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Yea once I get my insurance settled ill look into those
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/26 12:15 AM
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Yea I agree. I really want to go to a therapist. Just cant afford it right now. I dont have insurance since that was tired to her job. Im looking into sliding scale to see if there is sonething around me that will work. I want to get to a point where im super confident in my personal identity and really happy with my life without someone else in it. Ive never just been me, and I didn't realize how much of my identity was wrapped up in being married and struggling to unwind that. I think yesterda…
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 11:25 PM
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I know. Its just one thing after another. Im having haveing a rough go of finding things in my control. Before all of this I was super proud of everything I had done and now everything keeps getting pulled away piece by piece and it keeps making me angry everytime I loose something else. I want to take this opportunity to travel and dive into hobbies but both of those cost money and right now im prety strapped untill the house sells. Im trying to grow my buisness but the divorse has basicly take…
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 11:07 PM
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I know. I just lost every bit of control I had in my life. Lost my house, lost my financial goals, lost the only person who i felt comfortable being acuualy me around, have been at the mercy of lawers, have to move back in with my parents. It feels like every couple days something new goes horribly wrong. Why do i have to hurt for what she did? Why does she get to live her wonderful new life with her new fucking boyfriend with her now higher paying job... menwhile im just fucked and I have to de…
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 09:39 PM
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What for? I never had a real life beofe her. And now that its just me I dont want a life if I feel like this all the time. Can't wait to bust my ass for money, blow it all on bills, hate myself, sleep and repeat. Sorry.... i know there are good things... i just dont see any...
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 09:23 PM
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I dont want to be free. I've never wanted to be alone. I still dont want to be alone but i know I'm way to fucked to be in a relationship again. I hate myself, I hate how i look, no one is here to validate that im enough anymore, I have physically deformities that are prety fucking obvious, even my best glow up wont make me attractive... i have 0 social skills and due to covid and my jobs being work from home I havent "made new friends" in over 6 years. I genuinely just see myself hating myself …
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 09:19 PM
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Yea im planning to make my way to a gym once I move out of the house. Don't want to get stuck trying to deal with predatory memberships ontop of all of the other shit I have to deal with. My sister is excited becuase she is a Physical Therapist / trainer so when I asked her for some exercises I could do at home she dropped all sorts of stuff for me. Not really into being a ripped muscle gym bro, but def want to loose the skinny physique and put on a bit of muscle
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/26 06:04 PM
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I guess its more of a, how do I bring myself to a place of indifference or peace with how things are. I agree with you on the i prefer being angry over trying to fix what she broke and putting all of my energy into someone who clearly didnt care about me anymore. Its just a massive stain on everything in my life right now and i dont know how to move past it and heal
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/26 05:30 PM
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Pretty shit. The movers came to the house today. I came home to half of my life packed and gone. To top it off they trashed the floors and my (ex? Not really sure when to call her that) Wife didnt even bother to sweep, mop, or vacuum. She took the vacuum with her too. Had to ask my parents to borrow one... probably going to make another post tomrrow. Just really not doing well. Not like i expected to be doing well tho. Thanks for checking in
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 02:42 AM
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Fortunately for me, I already did most of the housework and cooking... honestly one of the things that pissed me off during our marriage was that no mater what I told her, chores and shit were never something she would prioritize doing, so I ended up keeping the house together. We both worked full time but having to hope she would do her half was exhausting and ill be glad not to worry about it. I have thought about taking some cooking classes. I can cook some meals and follow recipes but it mig…
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 12:13 PM
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How am I supposed to chnage those thoughts? EVERYTHING i have to do in the next 2 months is because of her. I have to dismantle my entire fucking life because of her. Because she has wealthy parents who are bending over backwards to make sure she is ok. They are helping her sign a lease. Paying for her new apartment, paying for her lawer, paying for her to fly down to texas where they live. There is nothing to look forward to, there is no scenario where i financially recover in less than YEARS. …
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 02:15 AM
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