Friday night I hit a music venue out in Philly with a female friend of mine. I know it's been repeated many times on this subreddit but having female friends is instant social proof to other girls in the field. I think it just triggers something in the mind of a woman that has them wondering, "what's so good about him that that girl is hanging around him?". The point is that I think every one from AFC to mPUA should have at least 1 or 2 good looking female friends that they're not attracted to. The residual effects are a huge help.

My first #close of the night occured while I was actually sitting down taking a break from dancing. Despite sitting I was still all smiles and grooving to the music. To my left I notice a HB9 dancing her ass off - seeing her have so much fun literally brought an even bigger smile to my face. We make eye contact a few times and that was all I needed. I waited until the song was over and walked over and tapped her on the shoulder, "Hi, I saw you jamming out so hard and you look like you're having loads of fun. I like that. By the way, I'm sodapopp."

"Aw thanks! I'm M"

"So you already know I dig your style. We need to become best friends ASAP. There's only one condition.... we need a secret handshake"

We spend the next 2 minutes or so just goofing around coming up with the handshake. Afterwards I say, "Let's go outside and chat a bit, if you're a good girl I might just let you be my girlfriend for the next few minutes or so"

She's all smiles at this point and we step outside and chat. I start with the basics and thread into other questions, "So besides jamming out and having loads of fun on weekends, what else do you do with your time?"... "Oh you're a student? I get the feeling you study biology or something STEM related, I get the vibe that you're a smart girl with a wild side" (she was in Pre-med... bingo!).

I eventually turn this into the 20 questions game. Starting with questions like "what's your favorite color?" (note, when girls tell me a color I cold read characteristics associated with that color. Example: Red - passionate, Yellow - happy & positive, etc.). Which progressively led into questions like "What was your first kiss like?" to "What was the most interesting place you've found yourself having sex?"... I made a point to lightly touch her on the shoulder, elbow, or thigh(when sitting) for kino. After the 20 questions game I reward her and tell her that she's, "earned the privilege of being my girlfriend for the next 15 minutes" I then suggest we go inside and dance. After 2 songs and heavy kino, I say I need to hit the bathroom and give her a kiss on the cheek. I back up slightly and look at her eyes, then lips, then eyes again and go in for the k-close. After the bathroom break I tell her we should exchange #'s so we can meet up again in the future.

I texted her after the show and invited her to my place to chill out. She was down but didn't want to come by herself (considering I was still a stranger to her for the most part). I'm still working on scoring a day 2 with her since we live about an hour apart.