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#JustLVMThingsSavvyInNYC/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 11:43 PM
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DISCUSSIONSavvyInNYC/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:39 PM
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DISCUSSIONSavvyInNYC/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:42 PM
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Ask him who he’s giving a BJ to then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:52 PM
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“Only the insecure ones. Why do you ask?” “Well, don’t go changing now.” “That’s probably because you keep confusing the mirror for a window.” “Understandable. I keep hoping to meet a man that I can have one with too. Maybe someday.” “K.” (Boy they hate the “k”)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:56 PM
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Sounds a lot like ADHD Inattentive type. Have you been tested?
/r/askFDS16/02/21 11:17 AM
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My parents got married 5 weeks after meeting on a cruise ship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:31 PM
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It’s always amused me because I AM an actress. My casting type is “femme fatale” “seductress” and “vixen” most often. Honestly, I prefer them thinking we are fat, ugly, and old. I get enough attention as it is. I don’t need theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:02 AM
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Yes, it’s incredibly impressive. She’s amazing. And good for her for doing it in that crowd. I think she might have dropped this 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:01 PM
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It’s a troll account. People (men usually) make accounts, post extremely controversial comments like this towards people that are known to be vocal, they respond and repost it, talk about it, etc.. it goes viral and then the troll account makes money. It’s why a lot of failed comedians become alt-right “supporters” They don’t believe in that BS, they just know that it is a way to stay relevant. Every time we post about one of these misogynistic accounts, we are helping them make more money. Edit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:26 PM
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I’m not into rap but I am almost always very impressed by rap battles. They do make it up on the spot! Many times they go to the battle and right before are given a topic and they have to rap about that topic instantly. It’s actually why, if you listen to interviews with rappers (tho why would you? It’s mostly trash) they’re usually very funny. They’re very quick witted, you have to be, lol. Edit: Reddit is glitched for me so I had to post a half finished comment, finished it with the edit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:15 PM
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Absolutely agree. I am sorry this happened to you, sis. And while he lied to her about your messages, he didn’t really lie to her about your “relationship” You were just some girl he was messaging. Again, I am sorry and you don’t deserve any of this. This scenario is exactly why FDS makes men prove the things they say. Promises are easy. He’s clearly a POS that doesn’t see women as people with feelings. I hope karma comes for his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:14 PM
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I combined finances with my man and we live together. Of course, we are engaged but we aren’t married yet. Oh.. by combining finances I mean that when he moved in, he started depositing the majority of his paycheck into my checking account. I told him I can be particular with money and he had no problem with it. 💁🏻‍♀️ I love that man lmao Edit: this is also why I mentioned on a thread about not judging who hands you the debit card to pay. A sister here talked about how she felt bad for a woman t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:02 PM
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Lmao.. right? Of course she was at work and he.. wasn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:39 PM
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I never understood the YouTube culture of commentary about other youtubers doing things but I guess someone finds it entertaining. I personally prefer watching the women that make gaming videos. You don’t run into the vile idiocy like the streamer in the article. Women are far more articulate and entertaining. Leave it to women to come into the gaming culture and improve it just by being there. Apparently we have to do everything lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:09 PM
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Lol how? One word.. MONEY. Unbelievable how much Twitch/YouTubers can make. That one sounds dumb af tho. Supposedly. SMH. I’m sure he “allegedly” screamed at the baby too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:32 PM
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I saw a small update on this. The mother was at work while this was happening and when she found out she kicked him out of the house. She claims, anyway. I’m hoping it’s true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:30 PM
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A week or two ago, some scrote tried to claim that it was possible Drake (32) had only been texting 14 year old Millie Bobby Brown for “platonic reasons” Yeah.. no. What the FUCK does a 32 year old man have to say to a 14 year old girl? Regardless of her celebrity status?? Not to mention the fact that Drake has history of being “just friends” with underage girls in the past and then they just happened to fall in love on her 18th bday. Yeah ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:22 PM
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“Me too.” And then dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:52 AM
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My job is in the public eye so I get this on the daily. I just say “Thanks for the attention and reaffirming that I’m out of your league!” They don’t like that. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:51 AM
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They’ve been a lot of fun! I started wearing them in December as a one off for something special. I got so many compliments that I’ve incorporated them (I’ve bought multiple now) into my regular looks. Told my fiancé “I sure am glad I waited 10 months (COVID) and spent $400 to get my hair done just to stuff it under a wig half the time” 🤦🏻‍♀️ lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:37 AM
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Amazon! Just search for VCKOVCKO wigs. Should come up. They have a good selection of colors. For me, the colors were more vivid/saturated (which was good). The purple looks pretty washed out in the picture but was a much deeper purple in person. Hers looks like A-Purple Pink, to me. But it could also be Lovely Pink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:34 AM
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I have that wig in purple. Surprisingly good quality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 02:49 PM
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I never sleep with men that have a high body count. Unfortunately this seems to have the opposite intended effect. I want HBC men to leave me alone but me not wanting them drives them nuts and they want to add me to their list of “conquests” even more. It’s annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 08:48 PM
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Yes, you gotta read the rules for other subs! A LOT of them have rules that specifically state if you promote FDS or mention them in a comment, you will be blocked. Some will block you if they find out you’ve POSTED on FDS before. Just DM them and avoid the foolishness lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 08:43 PM
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This is the time that someone is putting their best self forward. Where they want to impress the other person the most because they are so excited to have a shot. This guy doesn’t sound like he cares all that much, does he? Think of it this way.. would he have forgotten a date with Margot Robbie? Would he have waited for her to confirm plans with him the day of? Or would he have spent the day trying to look his best and getting flowers and making sure his car was washed and double checking the r…
/r/askFDS19/01/21 12:02 PM
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Check out Hell Let Loose. Beautiful graphics, 50v50 teams over historically accurate WW2 battlefields. There are 10+ different positions on the 50 man team (so not everyone is a sniper, whatever). All the weaponry/armor/vehicles are time period accurate as well. It’s not a story game so that might not be a draw and you will HAVE to play with others since the teams are so large. You can bring your own squad but they limit numbers so you will be playing with others even if you have a squad of frie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:02 PM
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I date short men that you can’t tell are short. My fiancé is a good example. He’s 5’6-5’7 (I’m 5’3) and he walks into a room and he is just so warm and friendly and with such a big personality that you honestly don’t see him as “short”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:56 PM
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“Women’s lives are not auditions to be your wives.” Tweet that I saw on FDS and has stuck with me. We know. We know what you want. We know what you find attractive. We know. We just don’t care. The purpose in our lives is not to cater to you. And it is so hard for so many men to understand that WE DONT LIVE OUR DAY TO DAY LIVES THINKING ABOUT MEN. They spend nearly every waking hour thinking about women. And they can’t comprehend that women are not the same. We don’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:53 PM
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I’m in my 30s and childfree. I just never had that maternal drive. Never played “mommies” as a kid, never babysat as a teenager, never dreamed of popping out children as an adult. I have about 10 years to decide if I want any but I can’t see it, honestly. I’m in my dream career, living in a beautiful apartment in one of the most expensive cities (would NOT be possible with a child), and I feel like my entire future is open for possibilities. I recently got engaged and my fiancé and I were discus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:48 PM
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Literally none. I know one woman that was on the fence with children and her husband didn’t want any. So they decided not to. They put a lot of time into building up their company instead. They are very wealthy and have been recognized in their city over and over for their volunteering with impoverished children. They also spend their time traveling the world and buying homes and throwing parties and basically living it up. Last year was the husband’s 50th and they spent a month in Egypt. Needle…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:34 PM
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Not only that, there are women here (like myself) that have spoken up about the positives in gaming. I’ve always made a very big distinction between a “gamer” vs an addict. And when I’ve posted about gaming and gamers, this “hate sub” (🙄) has always discussed it respectfully. I’ve had some women agree with me and quite a few disagree. But never has anyone on here ever been disrespectful or attacking or anything negative during the arguments for and against gaming. This is honestly one of the mos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:52 AM
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Aah. So he wants to sleep with her but knows she’s too smart to sleep with him. Gotcha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:00 AM
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Well, if you can’t/won’t cut this friend out then at least say things like “What woman taught you that?” when he does anything remotely intelligent. Like he makes a smart argument about something: “Damn, that was smart. What woman did you hear that from?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 11:59 PM
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“Oh I LOVE giving blowjobs! It’s literally my favorite sex act! But wait.. are you very sensitive? I have this medical issue.. it’s called Mandibular Snapping Syndrome. Basically my jaw snaps violently shut unexpectedly and gets locked. That won’t be a problem, right?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:01 AM
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I listed in an above comment where some of her income would be coming from. I could absolutely be wrong about her income before porn, but I would be utterly SHOCKED if it wasn’t in the six figures. It’s totally possible that she spent through it all, of course. But her spending habits would have to be off the charts. Take her passive YT income.. she doesn’t actively utilize YT (in fact, she only has 2 vids on her channel), the last one being a 2 minute video uploaded a month ago. And she still m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:05 AM
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Oh, she definitely is. You would not believe how much money popular streamers make on places like Twitch and YT. Add in Snapchat, IG, and OnlyFans.. it’s incredible how much money that generates. Belle has an estimated 25k OF subscribers. At $35 a sub. That’s underestimating, btw. OF would be bringing in roughly $875k alone. And that is not counting any other type of income from her YT (1.8 million subscribers), Patreon subs (about 3.5k), Snap ($50 for premium), her merchandise store, and now wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:29 AM
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Quite possibly. But she had an OF for a year with zero content on it (during her break) that still had around 10k active subscriptions. Even if her sub price was just $1 she was pulling in $120k a year for nothing. That’s not counting her YT revenue or her Snap content (though again, I don’t think she was active over the year long break but it was still pulling passive income). Honestly, I think she’s just a broken girl inside (she’s spoken about intense bullying when she was younger) and has go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:04 AM
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Unlikely. She was making a few hundred thousand a month BEFORE she got into porn. She just recently (within the last 3 months or so) made the switch to actual sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:17 AM
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The BBB is actually a privately owned business. They accept complaints and will approach the companies with “options” of getting rid of those complaints (ie become paying members of the BBB to get a good rating). This is speaking from personal experience. My family owned a large company and the BBB approached us to become members for a BBB stamp and they could assure us we would always have a good rating. We refused because we didn’t need them.. run your company right and you don’t need “protect…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:46 PM
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This was the one season of 90 Day Fiancé that I watched. That guy didn’t have 1 kid.. he had 5 KIDS WITH 4 DIFFERENT WOMEN. He lied to the fiancée and had said he only had 3 kids until 2 weeks before she moved when he finally fessed up that it was actually 5. The 1 kid the other guy is talking about is just the only kid that the dude had full custody of. Just throwing that all in because I couldn’t believe what a loser this dude was. Edit a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 08:01 AM
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Just because they desire you, doesn’t mean they value you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:22 PM
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Absolutely fair and a very valid point! Lol it’s a shame that certain games can’t be sold to just women. Because all of my favorite side storylines in Cyberpunk have been about the female characters and their badass histories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:23 AM
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I have firsthand experience with this game.. Don’t listen to the disgusting scrotes. There are no sex scenes enforced in the story (meaning that the only time your character has sex is if you purposely seek it out). This game also, unlike 99% of other games, can be played entirely passively. You can win this game without killing a single person. They’ve also included a lot of very strong female characters and been very inclusive with transsexual characters as well (a lot of scrotes didn’t like f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:06 AM
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I would need a source on that. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, just that the clinic would be opening themselves up to millions and millions of dollars worth of litigation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:23 AM
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Honestly? Sperm banks would probably be the way to go.. Full medical screenings, full background checks, certain height requirements, age requirements, education preferences/requirements, full lists of hobbies/physical activities/intellectual pursuits, and binders of answered questions along with pictures of the donors. Including information on their parents and grandparents as well. Reputable sperm banks make the money because they deliver on the goods. Note: I am not speaking from experience a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:40 PM
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This happened to me. There was a man that was creeping on me at the grocery store, staring at me every time I turned a corner. Get to the checkout and he’s 2 people behind me. Give my number to the cashier for the rewards program (have to say it out loud, they don’t have scannable cards). Next day I get a text from someone I don’t know. It’s a dude trying to neg me. Instantly knew it was him. It was creepy AF. This is why my number is tied to one of my parent’s companies and is almost impossible…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 11:29 PM
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True! It absolutely depends on how he speaks about the women in his past and the precise words he uses. What I was trying to say was that when I meet someone and if he does have a past relationship that would be described as (for lack of a better word) “crazy” I wouldn’t immediately write him off. Unless he was the type to say things like “All my exes are crazy!” or “The last 3 women I dated went psycho on me!” Then I bounce because that displays a pattern. Anyone that speaks overly bad about th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:20 PM
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I give it 1. Anyone can make a mistake. And with the amount of desperate PickMes out there, it can happen that one turns out to be an unexpected bunny boiler. If it happens twice? It’s a pattern. See ya!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:42 PM
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I have to get to know someone before I can form a really deep attraction to them. So I tend to cast a wider net.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 09:00 AM
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Pictures of children (especially if they don’t belong to him) Any type of info/pic that is not listed due to “don’t want my coworkers to find me on a dating site!” but are “willing to text pics/whatever you want to know!” Youre not slick, dipshit.. we know you’re married. Hunting pictures or any picture where they are holding a gun. (Side note: I’m not even personally opposed to guns but if I’m looking for possible men to meet from the internet, I don’t want anything to make me even think of vio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:15 AM
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Well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:06 AM
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Believe it or not.. Costco. They have an online store (just google “costco jewelry”) with a large selection of rings. Priced anywhere from $1000 to $500,000. They all come with appraisal paperwork too, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:22 AM
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Reposted with names blocked out. And a reminder.. WOMEN DONT OWE ANYONE “NICE”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:43 PM
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The second joke, while funny, is a really old meme. So he’s not even original.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 08:56 PM
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I love your name and agree fully. This is fake. He’s a comedian. But if it was real I don’t think it would be a viable case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 08:56 PM
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“WoMeN aReN’t FuNnY” a man says as he walks into the living room to watch an episode of The Office written by Mindy Kaling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 05:59 AM
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Lmao I get that one a lot. I also get “Take it from someone that’s older than you..” How old are you? “32” Sir, I’m 36. I also get asked when I’m graduating. “2007.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:08 AM
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My fiancé deposits the bulk of his paycheck in my account each payday so when we’re out shopping, it’s usually my card that pays since I have all the money!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 10:24 AM
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Lmao of course the husband is going to convince her that she’s responsible. He was probably ecstatic. Not only was his affair now out in the open, but the troublesome mistress with the inconvenient love child ran off, leaving his child to take up AAALLLL of his wife’s time freeing him up to find new mistresses. He’s going to do everything he can to get her back. He had it made. Or he’ll stick one of his current mistresses in the wife/baby mama role and move on to mistress #4 (or 8 or 15).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:38 AM
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These men are just so fucking stupid. Child pornography and rape SHOULD be censored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 08:02 PM
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I honestly have no idea! I think he said “I didn’t think it was a big deal and they didn’t ask me!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:42 PM
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I’m not sure if we’re allowed to link posts from other subreddits but I’ll look for it and DM you! Edit: found it and sending it to you now. Enjoy! Edit 2: oops, wont let me send. You can google “AITA donated sperm actually short” and it’s the first one that came up for me. Posted Dec 3rd 2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:41 PM
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Lol I remember an AITA from a week or so ago about a guy that donated. He would have naturally been about 5’2-5’4 but took HGH on his doctors recommendation and grew to be around 5’10. He did NOT disclose this on his forms. He was talking to the recipients (they were friends) and they mentioned something about how their son is very short and they were concerned. He let it slip about the HGH and they were pissed. They’re now attempting to sue him for fraud and for $$$ for medical costs. He though…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 02:38 PM
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Where the FUCK is the spaghetti even supposed to go?? Are they just going to share one fork? Take turns? What the actual fuck. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:18 AM
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Women need to stop fucking men that can’t act right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 09:01 PM
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There are a few different hair options for your female character, or you can turn the genital nudity completely off. I haven’t reached the part in the story for the sex scenes but I believe that both male and female characters can choose to have sex (or not) with either gender and oral is an option for both. I think one of the options is also to just be able to talk to the character rather than have sex with them (but I’ll give you two guesses to what LVM will always pick lmao) For the nude woma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:27 AM
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An acquaintance said that in a group chat once and I said “That’s because you never leave your mom’s basement.” Guess it hit a little too close to home because he never tried using that meme again. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:09 AM
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So he broke into her laptop and WATCHED her sex tape without permission? And she’s worried about HIS feelings?? I would be FURIOUS. Like consulting with a lawyer type of livid. What a piece of shit to violate his own wife in that way. And then to give her the silent treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:34 PM
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You need to view your body through your own eyes and not through the eyes of how your body can benefit a man. What does your body do for YOU? What do YOU like about your body? Find the answers to those questions and start cherishing your own body. Trust me, when you truly believe and treat your body for the beautiful piece of art it is, men will see it how you see it. But by that time, hopefully, you won’t care how they see it. Because it’s yours and that makes it beautiful. Regardless of your c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:27 PM
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I feel like you care way too much about what men supposedly want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:18 PM
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“I didn’t ask how you felt about it.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 09:40 PM
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No ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:49 AM
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Sorry :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:44 AM
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Try it when you’re in a bigger city. It’s so common for people to eat alone in my city (NYC) it’s almost strange if you say you never do it! Everyone I know goes out alone sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:28 AM
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My ex said this too. And then would get mad at me the next day because too many men hit on me. So which was it, darling? No one else will love me or too many men are trying to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:55 AM
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Absolutely a nightmare. I hate when people say “bullet dodged” but you really did get out of it for the better! Imagine ending up married to him.. What a frustrating, sad, lonely life that would have been.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:14 AM
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Don’t forget tho, she was probably being such a bitch because of all the bullshit and lies he’s been telling her about you. Not to absolve her. She sounds pretty awful and like a pickme. But men rarely lie to just 1 woman when they’re cheating. They lie TO their gfs and also ABOUT them too. Cheaters only care about themselves and getting what they want. Congrats on losing the dead weight tho! I hope your holiday season will now be much less stressful without that asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:23 PM
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It’s cheaper to pay for a babysitter than it is to pay child support. That’s why so many want 50/50 custody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:25 PM
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The dude who wrote this describes himself (in all seriousness) as “an intellectual rebel” Sorry, but I was laughing too hard to actually make it through the “article.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 08:04 PM
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I live in a beautiful apartment in one of the most exciting cities in the world. My business is taking off like crazy. I created it from basically the ground up, and now I spend my days working on my passion. I’m about to start planning my wedding. Having a wedding isn’t really something to be proud of, of course. But I think my fiancé and I are going to make it really beautiful, so I anticipate we are both going to be proud of it once the day comes. I’m also proud of all of you guys. So many ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:54 PM
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Imagine caring so much. I have literally never visited that sub. Or RedPill or MGTOW. You know why? I don’t give a fuck about them. Let them scream into the wind with only other incels around to hear it. I don’t care. Have fun. Yet they spend all this time analyzing us, creating posts, breaking down our posts and comments, DMing our members.. Jesus. Imagine telling on yourself like that. I move to vote we leave their posts over there and stop bringing them over here. They add absolutely no value…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:46 PM
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Men: GuYs NeVeR gEt CoMpLiMeNtS Man compliments other man: WTF, I’m not a homo, I’ll kick your ass, motherfucker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:35 PM
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If the woman is the lower earner, I wonder how much more lucrative her business would be now if she didn’t have to take time off relating to pregnancy, birth, recovery, and those first few months of the child’s life? Times 2?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:40 PM
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Thanks for the part 2! This has to be a prank on their end. If not a prank, that dude is right, they are terrible friends, lmao. Blind leading the blind. Pickmeishas leading pickmeishas 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:16 PM
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That would be awesome. Lol I need to see this dudes face when she asks him lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:09 PM
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Thank you! I don’t have TikTok (don’t even get me started on the security issues! Lol). Is there a way to see it without downloading the app?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:03 PM
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I need part 2 of this train wreck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:59 PM
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Good luck as both of us ignore the question and walk away laughing. I have literally never even bothered saying “no” when some loser asks. I just keep walking like he doesn’t exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:41 AM
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I’m 5’3 and I’ve had a mix. Most men, I’ve found, like the height difference because it makes them feel big and “manly.” My partners loved getting asked to get things from the top shelf, carry stuff, open jars, hang shelves, pick me up and carry me, bear hugs, etc. I do absolutely think there are those types of men that fetishize it. On the other hand, there seems to be no shortage of young women that want to play into the whole young thing, loli or whatever. Edit grammar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:37 AM
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*tried to murder Rihanna. I read the police report and saw the pictures. He didn’t just hit her.. he beat the shit out of her. He definitely should have been charged with attempted murder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 09:11 PM
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You might find the book Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay very helpful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:39 AM
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Yeah, I’m gonna pass on that life with my whole self. No thank you very much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:48 AM
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Most likely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:50 AM
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Save yourself the headache and just accept now that you don’t want older men! I spent years trying to force myself to date older because that’s what I thought I should want. I’m in my 30s now, and let me tell you a little secret sis.. once I accepted that I like younger men.. DATING GOT SO MUCH EASIER. Don’t get me wrong, men of all ages hit on me. And there are quite a few older HVM. But opening yourself up to the younger guys.. ooohhh boy. It’s been a lot of fun. I feel like younger men tend t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:16 PM
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Hedy Lamarr is one of my favorites. And if you don’t know Hedy, then ya need to. This is Hedy: https://images.app.goo.gl/ghaESAVwNSnXknGa6 She was Hollywood ROYALTY. When Louis B Mayer (you know, the guy that created MGM) decided to steal her from Europe, where she had a nice little films career, to star in films in Hollywood he promoted her as the “worlds most beautiful woman.” Except when he first offered her a contract for $125/week she said nah, fam. I’m worth more than that. She negotiated …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:00 PM
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Queen 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:12 PM
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He’d probably have to hire a fumigator too! Or just bulldoze the place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:45 AM
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I KNOW. I went thru YT looking at some of his vids and a lot of them have to do with the state of his room/house so I almost wonder if he plays up the nastiness or just does it on purpose for the views. Either that or he seriously needs an intervention. Because no healthy person lives that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:57 AM
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I mean, the dude makes 45k a month. He literally has no excuse. It’s disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:44 AM
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Would you believe this guy actually makes about $45,000 a month? There is literally no excuse for this and I hope he put literal trash on his desk BEFORE the video just for content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:43 AM
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Honestly I think every hobby and profession attracts the type of LVM you described. Does there seem to be an abundance in the gaming circle? Sure. But I think that also has something to do with the fact that you can literally come across thousands of gamers in a day while gaming (matches, Reddit, online communities, etc). Considering that the majority of gaming is internet based makes it easy to be exposed to so many more people than basically any other hobby. If I walk into a room where I’m tak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:21 AM
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I agree with a lot of your points! I suppose it kinda stacks like this for me.. as a gamer I hang out with a lot of gamers. In the communities and cons and whatnot. I am far more likely to run into LVM addict gamers by being in these communities than if I wasn’t surrounding myself with them. Just like I can meet an alcoholic anywhere. But I’m far more likely to meet an alcoholic at a cheap bar at 2 pm, throwing back shots with the old timers, know what I mean? Sorry if this isn’t as cohesive a r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:41 PM
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My fiancé is a gamer (as am I). Know what he did when he moved in? He took his most expensive parts and monitors and switched ours so I would have all the good pieces. When I asked why he didn’t want to keep them he said because now that he’s living here (he moved to me and took over the rent) that he’s only going to be playing when I do because otherwise we’ll be doing other things together, so he doesn’t need the good stuff. Mind you, I work in the gaming industry and have a $$ setup myself. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:02 PM
12

Lmao that actually made me LOL. Well done 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:55 PM
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Wow, you made your man buy you a string? Ok, princess. My man proposed by drawing a circle on my finger with a sharpie. Not all of us ladies care if he can afford string or not. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:32 AM
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Lmao.. men so wrapped up in themselves they think women need them to be complete. Smdh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:56 AM
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I want to also note that even if he was caught and convicted, they might still allow custody/visitation. There was that article about the woman whose pedophile husband was caught messing with the neighbor children. He was convicted and sent to prison. Courts still allowed visitation and eventual custody. They said there was no evidence that he would do the same to his own children. The courts are so fucked up sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:00 PM
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This is a situation where I might actually consider kidnapping. Take my daughters and leave the country until they’re 25+. Then if we still wanted to live in the US, come back and take my punishment, safe in the knowledge that they’re no longer appealing to their pedophile father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:56 PM
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Absolutely. Men that I’m dating don’t compete with other men. They’re competing with my happiness. Because I am 100% happy exactly as I am. So if they bring any of my happiness below that number they they aren’t worth keeping around. You have to add to my life for me to keep you in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:50 PM
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I would absolutely tell my mother that he’s jerking off all day. Then I would send her over just to “hang out” or have her go clean because he’s clearly not doing it. Let’s see what he’s gonna do when he can’t jerk off because my mother is always around. But I learned how to be petty from my mother so.. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But in reality I wouldn’t have to do this. I stick with porn free relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:46 PM
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I haven’t been through this situation. But I am pretty sure you can direct all communications through your lawyer or a 3rd party. There is no law saying YOU have to interact with him. You just have to make sure he has his court ordered visitation. Let someone else answer the video and put the kids on. If he has any questions for you, tell him to send them to your lawyer and they will forward them to you. Make it clear that you are no longer having any interaction with him or his wife whatsoever.…
/r/askFDS29/10/20 11:14 AM
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Not to mention having to pay off all the “investment” money they put into the women. They’re lucky if they break even by the time they leave the industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 06:54 AM
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“Find you a bank? Sure, I can do that. My CashApp is $Equal-Ear. Just deposit the $75 for my time and skills and I’ll send you all the information. Don’t worry, it usually costs my boss $100 but I’m giving you the Scrote Special.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:24 PM
11

I’m a West to East transplant (going on 12 years now!) and I think moving back West would be torture! Such a different mindset regarding time, plans, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:20 PM
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I’m very much against kpop but only because it is an extremely abusive industry for women. Perhaps it is for the male stars as well, but I haven’t looked into it as much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:16 PM
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That’s a lot of words to say “I can’t get a date”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:30 PM
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Right? They tell on themselves so damn much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:26 PM
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She needs a remote to put his gap toothed ass back down in his league.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:22 PM
8

I thought it was a deep backless halter dress?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:14 AM
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Read. Read read read. Start consuming only those things that which empower. And work on adjusting your perception. So much of our lives is all about perception and how we feel about situations. You don’t HAVE to survive the winter without a man.. you’re creating a unique opportunity to focus and grow and fall in love with yourself over the next few months. Check out A Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl. Incredible book by a man that survived the Nazi death camps by finding meaning in his …
/r/askFDS24/10/20 11:02 PM
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I, personally, would back burner him. I would initiate zero contact with him and only respond if he made a very thoughtful gesture with concrete plans to make up for it. In the meantime, I would schedule at least 2 dates with 2 other men. And the first guy can wait until I was done with my other dates before getting rescheduled. If I never get back around to him? Oh well.
/r/askFDS24/10/20 10:52 PM
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You really can’t. It sucks but you just gotta leave them to it and move on with your own life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 10:37 PM
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My friend married the man that did this to her (I commented the story). They look Facebook happy now, but I very much doubt it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:44 PM
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THIS SAME THING HAPPENED TO MY FRIEND. I was literally in class with her when it happened. She got the text, went into the hall, called him and talked for 5 minutes and just broke down. Over the next few months she would come to class looking a mess because he would call her in the middle of the night, drunk AF, to tell her about the girl(s) he was hooking up with and even tho they were broken up he still “just felt so bad” I tried my damndest to get her to move on, but she wouldn’t. She eventua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:42 PM
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I wouldn’t even lie and say it was a miscarriage. If anyone asked I would say I ended it due to “genetic reasons” They can draw their own conclusions. Other HVW would probably recognize it’s because I didn’t want to help bring another man’s shitty genetics into this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 09:02 PM
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Life is too short to waste on bullshit and bad books. I would just toss it or try to get a refund, honestly. Don’t let negative scrotivity take up space in your head. I know when I read too much about the stupid shit LVM do, it starts having an impact on my mood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:04 PM
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Far more rewarding! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:30 PM
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Exchanging one prick for another, eh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:29 PM
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I would LOVE to see women posting about other HVWs. Almost like reports or snapshots into the lives of inspiring HVW. Something similar to RejectedPrincesses.com. Or any woman that inspires fellow FDSers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 08:42 AM
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My fiancé is 5’7 (I’m 5’3) and it’s never bothered him. Thing is, he walks in a room and he has such a big, kind, friendly personality that people have the impression that he’s tall. He walks like he’s 7 feet tall and people believe it. It’s like the wholesome definition of Big Dick Energy lol. It really is attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:48 AM
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Exactly. If a 6 year old ran up to me and started hitting me, I wouldn’t haul off and throw a right hook into his face. And 6 yr olds can be strong, but I’m still stronger and I know I would seriously hurt a kid if I hit him. So I don’t fucking hit kids. Then again, I’m not a violent psycho so I don’t have a desire to beat on anyone weaker than me anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:26 PM
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Men will say women aren’t funny and then go watch episodes of The Office written by Mindy Kaling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:57 PM
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There’s too many of these stories. A couple neighborhoods over a woman said no thanks to a man offering to buy her a drink. When she left to go home (to her bf and infant), the man followed her outside and stabbed her to death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:49 PM
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Almost positive I saw this tweet yesterday and they’re both women, the crusher and the crushee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:43 PM
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I think Shallon Lester said something like “You can’t even change your favorite color. How do you think you can change a whole-ass man?” and I think about that a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:37 PM
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I have a few tricks for cleaning jewelry (rings especially) and every week I would gather up all the women’s rings at my work and give them a once over. I loved seeing all the women get their rings back and admiring how sparkly they were! I love cleaning jewelry 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:56 AM
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Same! Have it both in hard copy and audiobook. 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:42 AM
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Read The 48 Laws of Power for help with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:51 PM
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I don’t know if it’s common. But I do know it’s not common FOR ME. My fiancé recently moved in and he took over the rent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:18 PM
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I think you mean prejudiced since the Dutch are an ethnicity, not a race.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 06:24 AM
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Good for you for having a strong, clear and concise response! I feel that too often women throw in passive language (“Sorry, I don’t do that”) which is something I’m working on too. I admire how unapologetic you were in your reply!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:56 PM
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I’m glad that you’re happy and the relaxing bath sounds like a really thoughtful surprise! I just want to caution you tho.. the flowers and chocolates and listening to you.. those are all baseline things a romantic partner should be doing. Listening to you is just a normal human interaction and sets the bar extremely low. I hope he continues to prove himself kind and caring and HV as your relationship goes on. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:51 PM
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Dude looks like a shoe. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:02 AM
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I live in NYC which seems to have more childfree men than the west coast where I’m originally from. My current partner I met online thru a hobby turned career (gaming industry). I was introduced to him thru another friend. My fiancé and I were friends for about 2 years before making it official. Sadly, my industry attracts a lot of LVM but I have been very lucky in that my last few partners have been in the industry and have been pretty HVM. I wish I could give better advice but I think it was a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:13 AM
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I planned to keep my last name. Then my fiancé said he would be willing to take mine and was prepared to (and we are child free but if that changed, any kids could have mine). In the end I decided to hyphenate and so will he. I’m in the “whatever makes you happy” camp. I would never give up my name fully. It’s mine and it has a lot of history behind it. I’m also the only child of an only son, so. That was important as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:06 AM
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“Oh, like buddies. Cool. A guy friend recently mentioned going to XYZ Park for a walk, I’ll invite him along!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:29 PM
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Yeah, no. They think “2 boobs good. 4 boobs better!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:47 PM
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He knows. What’s worse is that he got serious with Jill right after his divorce and moved her in. He’s not looking for a relationship.. he’s looking for a replacement for his wife that did all the chores and caring for his son while he goes out and flirts with women like Patty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:42 PM
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I live in NYC. Dating can be hard. There’s an abundance of men, for sure. But even with the abundance, women outnumber men 2:1. This leads to a LOT of men never settling down, never wanting to get into serious relationships, serial daters, and men constantly looking for the next new thing. There are definite positives. I’ve always had high standards so I never put up with bullshit so I almost never experienced the above. I’ve been wined and dined, been asked to accompany dates on business trips …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:36 PM
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I’m a big fan of Shallon but I haven’t been paying attention much. Has she been losing followers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:16 PM
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Not advice, per se, but a story that both my mother and grandmother told me. When my mother was 16 she went to take her driving test. The tester was an older man that was extremely rude and demeaning. One of those guys that you can tell just hates his job. While driving down the highway the tester starts berating my mother for something extremely inconsequential, like she had her hands at 10 and 3 rather than 10 and 2. Just going in on her how she was a stupid teenage girl, irresponsible, etc. S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:07 AM
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Exactly. I think they think it makes them approachable or that all women just want babies so badly that we’ll see a man holding a baby and immediately want to throw our uteruses at him. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:40 AM
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Besides some questionable decisions in the beginning, blocking him was absolutely the right choice.
/r/askFDS17/09/20 08:34 AM
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Thank you! ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:31 AM
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ALWAYS a left swipe. Men think that putting a picture of a child on their profile makes them look like they’re good with kids. In reality, it makes me doubt their judgement. Also, it’s such a turnoff. If I’m looking at your picture trying to decide if I find you physically attractive enough to get naked with and then all of a sudden there is a baby staring at me?? No fucking thanks. My vagina instantly clamps shut. And of course, 75% of them say “Not mine! It’s my nephew/cousin/friends baby!” Oh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:35 PM
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All yours ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:49 AM
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👋🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:48 AM
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“I’m sorry, did the middle of my sentence interrupt the beginning of yours?” The I’m sorry is sad very sarcastically, btw. Works like a charm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:37 PM
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Like literal circus clowns! Tbf, probably shouldn’t trust the figurative clowns either tho. Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:04 AM
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And yet lesbians in locker rooms with actual naked women walking around manage to not stare. Weird how that works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:03 AM
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My fiancé knows someone that’s a former circus performer and he said the performer swore him to never trust someone that chooses to be a clown IRL. Not totally sure why other than “they can NEVER be trusted”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:36 PM
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Lmao please tell me what your exact response was! 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:26 PM
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I would bet actual money that his father is a hoarder. Like a real, legit, mentally ill hoarder. Or he’s the hoarder. But it’s usually the parent(s). I’ve had friends that had a parent that was a hoarder and they had all the excuses in the world why people couldn’t visit. It also made it hard for them to move out because of the fear of what might happen to the parent when left alone. I would straight up ask if this is the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:47 AM
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Well, then if it’s just biology that men are visual creatures.. and everyone knows that women are emotional creatures.. then they won’t mind if we have lots of different men around that we get emotional with, yeah? Women need to emotionally bond with multiple strong men. You can’t expect us to have all our emotional needs met by just one man, can you? We need many! It’s in our genes. What’s that you say? That’s an emotional affair? Why.. no, it’s not. It’s just biology! 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:41 AM
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There was some controversy within the last year that she addressed on her channel (she even made a video of it, actually). The head of one of her projects/fan club tried blackmailing her after the project ended up falling through and there was no longer going to be a payout. Shallon produced the text messages that showed the woman attempting to blackmail her and threatening to spread rumors about her (that she messes with little kids). She couldn’t go into much more detail as she was working wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:44 AM
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Very happy to have you! There’s a book all of us have read: Why Men Love Bitches. It explains so much of this stuff. In fact, Shallon Lester is doing a book club vid series on it rn. She links a free pdf to it in her book club vid. Definitely check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:33 AM
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Men paying for dates is twofold. One, it shows their interest in a concrete way. As women, we know talk is cheap (and easy). We want men to SHOW us they are invested. I’m a woman that has a lot of options. Show me by planning a date and taking me out that you are truly interested and WORTHY of my time. The second, as women, dating is far more hazardous than it is for men. A man’s worst fear about meeting a Tinder date is that she’ll be fat. A woman’s worst fear is that he will rape and/or kill h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:45 AM
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Check out Shallon Lester on YouTube! She is very entertaining and talks a TON about leveling up and about the principles we believe in. I listen to her as I get ready before work (in a male dominated field) and she reminds me I can kick ass, have high standards, don’t ever have to compromise and I can be a feminist but still feminine and want a man to open a door and pay for a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:47 AM
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I wonder if it’s location then? I feel like most men that I’ve dated my age and younger have been the No Kids camp. I hope you find what you’re looking for tho! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:05 AM
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I’m still a few years out from my 40s but.. don’t discount men that are a little bit younger too! I’m dating a man that is 7 years younger. And he’s probably the most HVM I’ve ever dated. And I have dated quite a few good ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:59 PM
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I dated a 40 yo when I was 30. SOME 40s men do have emotional maturity. But you know what nearly all of them actually do have? A lot of fucking baggage. And men in their 40s that are looking to date 10+ years younger are doing it because they know women their own age won’t put up with them. They know younger women don’t always recognize the warning signs and baggage as easily. Which is why FDS is a lifesaver. Edit: also, don’t discount the men in your age range. It sounds like you’re living in a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:49 PM
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No, you did not. 2 nights ago was Saturday. He probably was out but struck out with finding a new hookup for the night so was coming back to his backup plan (you). Block him. And read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:53 PM
1

Brads gf is already married. Her husband is 70 years old. His name is Roland Mary and they have a kid together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 01:00 PM
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Lmao you can’t tell me that hairline hasn’t had a little work! That man is hiding some plugs in there somewhere. I know it. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:43 PM
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I think you nailed it: “in his youth” It’s full on nostalgia. People hate to let go of their idols. And the Pitt love was HUUUGGGEE in the 90s and 00s. If we acknowledge our heartthrobs are aging out, then that means we’re aging too. So, we hold on to dear life like Pitt holds on to his hairline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:40 PM
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Lol notice tho how they’re not calling her by her professional name which is her married name, Nico Mary? And the press is now keeping it on the low that she’s married rather than talking about it being an open marriage? Yeah, I’d bet a big ol chunk of money it’s not gonna be a marriage for much longer, open or not lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:33 PM
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Shallon Lester. She literally is doing a video series on Why Men Love Bitches right now. First vid dropped a couple days ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:56 PM
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Brad Pitts gf is married. Unless she got divorced within a year, her HUSBAND is 70. She clearly has a type too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:44 PM
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Yes! Bale said he watched an interview of Cruise and he said that Cruise “had this very intense friendliness with nothing behind the eyes” so he went on to base Bateman’s persona on him. Edit: also, Cruise always divorces his wives before the 10 year mark because of CA divorce laws too. But a lot of people with large amounts of wealth do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:00 AM
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Do you watch anything with Tom Cruise in it? This is a genuine, non snarky question. I’m just curious because Bale based that performance on Cruise and I think he nailed it, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:19 PM
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One of my faves! Definitely words to live by. My other fave is Law 34 (Be Royal in Your Own Fashion).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:50 AM
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Yep, that’s him. Sorry about your libraries. Ours just opened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:06 AM
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The library also carries it. The 48 is NOT a red pill book, btw. It is written for anyone that wants to gain power in their lives. The stories and anecdotes feature both men and women throughout history that have embodied the principles that the book is based on. Red Pillers adopted this book, sadly. But I do believe The 48 might be in our list of reading material? I would have to check again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:37 PM
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I have The 48 in a hard copy and in audio format. I liked to listen to it as I got ready for work. Should give it another read, actually..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:32 PM
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There was a documentary about women in the industry recently. It shows the porn industry more from the female perspective, from what I understand. Also show him the story of the kidnapped 14 year old girl that was repeatedly raped and her videos uploaded on prnhb. Even after she was rescued, the site refused to take down the videos of a minor being raped for 6 months. She had to pose as her own lawyer and send threatening letters to them before they acted. Also, the late August Ames’s story is s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:22 PM
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Aw hell, sis. I’m not reading those paragraphs and neither is he. All paragraphs look like to a man is: I care so much. I care so much. I care so much. I care so much. I care so much. I care so much. Don’t waste your time or energy on a man like this. ESPECIALLY if that man is saying thing like “all I want is for you to be happy” and “you deserve so much better” The only proper response to that is “You’re right, I do.” blocked Edit: word and formatting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:15 PM
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The Art of War is about strategy. The 48 is 48 different, non-moralistic rules of gaining power, both personal and professional. The Prince is about politics, also without morals. “It is better to be feared than loved, if one cannot be both.” Edit: Machiavelli and The 48 are both related to the Dark Triad, I believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:00 PM
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Red Pill women give them that kind of power. It’s why they’re miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:33 PM
13

Don’t you know that unless you play every sport, you’re not an athlete?? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:13 PM
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Seriously. She should have asked if the robbers minded walking her home. Clearly she was safer with them than her brother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:11 PM
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I remember back when I was doing OLD and I would get these extremely physically attractive men hitting me up constantly. I’m talking muscles and washboard abs and an ass that would make Thor drool. Thing is, their profiles were boring AF. And I need someone that doesn’t think going to the gym is a personality. When I would politely decline and they would ask why, I would tell them honestly.. I’m not all that attracted to gym bods and prefer personality over a 6 pack. Some would take it well and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:06 PM
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Jokes on them. I, too, have read The Art of War and The 48 Laws of Power. Also The Prince (Machiavelli). Any man that threatens to divorce me better already have his bag packed and in hand because his ass will be thrown out the door before he can finish his sentence. Don’t know who they think they’re fooling tho. 2/3 of divorces are filed by women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:51 PM
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Won’t matter to the type of men it’s supposed to scare off. I have also literally heard men say a wedding ring is nothing more than an added challenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:24 AM
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“Sex with a person [...] can cause performance anxiety” Says the men that blame every shitty thing they do by saying ItS bIoLoGy.. when humans are literally built to, you know, PROCREATE. That’s biology too, motherfucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:29 AM
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People (men) don’t like when you hold a mirror up to them and force them to see themselves clearly. Having women write out, in black and white, that we see and recognize the shitty things they do, that they aren’t sneaky, they aren’t getting away with it.. well, they don’t like that. And rather than looking inwards and recognizing themselves in our words, they’d rather shift their self hatred and blame elsewhere. Therefore it’s this sub that is wrong and deserving of hate. Not them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:43 AM
2

I am glad you are safe. Fuck that abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:43 AM
8

This is how I knew my bf was HV.. he had a little notebook on ME. Lists my favorite orders from various restaurants, days that are important to me, my ring size, hell.. I even saw that he had a little note that says I prefer BBQ sauce with my fries over ketchup. Love that man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:21 AM
14

“I want to protect you from yourself” is the precursor to “I only hit you because you provoked me.. I wouldn’t do it if you didn’t make me angry. I just love you so much I can’t control myself.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:21 AM
7

Even if he wasn’t love bombing.. never date potential. Oh, he’ll be sober someday? Ok, cool. Message me when you’ve gone an amount of time sober and have proven that you can do it. In the meantime, imma be dating men that are already established. Dating for potential is a surefire way to get stuck dating a man that only has potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:48 AM
43

Seriously tho.. with as many times as she had to say she was attracted to him (roughly 5 times, which is impressive in an article that’s about 6 paragraphs long) I’m wondering who she is trying to convince. It just sounds to me like she is forcing herself to fit in this image that she has of herself in her mind. This is just a box to check on the way to being the MOST WOKE WHITE WOMAN. Also.. she considers herself part of the problem because she struggles to desire her boyfriend while wearing dr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:33 AM
28

Omg, Emily. Shut the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:24 AM
24

I don’t know.. I don’t think you can look at song lyrics and judge someone completely off of that. It would be like judging an actor for the roles he plays. What I know about Thomas is that he and his wife have been married over 20 years, he’s supported her with her Lyme disease for most of their marriage (and we know how often men stick around with sick wives usually), and I’ve not heard any scandals with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:27 AM
52

They really aren’t. If all the men around you are saying they are then you know you’re in an area with a high concentration of N/LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:16 AM
35

In disguise HOW? Sis, this man was waving a bright red sexist flag. He splashed it all over the internet ffs. I’m glad you’re well out of that relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:13 PM
2

I think you handled it fantastically. You burned his plan to the ground LMAO 🤣 Good on you, Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:23 AM
76

Take time stamped pics of EVERYTHING. Literally take photos as you’re walking out of the room when you’re finished packing. Even take photos of minor damage (99% of the time you aren’t liable for it, wear and tear is legally expected). Give your landlord a heads up that you’re moving and it’s because of a breakup and the ex is not happy about leaving. Assure the LL that you’ll provide pics of the state of the apt as you’re leaving. I think the LL will appreciate the heads up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:05 AM
282

I’m sorry you’re depressed about this. And losing an apartment sucks bad. But I honestly see this as such a boss bitch move. So many women would suck it up and keep begging and pleading or get back together with him because it’s the easier way out. But you were like “Oh, you won’t get out of the apartment? THEN NO MORE APARTMENT, BITCH. NOW WHAT?” What a fucking power move. 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:01 AM
4

This is probably my most used Office quote, lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:01 PM
37

Honestly, I think he’s just out of prison. Working at a supermarket, old phone, no license. He’s spent the last 10 years in lock up. Plus, never EVER give your address to a man that pushes for it. 3 times he tried for your address (let me meet your dogs, where do you live, I’ll pick you up). That’s a big red flag right there. u/stressedmacaroon25, try googling his name and looking for criminal records. Bet you can find something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:56 AM
36

...I thought that was her dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:40 PM
23

Can someone explain this to me? I’m not quite getting either of their tweets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 06:54 AM
21

Intentions don’t mean anything, actions do. Stand in front of a judge and tell them it wasn’t your intention to kill that person while driving drunk. See how far that gets ya.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:15 AM
2

WTF.. whose feet are those under her knee??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:59 PM
6

Thank you! ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:30 PM
7

Girl, if I could, I would! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:30 PM
9

Great question! It cuts to the heart of a situation with clarity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:35 PM
93

Not my best story, just my most recent example. Whenever I mention a new book I’m reading, he’ll buy the same book to read so we can discuss it. He knows I love talking about books and a lot of my friends aren’t big readers. He makes sure I have that outlet. He also sends me my favorite flowers on a near weekly basis. I love flowers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:33 PM
6

Exactly! Embrace dating younger, sis.. you’ll thank yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:26 PM
5

Doctors call them “donorcycles” for a reason. I don’t date men that ride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:15 PM
14

Omg I am HOWLING! If a man proposed and gave me a ring and then turned around and said “So what do I get??” “Motherfucker, you get your ring back, that’s what.” Honestly. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:05 PM
4

I have a slightly different opinion than u/purblwasp, tho she does make good points about some of the lifestyles of pro gamers. My job is related to the gaming industry so I interact with all types, the majority being gamers. And yes, some are pro. IMO, the difference between a HVM/LVM pro gamer is revealed in his career plan. The majority of pro gamers that I would consider LV are those that have no future plans. Yes, they train, they hit the gym, they have chefs and therapists and coaches and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:58 PM
18

Exactly. I’m 36 and the majority of men hitting on me are in their 20s. I haven’t dated a man in his 30s in years. Sorry not sorry 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:03 PM
37

I just turned 36. When I was turning 30, I thought I wanted an older man.. someone 35-45 sounded good. Then I started looking at actual 35-45 year olds. Oh man.. but I still fought it, trying to stay in that age range. Then I realized.. what the fuck for? I get hit on by 22 year old guys constantly. Why am I trying so hard to date older? I embraced the younger man and now that I’m 36 I’m dating a man that just turned 29 and he is sexy af. And he’s one of the older ones that I’ve dated recently. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:01 PM
7

Honestly, good for you!! Congrats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:40 AM
26

I don’t think this sub is what you think it is, sis. None of us are going to tell you how to get this gross, low value boy back. The best and truest advice I have for you is: If he wanted you, he would be with you. He wants you around because he’s getting sex from you and a maid to clean his room. Work on yourself, find some self respect, focus on your education and hobbies. Boys will come and go. Your education won’t. Focus on the things that will make your life better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:04 PM
16

I must be tired because I’m drawing a blank. FA?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:59 PM
77

This is disgusting as fuck. You can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:59 PM
9

I really don’t know enough about him to pass judgment. Does he provide for his child? Maintain a good relationship with the ex? Is there confirmation about who broke up with who? FWIW, they started dating months after the engagement was called off, engaged a year later, married a year after that. All men start at a 0 for me on the LVM Scale. So far nothing screams out Red Flag. I would say age, maybe. But Beatrice is about the same age as him. Edit: word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:47 AM
18

Yeah, funny how quickly their schedule clears up, isn’t it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:40 PM
25

I’m not on Tinder anymore but when I was, having a 100% match day happened multiple times a week. I chalked it up to men swiping right on literally every single woman, and then going back and actually looking after they got the match.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:21 PM
11

If you mean me, I wasn’t defensive at all. And yes, I fully got it. My job is related to the industry so I see all types.. from casual to pro to basement dwellers. All I did was point out that when you said there was no productive value or transferable life skills, that wasn’t completely true. Which I believe was the only part of your post I disagreed with and acknowledged, saying that I didn’t date gamer addicts myself and therefore never had a problem with gamers. And I’ve dated a pro player o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:17 PM
6

You should look more into the advantages of video games if you don’t think they translate into real world skills, honestly. Most of the surgeons I’ve met play. It helps hand eye coordination (and some studies have found that surgeons that game at least 3 hours a week make 30% less mistakes than colleagues that don’t game). Also, children that play games in moderation have shown to display better decision making skills and and able to make more decisive decisions as well. The sheer input of infor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:23 AM
21

“Sorry, who is this?” Lol, but really.. just block. He’s not worth even half a thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:08 AM
28

I’m an actor and I don’t date other actors. We’re all lunatics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:20 AM
231

I don’t really think he wants to wait 4-5 years. I just think he doesn’t want to get married either to you or married at all. He likes what you guys have now tho so he’s not going to tell you that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:16 AM
18

I laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:58 AM
2

Lol that works too! I always go extra sweet myself.. kill ‘em with kindness sorta. I like the sass the “nah bro” has too. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:22 AM
16

Lmao.. love how she flipped the script.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:48 PM
1

Should save your breath on this one. I feel like OP might have gotten lost.. she saw “dating” in the title of this subreddit and didn’t actually read what we are about. Who knows tho.. maybe this will be an eye opener.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:46 PM
134

🤦🏻‍♀️ My prom dress was $450. In the early 2000s. He should have been jumping for joy that she was happy with a $350 wedding dress. Clearly he didn’t learn tho.. according to that update.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:42 PM
18

I do the same thing! We are too often taught to apologize for existing, frankly. I’ve been working on breaking the habit too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:34 PM
48

I think your only mistake really was giving an excuse (and the “sorry” of course). If it had been me I would have just replied “No thanks! :)” Giving a reason as to why you don’t lets them save their ego in their mind. They can tell themselves that it’s not them because you said whatever. Giving a thanks-but-no-thanks leaves them with nothing but themselves. Lol. Really tho.. the scrotacity of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:28 PM
13

Sis, I feel like you’ve been listening and internalizing a very misogynistic narrative. Women do NOT have an expiration date. Yes, if you want to birth biological children, you have a window of fertility. But so do men.. the older they get the more their sperm degrades, causing possible disabilities and deformities in their children. Just because they CAN impregnate a woman doesn’t mean the fetus is viable. And yes.. Men cheat. Women cheat. It’s a character flaw, sadly. While we do have biologic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 12:45 AM
34

Best advice someone gave me when I started dating in my 30s? Get comfortable with the idea of dating younger men. I used to want to stay in the range of my age and 5-7 years older. But once I started dating younger, around 26-27.. oh boy. They’re better looking, more stamina, settling in their careers.. and best part is that I found that they fucked around less. They didn’t try to pull any shit on me because they knew they couldn’t get away with it. They tend to be on their best behavior because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:58 PM
9

Sis, you need to level up to the point where no man would even THINK to approach you with the word “dumpster” on his lips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:42 PM
80

Coked out Lindsey is still hotter than any woman any of these guys will ever even talk to IRL. Sorry not sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:15 PM
13

Like the first 10 minutes of the movie “He’s Just Not That Into You” Maybe he got eaten by a lion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:11 PM
29

No, that’s a spice Its an entity that embodies life, duh. (I actually enjoy this meme, some are pretty funny)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:15 AM
3

I don’t think Branson was a HVM at ALL. In the beginning he alienated her from her family, constantly pushed her for answers, held her family and status against her as if it were her fault, convinced her to lie and run away in the middle of the night, helped burn down the house of her family friends, literally left her behind in the middle of the night while she was pregnant because he was running from the law, and was ungrateful when her father got him off for the crime because he couldn’t go b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:56 AM
3

Weeellllll.. he walked in on the wife in bed with his best friend of 30+ years.. then he left her and moved 3000 miles away to get away and start over and she followed him a year later, just as he had moved on and fallen in love with someone else. They were all abusive to each other, as is so often in long running drama shows. The writers don’t care what is right or a good example. I WILL say that I remember watching the moment when the wife showed up during the season finale. It was done really…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:02 PM
188

Grey’s Anatomy quote. Still fucking stupid tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:13 AM
167

Clickbaity title. I looked up the article. They broke up after she moved out of their apartment in NYC to live in Mexico City to pursue acting. They tried long distance but their jobs got in the way. He couldn’t move as he was under contract with FaZe Clan. This guy is one of the best players in the world, btw. He’s made actual millions playing Call of Duty. Just wanted to throw that out there for those that didn’t look up the article. After they broke up he made a video saying how wonderful she…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 01:47 AM
9

If he had wanted to find you, he would have. You approached him at the bar, you went back to his place that night (regardless of why), you added him on snap, you have mutual friends.. He has all the tools and more to ask you out. Apparently you spent the night in his bed cuddling and he still didn’t feel the need to ask for your number. I wouldn’t waste any more time on a guy that displays so little interest in me. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:30 PM
11

It feels weird because he blames his lack interest on being too busy. If he was really busy then he would be too busy to date too. But clearly that’s not the case. By saying he hopes to keep in touch he’s hoping to keep you around as a backup in case whatever other women he’s going out with don’t work out. In my opinion, anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 08:04 PM
116

Yep. Ben Affleck, who made/directed the movie and played one of the leads, definitely made Nick look LOADS better in the movie. I remember watching it and thinking “Why are they trying to make Nick look good??” I feel like it took away so much from the movie, honestly. It could have been such a better shock to the audience to show how depraved Nick actually was. And the ending would have made so much more sense and been more satisfying as well. Instead, Affleck just wanted to make himself look g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 08:00 PM
12

I’m stealing this. Thank you for an amazing mantra 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:20 PM
280

“OK, I’ll book dates with someone else then. Best of luck to you.” And then block. Find someone that can’t wait to spend time with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:45 AM
18

Lol, girl.. I think you posted this before reading what this sub is actually about. You might want to check out r/teenagers or r/relationship_advice In any case.. stop idealizing this guy and turn your focus to yourself. Focus on college and travel and new life experiences. And if he’s good enough, lucky enough, to do these things with you then that’s great. In all likelihood tho it’s not going to work. 98% of HS relationships don’t last (an actual statistic, btw). The 2% that actually do end up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:28 AM
4

It’s good that you recognize your toxic behavior and are working to correct it! I wish you luck with that. So many people lack the introspection and willingness to work on themselves in that way. That being said, it’s kinda hard to judge someone’s behavior when they’re reacting to emotional abuse. Especially if it’s repeated or prolonged manipulation. It’s bad behavior all around I would say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:28 PM
23

Yes, being able to recognize addictive personalities will definitely help. Whether men are gamers or drinkers or anything. I don’t blame anyone for using the label “gamer” as a negative. Especially because games are still such a “boys club” still. And the toxic gamers, the addicts, they like to gatekeep and yell the loudest about women in games. So it’s easy to start believing that gamers as a whole are bad. I myself have built a gaming community with both men and women (tho admittedly more men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:57 PM
6

But women are the EmOtIoNiAL ones! Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:36 PM
48

You should! I’m a gamer and I prefer to date men that are gamers. So seeing “NEVER date men that are gamers” a lot gets old. Especially since we seem to have a large amount of women here that also game. I’m of the mindset “Date a man that drinks. Don’t date an alcoholic.” Same with gaming. We too often blame the label (gamer) or the substance itself (games) rather than what it really is. Addiction. Ladies, don’t date an addict. Of any kind.. alcohol, porn, games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:30 PM
5

I’m in my 30s. Been proposed to a few times now. One of those proposals I said yes to, because I was in my mid-twenties and everyone I knew was getting married and it was what you were “supposed” to do. Especially at that age. I had a career opportunity come up as we were wedding planning. I realized that I wanted the career more than the marriage. I ended things and moved across the country and it’s been incredible. 90% of my friends back home, all the women that were getting married and having…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:21 PM
7

Of course they marry those men. LVM, rappers and sports stars make good tv. How boring would their show become if they all married classy, respectable, high value men? Because it’s pretty unlikely that a truly wealthy, HVM would consent to lower himself to guest starring on a reality show. Especially one that is known for ostentatiousness and dramatic antics. The HVM in their wealth bracket don’t behave the way they need their husbands to behave to make good tv. So they marry wealthy, but LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 01:31 AM
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Lol, sis.. you can’t call it dodging a bullet when you’re the one firing the gun at yourself. Good lesson on believing a man the first time he shows you who he is, tho. Always believe them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:49 PM
5

Everyone’s had a ride. Haven’t heard that insult for a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:09 PM
30

Well, they are only 15-19 years old. I’m really hoping as they got out into the world they, and their opinions, changed and matured.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:10 PM
12

Makeup is a tool. Nothing more, nothing less. Not wearing makeup does not make you a feminist just like wearing makeup doesn’t make you an anti-feminist. And choosing to not wear makeup to specifically go against the patriarchy is giving the patriarchy too much power over your decisions. I wear makeup for ME. If every man declared tomorrow “Makeup is ugly and real women go natural!” I would say “neato” and go about my usual every day look. Because whether men think makeup is feminine or not has …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:23 AM
9

Not at all. There’s a wide variety of women that stream. Some are pickmes. Some aren’t. But streaming has nothing to do with it whether they are or aren’t. Any of the streamers that you see that make a living doing it view it as a job.. as they should, they are technically freelancers of the corporation that owns the streaming platform and they pay taxes like any job. Think of it like being a professional actress. Some base their career on sex appeal, some base it on being serious artists. Neith…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:54 AM
18

So much this. WhyTF is it “critical” for you to find someone right now? You’re only 20 years old. You are SO young and have so much growing and learning to do. So many women regret spending their early 20s focusing so hard on finding a man. But very few women ever regret using their 20s to work on themselves, grow, get educated, and establish who they are and where they want to go in life. Frankly, the fact that you don’t see so many of this LVM’s red flags says, to me, that you need to spend so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:21 PM
15

Yeah, she abandoned her dog. And when the dog was found thru microchip, she declined taking him back. Tiny little chihuahua. Amazing that it survived, honestly. Last I heard it was adopted by another family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 11:36 PM
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Both Anna Faris and Pratt are LV in my opinion. She’s been fined thousands in LA because she has a habit of abandoning her dogs on the street and he “traded up” once he became a sex symbol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:34 PM
18

Yes, YOUR red flags are piling up. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:53 PM
20

Men want what they can’t have. Seeing an entire subset of women that literally will not give them the time of day, enrages them. No amount of gaslighting, PUA tricks, manipulating, begging, whining, etc will work on a HVW. And they can’t stand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:14 AM
27

I mean.. if men aren’t getting you off anyway then what difference does it make getting used to a machine or not? Personally, I’d rather have copious orgasms and let the men worry about measuring up. Not to mention plenty of men like bringing toys into the bedroom. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:04 AM
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https://www.huffpost.com/entry/what-happened-when-a-man-signed-work-emails-using-a-female-name-for-a-week_n_58c2ce53e4b054a0ea6a4066 Sorry for the HuffPost article, it’s just the first one that came up. Side note.. the most ironic thing about the whole article is that it took a MAN writing about misogyny and not being taken seriously as a woman before other people took notice. Kinda proving the point doubly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 08:57 AM
4

Just out of curiosity, why is his license suspended? Unfortunately none of us are there with your friends, so it’s hard to know if she is acting irrationally or not. It’s possible that behind closed doors he’s giving her reasons to feel insecure and paranoid. Maybe when they’re laying in bed at night he goes on and on about how he wishes she was more like Neighbor Woman. Or it’s possible that something else happened in another part of her life and it’s manifesting itself as insecurity and parano…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 09:37 PM
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I haven’t read the interview/article. But is he asking for praise or is he exposing how low and disgusting the tabloids are? Frankly, I wish more people would come out and say this stuff. Maybe idiots will start getting it thru their thick heads not to believe every stupid thing someone writes about women. Critical thinking skills seem to be at an all time low. Especially for LVM. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 08:46 AM
6

I am on the fence about children but am leaning very close to NO. I am an only (female) child of a name that can be traced back hundreds and hundreds of years. My dad was also the only male child of his family. I’ve told all the men that I’ve gotten serious with that if I birth children it will be my name that is passed on to them. Surprisingly, most are completely fine with it. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 05:20 AM
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Nope. He’s a comedian. For every joke that he makes like the one above, there are just as many that have himself as the punchline. He’s been very supportive of Blake and her career. He’s openly and publicly told men to stop leaving the “dirty work” to their wives and to get in and pull their own weight, especially with regards to children. He’s had no cheating scandals or even rumors. He’s been very public with his devotion to his wife. I also don’t think it’s LV for someone to hope for one gend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:41 PM
9

That’s a lot of words just to say “I’m trash but I’d like to keep manipulating you if you’ll let me.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 04:00 PM
32

Barnett was NEVER an HVM. Wut. When he met the women for the first time, every opening line was a sexual innuendo or sex joke. He even joked to one of the women about her having a “stripper name” He was all over Messica when he heard the other men talking about her, even telling her that he wanted to propose to her. And so she told him she was going to end it with Mark AND THE VERY NEXT DAY he dumped her. During the show with Amber, he also said that he “didn’t know” if he would be on her side i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:59 AM
9

Childish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:55 PM
10

A smart thing to look out for! But no.. 1. There was no way he was intelligent enough to be that good of an actor and 2. When she saw him she was half crying asking him where he had been and saying she wanted to go home. 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:21 PM
15

60 seconds. That’s how long it took my profile to hit 99+ likes. Within a couple hours I had over a thousand. It’s been a month and I just looked.. my profile is sitting at 7,889 likes. Dick is extremely abundant. Unfortunately most of it is as appealing as a 2 day old Chinese buffet. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:45 PM
24

I once went out to a venue with a girlfriend. There was this guy hitting on me HARD. Trying every tactic to get my number. I wasn’t interested and dipped away. He kept trying to find me. Whatever. End of the night, my friend and I are leaving and there is this extremely drunk girl all alone and stumbling, falling over and vomiting in the street. My friend and I rush over and help her. So there we are, holding this girl’s hair back and trying to ask her where her friend’s are so we can find them.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:32 PM
8

I love how many of us NYC women there are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:17 PM
7

I’m in my early 30s and I had to put age restrictions on my profile because I would get men anywhere from 21-26 begging me to let them take me out. I’m just not attracted to men so young tho. 🤷🏻‍♀️ 27/28 is the youngest I’ll go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:49 AM
25

It’s true in the sense that the older women get, the less shit they put up with. So, the hard part is sifting thru all the piles of LVM to find the good ones. Men keep trying to push the belief that it’s harder to find a man because there are so few out there. But that’s honestly not true. Exhibit A: my tinder profile that is sitting at 7900 likes. And yes, it is tiring going thru so many men and picking a couple. Your friend was just regurgitating that outdated cultural stereotype.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 10:24 PM
3

It’s constant. I’ve had multiple friends ask me how I put up with the staring when we’re in public. Honestly, I don’t even notice it anymore. Which is probably a bad thing because I’m so desensitized to it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:12 PM
10

Uncircumcised makes the sex feel way better. Makes sense, since the dick is designed to have that skin. Aesthetically circumcised looks better, but maybe I just think that because I’m American. 🤷🏻‍♀️ If I have a son, I will not opt for circumcision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:16 PM
22

Making them as uncomfortable as they made you is always a good strat too. “HOW AM I DOING? I’LL TELL YA. I GOT THIS WEIRD ITCHY RASH RIGHT WHERE THE SUN DON’T SHINE AND- OH, SORRY, YOU WERENT ACTUALLY ASKING, WERE YOU? WOW THAT WAS A PATHETIC PICK UP ATTEMPT. GOTTA GO NOW AND GET SOME CREAM FOR THAT RASH.” Dumb fucks that catcall do it to exert power and they know that most women will quietly take it and walk away. By being really loud, not only do you make them uncomfortable (and therefore flip…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:11 PM
9

It’s not necessarily wrong. Just be aware they’re using you as much as you’re using them. And they are well aware that a 21 year old that has just graduated college is far easier to manipulate and take advantage of than a woman that’s their own age, experienced and established.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:48 PM
32

DO NOT DO ANYTHING WITHOUT SPEAKING TO AN ATTORNEY FIRST. Nothing. Don’t kick him out (you can’t legally anyway). Don’t change the locks. Don’t transfer the deed. Don’t move assets. DONT DO ANYTHING WITHOUT A PLAN IN PLACE. Speak to the best attorneys in your town. Even just the free consults. By doing so, they won’t be able to take your husband on as a client because of conflict of interest. I cannot stress enough.. talk to a lawyer. Even if that means pushing your plans back a few weeks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:35 PM
224

Ho. Lee. Shit. That web of lies is insane. I would have been MORTIFIED. And I honestly would call off the engagement. I can’t deal with liars. I also call bullshit on saving up to get you a better ring. If that was true then he wouldn’t be buying new TVs and mini bars. That’s just another lie he’s throwing at you in an attempt to save face and gaslight you. This mans actions do NOT match his words. Always look at a man’s actions for the truth. Edit: I see it’s an AITA. My comment still stands!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:08 PM
9

Not to mention that Williams didn’t commit suicide because he was depressed. He had a degenerative brain disease and he knew it. (Lewy body disease, btw) He was trapped in his body, fully aware the disease was slowly eating his mind. That’s why he committed suicide. And if he was depressed, it was because of his disease. Not because he had clinical depression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:14 AM
65

Or maybe they don’t want to spend the rest of their lives looking at your already fucked up face that now looks like the wall of a HS boys bathroom with your janky-ass face tatts. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:08 AM
151

While I do agree, I actually think a vast majority of men just.dont.care. You ever have a text argument with someone that isn’t worth your time? Someone you don’t like, like a former coworker or acquaintance? How many times do you just respond to the last part of their message because you just want them to hurry and stfu and leave you alone? LVM are same way. Plenty of them understand your lengthy text, they just DGAF and are hoping their one word responses are enough to make you get lost so the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:06 AM
70

Which is why it baffled me that people practically worshipped the Duggars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:54 AM
23

He’s trying to write the script he wants you to follow. He’s saying he wants you to do all the chasing and emotional labor. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:52 AM
40

Your mistake was playing Bob the Builder with this guy. Not your fault, it’s something a LOT of women do when they’re young and in their first serious relationships. Take some time, heal, level up. You will meet men that you don’t have to build. And by spending time on yourself, you’ll be ready for an adult relationship with those guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 10:56 PM
29

He’s not gonna say what he wants until he knows what you want. So he can tell you want you want to hear. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 10:43 PM
22

Don’t act exclusive until you are exclusive. Keep dating other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:15 PM
84

Nah. This is fake. No dude has sweaty sex and then gets dressed right away in tight khakis and a flannel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:12 PM
44

The fact that you think this dysfunctional, exploitative, predatory trash bag “deserves” a wife and kids AND you don’t think he’s an assholes means you still have a TON of leveling up to do. Try not to hate yourself. 1. He’s not worth it. And 2. Men like this prey on inexperienced women like you, sis. HE KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING THE WHOLE TIME. This absolutely makes him an asshole. Don’t waste a second more thinking about him or letting his predatory behavior make you hate yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:08 AM
4

This poor man.. going his whole life without ever once looking in a mirror. Must be hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:14 AM
6

TY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:06 PM
7

Link?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:54 PM
4

It’s rare but it happens. There are men and women out there who are either genuinely unhinged or really get off on the drama. A LVM loves the crazy because they are usually damaged in some way and he can use them to fulfill whatever need he has. A HVM will either detect the crazy and decline to date them or will quickly break things off with them once the crazy shows itself. Some people are good at hiding crazy. So having a crazy ex isn’t necessarily an immediate dealbreaker. What is a dealbreak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:45 PM
9

I love gamers. And the ones that I’ve dated either do it with me or get their shit done and THEN game. A few doctors I’ve met game because it helps with stress and keeps their fingers nimble. There are studies that show that kids that game (within screen time boundaries) develop the ability to make correct, quick thinking decisions due to the nature of games. Games also engage far more of your mind than TV, where your brain goes into basically standby mode. Having said this, I absolutely would n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:29 PM
4

I think if given 10 more years he could grow into one. But right now? No. It’s like he’s got the blueprints but he still has to get the foundation laid. He’s not a bad guy. Just immature and sorta desperate to grow up quickly. 5/10 - would not date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:00 AM
9

I feel like GG KNOWS all the right (FDS) things to do.. but she just can’t make herself do them. She’s like a girl that’s read the handbook but gets too wrapped up in “looooovvveee” and just can’t quite level up to put it into practice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:56 AM
12

You are so right with the FDS filter.. I LOVE it! I wish we could all watch this together and make it a drinking game. We would all be so wasted 1 episode in! Jess does a baby voice - 1 sip Jess drunkenly hints to Barn that she’s not over him - 1 shot Amber does the cool girl schtick - chug for 2 seconds Barn tells someone he loves Amber because she’s so into him - finish your drink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:53 AM
23

Girl, he gets worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:30 AM
5

You. I like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:22 AM
12

Later on he talks about how his #1 fear is disappointing his family. They seem pretty conservative. I’m guessing they are the ones that want him to get married. Maybe he knows the only way he could get a decent wife is to find one committed to get married in 30 days or less?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:14 AM
5

True. But the reality show is kinda designed that way. IRL, I completely agree with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:12 AM
34

Call his bluff. Not tell him where she stood with the other guys (good or bad). Not had the break up talk with the others until he actually proposed. Same as regular FDS IRL, but instead of a proposal, keep dating other guys until you’ve had the exclusivity talk and you are official. Edit to add: as soon as he knew he had her without effort (she offered to give up the other guys without his prompting) he lost all interest. Chances are, he would have lost interest even if she had played the game …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:55 AM
14

It is! I am in my early 30s and the amount of men out there is insane! Not all HVM, of course. But there are a lot. ☺️ Live your life, level up, find what makes you happy and the HVM will find you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:49 PM
37

Sorry, sis. Your dad is incorrect. He was advising you based on info that is 30-40 years outdated. Trust me. There is nothing to panic about. The more educated men and women are, the later they wait to settle down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:45 PM
27

I hate that guy. I don’t want to spoil anything but.. I hate that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:40 PM
133

I haven’t watched all the new eps. But I thought Jess and Barn were such a perfect example of how FDS works. Barn was obsessed with Jess when he knew he was competing with Mark. You could see him visibly stressed and telling the other guys that Jess is the one that he wants over all of the girls. Next date with Jess, he’s upset about all the guys interested in her and they talk about it (where she points out that she hears stuff about him from the other girls too) and he says how he’s ready to p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:38 PM
22

Smiling gives you wrinkles. Resting bitch face keeps you pretty. (It’s a quote from somewhere, don’t remember where I saw it but it made me giggle. Too true.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 10:34 AM
7

How did you respond to the text??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 10:27 AM
31

Find a way to touch a man’s left hand. A recently removed wedding ring leaves an indent that can be felt. I’ve used this method a few times to call out men at bars that were chatting me up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:05 PM
55

If a garbage can suddenly developed the ability to speak, would you care what it had to say? That’s how I feel towards the majority of incels. They spout nothing but air pollution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:01 PM
10

That didn’t happen. He’s setting up the storyline he wants you to follow. “He divorced his last ‘crazy’ ex because she asked for too many material things.. I better not do the same.” “He likes submissive women.. I better not state my needs and wants because that’s too ‘dominant’” You should run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 10:51 PM
37

No doubt he has a few kids too..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 10:48 PM
31

Seriously. During my insomnia nights where I can spend 30 mins or more just swiping, I come across AT LEAST 4-5 married guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 10:47 PM
70

Lmao, trust me on this, Karen.. he’s doing you a favor. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 10:46 PM
10

The opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference. It’s clear this guy has gotten under your skin (hey, it’s happened to the best of us). I feel like you’re still keeping him on the fringes in a hope to somehow get your power back from him. In one of those movie-esque moments where he gets totally shamed and realizes all the dumb shit he’s done and begs for another chance and you get to walk away like a Queen. In reality, the best way to get your power back (and most hurtful, surprising, infuri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 10:43 PM
67

I hate to point out the obvious but.. you ARE entertaining him, sis. You respond to his texts after a few tries, agree to meet up, consider using him for sex (which he would probably LOVE), and now you’re posting about him here trying to understand him..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:06 PM
7

Right? The only part he left out was “and then everyone clapped”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:28 AM
-1

This one is a little odd to me. Men tend to do more dangerous stuff with their hands. Building stuff, electrical work, moving heavy objects, power tools, working on vehicles.. far more things where wearing a wedding band could be dangerous. Men, unfortunately, have more opportunities to lose their rings than women do. What he does to help keep himself from losing it when he can’t wear it will say a lot. I think the take away from this should be don’t spend thousands of dollars on a wedding band.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:19 AM
10

She never got to the date. He made those comments in her messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:55 AM
3

The only thing he’s going to do is drag you down to his level. Because you, for sure, are not going to raise him up to yours. Why waste the time and energy? Spend it doing something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:49 AM
14

And Buddha and Krishna and all the others too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:41 AM
19

Seriously. Besides, men don’t even want “nice” women. Our FDS Bible is literally titled “Why Men Love BITCHES” lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:25 AM
8

I think it depends on how you’re raised and your natural temperament. I got pretty in HS, beautiful in college and now I’m stunning. But even when I was awkward in middle school, my dad would probably have had an aneurysm if I let any guy treat me like garbage, because he always raised me to be treated with the utmost respect and to take no bullshit from men. Even now when I mention any guy I’m seeing his first questions are “Did he pay for dinner? Pay for your cab home? Open your doors?” He doe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:21 AM
102

Did you see one of her comments? Her “big ticket” Christmas/Bday present (THAT SHE ASKED FOR HERSELF) is glass containers so she can just put them in the dishwasher instead of having to hand wash the plastic ones. Like, girl.. what the FUCK?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:47 AM
18

So sad and so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:08 AM
36

Seriously. I wish pornos showed, at the start, the woman receiving 56 identical messages of thirsty dudes saying the exact same “DTF?” messages. Make these pornsick dudes realize they’re not special. Sad that porn is probably the only way to reach these idiots. If we cared enough to reach them, that is 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:01 AM
48

TBF, drinking DOES contribute to the end of marriages. But what separates the difference between LVM and HVM are what they do when they realize it. If you visit r/stopdrinking it’s filled with men (and women) that realize what alcohol is doing to their relationships and they do EVERYTHING to change. Affleck is known to be pretty LV in the industry so I have very little doubt that he just thought “Fuck it, I’m famous. I can do what I want.” and didn’t bother to care what his drinking was doing to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 11:58 PM
13

Preach! 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 11:48 PM
24

Seriously. Who sends that at 10 in the morning??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 11:45 PM
27

I’ve seen probably 100 of these profiles. I’ve believed maybe 2 of them. They always wait until the bottom of the profile to mention it too, hoping you’ll miss it. I have rarely seen this work, btw. Men (and women) are for it until they meet someone that they can’t stand to think of with someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 11:23 PM
14

Is there a link to the original? I’m terribly curious what the replies were!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:56 AM
12

Money does NOT equal high value. And this man is a shining example of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:49 AM
59

I would have canceled in half a thought and less than a second. He can figure out his own shit. And the free nights aren’t worth the feelings of being used and taken advantage of. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:46 AM
3

And I’m sure the ex loves it because he gets free childcare for his other two kids too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:43 AM
18

Um, girl.. are you crazy?? This is a bad baaad situation. I’m not even going to touch on the ex stuff. But let’s say this new guy does ask you out. He’s then just shown you he’s the type of guy that doesn’t mind dating his friend’s ex while she’s still living with him and help raising his and their kids. You are in a very messy situation. And honestly, you should probably concentrate on that. I’m not saying it’s impossible to find a HVM in your situation, but I would be very wary. Most HVM proba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 10:32 PM
8

It was very sweet and unexpected! He did good. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:51 AM
157

This. Someone I’m chatting with sent me flowers, chocolates, a pretty little locket and 25 origami flowers that he made himself. When a man values you, he puts in effort. If he can’t even buy a grocery store rose when he’s picking up beer and toothpaste? Nah, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 12:39 AM
24

Well, it’s true, she can’t understand an adult marriage. She’s 15. BUT, that doesn’t mean she doesn’t understand what she wants from her own family. And it sounds like she doesn’t want the woman that she loves and admires to stay with a cheater. Even if that cheater is her dad. Good for her for speaking up in an extremely difficult situation. I think her mom is raising her just right. And I kinda hope her mom listens to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 10:00 PM
12

He. Will. Lie. He’s going to say whatever will get you on that plane and him in that hotel room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:55 PM
8

First noticed it hardcore at 12. Hasn’t stopped since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:48 PM
11

Often considered one of the most beautiful women that has ever lived, Elizabeth Taylor, married Mike Todd. She had said if he had never died she would have stayed married to him for the rest of her life. He was 5’5. And he was confident as fuck. Guarantee you that if Jason Momoa was 5’5, women would still be falling all over themselves to get on him. It’s so not about height. It’s about confidence, or the lack thereof. Unfortunately so many short men let their insecurities shine thru. And then l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:44 PM
39

What, and I cannot stress this enough, the FUCK?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:33 AM
16

Yes, you are crazy. Lol, this man is not intimidated by you. He didn’t want to appear to be with the girl he was sleeping with because he wants to still have you available for sex when he’s done with her. He has you in rotation. That’s why he sometimes answers your messages and sometimes invites you to things. You’re just one of a handful of different women he’s sleeping with. You deserve better than this. Cut him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:12 PM
10

Not to mention 95% of them would not have the guts to say it directly to our faces. They hide behind their screens in their filthy apartment “hue hue hue-ing” to themselves about putting “those feminazis in their places!” by yelling at random women to “get back to the kitchen, hue hue hue, gottem!” It’s pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 01:02 AM
37

He didn’t have money to pay for dinner until his paycheck deposited into his bank account. A lot of Americans get their paychecks directly deposited into their accounts rather than being handed a physical check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:58 AM
20

Good Lord.. she’s engaged at 20?! That is.. a little crazy. There’s a reason 80% of marriages fail if one or both parties are less than 25 years of age when they tie the knot. Getting engaged at 20/21 is NOT something to aspire to. People that age don’t even know who they ARE yet (seriously.. your prefrontal cortex doesn’t stop developing until around 25). Just because he appears like a HVM now doesn’t mean he will be the same in 2-3 years.. his brain is still changing and his personality is sti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:55 AM
4

I knooow!! She was so dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:53 AM
8

Ooooh lol I was like.. I don’t remember that part 🤔 I agree tho. He did nothing wrong. Corporate maneuvering like that happens all the time. It’s why Miranda expected it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:43 AM
2

She was Christian?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:41 AM
5

Thank you, girl! 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:58 AM
62

OH. And when they all start making fun of her boss and job AFTER SHE JUST GAVE THEM THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS WORTH OF PRESENTS BECAUSE OF THAT JOB? I would have dumped them all right there. After snatching the swag back. Asses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:37 AM
34

Love the film, hate her friends and her douchy bf. The book was more serious and in depth. Her friends and bf were still douchy. She should have stuck with the designer she slept with in Paris.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:36 AM
45

I’m polite the first time, firm the second time. If he tries is a third time, I get loud. I don’t scream at the dude but men hate when their creepy behavior is exposed to people around them. “I SAID I DONT WANT TO GO ANYWHERE WITH YOU TWICE NOW. WHY DO YOU KEEP ASKING? YOURE MAKING ME REALLY UNCOMFORTABLE.” If he wants to make me uncomfortable, well, two can play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:32 AM
38

True! But I am so dying to know the context for this photo, lol.. why are the eyelashes upside down??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:28 AM
35

When I lived with a man, I would thank him if he did “extra” Say I said I was going to do the dishes and he goes ahead and does them, I thank him for that. If it’s his turn to do the dishes or clean the kitchen or whatever, then I don’t thank him per se, but I will still compliment. “Oh wow, the kitchen looks nice!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:26 AM
3

This! I like a thick dude. But thick all over. Not just walking around sporting a beer keg under his shirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 12:35 PM
7

Girl, you’re at rock bottom. You need to level up before thinking about dating if THIS is what you think your options are. Marriage is not an end goal. It’s a beginning. Don’t tie yourself to a loser at the starting line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 12:33 PM
19

I mean, you’re more than welcome here. We also talk a lot about leveling up, self improvement and dating experiences. But the core of the sub is what I described. So you might end up disagreeing with most of FDS. Check out the recommended reading and the strat guides tho. They may catch your interest and explain why we date the way we do. This sub has been growing by the thousands. For good reason!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 02:22 PM
20

It’s about women dating by holding men to the highest possible standard. FDS employs certain strategies to ensure that. One of the first strategies to find out if a man is willing to put in effort is that he asks you to dinner for a first date and pays for it. Basically a “put your money where your mouth is” strategy, in a sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 02:06 PM
24

Having a sugar daddy is also the opposite of FDS. Did you join the sub without reading the about or the sidebar/recommended reading? It explains it far better than I could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:58 PM
25

I mean, it’s A dating strategy.. it’s just the opposite of FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:54 PM
24

Um.. you sure you’re in the right sub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:51 PM
62

Your prefrontal cortex (the part that controls personality) doesn’t stop developing until 25. Who you are today is not who you will be after 25. It’s generally good advice to wait to get married until 25+. Something like 80% of marriages made when one or both parties was younger than 25.. fail. For good reason. Many MANY people regret getting married too young. But you rarely hear people say “Man.. waiting until I was older and more mature to get married was such a mistake!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:34 AM
20

Check out the book “What French Women Know” It has some FDS and HVM info and advice. But when describing sex and French men, it’s kinda spot on and points out a lot of why we (American and FDS women) wouldn’t/don’t get along with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 10:11 PM
22

I love wine. But I do want to point out that alcohol (wine included) is carcinogenic. It’s estimated that 1 bottle of wine is roughly equal to 5-10 cigarettes. Ethanol is poison to humans. It fucks your body and brain in so, so many ways. And again, I’m a wine lover so it sucks that it’s so harmful. Just be mindful of what you’re putting in your bodies, ladies. Moderation is key.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 12:10 PM
3

High Value Man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 12:06 PM
67

(Loudly) “SIR! HEY SIR! DID YOU KNOW EVERYONE CAN SEE YOURE WATCHING PORN? EVERYONE, LOOK, YOU CAN SEE IT RIGHT IN THE MIRROR, RIGHT THERE. HES WATCHING PORN.” Start shaming these lowlifes. I guarantee you that Starbucks, who is very careful of their image, would not like people knowing you can use their free WiFi to publicly watch porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 11:57 AM
23

Can he change? Maybe. Will he change? No. It’s not you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 10:11 PM
13

FYI, women outnumber men 2 to 1 in NYC. A huge majority of men don’t want to settle down until late 40s here because they’re too busy jumping from woman to woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 10:11 AM
39

A stoner that works the odd construction job, lives 2 hours away, has no car, sent you a picture of his dick unsolicited and now only sends perfunctory “how was your day?” texts when you weren’t interested in the naked pics all while not bothering to ask you out. And you say he’s “potentially” an LVM? Girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 10:14 PM
31

Assuming this is true (I’m not).. I’m sure she’s crying over her keyboard about losing a guy that thinks a date is sitting on a park bench in January.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 03:30 AM
15

A quote I recently saw on here: “If you’re standing in front of her but not willing to meet her standards then sit down so she can see the man standing behind you that will.” Paraphrased but it’s the gist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 03:27 AM
27

Girl, the majority of men that read FDS are MGTOWers and Red Pillers. FDS hasn’t had (in my memory) a post that has reached All yet so.. how did he find your post?? There’s one easy answer how and it’s not a good one. Nope this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 11:51 PM
6

Jeans are totally fine! But they really should be dark wash and exceptionally tailored. And you can’t cheap out with like, Target jeans, unfortunately. You’ll be paying upwards of $100-150+ but they are so ridiculously worth it. They’ll last you for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 10:35 PM
7

Bruh. Less than 60 seconds after I signed up for Tinder I had 99+ likes. So I got curious and upgraded. In 24 hours I received 2500 likes. That was a couple days ago. I’ve spent maybe a few hours and was able to swipe no on.. 500? Yeah, I’m currently sitting at 4581 likes. I took pics of my numbers too because good god.. Who has time for that?? It is overwhelming. Not to mention that literally every man I swiped yes on organically has matched with me. It’s insane. There are SO many men out there…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:05 PM
7

No lie, it totally depends on which line it is 😂 Pretty sure it was confirmed as a social experiment tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:37 AM
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Not only that but women in general are more ACCEPTING of men doing this. Or at least nicer about it. I can’t remember exactly where I saw it but I think it was a social experiment vid on YouTube. They took 2 extremely attractive people (1 man, 1 woman, possibly models) and had them both wear a fat suit, complete with prosthetic fat on the face. Then set up like 10 dates with their real non-made up pics on Tinder. Of the 10 guys that showed up for the woman, only about 1 stayed after seeing her f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:38 AM
6

Whichever will work best in your interests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:26 AM
8

There is a fascinating and sad autobiography about a girl that escaped and reported one of the Amish communes. It was free on kindle unlimited. I wish I could remember the name. I read it in a single night. ETA: FYI there are parts that she says that she glosses over because some of it was too depraved and she can’t go into it in detail. Also, I believe her sister wasn’t able to escape. And there is mention how rampant sexual abuse of the barn animals is among the unmarried men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:03 PM
10

It’s their cope for thinking a 10 is into their 5.5 self only to find that they get hit with a “follow my insta/chat/sex site!” Because it’s true, some IG models/sex workers do use dating apps to gain followers. It’s smart, really. They get thousands of men looking at their photos and don’t have to pay a cent in advertising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:57 PM
10

Your first one has a name. It’s called a “hatfish” Lol Also, I swipe no on any kids in photos. Even if they’re nieces/nephews. I don’t think your kids belong on a dating site. And I ESPECIALLY don’t think someone else’s kids belong on a dating site. Wtf bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:55 PM
9

“Say My Name” - Destiny’s Child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 11:51 PM
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Lol, no. I live in a city where the bars are ridiculously expensive. So a guy asking me for a drink at a nice bar gets a pass (where 2 people that have like, 5 drinks and an app can easily be over $100 and plenty of our bars are nicer than regular restaurants). But any man inviting you to his place for a first meeting is looking for sex only. That’s not low effort, that’s no effort. Block and on to the next one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 11:20 PM
6

If he had his same job but was single, who would be doing all the food/cleaning/Dr appts/coffee in the morning then? It would get done somehow. He is capable of doing it.. he just doesn’t want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 11:42 PM
7

Oh, I definitely think he’ll come around once things don’t work out with the other woman that caught his interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 10:28 PM
11

The only one I recall was treated with humor. In the first or second season, Carrie stays with a friend at their beach house whose husband waits for her in the hall while he’s exposed. The wife sends Carrie packing and all the girls laugh at it when she returns and then later when they run into the couple at a party. Not hands-on assault but that would definitely not be treated with an eye roll and a “Oh, men! Amirite?” today. Thankfully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 09:52 PM
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