SmoothOperatorBaby Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
30	For guys, why do you want a woman?	Fundamentals	SmoothOperatorBaby	/r/seduction	10/02/25 01:43 PM
4	What’s the protocol when she want to “get to know you better” before a first date?	Fundamentals	SmoothOperatorBaby	/r/seduction	20/01/25 11:23 PM
3	First date logistics if both are driving	Logistics	SmoothOperatorBaby	/r/seduction	14/12/24 05:06 PM
1	Shows interest but then texts very dry. What to do?	Fundamentals	SmoothOperatorBaby	/r/seduction	08/01/25 06:51 PM
1	Growth Mindset is Hurting Me	Fundamentals	SmoothOperatorBaby	/r/seduction	27/01/25 05:50 PM
1	How to initiate this conversation?	Fundamentals	SmoothOperatorBaby	/r/seduction	07/01/25 12:05 AM
0	Should I lie about my height on dating apps?	Conversation	SmoothOperatorBaby	/r/seduction	03/01/25 03:49 AM
0	Getting over the fact that she found someone better than you. Advice?	Fundamentals	SmoothOperatorBaby	/r/seduction	09/01/25 03:14 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	For guys, why do you want a woman? Good reply. Reading these replies and introspecting, I think I just haven’t met the woman I want/envision and that frustration has transmuted into this question. Also why would I go to therapy when I’ve got this subreddit /s	/r/seduction	10/02/25 05:28 PM
1	For guys, why do you want a woman? Say less! Now to find this woman.	/r/seduction	10/02/25 02:46 PM
2	For guys, why do you want a woman? Reading these comments now I’m beginning to see that the perceived benefits of a woman are actually the benefits of being in a close relationship with a person. The attraction/sex is a catalyst/motivator. Thanks	/r/seduction	10/02/25 02:45 PM
1	For guys, why do you want a woman? Reading these comments now I’m beginning to see that the perceived benefits of a woman are actually the benefits of being in a close relationship with a person. The attraction/sex is a catalyst/motivator. Thanks	/r/seduction	10/02/25 02:44 PM
2	For guys, why do you want a woman? Right, so pretty much boils down to the “genetically wired” thing. You don’t have to convince me of these things lol and I don’t really subscribe to the human independence thing either. We’re in agreement. I just hate the idea of being a slave to my senses.	/r/seduction	10/02/25 02:40 PM
2	For guys, why do you want a woman? Hmm I relate to this a lot. Or at least used to. Idk what I feel anymore lol. My conscious and subconscious brain seem to be at odds.	/r/seduction	10/02/25 02:37 PM
1	For guys, why do you want a woman? I realize that, which is why I’m trying to understand what I’m missing. Maybe I just need to really experience what the lack of feminine energy feels like to be able to answer my own question. Edit: just to clear any possible misunderstanding, I am in no way, shape, or form downplaying the importance of marriage or relationships. This is about why men must even pursue women. I have the utmost respect for women but I find myself conflicted over the effort I’m putting in.	/r/seduction	10/02/25 02:30 PM
-6	For guys, why do you want a woman? I feel like those are 3 separate problems that can be solved individually. Yes, one woman can solve all 3; but it does not sit right with me that that is her purpose for a man. The reason I’m seeking answers in the first place is because these apparent reasons don’t feel enough. I don’t want to fill my physical, mental and emotional shortcomings with someone else. That’s a very fragile (and honestly weak) solution. The only valid reason I personally see so far is for progeny.	/r/seduction	10/02/25 02:03 PM
1	Growth Mindset is Hurting Me These are great questions. Honestly, I never gave it any thought. I definitely don’t feel like I can be vulnerable that’s for sure.	/r/seduction	28/01/25 01:03 AM
2	Growth Mindset is Hurting Me Thanks man, pretty positive advice	/r/seduction	27/01/25 09:57 PM
1	Growth Mindset is Hurting Me Fair. I hope I reach that point soon lol	/r/seduction	27/01/25 09:55 PM
3	Growth Mindset is Hurting Me What’s enough? Do you mean like if I do this goose chase long enough I will eventually get tired and want to settle?	/r/seduction	27/01/25 06:41 PM
1	What’s the protocol when she want to “get to know you better” before a first date? Fair point	/r/seduction	21/01/25 04:40 AM
1	What’s the protocol when she want to “get to know you better” before a first date? Yeah thanks man this is sound advice	/r/seduction	21/01/25 12:13 AM
4	Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls. Or maybe too ugly ?? /s	/r/seduction	17/01/25 02:41 AM
1	Getting over the fact that she found someone better than you. Advice? You’re right…I read a few replies here about scarcity mindset and I think I’m really suffering from it.	/r/seduction	09/01/25 06:40 PM
1	Getting over the fact that she found someone better than you. Advice? What’s that?	/r/seduction	09/01/25 04:00 PM
1	Getting over the fact that she found someone better than you. Advice? What’s scarcity mindset?	/r/seduction	09/01/25 03:59 PM
4	Getting over the fact that she found someone better than you. Advice? Yeah man I realize that too but I’m having a hard time convincing my mind to not care. I have a hypothesis though - maybe if I start experiencing success from irl interactions I will start to discredit online dating	/r/seduction	09/01/25 03:43 PM
-2	Getting over the fact that she found someone better than you. Advice? Well, he has to be right? At least in her eyes. Ik this is assumption but it’s not an unreasonable one is it	/r/seduction	09/01/25 03:40 PM
2	Shows interest but then texts very dry. What to do? Cold reads as in make assumptions?	/r/seduction	08/01/25 07:05 PM
1	How to initiate this conversation? Also when/how do I tell her this? In person/text/phone? I feel bad having sex and then talking about this or worse asking to meet in person only to have this sour the whole date. But then it also seems like a discussion that must happen face to face.	/r/seduction	07/01/25 12:44 AM
16	guys who are 5'4" or below, has the girl you were going for rejected you because of your height? One shouldn’t care. If you wear lifts or anything else you’re only treating the symptom not the problem itself	/r/seduction	02/01/25 01:43 PM
18	guys who are 5'4" or below, has the girl you were going for rejected you because of your height? There is only one correct answer to this	/r/seduction	02/01/25 03:22 AM
3	What healthy and uplifting advice do you have for a soon to be 22 year old virgin? This is so true	/r/seduction	01/01/25 05:57 AM
7	What’s your best openers in person and on text Semaj	/r/seduction	29/12/24 10:36 PM
7	How to go beastmode and change your dating life Quality post	/r/seduction	29/12/24 01:24 PM
1	First date logistics if both are driving Good idea thanks	/r/seduction	14/12/24 11:38 PM
7	How to have a good first date without alcohol? I don’t drink and I’ve never had a first date that wasn’t followed by a second (given I wanted it) I’d say, do an activity. Get to know each other while doing something. It’s low stakes, adds another dimension and is casual.	/r/seduction	01/11/24 03:39 PM