| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | The average guy you see in an LTR is NOT getting her best and most men here know that because they've seen both sidesActually despite the fact that having kids is a pain in the ass when it comes to your sexual lives, married couples have as much sex as singles and married people without kids have MORE sex than singles. https://flowingdata.com/2017/07/03/married-people-sex/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 02:43 AM |
| 4 | Practical difficulties when it comes to large age gapsIt seems to me like in the scenario you present the relationship benefits more the older person than the younger person. (With some exceptions) Why would a young woman want to date an older man who has less experience that his age peers? Just money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"So? The point is to have choice so men and women can choose the path they please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 03:26 PM |
| 17 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"There was absolutely no equality among men in traditional societies. The wealthiest men could still formally or informally have a harem while the rest settled for whatever they could get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"Look at patriarchal societies around the world and look at feminist countries. Which ones do you think have the most suffering? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 01:41 PM |
| 6 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"With this logic, we should abandon republicanism and return to monarchy and the slave society. After all, many societies in history were like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"How do you define successful? The feminist West is more successful than most patriarchal countries. Scandinavian nations are considered the happiest in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 12:53 PM |
| 4 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"Feminist western societies look like more pleasant places to live in than Afghanistan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Why are you personally against being in a polygamous relationship/marriage?It sounds like it would create too much strife among the wives. However, rich men already so this to an extent. Bill Gates has had many extramarital affairs. https://www.businessinsider.com/bill-gates-extramarital-affairs-open-secret-report-2021-6 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 10:13 AM |
| – | Ad men sex discrimination caseKeep in mind that women and non-white people had to deal with this type of discrimination for centuries. You probably worry too much. Outside of a small bubble this type of thing is nonexistent. Even in this case, the men did win the lawsuit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 10:08 AM |
| 3 | Lets be honest: men aren't primarily attracted to 'natural' women that don't take care of their appearance that much. Makeup and other enhancements workI like natural faces too, but it's undeniable that make up works well for many women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 08:35 AM |
| 0 | Lets be honest: men aren't primarily attracted to 'natural' women that don't take care of their appearance that much. Makeup and other enhancements workMany women are naturally beautiful and still spend hundreds if not thousands of dollars to maintain and enhance their appearance. I actually think it's pretty smart of them to invest on their beauty since it's often their main strength. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 08:21 AM |
| 27 | The cost of a beautiful womanMany men want an average looking woman because they imagine her to be low mentainance. I agree however that many men don't understand that the women they consider 'naturally beautiful' likely spend hundreds if not thousands of dollars on their appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to DieNot all age gaps are the same. A 25 years old dating an 18 years old is different than a 32 years old dating a 25 years old. If you're 18, 19 years old you're still a naive teen, especially in today's world where teens are sheltered. After a certain age, nobody cares about age gaps though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 02:41 AM |
| 10 | Men who complain or debate women on here, what is your endgoal?I just find it interesting to discuss these issues. Women shouldn't be forced to date anyone though and tbh I think that men who are losers today would still be losers in a more traditional setting, just a different kind of loser really. Even when it comes to arranged marriages, most families wouldn't want their daughters to date broke, loser men, unless they're really desperate. The type of woman that losers and nerds would marry in a more traditional setting is not a 16 years old beauty, but s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 09:45 AM |
| 1 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Confident men pursue attractive women. Insecure men pursue average looking women who they imagine to be low mentainance. (which is often not the case btw as average looking woman either think they're hotter than they really are or they're deeply insecure and require constant validation) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 07:36 AM |
| 4 | What's with PPD's obsession with sex, and not the other wonderful parts in a relationship?I think you need to keep in mind that a significant number of men here are incels who barely have any relationship experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:50 PM |
| 8 | Why do women put down other women for wanting a HVM/provider?Why are you so sure that's it's only women who put other women down for that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | He made me cut off my childhood friendsThen be prepared to have your life controlled to a significant degree. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | He made me cut off my childhood friendsHe's going to be a controlling type. Are you prepared for it? If not then you should leave. It probably won't get any better and I hope you're not with him just because of financial dependence because it sounds like a recipe for abuse. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/21 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Are men attracted to women who are the victims of jealous bullying by other women? If so, why?If she's hot, yes. If she's not, then no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Legalizing prostitution will barely change the dating worldIt's a cultural thing. The idea that men have to pay for everything in order to court a woman has always been less prevalent outside of the anglosphere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 07:34 AM |
| 31 | Legalizing prostitution will barely change the dating worldIt will never be fully normalized. Even in countries like Germany it's seen as something shameful for a man to do as it signifies that he has no options. It's something that most men do in secret. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Explain to me how an older man manipulates a younger woman (18+)The presumption is that a significantly younger partner has less experience and is more naive than the older partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't women exploit their own sexuality for gain?Many don't do it because: A. It's considered socially shameful (although it's increasingly more accepted) B. They know deep down that many men don't want to date sex workers C. It's probably not a very fun or fullfiling job. This is why many only do it as a side gig until they can finish college and get a better job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 05:44 AM |
| 8 | How do large age gaps work?Many men here romanticize age gap relationships but they're often bad choices for men , that's the point. Age gap marriages have high divorce rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 04:45 AM |
| 5 | How do large age gaps work?There is often a big difference between 40 years olds and 60 years olds. Many people decline considerably after 55. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 03:47 AM |
| 3 | How do large age gaps work?But this still means that you might end up alone as an old man which is something many guys don't want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 03:24 AM |
| 3 | How do large age gaps work?Of course it can work but it requires a lot of hard work imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 03:10 AM |
| 9 | How do large age gaps work?age gap marriages have big divorce rates. Most women have no desire to be a nurse to an old man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 02:56 AM |
| 6 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.This might happen even if you get married. What if your spouse dies early or divorced you? What if your kids turn out to be assholes or are unable to take care of you for whatever reason? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 05:30 PM |
| 12 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.The thing is that some people don't believe that not reproducing is pathetic. Also, people who are that desperate to reproduce can do it. Almost everyone can reproduce by lowering their standards enough. Not everyone is satisfied with this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 09:19 AM |
| 23 | Do some men prefer more average looking women because they're low maintainance?She's average for Hollywood, but I feel that if she had to compete with real everyday women, she would definitely be considered a "pretty girl". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 11:19 AM |
| 6 | Do some men prefer more average looking women because they're low maintainance?She's above average for sure. But there are prettier actresses out there. Yet many guys seem obsessed with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 10:38 AM |
| 9 | Women are the reason why high beauty standards for them still existThis only happens if these men are former nerd types who happened to get rich and settled to the first woman they got. Actual Chads date above average women all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 06:30 PM |
| 50 | Women are the reason why high beauty standards for them still existThe average guy might be pursuing average women, but actual high value males do have high standards. A well-off and attractive man is not going to settle for Becky. Women are trying to fit into these strict beauty standards in order to attract Chad, not the average Joe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 03:39 PM |
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