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It is hard to speak much in the club and as general advice I would say - let actions speak louder than words. However, you have to do some basic talking eventually. If you don't want to kill the dance immersion, you will have to talk to her in a loud environment. Dancing is great for getting physical and even better if you are good dancer. Just talk about basic stuff, don't be afraid to lean in to her. In this environment you shouldn't worry about "pecking" but rather focus on getting your messa…
/r/seduction26/06/17 02:19 AM
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It depends on the individual. Sometimes it's better to be a bit more verbal than physical, sometimes it's better to be more physical than verbal. Personally, I try to minimise the words I use and let my actions speak louder than words with a pretty high success rate.
/r/seduction11/02/17 03:45 PM
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So basicly you try to justify yourself, cope and you don't have any will to change. I honestly don't really care if you take my advice or not, but there are reasons why you don't get any girls. Your attitude might be one of these reasons. The problem is that you mistake pick-up with seduction. Seduction is a whole other process. No one practicing seduction tries to manipulate women for sex. It is about being honest with yourself and being honest to others. You obviously don't know anything about…
/r/seduction11/02/17 03:41 PM
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I don't use online dating at all at the moment. I meet new women mostly in clubs every single week. I am not a model type looking kind of guy either. I maximized my looks - hair, gym, clothes, skin, and so on. I would consider myself as an average looking guy without looks maxing and with everything I did to maximize my looks as a guy looking a bit above average. I can give you a simplified way of how my club/bar visits look like. I cannot go into exact detail as it would probably go beyond the …
/r/seduction11/02/17 05:53 AM
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Nope, don't do it. Get to know her for real, and don't try things you see in movies. I can most certainly say this will lead nowhere except making everything awkward in future. If opportunities to get to know her are rare, just tell her you would like to get to know her, exchange numbers - you get the idea. Get to know her. No need to creep her out with a random flower if everything between you two has been platonic so far.
/r/seduction11/02/17 03:43 AM
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Right now, I have casual sex with multiple women. If you don't want her in a relationship-kind of way, then simply keep it as casual as it gets. Make her feel wanted, let her feel passion, however don't mention feelings. If she ever asks whether you have feelings for her, or if she ever wants more, just be honest to her. I don't hide anything from my casual dates, however, I don't mention anything in particular either. If they ask me whether I meeet other women, I am honest to them. I don't tell…
/r/seduction11/02/17 03:39 AM
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I am not entirely sure what you expect out of this thread. You seem very very desperate right now. Real men don't put up an act when approaching women, they just genuinely go for an interaction they may enjoy. Sure, when you use some random useless canned material, treat the whole situation like something completely new and special, then you will come across as some weirdo trying to pick-up women. Why even try online dating if you aren't willing to put some effort into it? Many guys use professi…
/r/seduction11/02/17 03:21 AM
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I actually get along with women pretty well, because in contrast to you I try to offer them some amazing experience with some genuine connection. As of right now I do not use online dating at all and meet enough women by simply going out. However, you seem to be pretty inexperienced and uncalibrated when it comes to women. It is completely fine that you are not that experience yet, BUT its is not okay blaming women for any of your fails or even worse talking bad about them. Even if she is in cel…
/r/seduction10/02/17 03:37 PM
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Hope you are not serious. Who the fuck asks women for sex/plans sex and even worse, who the hell does this via tinder. Buddy, do yourself a favor and stop being some weirdo.
/r/seduction10/02/17 04:27 AM
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All of my first dates consist of me either going to her place or she coming over to my place. So yes, it is definitely possible. Whether we go to my place or her place is dependent on her living situation. I check their logistics, if I know she lives alone, I will say something like "lets go to your place, I bring wine" after I already set up the day of our date. If she does not live alone I will tell her to come over to my place. For me this works 90% of the time. However, it might not work for…
/r/seduction09/02/17 01:53 AM
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Good job that you had the courage to approach her. However, thinking this number will lead somewhere as of right now is something kind of utopian. She barely knows you, she rejected your proposal to meet, and I dont think she will accept meeting you if you ask her via text. Things you did well: You had the balls to approach, you initiated a conversation, you isolated her, and you received a number out of it (even though it is not a solid number and it will probably lead nowhere) Things you shoul…
/r/seduction09/02/17 01:36 AM
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Everything you say through snapchat once you are horny will be dumb stuff that won't lead anywhere except making you look like a creep. If you want nudes date girls for real and stuff like this will develop.
/r/seduction29/01/17 03:33 AM
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Initially I tell them something like "lets hangout next week" for example. Before I say this, I mostly check whats their living situation like. (Do they live alone?) Once they agree I leave it as that and try to keep in touch casually, no big texting. Once the day of the actual date/hangout approaches, I come up with more specific plans. If she lives alone I immediately tell her something like "Lets go to your place, I'll bring wine". This has always worked for me so far. If she is hesitant, off…
/r/seduction29/01/17 03:29 AM
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Good job mate. I have been out solo countless times myself without approaching. It still helps you in your progress. It is not embarassing to not approach anyone. Trust me, you do something the majority of guys don't even have the balls to do. If you can do this, you will also learn to get over your AA. I have had many awesome solo nights out. You will have too. Also it is always good to also approach guy groups and befriend them. They can help you getting into your state and take off some of yo…
/r/seduction29/01/17 02:39 AM
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Female friends are just as important as male friends. I think the reason why you fall into this oneitis trap is because you do not have that much success with girls yet. So any experience with girls kind of still feels special. I have many female friends and I've landed quite some lays just because I met their female friends. They are also beneficial to get a female opinion on things and entering a club or whatever venue with girls will always help you. So how do you avoid this oneitis feeling? …
/r/seduction29/01/17 02:34 AM
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As of right now I am having only casual sex with 3-4 different women. I am not really searching for a relationship myself right now. How do I do it? I am genuine and honest. I don't lie to girls that she is the only one just to get sex. Even though I try to give each girl a unique awesome experience, I also communicate that I am only interested in some casual stuff right now. If you communicate this, do it calibrated. No need to say something like "Yo, I only wanna fuck you". Make her feel value…
/r/seduction29/01/17 02:25 AM
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I can only talk about my personal experiences. However, I haven't seen a single person who could get a girl just because his game is so awesome. In my experiences girls either feel some attraction at the beginning of your interaction or they don't. This attraction is probably caused by looks for the most part. Few other factors like social proof etc. apply too, but if she isn't physically attracted to you, she won't even give you the chance of having an interaction. So what is game? Game is what…
/r/seduction28/01/17 07:07 PM
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Not true at all. All you have to consider is that you are exchanging equal amount of investment/texts. There is no specific number saying it's too much. It's situational.
/r/seduction27/01/17 05:09 PM
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Doing this regularly. I live next to a city with multiple universities, so there are many venues that offer parties for university students during the week. There are definitely less people but still always worth it in my opinion.
/r/seduction26/01/17 03:37 AM
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She will not ask you out after a coffee date. She will mostly not even ask you out after you had sex. It's your task. She won't "let you know". If you enjoyed the time with her and you have the feeling that she enjoyed the time with you, just ask her out again.
/r/seduction24/01/17 05:14 PM
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No, this does not apply for high school and probably not for talking to strangers in the daylight for the most part. This mostly applies for clubs/bars/houseparties. Yea, in high school you probably want to be somewhat more careful about what you do as first of all people are still pretty young, so the general seduction principles might not even apply here due to lack of maturity. Girls might not be mature enough and feel creeped out after literally nothing happened. I did not know about seducti…
/r/seduction20/01/17 03:07 AM
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Don't try to be charming over text. It does not work and will be misinterpreted most of the time. Save your charm for personal interactions, do it with the right intentions and you should be good to go. If I get a new number I try to build a minimum amount of comfort at the start and as soon as I feel like she is comfortable enough I will just ask her out on a date. I have experienced a very very little flake rate this way and get the date most of the time. Key is to do all the work before you e…
/r/seduction20/01/17 02:07 AM
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Well, if you look yourself: http://imgur.com/a/DFtJL I literally did very little of gaming here and set up most stuff before we even started texting. I do not use cold numbers because they are waste for me the majority of time. I rather offer her a genuinely good experience from the very beginning and set up a solid number instantly. Texting skills might apply to online dating, even though I am very very sure that your photos make more of a difference than your actual texts here. I've tried it i…
/r/seduction13/01/17 04:59 AM
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Give me a PM I will upload you one of my most recent conversations and translate it into English for you.
/r/seduction12/01/17 03:23 AM
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I do very little of texting. I try to build just a tiny bit of comfort through texting and then instantly ask her out. Key here is that you do enough work before you guys even start texting. This means you do most of the work while being in person together, before you exchange numbers and start texting. If you have done enough work, you can most likely consider this number as "solid". If you did not, chances are she won't go out with you or will flake on you. No texting skills in the world will …
/r/seduction12/01/17 01:51 AM
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I mostly only approach if I get IOIs. Something I try to change in future and hopefully eventually be able to cold approach. If I notice a few IOIs I approach the woman most of the time. If she starts grinding me I take this as a very strong IOI and act immediately. I will grind with her and eventually turn her around and start "gaming" / leading her. The gaming part is pretty much dependent on the situation and the girl. I generally hit the bar first and get some drinks. If I am out with female…
/r/seduction10/01/17 08:33 PM
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There are a few more factors. My social proof due to the girl I entered the club with and having genuine fun in general was pretty high. However, like I said I have known her for quite some time now and there were times we went out together like every single week. Yet, I did not get approached as often. Ever since I maximised my looks in all regards I would say I get approached at least every second time I go out. This year I have been approached every single time I went out. While this is proba…
/r/seduction10/01/17 05:43 PM
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Mistakes have been made. However, also progress has been made. It is all part of a bigger picture :)
/r/seduction05/01/17 04:02 AM
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Read the comment above and my other field reports. I am always honest about how the girls look like and get zero out of lying here. Everything is pretty much explained in my comment above, however you should really rethink calling other people "retarded" to whatever degree, if you are the one who slut shames a girl. I am sure you are getting laid a lot with this attitude :)
/r/seduction05/01/17 12:27 AM
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Definitely agree with you here. Thanks for your input, will try to implement it in the future.
/r/seduction05/01/17 12:22 AM
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Totally agree with you. I acted too careless at the end and I hope I learn out of this experience. Thanks for your thoughts :)
/r/seduction05/01/17 12:06 AM
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So lets clear some things up. The story happened exactly like I have written. I literally get zero out of obscuring any facts. If you read my other field reports I am in no way some pro in terms of sealing the deal. I am not a model type looking guy myself but I am definitely above average. I workout 5 times per week, I have fitting tight clothes, I have an expensive haircut, I use perfume, I even make sure the small nuances are all matching me and my style. So yea, I worked on maximising my loo…
/r/seduction05/01/17 12:02 AM
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This is really good advice here and I completely agree. I should have definitely started caring a bit more especially at the very end. Will think about it next time it happens.
/r/seduction04/01/17 11:29 PM
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Don't ring up her boss. Move on.
/r/seduction19/11/16 01:47 AM
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Sounds like some kind of shit test to me. - Accept exaggerate and laugh, ignore or misinterpret. Don't get emotional, pass it and move on with something different. That is all there is basicly.
/r/seduction04/11/16 03:26 AM
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Wear what fits to you personality / your looks. For example, I love wearing a well fitting suit, feel much more confident in it and if it does anything, it would probably make me feel on top of my shit. The way you feel will project on your environment. However, you should probably consider in what venues you go. Bars/pubs can be awesome places for a suit as they are visited by all kinds of people. Moreover, it is a fitting image. If you go to clubs however, you should probably aim for the more …
/r/seduction04/11/16 03:20 AM
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I live in a western European country, parties / nightlife usually start at like 12am and end at ~ 5am - 9am. So I mostly go out at like 12am - 2 am.
/r/seduction31/10/16 07:39 PM
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True, basicly sums up the things I mentioned in the "Things I need to work on" section.
/r/seduction31/10/16 04:37 PM
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