Any lessons learned from guys previously married?

echo979 · 2020-01-03T10:45:42+00:00

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Miggymoggy · 2020-01-03T10:52:57+00:00

From the people who I grew up with that got married and divorced it is the totally the opposite of lessons learned as those guys lost their homes, access to children, now in severe debt and are struggling in life but the same dumb bastards are still chasing women and it is clear that they'll eventually get married again.

It is frightening that most men are hooked on women like a junkie is with getting their next fix. Even if it means their life will be destroyed.

ZeusTheSeductivEagle · 2020-01-03T11:58:26+00:00

I learned alot about "shit tests" and how stupid male education on women is. My favorite game was the damned if you do, damned if you dont. My ex would ask me to pick something up at the store for let say dinner. Usually vis text and wouldnt answer the text back. She would say can you get a can of beans? With no context to what brand or kind. If I guessed and got it wrong I was belittled.. if i called i was called stupid and belittled. Mental abuse is pretty common and no body cares. The moment you get tired of constantly passing these test to "maintain" dominance is the moment it gets worse.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2020-01-03T11:39:39+00:00

Been married twice, don't do it my friend. The chips are stacked against you.

Tonyb33 · 2020-01-03T12:37:40+00:00

The woman changes dramatically once she has that ring. You think you have plans if they don’t agree with her plans she will sabotage them. You will never have peace, one of both her and the red army’s physiological weapons is to keep you tired with a constant stream of jobs. However she will always argue she has it harder. I took my ex and baby on a 4 hour drive, one drove one way other looked after baby, we swapped going home. She argued driving was harder when she drove caring for baby harder when looking out for baby. They also always want 20% more than you earn. You will be left physically and mentally shattered.

JohnPettimore · 2020-01-03T12:50:35+00:00

When you marry a woman, two things happen. First, you surrender your autonomy and independence. Second, the legal system and our culture line you up for an unbelievable amount of punishment if/when the relationship ends. Women are well aware of this, and as someone else has pointed out, they change. In other words, they're keenly attuned to leverage, power and independence, and if you don't have any, because you've surrendered it and because you can't move on, they will move in. They become less and less interested in your happiness and welfare, and more and more interested in taking as much control as possible, at your expense.

Tannhausergate2017 · 2020-01-03T10:38:55+00:00

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GreetingsFromErf · 2020-01-03T12:21:50+00:00

Ummm... Don't do it? Just say no?

Why would you consciously and willingly bind yourself with such a legal contract. You already have very little sovereignty left just by the nature of modern governments. Why would you willingly give the rest away?

jkarovskaya · 2020-01-03T13:33:25+00:00

Marriage is a legally binding contract affecting your credit rating, saddling you with the debt of your partner, and if you are male, you will almost certainly be harshly dealt with by family courts if you have children. You will lose 1/2 your wealth or more in many cases of divorce

TL:DR Do not chain yourself to a legal system that can destroy your life

selfism_mike · 2020-01-03T14:43:17+00:00

Women are incapable of love. No woman will make an exception for you.

Done_with_women · 2020-01-03T15:26:48+00:00

In a word. DON'T.

And if you still do, get out before you have kids.

Why "pay" for something a lot of other guys got for free? Men understand that marriage ends up being monotonous and just meh after honeymoon phase. Not so for women. They always need to be entertained and have the attention on her at your expense. And if she gets bored then she's just waiting for the time to monkey branch away from you cuz she's not getting the tingles anymore.

ironmanknowsjoe · 2020-01-03T13:12:01+00:00

I am quite sure my biggest lesson was that I should not have married at such a young age (20). As you continue to mature your minds grow in different directions. Throw in a couple of kids and you then realize how much your priorities and beliefs shift. Throw in another 20+ years and you realize that the person you married can turn into a complete stranger in front of you. I do not regret getting married and having kids, I just regret marrying so young to a person who I should have gotten to know better.

lulz3r · 2020-01-03T17:20:32+00:00

Don’t do it again.

2020-01-03T21:22:22+00:00

The video below should answer all your questions/issues.

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The Marriage Wheel...Spoiler Alert!! Your marriage will follow this path:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pB8W845Uf1s

cireorelum1 · 2020-01-04T12:28:53+00:00

It will never work know matter what you do , how handsome you are , how much money you have, or how many red pills you swallow. Just don’t do it : it’s 2020 not 1020 .

ymaface · 2020-01-03T14:12:49+00:00

Communication is key.

Title	Any lessons learned from guys previously married?
Author	Tannhausergate2017
Upvotes	8
Comments	29
Date	January 3, 2020 10:34 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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