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That was beautiful.
/r/seduction29/11/17 04:45 PM
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Nice video. Great editing and while you didn't really cover and new or groundbreaking concepts - I admire your ability to break through the language barrier. You also seem like a really cool and genuine dude.
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:44 PM
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The way you type in this post and your responses to other comments make you seem like a really likeable guy. If you're that busy then you do you boo boo. Girls will be plentiful and available. Opportunities to become a surgeon aren't. Knock that shit out of the park. People are drawn to people like you. You'll get everything you want in life.
/r/seduction20/05/16 04:54 AM
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Chiming in to offer a little different of a perspective. Weed isn't your problem. You are your problem. Joe Rogan said something along the lines of, "People that smoke weed and lose their jobs were probably going to lose their jobs anyway." Learn some discipline and keep your habits in check. Plenty of people smoke regularly and manage to lead very successful lives because they have the discipline to know their limits and when it's appropriate. If you think weed is holding you back, then by all …
/r/seduction28/03/16 09:54 PM
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Does this apply if you've already met up with the girl once after meeting her for the fist time and really hit it off?
/r/seduction03/03/16 05:23 AM
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You can gather the opinions of others but if you're really aspiring to have a piece of the PUA pie, you shouldn't be waiting, because you are an alpha and you have better things to do than wait around for a girl to contact you back. You are awesome and you need to start believing that you are. It's her loss for passing up on the opportunity. It doesn't hurt to check in a week later or so just in case she's been genuinely busy; something light like something you guys spoke about previously (hey t…
/r/seduction09/01/16 08:33 AM
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Those thoughts are going to be there. It's like catching the flu. It's going to be real bad today but the symptoms grow manageable as you heal. You'll think about her all day every day for the next week or so. Then maybe you're only thinking about her at lunch or dinner. Now she's only crossed your mind once in a blue moon. Time heals dude, if you're still alive - you're going to be A-OK. Just like how doctors recommend rest and liquids for the flu, maintaining a gym routine and some hobbies wil…
/r/seduction08/01/16 10:29 AM
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agree 100%. On the subject of SMV. I'm statistically against the odds as a black guy. My general match % on tinder is stupid low.. like 1 in 50 on a really good day. Switching to OKC and being able to take a more value-building approach has opened many doors for me.
/r/seduction08/01/16 10:24 AM
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So few things to keep in mind. In today's era of online dating, girls get dicks thrown at them all day every day. Assume you're not the only one she's talking to (but also assume she's talking to you because she likes you). I think your girl gave you the window of opportunity and either became genuinely busy or has another "side nigga". Don't even sweat her. You do you and if she's about it, she'll be around. But you can learn from this. Don't let some wizards from the internet tell you not to t…
/r/seduction08/01/16 10:16 AM
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Bruh... Don't talk about yourself like that. You'll do nothing but believe that shit. You add value to those in your life whether you realize it or not. Figure out what you're great at and focus on that greatness. Everyone is different and you just need to find yours. I'm not in my 30s yet (I'll be there soon) but it seems like the 30s is when most of the magic in life happens. I have faith in you =)
/r/seduction08/01/16 10:01 AM
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Kiss close and fuck close
/r/seduction07/01/16 07:26 AM
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Sucks man. A lot of people have been there. Although more painful, this is no different than any other breakup. As others have commented; please don't contact her. The only way you two can exist in the same place at once won't be until you're completely over her. Even then, if she hurt you like that - is she really worth your time now? You're about to embark on a huge journey of self-actualization. Think about how much time you spent with your ex. Time that may have been well spent but could hav…
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:08 AM
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Thanks man! It means a lot. I've come a long way in a relatively short period of time in the grand scheme of things. I grew up a total dweeb even through college. I'm 26 now and I've still got a ways to go but this last year especially has been so full of growth that I'm starting to see why people say it gets better as you grow older. Edit: I didn't wanna start spewing words out but If you wanna hear a bit of my story I can share.
/r/seduction21/11/15 08:35 AM
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Basically what /u/ByCromsBalls said. I have a job that has me travelling for 3-6 months out of the year (not all at once). I take the opportunity to explore whatever city I'm in. If anything, I find that I'm way more likely to put myself out there when I'm in a different city. As I mentioned in my previous reply, I enjoy bringing my friends together for events like concerts, music festivals, 5Ks, or even just a party at my place. Over time, all those experiences build character.
/r/seduction20/11/15 03:36 PM
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Most through social game. I live with a girl who seems to be more than happy to wingman for me. As I am for her. I've also put a decent amount of effort into building a really great network of friends. I pride myself on being able to bring people together to do dope shit. My friends always seem to talk me up to a point that I generally start off on the right foot with new people to the group. 2nd best source is daygame. I chat people up everywhere I go. if you bed 1% of the women you talk to and…
/r/seduction20/11/15 08:02 AM
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I'm in the same boat. Over the last few weeks I've established several causal relationships that got very intense, very fast. Once the adrenaline from lust wears off, I'm left with girls that like me a lot more than I like them and stress over letting them down easy and not perpetuating the idea of 'men are dogs'. Seeing this comment made me realize I'm seeking validation and not even aware of it. How do I stop this when I don't even realize I'm doing it?
/r/seduction09/10/15 07:19 PM
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Cleaning up your language and typing and speaking like a respectable human being would be a great start.
/r/seduction05/10/15 09:26 PM
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See, you've already got the wrong mentality on this. Your words & tone give off a message that is a bit ugly. Focus on you. Focus on being the best person you can be while taking a few minutes each day to bring others into your reality and you'll find that everything else will fall into place. I'd suggest reading up on the Law of Attraction and The Power of Now. Maybe not the sub for this but I'm a firm believer that you get what you put out into the world. Believe that you deserve every good th…
/r/seduction05/10/15 05:51 AM
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Self-Analysis: Some things I could have done better... escalate to the kiss much sooner than I did. initiate kino much sooner than I did. Some things I felt I did really well Convey my intent early. One of the first things I said to her is, "you're smart, beautiful, and motivated. If you lived close to me I'd be taking you out right now". Interact with the locals and establish a presence. There were a lot of places I visited prior to hanging out with her that the staff recognized me and asked me…
/r/seduction13/09/15 11:40 PM
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cut the crap and just invite her over for dinner and a movie? But why waste the energy on someone you don't have chemistry with?
/r/seduction22/06/15 07:27 PM
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Attraction is like special edition Air Jordans. Once they're gone. They're gone for good. Unless you find a pair on ebay that you can buy after accumulating wealth.
/r/seduction13/02/15 07:07 AM
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Context: This particular girl is friends with a close friend of mine. This friend of mine would invite me out to parties and gathering and this girl would seldom be in attendance. Exchanges were typically limited to "Hey! What's up?" and that's about it. I was genuinely curious about her but never really had a chance to engage her in conversation. Which is what pushed me to message her on facebook in the first place. If anything, I may have been at a disadvantage because I had slept with two of …
/r/seduction22/10/14 05:23 AM
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I actually did this recently. I messaged a girl that I have encountered a few times in the past but never actually had the chance to have a conversation with. I messaged her and opened with, "Hey! We've met once or twice in the past but I don't think I've had the opportunity to actually have a genuine conversation with you. If you have a minute, I'd really like to learn about you or even get something to drink sometime" This triggered about a 2 hour long conversation on facebook and we've got pl…
/r/seduction21/10/14 04:21 PM
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Make sure you set aside time to show her you care. It's all about the effort. I just recently got into a relationship and one of my worries was it ending due to infidelity. This article kind of put things into perspective for me that at the end of the day most relationships end because of lack of effort or complacently. If fact, after reading it - I went over to my SO's and cleaned her apartment while she was at work and now I'm getting dinner ready for her. To answer your question, set aside ti…
/r/seduction07/06/14 08:19 PM
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Sounds like she seduced you.
/r/seduction22/05/14 01:20 PM
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Well now... that's a plot twist
/r/seduction17/01/14 06:48 PM
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Lol I've been in both positions in the past
/r/seduction17/01/14 06:06 PM
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This article hit the nail square on the head. Allow me to share a quick story: I've been in the EDM scene for almost a full year now. 7 months ago I got a lightshow at a music festival that was so good that it inspired me to pursue gloving as a hobby. Long story short, I've gotten very good at it. Although it's not a hobby that I can make a career out of - it's something that has accelerated my social life. I get invited to parties, introduced to friends of friends, and its an amazing icebreaker…
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:56 PM
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Other posters have pretty much nailed it. Keep talking to other girls and keep yourself busy. Not only will you not have to falsify time constraints but you will naturally start to value your own time and potentials will pick up on this. The girls I'm seeing know that my time is valuable, and I respect theirs. If I'm running late or wont be making it, I make sure to give them at least a full day heads up or as much as I possibly can because I would expect the same.
/r/seduction12/02/13 04:31 PM
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Yeah man. I finally started to become comfortable with myself. It took me a while to realize but Dr. Seuss said it best, "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." I've gone from a year long dry spell to juggling 4 girls at the moment and that quote is the best way to summarize the change in my mental state.
/r/seduction11/01/13 01:23 AM
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Upvote because I followed this type of progression track. I couldn't reinforce it enough. Work on yourself, be the best you can be and the people and the girls will soon follow. So many times in the past I found myself going to bars and clubs to try to pick up and whether they saw my intent or not, it never ended well. Sometime over this past summer, I hit a point where I decided I'm going to just have FUN. I still got shot down plenty of times but it was all good because I still found myself en…
/r/seduction10/01/13 11:58 PM
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Keep me posted on your adventures! I'd love to hear about them and your progress.
/r/seduction14/12/12 03:25 AM
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Yeah man, I went to a festival in upstate new york called Camp Bisco. A girl that I used to have a crush on in high school randomly invited me to go and I had a chance to reconnect with a few people from the H.S. days that I never really saw myself being friends with. Fast forward 5 months and they are among the best of my friends. They and most people I've been meeting lately have been turning out to be a super positive bunch and really helped me cast away my negativity and helped me become a v…
/r/seduction14/12/12 01:20 AM
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I know it doesn't work for everyone but I've grown to appreciate that nervous 'stomach butterflies' feeling. It usually means I'm doing something I'm not used to doing and I'm getting an opportunity to push my boundaries. Short term discomfort for long term benefit.
/r/seduction13/12/12 04:33 PM
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The first thing that I started doing was going snowboarding. You meet a lot of people and you get plenty of bonding time especially sharing a ski lift. However, it was an expensive hobby and the people I met were usually traveling from far away or vice versa. I know it's a little unorthodox considering this subredddit seems to focus a lot on bar/lounge environments but I started going to a lot of concerts/shows/festivals/raves. I've found that the people there are extremely friendly and receptiv…
/r/seduction12/12/12 09:17 PM
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Check torrents or dig around on google. Its definitely somewhere on the internet. I personally think The Game is just a good story. It doesn't really detail the things that truly matter regarding seduction.
/r/seduction12/12/12 06:24 PM
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Usually the girl gets the hint when I bring up the First kiss question but the framework I usually follow is When/What was your first kiss like? Do you like the sloppy kisses or the neat but passionate kisses? Do you think there is a difference between sex and making love? Are you selfish in bed? Favorite position? I asked these way late in the game though after the sexual frame was established. It helps to have a "fuck it, we'll do it live" mentality
/r/seduction03/12/12 05:55 PM
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When I learned to stop caring what people thought of me. That one goes hand in hand with starting to do the things that really made me happy that I was also passionate about.
/r/seduction24/10/12 03:47 PM
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not sure if....
/r/seduction24/10/12 01:31 AM
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What exactly does it mean when a girl starts bringing up other dudes she has or is trying to hook up with? Is it a tactic to induce jealousy?
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:53 PM
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Agree with this 101%. My phone is full of numbers, some of which I have no idea who they belong to anymore. Girls give out their number to be polite and avoid that awkward moment that comes when they say no. It's getting that date or day 2 that is increasingly difficult. As for it 'working'. Its how you say it. I felt like I had nothing to lose and that seems to be an attractive trait to have so why not spew a playful but overly flirtatious line in the hope of game
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:02 PM
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What's funny is that night, an exchange student from brazil tapped me on the shoulder and asked me how I do it. I told him to just treat strangers like friends you haven't seen in a while and talk to girls like you would your friends, save for the poop jokes. Girls don't like poop jokes.
/r/seduction23/10/12 05:31 AM
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A lot of things honestly. The moment I decided to stop living for other people was a day early this year where I planned a ski/snowboarding trip for myself and a few friends. Everyone bailed. But fuck it, when life gives you lemons - take the seeds and plant a tree.. or something of that sort. I still went on this trip. By myself. It was the first time I had a taste of not worrying about anyone but myself. If I wanted to keep going I could, no one to weigh down my conscience with their fatigue a…
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:58 AM
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Honestly, I was in your shoes not too long ago. Conversational practices baffled me. A friend of mine that has seen me grow from day 1 has said the biggest change I underwent was not caring what people thought about me. I may not be answering the question but most of my life was spent doing things I didn't want to do for people I really didn't like at the end of the day. This summer I spent a lot of time doing things I really enjoyed doing and that put me in a place where I felt that the experie…
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:20 AM
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I read this in Liam Nesson's voice. I don't even know you but you're pretty badass.
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:31 AM
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When you frame the brutal honesty persona like this it actually makes sense. One of my best friends lives by the motto of, "If i'm going to stab you, I'll do it in the front" or something of that matter albeit in a joking matter. Whether or not he is kidding when he makes references like that its kind of reassuring that he is honest at the very least. In addition, he's one of the few people I know that don't seem to have a problem telling me I'm wrong when I truly am and I respect him like that.…
/r/seduction09/10/12 08:25 PM
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Hey dude, Everyone is different. So this question is highly variable. Do you have any memories of a point in time in which you found yourself extremely happy? Do you have a song that always manages to make you wanna get to the gym and pump some iron or get up and dance? Do you have a special someone like a parent, a friend, etc that always manages to cheer you up? Do you have an activity or hobby that gives you a safe and healthy medium to expunge your stress? These are just some of the things t…
/r/seduction04/10/12 08:31 PM
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I came in to drop some advice but it was pretty much covered throughout the rest of the comments in this thread. After some milestones I've crossed recently and watching some videos, I've come to understand that a large part of seduction is learning and understanding that rejection happens. After becoming desensitized to the idea of being rejected, girls will pick up on your DGAF attitude and it will translate to confidence. What I'm trying to say here is fuck that hoe. Learn from this experienc…
/r/seduction25/07/12 01:14 AM
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Plough is alright.
/r/seduction06/06/12 09:05 AM
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probably give zero fucks and proceed as normally.
/r/seduction27/05/12 05:57 PM
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I like this. a lot.
/r/seduction27/05/12 06:26 AM
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I lol'd
/r/seduction27/05/12 06:25 AM
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Whatever you do, don't compliment her because she complimented you.
/r/seduction26/05/12 06:39 PM
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Yeah man, that brings up another idea I should throw out here. I forget what it's called, I'll refer to it as a 'freeze-out'. Journalists do this thing to their interview subjects where they ask a question, to which to subject responds. Instead of the Journalist shooting back another question or a followup, they'll just sit back in silence. Often causing the subject to get vomit of the mouth and spilling unintended details. I apply the same technique to conversations. Maintain that eye-contact, …
/r/seduction08/05/12 10:43 PM
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you didn't miss too much. We were having an R-rated discussion for about 15 minuts until a 14 person party that came from church sat down next to us. It only took about 2 menacing glares from them for us to censor ourselves..... and start hitting on the waitress instead.
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:32 PM
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u mad bro?
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:30 PM
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I only have but one upvote to give.
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:30 PM
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Honestly, I love coming up with witty responses to anything. I've always been a bit of a smartass, only difference is that as an AFC I always held back and said something nice thinking people will like me more but this PUA journey helped me realize that I should stop giving a damn and just say what's on my mind. As far as deciding what to say, it's definitely a combination of the environment, waiting for an opportunity to tease, and practice. Don't think too much on it though. There's times wher…
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:29 PM
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Honestly, this weekend I felt like my brain just turned off and said, "Jesus, take the wheel!!" I'm hoping that this badass, alpha version of me comes out to play next weekend.
/r/seduction08/05/12 05:34 PM
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Whichever jabrownie downvoted you needs to get dropkicked followed by a people's elbow.
/r/seduction08/05/12 05:32 PM
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Nah man, he was talking to his ex for a sec and she got real pissed and started acting out. And if you know that knee grow like I do... he doesn't tolerate bitches acting out. End well it did not.
/r/seduction08/05/12 05:28 PM
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Yeah, I met her at about 11:15 and I was at her place by 12:30.
/r/seduction08/05/12 05:26 PM
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I am 22.. ~3 months till 23 =[
/r/seduction10/04/12 12:33 PM
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Well kinda. I went to a mostly white school and then moved to a mostly white area in a big city to be close to work. The same acknowledgement still happens in both places. However I'm from new York city where that seldom happens.
/r/seduction10/04/12 02:47 AM
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I know.. I have trouble thinking with the right head sometimes... the one upstairs that is.
/r/seduction09/04/12 06:10 PM
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Can we get some real answers on how to go about this? The answer should obviously be Challenge Accepted because at the end of the day, the art of pickup is about pushing boundaries.
/r/seduction01/03/12 03:36 PM
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Also, In b4 Didn't Read lol/td;dr spent a solid 90 minutes writing this. Please enjoy and provide feedback!
/r/seduction25/02/12 08:36 AM
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As a former WoW addict myself. I'm proud to hear someone else taking steps to better thyself. Big ups to you brotha!
/r/seduction16/08/11 06:59 PM
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I live in philadelphia, was hoping there would be a seddit lair but there isn't
/r/seduction15/08/11 03:06 AM
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Well I've read the books.. Mystery Method, The Game, etc. I've gone through dozens of ebooks and guides but I just cant seem to get it into the real world application. A little bit of backstory, I just graduated from college and my only pickups were.......lucky. Ive managed to get over the approach anxiety for the most part but I still piss myself when it comes to groups. After that I fail miserably at maintaining attraction and escalation
/r/seduction15/08/11 01:09 AM
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Welcome to the internet
/r/seduction22/06/11 04:14 PM
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It's all good. Not to toot my own horn but I'm constantly reminded about how great I smell. So scratch that off the list. If anything, got some tips on how you care and maintain your clothing? Maybe a quick word about where/how you shop for clothing as well. I just graduated so maybe I can afford that occasional dry cleaning once I start working. one last thing: care to share some cliffnotes on the speech you gave your friend that let him embrace and bring fourth his inner PUA?
/r/seduction22/06/11 12:39 AM
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Good tips, too bad I can't relate to half of it. I'm black, I don't grow thick, long hair that blows in the wind. I was blessed (cursed?) with nappy hair that forces me to visit my local barber weekly/bi-weekly. I don't grow too much facial hair either so I'm usually 'clean cut' anyway. What I did take away was your segment on pedicures. Will attempt. But I'm going to have to hit one of the parlors on Long Island. These hoodrats over here in queens are ruthless when it comes to attacking a mans …
/r/seduction21/06/11 11:31 PM
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Holy shit you look good. (no homo)
/r/seduction21/06/11 07:49 PM
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yeah man. I usually put too much thought into my actions when it comes to PUA. Last night I was just doing my own thing and making sure I had fun with it because I didn't think I was in any shape to be spitting game. It wasnt until last night's DGAF episode that I realized that if I chill the fuck out and try and have fun instead of analyzing everything that everything else just falls into place - granted a little push is needed every here & there.
/r/seduction25/04/11 05:54 AM
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