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Fundamentals Sherman140824/r/seduction29/01/25 10:34 PM
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Inner Game Sherman140824/r/seduction23/10/24 12:12 AM
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Fundamentals Sherman140824/r/seduction05/11/24 10:32 AM
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Fundamentals Sherman140824/r/seduction28/04/25 10:55 PM
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Fundamentals Sherman140824/r/seduction18/01/25 07:33 PM
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Inner Game Sherman140824/r/seduction08/11/24 05:24 PM
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Fundamentals Sherman140824/r/seduction04/05/25 05:34 PM
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Fundamentals Sherman140824/r/seduction18/03/25 12:56 AM
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ConversationSherman140824/r/seduction11/09/24 06:52 AM
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Fundamentals Sherman140824/r/seduction04/02/25 07:56 PM
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Fundamentals Sherman140824/r/seduction04/11/24 05:47 PM
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Fundamentals Sherman140824/r/seduction25/09/24 09:57 PM
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Fundamentals Sherman140824/r/seduction16/02/25 09:37 PM
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Fundamentals Sherman140824/r/seduction04/07/26 01:54 AM
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Fundamentals Sherman140824/r/seduction31/01/26 09:13 PM
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Field ReportSherman140824/r/seduction14/09/24 06:50 AM
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Inner Game Sherman140824/r/seduction19/09/24 01:45 PM
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Field ReportSherman140824/r/seduction13/10/24 04:54 AM
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Inner Game Sherman140824/r/seduction09/11/24 01:31 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationSherman140824/r/seduction08/10/24 08:51 AM
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Field ReportSherman140824/r/seduction21/05/25 02:13 AM
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ConversationSherman140824/r/seduction04/02/26 04:44 PM
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Inner Game Sherman140824/r/seduction30/10/25 12:18 AM
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Inner Game Sherman140824/r/seduction05/10/24 12:14 AM
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Waiters will notice this and stop it
/r/seduction20/07/26 12:59 AM
0

Befriend people who are not virgins
/r/seduction15/07/26 12:03 AM
1

Still a virgin
/r/seduction12/07/26 10:30 PM
1

When you're strange, faces come out of the rain When you're strange, no one remembers your name
/r/seduction05/07/26 05:49 PM
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That is such a guilt-relieving way to think about it. But some people claim the opposite. In fact on another trip I hang out with a girl and she complained to me that to many guys hit on her. I don't know if she meant or if she was playing the victim card.
/r/seduction05/07/26 04:56 AM
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My personality needs black and white answers but I guess human behavior can never be black and white
/r/seduction05/07/26 04:52 AM
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Why? I am still not sure what I did wrong. I get a lot of conflicting advice. Some say never talk to women. Some subs have banned me because they looked at my post history and discovered I participate in the seduction sub. It seems that in reality there are no clear rules I can follow to pursue a woman with zero risk of being a creep. Say I wanted to meet her later that day. My best bet not having her number would be to go to the beach and wait for her to turn up.
/r/seduction05/07/26 04:50 AM
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So is that stalking when a man does it?
/r/seduction04/07/26 02:08 PM
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What is stalking then? I fo not want to be "that guy" no matter how much I like someone
/r/seduction04/07/26 02:07 PM
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So it is OK to wait for someone so you can hit on them?
/r/seduction04/07/26 02:06 PM
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But it would be equivalent to hitting on her. And our tents were almost next to each other. If she didn't reciprocate it would make coexisting awkward. And I felt like I was about to overstep a boundary. We hear so many complaints about men hitting on women, not leaving them alone etc
/r/seduction04/07/26 02:05 PM
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I felt like I would be overstepping a boundary. Talking casually is OK but asking for her number is hitting on her and shameful. I felt judged. There was also a woman with her teenage daughter looking at us.
/r/seduction04/07/26 02:02 PM
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But we talked once, then I didn't see her for two days. And she was from another country. What was the point of keeping in touch? She continued her vacation and met other guys and made love.
/r/seduction04/07/26 01:59 PM
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No
/r/seduction04/07/26 02:57 AM
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You mean when she told me we'd talk tomorrow? I felt that would be too pushy. It would frame all our previous interaction as an excuse to get her social media/number. I thought it would be best if we could just talk tomorrow, but it didn't happen.
/r/seduction04/07/26 02:16 AM
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I never recall any brotherhood. My friends wanted company of course but they also wanted to better than me and do better than me.
/r/BlackPillScience04/07/26 01:59 AM
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It sounds like you are having eye contact with minors.
/r/seduction02/07/26 11:17 PM
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The penis
/r/seduction02/07/26 10:50 PM
1

Abusive narcissist parents and older brother. Intentionally scape goated me to create guilt and called me every demeaning thing you can imagine. Consequently even looking at a girl in the eyes was too much for me. I was too scared to express my emotions to them to the point it made me depressed when I fell in love with classmates because I knew I would not do anything about it. Then my family isolated me from the world so they could exploit me financially by stealing the house my grandfather lef…
/r/seduction29/06/26 04:54 AM
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You need to find a way. I am 46 and practically a virgin. I went one date in my life. My parents destroyed me to control me
/r/seduction28/06/26 11:21 PM
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Why are you still in the USA? You like dating oldies?
/r/seduction25/06/26 11:13 PM
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Pregabalin just makes you dizzy and sleepy. The Danish shooter from years ago said he used trt to make himself motivated to carry on his plans. Testosterone and cocaine are prolly the only pharmaceutical motivators. Remember the primal fear if approaching women is a fear of conflict when you are low in status. You either raise your status through art performance, or being in positions where others want to ve on your good side (bartender, bouncer), or you raise the chemicals that make you want to…
/r/seduction16/06/26 01:54 PM
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Prostitution is your best bet
/r/seduction10/06/26 05:48 AM
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If they see you are alone they judge you
/r/seduction10/06/26 05:32 AM
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Are you a bot?
/r/seduction10/06/26 05:31 AM
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I have watched orgies. You need to know ppl already
/r/seduction25/05/26 11:18 PM
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It is similar to getting your first job. First you have to realize what you are: Aging hikkikomori. Then you have to aim low at a new beginning. Bury your dreams for a wonderful life. Accept the possibility of early failure and everything going wrong. Then you give it a try. And usually you can try again until you make it
/r/seduction11/05/26 10:40 PM
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Women in clubs suck
/r/seduction10/05/26 11:07 PM
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They avoid eye contact cause they know your looking
/r/seduction07/04/26 11:43 PM
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In my country you have to be staying at the hotel to enter the hotel bar
/r/seduction31/03/26 09:49 PM
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Exist.
/r/seduction22/03/26 03:39 PM
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Reserved people show emotions in more subtle ways. A glance, a laughter.
/r/seduction16/03/26 09:30 PM
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Hello I'm 47. Yes confidence plays a huge role.
/r/seduction08/03/26 09:21 AM
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London
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:21 PM
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They are sponsorship oriented and eat dollars and Americans for breakfast
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:20 PM
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I just saw two cute innocent girls ask random street musicians to come back to their hotel with them. This is the problem.
/r/seduction28/02/26 12:06 AM
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90kg no interest 80kg some interest
/r/seduction21/02/26 11:53 PM
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I think people in bars dislike me being there
/r/seduction18/02/26 12:30 AM
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No way! Noone ever thought the lonely creepy guy was harmless and the popular stud treated women badly. This is complete new to me
/r/BlackPillScience14/02/26 08:14 PM
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This depends if you live in USA or not
/r/seduction14/02/26 12:49 AM
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It will be too late when there is nowhere left to go
/r/seduction04/02/26 05:57 PM
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When most of our speech takes place online what does that mean?
/r/seduction04/02/26 05:54 PM
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The mods told me so explicity
/r/seduction04/02/26 05:52 PM
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I hear that. But at the same time I want to talk about my hobbies. The mods say that people like us are not a good fit for their communities. They say talking to women with sexual intent is creepy and malicious. But human sexuality does not have an on/off switch. It's been proven scientifically that we make subconscious decisions about people based on their attractiveness --the halo effect. We all enjoy interacting or even being around attractive members of the opposite sex. It's natural and out…
/r/seduction04/02/26 05:52 PM
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US has been getting a lot of bad publicity around the world
/r/seduction04/02/26 05:41 PM
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A fitting moral metaphor
/r/seduction04/02/26 05:41 PM
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But it is obvious they are a tourist
/r/seduction01/02/26 12:53 PM
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My friend are you stupid? This lasted 30 seconds.
/r/seduction31/01/26 10:07 PM
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You are also normies. If you talk to girls you are normie
/r/seduction25/01/26 01:05 PM
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The sub is full of these robotic posts - best this best that 2027
/r/seduction22/01/26 09:01 PM
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Your dick will atrophy
/r/seduction15/01/26 12:34 AM
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What have you been doing 2 years for pleasure?
/r/seduction11/01/26 06:15 PM
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Play guitar
/r/BlackPillScience31/12/25 02:45 AM
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No way! Who knew?
/r/BlackPillScience31/12/25 02:44 AM
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Spain
/r/seduction25/12/25 12:32 PM
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They look at my fat belly
/r/seduction18/12/25 10:32 PM
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My ho phase started at 11 and will end when I die; Like with every male, the will is here, the opportunity is misding
/r/seduction18/11/25 12:35 PM
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Women crave power imbalance in a relationship. They want the man to be smarter, more experienced, more powerful. They are attracted by someone of higher social status and ability.
/r/seduction10/11/25 08:11 PM
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I wear ear plugs in bars
/r/seduction09/11/25 07:15 AM
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Great lovers
/r/seduction07/11/25 03:28 AM
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Go on a trip. Problem will solved
/r/seduction06/11/25 11:17 AM
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Think of the difference between sex with a prostitute and sex with a woman who desires you. Think of the things that are in the background: the way you touch, the way you gaze, the bodily interaction, feelings of timelessness, of passion, think of how a natural environment, the beach, the stars in a clear sky create atmosphere and emotions, -emotions are infectious. Think of how a strange melody can make us feel. If you bring these things into sex you create a vastly superior experience. Young w…
/r/seduction06/11/25 10:54 AM
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You need to offer more than hard dick. You need to offer an experience of strange strong and magical feelings
/r/seduction06/11/25 10:21 AM
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This the most difficult age of woman because they are after marriage.
/r/seduction06/11/25 08:50 AM
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Man older good. Woman older bad. The simple rule from when America was truly great and respected.
/r/seduction04/11/25 02:30 PM
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I order orange juice
/r/seduction03/11/25 10:07 PM
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This conversation sounds too American for me to understand. I imagine both of you in cowboy hats.
/r/seduction02/11/25 08:48 PM
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What was the offensive joke that scared the girl away?
/r/seduction01/11/25 05:49 PM
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I grew up in the 90s. Every popular TV show said men were pigs, harassers and rapists. Flirting with women was a criminal act. The older I got the more I saw the same message through different channels customized to my demographic. Social media, reddit, everyone said leave women alone. Each time I made some small progress and committed to trying more next time, I was intercepted by spiteful redditors. I did manage to approach women, chat with them, exchange contacts, go on dates. But each step w…
/r/seduction01/11/25 01:52 AM
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Next time I will tell I am a purpled hair non-binary interested in meeting green haired transqueer
/r/seduction30/10/25 09:56 PM
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I find a less intelligent girl
/r/seduction26/10/25 05:29 PM
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If prostitution was legal do you think a lot of college students would do it to support their lifestyle?
/r/seduction25/10/25 02:28 PM
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Just overheard two Americans talking on the street. Ages 28ish. The pretty one was saying how a guy did not text her for a week only to respond to her story after a week by writing haha. She was angry and vengeful. She said she would go to his open mic and totaly ignore him and fuck a stranger. Then they were saying something aout dicks and guys. My conclusion based on this is that American girls are easier but why would you want to fuck them?
/r/seduction25/10/25 02:26 PM
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Friendship is not real
/r/seduction25/10/25 04:11 AM
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You mean on men? Shaved or waxed balls is best
/r/seduction24/10/25 11:06 PM
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I don't think women mind questions. Whoever came up with this "interviewer" mene is doing us a disservicd
/r/seduction23/10/25 08:25 PM
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No quite the opposite
/r/seduction23/10/25 02:23 AM
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Something became too complicated and got messed up. I would have just asked her out on a simple date without meeting other people at other places
/r/seduction22/10/25 02:08 AM
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Why did it seem like she was going to the redacted?
/r/seduction21/10/25 01:20 PM
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College girls in the US have markers of brain damage from choking
/r/seduction16/10/25 10:59 PM
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Did you choke her?
/r/seduction16/10/25 12:18 PM
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You just have to go to places were women go when they feel ready for sex. There used to be a bar in my city where gilfs went to pick-up young lads. I bet there is something like that in every city. Otherwise you have to be persistent and sexual.
/r/seduction15/10/25 07:44 PM
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I asked two girls to hang out on my vacation. One said no because they are "spontaneous" about their plans. The other said we could play cards some day. I didn't talk to them again. They were smiling at me, but I ignored them. What is the point of smiling at a guy if you don't want to hang out with him? There is a chance I could have convinced them if I had taken it slower, but... what's the point.
/r/seduction04/10/25 02:38 PM
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She said she was in a rush. Gotta keep moving. Gotta get on the road.
/r/seduction04/10/25 01:08 PM
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I agree. I asked a girl out and she said yes. I told her to message me to set up details because she was checking in to her hotel. She never did but she messaged me the next day when she was out of town. She wanted to exchange travel tips or something. I blocked her
/r/seduction04/10/25 04:30 AM
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Somewhere I read about eye contact and open or closed body language. Other than that the only thing that helped was women who talked to me first, women who asked me out, and regret about not approaching women who showed me interest. Women teach you skills if you observe how they approach and seduce men.
/r/seduction03/10/25 01:31 PM
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Are you broke or rich?
/r/seduction01/10/25 05:40 AM
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I like you. Let's go for coffee
/r/seduction30/09/25 02:08 AM
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The problem began in TV shows of 90s that portrayed men as sex criminals and "pigs" and made them feel guilty for normal heterosexual desires. This was supported by both the feminist left and the religious right. Then this cultural attack or psy op continued on from TV to new media. In a nutshell he who hesitates masturbates and winner takes all (girls).
/r/seduction30/09/25 01:17 AM
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I tell stories that inspire and infatuate
/r/seduction29/09/25 12:42 AM
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Guitar.
/r/seduction27/09/25 11:45 PM
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Thank you. It's very long. Do you feel that as humans it is natural to be needy? I think that pride and egoism often stops us from admitting our needs and our weaknesses.
/r/seduction27/09/25 11:22 PM
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I actually had the romantic phantasy happen to me but I was not brave enough to follow through.
/r/seduction25/09/25 10:47 PM
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It is easy to fall in love with a girl that is not flirting with us simply because she is cute and we see her again and again. But when we are in environments with many girls we tend to focus on the girls who smile at us and are flirty and usually we have more than one targets. Thus our chances of success multiply. From now on in your place I would join language lessons, dance lessons and go travelling while staying in social hostels.
/r/seduction25/09/25 08:48 AM
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It seems like you do not have an abundance of girls to work on. You need to join the correct emvironments
/r/seduction25/09/25 08:29 AM
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I only do day game. It's good for pissing off incels and feminists.
/r/seduction25/09/25 08:25 AM
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But it does say something about my ability to create arousal through my looks and behavior
/r/seduction24/09/25 11:18 PM
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Beach, hostels, hikes, camping. I always meet young women while travelling. Mostly Germans. They are much prettier and younger than me, but they like to hit on me regardless.
/r/seduction24/09/25 11:10 PM
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Men rely too much on their penis. If lesbians can satisfy a woman, so can any man. Learn the secrets of cunnilingus, aim to give multiple orgasms over an extended period of time, and only use your penis at the end of a session. Your problem will go away along with your stress.
/r/seduction24/09/25 10:41 PM
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Girls smile at me on the street when I travel. I look like Rabban Harkonnen.
/r/seduction18/09/25 08:03 AM
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No.
/r/seduction13/09/25 09:31 PM
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Lots of cockblockers in my country. You just have to win the intimidation game
/r/seduction13/09/25 09:17 PM
1

Isn't the shower a common place for sex?
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:48 PM
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Is it a good thing if the hostel is female friendly? Isn't this the opposite of a party hostel? And is a party hostel a nice environment or a place for drunk rowdy young men?
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:48 PM
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How do you interact with women sitting at another table? Last time I purposely sat at the bar to be in range of the girl I liked. She turned towards me slightly and made eye contact. She had a pleasant expression. I felt nervous. I felt talking to her might be seen overly pickup-y rather than natural. I also felt like the waitress would judge me negatively. How do you make the "leap" to someone else's table at the common area?
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:44 PM
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There will be many Australian women
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:38 PM
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What if you think she wants you but is shy/has reservations? Should you respect her limits or amplify her positive emotions? What is the correct approach in this PC society?
/r/seduction07/09/25 06:41 PM
0

Everyone is ghosting me anyway and chatgpt told me to stay inside my room on my last vacation because it was afraid I would meet a girl outside and cause a "power imbalance". At this point of the march towards techno-dictatorship we need to say f-all.
/r/seduction14/08/25 06:27 PM
1

In the end who cares. Life is too short
/r/seduction14/08/25 06:05 PM
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No
/r/seduction14/08/25 03:41 PM
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I gave my phone to someone. Could I now be on an app even though we never dated?
/r/seduction14/08/25 03:37 PM
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I would try to appear normal especially if it meant not sharing my personal drama on dates
/r/seduction14/08/25 02:23 PM
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Who tells you these things? The women you talk to? Redditors in technology subs (incels)? Chatgpt? I talked to a woman on a bus and someone told me I wanted to kidnap her. Should I pay attention to every malarky I read?
/r/seduction14/08/25 02:21 PM
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No other real solution (Maybe you misread what I wrote)
/r/seduction14/08/25 02:07 PM
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It sounds like Reddit would only exacerbate the feelings of hopelessness and creepiness you have. In fact it is a place where you would come to get them if you didn't have them in the first place. I do think therapy is your only solution to escape inceldom
/r/seduction14/08/25 01:13 PM
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Never
/r/seduction04/07/25 12:40 PM
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Eye contact is overplayed. Often they look at you because they dislike you
/r/seduction30/06/25 12:50 AM
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No. It's like catfishing. There is a chance they won't like you after the revelation. Go hatless. Use minoxidil
/r/seduction26/06/25 11:16 AM
1

I just remembered being at the disco dancing by myself. It was a little crowded so when I saw an open space I headed towards it. Immediately a lesbian gave me a "tough guy" stare. She thought I was going after her girlfriend haha. On the same night I was sitting on a bar stool. Two women sat next to me. I paid them no attention. The barman came over to talk to them - I think she knew them. He slid between my stool and theirs with his back at me and he was leaning on me until I changed stools.
/r/seduction23/06/25 09:19 PM
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It's my fear
/r/seduction23/06/25 09:13 PM
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Coolidge effect I think it's called
/r/seduction19/06/25 10:49 PM
1

Not mention shaming women who like bald men
/r/seduction12/06/25 10:51 PM
1

If you have to ask...
/r/seduction12/06/25 07:19 PM
0

Go for the milfs
/r/seduction12/06/25 05:07 PM
1

Do you also have kids?
/r/seduction10/06/25 09:29 AM
1

Most of cars in Europe will be electric in 2040. How could AGI come before that?
/r/seduction07/06/25 11:32 PM
1

A lot of Americans act like that
/r/seduction07/06/25 12:41 PM
1

Try not to shout or make loud remarks about people you see.
/r/seduction07/06/25 11:02 AM
1

I think you may be missing the point
/r/seduction07/06/25 10:23 AM
1

Why would you assume we date women in this age group
/r/seduction06/06/25 09:42 PM
0

Also beware that in many northern european countries the majority of men are immigrants from the middle east and balkans which means they have medieval ideas. I think you would be safer in places where local women habitually hook up. Iceland, North Europe, US, Canada, Australia. Just make sure to stay at the upscale places where locals hang out
/r/seduction03/06/25 09:40 AM
1

This is what I'm talking about right here
/r/seduction03/06/25 09:33 AM
1

All of the south. Turkey also
/r/seduction03/06/25 09:32 AM
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Don't go to south europe. Men there are sexually repressed and think foreign women are porn stars
/r/seduction02/06/25 10:52 PM
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I'm so confused about women's default assumptions
/r/seduction25/05/25 09:19 PM
10

The want to be seduced even if they already like us. It's very romantic to them. But all those little things that make the atmosphere erotic are hard to describe or quantify. If someone asks how did the date go, what do you say if there wasn't any physical escalation? We went out, we had dinner, we came back.
/r/seduction25/05/25 09:18 PM
7

What are the signs I give off that I want her? How I look at her? Is that enough?
/r/seduction25/05/25 09:12 PM
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So if I don't escalate in the first date do I give the impression that I'm not interested?
/r/seduction25/05/25 08:59 PM
2

Sorry English is my second language
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:09 PM
7

One time a girl I knew from class was at a festival. She called at me as I was buying soda. I said hi but couldn't hear her. I signaled with my hands I'll come over cause I can't hear you. So I got there and immediately she and her friend turned side-ways, put their heads down and made disgusted faces. She talked to me holding this pose. Not subtle at all.
/r/seduction24/05/25 01:47 PM
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Yes I have noticed this myself. Foreign girls sometimes look happy to see me. To them I could be the protagonist of a romance novel in their head
/r/seduction23/05/25 10:44 PM
4

I wish I was 32
/r/seduction22/05/25 07:02 PM
2

I am 45
/r/seduction22/05/25 07:00 PM
4

If you are American this might be an issue of drinking age. But more importantly you need to understand that your mistake was giving information where emotion was being asked. The girl just wants to validate her emotions and to that your answer should have been I'm the same age. It's not lying because she doesn't really care about your age, it's a superficial question like how's the weather. You are expected to communicate rapport and warmth. I have been witness to similar situations where the g…
/r/seduction18/05/25 06:09 PM
2

You answered your question turban guy
/r/seduction13/05/25 11:11 AM
1

I'm sure you'll find a way to get to those girls or find new ones. Are you a steward?
/r/seduction09/05/25 08:04 PM
4

If I was 20 again my priorities would be sex>travel>work. Learn from the regretful
/r/seduction09/05/25 07:57 PM
3

Tonnes of DMs? What do they write?
/r/seduction09/05/25 05:57 PM
1

My country is very cock-blocky. Most guys cock block out of jealousy. If they see a girl like you they become angry. If they can scare you away they feel better than you
/r/seduction05/05/25 04:44 PM
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Maybe you don't go out much. It happened again today. A gill turned and looked at me. Just looked. A guy woth an apron came out and walked briskly towards the followed behind me a few steps. He kept staring at me like a dog as I was walking away.
/r/seduction05/05/25 04:42 PM
1

Part of the job go flirt with the tourists if you're a young eaiter
/r/seduction05/05/25 04:39 PM
-1

First off they would know because I'm local. Second an acquaintance would say hi and the waiter would notice the girl saying hi back. Then the acquaintance might approach for a brief chat if it was not too crowded -this would be unwanted but tolerated. If the chat took more than a few seconds they'd come in your face and ask if they can help you. It's generally a hostile environment.
/r/seduction04/05/25 11:34 PM
1

Not fancy
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:28 PM
-4

Haha you are clueless. In touristy areas it's almost part of the job.
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:27 PM
-10

Risk their job for what? Helping me?
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:26 PM
2

Not fancy at all
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:24 PM
-14

You don't understand. There are waiters outside whose job is to chase away people who would do that. They look at you funny just for looking at the customers. What I was thinking was either to go sit at the restaurant and hope I can sit at at a table near her, or even better wait for her to leave the restaurant and then follow her so I can say hello. Both strategies are risky though
/r/seduction04/05/25 06:41 PM
-25

I was not a customer. I was passing by. Also the waiter might want the girl for himself
/r/seduction04/05/25 05:45 PM
2

This is good advice thank you. Though I have discovered cultural differences between women as we get a lot of european tourists in my country. Last summer two friends that were 10/10 smiled and talked to me. I was confused so I just gave them some useful information. Other women see a lone man and immediately think he's alone so he will come talk to me so I better lut on my nasty face so he doesn't approach
/r/seduction30/04/25 02:15 PM
1

Hmm You don't seem sure that there was no attraction to begin with
/r/seduction29/04/25 04:25 PM
1

Some women react bad just for being near them
/r/seduction29/04/25 10:48 AM
0

Yes that is the logical attitude. I still felt that talking to girls at the beach that I had met before in clothes was slimy. Same for talking to a couple I was acquaintances with. I thought the guy night think I wanted to see his gf's tits
/r/seduction29/04/25 12:10 AM
1

Photography walks are heavily female. I know people who teach photography just to score
/r/seduction28/04/25 04:50 PM
1

My german date told me they have hobbies like gardening, dancing and similar. Also meetup platform
/r/seduction28/04/25 04:49 PM
1

What went wrong?
/r/seduction28/04/25 04:28 PM
1

Dinner. Chinese love goes through the stomach
/r/seduction27/04/25 08:00 PM
1

Every sane person says travelers are prostitutes?
/r/seduction27/04/25 07:57 PM
0

Who is upvoting this?
/r/seduction27/04/25 01:31 PM
-8

It's a good idea. You could find the love of your life
/r/seduction27/04/25 01:03 PM
1

Not everyone wants to stay in touch with their roots
/r/seduction24/04/25 09:09 PM
2

In my country it's not normal to talk to strangers unless you are very young guy hitting on girls
/r/seduction20/04/25 12:21 PM
1

I contracted something on my lips that makes them hard to stretch and sticky. No blisters though. I believe if I had washed my mouth immediately after I would have been alright.
/r/seduction16/04/25 10:15 PM
1

Are you bangladeshi dear?
/r/seduction13/04/25 09:44 PM
1

Not really means yes something similar. I bet there are women where you work unless you're a manual laborer
/r/seduction13/04/25 09:26 PM
1

Do you work for the europarliament?
/r/seduction13/04/25 09:10 PM
54

You must have married in your 20s
/r/seduction11/04/25 03:43 PM
2

I like this analysis. I wonder how the combinations of same age+gamey and old age+polite interest fare. My guess is the more attractive you are, the more you can get away with
/r/seduction11/04/25 12:44 AM
1

And it could be taken as disrespect. But if you can slowly befriend them is a different story. I became friends with a waiter a couple of years ago on a trip.
/r/seduction11/04/25 12:38 AM
0

Women in these jobs get asked their names every day. I wouldn't do it unless I had already established rapport with her. Asking for their name without prior interaction is too sudden and could be interpreted as disrespect towards the fact she is working. That said avoiding the restaurant altogether is too extreme
/r/seduction11/04/25 12:36 AM
2

Do you know how many guys hit on her every day? Just forget about it, be nirmal, don't act guilty
/r/seduction11/04/25 12:32 AM
1

North European girls are the nicest
/r/seduction06/04/25 07:48 PM
1

I used to know a Serbian dancer. Pretty chill but I think they have high standards. Are you very tall?
/r/seduction06/04/25 07:22 PM
2

Do you have Bulgarian and Romanian experience?
/r/seduction06/04/25 07:21 PM
1

I know she would have
/r/seduction03/04/25 12:37 AM
2

If he loves you he will wait
/r/seduction31/03/25 12:53 AM
0

Escorts usually are soulless and mechanical.
/r/seduction19/03/25 02:38 AM
2

I don't trust my erection
/r/seduction18/03/25 03:32 AM
0

My dick is not good
/r/seduction18/03/25 03:30 AM
-8

But she may not give me a second chance
/r/seduction18/03/25 01:07 AM
-17

But if I'm not good she won't want to see me again
/r/seduction18/03/25 01:06 AM
1

You can go ask them where they're from, introduce yourself, ask if you can sit next to them. Then it is a matter of vibing, not being nervous. Some people are good at this but they have spent a lot of time in topless beaches talking to scandinavian girls
/r/seduction16/03/25 12:06 AM
1

Problem is for a lot of guys you need to make conversation and keep it going. It's easier if they are sunbathing and you ask if you can sit next to them. Then you don't have to talk constantly for hours and you can arrange to go eat something afterwards or after you freshen up -they may prefer either
/r/seduction16/03/25 12:04 AM
1

The bar stuff ate my competitors. They have no interest in making me their friend
/r/seduction07/03/25 03:59 PM
1

I think they want an easy excuse to say no if down the road they decide they don't like you
/r/seduction07/03/25 02:42 PM
1

I never carry a pen
/r/seduction07/03/25 12:44 AM
1

The bar stuff sometimes try to cockblock you, so I wouldn't talk to them
/r/seduction07/03/25 12:28 AM
1

Nature is the medicin
/r/seduction04/03/25 11:13 AM
1

I'm not like that. I develop feelings for girls quickly. I don't think I'd like to be with someone I don't care about just for the sex. But you are correct to point out that I am scared to try all the things I would like to do
/r/seduction24/02/25 10:07 PM
1

I hear there are bars where cougars go to find cubs
/r/seduction23/02/25 10:20 PM
2

An exception might be a big tourist group of like 10 people because they break off from the guys
/r/seduction22/02/25 10:46 PM
1

Do you have face tatoos, why not?
/r/seduction22/02/25 02:14 PM
2

Surprise butt finger
/r/seduction22/02/25 02:09 PM
72

All the guys I've seen at bats are very territorial and give aggressive looks if you look at the women they're with, even if it's one guy and three girls
/r/seduction22/02/25 02:08 PM
1

I don't know if I'm capable. Maybe I'll make mistakes or become too tired answering phones or my legs will hurt (I have bad veins). In addition most hotels house their employees in a dorm
/r/seduction18/02/25 09:14 PM
1

I want to work front desk at a hotel but I don't know if I can handle it.
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:53 PM
1

Yeah but it's also hard work. Not many people choose to do it, let alone for the purpose of meeting women. But sometimes you need to go hardcore
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:29 PM
1

Tall people have a heightened belief they can beat others. This gives them dominance and courage
/r/BlackPillScience15/02/25 11:59 PM
1

I noticed this in school. The female friend groups had similar attractiveness
/r/BlackPillScience15/02/25 11:22 PM
0

You will stop asking too many questions
/r/seduction12/02/25 04:04 PM
0

Go to a hostel in Madrid alone. It will do you good
/r/seduction12/02/25 12:17 AM
3

Do you think it's realistic to expect women to be content with that?
/r/seduction04/02/25 10:38 PM
1

No I haven't. I don't want a girl I have feelings for to abandon me because of my sexual weakness. Even though it's not the only thing that makes a relationship succeed, it is a deal breaker for many women. Maybe they put up with unsatisfactory sex in the beginning, but then they think of what they're missing and become resentful.
/r/seduction04/02/25 10:16 PM
1

I have tried daily cialis. I have tried them all.
/r/seduction04/02/25 10:13 PM
1

I think the fact that I only meet women during trips is important. In those situations the days we have together are numbered and we have the whole 24h to spend together. I can't help fearing that a girl will reject and abandon me because of my sexual weakness. I want to give her amazing sex so she will be happy to stay with me.
/r/seduction04/02/25 10:12 PM
2

No, I've actually lost my interest in porn and masturbation. Which I wonder if it is pathological.
/r/seduction04/02/25 10:07 PM
1

No porn, no more than one a week masturbation, rarely gym
/r/seduction04/02/25 10:06 PM
1

Yes I'm assuming.
/r/seduction04/02/25 10:03 PM
-1

Why not? How do you deal with not being able to give a woman what she wants? How do you break the bad news to her? You feel a connection, you make love, 30 minutes later she wants more and you tell her you need 2 days to recharge. Would this ruin your fling? How should I deal with the insecurity? The women I meet, I always want more from them than an one night stand.
/r/seduction04/02/25 08:19 PM
-1

My blood tests are OK. The urologist was reluctant to do specialized tests like penile ultrasound. He told me to just take viagra.
/r/seduction04/02/25 08:15 PM
1

Not all of them. On another situation I felt disrespected because she was asking me to do her favors like grab her coat for her, but in reality she was looking for an excuse to talk to me.
/r/seduction03/02/25 12:41 AM
2

Sure, social media are another addiction that makes us forget life
/r/seduction02/02/25 10:59 PM
2

Could the injectable work better? Something to look into. Good luck! I went on my first date older than you and she was the best girl in the world.
/r/seduction02/02/25 10:54 PM
2

I don't agree with the off grid advice for a lonely person. He needs to be going on trips and socializing even if these social relationships are superficial. The most successful puas are good at superficial relationships, good at talking to and being liked by strangers.
/r/seduction02/02/25 08:12 PM
2

Swedish people often don't have friends
/r/seduction02/02/25 08:06 PM
2

You need to take ozempic. Otherwise weight loss can take years and can be temporary. Being fat makes you think what's the point about improving on other things. It's like a hard limit. Start with ozempic then maybe some job or volunteering position. Something to get you to make connections with people.
/r/seduction02/02/25 08:04 PM
3

Sometimes I think people have done something to disrespect or rake advantage of me when in reality it is my insecurity making me think like that. Fir example someone cancelling our plans or cutting off our texting a little abruptly.
/r/seduction01/02/25 01:15 AM
1

Even the gym near the uni campus was no more than 20% female. Do you wear special clothes that make women check you out?
/r/seduction31/01/25 02:39 PM
1

I'll try that for weight loss.
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:30 PM
1

Sorry, bad idea.
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:28 PM
1

I suspect it mostly has to do with infrastructure. The buildings here are old and the spaces small. This hot yoga thing sounds like it would need a well insulated room, expensive heating and adjacent locker rooms that are also insulated and heated. So lots of money for infrastructure and electricity.
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:27 PM
1

I wouldn't have guessed.
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:16 PM
1

I like modern dance and I think I would be good at it if my knees weren't f'up. Also unlike a big commercial gym where you are invisible to the trainers, in a dance school or art school the teachers may not like you if you are a man. I used to take photography classes but all the girls flocked around the male teachers who always gave me aggressive looks.
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:14 PM
2

I have two degrees in foreign languages. It was not my purpose to get degrees
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:09 PM
1

Maybe maybe maybe.
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:07 PM
2

In my country all gyms are 80-90% male. Our women don't like to exercize. They like art and coffee and shopping.
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:05 PM
1

They would never look at a man beneath them
/r/seduction30/01/25 05:47 PM
1

I'm considering this
/r/seduction30/01/25 08:47 AM
2

It seems to me that women who go to those things don't have jobs and would be rude to men who need a job to survive
/r/seduction30/01/25 08:03 AM
7

Is this pre-Trump or post-Trump directive?
/r/seduction30/01/25 08:02 AM
2

I have thought of those but would expect post-menopausal women to frequent them. Women tend yo push other women away if they're not like themselves
/r/seduction30/01/25 08:01 AM
2

The group classes are frequented by women over 50
/r/seduction30/01/25 08:00 AM
3

Knitting is cool. My grandma knew how to knit. I will learn by myself one day and knit me a nice sweater
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:59 AM
4

I can fake being into anything and be good at it. In my country studying anything medical costs money.
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:58 AM
2

Who want a doctor
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:57 AM
1

Sounds fun. I think this only exists in the US
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:56 AM
1

What is a hospitality venue?
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:54 AM
4

Yeah but I would enjoy being the center of attention like the few women in my gym.
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:54 AM
7

Book club?
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:53 AM
2

Really? I always thought surfers were dudes. Anyway no surfing in my country.
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:52 AM
5

We don't have hot yoga in my country and regular yoga -in my gym at least, is frequented by women over 50 who have stopped being interested in men.
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:51 AM
-2

Pilates just looks horrible
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:50 AM
8

I like tennis. And you get to play with somebody so it's social.
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:49 AM
7

In my gym they have a hall for group classes but it's always women in their 50s and 60s who attend them.
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:48 AM
35

You have a whole system in place. :D My gym has these group classes for pilates/yoga but it's mostly women in their 50s and 60s attending them
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:47 AM
1

Yeah I would have expected this.
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:43 AM
2

Both you and her have to be in the condition to be able to fall in love. Starting something new or travelling helps.
/r/seduction29/01/25 09:23 PM
2

I've had a guy try to shoulder bump me because I was looking st his friend's feet trying to copy her dance moves. How am I supposed to learn?
/r/seduction29/01/25 12:48 PM
1

I was dancing alone at a countryside disco. It was small so I was near a table at a certain moment. The girl who was sitting there picked up her phone from the table and left because she thought I wanted to steal it
/r/seduction28/01/25 10:14 AM
3

Bouncers and staff use to divide the women customers among themselves. It is possible you took a girl they had their eyes on. You need to be careful at that place.
/r/seduction28/01/25 09:51 AM
1

Don't listen to him. It is your goal to look like a lion on the hunt. Both men and women can use seductive intensity to captivate their target.
/r/seduction28/01/25 09:48 AM
2

I disagree. A hunter is not afraid of the prey. If he was a hunter he would have stared intensely in a girl's eyes, and this would have worked. I have seen both men and women pull this off but they had very confident body language.
/r/seduction28/01/25 09:46 AM
3

We think young pretty women are the ultimate benchmark of our worth. In reality they can be as stupid and cruel as any spoiled college fuckface.
/r/seduction28/01/25 09:44 AM
7

Tourists resorts that attract a young crowd. There are studies about women on vacation and how their sexual behavior changes. There is a pick up coach in my country who does videos and bootcamps hitting on tourists. If he hit on locals they would call the police.
/r/seduction28/01/25 08:55 AM
1

I have met very few women who were attracted to me and only one wanted to go through the process of dating and hanging out. The others were very forward in their body language and that probably made me even more anxious.
/r/seduction19/01/25 02:09 PM
1

Doctors in this country tend to just brush off everything as psychological. I recently started taking pde5 inhibitors again on my own after a failed attempt years ago that left me with tinnitus. Looking back I should have gone to a urologist years ago instead of experimenting on my own, but that doesn't mean the doctor would have solved all my problems. This sub helped me years ago realize that a girl I was in love with liked me back. It's a little different than other places on the internet.
/r/seduction19/01/25 02:04 PM
1

I have asked women online if they would date someone who is impotent and they said "hell no". So it's not just about my expectations from myself but about a woman's expectations from me.
/r/seduction19/01/25 10:46 AM
1

He could be a narc dad
/r/seduction19/01/25 09:04 AM
1

Doctors have not helped so far
/r/seduction19/01/25 09:01 AM
0

Do women think the same? I once asked on a psychology board, a place where most users were female and some of them were psychologists. Their answers were very cruel.
/r/seduction19/01/25 07:19 AM
0

It's making things worse but it's also a coping mechanism for a very lonely life
/r/seduction19/01/25 07:05 AM
1

I want to believe it won't be a big deal and I also want to believe it will also happen only on the first time. But with my track record there is a chance I am impotent. Anyway a reasonable answer. The only occasions I had a chance to meet women who might have liked me was on summer vacation. All my life I am waiting for a summer.
/r/seduction19/01/25 07:02 AM
1

If I was a person who could believe in himself my life would be different. Maybe if I could find a girl who would be happy not to have sex with me at first. Who would be content doing non-penetrative stuff for a while.
/r/seduction18/01/25 09:15 PM
1

Not a bad idea but it doesn't guarantee I can stay erect for penetration and changing positions
/r/seduction18/01/25 09:05 PM
1

How do I test this? I need a way to test it. Trying with a sex worker is obviously a no go.
/r/seduction18/01/25 08:20 PM
1

I don't know if it's mental and even so, would I have this problem again with a woman who wants to have sex with me? If it happens, I can't just scrub it off as an one time thing.
/r/seduction18/01/25 08:19 PM
8

It could be. When I hug them I get an erection, but when it's time to penetrate or when she starts giving me oral, the erection vanishes.
/r/seduction18/01/25 08:16 PM
0

If I can't have sex with the woman I met she will leave me. Sex is a prerequisite for women -at the very least they want you to be able to become erect.
/r/seduction18/01/25 08:14 PM
2

I am overweight. But even at times when I lost the weight the problem persisted
/r/seduction18/01/25 08:12 PM
1

And if she says yes you always have to worry about another guy stealing her from you.
/r/seduction16/01/25 02:02 PM
1

I usually guess correctly
/r/seduction16/01/25 07:17 AM
0

But a lot of women say it annoys them or that it's creepy if the guy is not attractive and we shouldn't do it.
/r/seduction15/01/25 08:05 AM
3

Slap it
/r/seduction11/01/25 04:18 PM
1

You need to focus on south european women. They like dark guys. But you can't be a nerd. You have to be hip and hang out with hip people.
/r/seduction10/01/25 02:10 PM
1

What do you do for work in Italy Germany and France?
/r/seduction10/01/25 10:10 AM
1

Good luck man
/r/seduction05/01/25 08:33 PM
3

The closest I have come to feeling like I had a real sexual experience was when I peeped on couples
/r/seduction05/01/25 03:52 AM
2

I have, but I still consider myself a virgin because it doesn't feel real. There were also erection issues, but mainly a feeling of not really having sex and feeling very hollow afterwards. It felt more like I had a sex life when I was able to peep on couples.
/r/seduction05/01/25 03:51 AM
43

Humans can get used to anything. Inmates get used to life in prison. Disabled people become institutionalized inside institutions or families. The unfamiliar is scary. The biological instinct attenuates. The reward-addiction loop is disrupted or never begins to form. You are like a lion who never tasted the taste of meat. An animal raised in captivity. I am also a 40+yo virgin.
/r/seduction04/01/25 05:31 PM
1

I've never met solo guys who were planning to talk to girls.
/r/seduction30/12/24 05:22 AM
1

Sometimes people step on my foot or trip md
/r/seduction29/12/24 09:43 PM
0

I've noticed they are always in groups. Do you have a group of similarly minded friends?
/r/seduction27/12/24 04:04 PM
3

Only when AI becomes more realistic than real live streams (give it 7 years)
/r/seduction26/12/24 05:46 AM
3

If you are a bartender
/r/seduction23/12/24 02:41 AM
8

I live in Europe. I met a girl on vacation that seemed to like me and I felt this intense connection. Unfortunately anxiety exacerbated by harassment made ne screw it all up. I am a millennial. When I was growing up the environment was too strict for dating. In my 30s I suddenly became too old. There is a lot of cockblocking and bullying going on, driven by jealousy, spite and a sense of stagnation from married people. Gen Z are getting a free pass so far. Chances of meeting someone outside of t…
/r/seduction23/12/24 02:36 AM
1

You too! Good luck with life. Live it your way.
/r/seduction22/12/24 03:42 AM
3

This was years ago. Unlike others in her profession, she was smart, saved money, built a house in her home country, and quit the business while young.
/r/seduction22/12/24 03:35 AM
1

I only visited her 3-4 times. It started immediately. She was talkative and cute. Gave me some advice as well. I asked her if I should pay for more time and she said I shouldn't waste my money.
/r/seduction22/12/24 02:27 AM
3

I used to visit a prostitute who would let me stay in the room with her for triple the normal time. We talked a bit and cuddled and stuff. I caught myself catching feelings and stopped visiting her. I now regret it. I could have asked her on a coffee date. Other people have had prostitute girlfriends through the client route.
/r/seduction22/12/24 02:13 AM
1

It is one of my fears and I wouldn't knowhow to deal with it. We could be sitting at the bar and the guy could casually start chatting with one of the girls or try to play nice to me.
/r/seduction20/12/24 05:35 PM
1

What do you do if you are talking to two girls and a guy you don't know cuts in to hit on them?
/r/seduction20/12/24 03:53 PM
1

Jerk off more often
/r/seduction16/12/24 11:19 AM
4

It',s the best age to approach them
/r/seduction08/12/24 09:40 PM
1

Sure bro.
/r/seduction01/12/24 08:34 AM
2

So it seems
/r/seduction30/11/24 06:25 PM
-6

She wasnt annoyed
/r/seduction30/11/24 02:05 PM
-4

If she immediately came over to dance and you thought she was annoyed, you have some serious insecurities
/r/seduction30/11/24 10:11 AM
1

I have never been on a date in my life
/r/seduction29/11/24 08:31 PM
1

Wat?
/r/seduction29/11/24 08:30 PM
0

No. I don't touch people.
/r/seduction29/11/24 02:38 PM
0

I didn't mean info about me. I try to offer help, but that's not the road they want a conversation to take. It's like in the movie dumb and dumber with Jim Carey when the models in the bus stop to tell them they are looking for two guys.
/r/seduction29/11/24 01:21 PM
1

What did she say?
/r/seduction29/11/24 10:02 AM
-1

Be tall. Be attractive. Don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction29/11/24 10:02 AM
3

Sometimes I am approached by 20somethings. In fact older women are more reserved and never approach me. I am almost as old as OP. I do not have an explanation for this, but it may have to do with cultural differences between Europe and US.
/r/seduction29/11/24 10:01 AM
1

I think it's creepy at any age but youngsters get away with it because in modern society they are always cuddled and treated with leniency. I'm in my mid 40s and have had some women approach me, but it didn't end in a date. I just gave them some recommendations about places to go for dinner and drinks. I am good at offering info but I think sometimes I offer too much info and the attraction becomes lost. Anyway good luck man!
/r/seduction29/11/24 09:58 AM
2

You need to be patient and persistent. Because usually guys think you are just being polite or that you treat all men the same way. They need to feel they are special to you and this requires repetition of the behavior.
/r/seduction26/11/24 06:18 AM
4

You need to find hobbies. Then all you have to do is look at the person and smile. Be patient and do it again. And again on another day. Be consistent. You can also say hi if you pass each other.
/r/seduction26/11/24 06:16 AM
1

Some guys come in big groups and feel strong. They may not know how to dance
/r/seduction24/11/24 09:27 PM
1

How did you learn how to dance? And how do you deal with people who dance too aggressively and step on your foot/push you?
/r/seduction24/11/24 02:26 AM
2

Women usually are not patient. They give a clue to the guy in the form of a smile or a look or even a few words, then retreat and wait. You have to be more consistent and persistent. Allow the guy to relax and understand that you are interested and not likely to quickly lose interest because you found someone else. Also when you approach you have to be kind and feminine. But mostly try to be around and spend time with the guy you want.
/r/seduction23/11/24 11:34 PM
0

The most convincing liars have made their whole life a lie. They have become the lie.
/r/seduction23/11/24 02:57 AM
2

I didn't think the girl I had a crush on wanted to hang out with me, but she probably did. I didn't see her for two days, I was hiding from her you could say. But she stopped me on the way to the port. She was waiting for me. She asked me if I had fun. I paused. Why did she care. I blamed her. Then I corrected myself. I was the one who didn't ask her out. "I had a bit of fun and I will have more in the future. I wish the same for you". What a lie. What a pretentious coward I was. I had a miserab…
/r/seduction17/11/24 02:09 AM
2

They stole my chance at happiness.
/r/seduction17/11/24 12:28 AM
1

I stayed at 4 different places for equal time during my trip. I didn't have problems with the stuff anywhere else. Also even at that place I got along great with all the other guests who were the actual people I was interacting with. The girls next to me even came to say goodbye. That doesn't sound like a creepy guy to me. From day 1 I was targeted at that place. Your premises are not based on reality. Yes people can be mean to strangers without reason. People can be racist, and prejudiced, and …
/r/seduction17/11/24 12:25 AM
2

We have come to the point in history that AI gives better advice than humans.
/r/seduction10/11/24 03:57 PM
1

Either one person spread rumours about me or the owner of the establishment instructed her employees to treat me like that.
/r/seduction10/11/24 03:46 PM
1

Why is it charitable to presume innocence? It is obvious someone was spreading a bad rumour and I don't think I'll ever find out why. This bad behaviour started from one stuff member the day I checked in and then spread to others. Noone ever said anything to me about having a problem. And how could I have done anything upon arrival? I even left them a bad review and they responded by saying that's how they treat guests who are devious and disrespectful, but they never mentioned what happened tha…
/r/seduction10/11/24 03:32 PM
1

I didn't say everyone. I got along fine with the other guests. Only the stuff treated me like that.
/r/seduction09/11/24 07:58 PM
1

People who intend to harass others often do it in a devious way that is hard to prove. I don't have a video or picture to show you. This happened and I'm not exaggerating. If they did not honestly think I was a rapist they deliberately treated me like one.
/r/seduction09/11/24 07:57 PM
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It pities me that your comment got so many likes. It was not ambiguous at all. They had a woman stare at me in a way I would describe as something out of a horror movie. If I had taken a picture to show you I could prove it. In absence of proof you have to trust what I say. If you don't trust what I say there is no point in commenting, is there? The whole story could have been made up. People who intend to harass others often do it in a devious way that is hard to prove.
/r/seduction09/11/24 07:54 PM
0

I did nothing. And I didn't say everyone. Only the stuff.
/r/seduction09/11/24 07:49 PM
0

No trolling please. This actually happened to me.
/r/seduction09/11/24 01:47 PM
1

It is also possible the women who like black men will go look for them where they are aplenty.
/r/seduction09/11/24 01:13 PM
2

I have never had this issue. But someone once told me that I thought a girl wanted to kiss me because I wanted to kiss her. And I was like, this has never happened to me before, why would it happen now.
/r/seduction08/11/24 07:18 PM
2

They are even racist towards their own if they have a disability or are poor. There is a mentality of respecting power and contempting weakness. Like the reverse of communist or Christian values even though they are Christian and ex-communist.
/r/seduction08/11/24 05:34 PM
1

Is it better to be in a place where you are a rarity or in a place where you have less competition from people more attractive than you? The black guy was rarity in that place but say he lived somewhere among many black 50yos who weren't as good looking as him.
/r/seduction08/11/24 05:31 PM
0

What hobbies are interesting?
/r/seduction08/11/24 05:25 PM
2

Young guys are expected to approach young women so don't worry
/r/seduction08/11/24 01:18 AM
2

Do you think this goes for prostitutes also? We become complacent? What if everyone in your city dislikes you?
/r/seduction07/11/24 06:17 PM
3

You might be on to something. People of bottom leagues are not attractive but usually one gets what one can get to avoid being alone
/r/seduction06/11/24 01:36 PM
1

Italy is a group based culture. They will think you are weird for going out alone
/r/seduction05/11/24 10:51 PM
1

I do not believe you
/r/seduction05/11/24 10:48 PM
5

Chin down: https://imgs.search.brave.com/lGIjlj3fWlNO0yriMd2lF0pIdkAljv6ybsdeALgE4FM/rs:fit:500:0:0:0/g:ce/aHR0cHM6Ly90aHVt/YnMuZHJlYW1zdGlt/ZS5jb20vYi9lbGVn/YW50LWZlbWFsZS1m/YXNoaW9uLW1vZGVs/LXNob3J0LXJlZC1o/YWlyLWNsb3NlLXVw/LXBvcnRyYWl0LXBv/c2luZy1hZ2FpbnN0/LWdyYXktYmFja2dy/b3VuZC0zNzE5MTQ0/OC5qcGc https://imgs.search.brave.com/TZtCxJRXqIEGLcESpOBcC6Li7Y-aTYs_4bpuxuqEwfc/rs:fit:500:0:0:0/g:ce/aHR0cHM6Ly90aHVt/YnMuZHJlYW1zdGlt/ZS5jb20vYi9mYXNo/aW9uLWNsb3NlLXVw/LTEzOTMxMjUzLmpw/Zw Face to the si…
/r/seduction05/11/24 12:24 PM
2

I would think that an unknown woman who gives me fuck me eyes gives them to everyone.
/r/seduction05/11/24 12:21 PM
3

I've only seen 20somethings give this look.
/r/seduction05/11/24 10:53 AM
30

Or is it the other way around? I've been given this look by women way out of my league, so I don't think it's a mating call. I think they are just playing with me for self-esteem or laughs.
/r/seduction05/11/24 10:53 AM
7

Why not post a human?
/r/seduction05/11/24 10:51 AM
1

What can a book tell me that women themselves can't? Some of them say they will fake verbal and non-verbal clues. This makes clues unreliable when they are positive and only reliable if they are negative.
/r/seduction04/11/24 07:33 PM
1

Of course it does. He does nothing to make her uncomfortable. She smiles and goes with it. How can the guy rely on her reactions?
/r/seduction04/11/24 07:23 PM
1

An example of steps?
/r/seduction04/11/24 07:20 PM
1

Interesting answer
/r/seduction04/11/24 07:20 PM
1

A woman told me she became uncomfortable one time just because the guy was too old for her. I asked her if he was polite and she said his behavior was not the problem but his age and that he was unrealistic for thinking he could date her.
/r/seduction04/11/24 07:19 PM
2

But I was told what I feel is wrong and that there is no way to know because she could be pretending.
/r/seduction04/11/24 05:56 PM
1

I don't think you understood my question
/r/seduction04/11/24 05:55 PM
2

If you don't feel ripped apart by the thought that she is having sex with someone else, what difference does it matter what you do? How much are you really in love if you're not jealous?
/r/seduction04/11/24 05:53 PM
1

Make love with someone who loves you.
/r/seduction02/11/24 02:18 PM
1

Spicy food
/r/seduction02/11/24 02:14 PM
0

You are advising him and us to do harm for self-benefit. Your rights end where the other person's rights begin.
/r/seduction02/11/24 07:28 AM
1

You have feelings of guilt. Because you think you are evil.
/r/seduction02/11/24 07:18 AM
1

I was sitting on a bar stool facing the dance floor. A drunk guy moved in front of and danced by swirling his head. Then he stood up got dizzy and almost fell. I cought him from banging the back of his head on the edge of bar counter. He then wanted to fight me but I nodded and smiled at him to appease him. I couldn't dance any more because another guy had stepped on my achilles' and I was limping. Not many girls either. What a trashy place, wouldn't you say?
/r/seduction30/10/24 03:09 AM
0

There is age restriction in everything
/r/seduction29/10/24 01:16 PM
1

Do you try to befriend a guy at the bar so you don't look like you're there by yourself?
/r/seduction29/10/24 01:43 AM
1

What did you answer?
/r/seduction29/10/24 01:38 AM
1

How do you know if a girl is not there with a boyfriend or a group of guys who are not with her at the moment? What do you do if someone steps on your foot or is being aggressive on the dance floor?
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:05 AM
1

She said “You better not go back to your apartment by yourself.” "When she was dancing alone" What took place between these two moments in time?
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:43 AM
1

The image I got from his description was that when she said you better not go to bed alone, she immediately jumped away from him and went to dance. We are missing a part of the narrative. In general when you are with a girl at bar, should you constantly be next to her so that no other guy approaches? How would you handle someone who came over to talk to your girl?
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:41 AM
1

Last time I was at a club I looked over from the place I was dancing alone to an empty spot where I'd have more space. A lesbian couple was over there and immediately the "butch" lady gave me a look to stop me from approaching her "femme" partner. That was not my intention but she was pre-emptive.
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:37 AM
1

Do you think this applies to more friendly approaches in other locations? Like you talk to her and her friends, it goes well, you leave and then they are in the mood to talk to more guys?
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:33 AM
1

That is defeatism.
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:30 AM
1

I think you are resentful that you didn't tell her to go to the unisex bathroom with you. Next time you can play your cards better. As men many times we think we want sex when in reality we want acceptance, tenderness and companionship.
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:28 AM
1

Should we be worried if someone else talks to her first? Women have the power of choice. If they choose to spend time with someone else, it just means they were not the right person for us
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:22 AM
1

Do you have friends?
/r/seduction25/10/24 05:24 AM
1

Yeah they give me the evil eye even for being 6 feet (2 meters) from them
/r/seduction24/10/24 06:25 PM
1

If you're a bartender women will be waiting for you when you get off work.
/r/seduction24/10/24 05:36 PM
1

If you are attractive you can send random DMs
/r/seduction24/10/24 04:37 PM
20

It is not pointless. It is important for emotional well being and developing social skills.
/r/seduction24/10/24 01:54 AM
8

He needs to spend time with girls. Wht just focus on himself? Poor time management?
/r/seduction24/10/24 01:49 AM
1

I'm 44. You have time. Enjoy it.
/r/seduction24/10/24 01:48 AM
1

You play the guitar?
/r/seduction23/10/24 02:54 PM
1

I don't interact with women.
/r/seduction23/10/24 02:52 PM
1

Most relationships these days start by sexual attraction. What is high value woman to you? To me someone who is not very calculating.
/r/seduction23/10/24 02:51 PM
0

He's not tall.
/r/seduction23/10/24 02:48 PM
1

Haha. But again you see this prejudice against being a "loser". How many actors, musicians, and other pretty boys smooch off their parents?
/r/seduction23/10/24 01:33 AM
6

Also some videos on social media who tell you you have to "deserve" a woman before you can have her because she will have an infant that needs protection and blabla
/r/seduction23/10/24 01:28 AM
16

Yeah when women want to get married they will want someone who has a stable job but I have examples in my social circle of artists who were blacmailed by their girlfriends to get a 9-5 when the girlfriends felt it was time to get more serious. There was this guy at the campsite I stayed last summer who lives 6 months a year in a tent. He plays guitar on the street outside the camp. Again he was drowning in girls and he was the center of the social life in the camp. The equivalent of the popular …
/r/seduction23/10/24 01:26 AM
1

Have patience
/r/seduction18/10/24 01:19 AM
1

I was far away from the girl with no hope of seeing her again.
/r/seduction17/10/24 01:22 AM
2

Sounds typical.
/r/seduction15/10/24 03:58 PM
1

That's sad to hear.
/r/seduction15/10/24 03:16 PM
2

I wouldn't be able to handle it. The start of a relationship is the most romantic phase. How can you at the same time be picturing that your girl is getting dick from someone else?
/r/seduction15/10/24 03:16 PM
2

Is non exclusivity common in the US?
/r/seduction15/10/24 12:01 AM
2

"You can have a meaningful purpose, you can have plates, you can live a dgaf lifestyle. But if you have attachment issues and/or unresolved trauma they will come out the moment you start falling for any girl (esp real 10s) that you pull. And you will push her away with that." xactly what I did the last two times I fell in love. I deluded myself into believing the girl had found someone else. Even though I had 5 years to understand my abandonment fear, I did it again. Same feelings, same behavior…
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:51 PM
1

You sound like the kind of people who get drunk and cause trouble in clubs. No the girl was not into you. Find better friends.
/r/seduction10/10/24 06:06 PM
1

or had his reputation destroyed
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:13 PM
-1

It doesn't work in all countries and probably doesn't work for guys over 30 anywhere
/r/seduction10/10/24 03:39 PM
1

At the beach I witnessed an old man approach a young model. At first she was like why is everyone on this beach weird, you don't give women space, yesterday a guy followed me home. In a short time he managed to convince her to give her a massage.
/r/seduction09/10/24 06:46 PM
1

I agree.
/r/seduction09/10/24 06:43 PM
1

This why I get nowhere.
/r/seduction09/10/24 06:43 PM
1

Maybe it gave this advice because she was with her friend and they were both women. I needed to flirt with her friend a bit to validate her. I think her friend cock blocked me a bit. I also had a guy do no3 to me. I don't know if he was gay or just psycho. He kept asking me to hang out with him and I kept saying no. One night he told me he would be at the canteen for a beer and I could join him if I wanted. It made me feel very pressured, like what if I want to go there on my own and talk to oth…
/r/seduction08/10/24 07:11 PM
1

But if he said it playfully it wasn't a solution but a funny response to hesitation?
/r/seduction08/10/24 04:10 PM
1

They know why men go to yoga
/r/seduction08/10/24 04:08 PM
1

It's not always about self-esteem. It can be about shame. Deep down in our primitive mind we have the desire not be kicked out or lynched by the herd we belong to. Some extremely inappropriate behaviors can lead to lynching. In a primate herd if the omega tries to approach a female he can be attacked and killed by the alpha. If we feel like outsiders barely tolerated by the tribe, we will try not to upset others. You have to account for some men growing up in violent homes where the slightest in…
/r/seduction08/10/24 04:05 PM
1

I look like Homer
/r/seduction08/10/24 03:35 PM
1

No, we met at the destination.
/r/seduction08/10/24 03:34 PM
1

Might also be a hard coded inclination towards giving an answer that is considered ethical by modern standards. Each time I speak with a girl and feel like she would be willing to go out with me if I asked her, I hesitate because I immediately feel shame. Asking her out or showing romantic interest feels inappropriate or something that threatens her safety and comfort.
/r/seduction08/10/24 02:58 PM
-1

Then this spells doom for our future. AI agents will replace every online tool we use. I also suspect there may be a hard coded inclination towards the needs of women and erring on the side of caution. Better not to risk a woman being bothered by a man, than a man becoming happy. This in turn creates a situation where men who are insecure about being perceived as creepy becoming incels, and men who don't care about women's feelings getting very good at lying and seduction.
/r/seduction08/10/24 02:54 PM
1

A vacation trip. Interacting for a week
/r/seduction08/10/24 02:49 PM
1

I think you dress like the average software developper
/r/seduction08/10/24 09:45 AM
1

Are people's opinions of Indians more prejudiced in the big city? Is there perhaps a big community of blue collar brown skinned immigrants?
/r/seduction08/10/24 09:21 AM
1

Is this in Europe? If so you could have been more playful I think but not force things. Maybe you could follow her on insta or something
/r/seduction08/10/24 09:07 AM
1

Germans don't hug and kiss
/r/seduction08/10/24 09:04 AM
0

It's too difficult. It's like trying to do a back flip on the first try.
/r/seduction06/10/24 07:15 PM
8

Depends on the social environment. Even if the woman is accepting the people around you may try to intimidate you.
/r/seduction06/10/24 06:59 PM
2

Sometimes jealousy makes me delusional and paranoid. For example while I was camping I woke up and noticed a new tent set up next to the tent of the girls I was talking to last night. I noticed a pair of man sized shoes and another pair of shoes that were the same colour as those of the girl. Immediately I thought that one of them had met a guy and set up an extra tent to sleep with him. It was like a bad dream and I felt very disappointed. I wanted to pack up and leave. I realized I was not thi…
/r/seduction05/10/24 09:52 AM
1

You can't have a hair transplant if you are very bald. It's wig or shave.
/r/seduction05/10/24 09:33 AM
2

Yeah some girls I met last summer were flirty with me, but they were so pretty, there is no chance they were not approached by multiple young and handsome guys
/r/seduction05/10/24 09:31 AM
-2

I don't think your advice will solve my problem. I think buff dudes can be jealous too. Some of them have abused their wives thinking they cheated on them
/r/seduction05/10/24 01:17 AM
0

I have been in the comics/anime/RPG scene for 25 years. While in the past all conventions were attended by nerdy men, in the last decade or so, the scene has been taken over by normies. The girls there don't care to meet guys with Asperger' s. They want someone social and handsome. Or someone gay to be their bestie.
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:54 AM
-5

I'm 44 and bald and ugly face. The other guys will be better than me not matter how muscular I become. But I still want to stop jealousy from poisoning me.
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:49 AM
0

Yes, absolutely
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:31 AM
-6

The gym won't make me taller or younger or hairier
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:30 AM
1

Νο
/r/seduction02/10/24 05:05 PM
1

They usually stare at me because there is something wrong
/r/seduction02/10/24 07:07 AM
1

Therefore you can't generalize. In fact only a minority of men have the charisma to be liked by most people
/r/seduction02/10/24 07:05 AM
1

I missed my chance at happiness.
/r/seduction01/10/24 08:21 PM
1

But it's different if it's just the two of them who I've talked to before, or if they are with somebody I don't know. Especially if that somebody is a guy.
/r/seduction01/10/24 08:19 PM
0

It is an extremely small chance anyone is the best option she has.
/r/seduction01/10/24 08:03 PM
1

Most people don't like me, most women feel uncomfortable if I'm near them and some men look at me with menace
/r/seduction01/10/24 08:01 PM
1

I take precautions that don't cause my neighbor harm and also don't require my neighbor to do anything. I also know that my threat is not my neighbors but the criminals.
/r/seduction01/10/24 07:59 PM
1

Why do we have this fear? Is it a fear of success? Are we afraid of being embarrassed or of being happy?
/r/seduction01/10/24 12:42 AM
1

It is not realistic to think people like you and want to talk to you if you are a man.
/r/seduction30/09/24 10:34 PM
1

Woman's threat is criminals. If you want to generalize from criminals to men, why not generalize all the way to humans and include yourself in the threats. And if you want to stereotype how about if black people did little things to make us whites feel safer near them? 😁
/r/seduction30/09/24 10:30 PM
2

I felt my neighbor at a campsite might be in vulnerable situation because if asked her out, I would be "that guy" who hit on her. Is this what you mean?
/r/seduction30/09/24 10:23 PM
1

Not really. Only some men are needed. A woman once told me men should be realistic about who they can approach.
/r/seduction30/09/24 10:20 PM
0

If there is a chance you will make a woman uncomfortable then you shouldn't do it. Remember, women don't need to be approached to find dates. If you are approaching a woman you are doing it for your own interest, so it's best to err on the side of caution and leave her alone if you think it's more possible she would be annoyed by the approach.
/r/seduction30/09/24 09:19 PM
1

I wish I had started at 35. I face a lot of difficulties with people thinking I'm a criminal. There is too much to work on. I'm 44 now.
/r/seduction30/09/24 09:05 PM
1

What do you mean? I don't want them to think it wouldn't be OK to say no
/r/seduction30/09/24 12:57 PM
2

What if she accuses me of harassing her? Last year a girl (that I wasn't attracted to) asked me to go with her on a hike. She was kind of rude and snobbish. The next day she accused me to others of stalking her. Which was crazy because I was in fact avoiding her
/r/BlackPillScience30/09/24 12:17 PM
1

My older brother used to beat and bully me. This gave him courage to approach women because he viewed them like his weak younger brother
/r/BlackPillScience28/09/24 09:07 PM
1

Of course. Primates live in hierarchical societies, don't they?
/r/BlackPillScience28/09/24 09:06 PM
3

The more guys check out of society the better it becomes for the rest because of less competition. Case in point: a girl I met on a trip liked me . I did nothing about it. Someone else got a chance with her. Probably someone with self-confidence, nerve, and experience in pick up.
/r/BlackPillScience28/09/24 08:59 PM
2

Do women want to be approached by akward guys? I think not.
/r/seduction28/09/24 07:58 PM
-1

Other people who disapprove of me approaching a woman are a danger. At the very least they will cause me embarrassment in front of others. As social creatures we are wired to worry about our reputation
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:55 PM
1

Have you been in a situation where she looks at you, turns her head slowly to the side while maintaining eye contact, then turns her head again facing forward?
/r/seduction27/09/24 06:08 PM
1

What happens if they have company? For example I was acquainted with two girls. I went to the beach. I was hoping to run into them because I thought if they saw me they could talk to me first, like a real life version of Bumble. If they talk to me first I don't have to worry I might bother them or make them feel unsafe. I saw one of them but she was at a great distance. I wasn't 100% sure it was her. She looked at me. Maybe her eyesight isn't any better. We looked at each other for a few seconds…
/r/seduction25/09/24 11:17 PM
1

And concerning no2, don't women say they want men to give them space? Where is the balance between intruding on someone (saying hi when they are with company for example, or reading a book, or on the phone), and being at a distance where it appears like you are spying on them?
/r/seduction25/09/24 10:22 PM
2

Damn... But asking about their plans once is alright, right? Like saying "Do you have any plans for today? We could go to the beach if you wanted".
/r/seduction25/09/24 10:07 PM
2

Were you doing perhaps too much like what you see in porn?
/r/seduction25/09/24 10:05 PM
1

44 here. I worry a lot about being perceived as a stalker. I'm sorry I can't answer your question. I never talked to girls in my 20s.
/r/seduction25/09/24 10:00 PM
3

I have noticed a few girls look at me when I lose weight. I hope that helps.
/r/seduction25/09/24 09:50 PM
2

In my country normal people go to bars with their friends and don't talk to strangers. Talking to strangers is how you get kicked out of the bar
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:14 AM
3

Good points. Any other body language I can use? I believe posture, smile and white teeth are important.
/r/seduction24/09/24 09:22 PM
1

Bartenders, artists and other people who are in the spotlight and have great social skills attract women who are way out of their league in looks, and they don't even have to approach them.
/r/seduction24/09/24 01:07 PM
1

I have always suffered with guilt about being a creep or a harasser (same thing different name). This age difference taboo isn't so big in Europe, otherwise why would younger girls smile at me, but when I talk to Americans online I find one extra reason not to approach women. This girl actually liked me. This is classic flirting technique for women: Chin down, strong eye contact, smile. And I felt so much happiness coming from her. She was disappointed we didn't hang out more. I disappointed her…
/r/seduction23/09/24 07:23 PM
1

I'm 44 and most women stare at me like I'm a creep. Only on trips have I met one that smiled at me.
/r/seduction23/09/24 05:32 PM
1

Social proof. All conservative cultures rely on social proof. Who you are in society, who you know, who are your friend
/r/seduction23/09/24 09:18 AM
0

I feel a bit like that at the nudist beach. I see guys pick up girls at the beach all the time. If you have success on the street you will have success at the beach. Personally I give of creep vibes
/r/seduction22/09/24 07:59 PM
1

How many women are around the amog and do you approach this group alone?
/r/seduction22/09/24 11:52 AM
1

Sometimes girls don't just say no but try to make you feel bad for asking
/r/seduction22/09/24 11:50 AM
1

I agree with everything you wrote. Have you found a solution? I used to go to classes but I felt like I had to prove myself to others. This year I don't want to socialize like that
/r/seduction22/09/24 10:05 AM
1

Same. Also people like to intimidate my by looking at me angry. I try to maintain eye-contact but break off first because my heart starts pounding
/r/seduction22/09/24 10:03 AM
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Find a place that is tolerant of lone men. In my country they don't let us inside clubs at all
/r/seduction22/09/24 09:49 AM
1

I'm inclined to think that if all unattractive men approached attractive women, it would cause considerable problems, even chaos, to society. Therefore by self-excluding we provide valuable services to society. The losers are the base of a hierarchical society. Attractive women treat us mean to deter us from approaching them. This is teaches us our place in society. Seldomly there is an aberration: An attractive woman flirts with a low status man. The low status man feels fear. Him pursuing him …
/r/seduction21/09/24 06:51 PM
2

What if it is a female member of stuff where you are staying that is looking at you crazy? If I speak aggressively to a woman then they'll say I'm the bad guy.
/r/seduction20/09/24 04:43 AM
1

Noone has talked to me in a bar yet. I would not tell them that I have no friends. I would tell them I travel the world solo.
/r/seduction19/09/24 05:12 PM
1

If you smile while making prolonged eye contact it's flirting
/r/seduction19/09/24 09:13 AM
1

The argument in the second situation would be that you caused harm by approaching.
/r/seduction19/09/24 09:06 AM
0

Some people do proclaim it's morally wrong to approach uninvited, and some that if they feel bad, you've done wrong regardless of your intentions.
/r/seduction18/09/24 01:55 PM
0

Did you have feelings of guilt like you'd be harassing them if you asked them out?
/r/seduction18/09/24 09:05 AM
1

It is a kind of insecurity from low self-esteem. I too think when someone shows me attention that soon and abruptly someone else will hit on them and take them from me. Of course usually I don't get attention. I think if you're going on dates you should have more self confidence
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:41 PM
4

I agree. This is a major failing point for me. I don't ask women out because I'm afraid I will look sleazy, or worse, a sex criminal (harasser, rapist, etc.)
/r/seduction16/09/24 12:39 AM
1

I know I'm a coward. I grew up in an abusive home, got bullied at school, bullied in my neighborhood. I even got bullied at one of the campsites by the cleaning ladies. They kept staring me down like I was the devil. What do you do when it is a woman that threatens you and stares at you like that? You're not going to strike her and she knows it. What good is the gym and the dojo then? I did some MA when I was 14 and I got bullied by the teacher. I didn't give me any confidence. The only time I h…
/r/seduction16/09/24 12:12 AM
0

OK my friend, relax, you are absolutely right.
/r/seduction15/09/24 01:51 AM
1

Who said anything about unbreakable oaths?
/r/seduction14/09/24 12:04 PM
0

In all of them?
/r/seduction14/09/24 12:03 PM
1

Ask her out first.
/r/seduction14/09/24 09:43 AM
1

Last year a girl who was travelling solo approached me and told me she had difficulty finding friends because everyone was in a group etc. Asked me to go hiking with her tomorrow. The same night I saw her go out with a guy, and the next day her behavior had changed. This is how quickly you can miss an opportunity on vacation.
/r/seduction14/09/24 08:58 AM
1

That specific island is kinda date-y when it comes to flirting. Often I heard girls talking on the phone about meeting a group of guys and going out with them for their whole vacation. For example 3 girls and 3 guys would become one big group. That seemed like the norm. As to etiquette, every guy I talked to even briefly was someone who would greet me later when they saw me. They weren't interested in hanging out because they already had a group of friends, but they said hi. In another instance …
/r/seduction14/09/24 08:03 AM
1

What happens if you are both at the same campsite?
/r/seduction12/09/24 08:50 PM
1

I don't want to make excuses. I know now what I should have done. But it is difficult not to feel guilty each time I have the urge to ask someone out. It's like suddenly hitting a wall. I don't think I can change this. It traces back to my abusive upbringing. I don't have the courage to talk back to people and I'm easily intimidated. Add to that feelings of guilt. I always feel like a criminal when there is some sort of conflict. Anyway thanks for your effort.
/r/seduction12/09/24 02:39 PM
1

I would be less anxious if I knew that everything would be OK after she rejected me, meaning she would not feel unsafe or think I was a predator. I feel that if I ask a woman out I'm overstepping a boundary and doing something inappropriate.
/r/seduction12/09/24 02:22 PM
1

I'm 44 and I have never been in any sort of relationship. I've been on one date because she asked me out. This was 5 years ago. She looked at me with the same enthusiasm and joy as the girl I met last month. It was like I knew her already. Like a second chance. I don't have another 5 years.
/r/seduction12/09/24 02:17 PM
1

My mood is very depressed since I returned from holiday. I had the opportunity of becoming happy for the first time in my life and I ruined it. I feel like it was my last chance at happiness, swimming in endless blue and her eyes looking at me like the sun
/r/seduction12/09/24 12:12 AM
1

Possibly.
/r/seduction12/09/24 12:07 AM
1

By night game I assume you mean going to bars. The thing is I don't have any friends and going to bars is something I'm not used to.
/r/seduction12/09/24 12:06 AM
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Once I saw a grey haired guy speak to woman on the street. He didn't even get close to her and she screamed "I don't want to taaaalk!". I would feel so much shame if this happened to me. I have also seen many tiktok videos and reddit posts of women complaining about creepy old men approaching them. It seems that "street game" is reserved for men who are young and have friends. I feel lonely but I wouldn't want to annoy or discomfort anyone by talking to them.
/r/seduction11/09/24 07:43 AM
4

Sure but I was talking about tourists in both situations. I can't recall a tourist smiling at me in my city for example, but it's happened at the holiday resorts
/r/seduction11/09/24 07:37 AM
1

What is a creep trigger? I live in a city where going out alone is heavily stigmatized. The bars won't let you in usually, or if they do you'll have the stuff watching you like a hawk.
/r/seduction11/09/24 07:26 AM
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The only advice I have for you is that you should flirt with all the girls in the group to make them feel nice. If her friends feel left out they will influence their friend to go find other guys
/r/seduction11/09/24 07:10 AM
1

In my city we get a lot of tourists and it is considered normal for young guys to go talk to them in groups of 2-3. The girls always stay and chat for a while, but don't always give them their instas. I have never seen someone over 30 approach women on the street.
/r/seduction11/09/24 07:03 AM
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I cannot make myself care for other girls if I am interested in one.
/r/seduction11/09/24 06:28 AM
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