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Tannhausergate2017/r/MGTOW215/04/20 12:31 PM
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Tannhausergate2017/r/Divorce_Men18/11/23 01:14 AM
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Tannhausergate2017/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 01:32 AM
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Yep
/r/MensRights29/11/24 12:11 AM
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It is hard to believe, but France used to be called the Daughter of the Church (hundreds of years ago) before various secular destructive philosophies destroyed the Faith.
/r/MensRights28/11/24 02:17 PM
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Even worse than the US?!
/r/MensRights28/11/24 02:15 PM
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And many actors take roids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:16 AM
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There’s a psychologist on YT who talks about relationships. He says women are like the stomach. The stomach doesn’t care if it got fed a steak dinner a week ago, it just knows it’s empty now. “Yes, but what you done for me lately?” Also, said women approach relationships like men approach a job. They look at the best offer regardless of how “nice” the boss is and go with it. “It’s just business.”
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 07:11 AM
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Gym is important. I went to see a shrink about some really stressful shit a few years ago. He didn’t try to talk me out of my stress; he said exercise to get rid of the stress. If it’s 5 feet or 5 miles just start.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 10:30 PM
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Wow. Man I’m really sorry to hear that. Shit. Hang in there. The reason I ask is bc I spent most of my 20s and 30s in the American evangelical Christian subculture. I tried like hell to get married to a Christian girl (Mistake number 1 - thirstiness). And I put Christian women on a pedestal (Mistake 2 - women are as fallen as men are). I more often think I should be grateful for unanswered prayers. I’m much more content with being “alone” (not really alone since God is with me and I’ve got a lot…
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/24 01:19 PM
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Shaman school?
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/24 05:24 AM
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What were her decisions if I may ask?
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/24 05:21 AM
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True that. Lol.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/24 05:20 AM
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I feel like I dodged a bullet in the marriage game.
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 03:44 AM
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This is awesome esp the couple of cakes part.
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 03:44 AM
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Why is FB mentioned in a divorce decree?
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 02:27 AM
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Thank you for the insight and advice. Have you seen this lay out in the life of friends and family - the odds being stacked against you I mean? If you don’t mind my asking, what brings you to this subreddit board?
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/23 01:39 AM
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What about dying alone?
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/23 04:08 PM
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Hmmm. Thank you. This is a good point. I didn’t say this in the post, but it’s between the lines. Basically, I just kind of think fucking is overrated TBH.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/23 03:14 AM
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Lol
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 03:48 AM
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Anyplace in particular?
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 03:10 AM
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Are you still married?
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/23 03:28 PM
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MIL was part of the cheating? How did she do this?
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/23 09:10 AM
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Interesting and insightful way of describing why lies are so destructive.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/23 08:09 AM
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Yea, the mental health thing is a big one. I’ve got 3 siblings who have big time legit mental health issues. Although some say it’s not genetic, I may have dodged a bullet with no kids either. Did you feel like that culture was somewhat contrived and a little judgey? I felt like I was acting in a play in some respects to try to peddle my “virtues” as a provider or whatever. It’s exhausting.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 10:55 PM
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I’ve had 2 close married male Christian friends reference the Bible verse where Jesus says we are not married in Heaven but are like the angels, I think subliminally hopefully. I knew both men for decades. Both outstanding virtuous men. Wives, too. Over time, there developed distance, silent suffering, anger and even perhaps contempt that brews over time. Marriage is really hard. I happen to think it’s futile to try to make someone else happy, which is what a lot of marriage is it seems - at lea…
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 03:59 PM
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I wish I’d read this 35 years ago.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 08:56 AM
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This makes me skeptical of even Christian marriages. I was so deadset on having one, but I may have dodged a bullet. Do you think Christian marriages are any better? Why or why not?
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 08:49 AM
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This pastor’s rant is legendary. 100% men at fault of course. https://youtu.be/ZkaeAkJO0w8?si=z9dEE8JI9Wg-MVrJ
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 11:13 AM
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Yea, I felt like when I was in the evangelical dating world, it was somewhat contrived. I bc was trying to be something I was not, be something a girl wanted. Lots of psychological problems come from that subculture. Self hatred. Insecurity. Condemnation. It’s exhausting. I escaped without getting married, but I feel like I wasted the prime years of my life being a play actor in the make believe play. You’re right about the boredom and judging piece. I’m still a Christian, but with my eyes opene…
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 10:49 AM
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Peace and freedom is huge.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 02:26 AM
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This. All of my best friends my whole life have been men.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 02:19 AM
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Is this endemic in the evangelical church too now?! I’ve seen some Twitter posts from a traditionalist pastor saying lots if “traditional” women are fucking other guys and divorcing them.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 02:17 AM
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The actress kinda did that in real life to a PRO TENNIS PLAYER she married and then divorced. .
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 02:00 AM
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A women who has contempt for you. That’s what it would look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:04 PM
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A dirty little secret that’s not secret is that many if not most men swipe right on everything and then do the sorting later once there is a reciprocal match. Family Guy mentioned this in an episode even. It’s a numbers game at the very beginning. So women have a VERY FALSE inflated sense of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:01 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:59 PM
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How did you change how you think and act?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:54 PM
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How did you change your relationship in a practical way to be more redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:37 AM
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I brought my GF to a city where my mom was in a nursing home and she asked me about my mother, who was 20 years mentally and physically disabled in a nursing home. I visited her every week at least before a job sent me away then I saw my mom less. My mom worked nights into a stroke to raise 7 kids since my dad couldn’t provide. Anyway, I “opened up” and I could feel the contempt oozing from her. A little far off look in the eyes and a “pat on the head” said it all. And she was a “good one” too. …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 01:38 AM
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This is a good post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:49 PM
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This is depressing. I have seen this happen personally, too. I go from hero to zero if you gain 15 lbs or vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:48 PM
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This is a very interesting topic esp w the stats to back it up. I think you’re right on factors that constitute the gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:36 AM
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Why’s that?
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/22 01:58 AM
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That’s an interesting last sentence.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/22 01:31 AM
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Sort of off topic, but really not… I’ve read/listened to 1000s of near death experience testimonies from all over the world. A high percentage of survivors of near death experiences (regardless of religion or culture) end up divorced and/or stay alone. There are several studies on this issue since it’s so prevalent. The survivors come back almost entirely new people in terms of outlook, materialism, priorities, etc that their SO no longer can live with this new person. Why is this relevant to yo…
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 01:47 PM
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That google image has a ghost of a boy in it.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/21 01:30 PM
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How can anyone fault you w these facts?
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/21 11:04 PM
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1000x this.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/21 10:59 PM
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What ancients said this? Curious. I think romance novels and things like that a relatively modern invention. Like 200 years or so.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/21 06:04 PM
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Was he happy up to his death though? If not, did he isolate himself? I don’t know if I’d care about the funeral/clean out
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 09:32 AM
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Wow. I’m sorry to hear about this. I think you’re right about it not meaning squat anymore. Sign papers and throw a party. What a great breakdown of the current status of marriage. The only ones who really ever had my back were other men. I’ve got many very good male friends whom I appreciate more as I get older. I hope my friends’ wives will let them be more free to hang out with once the 50% of family life in America today otherwise known as soccer practice/soccer games someday abates.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 09:31 AM
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Thank you. Helpful ideas.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 02:33 AM
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Good point. If you don’t mind my asking, did you find that you or ex-wife were looking for the other one to make you happy?
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 01:46 AM
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True. I have to remind myself to take everything day by day and try to be continually and always grateful. Learning to be content in myself and, for me, specifically and importantly, AS myself is what I’m trying to do.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/21 07:47 PM
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Very good points.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/21 07:44 PM
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There are supposedly drugs being studied that supposedly can remove PTSD-inducing memories if taken shortly after experiencing trauma. Wild if true.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/21 11:32 PM
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Where are an engineer? Does this happen a lot?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/21 11:15 PM
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There a good chance you’d die alone anyway.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/21 04:26 PM
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I always hesitated at marriage bc it seems like a fool’s errand to try to make someone else happy. Also, I struggle w depression and general miserableness and don’t want to inflict that on anyone else.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/21 04:07 PM
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Never had that happen. Lol.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/21 07:21 PM
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Interesting phrase. Negotiated desire.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/21 03:57 PM
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I’m 48. I’ve a buddy who just got married to a unicorn. Same age as me and she’s 27. They’re on their 2nd kid now. But he had accepted that the West is very bad for marriage right now. He has a phrase I think about alot, “In a better time...XXXX”. He’s got a bunch of brothers/sisters who stayed single or got divorced too bc of the zeitgeist.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/21 11:02 PM
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I think I’m a realist/cynic never married and no kids. I just don’t see any woman having my back, let alone some kind of soulmate. I’m agnostic towards kids.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/21 09:27 PM
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The most comfortable I’ve ever felt in a relationship was with in a relationship that had the same dynamics as my parents, who had a terrible marriage. It’s weird how comfortable as miserable is often a choice bc it’s what we know.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/21 07:18 PM
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Holy cow. I’m sorry to hear about this living hell you’re in or were in. Are you out? What a nightmare. Thank you for the detailed, well-thought out reply. This gives me a lot to think about. I appreciate your pricing insight.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/21 07:01 PM
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Great comment. I’m that guy you speak of.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/21 11:45 AM
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This has been my biggest mistake TBH. Pedestalizing.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/21 11:44 AM
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Makes sense. I don’t like being so “cynical,” but I need to live with a reality-based mindset. I don’t think I’ll get married as I like my peace and quiet. And I have 0 faith in 99% of people having my back. Accepting that people are like this has paradoxically made life easier for me bc I’m far less surprised, disappointed, hurt, discouraged, or angry than I was for many years. I try to be kind and open to people and friendships, but I’m steely-eyed when it comes to relationships. No one has ev…
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/21 12:48 AM
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Do you have kids? Do unicorns exist? I’m single and probably will never be married nor have kids. But my friends seem to have pretty good home lives. Good fathers and happy wives. Of course, I suspect that even to very good friends, they keep their counsel to themselves or deceive themselves to survive, if things aren’t copacetic. Of course, this speculation could be sour grapes on my part.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/21 11:01 PM
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What do you mean by this? Can you explain further?
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/21 10:06 PM
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This.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/21 05:47 PM
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How did you fix it?
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 12:19 PM
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Wow. How did you find this out? Were you in deployment? Let me guess, your pastor told you to work things out bc you had not been stepping up to the plate in your marriage and caused this. Correct?
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 12:16 PM
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Or Jerry who banged the maid, but she never cleaned the apartment. He paid her, so he think that he de facto paid for a prostitute.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre29/07/21 01:47 AM
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That username. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:59 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:52 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:47 PM
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When they’re a land whale most likely.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 07:06 PM
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Tell her she’s fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 07:01 PM
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Seriously. I think it’s very revealing that Superman, Henry Caville, has expressed frustration and dismay about modern women. Superman. Hollywood had limitless resources to scout the globe of billions of men to find the perfect man to play Superman - and they picked an excellent man - and even he has major issues with modern females.
/r/MGTOW220/07/21 10:45 AM
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Plan B being the plan to leave you to get a higher value guy? Or Plan B to return to you? Or Plan B being initially marrying you? I had one SO tell me that I wouldn’t get anyone better than her. I don’t how to take that, but it certainly isn’t charitable.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/21 12:33 AM
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If you’re going to see a therapist - and you probably should - no shame in that - I second the male therapist advice. It’s just better that way.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/21 11:28 PM
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What’s the TL; DR on why this is the expected outcome?
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/21 11:26 PM
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Define truly excessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:33 PM
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99% actually. https://igotstandardsbro.com/results?minAge=28&maxAge=33&excludeMarried=false&race=3&minHeight=177.8&excludeObese=true&minIncome=100000
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 01:32 AM
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Wow. Thanks for pointing that out. Seriously. No pleasing her. Ever.
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 01:29 AM
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She must be pretty hot if she’s got 15 high earning men on her tail.
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 01:28 AM
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Makes sense. Where are you from if I may ask? Curious about how other cultures experience hypergamy.
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 01:23 AM
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You think it’s uncommon to have never been “in love”? I mean, do you think that there are many folks like us that have never been in love?
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 12:59 AM
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Excellent reply. Thank you.
/r/MGTOW216/07/21 11:40 PM
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What bait?
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/21 02:47 AM
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I wonder where they learned it. The Revolution I think was called the Presbyterian revolt by the English. How did Locke’s and Montesquieu’s and Voltaire’s ideas get promulgated? Curious about this.
/r/MGTOW213/07/21 10:33 AM
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Where did you get the 6 out of 1000 stat?
/r/MGTOW213/07/21 10:29 AM
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Wow. Gross. Where did you read that? And what’s average age of marriage for them?
/r/MGTOW213/07/21 10:23 AM
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How old are you now if I may ask?
/r/MGTOW213/07/21 10:19 AM
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Excellent job.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/21 12:51 AM
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Hmmm. What a mess of a world we live in. lol.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/21 01:18 AM
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I didn’t know the backstory on this. Interesting. How was “he” always there?
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/21 12:55 AM
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I had a policy of not talking about the past with a prior gf. It has to be mutual. I won’t bring up your past if you don’t bring up mine. I’m all about the present and future. But she brought up mine all the time and would mention old bfs around me, knowing it would upset me. (Women need to understand that most men don’t like hearing about your sexual past.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:44 PM
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How old was she and how bad was the n count and backstory?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:37 PM
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The pedestalizing was my biggest error esp w church girls. They’re sinners just like us.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/21 02:15 PM
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Can you tell me more about what happened? I agree that the church is definitely one-sided when it tells men to “step up” and get married. I’ve tried dozens of not over a hundred times to date a “Christian” girl. It’s like solving a rubies cube to me. I’m not Brad Pitt, but I’m not looking for Angelina Jolie either. I’ve got a good background, build, education and career. Never hit paydirt. By now, I’m done and I’m much more at ease with that being the case. I like Wild at Heart by John Eldridge.…
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/21 10:06 PM
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It’s embarrassing how shitty our infrastructure is. I’ll have to look into Malaysia.
/r/MGTOW229/06/21 12:16 AM
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Bc they’ll get “cancelled cultured” and they know it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/21 10:02 PM
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Are there a lot of expats in Malaysia?
/r/MGTOW228/06/21 04:10 PM
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Where do you live now? Monthly cost?
/r/MGTOW227/06/21 03:56 AM
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Interesting. There’s a book that’s been out called Pioneers and Princesses or something like that. The gist was that at least in the beginning of US history, women were of a pioneer mindset and were teammates with their husband to build something together from the start. Princesses from today expect all that to be done before marrying them and presented to them on a platter. Clearly your grandmother was the former.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/21 12:18 PM
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Why should/would anyone get married? Seriously. The modern world has revealed/unleashed what women really think. And it’s not beneficial to forming families and long term marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/21 08:46 PM
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Thank you. I’m glad you have drawn closer to God and avoided a very bad decision. It only takes a moment of passion of anger to end up in prison for many many years. Too many stories out there show that. If you don’t mind my asking, is your wife a Christian? Or did you think she was? I say this bc I’m of the belief that that means nothing these days when it comes to marriage and relationships. I’m a realist and not a cynic.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/21 07:34 PM
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Why do you say it meant nothing to your wife and her family? Why don’t you think marriage means anything these days?
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 01:12 AM
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Thank you. Good advice.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/21 08:58 PM
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Well, both wachowski brothers went trans and now they’re both sisters. Not as far fetched as it may seem.
/r/MGTOW208/06/21 11:57 PM
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Are you in India?
/r/MGTOW02/06/21 05:52 PM
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Interesting. About 20 years ago, a very perceptive acquaintance made the remark about a certain girl, “I don’t see how I fit in to her life story,” indicating that he sensed the selfishness of the girl. This was a devout Christian girl, so that kind of self-absorption still goes on even in “tradcon” communities.
/r/MGTOW231/05/21 12:35 AM
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Interesting. TBH, I’ve never had a really good friend who was female. I think that soulmate thing is generally a myth. I’ve always felt constricted in a relationship almost immediately. I don’t see how you can make another person happy, which is what the marital expectation is these days, at least in the West. A Fool’s errand IMO.
/r/MGTOW230/05/21 07:30 PM
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Have you been married?
/r/MGTOW230/05/21 07:15 PM
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My bad. Reading comprehensions not so good.
/r/MGTOW230/05/21 03:12 AM
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Were you married before?
/r/MGTOW230/05/21 02:36 AM
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I never wanted to undertake the futile task of trying to make another person happy. I feel like that’s a fool’s errand.
/r/MGTOW230/05/21 02:32 AM
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Man. I’m sorry to hear this. This is tough. Thank you for providing your perspective. I hope things get better for you. Grass is not always greener. Especially when it comes to the toxic culture we have these days. This subreddit has been helpful for me to understand the stakes and gain perspective and encouragement, as I hope it is for you, too.
/r/MGTOW217/05/21 05:24 PM
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Good question. I ebb and flow on this thought. Yet everyone I’ve been in a relationship, I’ve felt trapped and, sometimes, despised to some degree. I don’t want to be the person that someone “settled for.”
/r/MGTOW217/05/21 03:50 PM
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Good point/perspective. I read awhile back that Abe Lincoln’s last surviving descendant died in the 1990s. The great Abe Lincoln. George Washington himself was sterile, so never had kids of his own.
/r/MGTOW217/05/21 03:47 PM
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I see this with many of my friends and family. Kids have weird socialization. They don’t have friends that they hang out with and they are cool with that bc online life is the norm. All of them have very engaged and good parents, too.
/r/MGTOW217/05/21 01:51 PM
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This is an excellent write up. Thank you for taking the time for this.
/r/MGTOW217/05/21 12:13 PM
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Where did this occur? Country?
/r/MGTOW217/05/21 03:22 AM
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This is funny AF but very depressing. The obesity is disgusting. Thicc is disgusting. I don’t know any guys who like obese. I’ve several sisters with nieces and nephews. I asked one sister what she would tell her kids is the meaning of life. Or what she think is a good life for her kids. Or why should people have kids. Her kids are great and she’s a great mom, but I didn’t get much in the way of substantive answers to fundamentally important questions. It’s strange that we have kids just because…
/r/MGTOW217/05/21 02:54 AM
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Really?
/r/MGTOW217/05/21 12:02 AM
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“The Misconceptions of the Horny” is a brilliant phrase and it may even be a great name of a rock band or title of a movie drama. You get an upvote. PNC is real and many men should take this to heart and head and make solid decisions. Seriously though, I’m sad to hear about your predicament. I can imagine your dismay, but I’ve heard it enough to know it’s not unusual. Time will help you. Like many have said, focus on yourself and enjoy your new freedom.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/21 05:01 AM
14

Nowadays, high school boys have to plan an opulent creative “Promposal,” that rivals any marriage proposal. Entitlement is through the roof.
/r/MGTOW06/04/21 02:24 AM
1

She’s not that good looking. Kind of got that skanky look. She’s not that thin either. Not even by today’s standards. What’s her magic?
/r/MGTOW03/04/21 03:14 AM
2

Are you from the UK? (You said Mum vice Mom. ) If so, what are the females like on your side of the pond?
/r/MGTOW225/02/21 02:37 AM
1

Pre or post steroids Lyle alzado?
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 09:50 AM
1

US? Nothing attractive sounding about her.
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 09:45 AM
1

Friend with the moustache? Lol. Was she, umm, exotic?
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 09:42 AM
2

Good man. Was the wife the wiser? What recourse would she have anyway? She got the sale she wanted.
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 01:59 AM
3

I’m in DC. And there are 2 giant Freemason temples just down the street from the White House on 16th Street and a colossal one across the river dedicated to George Washington. They’ve got to have serious money to build that many in key locations at such size and opulence.
/r/MGTOW16/02/21 02:07 AM
1

I’m older too. 48M. TBH, the thought of finally having kids still comes to mind bc I think bc I think I’ve not really “become a man” unless I have a family. Thoughts on that?
/r/MGTOW15/02/21 03:50 PM
3

That’s tough to hear. How old your kids?
/r/MGTOW15/02/21 02:56 PM
3

What does it say?
/r/MGTOW15/02/21 02:34 PM
1

Where do you live now? Did you convert a shed? How do you like it?
/r/MGTOW15/02/21 02:24 PM
3

Are you all still married?
/r/MGTOW15/02/21 02:20 PM
4

What do you mean by a language app?
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 01:37 AM
3

Like when Hillary said women are the biggest victims of war. Lol.
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 05:02 PM
1

Where was this located if I may ask? I’m looking to buy land, too.
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 03:54 AM
1

Good way to break it down. Do I need to hire someone to wire the van for electricity for the heat/AC and a hole for the AC ventilation?
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 03:50 AM
2

Where are you living in the woods? General location. Just curious. Also, what about the specter?
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 03:48 AM
2

Why is divorce so expensive? Bc it’s worth it.
/r/MGTOW204/02/21 09:45 PM
5

Do you think if you’d lifted as a younger man, it would make building muscle easier as you got older? Some sort of muscle memory?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/21 12:36 AM
4

The birth rates are cratering, hence limitless 3rd World immigration into advanced economies to pick up the cheap labor slack.
/r/MGTOW211/01/21 08:43 AM
1

What was their argument about how it would destroy the family structure?
/r/MGTOW09/01/21 05:06 AM
5

Where is this?
/r/MGTOW202/01/21 03:29 AM
1

Where do you live if I may ask?
/r/MGTOW231/12/20 12:32 AM
3

Apparently this shit is worse in Canada.
/r/MGTOW230/12/20 11:24 PM
2

Awesome. Sounds like a great plan and philosophy. Where are you from, if I may ask?
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 04:00 AM
1

I’ve been in very much the same predicament. It sucks bad. But keep venting and try to take it one day at a time. It will get better. Just don’t listen to what others’ opinions are. They’re irrelevant.
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 07:21 PM
1

Excellent. Where do you live now if I may ask?
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 12:43 PM
1

I’ve researched this and I’ve read that even if you buy your own land, ordinances still require city waste it septic tank, and electrical to park an RV there. What’s your experience? Any hassles from city or police or neighbors?
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 04:35 AM
2

Where is this located?
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 02:09 AM
3

I meant the 82% of men think modern women are undateable. I saw the OKCupid data which shocked me but then it didn’t. Bc I saw it in real life.
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 02:07 AM
2

Occasional specter?! You can’t leave us hanging...
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 01:14 AM
8

Yea. The pickings are awful. 80% obese. Feminist and liberal AF. Showing their big ass in tight pants. I’m not an ass man. Grosses me out. Twerking is fucking disgusting. So animalistic. I didn’t realize the numbers have cratered like that. Wow.
/r/MGTOW227/12/20 09:14 PM
37

Sounds like DC. Female obesity is off the rails here.
/r/MGTOW227/12/20 08:44 PM
7

Where did you see this? I’m glad I’m not alone with this sentiment.
/r/MGTOW227/12/20 08:43 PM
3

I knew a gurl who’s friend was in a med school class in a California PUBLIC school, ie taxpayer support, that had 200 slots. No white males in the entire class of 200.
/r/MGTOW27/12/20 08:06 PM
1

If you don’t mind my asking, what’s a decent monthly income for FIRE? I’m thinking of hitting the road soon and full-time RV. I need to let go of my prior dreams that we’re based on social expectations.
/r/MGTOW227/12/20 07:15 PM
3

I hope I can be stoic enough if/when things go south that I’m not a burden to others. I don’t want to linger.
/r/MGTOW227/12/20 02:13 AM
2

This is a phenomenal reply. Thank you for taking the time to provide these insights. You’re right. I think I’m getting more at ease every day being a “confirmed bachelor” I guess is what they used to call guys like me. All of my best friends have been men. Always. Never a female soulmate. And relationships have always felt claustrophobic to me, even when it meant regular sex to me when I was younger, the cost was too high to my freedom.
/r/MGTOW227/12/20 01:51 AM
1

Really good post. Thank you. Avoiding external pressures is key. Like you said, some mates regretted being single. Some regretted being married. Need to tune out the world right now. The thought of marriage has never REALLY allured me. When I see couples with selfies, I’m happy for them truly, but I think I’d feel claustrophobic with someone always in my life. I don’t know if this is selfish or weak, but I know I’m happier as I am now.
/r/MGTOW227/12/20 01:45 AM
1

Thank you for the lengthy reply. It sounds like you’ve made prudent decisions and worked very hard with great self discipline to be where you are. Alot to be proud of.
/r/MGTOW227/12/20 01:41 AM
2

Thank you. I’m coming to peace with it slowly but surely. I think I have always valued my freedom and serenity and so relationships never outweighed those two things.
/r/MGTOW226/12/20 09:07 PM
1

If you don’t mind my asking, what’s your lifestyle like and monthly income/spend? My concern is if I have to into a nursing home. They’ll burn through everything if I’m there a moderate amount of time then I’ll be on Medicaid.
/r/MGTOW226/12/20 09:06 PM
2

Any further insights you’ve observed from growing old as MGTOW?
/r/MGTOW226/12/20 07:28 PM
1

What job are you in?
/r/MGTOW217/12/20 10:32 PM
3

God’s No is as loving as His Yes. Critically important to understand this. I walked away from God for ten years bc I did not understand this.
/r/RPChristians16/12/20 01:32 AM
1

I used to feel that way about many women in my 20s, but like many posters have said, to women, this attitude is weakness. I wish someone had told me what I’m telling you when I was 22. Hollywood lied to us. John cusack showing up at some girls house with a radio blaring “Your Eyes” makes for great theater. It gets you a restraining order and a rep as a creeper in real life.
/r/RPChristians16/12/20 01:30 AM
11

What do you mean? Which Joker?
/r/MGTOW16/12/20 01:13 AM
2

Changed it. Thx.
/r/MGTOW15/12/20 06:40 PM
2

Did she say why?
/r/MGTOW15/12/20 05:55 PM
12

Based on her saying she was trying to virtue signal to you, I presume you’re a non-white MGTOW. I am curious to know how other non-white MGTOW look at this sort of indoctrination/ideology. Personally, I think that this SJW stuff is a Trojan horse for Marxism to be implemented, which is essentially thought control and tyranny. Woe to anyone who disagrees with SJW creeds! If you do, then you’re either a racist white supremacist or an Uncle Tom. Their sense of humor sucks, too, in addition to mind-…
/r/MGTOW213/12/20 11:59 PM
3

This.
/r/MGTOW213/12/20 11:51 PM
3

In what ways specifically?
/r/MGTOW210/12/20 05:12 PM
1

https://youtu.be/9cXh8F5BKq0
/r/MGTOW07/12/20 02:24 PM
2

I’m sorry to hear about this. I had a dog I really loved and this link was comforting. Also, pls read the comments in the YouTube link bc you’re not alone in your grief. https://youtu.be/9cXh8F5BKq0
/r/MGTOW07/12/20 02:21 PM
2

I’m a Christian too and I wonder if God has not signed off on a marriage for me (and a lot of others) bc He knows what’s ahead. And, quite frankly, this is not a good era for virtue and family. It’s worse than Sodom and Gomorrah in degeneracy. God’s No’s are as loving and wise as his Yes’s. Please remind yourself of that. I have to tell myself that a lot. Cling close to God no matter what station in life you are in and you can’t go wrong.
/r/MGTOW230/11/20 03:10 AM
2

What countries if I may ask? Trying to see if all cultures are the same RE: this issue.
/r/MGTOW229/11/20 07:47 PM
2

Did this happen to you?
/r/MGTOW224/11/20 05:05 PM
5

It hasn’t worked out that way. Fat chicks (which must feminist are) will always be ugly as will ugly angry women inside will always be ugly outside. The biggest effect aside from misandrystic laws, media and policies is the sluttification of hot to medium girls. Hyper hang and all that.
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 08:34 PM
1

They do. Being candid, I don’t think he will change, but I’d like to see if the end of his life he could have a place to lay his head. I haven’t decided. Still debating about the whole enabling thing and you bring up value points. Hence my initial post and this dialogue.
/r/MGTOW220/11/20 02:20 PM
0

I know what you’re saying. He’s going on 60 though.
/r/MGTOW220/11/20 01:11 PM
1

Thank you. I go back and forth on if this enabling or whatever. Even if they’re mentally ill? Truth be told, he will probably do drugs, alcohol at some point there. He’s not clean and hasn’t been for decades. He’s done AA etc but it didn’t take. I’m wondering if this is a wise course too
/r/MGTOW219/11/20 04:01 PM
1

Thank you for the help. You bake good points. He will probably still get into trouble. Maybe not. He’s getting old and he would have a place to stay. My brothers don’t get along all that well. I don’t know if they’d kill each other, but they’re certainly not close. They never hung out when they were kids. Like. At all. Tumultuous upbringing and all that.
/r/MGTOW219/11/20 01:58 AM
1

Thank you! Any recommendations on location? Way forward? I’ve got ties to Indiana and the housing is cheap there, but I’m not wedded to my idea. I thought that electricity and water costs tens of thousands to hook up or get a septic tank though. Also I’m a bit concerned about isolation, but maybe he will meet friends. Hopefully good ones. I can ask folks to do a health check, too.
/r/MGTOW219/11/20 01:51 AM
1

Wow. Did this happen to you?
/r/MGTOW218/11/20 02:48 PM
1

I think I aced that checklist. I guess I’m making the right call.
/r/MGTOW218/11/20 02:48 AM
1

Why? What do they say?
/r/MGTOW218/11/20 02:26 AM
5

Yes. I really only think I can or should trust God Himself. Everyone else disappoints especially those who should help, root for, or at least not hurt you. Is that misogyny?
/r/MGTOW209/11/20 02:50 AM
5

I’ve never understood why people talk shit about their friends and family (if the family member is OK). My other bro in law who works his ass off in the restaurant told my sister that he never heard me talk shit about anyone in the family. She told me that
/r/MGTOW209/11/20 02:45 AM
10

I have 4 sisters and I think this is a huge reason I’m MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW209/11/20 02:37 AM
3

I read about a study that says gratefulness is the factor most conducive to happiness. Counting blessings, big or small, is a good thing.
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 11:28 AM
4

Well thought out.
/r/MGTOW215/10/20 05:03 PM
2

Really? I am in DC. Plotting my escape though.
/r/MGTOW214/10/20 06:57 PM
2

Will do. SF seems kind of rough these days. Lol.
/r/MGTOW214/10/20 06:42 PM
2

What an incredible story and amazing insight into humanity. I need to reread this again. You’d seem like a good person to have a beer with - if you drank. Lol.
/r/MGTOW213/10/20 05:10 PM
2

Incredible and sad, terrifying story. Thank you for sharing and I’m sorry to hear about the abuse and crime Very brave of you. How did you end up MGTOW? Did you grow up in the US? I’ve got a cat and I’m poking fit a dog, too. Animals are the best.
/r/MGTOW213/10/20 12:19 AM
1

Wow. Where are you from if I may ask? I dint intend to live near them if possible. Too much flashbacks and I’ve got depression issues big time already. This will set me off again.
/r/MGTOW213/10/20 12:02 AM
2

Thank you. It’s quite depressing TBH. When I had my narcissist brother move in, he brought me back to our deeply unhappy childhood. I told him I moved 3000 miles away to be away from that shit. I thought getting him out of old locations might be good for him. He applied to jobs, and it was 2014-15, so the economy still sucked so nothing. I said get something to show good faith and help. I think he thought low wage McDs etc is beneath him. All work is dignified and good to me. He’s older o maybe …
/r/MGTOW212/10/20 10:58 PM
2

Thank you. Good point. Probably do the buy a small country house part IF - big IF - I follow through. Enabling and dependency of myself concerns me. The lazy narcissist is quite manipulative. Texted me and says he was being physically threatened and needed bail money.
/r/MGTOW212/10/20 10:33 PM
47

So depressing. So true. Obesity is off the charts. They’re not even trying anymore.
/r/MGTOW211/10/20 11:16 PM
1

Thank you! Any suggestions offhand? Where are you if I may ask?
/r/MGTOW211/10/20 03:50 PM
1

Thank you. What about the tourist poisonings about a years ago? Effect? Concerned? I also hear the Chinese are gobbling up property there? True? If so, what effect if any?
/r/MGTOW201/10/20 02:38 PM
2

How much does your place rent for? What’s DR like? Where are you from originally? I’m thinking of moving out of the US.
/r/MGTOW230/09/20 11:43 AM
27

Physically worn out from the CC too.
/r/MGTOW205/09/20 01:03 PM
10

10%? Where did you come up with that number? If you’re talking about women who’ve aborted their kids, the % is much higher/worse. About 25% of women in the US have AT LEAST ONE abortion by age 45. Half of those women get 2 or more abortions. Hispanic % is higher and black % is much higher.
/r/MGTOW01/09/20 04:16 AM
24

There are also proverbs about it being better to be on the roof of a house or on a desert island than with a contentious woman. St. Paul said it was better to be single. Straight up. Period.
/r/MGTOW01/09/20 03:45 AM
5

Bingo
/r/MGTOW01/09/20 03:40 AM
2

Wow. What country is this?
/r/MGTOW01/09/20 03:39 AM
1

I’m spent my active time trying to find a “white picket fence” life and totally placed women on a pedestal. I didn’t realize they’re as gross as men are in being sluts. What an idiot I was. I was in the church subculture so that was expected. Dodged a bullet methinks. I plan on buying a Class B campervan and hit the road in the next year or so or maybe move overseas like E Europe or Asia somewhere. I can’t stand feminism and cultural Marxism that’s infested the West. Sexual revolution made women…
/r/MGTOW31/08/20 09:13 PM
3

That sucks. I know lots of stories like much. It doesn’t take much. In the Navy, the medical DQ was called the “NAMI Whammie” where you get your final physical in Pensacola prior to flying. What brings you to this board?
/r/MGTOW30/08/20 11:16 PM
2

This is a nightmare. Sorry to hear you’re going through this. Hang in there.
/r/MGTOW30/08/20 08:51 PM
2

Danke
/r/MGTOW30/08/20 08:49 PM
15

Spelled deceiver wrong. i before e except after c.
/r/MGTOW30/08/20 08:42 PM
3

T-38? Was this full time as an instructor, or was this a shore duty after a flying tour? (I use Navy terms but you get the drift.) Or an F-5 adversary I just thought.
/r/MGTOW30/08/20 08:31 PM
5

What did you fly in the USAF?
/r/MGTOW30/08/20 08:10 PM
1

How much does it cost monthly? I’m thinking of getting a Class B.
/r/MGTOW223/08/20 01:31 AM
1

That’s screwed up. You’re The Father. Unless you’ve got major issues, he/she is Your Child.
/r/MGTOW219/08/20 12:00 AM
3

They’re Awesome.
/r/MGTOW218/08/20 12:56 PM
1

I can barely keep myself happy.
/r/MGTOW218/08/20 03:21 AM
2

In laws?!?!
/r/MGTOW218/08/20 03:19 AM
2

Did the mother testify in front of the judge? If not she should. Request a hearing on that issue and maybe ask for a court-ordered psych exam if not done already.
/r/MGTOW218/08/20 03:19 AM
0

The asthmatic, allergy-ridden, dwarfish Marxists intellectual vanguard are just like their similarly asthmatic, allergy-ridden dwarfish precursor and idol, Trotsky. Except unlike Russia in 1917-1918, the US is full of very very very well-armed and well-trained gun owners. (Can’t believe Trotsky ran the Red Army. Lost a lot of respect for the Soviets when I heard that.)
/r/MGTOW212/08/20 10:29 PM
2

This.
/r/MGTOW212/08/20 10:24 PM
3

Actually, this is a great idea. Gotta be hard copy though Bc when the EMT Blackout occurs, you’ll want tangible evidence to survive.
/r/MGTOW203/08/20 12:18 PM
3

Lemon pledge. Not the store brand either.
/r/MGTOW202/08/20 10:46 PM
4

She said this?! How do you cleanse the mirror?
/r/MGTOW202/08/20 05:59 PM
2

Wow. Amazing.
/r/MGTOW208/07/20 04:52 AM
2

I would ask you to re-look at the things of God. Faith will always be required, but it doesn’t have to be blind faith. Rather, it can be an examined and intelligent faith. I spent a lot of time as a skeptic, but I took the thoughts, arguments, and lives of serious Christians seriously. You are not alone in your doubts, but I would encourage to keep going. Otherwise amazingly intelligent and good men have become believers in God. My two cents. Even ask God (even if you’re skeptical that there is …
/r/MGTOW208/07/20 04:21 AM
2

That’s awesome! Keep pressing!
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 03:03 PM
3

The implication is that Christians are mindless zombies who are good at “reciting a pattern of words.” You cannot presume how someone perceived words in their own mind. No one can. The man was trying to do a good thing by telling you what he thought would be of benefit to you, regardless of what you whether you believe what he said is true or not. I’d propose that you accept that that as an act of fraternity in spite of the disagreement over the implications of what he said. He meant and means t…
/r/MGTOW202/07/20 03:35 AM
2

C-130s are mehhh though. Unless it’s an AC-130.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:00 AM
2

Awesome aircraft.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:00 AM
2

I do too. I wonder why people love this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 02:56 AM
2

What USAF aircraft did you work on? Propulsion maintainer?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 02:55 AM
2

The neurosis is something I’ve often observed, too. Like talking to a game show host, or politician, or newscaster. Contrived.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 03:38 PM
15

Good comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 03:36 PM
1

Had to throw this in here.... https://youtu.be/9uUH6o-jdog
/r/MGTOW228/06/20 03:03 AM
1

Why did your aunt and uncle force your cousins to do that? Religion? Where is this if I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 08:44 PM
2

I have a very hard time being happy myself. I think that that struggle, plus trying to make another person happy, would be disastrous. It has been disastrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 08:40 PM
1

Where do you live? Asking for a friend....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/20 12:05 AM
2

I remember hearing a podcast by a woman who was transitioning to being a male. After she/he started taking heavy doses of testosterone, she/he said her/his sexual appetite became insatiable and was shocking to him/her when she/he was a woman. So the men are all pervs things is quite frankly most likely based on biochemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:06 PM
3

Where do you live now? Trying to figure out if she got a dose of American feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:41 PM
2

So you’re traveling with a GF? I’m thinking of doing the campervan thing in the next 2-3 years. What have learned since you began living the #vanlife lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:35 PM
1

Where did you emigrate from? Where did you immigrate to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:31 PM
3

Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:19 PM
1

I thought you were solo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:15 PM
1

Travel partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:12 PM
36

When Superman has problems with modern women, you’ve got problems. A Superman who was chosen as the ultimate male in a global search by the best talent agents in the world. Oh, and he’s really, really rich, too. With a British accent to boot. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.insider.com/henry-cavill-backlash-comments-flirting-dating-2018-7%3famp “It's very difficult to do that if there are certain rules in place. Because then it's like: 'Well, I don't want to go up and talk to her, because I'm g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:05 PM
1

You’re young. Everyone has failures in life so just know you’re not alone feeling this way. I could tell you some big ones. Take a walk and count every small good thing/ blessing you see/think. Sun. Breeze. Grass. Sir. Two arms. Two legs. Lol. MGTOW is great but be careful about the Black Pill. It’s not all bad out there. There are good people and good times to be had. Turn off social media for a bit and chill for a few days offline unless it’s here or elsewhere online for encouragement.
/r/MGTOW216/06/20 03:39 AM
2

Thanks for the reply. It’s a nightmare in the dating world these days.
/r/MGTOW215/06/20 09:09 PM
1

Good points, all. I can see why rage is a stage. I wasted decades trying to be chivalrous and putting women on a pedestal. I am a child of the stupid 1980s teen comedy culture - John Cusack and the boom box as the modern day Romeo, etc. What a waste of my youth.
/r/MGTOW214/06/20 09:56 PM
3

So that whole idea that “maybe arranged marriages are a wise idea passed down from time because the arrangement comes from your parents who are older, wiser, know you, and love you “ is stupid? Why are arranged marriages bad otherwise? (I’d never sign up to marry someone on someone else’s say so personally.)
/r/MGTOW214/06/20 01:53 AM
1

Good point. I plan on traveling a lot to take advantage of this.
/r/MGTOW212/06/20 03:55 AM
1

Great lost. Lots of facts.
/r/MGTOW212/06/20 03:54 AM
2

This will def help. Worked for me. Go for a walk to start.
/r/MGTOW212/06/20 03:52 AM
1

So do you think the gender dynamics today have changed so much since then that MGTOW makes much more sense than before?
/r/MGTOW212/06/20 03:51 AM
2

This is my plan.
/r/MGTOW212/06/20 03:43 AM
1

Wow. Are you single yourself? Been married? Married? I’ve got a Family Law attorney friend who’s done it for 30+ years. I used to ask him, “What’s the secret to a good marriage?” He never could tell, although his wife is a saint and they seem to be happy together. She’s his legal secretary.
/r/MGTOW212/06/20 03:31 AM
2

From experience?
/r/MGTOW211/06/20 11:36 PM
2

What’s your words of wisdom from being a decent Circe lawyer? Best/worst cases?
/r/MGTOW211/06/20 11:36 PM
3

To rid the country of Leftist brainwashing/bullying. A lot of people’s pasts were dredged up and lives ruined this week. Mostly Leftists though, like JK Rowling, who apparently isn’t woke enough on tranny issues. The Left will never be satisfied with any apologies bc it believes in humiliating “sinners” as a show of its social, economic, and political power. There’s no forgiveness. There’s no redemption. There’s no reconciliation. Never apologize to a Leftist.
/r/MGTOW211/06/20 02:22 AM
7

I wonder if and when the tech giants “accidentally” or intentionally reveal everyone’s internet search history and real IDs behind Reddit, Twitter, etc. I wonder if the government will be the catalyst for it.
/r/MGTOW206/06/20 02:17 PM
2

64% of Canadians are fat/obese. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obesity_in_Canada#Obesity_rate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 04:06 PM
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Where are you from? Please tell me. I’d like to tee off on your country since you’re so down on the US. Speaking of fatness, if you’re from a shithole country, be grateful for the Green Revolution from the US and the American mass immunization programs that have saved billions in Africa and Asia. Europeans just fucked over Africa and Asia with their hundreds of years of cruel colonialism that the world is still reeling from.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 03:52 PM
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Corrupt rotten politicians bought out. Why Sanders is so popular and why Trump signed that Executive Order to make our drugs cost the same as in Canada. Plus - and this doesn’t get enough airtime - that these rich countries have more money for social services bc a lot of money they’d normally have to spend on defense is either paid for by the US or the peace is maintained by the US. The maritime shipping lanes have had almost 75 years of unhindered growth and use. Look at how the Chinese 9 Dash …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 03:47 PM
1

The thing that Canadians, Aussies, and Europeans do not ever acknowledge is that 75% or more of their cheap lifesaving drugs, high tech devices, and innovative medical procedures in the last 100 years have come from American R&D on the backs of US taxpayers and consumers. Yes, many of the US-based scholars and scientists come from elsewhere, but the schools, labs, centers are still American. Our Pharma and insurance lobbies have bought off our rotten pols. Reason #325 why Sanders/Trump have been…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 03:18 PM
1

Interesting. It’s funny how MGTOW guys are always looking for cultures/people that aren’t screwed over with rabid feminism or other modern dystopia. (I know you’re from Canada). Sad but comforting to know it’s not just me observing this.
/r/MGTOW223/05/20 03:56 AM
1

Where were your parents from if I may ask?
/r/MGTOW221/05/20 01:54 AM
1

Whoever you are, you’re in my Venn diagram of MGTOW and vandwelling. Great minds think alike.
/r/MGTOW221/05/20 01:53 AM
1

320 lbs at 170 lbs body weight is very good for no background in deadlifts. That’s almost twice your body weight. I found this calisthenic benefit when doing push-ups. I could go months without flatbenching and only be doing push-ups. Yet I’d be at 90% of my max still when I went back to flatbenching.
/r/MGTOW210/05/20 12:28 PM
1

This. Except when you tear your quad like I did today. I heard it tear. Body weight squats are no joke. They’re excellent at building more mass and tone than you’d believe would be possible.
/r/MGTOW210/05/20 02:29 AM
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I think he’s the kind of guy who’d take your kind words to heart, even if he’s on a different wavelength. Your motives are good and kind. I know I would.
/r/MGTOW210/05/20 02:27 AM
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Wow. What an amazing post. You’re a good, stand-up guy with great courage and wisdom. I’ll be praying for you. There’s more to life than this life.
/r/MGTOW210/05/20 02:26 AM
7

This is an excellent and insightful post. Well done.
/r/MGTOW210/05/20 02:21 AM
9

Were you previously married? Kids?
/r/MGTOW209/05/20 03:28 AM
1

I hear the strident feminism is off the charts there. In the US it certainly is.
/r/MGTOW205/05/20 03:16 PM
1

Can I ask where you’re from?
/r/MGTOW205/05/20 02:04 AM
3

Can you explain what you mean by your last sentence? I’m curious. Thank you.
/r/MGTOW205/05/20 02:03 AM
1

Does The Man hassle you though? I’m def thinking of doing this. I’m plotting it out. How much do you spend a month?
/r/MGTOW202/05/20 01:58 AM
1

Thank you for the reply. I’m happy that you and your husband are very happy together. That’s very encouraging to hear and that he was able to break free from destructive patterns he observed growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:11 AM
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I see that, too. That last sentence is awesome. You’ve got literary flair. I don’t even own a candle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 11:29 PM
1

Are they married recently and are they younger men? Or from a different generation?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 11:21 PM
1

Thank you for your encouraging reply and words of wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:35 PM
1

You’ve read a lot into my background that doesn’t exist and speculated on my motives wrongly. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:06 PM
1

Understood. What statistics do you have that prove that family formation is healthy? Marriage rate? Divorce rate? Single parenthood? We can disagree on whether the sexual revolution is causation or just correlation, but those 3 statistics exploded from the 1960s onward in the US at the same time as the widespread adoption of the mores of the sexual revolution. (Of course there are other factors that play into this, esp economic and gender roles.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:23 PM
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You’ve raised the same objection elsewhere on this board but more politely. I ask myself the questions you ask alot to be honest, re the echo chamber. This is why I posted on the Purple Pill-bc it should be a more balanced forum. And the replies I’ve seen have been about 50/50, which leads me to believe that this is a pretty balanced board. I do believe strongly that the sexual revolution has blown apart healthy relationships and family formation. I’m a casualty/perpetrator of treating people li…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:52 PM
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Talk about echo chamber. Here’s another phenomenon that you yourself are subject to. Remote amateur psychoanalysis, nasty judgmentalism, and internet keyboard warrior behavior. You know nothing about my life story other than what I have shared. I’ve been nothing but polite in my responses to you and to those who have been polite to me in reply. If I have disagreed with you, I did not jump to sweeping conclusions about your character. I come on Reddit bc I enjoy the banter of free discourse and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:24 PM
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That’s not what I’m trying to point out. I’m sure I would also. I’m am saying that there is a right answer to the question of whether cannibalism should be practiced independent of what the tribe thinks or someone who has grown up with the tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:16 AM
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You make a valid point about the echo chamber and I have experienced that. I’ll have to think if and I’m what extent I’m being influenced by whatever echo chamber I am in. But I chose the Purple Pill specifically bc it’s, well, purple and would hopefully be a venue for a more balanced discussion. Preliminarily, I think it has. Again, I never said everyone. My question is whether others have experienced it, and from some of these comments say, it appears that it’s not entirely uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:57 AM
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Society definitely has a “right” and a “wrong” composition. If it goes against natural law then it’s definitely wrong. I wouldn’t get inducted/involved into the rituals of a tribe of headhunters/cannibals bc that’s the way that that society “is.” I am not rationalizing anything. I describing reality. Our society has a high level of social dysfunction and destruction. Almost every societal metric bears this out, esp as it regards marriage and family formation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:50 AM
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That is a perfect description of how I’d like to know if a person is right for me. I appreciate your response. PS My bad in thinking you were a guy. You’re a stand up girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:47 AM
2

That’s awesome. You sound like a stand-up guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:32 AM
1

You saw that Josh Harris renounced “I Kissed Dating Goidbye” last year? He’s actually really left the faith it seems. Tough and sad to see. When did you graduate that college? Can I ask which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:32 AM
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Reddit bad? What are you talking about? I never said everyone is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:30 AM
2

Did you have a strong sense of wanting to marry this person though?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:27 AM
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Strong language. Why is someone a certified loser and completely useless if they’re not married? You’re referring to over 50% of the US households these days with that. You’re painting with a broad and inaccurate brush. I’m not a loner by any stretch, albeit I’m in my 40s. Nor am I useless as I’ve got a very good job, great social skills, and a great education. I’m not saying I need to slay poon; it’s not a priority of mine, but I can and have done so. The 40s-60s generation was much different i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:25 AM
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I was firmly ensconced in the Christian American dating subculture. I always felt like I was acting and that everyone else was acting, too. It’s weird in retrospect. I’m a very “New Jersey” Catholic-roots guy and I was involved in evangelical churches in my 20s and 30s - it was like a cow wearing a dress. I’d say fuck, shit, snot, boogie and everyone would faint and think I wasn’t “spiritually mature.” Plus I didn’t walk around barefoot strumming a guitar and talking about my feelings between ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:17 AM
1

I was in a similar situation a year ago. Bought a ring and held onto it for a month and then returned it bc I wasn’t feeling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:09 AM
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Thank you for the reply. Your experience in seeing how things play out is helpful. I’ve of course heard that it is hard work. I don’t have a problem with working hard, but I NEED to know, deeply, that I’m in love with this person and that I WANT to spend the rest of my life with this person. I know about honeymoon phases and all that, but I’m generally content and I haven’t found a person I NEED/WANT like I mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:07 AM
1

Thank you for the reply. I appreciate it. Do you have any lessons learned from this advice that you don’t mind sharing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:49 AM
2

Thank you. This is an encouraging post. I’ve never had that “butterfly in the stomach” thing mutually with another girl. It’s either been with her or with I, individually, but never both at the same time. Sadly. Or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:48 AM
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I think we are in uncharted territory with technology, the sexual revolution, and feminism all having dramatic effects on family formation. The “normal” of yesterday is very tough to achieve today. I went to a good therapist a few years ago and expressed my dismay/disappointment at not “succeeding” in getting married and having kids. He did something pretty interesting. Instead of the usual bromides of “you’ll find someone” or “you need to work on you first” like men always hear today, he acknow…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:46 AM
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That’s good to hear. As my reference to The Shining indicates, I’m incredibly skeptical of marriage. I can blame this or that, but I just don’t think it’s what I want or maybe the way I’m wired. I tried like crazy in my 20s/30s to settle down to no avail. I really did. Today, I struggle with feeling like I haven’t lived a real manly life without being a father/husband sometimes. Then I think: Thank God for unanswered prayers. He knows me better than me, so He has my best interests at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:37 AM
2

I deal with bitterness issues, too. You’re not alone. But a good saying is “Being angry at someone is like you drinking poison hoping that they’ll die.” So true.
/r/MGTOW228/04/20 12:10 AM
1

Wow. 13 divorces and 14 marriages. Why do you think they turned out that way? Were lots of kids involved? In the final equation, I’m happier being single than married TBH, but I wonder if did not fulfill my mission in life to be a father. That gets me bummed out sometimes. Like Jerry to George on Seinfeld, “Look at us! We’re not men...”. Lol. https://youtu.be/vzLmm0wa0Hs The dying alone argument has less weight for me as I recognize that you can be alone in a room full of people, it might better…
/r/MGTOW223/04/20 12:39 PM
1

That is encouraging to hear about their innocence. I think the sexual revolution and feminism were two hammer blows to the family. Speaking for myself, I’m so fucking cynical about relationships and regretful/resentful about how it didn’t work out like your brother’s life did with wife and kids. For my twenties and early thirties, I tried like CRAZY to be a good gentleman and all that. Problem is, I pedestalized womem, which today is def a no no. You could adore someone like your brothers wife b…
/r/MGTOW223/04/20 12:13 AM
3

We’re you married before? Kids? Can you say what happened?
/r/MGTOW223/04/20 12:07 AM
9

All work is honorable. All work. Especially “Dirty Jobs.”
/r/MGTOW14/04/20 12:49 AM
14

As Chris Rock says, “Fellas, once you tell your wife that you got laid off, start the clock bc you only have so much time to get a job.”
/r/MGTOW12/04/20 10:30 PM
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This scene in Clerks grosses me out, too, and it’s very demoralizing. OP can say what she want. Skanks and sluts aren’t attractive to most men, no matter how much “modern thinking” is thrown in the mens’ faces. It must be biologically hardwired for this be such a universal, visceral reaction to promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:51 PM
3

I would not recommend isolating yourself like you plan to, like Charles Butkowski recommended. This is not a good idea if you do it in the extreme. Sounds romantic and edgy but it really is a recipe for greater depression and isolation. We are social creatures and it sounds good on paper, but it can lead to a deeper spiral of depression and mental illness. I know bc I tried to do it and experienced it. I was borderline suicidal, too. My self-talk was very full of self-condemnation and pessimism.…
/r/MGTOW211/04/20 12:26 AM
1

True.
/r/MGTOW08/04/20 06:42 PM
0

Interesting question you asked.
/r/MGTOW202/04/20 04:36 AM
1

Thank you for the reply. I (47M) often wonder if I made the right call, but i think I’m getting more and more at peace with solitude.
/r/MGTOW202/04/20 03:51 AM
4

As a divorced guy, what would you tell your 25 year old self (or whatever pre marriage age self)? Counter argument: relationships are hard work and people need to sacrifice and die to self.
/r/MGTOW231/03/20 05:18 AM
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I guess it matters what state law you’re looking at. The ones I’ve read say that the parties both don’t have to be under 18 at the onset of the relationship; one party can be 18 or older. But the difference in age has to generally no more than 3-4 years. Edit: I saw one law where it’s still a crime, but the offender does not have to register as a sex offender.
/r/MGTOW29/03/20 05:09 PM
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It’s a strict liability crime so this is true. Your knowledge/intent is irrelevant. Some states have “Romeo and Juliet” laws that will allow this if there’s only like 3 years between the 2, ie 19 year old boy and a 16 year old girl.
/r/MGTOW29/03/20 04:21 PM
2

Lol. Drive all night is a common lyric. What was that song I think from the 90s that said, “I’d walk one thousand miles to show up at your door”?
/r/MGTOW221/03/20 08:43 PM
1

True. I sometimes pick up what my male friends are intimating, perhaps subconsciously, when they talk about things that are unrelated to their wife. One friend had a serious heart condition and he was like, “I don’t mind if I die right now; it’ll be a relief.” Another friend said that he discussed with his wife that the Bible says that in Heaven there is no marriage, but that we will be like the angels are. He and his wife seemed relieved about that prospect. (His wife, him and I are Christians)…
/r/MGTOW221/03/20 08:41 PM
1

I wonder if there is some sort “programming” subconsciously when we listen to lyrics that are sung with a catchy tune or so we just ignore the lyrics and enjoy the tune.
/r/MGTOW221/03/20 08:35 PM
2

This. Successive waves of friends is the best way to describe how a bachelor goes through life. I (M47) think I’m getting more content with my solitude as time goes on. This is a blessing.
/r/MGTOW221/03/20 08:33 PM
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Since women have the choice to kill the baby, men should have the choice as to whether they pay for the child if the woman decides to let the baby live. “My body, my choice.” - Women “My wallet, my choice.” - Dave Chappelle Dave Chappelle made this argument in his last show to show unjust the pro-choice position is. It was lost on many viewers, but it’s pretty clear what he was advocating. Regarding paternity, you realize that if a woman has a baby and the “father” raising the child finds out tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:23 AM
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Yep.
/r/MGTOW15/03/20 04:59 PM
13

Superman is having dating issues. Superman, for fuck’s sake. Superman. Hollywood casting agents scoured the globe for months, if not years, to find the perfect man to play the Man of Steel. And yet he is having dating issues in today’s society. Says it all. Feminism is cancer. As is the sexual revolution. Both are huge hammer blows to modern society and the health of civilization. Feminism allowed ugly girls to be mean and the sexual revolution allowed pretty girls to be sluts. Since this a purp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 12:31 AM
7

It reminds me of that Seinfeld episode where Jerry derisively called Puddy a grease monkey. Puddy responds, “Can a monkey take apart a fuel injector?”
/r/MGTOW214/03/20 02:51 AM
1

Did you go through a marriage/divorce as the catalyst?
/r/MGTOW225/02/20 12:17 PM
1

Interesting. What is your cultural background? The reason I ask is that you married at 24, which is pretty young for an American professional man esp in Silicon Valley. I’m wondering how far and wide this feminism/sexual evolution cancer has spread outside the West. I don’t know how anyone gets married these days. And I don’t have an overarching goal for why I want to have kids and how I’d like them to be. I’ve asked friends that last question to otherwise thoughtful men and they really can’t an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 02:56 PM
3

Cena is cringey. The Rock has a wry sense of humor so he can handle this better IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:51 AM
1

Do you live in the US? If so, what area if I may ask? Comparison is making contentment almost impossible. You’re right. You’re competing against the whole world. 7 figure divorce worth every penny. Admissions like this make me very cautious about getting married. I’m glad you’re free now. Did you rush into marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:49 AM
2

I remember seeing a movie called “Savages” that has this kind of female wet dream plot: “Best friends Chon (Taylor Kitsch) and Ben (Aaron Taylor-Johnson) are marijuana growers in Laguna Beach, California. Chon, a former Navy SEAL, smuggled the seeds for the plants out of Afghanistan. Ben, a University of California, Berkeley graduate in business and botany, cultivates the marijuana. The seeds yield a particularly potent strain, which develops a wide customer base. Chon and Ben become wealthy, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 02:01 AM
2

You are right that it’s “selfish” to try to be “selfless” by having wife/kids and ostensibly sacrificing for them. Interesting paradox. I suck at poker and lying, so I can’t fake it til I make it with this kind of thing. I appreciate your wise insightful responses so I hope I’m not asking too much follow up. How do you think things are different in 2020 vs. prior eras that makes being a father/husband thankless? Are you still married if I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:55 AM
2

Thank you for the thoughtful reply. Amazing story about your baseball coach. Wow. A great man. I think I have a “grass is always greener on the other side” mentality when it comes to wife/kids. I have accomplished a lot in life and God gives me ultimate purpose. Yet I still struggle with whether I wimped out by not just going out and getting married and having kids like most of my friends have. I get the usual “love is a choice” tough talk, but I would think you should look forward to going home…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:24 AM
1

Do you think your life would have as much significance or purpose aside from having kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 08:08 PM
3

Thank you for the reply. I’m getting older (M47)and wonder if marriage/kids are in the cards. Prob not. I was at a party yesterday where there were lots of kids. Parents were all exceptional. Good people. And kids were good. But I didn’t get the “oh I need to have kids” feeling at all. Most importantly, I feel like I’d be responsible for another’s happiness - in this case, my wife and kids - and I can barely keep me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 04:32 PM
2

Would you rather be single or married? What if it meant not having kids to avoid that scenario described above?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 02:26 PM
1

I hear that the feminist bullshit is as bad or worse over there, too. Can’t show bikini ads bc body shaming. I think 75% of the women are obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 12:04 PM
1

Are English aristocrats still a thing? I’m not trying to be cheeky. Aristocratic WASPs in America are an endangered species here. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 10:20 PM
10

Is that pesto? Is that pesto? Oh, it’s asparagus! It’s aaassspppaarrraaaaggguuussss!
/r/MGTOW11/02/20 02:09 AM
4

This. Bolshevism is a rotten, disgusting, degenerate ideology. Destroyed culture and society. Still around though. See Antifa et al. And Cultural Marxism.
/r/MGTOW10/02/20 12:32 AM
1

Congratulations and good for you!
/r/MGTOW209/02/20 02:16 PM
1

Yes, me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 06:14 AM
2

Keep at it. Keep talking. He listens. I’ve had some very rough times where I feel the same way. The psalms are a good place to start if you’re so inclined.
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 01:19 PM
4

Seek God in prayer and the Bible. Talk to Him like you talked to us here. He knows. We are not meant for this world and girls, Gold, and glory are the usual but false substitutes to provide men worth and fulfillment. God designed us, created us for Him.
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 12:48 PM
3

You’d be surprised at how many men prefer the solitary celibate lifestyle. Religious orders are full of men who’ve made that decision, and I’ve met men who’d take that course if their wife passes away. I’m thinking about investigating this way.
/r/MGTOW227/01/20 02:09 AM
6

Wow, sorry to hear that. I’ve run across news reporters before. They’ve all seemed to be exceptionally narcissistic and superficial. It was like talking to a game show host or a politician. But most are very good looking.
/r/MGTOW227/01/20 02:03 AM
1

I never heard of that phrase “grey divorce.” Interesting. I’m in the exact same boat as you being 47, single, childless, although almost all of my friends have stayed married. I just enjoy my solitude and independence I guess.
/r/MGTOW223/01/20 03:29 PM
4

You’ve got to be outside the US for this to be true. Where are you from?
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 06:35 AM
8

If you do the math, almost 40% of women will have gotten an abortion by age 45, with about half getting two or more. Not kidding. This percentage is astounding to me. Depressing as hell. We all need forgiveness, so that’s the most important thing to seek from God. Abortion is a bitter, bitter fruit from the rotten feminist ideology and sexual revolution trees and these are two hammer blows to a healthy civilization.
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 04:21 AM
3

Lol. Great post. You should try to have faith in Jesus, who’s a great Friend when life is tough/lonely.
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 03:59 AM
2

The best line in that whole book is when Samson hair is cut and he’s beaten, blinded, imprisoned and sent to work. The Bible then says something like “Samson put his shoulder to wheel and his hair began to grow back.” His hair began to grow back. After he was humbled, God would still return his strength to him. I take some encouragement as I ponder much of my life lived in dissipation and not in pursuit of God.
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 03:58 AM
10

I placed women on pedestals most of my life. So weird in retrospect. It’s what Hollywood, media and society push, though.
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 03:45 AM
1

This post is depressing as hell.
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 03:41 AM
3

I’ve been in this predicament. I took meds and they help. The brain is a physical organ like your heart, liver, kidneys, lungs and it has physical problems that result in mental issues. When I try to get in a relationship to fill the void, it never has worked for me. I try to focus on my relationship with God and that’s been the best thing I could do, honestly.
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 03:34 AM
1

I wonder if being married in a dead marriage is like having a roommate. I see that as a best case scenario.
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 03:29 AM
1

You are very blessed to have such a cool and tight group of friends.
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 03:25 AM
5

I’m 47 and I had the same experience. I’m having trouble mustering the desire to meet women and I appreciate my solitude more and more.
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 03:15 AM
3

True that.
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 03:14 AM
4

Bill Burr talks about this. He’s talks about successful men who find all kinds of women greeting him at the finish line but none were at the starting line.
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 03:02 AM
-4

What makes you think Princess Di’s death was a hitjob from the Queen?
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 02:51 AM
37

Another American divorcee did this to the heir to the throne in I think the 1930s. The Kings Speech movie mentions this as the older brother who schlepped off to San Diego to be with his new bride, abdicating the right to the throne.
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 02:49 AM
2

Thank you. I appreciate the heads up. Are you in Oz?
/r/MGTOW12/01/20 01:58 AM
1

I know that’s ostensibly true, but I suspect that I’d be made to feel like shit if my wife was unhappy even if it’s not my fault. And my fault is that I often beat myself for that situation.
/r/MGTOW12/01/20 01:54 AM
1

Have you been married before? Kids?
/r/MGTOW03/01/20 10:43 AM
1

I’m trying to see what I can learn that they’d wish they learned beforehand so that I don’t make the same mistake.
/r/MGTOW03/01/20 10:39 AM
10

Never thought of this side of the equation. Good to know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/20 05:50 AM
12

It’s really noticeable in OLD. I’d say 75-80% are obese of all ages, even younger (20s/30s) ones! I didn’t get chunky until my 40s.
/r/MGTOW27/12/19 02:59 AM
4

I’m sorry. Did you have an inking beforehand that the marriage was the wrong thing to do?
/r/MGTOW26/12/19 12:56 AM
5

Interesting observation.
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 02:54 AM
5

How do you like the minimalist lifestyle? What’s the cost per month if you don’t my asking. That’s my plan, also.
/r/MGTOW15/12/19 12:45 PM
1

Kias are good cars. I know. I own one.
/r/MGTOW16/11/19 01:42 PM
3

Throwing the heat.
/r/MGTOW06/11/19 11:31 PM
2

I think the Crooked One said that woman have always borne the brunt of war the most. The mindset.
/r/MGTOW04/11/19 10:39 PM
3

You think he’s a badass?! Look at this guy: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.peopleofar.com/2014/02/08/true-story-of-a-real-life-superhero-shavarsh-karapetyan/amp/ A submerged bus and a building was on fire!
/r/MGTOW16/10/19 12:56 AM
7

That’s discouraging to say the least. Bummer. No wonder Trump won.
/r/MGTOW26/09/19 01:33 AM
66

Do the illegal immigrants undermine the trades? Or does the licensing and bonding process keep you guys relatively insulated?
/r/MGTOW25/09/19 08:08 PM
14

A wise approach. Agree 100%.
/r/MGTOW18/09/19 12:01 AM
1

Can I ask you what you mean by this statement?
/r/MGTOW11/09/19 03:03 AM
10

Where is this?
/r/MGTOW30/08/19 02:14 PM
2

Great job!
/r/MGTOW26/08/19 02:41 AM
3

Fantastic! I’m glad you’re happy on your own path. Inspirational to us considering similar paths.
/r/MGTOW26/08/19 02:35 AM
2

Thanks for the reply. I’m trying to stay close to God. “Best thing I've found is letting go of any great plans... and focus more on being ready for whatever really happens.” That’s s great way to look at things. I can’t control things except me (mostly). And to approach each day with eyes of faith to see where God is working and listen to what He is telling you.
/r/MGTOW12/08/19 11:37 PM
1

That’s a good point. Sounds like me. Lol. What has MGTOW taught/shown you if anything?
/r/MGTOW12/08/19 11:35 PM
2

My apologies on the late reply. I appreciate your forthrightness and candor. Maybe MGTOW is a blessing. Many if not most of the Saints were single. (I’m Catholic, though I used to be evangelical nondenominational). It’s a blessing in that we’re not alone in being alone, that our sense of something being really, really wrong in society is not unfounded and that the MGTOW response is entirely logical. I’m asking God the Father to show me if the No is really an affirmative type No, where I can see …
/r/MGTOW12/08/19 11:33 PM
16

Chris Rock said marriage is so hard that even though Nelson Mandela suffered unjustly for decades in a horrific prison being abused, he endured that only to divorce wife Winnie a year or two of his freedom.
/r/MGTOW10/08/19 07:59 PM
3

Thank you for the reply. I like that passage. I am only now coming to grips and in peace regarding the path God has shown me, and not the matrimonial path. Regarding kids, truth be told, I’m not particularly fond of kids or good with them. Regarding progeny to carry on the name, this life is vanity. I read the other day that Abe Lincoln’s last surviving direct relative died recently. Abe. Lincoln. And George Washington was sterile. So it is vanity. Fear God and keep his Commandments. I noticed t…
/r/MGTOW09/08/19 03:09 AM
1

The flowing. robes. The aura. Big hitter. The Lama.
/r/MGTOW09/08/19 01:34 AM
1

I am really sorry to hear about that. I hope you’ve been able to move on. Sucks to be betrayed that way.
/r/MGTOW09/08/19 01:26 AM
3

Thank you for the reply. You sound just like how I feel and think. FWIW I’m an extroverted introvert or introverted extrovert. I can work a room if I am in the mood and never really had trouble asking women out, but really like quiet time to myself and more so as I get older. Are you a Christian yourself if I may ask? If so, how does that impact you in MGTOW?
/r/MGTOW09/08/19 01:20 AM
2

Wow. Looks like a Thomas Kincaide picture.
/r/MGTOW09/08/19 01:08 AM
3

Wow. Your father was a great man.
/r/MGTOW09/08/19 12:17 AM
3

Thank you!
/r/MGTOW07/08/19 10:56 AM
2

How much would a house like that cost in US dollars? I’m thinking of moving to E Europe in the next ten years or so.
/r/MGTOW07/08/19 03:06 AM
1

Very thought provoking way of looking at things. By the way, are you from the US? Just curious to see if this sentiment has made itself over from Europe (I knew several conservative Europeans whose conservatism was along the lines of a return to the Faith and hierarchical government, social, and family relations.)
/r/MGTOW26/07/19 02:38 AM
1

Interesting. I hear more and more talk about a return to heretofore unmentioned forms of government and roles. They make a lot of sense in some respects, especially in light of the degeneracy we see all around us. I think Orthodox folks would be a more fertile intellectual space to air your ideas. They’re hard core. Like grumpy hard-ass Catholics with beards. Fighting on the frontier against Muslims for centuries and being under the boot of Communism will do that to you.
/r/MGTOW25/07/19 08:17 PM
1

Do you find it difficult as a Catholic reconciling the Faith with MGTOW? Have you gotten any pushback? What was the catalyst? I’m Catholic, too, hence the Qs.
/r/MGTOW25/07/19 12:51 AM
1

My problem is probably codependency. Random thought- you never see Hispanic homeless. I assume they have the same problems as white families like mine. How do they deal with these issues? They seem to have "strong" families. (Not trying to stir the pot - this is an honest observation.)
/r/MGTOW30/05/17 10:18 AM
1

Yes. Both parents were alcoholics. Mental illness on dad's side I think. My grandfathers on both sides supposedly sucked. Mom's dad deserted the family with three young daughters. Dad's dad was a cold, angry man, apparently. (Secondhand accounts.). My parents hated each other and my dad could not keep a job much of the time. Mom worked nights to raise a large family.
/r/MGTOW30/05/17 01:55 AM
1

Is that referring to me?
/r/MGTOW17/05/17 11:44 AM
1

Can you explain some more about what you mean by egotism and how to kill it?
/r/MGTOW30/08/16 12:27 PM
1

Thank you for the encouraging post.
/r/MGTOW30/08/16 12:12 PM
2

This is why I like MGTOW. Support for each other.
/r/MGTOW30/08/16 11:06 AM
3

You mention scamming. That was part of what happened to me, TBH. Gotta tell you, I'm so sick of people lying, deceiving, stealing. Both personally, in society, in media and in government. One reason I posted in MGTOW was the general truthfulness of the discussion here. So tired of being lied to. I don't like being misanthropic, but evidence surrounds me. It's hard to trust people these days. So many bullshitters out there.
/r/MGTOW23/08/16 01:42 PM
1

It has gotten a bit better as time has gone on. Little victories help. I drank 14 beers one night by myself to self-medicate back in Feb. had the curtains drawn all day the next day bc I was afraid of the sun like a Vampire.
/r/MGTOW23/08/16 01:37 PM
1

You are right. I could be in much worse predicaments. I know that intellectually, yet I fall into a mental trap at times. I know I need to count my blessings and see the ways that this can be used for growth or good. Easier said than done, at least for me. I've always had a problem with self-condemnation when I make a mistake. This thread has been helpful for me to just air things out and get all kinds of feedback from the MGTOW crew.
/r/MGTOW23/08/16 01:11 PM
2

Thanks for the advice. I'm working on all kinds of contingencies. Maybe move someplace else or overseas to get ahead or a different perspective.
/r/MGTOW23/08/16 01:03 PM
1

This is def a teachable moment. Minimalism is helpful and feeing too.
/r/MGTOW22/08/16 10:09 PM
2

It was the stock market. I am really not an addict (where's that pipe? Lol.). I got lucky in another stock and took the money from that and reinvested in another company that I researched the hell out of. Like I said, I still don't think my analysis was erroneous but it did not play out. But I'm mostly done with stocks. Trying to rebuild now.
/r/MGTOW22/08/16 09:34 PM
1

Thx. I appreciate the insight from you and others on this board. Just what I was looking for. What do you mean by killing the ego?
/r/MGTOW22/08/16 09:14 PM
1

Wise words. I appreciate them. Thank you.
/r/MGTOW22/08/16 03:07 PM
3

Very true.
/r/MGTOW22/08/16 02:32 PM
2

I have made the same connection to a divorce. Lol. At least you get laid in a marriage and have something to show for it, like kids. Thus can be good or bad. Yes, it is a real kick to the balls. Trying to commiserate with someone but there is the shame and, at 43, there is a lack of guys to really talk to I've noticed.
/r/MGTOW22/08/16 02:11 PM
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