pretty quick to recognize it when that's the case. Other red flags for me are a girl's family situation, personal beliefs, and goals/ambitions.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 05:52 PM
5

My God. There are no words, man.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 05:15 PM
1

I just wish I had found TRP 10 years sooner. I think about this often. How good my life could be right now if I'd known about TRP when I was 18 or something. And then I think about how good my life already is because of the knowledge here, and how much better it's going to keep getting. There's an old saying about the best time to plant a tree being 20 years ago. The second best time? Right now.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 03:00 PM
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My point is if you're 16/17 and wish everything was different start lifting heavy shit and change your life! People will Any age, it's never too late to live the life you want.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:17 PM
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That's what really got me after my last LTR ended. Everyone was so quick to defend her actions (cheating) and to tell me how shitty I was. And hey, can't disagree. I was a weak bitch with zero frame. But still, amazing how fucking twisted some people can be.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 01:08 PM
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All I know is that I used to be a lazy, depressed bitch who was dependent on others and now I'm disciplined, happy as hell, and live my life for me. I can't speak about brain chemistry or anything, but I'd be lying if I said that TRP isn't life changing. If you really take this stuff to heart, you're going to notice an almost immediate difference. I walk differently. I carry myself differently. I speak differently. I'm not nervous or embarrassed, ever. I walk into a room and own that shit becaus…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 07:24 PM
2

Yeah, I went searching earlier. Very thought provoking, appreciate you sharing it.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 09:31 PM
5

I'm really not understanding that second video. I'm interested in your interpretation of it.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 06:22 PM
3

I experienced this phenomenon recently. It was the moment I went red pill, and damn did it feel good. I was staying with my girlfriend at the time. Long story short, we get stuck babysitting because her sister (single mother of two) decides she wants to go out drinking, and dad is drunk in the other room. My ex agrees, just assuming I was cool with it, and I became livid. I said things that I normally would've immediately regretted, flew into a rage, definitely lost whatever frame I had left, an…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 12:09 AM
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I appreciate you sharing this. I'm definitely going to pick up a copy of Meditations now. Highly recommend anyone who has 50 minutes or so to kill to watch this lecture.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 09:15 PM
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You were. It's called a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 07:47 PM
3

Makes sense. I've known her since childhood (she has oneitis for me, funnily enough), so I know her past well enough. I'm stuck between "I'm a guy and I have needs" and "this girl actually lives a respectable lifestyle." Sex would just be icing on the cake. I just have problems with feeling guilty about natural urges is all. Quality girl, so I may give it a shot anyways.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:36 PM
3

Does this apply to super religious girls as well? I'm interested in one of these types of girls. My mind is telling me "if she was as interested in you as you need her to be, she'd break the rules."
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 04:42 PM
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One of the worst feelings in the world is realizing that you're the beta bucks. It hurts no matter how long it takes. Guy lucked out and found out within three months, so at least he has that going for him. As much as it hurts to find out, I think it's probably one of the most important kicks in the ass for a man to receive.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 12:46 PM
1

Much appreciated. Going to get started on this on Tuesday.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 01:05 AM
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Become a better man, and you know what: it may still not be good enough. Good enough for who? Because even if I go to bed alone tonight, I'm going to feel like a million bucks. Everything I did today was for ME, not to lure some broad into my bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 12:23 AM
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Love it. I think something that's not really stated here often enough is how powerful music is. It can be empowering or it can be incredibly weakening. I never indulge myself with "sad" music anymore, but I use music to brainwash myself. Feeling angry? I'm going to hit the treadmill with some metal. Feeling down? Gangster rap to make sure I'm going to get my shit proper. Need to feel energized? EDM all day. I could go on and on about music. I think I'll start working on a post about it, actually…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 04:23 PM
2

Absolutely. Going to do my run today with Hatebreed's The Divinity of Purpose.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 03:55 PM
1

I appreciate this. I'm going to look into lifting in the next few days. I'm clueless on where to start, so if you have any resources or advice, I'd be incredibly grateful for it.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 01:41 PM
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And don't let your LTR turn you into a bitch. Something that cannot be understated. My last LTR failed for many reasons, but this is the most obvious one. When we met, I was a no bullshit sort of guy. I'd been familiar with TRP before, and I was a highly motivated guy. I made it clear from day one that the mission came before her. Making the best grades I could at University was the mission. She understood and LOVED how dedicated I was. I got soft and I gave into the temptation of putting her an…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 12:49 PM
13

On the real though, gangster rap is incredibly red pill. I think anyone who needs to develop dominance and a bit of selfishness needs to give it a chance even if it isn't their thing.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 12:41 PM
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A wise man once said "See it's brackets nigga Them hoes ain't fucking you cause you ain't in that bracket nigga Learn life, it's levels to this shit young boy Ay O you feel me"
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 11:28 PM
2

I was under the impression that lifting and dieting at the same time wasn't really great. Is this incorrect? I do plan on lifting eventually.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 10:12 PM
2

Know yourself. That's all there is to it. I firmly believe that anyone who is perceptive enough to be on this sub can tell when something's up. Know. Your. Self.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 10:02 PM
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The problem of feminism in one sentence.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 05:38 PM
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What really gets me is On a date, he will treat a woman the opposite of how she prefers. Why is a woman's preference more important than mine? I'll treat people how I want to treat them. If they don't enjoy being around me, nobody's forcing them to stay around. Where we've gone wrong as a society is by collectively putting the pussy on a pedestal. Men set out every day to hunt for it, to win it, to convince women that they're worthy of it. Fuck that. Fuck impressing women. Fuck catering to their…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 03:52 PM
1

Holy shit, the implications... And this is why I love what I study.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 02:56 AM
1

My stance on games is that they're something to pass the time. I only touch them if it's too early to sleep and I've honestly done everything that I've wanted to do that day, which is usually exercise, a bit of course work, meditate, read a few chapters on whatever book I'm reading, and an hour of relaxation before bed. If I somehow managed to find the time to fit in playing a video game, I'm all for it. But what I've realized is that games leave me feeling depressed. While playing I'm always th…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 02:14 PM
2

I appreciate your response. Your project sounds really interesting and something I could see myself enjoying working on. I'm interested to see what your research will find. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 11:44 AM
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Not so much a consumer behavior question, but a career question. I'm a marketing major that'll be graduating in a year. Your thread caught my attention because Consumer Behavior has by far been my favorite course. How do I go about getting a career in this field? What is a day in your career like? What sort of projects are you working on?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 01:37 AM
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All I had to do was read the first few sentences to find your problem. Your looks aren't shit compared to this horrifying fucking mindset that you're carrying around. Get your mind to where it needs to be, then you can worry with the rest. Nothing is as valuable as the mental foundation required to change your life. And you have no foundation. The good news is, you're only 27, motherfucker! There's still fucking time. So do yourself a favor, quit being a little bitch, and take responsibility for…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 07:43 PM
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Definitely a shit test. But why do you hate the guys? You should be indifferent and uncaring towards any competitors (even if they're in her past, she's comparing you to them).
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 10:24 PM
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I guess it isn't a fall from grace. It's a very rude awakening, but one that is very necessary if you're ever going to change things.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 12:11 PM
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This is an excellent post and something I was talking about with a friend earlier today. I escaped my problems with alcohol, video games, jerking off, and eating like shit. ...Only to find out that you never actually escape anything by living this way. You only stall the inevitable fall from grace. Well, I fell hard nearly three weeks ago. My LTR ended (which is a good thing, but I hate how it went down) and then a few of my friends abandoned me. Came back to the red pill and found out my situat…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 11:02 PM
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