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I think I speak way too fast. Maybe that's the problem. My approaches are not threatening because the girls don't seem scared. I have a correct body language (I've worked a lot on it recently). I smell good and dress well. I don't kino a lot, just shaking hands sometimes (so not the creepy uncle like). I have a smile. That may be what I say.
/r/seduction18/11/12 07:50 PM
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To the people claiming this is bullshit: I'm currently curing of several disorders as panic disorder with agoraphobia, and severe social phobia (the kind of where you have a panic attack just talking to people). I've put a lot of effort into approaching more than 200 girls, and fighting the biggest fears that were ruining my life (at some point, I could not get out from my house). It took me a lot of courage to do all this to get a better life AND to start having a normal dating life. I've done …
/r/seduction18/11/12 07:44 PM
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You've got a point. I must admit that I still have some low self-esteem problems, but I'm working on it. I want to be comfortable in my own skin, but I shall I proceed?
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:30 PM
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Thanks! I have very long legs, what type of pants would filt better on me?
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:27 PM
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Wow that seems like great advice, thank you very much!
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:25 PM
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Thank you for this link (well, I had already subscribed to be honest).
/r/seduction21/08/12 11:36 PM
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Thank you for this technique, I'll give it a try, seems funny !
/r/seduction25/06/12 04:52 PM
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the problem is that it's not in my control. I dont decide to feel like shit when I get turned down.
/r/seduction25/06/12 11:04 AM
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nope.
/r/seduction19/06/12 02:41 PM
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from 7 to 10
/r/seduction19/06/12 02:40 PM
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I hope we both will get some improvements soon
/r/seduction18/06/12 10:46 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction18/06/12 10:44 AM
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Indeed, it's painful since I have a lot of anxiety... But the only way to overcome it is by interacting with women.
/r/seduction18/06/12 10:42 AM
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False, I never quit an approach until she says no to "what's your number" or until she leaves.
/r/seduction18/06/12 10:41 AM
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I'm not sure what you mean, but I've also approached women I did not think they were 10s.
/r/seduction18/06/12 10:40 AM
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I agree with you I think I'm stuck at stage 2. I think this is a great piece of advice you gave me and I'll follow it. I'll try to work on stages 3 next time I go out. Thank you.
/r/seduction18/06/12 10:37 AM
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I like this sentence!
/r/seduction18/06/12 10:30 AM
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Ok, I won't post here until I have reached at least 200 approaches.
/r/seduction18/06/12 10:29 AM
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Thanks.
/r/seduction18/06/12 10:28 AM
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I go direct "I thought you were cute so I had to come to talk to you". Some girls laugh, some don't even stop and tell me "no". I can keep a good eye-contact, but maybe I should work on my body-language.
/r/seduction18/06/12 10:26 AM
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I'm below average-looking, but definitely not ugly. I dress well but I'm very very skinny. Not sure if it really matters.
/r/seduction18/06/12 10:23 AM
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This is the best piece of advice I had here. This is what I did. Unfortunataly, things did not turn weel after but I'm convinced this was the best thing to do. Thanks!
/r/seduction17/06/12 06:38 PM
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That's a great post! Thank you :)
/r/seduction09/10/11 02:41 PM
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I know I should not badmouth myself, I try to ignore those thoughts, but they're there anyway... I try to let them flow, but I think I'm getting better at this
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:42 PM
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yep !
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:40 PM
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This is a tough decision, what is better going to the field knowing that we have a bad mood and everything that will happen will seen negatively, or going anyway just to beat my fears?
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:40 PM
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Thank you, I really like this analogy. I already feel better today. I look back at what happened yesterday and I can analyse things more rationally. I've learnt a lot of things, but my muscles are still sore :)
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:39 PM
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Totally random. Not ugly, but not handsome either. Why?
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:36 PM
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Great mind set
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:35 PM
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The thing is I can talk to anyone, I've done it a lot, but when it comes to talking to a girl, I get really nervous, and my mind goes crazy so I'm this socially awkward penguin lol
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:35 PM
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Thanks for the tips. You know, I'm still trying to overcome my anxiety, so my game is no that good, but my goal was only to talk to girls, I'm not sure I'm ready to see what I did right or wrong :)
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:34 PM
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And this is why I'm trying to work hard to get better with women
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:32 PM
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Very clear :p I'm not an AFC
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:30 PM
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Thanks! I have no other choice than to force myself, and when I'm not sure if I have to go to talk to a girl, I remember how a loser I am, and that I don't want to die a virgin, so this is the best motivation I have!
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:29 PM
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Great website. I agree, I have to go step by step before trying anything bold.
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:28 PM
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What a bitch that girl was... Why are they people like that? Saying hey to a girl is not a crime, why do people feel being assaulted just for that?
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:26 PM
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From this point of view, I clearly won :)
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:21 PM
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Not fucking me is one fucking, being rude to me is another... I'll work on my inner game anyway, and when I'll be less nervous, I'll enjoy more I think
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:21 PM
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It was daygame indeed. I know I went too far too soon... I kind of overestimated myself. I also wanted to make progress as fast as I can (because having been without a girlfriend for years sucks). I see your point, but what do you mean by "simpler interactions"? Like just asking for a direction or for the time?
/r/seduction08/10/11 09:43 PM
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Maybe cause I'm still an AFC lol
/r/seduction08/10/11 09:38 PM
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Thank you, I'll try to remind me this next time I talk to such girls
/r/seduction08/10/11 09:38 PM
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I tried... it was hard... You can read how it went, I created a post about it: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/l59ba/made_other_approaches_today_almost_ended_up_crying/
/r/seduction08/10/11 07:52 PM
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Thanks bro, it's very exhausting every time, I really hope it'll be easier in a few weeks
/r/seduction08/10/11 07:50 PM
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Thank you :) You're right, next time I'm not in a good mood, I'll stay at home
/r/seduction08/10/11 07:00 PM
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I'm planning to try with a wingman tomorrow, we'll see if it's easier!
/r/seduction08/10/11 07:00 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/seduction08/10/11 05:37 PM
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Thanks for the tip :)
/r/seduction08/10/11 05:37 PM
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This is very likely!
/r/seduction02/10/11 07:22 AM
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Thanks :) But what do you do about thoughts that torture you the next day? I mean, I'm now thinking again about what I did wonrg, and I feel bad about those awkwards moments I experienced
/r/seduction02/10/11 07:22 AM
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Yrah it's too vaguen but now that I'm more "comfortable" with saying hello to girls, I'll try to focuse on the "after hi" talk next time.
/r/seduction02/10/11 07:20 AM
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Thank you :) Actually, those "bitches" as I unfairly called them are turning their heads/bodies away or looking at the sky implying "oh no, another guy hitting on me"... I'm sure it's just my imagination, but I did not know how to interpret the fact that they turn their backs to me when I say "hi". But I'll try to believe that this is shyness next time (and I'm pretty sure it is) or just a reflex of protection because there are so many freaks in the streets :)
/r/seduction01/10/11 08:13 PM
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Thank you! I also approach other people, and I can tell I'm less nervous than when I approach attractive girls... But I'll try to do more of these approaches next time, I hope it'll make me more comfortable when dealing with hot girls
/r/seduction01/10/11 06:46 PM
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