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[–]amjimmbo 25 points26 points27 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
At around 2am I eventually started going to the city
Is it just me that thinks that's late? Most of our bars close at 2 or 3am
[–]Ryan_Nall 9 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
I live in a western European country, parties / nightlife usually start at like 12am and end at ~ 5am - 9am. So I mostly go out at like 12am - 2 am.
[–]amjimmbo 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's pretty cool I never knew that. And planning a trip to Europe next year and am excited to check it out!
[–]Purecorrupt 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Interesting. Everything where I live closes at 2am except for strip clubs and maybe a karoake bar.
[–]askright 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Italy, portugal and Spain all night long
[–]Purecorrupt 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good to know if I ever visit Europe!
[–]GuestsGetGreens 19 points20 points21 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn man. You have some great game and instincts. Don't second guess yourself. If you had told the 32yr old "let's go home now" you could have slept with her at almost any point of the interaction. You played the 20yr old perfectly. Ask for numbers, get bold. You got this shit.
[–]nonsass 27 points28 points29 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
girls are approaching you left and right you lucky mofo! :)
You must be handsome. I'm jealous!
thanks for the Field report.
[–]Willkuer_ 8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Somehow this was really a nice read. I will think of this the next time I am going solo (wednesday).
[–]leprogrammist 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have to cloooooooose man. Close or be forgotten. That's a sad fact of the night. ;) Respect for going out alone.
[–]Overnight_Delivery 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this is like a perfect example of how to go out casual
[–]galactic_fury 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Firstly, masterful FR. It was a very enjoyable read. Hope you continue to post more!
The 32 y/o was totally into you. When you guys were alone, you really should have gone for a kiss. I can see why her friends' hostility would affect you, and it is rather alarming when strangers have such a negative opinion of you without even knowing you well, but such is the way nightlife works. Don't take it personally, and focus on the one thing that was going well.
From what you describe, the 32 y/o was looking for a hookup. So yeah, if that is what you were looking for, you really missed an opportunity.
[–]checkmatey10 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"So instead of number closing at least Larissa, I went full chicken mode and went to the train station."
LOL I laughed my ass off reading this
I've been trying to night game solo but every time I reach the venue, I freeze up and walk back home. So hey big props to you for going out solo at night!
[–]dukechaz 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is a quality report here OP and something everyone should read who has difficulty or doesn't like going out solo. It sounds like you had two or three ladies teed up - just need to close one. Or in the absence of a hard close, get a number.
Overall, well done. It's refreshing to read a solid night field report.
[+]Andreas-Lubitz -19 points-18 points-17 points 9 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ryan_Nall 9 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
True, basicly sums up the things I mentioned in the "Things I need to work on" section.
[–]joebaker1157 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hatters gonna hat. Good on you for looking at it objectively, OP. You have to accept where you're at in order to get to where you want to go. You're probably right in that you're over thinking the kino and other forms of escalation, BUT you're out there grinding so next time you probably won't think about it/hesitate as much, if at all.
[–]revente 11 points12 points13 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
On the other hand op:
-went out alone instead of choosing comfort of his home
-had many isigthful interactions and valuable experience
-spent time to reflect and write a field report
Progress will come naturally just keep going out and remember that we are proud of every little step you make!
[–]Strike48-6 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Reminds of the posts on /r/Fitness "I went to the gym, went inside and went back to my car and cried. Good first step!".
Ridiculous. Sometimes, you need to have some balls and actually do more than the bare minimum. He didnt do much even when served pussy in a platter because he decided to stay comfortable. Good for him for leaving home, but that doesnt get you results alone.
[–]tractorinballs 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You speak truth, this was a painful read.
[–]GreekLobsta 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like he had a decent night and had fun, sure he could have easily done what you're all saying but he should also do those things naturally and not force himself. Sounds like he's confident and secure as well as being just the right amount of nonchalant and fun enough to talk to whoever he wants. He'll be able to # close or take someone home/ whatever if he wants in the future. Sometimes it's just not the right person/time.
Edit: auto correct fucking me.
[–]tractorinballs 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah great, but I read expecting something. And it was just like "ok here is what I did" there was no point in this field report.
[–]GreekLobsta 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Except for it sounds like he's mastered a lot of the tactics this subreddit suggests and they're working for him. He's got more to work on but it seems like he's grasped the core principal of seduction which is be a man women want to be close to right off the bat.
[–]Strike482 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You're joking right? He went out to a bar and did nothing but drink and smoke... The women had more balls than he did. They actually approached.
[–]trungttrg 9 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
What do you mean by plan of action? Can you elaborate more?
[–]Andreas-Lubitz 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Put it this way, He is wishy washy, he wondered around without any goal on his mind, instead he is easily swayed by those girls and circumstances like wind does to waves. He should've made it clear what he wanted out if that night and line out steps to accomplish this. Since he got APPROACHED by girls which is a huge thing (girls are attracted by his looks and basically make things easier for him) but he had no idea how to proceed then - which is tease, banter, lots of kino for sexual tension, then rapport, then seduction). This is the map of interaction. Notice how that MILF had him guess her age, she lead the interaction, and literally had her bitchy friends to torment him.
[–]darkwolfx24678 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Restating what he said doesn't help in the least.
[–]Andreas-Lubitz 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Obviously he's a handsome dude, that's why girls approach him and make things easier for him. He just have no clue what to do to although we have countless game resources on here.
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