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I expect this one for sure.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/26 04:54 AM
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I really just want the bleeding to stop. I’m paying for drug tests I only have to take because of her addiction issues, I’m paying a GAL monthly, and the lawyer. She doesn’t take the tests, doesn’t pay the GAL ever and obviously stopped paying her lawyer. Her favorite game is raising a bullshit point to the lawyers to run a bill up on my lawyer for absolutely no reason.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/26 09:25 PM
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I feel that one. Every time we get close to trial it’s another excuse for her side to delay. Had one delay because her side didn’t do discovery right, then another one blaming her doctors delaying paperwork we all need for trial, after that it was her later saying scheduling, and lastly the “family emergency”. It’s crazy. Each one delays 6-7 months.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/26 09:18 PM
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Yeah. It just feels like “she knew she needed this lawyer for this trial because that lawyer delayed this. Then she stops paying….. why does she get an extension so she can then not pay that one?”
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/26 09:13 PM
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I’m not paying anything because I have the kids 100%. She also isn’t paying a dime for anything. Just living her best life with our house.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/26 09:01 PM
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I appreciate what you’ve been through but my daughter is 9 years old with autism. Telling her the way you were told doesn’t apply here. She manages it extremely well when she’s at my home but when she has to visit her mom I have to release the phone and her mom has full access to it. She’s an addict and does sketchy crap so I’m just trying to minimize that.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/25 06:39 AM
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I try my best but just fucks with me every time we have to go to court. Just spent all summer asking to switch the kids schools and they forced court. Another $4000 down the shitter for common sense.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/25 10:48 PM
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Frustrating isn’t it? If it’s you on the coals they will rake you across them. If it’s her “ohhhh it’s ok”
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/25 10:43 PM
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My lawyer is saying just wait for our trial that’s is march where she will burn on all her shit, but it’s getting rough paying for everything all the time. Luckily I finally got to change their school so no more driving 60 miles a day.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/25 10:42 PM
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Yes. Gave them the case number i was given by my ex and all they said is “there’s an open investigation”. That’s it.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/24 11:10 PM
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So far she just messages saying “Law enforcement is telling me to keep them until the investigation is done” I ask for the name of the officers she says she talks to. She never gives them to me. I ask for information from the hospital never gave it to me. Even our GAL asked her for it and she never gave anything. Made me jump through hoops with the GAL finally getting them. I have personally walked into the sheriffs office and given all my information and asked them to call me and nothing yet. B…
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/24 07:09 PM
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We’re still in the middle of everything with the lawyer. Right now they say it’s “temporary” but I think it’s bullshit none the less.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/22 09:15 PM
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Best part about all of this. I was the stay at home dad until a year ago and we focused fully on her career for us as it was union and had a good retirement plan. Her drug use ended up getting her fired and I had to do what ever I could for us to survive.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/22 05:37 PM
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$15 an hour
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 07:32 PM
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I’m self employed contractor that’s barely getting 3k a month. My DV she claims was because I only pay myself at mortgage time to make sure it’s paid. I was “controlling the finances” which is DV now.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 07:10 PM
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So I had the court make her get a hair test. Her test came back sketchy as could be and they still accepted it. Hers showed her negative for even her prescription. Mine came back showing my exact levels of adderall I take but not hers.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 07:08 PM
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I didn’t put my kids anywhere. The courts did. One judge granted me the ex parte from her. Had a restraining order and everything. This last judge heard her say false domestic violence and tada here we are.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 05:58 PM
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They’re both and the court knows about it even.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 05:56 PM
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Pain pills. She got 50% because if you’re looking at it her drug use didn’t “hinder her parenting” what he didn’t say is her getting high required me to do it because the only way to show her being high messed up the kids was for me to not take care of my kids…. How does that make sense?
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 03:33 PM
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I filed with all the proof of her being and addict. Even had proof showing she has herpes. I do not (with test proof), and have a video of her scrubbing her herpes sore on my tooth brush and putting it back (I even bagged it). Even with all of that she just said she is scared of me and even said I bruise the kids by grabbing them so hard. Absolutely no proof what so ever. Judge just gave her the house and everything until GAL is assigned. Was insane.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 06:59 AM
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