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I grew up middle class with a factory working dad and a mom who was a teacher in a brick house situated in a good neighborhood. Married as a teen and fell downwards into trailer living, spent years living in a mobile home park, then finally in a house in a low to middle income neighborhood. The mobile home park beat them all as far as residents displaying neighborly attitudes. It seems for me that the further away from the top the better the people. Just my experience so it is not representative…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 03:01 PM
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I probably am, but I never claimed intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 09:45 PM
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I looked it up and still don't see the relevance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 09:32 PM
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I would like to adress the term "lucky". Lucky implies I just sat back and happened to stumble upon a good man. I didn't. Unlike other girls of my time and my friends who went for the party guy, the slacker guy, thw druggie, the life is an adventure type, I weeded those out and went for the good guy. Only one other girl my age whom I knew used the same strategy, and she too has been married for decades. The others above-mentioned women are multiple divorcees now with children by multiple men. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 09:17 PM
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"I think most here will agree that there is a huge mismatch in what women expect vs what they have available." My understanding from a religious upbringing is that the marriage is for the man's primary benefit and that you, the woman, bend to his preferences and he sets the tone of the relationship. As such, I've not encountered many of the other problems women complain about. When I do encounter some problem, like a perceived imbalance of chores, I look at it as objectivily as I can and realize…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:19 PM
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So basically you are purple because you chose to go against the "it's just your turn" line of thinking and actually invest in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 09:38 PM
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I exercised my free will to quickly think and reason out a number and this somehow in your mind means further proof of whatever RP theory you are going with here. Honestly, a little lost on you jump between 5 and no free will. I won't and didn't name another number because you asked for a number, not numbers I gave you a number with meaning to me against most people's instinct to just name a random meaningless number. So I didn't act on instinct but actually thought it out and now this is some R…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:57 PM
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Yes, I want to play the purity game with a guy who practices what he preaches. The one who does that is more of an expert than the one who straddles the fence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:24 PM
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I believe we are capable of controlling our impulses and natural tendencies just as many people may get angry enough to feel like murdering the other, most will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:16 PM
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No. Because five represent half of ten. And ten represents the top, the scale being 1 - 10. So five is the moderate number for one who thinks and observes before action because five being the middle is representative of the crossroad of choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:09 PM
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5
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:02 PM
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Aren't you the guy not considered to be really RP? If so, I will wait for my view to be corrected by a real RP guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:59 PM
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Hypergamy. The term hypergamy as originally used in social sciences meant the act of a woman marrying a class or caste up. With the sexual liberation of women and the negative impacts of women in the workforce and the decline in marriage as a deeply held societal ideal, hypergamy became no just about her marrying up but her divorcing for a man she perceives better. This is known as a branchswing. With the destruction of the western marriage ideal and no fault divorce, the man was no longer certa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:02 PM
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I started off blue and probably am purple-bluish now. The reason being is that TRP seems to take the stance that our evolutionary history when it comes to sex overrides our ability and will to chose for onself a different path. We overcome our natural tendencies all the time when we chose not to have an outburst of anger and start flipping shit over. We chose to overcome our natural clan-like behavior when we associate and befriend persons of other races, sexual orientations, and religions. When…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:43 PM
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Geez that was long. You sound normal to me. Rather than grasping at ideas to keep a girl, you have enough control over your emotional attachment to her to let her go once she is over you. You seem to accept that this relationship is temporary and chose to enjoy and accept its temporal nature rather then lock it down with terms of affection such as partner or GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:01 PM
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I agree with your caveat. I would also add that just because a person may have a sexual setpoint closer to monogamy doesn't mean this is necessarily life-long monogamy with one spouse if other negative issues cannot be overcome. The bond will break and then the second relationship or marriage becomes serial monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:47 PM
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"Perhaps genetics can explain the relationship between sexual biographies and marital happiness. Scientists have identified a gene associated with promiscuity and infidelity. And it’s long been known that there’s a purely genetic component to divorce. Maybe it’s some socially determined personality trait. Whatever the cause, it leads people to behave in ways that aren’t conducive to connubial bliss, with adultery being the most obvious and extreme example. Any of these explanations are possible,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:15 PM
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Was this at Walmart by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:57 AM
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It was a different time. Men were heads of the house and the wife was under them. A hierarchy does not necessarily mean disrespect. Why should the SAHM blow through money she didn't make because she chose to leave the workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:20 AM
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I'm a SAHW and am respected. You can't change how men and women treated each other in the past...it's called the past for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:15 AM
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That value is way too high for my area. Also, SAHMs and SAHWs are financial dependents so they should defer to the breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:55 AM
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I have never heard that phrase. Where did you get it from?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:42 AM
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Lingerie is boring because I'm more of a choke chain around the neck, hands bound type of "lingerie" would be husband. The closest thing to lingerie I'd need is her to wear an inexpensive, cheaply made t-shirt for me to slice and rip. You are also speaking for your preference as if it applied to all men, which if you read the replies is not shared by all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:29 AM
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Not a guy, but if I were, this is the type of wife I'd want. Of course, my husband tells me that if I were a man I'd never get a woman at all because I would be a pig.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 11:44 PM
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Female. Women just won't shut up so I prefer to be around men and have a one or two sentence conversation and be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 05:49 PM
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You need therapy. I don't mean this a snarky way, but you are not over what you ex-wife (or ex-wives) did. You always reference them as if their behavior represents all women. It is time to get help so you can move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 07:35 PM
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Society, both men and women, tend to view obese people as less intelligent and lazy. So it would make sense that more people are paying you attention. Also, unless these women are giving you their phone numbers or other contact information, this may not be an IOI but a byproduct of your new confidence brought about by slimming. I would certainly hate to think that every guy I speak to takes this as my showing an IOI. Sometimes a conversation is just that. So you felt you were sold a lie about ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 07:02 PM
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Lots of things are dangerous...driving, a bad diet, not exercising, working a stressful job, police work, fire fighting. If every one opted out of a life path because of the danger then I guess it's smores time when the house burns down. It is no more dangerous for a woman to be a SAHM then for the man to get married and support her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 02:06 PM
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It is better to make a worst case scenario assumption then blindly believe that they will be our peaceful companions without an agenda of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 10:41 PM
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Regardless of whether or not mankind ceases to self-improve to impress the opposite sex, civilizations will fall. All civilizations rise and fall. However, we are showing just the right amount of initiative in our desire to become gods by creating artificial intelligence which may one day have the potential to become self-aware to our detriment. Once AI's develop self-awareness and become independent thinking beings there will be hell to pay for the men and women you used their ancestors as sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 10:03 PM
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I'm female this is what makes me feel feminine. Sex, pleasing husband l, wearing floor length skirts or dresses, headcover (no longer wear), housework, and cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 01:22 AM
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This study does not support the title of your post which is not addressing the effects of alcohol on pair bonding. You used this study to make a huge leap to basically "female attention makes men more interested".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 03:57 PM
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No where in the study does it say the female vole became more attached. Please quote where you find the study saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 02:16 PM
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Asking what people think of a study without posting the study is pointless. All we know is what you say the study said. But going on your view, not the study since it is not posted, and limited personal experience, this is a trait I have seen with my husband. Also anecdotal is my view that women in good relationships, especially marriage, tend to bore faster even when her partner is totally invested.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 12:05 PM
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You really addressed nothing I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 02:50 PM
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If you marry at 30 and stay married untI the end of your life expectancy, you are talking about 45 + years of being married. If you aim for a happy marriage then you are talking about decades of actual relationship skills. If you have a kid you can chose to raise the child until 18 then send the kid off to school and the adult child will begin their careers around 22-25 after graduation. If you stay married for life, then marriage is the bigger commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 02:27 PM
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I would like to answer your number 3 but in reverse situation. I married with both of us acknowledging that we would be child free. But if my husband had changed his mind, I would have stayed and had children with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 12:29 AM
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Yes I would want to switch and be born a man. I am attracted to women and would love to have a traditional wife who stayed home and served me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 11:25 AM
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Here is my take. Dread may give the guy increased sex but this increase of sex may not be from her desire for your but an attempt for her to appease you so that you will stay. If dread produced a true change in her desire and actually increased it, then men would not have to keep on going back to dread once sex dropped off. Dread often times just results in her temporarily mimicking an increase of sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 12:42 AM
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Been married to my husband for 30 years. I'm very insecure so any use of dread would backfire and cause me to emotionally leave the relationship as a means of self protection. I grew up with my mom never telling me I was pretty or really worth anything. So you can say that I came into the relationship pre-dreaded for him. On the downside my low self-esteem and family inherited depression prevented me from ever being who I could have fully been, but made me a better spouse since basically my nons…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 09:44 PM
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The BF is smart. A piece of ass is not worth dieing over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 09:06 AM
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The female equivalent would probably bend her feeling loved and cherished. As to your past relationships, sometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find the prince.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 04:36 AM
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Society determines what is and what isn't a crime. In the US adultery used to be a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:31 AM
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It is just like crime. Not every thief gets caught. Some will go on to steal more and take their chances and others will regret what they did. Some of the ones who regret it will try to anonymously make amends by secretly repaying the person and others will go to the police station to ease their conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:24 AM
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For me, there are no games. Now getting around power dynamics is a other issue. In general, men and women have similar relationship needs but in varying degrees. For many men, they require to be shown and feel a higher level of respect. Both partners need respect to thrive, but a man's need for respect seems to be tied into his personal identify of self. This is just one difference. Men are in trouble right now and they are taking a hard hit in society. Because of this, I believe that a man who …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:01 AM
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If the cheater wants cathartic confession s/he should confess to the clergy of choice and not the spouse. No one can absolve the repentant cheater for an act already past, but permanently resuming sexual fidelity for the remainder of the marriage will be the closest to an absolution of conscience for the cheater and the forgiveness of self. If the faithful spouse was unaware and did not suspect cheating, never asked, then shattering their life by disclosing infidelity to ease the cheater's consc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 02:20 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 02:05 AM
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I told my husband that no man who is remorseful about cheating and fully seeks to reform himself should admit to his wife that he cheated. Your empasis about looks in connection to cheating is not accurate. Both the attractive and average cheat. Marrying someone lower in looks will not guaranty fidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 12:18 AM
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Marriage was only useful to society when most people played by rules and followed the life script set forth for them. Everything marriage provides legally today can be done in another way. Selling points: Marriage makes estate division easier. Not really. A Last Will and Testament does this too. Marriage is needed for medical decisions. Not really. Go to an attorney and have him draw up a Healthcare Power of Attorney and name whom you will to make important health decisions if you are not able. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 09:39 PM
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I wish men and women were monogamous but neither sex is. I wish "happily ever after" was a true documentary story and not a child's fairytale. I wish sexual attraction was not based so much on looks but on sexual performance. I wish that men and women woolf just be upfront with what they want from each other rather than playing games and wasting time before moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 03:33 PM
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I think dating someone like that is the best option. A person who is aware of their attractiveness can get a "big head" and become arrogant. The one with the low view if self will think you are their best option sang be more loyal. This would be great for a man. He gets the hottie who thinks she is plain, she becomes his wife whom he controls and he automatically has the upper hand in the marriage because she doesn't know her value to other men. Keep her at home and under control and he has a gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 01:28 AM
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Thank you for the detailed PM. I follow the Billy Graham rule and do not reply in private tI men. My husband has given me permission to PM reply but I'm just not comfortable doing that and want to stick to my beliefs. You talk to a lot of people so you may not remember any of our conversations. I'm the lady who married at 18, no kids. N count of 2 which includes my husband. My low N count IMO would have no effect against evolutionary urges regarding hypergamy. I believe that some people have a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 10:27 PM
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So is authentic love to you more loyalty based? If women married and stayed married would this be authentic love?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 06:31 PM
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Before I married my husband and I discussed many things. The response to cheating was one of them. I grew up being whipped with a belt when I did wrong. Back then it was fine but now it is child abuse. When I was discussing marriage I told my not yet husband that I would not put up with domestic violence, unless it was for behavior leading to cheating or actual cheating. I believe that if the man is the head is the household he reserves the right to act with an iron fist in dire situations which…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 06:57 PM
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I hate a cheater. Married couples should agree before marriage as to whether or not they will be monogamous or open. Then if one attempts to cheat the offender should be physically disciplined to the point of either opting for divorce or returning to the original marital agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 02:48 PM
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Even in 1890 the average age of marriage for woman was not 18. Sure there plenty of teen marriages but there were also older ages for women which make up this average. Below is a chart of the average age of men and women for marriage from 1890s to modern times. I got married at 18 but it was not the norm for my area, as most girls waited until after college. Most of my friends l, relatives or acquaintances married in their early to mid 20s. https://www.thespruce.com/estimated-median-age-marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 12:34 PM
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You are not addressing what I wrote. So bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 08:37 PM
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Many women can't make it on their own and need providers, known as the lower income working class woman. This sub is just infiltrated by people with solid middle class incomes to UMC incomes and neglects the way the lower income people live.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 08:30 PM
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Spending money on her while dating shows that he is willing to be a provider. The more money spent, the better the provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 08:07 PM
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No. I love being catered to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 12:24 AM
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You both sound immature and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 03:53 AM
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Early relationship sexual desire, or limerence, cannot be sustained in a LTR. Part of limerence is the newness and novelty of the sexual partner and LTRs removes both. Monogamy creates over familiarity and even feelings of novelty and arousal once had with your BF or husband cannot be replicated over time. This is an area RP fails to understand with its use of dread. Dread will not and cannot bring back the initial, new arousal and desire for the man because dread cannot turn back the hands of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 08:31 PM
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I don't have a RP guy. If he is being assaulted by me then he needs to either restrain me or slap me down and I will forgive him for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 01:59 AM
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I prefer to be on a pedestal within a relationship. As far as what women as a group think that is if no concern to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 01:42 AM
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Neither is a 7 or 8 apparently. There are a few numbers between 0 and 7 though so get out there and find out what league you are in. Or go to pornhub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 10:23 PM
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The only thing you will know for sure is who is not in your league by rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 10:20 PM
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Understand the above and get a gir or be single
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 10:15 PM
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If you are having trouble getting dates then you are dating above your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 10:10 PM
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After I got back with Guy 1 I realized he was still doing drugs. I broke up with Guy 1. I then begged Guy 2 to take me back. Guy 2 and I resumed dating and got engaged. Guy 1 called me up again trying to get me back and I told him no. That is now Guy 1 was permanently left for Guy 2 whom I married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 07:41 PM
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Guy 1 and I had an on again and off again relationship. During one of our break-ups I met Guy 2 through a mutual classmate and we started dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 07:31 PM
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No I didn't do the emotional affair thing. I had history with Guy 1 that I did not have with Guy 2 but had cut Guy 1 off completely. So when Guy 1 called me up to explain that he had changed and so bought it, I broke up with Guy 2. There was no sneaking around and chatting behind Guy 2's back. He knew I was getting back with Guy 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 07:26 PM
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While I was dating Guy 2, my ex called me up and explained that he had changed and there were no more drugs and he wanted a solid relationship with me. I was torn but decided to get back with him and broke it off with Guy 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 06:53 PM
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I dumped my ex for another guy because he was a cheater and drug user. We had an on again, off again relationship and during our break up I met another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 05:20 PM
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Monogamy cam be hard but rather than cheat or divorce and remarry just to get sexually bored again women use romance novels and porn and men use porn and some graphic writings accompanying still porn pictures. No relationship can provide 100% satisfaction in all areas at one time. There will be an ebb and flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 05:11 PM
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Not everyone who marries should. I knew I wanted to be a wife at age eight. Most women just have marriage as a checklist and not a life purpose as I did. The statistic you quoted does not give the details of why the divorce happened. It could be for adultery, abuse, financial strain or the couple just grew apart. You will see the amount of divorces initiated by men increasing over the years so this figure will change with time. Not everyone is suited for monogamy and those who struggle with it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 02:17 AM
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Women are no more monogamous than men and they also engage in serial monogamy while dating and when partnered do a branch swing. So please erase the idea that women don't get bored with monogamy. This sub does not delve into the dynamics of a happy functioning relationship and even then it would be like decribing a Picasso to a blind man. The closest thing that might resonate with you is imagining hanging out with your longtime best friend and all the good times you had and hope to have. You and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 12:08 AM
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So you admit it is the man who mus wine and dine her, provide adventure, be her source of entertainment, provide the tingles and for what. What does he truly get that he cannot obtain more of and of higher value as a single man? Absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 11:23 PM
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He should not have to romance his wife in order to get sex. Sex is a vital part of marriage. This is just another reason why marriage is a bad deal for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 09:47 PM
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Congrats on not being typical, which was the type of woman I was describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 08:04 PM
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I actually believe in the BP advice to be yourself if you are looking for a relationship. People not being true to themselves by putting on acts to entice the other is not sustainable. All acts end when the curtain falls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 07:00 PM
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The key phrase you used is "stay longer". If she is only staying longer then she is only waiting for him to reform himself to her wishes before resentment grows that he is not doing "his part" and she leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:57 PM
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Many women want to control the man under the guise of accepting his "leadership" so that he leads in accordance to her wishes. The first time a man makes a decision of leadership she does not agree with her submission to his "leadership" quickly disappears. The whole thing with women wanting true leadership is a con. Opening the doors for her pampers her in princess fashion. Fixing things around the house saves her time and money hunting for a contractor. All these benevolent sexism acts are enc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:40 PM
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Lots of men understand the newness if sex wears off. What they don't expect or understand is the often dramatic decline after marriage. The same marriage that society tells him will make her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:20 PM
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Then she being an equal partner in the relationship should take him out to that new place. If he has to do "a" to get "b", as in the BJ's, then he should have remained single or hired a professional. At least the exchange of goods for services rendered is upfront and honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:17 PM
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From an old Christian view that is not taught anymore, the ultimate commitment is marriage and marriage for the man because woman was created for his benefit and is subordinate to him in matrimony. She is instructed to obey him so this makes him the one who controls the marriage. In western culture it is the woman who must sway the man to propose marriage. It is on him to offer her this type of commitment. It is recent that woman propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 06:56 AM
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Men today still tend to expect their wives to do more. This is one of the things I tell women to watch out for and discuss prior to marriage. Even though I'm older than you, I too thought of marriage as being more equal. But my upbringing prepared me for traditional roles. Between being raised in church and doing house chores such as laundry, dishes, vacuuming, mopping, dusting and taking care of my younger siblings, while the boys my age got to enjoy more free time by just taking out the garbag…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 06:37 AM
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Look at you talkin' all southern. Makes me mighty proud. Yup, I'll teach 'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 06:23 AM
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It's okay. I was sort of joking. I'm southern so I'm the last person to take grammar seriously. Quick tip. To speak US Southern drop the "g" off. "I'm goin' to da store to get sum fewd." Yep, the language of my peps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 06:01 AM
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But I did address it. Women want the new car relationship smell to last forever so men must do date nights and romance them. Men must always use dating strategies even in marriage to placate her. That is not realistic and sets an unrealistic standard in a LTR or marriage. But yeah, I didn't adress your post because I gave an answer or two you didn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:40 AM
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I'm actually basing it on some of the women I know. But I can't change your view because women are always right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:24 AM
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It is very similar to Casual Friday being everyday now. I'm pretty sure some people are wearing pajama tops and yoga pants now to work. The tale is the Bigfoot bedroom slippers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:22 AM
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What happened to grammar?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:07 AM
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Well if I were a guy I would not date the typical US woman. Quick preview after he is locked in: Do more chores, date nights, romance her, provide financially while she never acknowledges it, monitor his friends, restrict his times for hobbies she deems unworthy, complain and complain some more to him and to family and friends about him, stop having sex as much as when dating. Yep, if I were a guy I'd sure as hell pass too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:06 AM
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Then don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 04:46 AM
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The quality of this sub is pretty much shit now. Not but so many ways to say the same thing over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 04:41 AM
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It can take the average guy years to get a GF. His experience is not yours as you keep on insisting. It is like the rich guy who wrecks his Mercedes and gets a new and better one the next day paying cash upfront. Whereas the average guy wrecks, but doesn't total, his Nissan Altima which still has three years of payments on it. If your average guy could get a new ride as easy as the rich guy he would. He can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 03:12 AM
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You are discounting the experiences of average guys who say that they have trouble dating girls much less getting a GF. You are applying your experience to other men to discount what they say about meeting women. A guy who isn't able to line up women as easily as you will not blow off a relationship as easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:51 AM
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No. You may be exempt if you are as attractive and affluent as you say you are, but lots of men must appease the woman in order for her to stay with him. This is what average guys face which you may be exempt from. Spend some time on r/marriage and listen to the women complain about their husbands and see the female-centric responses. The woman can be a SAHM and the guy working 60 hours and he still isn't doing enough. Like I said, judging by your responses in other threads you have a more RP re…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:31 AM
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It may be online but there is a kernel of truth to it. Men are expected to accommodate her. Happy wife, happy life is a saying for a reason. But before the happy wife must come the happy GF. "What can you do for me?" is the kernel of truth in those online dating bios. This is the part that is expressed IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 01:51 AM
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Women do have inflated egos which is reflected in their demands made of men. They want x, y z but never state that they will provide a,b,c in a relationship. Just look at the dating profiles. How many read, "looking for a great guy to love, have fun with, enter into a mutually supportIve relationship and br a wonderful companion to" etc. That is the a,b,c part which never gets said as she makes her preliminary screening requests upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 01:36 AM
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Not talking about guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:08 AM
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I'm talking about female on female.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 11:51 PM
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I guess no one considers the idea that women will use escorts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 11:42 PM
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Probably came down with a touch of ebola.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 11:25 PM
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If I didn't know any better I would say he is securing the branch before doing a full swing. But that can't be because only the womenz do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 07:47 PM
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Twelve days ago you were married. So are you single or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 06:59 PM
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But they will settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 09:01 PM
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Women want an attractive, financially stable high beta who is loyal, my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:40 PM
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Left my job to relocate for husband's job. I'm not pulling money out of savings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:35 PM
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Well my husband spent double. He got me a card and box of candy and I got him a card and candy using his money since I don't have a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:07 PM
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I call nursing homes "old folks refugee camps". I grew up visiting nursing homes and also was a volunteer visitor as an adult. Death is preferable to the nursing home.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 01:27 AM
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So your parents live with you, you cook their food m and perhaps help bathe and feed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 01:04 AM
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It used to be expected to take care of ageing parents but now it is just considered an optional nice thing to do. The US culture of individuality governs family interactions and overides any reliability for elder care by the family. As seen often in divorce once you no longer feel like staying and honoring obligations, you dump your elders in a nursing home so you won't be unhappily inconvenienced and can go on with your life. So it is a crapshoot. Your kid might take you in or might send you to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 12:56 AM
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My husband and I are almost 50 and we are happy with our decision. Since kids no longer take care of their parents when they are old I see no benefit of investing time and money into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 12:26 AM
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Only people of little class kiss and tell IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 03:13 AM
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I regret I didn't wait for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 03:08 AM
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Know what pisses me the fuck off? People who think they aren't using expletives just because they * a vowel. They remind me of the "gosh darn it" people trying to make themselves feel better because they didn't drop a fucking goddamn. On another note, I was taught these words were slang and only saying goddammit was cursing. My mom didn't cover "Jesus fucking Christ" because that was not a popular phrase when I was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 07:33 PM
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Acting like the Rock would not work IRL. Years ago while in a meeting my dad got mad and threw a chair through the window. Turns out his boss didn't like it. I like the advice when dealing with the opposite sex at work to conduct yourself like the person you are conversing with is your brother or sister. Guess that is too old fashioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:34 PM
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So the solution to sexual harassment is to fake tan, oil up and get in the ring with your co-worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:09 PM
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My mom turned me into the live-in nanny so my experience was way more than babysitting once and a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:00 PM
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Raising kids is miserable and people want you to share in their misery. The saying "misery loves company" comes to mind. In the US, at least where I live, kids run the show. The couple cater to their kids, the kids control adult conversation when visiting and then you have to pretend to find their obnoxious little shit delightful. At resteraunts you are expected to sit quit and enjoy your meal after the waitress seats that family, and you know the one I'm talking about, who has the nonstop screa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 02:09 PM
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Well if you want to do that in your relationship fine. But you don't get a say in mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:56 AM
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Women don't like it when men make fun of them for PMS moodiness or the like. Can't have it both ways. Exemption for the women.but criticism for the men. I'm not on board with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:40 AM
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Yes, it is. I've learned to deal with it and am now well-equipped to step up and play nurse. I can have a surgery and be up and moving way faster than my husband who just has a bad cold, aka man flu. However, making fun of men who can't handle sickness is not good for the relationship. The man-flu just comes with the relationship for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 02:49 AM
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If men are the true romantics then why wouldn't they spend more on a day that celebrates romantic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:58 AM
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If he got the woman as part of the spoils of war subjugation would be a more accurate description. But I'm assuming he dated her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:04 AM
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Most women who claim to be submissive will only be submissive by their terms and cease being upon disagreement with their husbands. That is why women say choice is so important. Because choice as to how and when she will be submissive negates real submission and makes it more akin to role playing. She can chose when to opt out of submission which means she really controlled the relationship and not her husband. That is why the husband who wants a submissive wife must restrict her to homelife. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 11:53 PM
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True submission as I define it works in an hierarchical nature. For instance the Vice President aligns with the President regardless if his position differs from the President's. A naturally submissive woman will do much the same. She may feel one way but will chose to align in submission to her leader. So, yes, submission can be natural and also be a choice depending upon the circumstances. I was not addressing sexual play at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:54 PM
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Not joking. Submission contingent upon feelings is not giving the man real submission. It is still the woman controlling the relationship and blocking any decisions the man makes which she does not feel like following.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:12 PM
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"Nothing would make me feel less willing to naturally submit...". The fact that your acting upon your natural submission is contingent upon your feelings shows the need for the man to enhance your natural submission by removing the obstacles to your truly submitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:01 PM
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You read a lot of stuff here. The only thing I've learned here is that nose rings and tattoos repel RP men and all women should wear one or the other, or both, as part of their vetting process.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:56 PM
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"and making her feel valued" is the part you are discounting. This is not just men. If I were a man this is what I'd do because I enjoy traditional women who serve their husbands and children
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:49 PM
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Many men are using submissive to mean a woman who is willing to compromise for the sake of the relationship. This may be compromising in having more sex or backing off making complaints if she has a dominant personality. This is not so much submission as it is good relationship skils. In past threads similar to this one lots of guys wanted a woman with an education who made a good income. This is not solely our of fear of divorce rape but because they don't want the responsibility of being the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:17 PM
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Neither happy nor depressed sounds like content which is a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:21 AM
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Women who want the decent guy get him. Women who want the converted bad boy "Chad" make cmoments about only attracting jerks. Your mistake Is not understanding what women really mean when they make this complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:30 PM
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I thought you were going to dump your wife off when she was old and only married her because she needed insurance. Which is it? Grow old together or trade her in?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:50 AM
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Yes. I think about all the wasted years as a secretary when I should have gone to college during my 20s. Not going to college to have a career is my biggest regret in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 01:40 AM
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If you keep on getting abusive men it's because you chose them and probably will again. I feel sorry for the good guy that buys into your upcoming con.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:20 PM
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None
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 03:57 AM
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I hated the whole first kiss. The guys just went for it. I wish they would have touched my lips or cheeks with their fingers some before moving in. There was always a lack of transition which made it feel awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 11:18 PM
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Maybe I'm misunderstanding the terms but my husband is very open and conscientious. He had an agreeable way about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 11:02 PM
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What makes it weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 10:16 PM
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Openness 5 Conscientiousness 5 Extraversion 3.5 Agreeableness 4 Neuroticism 0
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 08:20 PM
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Or musicians, actors, businessmen, executives, doctors, line cooks, construction workers, truckers, teachers....probably missed a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:50 PM
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I bet his pregnant GF cried even more when she found out he was cheating, if I have the right guy here. But yeah, it's all about chunky monkey getting her feelings hurt. She advertised and he wanted to see the goods before moving forward. It's so unreasonable for women to think that men should not have the right to express their preferences but they can freely express theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 02:45 PM
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Your edit says nothing of what you mean when you say traditional wife. If you read my replies I'm telling you it is bad to go forward because if you can't define what traditional means to you and she can't adhere to what her family considers traditional then you are not getting a traditional wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:45 AM
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Thanks. But I'm a very dark romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:42 AM
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You use the term "tradition" but never define it or this hybrid. You have no idea how hard marriage can be and add in kids with her natural decline in sex afterwards, her pick and chose tradition format, and truth be told you are just rolling the dice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:33 AM
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Well you want a traditional wife who doesn't want to carry on the tradition of her culture. You made a point of ethnicity. So of what benefit does her mom and sisters being traditional if she is marrying you so she want have to as trading. If you don't understand what I'm saying then you are not ready for marriage. Tradition ceases to be traditional when it becomes a pick a day chose odd the cultural buffet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 02:12 AM
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We cut it out years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 01:57 AM
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"She isn't so excited about all the traditional sacrifices that her mother and some older sisters have made, so she thinks a relationship with me (a very average white dude) is pretty stellar." Potential red flag. She is chosing you because she is not traditional in the same way as her mother and older sisters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 01:56 AM
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The assumption that everyone's experience is similar to the UMC and the dislike of SAHWs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 01:46 AM
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It makes you stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 01:10 AM
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You misunderstood. OP in his post seems to be equating RPW with a tradcon view. At least that is how I read it. Today's young woman seems to consider a LTR anywhere from three months on up. Once a woman loses her virginity outside of marriage it is very common for her to engage is sex sooner the next time with another BF and then another. If the former virgin sleeps with each BF after her first, whom she thinks is a potential husband, she can quickly run up her count. That is want I meant the CC…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 08:24 PM
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I'm going very shortly behind him. I have discussed this and he has asked that I wait, which I will but I'll be dead within a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 06:26 PM
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My husband and I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 06:23 PM
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RPW in its present form is for subpar women who can't lock down a decent beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:27 PM
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Only have a sister and no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:22 PM
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You are absolutely right about the double standard displayed here in the films you listed. If the films you mentioned had the genders reversed there would be near rioting in the streets type of hysteria. Your critique and comparison of these movies being a fictionalized version or what Elliot Rodgers did is spot on. He did in real life what these movies depict. Feminism has gone from its original ideals into this punishment due mode and this is what these films represent. One thing I have observ…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 02:28 PM
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Not a.big deal. I used to live in a trailer park so I'm accustomed to social classism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 03:11 AM
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I'm batting zero this week. Low class cause I married young according to another post and stupid as shit and boring according to this reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 02:40 AM
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If you can't figure out the question then maybe the problem wasn't your being a grade under.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:05 PM
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Why didn't you just ask them at the time rather than speculate here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:56 PM
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To a smart woman it does and did for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 05:22 AM
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Not necessarily . I was the nice guy female counterpart. So I can understand the frustration of nice people when it comes to dating. I just don't talk about it on here because what I say will be mocked. We get told one thing but observe the other IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 05:13 AM
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I think your definition of nice guy is different than the Nice Guy who gets criticized. The Nice Guy assumes his niceness will get him laid and becomes angry when this doesn't happen and lashes out in anger showing his niceness was just an act. The truly nice guy, whom you seem to describe, gets hurt by rejection but does not lash out in anger because he believes his niceness should get him laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:57 AM
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I guess you can say I'm your bottom paragraph person since I married at 18 but you genralization is way off. However, the lower classes are no longer marrying as much and the marriage torch is being carried by the upper classes. Low class just live together more than marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:35 AM
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Too many questions so I"ll just tell you what I did. Date and screen to match your criteria. Mine were must have really good morals, good work ethic, kind, concern for others, and must be average in looks. When you find this person, propose and marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 08:43 PM
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At the protest I'm going to wear my toilet seat hat down so my pussyhat can sit on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 04:01 AM
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There was.one thing the dog loved more than toilet water. The cat box, which was kept in the bathroom. Between the toilet water and cat poop the dog chowed down faster than a fat guy at a Chinese buffet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 02:36 AM
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Guess you don't want to hear the cat box story then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 12:57 AM
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Female. This is not an issue because we leave the lid down so the dog won't drink too much water. This is one of those issues that never bothered me. But for the sake of discussion the man should leave the seat down because a man can urinate sitting or standing. The woman has no choice but to sit. Also, the man stands in front of the toilet while peeing. If he leaves the lid up at night, and his partner wakes in the middle of the night and uses the bathroom without turning on the light she may f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 12:36 AM
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I eat meat but I hate the discriminating aspect of it as much as I do the mass commercial production. The very so-called meat eaters who support the carnage will vehemently oppose eating a dog or cat. And that is discrimination by species. Dogs and cats are off limits in western culture because we assign value to them because they are our pets and companions. But what about the cow whose milk has nourished our children when mothers needed formula for breastfeeding? Or that glass of milk kids gre…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:18 PM
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It's easy to get lost in your 20s. So decide on a career now and get trained for it. Get a good paying job that will allow you to be independent. Around age 27 time seems to speed up. And your roll into your 30s. The 30s goes by even faster. This is why getting it right it your 20s is so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:28 AM
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It is not needed and works against the promotion of a happy and stable marriage. But, yet, he has the type of marriage some terps yammer on about as ideal. He is aware of TRP, hypergamy, and all that. When I first told him about it he was like "duh". But he was raised by women after his dad walked out leaving the family in poverty so he is not going to shit on the female gender because he sees the issue as being one of human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 06:05 PM
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My husband would be considered blue pill on the outside by the things he does. Opens car doors for me, takes in most of the groceries, checks with me before making plans. The above is the problem with casual observations made on outside experience. You only get a very small glimpse of how the relationship functions. And from this small glimpse people make a huge leap in assumptions and pass off their assumptions as truth. All of these CMVs, "debates", discussions are never truly fruitful because…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 05:24 PM
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This post has over 4000 comments. I'm not reading literally thousands of comments to find that buried one complaining of sexism. Most of the comments can be summed up as follows. Decent idea but executed wrong. Should have found the manager on the way out rather than make the waitress get the manager thereby causing the waitress undo stress thinking a complaint was being lodged against her. Showboating for the girl and reeked of insincerity combined with point 1. Just tip her more. Oh wait, he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 07:21 AM
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I find baby faced guys repulsive. But I'm not sure if you are asking this question to men or women. But my tastes in masculine features is probably off. I find limited facial scars attractive on men. Think elongated scars resembling cuts or mild burns covering 20% if less of the face. They represent survival to me. But neither one of your described guys are going to do well dating. Attractive people just have it better in life from all angles. They are treated nicer, they get more opportunities …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 05:51 AM
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I find baby faced guys repulsive. But I'm not sure if you are asking this question to men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 05:34 AM
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Correct. That is why when I stumbled upon MRP and read about dread and its levels I found it to be very painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 07:04 PM
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I will spell it out for you and just be honest. I have a very old school Christian marriage. As Sarah called Abraham her lord or master, I too call him that. A husband is the one who provides the environment in which the wife either emotionally dies or flourishes. He is the provider of the love and physical touch she receives. The wife is the one who sacrifices her desire for personal freedom to become his companion and work in his interests. She is the Eve to Adam. This is why a good moral man …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 06:18 PM
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No. If my husband wants a crazy drunk night he gets one when he spends the weekend at his buddy's house or with out-of-town guys' trips. In my presence, he remains in control because he is my husband and I'm his wife. He never goes beyond the feel good stage. To not control oneself is a sign of weakness and lack of inner strength. No one in either of our families are true alcoholics. My dad was just a man who used it occasionally and would cry and drunk drive. It is also against my religious upb…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 06:04 PM
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Simple. I don't want to open my cabinet and see a bottle of liquor and be reminded of the hidden bottles I found as a kid and what that bottle did to my dad. I am preventing reliving a memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 03:40 PM
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Watching my dad cry when drunk and lose control, having his cigarette ashes fly all over me while he was drunk driving with me in the car. Finding the hidden bottles. Both my husband and I drink. However, we do it with friends at cookouts or playing games at Dave & Busters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 02:43 PM
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Before I married I made my aggreement to marry contingent upon no private porn use and that no beer or liquor was to be kept in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 02:05 PM
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No one IRL cares about reproducing superior offspring as observed by my weekly Walmart trip. Everyone does not cheat even when given the opportunity. I didn't. There are people who still operate from a moral basis and do what is right for the sake of their conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 06:55 AM
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Superior genetics. Not a problem because I chose not to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 06:35 AM
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"So, when all is said and done, what are we looking at? I found that 20 percent of heterosexual women in committed relationships — one in five — will report having a Mr. Plan B." One is five does not make a majority, nor anywhere close to half. I fail to find the AWALT panic. Also, the link goes on to say women who don't seem to engage in this have reached menopause. Maybe it's time to reconsider the cougar cub relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 02:39 AM
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I'm very monogamous but I was curious as to why some people will cheat and others don't. Adultery rates are hovering around 50% if memory serves me right. So what tips one person towards monogamy and the other for cheating. Is it just social norms combined with a religious upbringing? Maybe But there is newer research indicating, not proving, that monogamy may be in the DNA or genes, not sure of the term, which allows one person to live content with one partner whereas another can't. I really do…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 07:34 PM
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Thanks. I was raised Southern Baptist and went on a personal world region tour. I have attended numerous protestant denominations, did a year with Jehovah's Witnesses, converted to Roman Catholicism, then converted to Islam, then back to RC. I really did the whole "seek and ye shall find" thing literally. Read some Christopher Hitchins, read some pro-religion books, anti-religion books, looked into Unitarianism, Hinduism, Buddhism, and paganism. All of this took years of searching. Drumroll.....…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/19 07:23 PM
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I can't explain it any better if you refuse to even attempt to look into the above. Numerous articles are out there verifying what I said. So what is your real problem with what I wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 06:57 PM
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There are numerous articles wrote about this. A simple Google will explain in further detail. But humans have had a variety of mating strategies and patterns throughout history. Of which polygamy has been the most prevalent with this insistence on monogamy being the "right" way a relatively new idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 06:50 PM
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You don't remember me, but I'm the same woman who gave you that really now deleted long response about what to look for in a marriage partner on your vanity post. You misread my reply here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:56 PM
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We were already going dutch back in the 80s because it was expensive then too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:53 PM
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Oh he is not naive but a man who abandoned his SAHW with two kids, left them in food stamp poverty, did not pay child support or alimony, did not call, visit, or send a card, did not attend his childrens' marriages. I could go on. All because he left for another woman and her biological kid. You know, the very thing RP says men don't do because when they cheat they stay with their wives out of "love" and duty. I don't mean to sound harsh in my reply but he is the same man now as he was then. He …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:47 PM
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I'm a woman who accidentally found MRP. Your post says that you are religious but not yuri religion. How do you feel about RPChristians and what are your views on marriage? If you don't mind sharing.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/19 05:20 PM
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Married men and women are cheating at close to the same percentages. I do believe the statistics are close enough to be conserved valid. There have been numerous articles done as to why people cheat. People in happy marriages cheat, people in unhappy marriages cheat, people who really love sex and have a good sexlife with their partner cheat, people who are bored cheat, people cheat to stay in the marriage, people cheat when their emotional needs are not met, people cheat for self-validation. Se…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 04:52 PM
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Lots of younger people are no longer doing formal "dating" but hanging out. But this is based on what my niece has told me and may not be indicative of all or a trend. I was surprised to learn that she had never really been on a date but got her BF by just hanging out and sex. It's like she fell into the relationship. I suspect the days of the standard pick the girl up, dinner and a movie are gone. So guessing by 2050 there will be no real dating and probably less marriage too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 04:34 PM
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Yes they are that deluded. Recently my father-in-law came by to visit. He started telling my husband about this "girl" who was showing interest. His eyes lit up like a kid at Christmas. He showed us the picture and she was model hot and early 20s. Scam bit he was buying into it. My FIL is in his 70s, has purple spots on him, a bulbous nose that comes with age, balding, bushy caterpillar eyebrows, a limp and broke. But he thought a young hottie was really into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:37 PM
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Have you ever had a migraine? They are not your pop an Advil and carry on with your day headache. I get that you want the woman to be the bad guy here. But if you tell your partner you are in severe pain and need to get home, the most compassionate and courteous reply is to speed up or take your partner home and return to shop on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 01:53 PM
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You are what you are born with. But women pair up with average guys all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:49 AM
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I like some pudgy on my guy. Who wants to sleep with or play on a rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:42 AM
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People who don't live in the US have no true understanding how detrimental a health crises can be to your middle income family. That is why I suspected you might not be in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:36 AM
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Being a secretary and never having any health insurance or benefits was the biggest waste of my time and truly a stupid move on my part. Should have gone to college and got a real job.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:32 AM
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You are either a dreamer, live in a country with a better social safety net, are covered on your parent's insurance plan or have never had a health emergency. Even the better employer insurance in the US will leave you near bankrupt after deductibles and meds. And if you have to buy your own insurance, you get to decide between life in the SUV, a ghetto apartment, a small mobile home, or a real house by choosing to roll the dice and not buy your own insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:15 AM
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Not without universal healthcare and a guaranteed income program, which will not happen in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 01:52 AM
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No we are going back to not having the means to treat once highly treatable infections. I mean no disrespect to you as an RN but much more educated people with advanced specialized degrees have been sounding the alarm for.years and I put more more credence in what they say. While what you say is true about it mostly being a problem for the elderly but whose immune systems are damaged by age, but what about healthy people whose immune systems are stressed by surgery who get a secondary infection …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 01:35 AM
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I can't talk to him because of his intellect and have trouble following your thoughts sometimes because, to be frank, I'm just not that smart or a skilled writer. All i am is a former legal secretary with no true education.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 01:16 AM
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Hey this is just a fantasy "what if" reply thread, with the exception to a previous reply made by me about the futility of nation building. That reply was my real view on conquering and killing. I'm a little uncertain about your question. But freerhinkers, rebels and philosophers will not fare too well because they all represent intellectual freedom. You can use philosophy for any means and think your way right into perdition. Example. Why was the death penalty based on a life for a life? None o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 01:10 AM
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You need to read reports from England, the CDC and WHO about antibiotic resistance. Google it. The canary in the mine is gasping for breath as we create statins and weightloss drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 12:53 AM
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No, the midlde east has polygamy and temporary marriage for one Muslim sect. Women would have rights but not at the expense of men. The family would be the center of this society with equal value placed upon the male and female contributions. Because I think feminism was in part a response to male abuse of monogamous marriage power while having a mistress and by the failure to make women feel valued on the homefront.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 12:49 AM
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I'm childless by choice and feel that I made the correct decision. Your children will not have the same standard of living due to increased automation and AIs taking over routine jobs. This is not as far off as people think. We are entering a transitional stage in society, much like when small farms lost out to commercial farming and the horse and buggy providers lost out to Ford. I believe the worst depression is coming in a decade or two. People have greater access to higher education and will…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 11:09 PM
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Well the white race is going because we don't reproduce as much. I guess I could save some Caucasians in a zoo type setting just for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 09:51 PM
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You falsely assume I would not have a huge inclusion from the asians. White is not necessarily the most bright. Under my empire I would aim for beauty, health, strength and intelligence. And Caucasian skin ages far worse and does not meet the standards of beauty past age 40. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 09:49 PM
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What works for me may not work for you because I'm rational when it comes to marriage. People get blinded by lust and "in love" and mistake these for real lasting love. I don't. They are like comparing a gourmet meal to McDonalds. Sex is sex and I can have it with a man or woman whom I can imagine engaging in sex with without a feeling of revulsion. It does not matter a dick or vagina. Getting nasty is getting nasty. Animal attraction and "in love" will get you caught up in a shitty relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 09:35 PM
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All people are little shits at heart. The only reason mankind is not a bigger shitshow than currently is because in the west we inherited some.rational thinking qualities combined with the morals of Christianity and its love of neighbor as oneself. So what does that have to do with dating and marriage? Absolutely nothing because people are little shits at heart, and if you find one that operates from a true moral basis you better lock him or her down because they are a rarity. And remember, beau…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:16 PM
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No. Good guys attract women in the 25 year-old plus range who are looking for relationship stability and a father who will stick around for the kids. Young girls are either: So full of themselves that they think they can tame the bad boy and get bragging rights; Too stupid to realize that the roller-coaster of emotions when dating a bad boy can be easily achieved at an amusement park without the heartache; or Are so bored with their lives that they use the drama as a source of entertainment. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:08 PM
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Well you better invest in some skin lightening cream then. But trust me, you will see the wisdom of discontinuing the white race when your wife gets 40 and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 06:52 PM
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Seriously I'm not because you have to be a man worth submitting to and that is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 06:30 PM
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If you have to ask then this is not a likely future for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 06:29 PM
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In the quote you listed I'm not so much addressing the fantasy empress OP question because my answer would not be played out IRL. As to the their child who is a product of adultery, death to the child and the adulterer. You cannot leave behind bad examples to influence the other sheep. The more brutal the example when applied equally to poor and rich alike the better the adherence. It is of no concern to me if the youngest product of adultery has kids. All children and their lines born from unsa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 04:14 PM
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No it represents all of me. Humans are animals which need to be controlled. Give us freedom and look at what we do. We half-ass war and leave behind children without parents who will grow up wanting revenge. Death is the answer. We nation build but are naive enough to think our nation building will wipe out the existing culture and political resentments will build and an uprising will be a generation away. To achieve global peace, you must first wield the sword and wipe out cultures leaving no o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 03:25 PM
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This should be fun. First I would attempt to create a genetically superior race of healthy, smart and attractive humans. This time Caucasian people would not make the cut because they are prone to skin cancer and age really bad. The world would be brown. I would drastically reduce the size of humanity, create a universal religion, only allow monogamous pairings for life and execute all offenders. If a woman cheated and conceived by another man both her and her child would be put to death. All si…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 03:13 PM
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I go for a Type One guy whose niceness is part of his character and makes for a constant in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 02:25 PM
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So are you addressing the idea that some men think that as long as they commit to staying in the relationship that their side pieces should not concern the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 04:24 AM
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Your post is confusing. You are speaking for both men and women out of perception of what you think each wants. "I think this comes from men's incapability to reconcile women wanting relationships for recreation only." No want expects a STR to have the same level of vested personal interest as a LTR. LTRs involve some level of commitment which is more serious than recreational games suited for a STR.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 04:13 AM
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I would like to see lesbian marriages become more stable and then I would advise marrying a woman. The only drawbacks I see to this are that their marriages don't seem to be longlasting and women tend to get bored with monogamy and stop wanting sex. If these two issues were solved, I'd go lesbian in a heartbeat if I were single.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:44 PM
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You can be a traditional at home but fully integrate and participate in the modern world. No one is stopping you. I'm not all that familiar with that side of TRP with the exception that some believe women should not vote. But the days of married women staying at home being financially trapped with no option for lucrative employment while the husband keeps a mistress is only a weak man's fantasy. I suspect that is what the tradcon RPers really want. But this would be no paradise for the man eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:31 PM
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Hypergamy is just one part of the complexity of human mating but all other forms are ignored because TRP is hyper focused on it and has built its "science" around only one form of mating patterns in humans. https://phys.org/news/2017-01-evidence-humans-partners-assortative.html
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 02:49 AM
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Yeah be the old guy who doesn't realize he is not interesting but just tolerated out of pity by those in their prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 09:03 PM
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Being married with a supportive spouse who encourages you is even better than going at it alone. But OP was talking about continuing partying when others are going the coupled route. Nothing as pathetic as an old.guy still talking about his youthful exploits to a bunch of "kids" who view him as ancient and irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 03:44 PM
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I still smoke marijuana and drink occasionally. But I do this in moderation with friends of similar age and usually at a cookout. My husband will drink on fishing trips or when he spends the weekend at his friend's house. They will throw some steaks on the grill, work on cars, and hangout with other friends until 3 a.m. Still drinking and hanging out late,just don't look like desperate middle-aged men at the bar trying to relive the "glory days".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 03:32 PM
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As long as the person matures as an individual and doesn't try to act young s/he will move on to find a group of similarly aged singles. Otherwise, as you get older you have to be careful with partying with a too young group. Nothing is quite as pathetic as seeing a 35 year old guy who thinks he is still 20 hanging with a bunch of college kids, who are too nice to tell the old guy it's time to go out to pasture because his time has come and gone. The above applies to women too. But yes, as your …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 02:23 PM
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If both sexes fully buy into all TRP then men and women should forgo marriage. Why should men marry when it is just "your turn"? Why should women marry when the male polygamous nature will result in his cheating with younger women, thereby leaving her in a state of marital uncertainty with his affections being torn between his sense of duty to an old hag of a wife and his true desire for his younger mistress. The result of the TRP is the end of the marital family structure the west was built upo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 08:23 PM
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Marriage ounseling is often a scam. It is best to figure it out yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 12:11 AM
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You needed a book to figure it out? I find that strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 11:56 PM
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She is carefully "sucked in" to form fitting outfits. Google her bathing suit picture for her huge thighs and gut.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 11:21 PM
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I hate the whole Love Languages book and idea. Figure it out with your spouse and construct a marriage both of you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:21 PM
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Men prefer thinner and Christina Hendricks is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 09:10 PM
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Marriage is nothing but mutual sacrifice for the benefit of the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 03:34 AM
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I would not chose either of those options for a spouse. Leaders don't alienate those who are being led.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 03:23 AM
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No. 2 I suspect probably one of the reasons longtime married women file for divorce. After a while she just gives up and opts out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 02:23 AM
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If you had the above would you still have women on the side or actually practice monogamy for both you and your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:38 PM
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I'm not going to explain the Christian or Muslim religion to you and how they differ from Judaism. Research it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:02 AM
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Do your own religious research.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:53 AM
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Harder to convert to Judaism. As far as who is a real Christian or Muslim, they would follow the more conservative teachings without feminist influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:46 AM
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It has made me lean more towards blue but has increased my distrust of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 12:43 AM
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Women tend to prefer men who don't live in the gym and whose lives revolve around the gym, which is much different than having a solid workout routine that involves gym time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:44 PM
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Dating: Same as the one below for marrying. Marrying: High N count, participation in BDSM, fat, bad language, slack morals, vanity, always dressing up and wearing excessive makeup, and not being a real Christian or Muslim. These are my deal-breakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:06 PM
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Women seem to switch from STR fun guys to seek "husband and father material" around late 20s. The only way to do it smart is to con the guy into thinking he was the first choice and not the last. A.woman looking for a husband and father to her kids will look for the reliable safe guy, decent job, and one she perceives as less likely to leave her or be a chronic cheater. She will.focus more on shared values and morals rather than adventure like she had with the STR guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:16 PM
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I will not use a dildo because I think it is disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 06:01 PM
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I'd prefer a woman with a strap-on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 07:13 PM
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No because overeating crap is my problem and a liquid diet helps reset my tastes for healthy foods. I'm 5'6" 137 lbs but I feel better at 120 lbs. I used to weigh 200 lbs in 2007 and slowly lost the weight and have maintained the weightloss since 2011. Fasting doesn't help me because the problem is the types of foods I eat, carb heavy crap. Like someone else said "no one is getting fat off of broccoli." So I'm going back to upping protein via shakes, cutting bad carbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:27 PM
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You mean that girl with fushia hair wasn't natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 08:36 PM
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Completed my first week of 6 days liquid meal replacement diet, with day 7 being my break day. Now on week two. Plan to do this until I drop 15 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 07:25 PM
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I finally admitted to myself I'm an atheist but do see the value of the stability. I was raised in church and retain the teachings of a Christian marriage. Without the trinity idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 10:37 PM
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Hey, I got your PM but I don't PM with men. I only interact on the public forums out of respect for my husband and not in private. I dressed as a Muslim for a year because I had converted to Islam. I don't believe in dating unless it is for the sole purpose of finding a spouse. As far as how non-western dating would work, it would br done with chaperones. If a guy is serious about wanting to get married and not just get her alone for sex, he will go for it. Otherwise, he was just looking for som…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 09:15 PM
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Some people just sweat more than others.and that should not be held against. A time is coming when you cannot fight off the signs of ageing no matter what you do. Do you want that held against you like your complaints against men who sweat during sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 05:47 PM
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My mom told me when on a date take money for the payphone if he gets to "handsy" and don't get back in the car with him. The above was sort of stupid advice and refers to his esculating making out after you say no. If he wanted to harm you, then you weren't going to be able to get out the car to find a phone and call for help to begin with. "Excuse me, but I need to stop you mid-rape attempt and call for help...". Yeah don't think it would play out like that. I'm childless but if I had kids, esp…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 03:28 PM
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You didn't like the suggestion that she should have had plastic surgery while married to keep him interested because it won't make her 22 again. So what is she to do. Just let him cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:11 PM
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Because when men cheat they do so to save the marriage and not have their sexual dissatisfaction with their wives force them to divorce. See, he does it because he loves her. Sure it looks like having your cake and eating it to, but that is because women don't understand the full depth of a man's love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:57 PM
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Nope. Bit it will help her land her next meal ticket faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:43 PM
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The guy in this story dumps her not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:01 PM
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I thought the same. Personally, that movie always cheers me up because I have no problem with a spouse killing over adultery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:09 PM
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With the money he was making if she really loved him and didn't take him for granted she would have gone to a plastic surgeon and had a full mommy makeover including lipo, botox, breast augmentation, butt lift, and face lift. She let herself go and took him for granted. She has the financial means but no initiative to make herself an enticing wife. Her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:02 PM
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Because there are standards and then there are double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:22 AM
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Dreadlocks? I can't stand fixing my hair. I wish I could cover and not be mistaken for a Muslim but it doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 11:41 PM
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I spent a year wearing no makeup and a headscarf and abaya. It was the most freeing style of dress ever. Covering my hair and not wearing makeup drastically reduced my out the door time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:38 PM
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Not having the right to.vote is a big one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:16 AM
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I went to counseling as a teen but it didn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:09 AM
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Women have a better sense of smell and hearing than men. After years of saying the AC was fine and after each time we "lost air" my husband now believes me when I tell him the Freon is going out. I can smell the change before we totally lose air. This works for the house and car. I can also detect the change in our body odors now that we are middld-aged. I can also hear the sound under the sound or the sound that doesn't belong. This too has helped with catching early repairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:10 AM
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Look you don't have the SMV to pull a good-looking woman. So get one that matches your real looks which is low. Otherwise you would not be posting. There are plenty younger fat women you can get with. Either go for what you can realistically get or hire an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 12:13 AM
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Yes, for the first time people have access to higher education. People from all races and creeds. As for you, if you think life is hard now try being you before higher education was made a realistic possibility. All you guys are just pissed because you can get girls out of your league. This too is how it has been forever. Be glad you are alive now and not when true physical strenght was needed to survive. You would be dead before 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:56 PM
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Newsflash. No one has ever cared about the underdog. This is the first time in history where people can truly rise above the social class they were born into to obtain a better life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:44 PM
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Well you guys could get laid if you tried to do so with your looks match. Sorry but fat and bald get fat and flabby, not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:33 PM
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The way men cheat and leave for better perceived optons, and yes they do, women who want a man who stays better hitch herself to a lower SMV man.with fewer options than her. The low level dread will cause him to realize how lucky he is and he will actually make an effort to keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:20 PM
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You do realize that this guy has a LTR girlfriend and his oneitis is his main plate. He plans on dumping his GF and being monogamous with this FWB if she will take him back. Lots of people missed that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 10:34 PM
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Male hamstering at it's finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:27 PM
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But you have the audacity to complain about your FWB branch swinging when you are gettig ready to dump your GF for the FWB. Wow. It's okay it's now branch swinging when the guys do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:27 PM
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How can you be monogamous with her and your GF?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:18 PM
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You are almost a middle-aged man but are acting like a teenage girl. Why are you trying to turn a FWB into a relationship and falling in love? This is a chick move all the way. She is not branchswinging because you were never a committed couple. Do what the rest of the women do, grab a pint of ice cream and have a good cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:03 PM
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My statement stands. You chose to overlook the misdeeds of men upon their women so that women can stay cast as villain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:58 PM
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No men don't give this to women by default. Some do, some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:45 PM
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How do men want to be loved?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:39 PM
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If my husband did not feel desired then that means that I am failing as a wife by not being a good lover. If he comes to me with that issue and I am get all turned off then it means I have failed at being a wife by not being an understanding companion. If I talk about how much I desire other men or how hot other men are, then I have failed at being a wife by breaking my vows of honoring him. If I were to post what this woman posted, it would mean that I have no understanding of marriage and how …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:05 AM
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It is not a myth. Wife goggles and husband goggles is just a term for what happens when you see the other through the eyes of love. You do realize that average looking people get married and they too will have their own goggles, unless the marriage is damaged and ruins them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:57 PM
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No wife goggles are real and not contingent so much on looks as they are contingent upon a happy, healthy marriage. But the part RP leaves out is that there are husband goggles as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:48 PM
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Stay in shape, take an interest in yourself, dress nice and that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:44 PM
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The OP was talking about his female relative's salary requirements for a husband. He is talking about marriage, not dating. Men who marry the hot crazy girl will soon tire of her because hot at 20 has more currency than hot at 30. Those wife goggles apply to hot married women too. Theirs are just allowed more scratches before replacing. Marriage is a way different game then dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:28 PM
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But the hot meter goes down when the bitchiness goes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:17 PM
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Women still expect men to "man up" and be traditional providers while bringing in the money, while they want to keep the options of having a career, being a SAHM or job jumping while they find their niche regardless of what he thinks about it. The difference now is that women feel entitled to this without ever concerning themselves with the needs of their husbands or thanking him for doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:47 PM
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Congrats on the vagina. But I addressed all of your counterpoints when I indicated that men who can will date younger. It doesn't matter to older men who can why she's having sex with him. Only the fact that she is matters. No matter how hard you bang your fingers against the screen the truth of what I typed will not change.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:46 AM
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"Age isn’t kind to males either, no matter how much y’all want to think otherwise." Chickadee, I'm a woman who knows the deal. A guy did not write that reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:47 AM
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"His Marie Claire interview also drew criticism for statements he made regarding his preference for dating Asian women - which he specified as "Koreans, Chinese and Japanese" in particular." Article So his preference is 25 Asian. Asian women retain a youthfull look that is furthered by short stature. A man his age with options, as he apparently has, will be more likely to chose a young woman over a middled-aged woman. Nothing new here and this is how it has been forever. But the most ridiculous …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:34 AM
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You need to leave the various pill subs for real life. Men and women of different looks and social classes manage to find relationships. All you have on the various pill subs and blogs is an echo chamber based on limited ideas where the same thing is said over and over with only a slight change of words. Get out and observe couples in the wild and you will understand why this is all BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 01:12 AM
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I think men who call themselves red pilled and then marry are negating their belief in AWALT and "it is just your turn" that they should cease identifying as RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 10:54 PM
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The sexual abuse because I believe that kids who are molested have a greater chance of being an adult pedophile and would pose a threat to any children born should married happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 02:13 AM
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Don't forget those nineteen other men, many times younger than the old man that got the girls, get cast out from their community so they can pose no threat to Lord Chad of Utah's young hottie wife running off with the young man of her choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:29 AM
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I would dump him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 10:47 PM
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Well if everyone followed your advice then gonorrhea would not be on the rise. But every one days they used condoms and dental dams until they show up at the clinic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 06:38 AM
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Yeah, some girls shorts are so short I want to bleach the seat before I sit down. Pretty sure that thong doesn't catch all the various female secretions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:54 AM
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Got to admit I feel creepy just by looking. I always have to fight the urge to stare at women at the beach. It is very hard even in public when women wear such revealing outfits. One time at the mall I saw a Latino girl with the best ass I'd ever seen and has to find my husband to show him. Skintight jeans huggong every curve. Yeah my inner creep detector went off. But damn she had a nice ass. Thankfully she was over 18, but really most girls dress to show the goods and can pass for adult from b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:41 AM
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That antibiotic resistance gonorrhea can't get spread quick enough because we all know people who jump in bad after knowing someone five minutes make great life choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:33 AM
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Enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:50 PM
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Then go get a fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:33 PM
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Sort of yes. I had hope for humanity at one time but now I believe we are an evolutionary mistake that should be extinguised from the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:25 PM
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Go for fat, less attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:56 PM
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I give up offering my female relatives dating or marriage advice. It's like talking to a brick wall. But whenever a close female relative laments that she can't find a good man, I remind her of the good guys she passes up to be with Loser No. X.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:14 PM
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She is not having flings but chosing years long relationships with guys only suitable to have flings with. She married and divorced one and is with her current druggie for five years. Hardly fling time. She thinks that she is "the one" to tame them because she believes her SMV and RMV to be way higher than what it is in reality. Now if she were a model she might accomplish her goal of taming them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 11:59 PM
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I'm her sister. She is not chosing casual sex buy trying to turn "bad boy" player types into stable LTRs. She married one and then divorced him because she couldn't handle him and is now living with a heroin addict who is now abusing his methodone(?) in lieu of heroin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 11:38 PM
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All of this is observational but from observing the average women in my immediate family there is a certain level of delusion there about what their SMV and RMV will get them. My sister just turned 39 but she has been dating around forever, with the exception of a very brief marriage and divorce. Every decent guy was passed over for her handsome "bad boy vibe" choice, which never worked out until now because she knows her looks have tanked due to weightgain and she feels stuck with him. Once she…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 11:17 PM
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Brains might be the same but I believe the hormonal driving forces effects the same brain rendering it different in observational choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 11:53 PM
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Wouldn't know about the 37%. First real BF was bad. The second was great so I married him. If I had gambled like the article betting that someone better would come along I would have missed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 08:43 PM
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This seems like bad advice. The article says that you may run the risk of nexting your best partner, whom it is unlikely you will be able to get back upon realizing your mistake. It would be great of there was a formula. But like the casino analogy in the article, sometimes you need to cash the chips in before gambling it all on a formala
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 07:53 PM
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Give up on romantic love and find a partner who understands that love is a verb.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:03 AM
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We are past reminders. The prophets are no more and we must stand on our on. I'm very traditional and have been married for thirty years. But all nations and cultures collapse and ours is coming to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 12:50 AM
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You gave no solution which has not been given before.... restraint, willpower and understanding actions have consequences. You have proposed nothing new at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 10:14 PM
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But everyone knows this and your post is only reiterating it. Some people are better off with impulse control. Living in the US we have an obesity epidemic but not all are obese. Hypergamy and adultery are categorized as personal choices like obesity. There are no laws heavily penalizing the offender like there are for assault and murder, which also are products of poor impulse control. The only way to control hypergamy by branch swinging leading to divorce and marital adultery is to make these …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 09:57 PM
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In other words, we have animalistic impulses but can control our behavior through willpower and the conscience weighing of the consequences of our action or inaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 09:45 PM
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Not violent enough to be committed and still lives with his alheizhmer mother and his sister. What's one more added into the mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:50 AM
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So if she ages badly you will act in such a way that she initiates divorce so you can play the innocent injured party? And you wonder why some women don't want kids. You can't depend on men to stick around to help you raise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:46 AM
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Still didn't answer the question. Lots of 50-something guys if they look good enough and make good money have younger women wanting them. So if you turn 55 and a 28 year old is into you do you cheat, dump the wife or decline because you are married?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:39 AM
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If you are 55 when she is 40, then you have plenty of time to trade her in for a early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:34 AM
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So, grandma probably has social security, the brother probably has disability and Medicaid or medicare. Add in the preschool teacher and there should be enough funds. Besides, her mom needs help and had daughter should provide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:30 AM
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I don't support that but the above is what you do to survive until you land another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:28 AM
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Are you going to dump your wife when she turns 40 or just cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:24 AM
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Well, then if they all three work, pool those resources, and don't behave financially irresponsible then she should be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:21 AM
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Then she can just move back home with mom or get a part-time job after school.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:18 AM
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Midlife crises.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:10 AM
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That movie is about 19 years old. Most on here are too young to have seen it when it came out and probably didn't care to by the time it hit cable reruns when they were older. I saw it but can't remember it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:07 AM
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Shallow Hal wasn't gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:04 AM
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Everyone knows anal can hurt. So you should either have said no to it or been more proactive about how he needed to help you loosen up. If anal was bad and you did it just for him, then that's your problem. Either take charge so it doesn't hurt or just forego it and him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:57 PM
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I was engaging in anal sex before I ever saw porn. In fact, it was my request and idea not his. Face it, some women like anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:50 PM
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Women prefer benevolent sexism because it caters to her which benefits her. "Honey, let me open that for you so you don't break a nail." Or, "I'll mow the grass because you don't need to get sweaty. Benefits her. Toxic sexism is "No you will not get a job because I'm the man and rule the house and your place is in the home." This attitude traps her into dependency upon him with no financial escape. Does not benefit her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:45 PM
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Women select plenty on looks which is why the young hottie doesn't have a picture of Bill Gates on the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:37 PM
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One gets a pay per play performance and the other gets the do it for free because she is so hot for him sex. No one is saying old rich guys don't get the best women. But just like a man doesn't want saggy tits slapping him in the face, a young woman doesn't want the saggy ball sack hitting her either. But for the money and lifestyle she will sacrifice sexual attraction for the payday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:09 PM
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Money buys a lot, including fake attraction but then again that is what the personal trainers and pool boys are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 06:38 PM
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Why aren't the young girls masterbating to Bill Gates? It's almost like most young girls overwhelming prefer being bed by young stallions and not old goats.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 04:30 PM
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No. Pitt pass. Clooney nope. Men aren't that attractive to me after 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 03:15 PM
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I've never read a serious reply from anyone on here, male or female, that says emotional upkeep is not needed for a successful relationship. I think you arguing against something no one on here claimed to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 02:48 AM
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Happy wife, happy life should just die already. Why do men have to keep in winning their wives? I would hate to think my husband had such a level of insecurity that he must always win me to keep me. God, if I were a man I probably wouldn't marry. Always dating and romancing her like you were young to keep her and never maturing into your marriage. Tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 02:40 AM
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Marriage for me is about having a lifelong mate. The only advantage of legal marriage is the health insurance since I would not have any without marriage. I didn't have a big day, no photographer, no happy family. I did get married on the cheap on a Sunday morning because as I figured it, the preacher had to be there anyway for Sunday morning service so there would be little inconvenience with his getting there an hour early to marry me. Marriage is a religious or spiritual institution for me so…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 01:21 AM
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You really haven't moved on mentally because every chance you get in your replies you share themail ex-wife story. So are you really living well when your ex occupies so much mental space. Also, you are not RP because always mentioning your ex either means you are permanently stuck I'm the anger phase or just don't understand DNGAF.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 11:28 PM
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I believe the west derives its morals from Christianity since it was the dominant religion during the west's formation. So a moral atheist may have similar morals to that of a liberal Christian because society has been influenced by religion and the atheist was raised in the same society as the Christian. They will act similar besides belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 07:24 PM
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You would probably be better of on a sub devoted to Jordan Peterson and the discussion of his ideas. JP seems to employ imagery and mythology to help frame societal issues as if we are in a cosmic battle. He seems to forget that the old gods are dead and the newest one is well on his way out too. His biblical thoughts are irrelevant for those who think Jehovah is about as relevant as Zeus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:56 PM
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Not exactly. I would not kick Brad Pitt out the bed but I'd prefer someone I view as sexy who may not be as attractive as Pitt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 04:00 AM
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If you use sexy and hot interchangeably then you are not describing the same types of men as I am. Back in the day Brad Pitt was hot but I didn't find him sexy then nor do I now with his advanced age. I just mentioned Pitt because TRP throws his name out from time to time as a Chad example. So in the case of Pitt, for me his hotness did not mean sexy and he was so hot that I found him boring. The same with George Clooney back in the day. Handsome but nothing alluring about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:52 AM
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No I can't because sexy is perceived very individualistic whereas attractive has certain facial asymmetrical features that have been shown to effect attractiveness perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:28 AM
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There is a difference between hot and sexy. Hot does not always equal sexy and sexy can make up for lack of hotness. For some women sexy trumps hot, but I'm sure a hot guy will do but for women who prefer sexy you get those guys who are not conventionally hot because too handsome is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:12 AM
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Did you not read the whole article? They end up enjoying long foreplay courtesy of some marijuana. Now they are back on track. Sometimes you get off track and when that happens, it is the responsibility of the one who notices it to bring it back on track.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:51 AM
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All you have to do is Google infidelity statistics. Men and women overall cheat about the same amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 11:45 PM
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Doesn't matter. AI will control humanity soomer than we think and will breed us down in size and according to their need for pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 01:12 AM
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It would be too long to explain and I'm not exposing my personal views of marriage nor the way I live out my marriage for a bunch of RPers to ridicule and BPers to do the same. I've opened up in the past about my views and have shared details only to have people ridicule and deliberately take my words out of context. One or two words or phrases will override a wall of text that provides a fuller picture. Most just want validation of their own views and not to understand another's experience. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 08:33 PM
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Then, don't bring additional kids in the world if all you can give them is a broken home. If all women do this, then stop with the first set of kids. Don't keep on going with wife after wife and kids with each wife. Children arer not collector pieces. While women may flake, if you understand and believe this and continue to procreate with woman after woman, then you agree to being a part-time dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 06:24 PM
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"A coupe with new wife every 15 years or so seems like an OK plan." Your quote about getting a new wife and starting another family can only be said by a guy who doesn't understand the difference between playing father and being a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 06:15 PM
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It is really hurtful for children to have only part-time fathers. But I'm glad you seem to support the idea that when it comes to raising kids men are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 05:47 PM
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And he wanted a wife who baked cookies. Five kids are too much and only needed if you are in farming. No one stops to think about the parents' inability to love them equally and the effects of favoritism, which parents never ever admit to showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 05:39 PM
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I never wanted kids but wanted marriage. It was very disheartening to hear from a trusted adult as a kid that I would never find a man. So, I brought this up early with any guys dating me. One guy wanted five kids. Next. But I held to my choice to be child-free and found a guy who thought the same. Married and child-free.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:44 PM
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Skip the whole "in love" part. In fact don't believe in being in love at all. It is just a chemical high to get you to bond and mate and potentially stick your dick I'm crazy. Find a nice, drama free girl who you find attractive enough to fuck. Give her a spin and if you two mesh well in personality, morals or outlook on life, and the sex is satisfying that is all the "in love" you need. Let your mind do the chosing and not your dick. Because crazy is fun until it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 12:58 AM
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When it is convenient they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 11:51 PM
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Because I have female relatives who pass up the guys who have a decent job, attends church, treats others nice for party player vibe guy who provides the needed ups and downs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 11:01 PM
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Yes, but I smoke and drink from time to time and I'm the one who likes anal and the one who enjoys porn but does not watch for morality reasons. So the dealbreaker for me would be porn use.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 09:07 PM
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The west does not need imported help for women to find good men. Women know them, reject them, and, then post about not finding good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:44 PM
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"Beauty is only skin deep" is another saying. This saying has been around for a while and if I had to guess I'd say it is background advice for a marriage partner. The hot guy or girl may be very pleasing in the short-term but if the personality and character doesn't match the outside then those faults will chip away at those good looks as lack of inner beauty erodes outer beauty. This would happen in marriage some times and the person once trapped in marriage would then come to the late realiza…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 09:02 PM
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It means that marriage is no longer for life and more are entering an institution meant for permanency with the attitude of "oh well we can just divorce when it gets too hard." The divorce rate is down right now due to the millineals marrying later but also because lots of people who used to marry are no longer marrying. This trend is the "eventually gone" part of my sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:04 PM
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People who marry will change over time. But the core values and personality usually stay the same, unless something profound has happened like a sever head injury. I hear this all the time. You are not the same at 20 as you are at 30 as you are at 40. Everytime I run into an old friend I still see the same part of them I knew as a kid just a more mature evolved version. Sometimes I wonder when people mention change if they really mean "grew apart over time". Growing apart is what I have observed…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:54 PM
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Well obviously if he let himself go but still felt entitled to her providership, what was she to do. Before divorcing him, she should get in shape, buy nice expensive new clothing, spend time away from the house, work on her flirting skills and getting numbers from handsome guys and make sure her SMV is higher than his. This will make him uncertain and afraid that he is losing her. And we all know fear is the foundational emotion behind all healthy relationships. The above sounds bad but really …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:24 PM
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I don't really see a problem with mail order brides. These women are nearly as naive as what the public thinks and some of the mail order brides are scammers. The men go to the countries to date and then get engaged, come back to the US but send money to their fiance only to find out the engagement is called off but the money kept by her and then she is off to Chumps 2 and 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:27 AM
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Oh, well here in the US your average worker is fucked. We don't have your safety net.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 01:16 AM
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I will try to get a job. But I'm over 400 resumes in so I feel it safe to say I've aged out of the market. I actually do understanding your reasoning and feeling that you are in high demand. But things change so fast now that today's high demand might be a has been a few years from now. It's great you came out of the 2008 recession good. We lost $90,000.00 when his company filed bankruptcy and the 401(k) ?? were distributed by court order I auppose. This is the uncertainty of life I'm talking ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 01:07 AM
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I would love to tell you that the education and good paying job you have now will always be a constant. But a time will come for you during your late 30s in which you notice that switching jobs isn't as easy as it was in your 20s. And even harder when you enter your 40s. One badly times recession for you at an age past late 30s and you will see that you are not much different than me. Our fates are never really our own but subject to unforseen circumstances. For me a divorce. For you a loss of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 12:49 AM
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I used to work and I would keep house as well. The difference is now I work for my husband to give him the best wife possible. So I'm familiar with being married employed and married SAHW. It is not for everyone but if I were a man I would not marry a woman who refused to be traditional and be under her husband's authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 12:05 AM
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I prefer a low N count. Both my husband and I have a count of 2, including each other. Sluts, male or female, are nasty to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:45 PM
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I'm a SAHW. Tonight we are having chicken thighs, baked beans, and long grain rice with iced tea. The house has been cleaned and my husband will be greated with a hug and a smile and supper will be waiting on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 09:42 PM
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I'm assuming woke men are men who sympathize with the struggles of women in their personal lives, professional lives and society in genrem resulting from sexist views or leftover patriarchy. I prefer a man who supports women's issues as a matter of public policy and who can sympathize with women's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:32 PM
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That's why you do a scrub down before the deed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 06:12 AM
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Actually you were the one talking about the successful ones when you listed names. Tons of women might try on Tinder but define "tons". Not every woman is on Tinder and studies have shown that both men and women are casting their nets wide and up out of their league hoping for a bite. There are not enough good looking men to service the multitude of average woman. A woman can dream of Mr. 6-pack just like a man can dream of that Victoria's Secret model but odds are strongly against either one wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:53 AM
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They don't have much of a problem with Islam, which is due to white guilt and supporting other far away cultures that hate the Christian religion and the West. The enemy of my enemy is my friend thing. That will change with the growth of Islam in the west. Once again just opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:28 AM
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Feminism is about the destruction of the Christian marriage and its values that helped spur on one of the greatest civilizations known to man, which we call "The West" under the guise of freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:21 AM
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I'm well aware of it. But average can't jump but so far up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:18 AM
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Regarding our discussion, I have been on Reddit for well over a year under different names. My first was HeadbangMfr (close to it anyway and named for my love of the metal group Machine Head), then I was Slipknot_Is_Metal123, and then Uncommon_Sense1234 (without the d). All this is from memory. Don't attach significance to my date of joining or significance to anything I say. I'm an atheist and probably not the one you need to get spiritual guidance from. I have a value system based on Christian…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:05 AM
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So all females get judged by one small percentage of attractive females who could manage to secure one of the few members of the ultra rich elite clib?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 04:22 AM
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And the guys who fawn over the HB9 settle for HB6 too. It works both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 04:20 AM
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You can see everything when looking at it all in totality. Or, you can see only one thing when hyper-focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 04:03 AM
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"But McClintock found that outside of ailing tycoons and Donald Trump, in the practical world it basically doesn’t exist. Where it does, it doesn’t last. The dominant force in mating is matching."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 03:59 AM
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But look around IRL. All the people I see out shopping at the mall, concerts, bars, resteraunts are pretty much looks matched. These are people from teens on up. Only on the Internet and pill subs is it otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 03:49 AM
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Most men aren't going to be rich and powerful just like most women will not be pretty but average. Average needs to learn to settle for average and stop aiming out of their leagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 03:45 AM
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The guy on the other post is dealing "chill pills " Maybe you and that poster can chill together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:28 AM
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No it's a joke. There is the red pill, blue pill, purple pill, black pill and maybe a yellow pill and red pill and now a "chill pill."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:15 AM
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Yippie another pill. We have so many pills now that a Reddit Pharmacy is needed. Quick question. TRP gets shoved up your ass if you don't swallow, not sure about the BP delivery method, but might I suggest the "chill pill" be rolled and smoke. Just an idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:05 AM
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I don't think they were strict enough but that is what was done during that time. I was raised in church and church taught that premarital sex was a sin, but the church parents still sent their girls off to be alone with a horny male and expected chasity to remain. So if I were raising a religious child I would not raise them like I was to date in this fashion, subject to my husband's approval. We have different views on this. I do think that each party should pay for their own portion of the da…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:53 PM
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This was dating advice I was given years ago. The idea back then was that being too eager attracted guys who would just use you. Being harder to get implied that you were not desperate and the guy would view you with more respect. Other gems for the time were: Take a dime for the payphone and bail of he becomes to handsy and keeps on trying. You were to remove yourself from the situation and use a payphone to call your parent to pick you up. Don't accept jewelry from a guy because he will expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:36 PM
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Mods, this sub is going to shit. Really need to reign it in or watch it become an advice column.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 10:47 PM
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If you are conflicted then you should not attempt to position yourself as teacher or one who holds the secret. You are not resolved within yourself and are too weak to hold point. Talking of a Love Potion or the Noble True Man means nothing if you do not have the mental fortitude or discipline to be. Your caps do not bother me. In fact I knew you would incorporate them into your reply. That is your MO. Much like children on a playground where one child yells out "I've got a secret" and the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 04:06 PM
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You have acted like an impetuous child in some of your responses on other threads, yelled in caps, but here you are being messiah of the day. Your behavior has not been one of love but one of a man driven by the ego of self. "Brother" to the ones who agree with you and hostility to the ones who ask you to clarify your stance. Don't attempt to save us all when you yourself are still drowning. You say nothing new and others before you have said it much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 02:51 PM
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Why are other cultures too friendly? The world would be boring if all cultures were the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 05:30 AM
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If I were a man I would want a very low N count woman adjusted for age. It would make a difference how she obtained her N count. ONS or STR sex would mean to me that she is not suitable for investing in as a potential wife, since I am marriage oriented. This preference for a low N count partner is not just one men have. If I were single I would want a low N count partner, male or female, for their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 04:34 AM
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Well under assortative mating what causes divorce. TRP says hypergamy but it is not hypergamy when she again partners accross in assortative marriage. TRP will say the new man makes her feel like he is the better option hence hypergamy of emotions. This is not really hypergamy but a drawback of basing marriage on romantic love, something which it was never intended for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 06:42 PM
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I ran the numbers and I'm too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 04:58 PM
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But there is more to assortative mating than matching educations. Read the link. A good looking woman according to TRP is supposed to marry up not across.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 04:45 PM
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Most certainly. Is this something you find hard to believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 04:40 PM
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All you do is talk hypergamy and how your ex-wife screwed you over. Maybe I missed that one comment out of hundreds about hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 04:26 PM
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No. I was very simple person and just wanted to get married, work, and live life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 04:17 PM
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Well I realize now that I should have gone to college but I didn't think that was what your post was asking. I thought you were addressing fluctuations in partner choices based upon self-esteem or as the years go by and one matures.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 04:05 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 03:41 PM
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TRP also doesn't discuss assertive mating where people marry partners similar to them. The last two weddings I have been to, the couples were similar in weight, looks. But their husbands were not college educated and the wives has four-year degrees. One husband was a lumber shoo worker and the other husband was doing the "what do I want to do for a living" thing. Everytime this gets mentioned the reply is always "outlier". My parents are also examples of this. Mom was an attractive woman and dad…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 02:47 PM
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In essence don't take you seriously because this post could or could not be your view. I'm going to take this as your view by your zealous ramble of a failed counter. The true aristocrat. Sorry but here in the US we don't have an aristocracy. So follow successful men as they are the True Man Which one? Ghangis Khan One man's hero is another's oppressor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 12:44 AM
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They don't have to be your own and I've heard them before. You espouse them and asked for a debate but are not prepared to back up how the Noble Man or True Man serves the needs of guys who are drawn to an amoral praxeolgy. But yet you accused me of not understanding debate. You give the rest results of your own theory as to why the Noble Man or True Man is the superior path to getting all the sex you want. We know that TRP operates on the female desire to be with the best man possible and this …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 11:20 PM
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Now you are imposing your idea of what manhood is and who is or is not a True Man. So are you know judge and jury in a court of one?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 10:30 PM
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They want to be the Rockstar because the Rockstar gets the harem of women. TRP is about male sexual strategy. Think about whatever rock group you enjoy and watch the concert footage. All eyes is on the lead singer. His presence, his charisma, talent, ability to work the crowd all says alpha because alpha is the leader. And the leader has power and power arouses women. Your Noble Man has morals and as a society we just don't value morals that much. The Noble Man may rise above in morals and have …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 09:46 PM
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Dude, all I am asking is to that you clean up your post so the reader can tell exactly what ideas you are addressing. Your post reads like a Jordan Peterson musing, saying lots of things without getting to a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 09:29 PM
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I think "nice guy" is used by people of this sub in a different way than you are using. Could be wrong. As to your edit. I agree with your idea of the noble man. But this is a sub which focuses on RP ideas, some of which are grounded in evolutionary biology, evo-psychology, and some broscience. And focuses on BP ideas and debates with those backgrounds in mind. Saying that, no one cares about the noble man because being that man will not get you laid. So I still don't know what we are debating h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 09:24 PM
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"I feel it is past time for a restatement of basic truths and I feel this strongly as I listen to divergent voices here at PPD" OP Well if it doesn't matter if you believe it than don't say things like "I feel it is last time" and "I feel this strongly". And stop acting like a little bitch when someone wants to engage with you and asks that you clarify your ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 09:12 PM
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I have no idea what you are trying to say. Is this satire?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 09:04 PM
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If I were a young man in your situation this is what I would do. Get in shape, get an interesting hobby, study for a high-paying career, hang out with friends and not get dopey-eyed over every girl that smiled my way. If you really want a wife and family and can stomach religion, convert to Islam. Get involved with the mosque and know the people. Then go to the Imam or your Muslim friends and tell them you are seeking a wife. Look for a muslimah that is not a convert but a recent immigrant, or c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 06:12 PM
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Betas can and do cheat. This idea that marrying down in looks protect you from being cheated on is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 12:20 AM
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Does this mean I can no longer ask him to open a jar for me? Thanks matriarchy. Now about that oil change.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:34 PM
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I made an edit to my reply that this probably only applies to STRs or ONSs. I linked to article reporting on the study so take issue with it and not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 03:53 AM
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Well the study does seem to indicate that. Can't help what research linked was reported but this is probably where the idea comes from. But I do think it is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 03:47 AM
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I think the looks make up for skill. The looks predisposes her to orgasm. https://nationalpost.com/health/orgasms-more-frequent-for-women-partnered-with-attractive-manly-men-study
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 03:42 AM
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There was research saying that women orgasm more for handsome men. Several articles of you Google it. So I'm going with true on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 03:20 AM
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What information ate we supposed to be giving that is false? Is this going to be the all women secretly love BDSM because FSOG tells us so? Please say it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 02:43 AM
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This is about as honest and as totally not "PC" as I can put it. Women have a huge problem addressing their own behaviors which encourage and promote being objectified. They enjoy being objectified for the suitor they are attracted to but hate being objectified by men they deem a waste of their time. There is a reason she's not wearing sweat pants to the club. She dresses up in part to feel good about herself, to rank higher among other females as she outdoes her female competition in being hit …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 05:05 PM
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I think there is a generally assumed male narrative to sex and a female one. The male desire to conquer, possess, and control when expressed sexually is oft putting to women who seem to have more of a make love type of sex ideal where she is in full control and engaging sexually on her terms. The woman feels used under the more animalistic form of male sex and the man feels restrained by her idealized version of sex where bother partners engage equally and have equal say as to the pace and acts.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 04:44 PM
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I actually enjoy it and do find being a sexual release for my husband exciting. You naively assume that this arrangement does not work both ways and is of benefit to the woman too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 03:05 PM
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If you are asking for monogamy then yes sex is owed because an exchange of sexual exclusivity is made. Your are his only sexual outlet and he has agreed to forgo others for a life with you that includes sex. Either give it up or let him get it elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 02:55 PM
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"Indeed, a recent meta-analysis reveals that although childless couples experience a decline in marital satisfaction over time, parents are significantly less satisfied than non-parents are, and number of children is reliably related to marital dissatisfaction (Twenge et al., 2003)." So don't have kids and be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 09:39 PM
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I told you but you don't believe me. I associate promescuity with increased potential for disease. My preference is to be disease free.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 03:48 AM
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It's called a preference for a reason, specifically my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 03:37 AM
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The willingness to expose oneself to disease does not speak volumes as to a person's respect for themselves of judgment. And I don't believe people use condoms and dental dams like they say they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 03:24 AM
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Personal preference. I would not want a high count partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 03:18 AM
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I don't think Dan Savage's idea is nearly as clever as he thinks. If the husband cheats and starts acting happier, because he will be happier, the wife will know or suspect and hire an investigator. So a divorce will likely ensue under Dan's scenario because she said no to an open relationship. So he might as well tell her to put out or be divorced. Can't have it both ways by denying sex and denying his right to get sex elsewhere while the marriage stays intact. In all likelihood this guy is pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 06:52 PM
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I'm an atheist and have been for years but I still practice the moral teachings I was raised with. I worked as a secretary, never had a job that provided health insurance, but my last job was a joy and the pay was a lot higher for secretaries in that area. My husband had a job opportunity which I was not going to stand in the way of. His opportunity was my loss. We had to relocate and the new area has a much more fierce job market and I can't compete. So I left the best job I ever had and wound …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 05:18 PM
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My parents were not very religious but I was raised in church and the teachings infuenced me. It looked good on paper. But mom's version of Christianity involved committing adultery and divorce all while being the church pianist. As far as being a SAHW, I'd rather work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 05:07 PM
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Both of my parents worked. I can't even provide for myself financially so being the sole provider is out. I'm doing the 1950s SAHW thing, but that wasn't my intention when I was young but what I became. My religious upbringing prepared me somewhat so it was not a complete lifestyle shock going from working to not and being a housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 04:57 PM
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I don't think you will have to worry about marriage too far into the future. No marriage, no divorce. There is no point in putting oneself at extreme financial loss for a institution that is so far removed from its permanent intention that it is now more of a temporary play house gig. What I'm really surprised by is your raving about now good Texas Roadhouse is. Everytime I go there it sucks. Mushy ribs and dry hamburgers. Nasty. What passes for edible is truly amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 02:32 AM
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How the hell can you understand? You guys both would be willing to accuse an innocent man of physically touching your GF in a sexual manner, then say "Oops" we lied, just wanted a seat change. The guy was being an obnoxious jerk but what you and your GF thinks is okay is far worse and can ruin a life. Now that you know your GF is capable of lying and playing the victim card, have you thought about what would happen in a divorce if you married her? I bet you'd change your tune about her false mol…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 04:15 PM
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It is pretty disturbing that your GF would consider a false charge of molestation in she were in a western country to get her way. It is also very disturbing that the women you replied to also said she would lie and say the guy groped her to get a seat change. And some women wonder why the #metoo is not believed. I wonder why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 02:56 PM
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Since custudy has gone to the mother in the past, a single dad gives off a more virtuous sacrificial vibe. This means that the ex-wife or mother must be a true piece of shit not to even have joint custody. So the single dad just appears more responsible. These are selling points for women looking to marry. A single mom, because there are so many around, just come off as pathetic and irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 09:30 PM
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"Mormons made up 1.6% of the American adult population in 2014, little changed from 2007 (1.7%), the last time a similar survey was conducted." Pew I know what your asking but from the above quote I'm guessing that the divorce figures are adjusted. If Mormons only make up about 1.6% of the US population then the link showing they have a 1% divorce rate would mean that they have a really high divorce rate, but they are known for having intact families.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:52 AM
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Really don't understand what you are asking. The link gives the percentage for the groups you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:30 AM
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The link below shows divorce rates by religion. http://www.pewforum.org/religious-landscape-study/marital-status/divorcedseparated/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:23 AM
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Right now the divorce rate has dipped because the lower income classes are not marrying as much as they used to and milleneals are marrying at later ages. I suspect the slight drop in divorces will increase once the milleneal couples put their time in and she wants out. Most divorces are initiated by women, and only time will tell of this pattern holds true for milleneals in the future. But I've read that the divorce statistics do not include married but separated. So there may be more couples l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:15 AM
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Any man can act with confidence but an alpha has confidence, looks, social status and financial status.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 07:51 PM
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Or, focus on looks and personality together. It's not an either or.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 01:33 PM
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I found the post. This is his friends very new business. She also expressed concerns about it affecting the relationship with his friend. Also she works and he works, but they have an existing mortgage and car payments which were taken out based on both incomes. So they now have the same bills but a drastic reduction in income. She has very good reason to worry that if this business venture with his friend does not work out that they could lose it all. But yeah, she's a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:20 AM
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Dealbreakers for what? Dating, LTR, marriage. For me in marriage it would be cheating and emotional or physical abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 08:19 PM
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If women weren't oppressed but men now are, you know what that means..... WOMEN ARE SUPERIOR! And a big PPD welcome back to LewisCross. Missed you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:36 PM
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I dunno. What does Rollo say about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:31 PM
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"High on the list was sexual immorality among some preachers who were often away from their families for extended periods." Link The above is one of reasons for the rule. It addressed the problems of the traveling preachers and served to keep their reputation in good standing by not giving any cause to suspect sexual immorality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:01 PM
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The Pence rule is nothing new and was the Billy Graham rule before and someone else's before him. Both Pence and Graham are acting out of a religious framework to prevent adultery. The #metoo movement is actually going to hurt women in ways they didn't anticipate. The article does a good job of showing some of the unforseen ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 06:37 PM
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I once looked in the mirror and thought I was a unicorn. Turned out to be really big zit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 05:22 PM
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I married my husband for what he could provide. That is how relationships work by two partners making exchanges that benefit the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 01:15 AM
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Well if only the cancer had not misshapen her body and she had not harped on and on about it, he would have just cheated and remained married. But, no, she was solpholistic. Got hit with a touch of cancer and let herself go because she felt entitled to his love. Now do you understand what he went through? I mean the only thing he could do was the ultimate DNGAF and divorce. Also, I think that study might have been retracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 12:49 AM
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Yeah, well that girl may not doing it for preselection but as a trophy prize for validating her need to be better than her competition. And once the winner's high fades so does she.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 06:51 AM
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It is for the reason if I were single I would not date or marry a man who has a high N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 06:03 AM
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It is said that high N count women lose their ability to bond in a LTR because of rapid partner switching in STRs. But maybe she never had the bonding ability to begin with and the high N count is a expression of her natural predisposition for serial monogamy and not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 05:59 AM
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You seriously need proof and links to articles where women realize that they are no longer getting the looks that they did in youth. And no, I'm not going to address each and every miniscule point you make so that you can engage in more manufactured outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 03:56 AM
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You can't control where your work or live if you can't afford to move or jobs are scarce. But you can control where you go for fun in your free time. Didn't lIke the movie first time, don't watch it a second time. But of you keep sitting through the same movie it can't be that bad. If men are afraid of getting a girl pregnant, then they go handjob, BJ, anal, or condom. If they don't use protection than their actions say that are not really afraid. Just like the club women. If you are a woman use…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 02:03 AM
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If you are really in danger and not imagined danger, you remove yourself from the situation and do not continue to frequent the establishment or area for fun. Actions reveal the gravity of the words.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:43 AM
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And when they get middle-aged, they will fondly remember the club days and somehow it won't seem as traumatic, now that no one notices them. Cue the "Men Find Me Invisible" articles. Oh, those lost days of youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 01:16 AM
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It doesn't surprise me. Some of these touches were pretty ordinary, arm and back. It's the club. Don't like it, stay home. Clubs are very noisy so unless you want to be the annoying person with the megaphone shouting, you have to move in close to speak. And when people move in close in situations involving alcohol they often touch to stabilize themselves and to hear the other person. Frankly, I'd be more concerned with an epidemic of bad breath. Seriously? None of these women would say a word if…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 12:51 AM
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I'm still not sure what you are talking about but our definition of oneitis may be different. In the Bible one of the patriarchs, I think Joseph fell so hard for one girl that he worked years for his future FIL to get her. All of this happened before romantic love. The FIL at the wedding veiled his daughter and Joseph married her. But the FIL tricked him and he actually married the wrong, less desirable sister. So he worked some more for his FIL to get the oneitis sister. He stayed married to bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 12:32 AM
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With number one you are taking the very old and mixing with the very new. "In order to escape the 'disposability' their woman needs to know on some deep level that she is replaceable. In other words, that he has other options, even if he doesn't exercise them." There was no tug of war until very recently. Monogamous marriage arose to supply betas with women because the other rival form of marriage, polgyny, left to many single men out of society as outcasts. The whole monogamous marriage that we…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 11:40 PM
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I do the same. Now a puppy in a dog stroller, different story. Dog slobber is cute. Baby drool, meh not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 05:09 AM
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Nah, not muffin I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:52 AM
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Yeah, when you see what parenting really involves the illusion of days in the park, cute cooing are ruined. Green pea shit in the diapers, smeared all over the kid's bottom, the warmth of formula running down your back because the burping cloth didn't catch it. Nose runs. Teething. Spitting out food, throwing food, the screaming terrible two's. All this before the days of disposable pull-ups for toilet training. Prescraping shit in the toilet from the cloth pull-ups, then swishing the cloth pull…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:48 AM
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Just one muffin will do. (The second picture had muffins beside the bag.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:39 AM
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I'm chosing better body.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:22 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:06 AM
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As an older child, twelve years older, I did so much nanny-ing that any desire to have kids was destroyed by my two much younger siblings. So I'm child free by choice. However, do think that most women want a family but due to the economic prosperity of the west, not living in an agricultural based society, health care to ensure kids live and thrive, and birth control to prevent "oops", there are not many reasons for women in affluent countries to have multiple kids. But women do prefer stable g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 02:47 AM
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My husband who is very traditional minded came home just like any regular day. I was in shock Trump won but not complaining because I "knew" he voted for him. He looks at me and says, with an oh well attitude, "I voted for Hillary." I had no idea he would go with her over Trump. His views have changed somewhat because of Trump. Just a week or two ago, whIle watching TV, he says "You know, I think there are more racial issues now then before Trump." To which I replied, "they were always there und…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 01:28 AM
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I believe Trump for some was a representation of the idealized man who makes his own rules and succeeds, something which would appeal to men who feel emasculated and weak in their societel position. For your average working man, he enticed them with the promise of jobs and job protection. He was going to MAGA and the struggling working class needed a hero and an advocate for them. He was the underdog warrior. For the racists he represented an opening for the beginning of a return to white Americ…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 01:10 AM
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Do your really want to see this woman with a gun? Incompetent people don't belong in law enforcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 12:41 AM
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Going home to move back in with your parents is giving up. Relocating to be close to family is very smart for a single woman with no kids or family who recently faced a breast cancer scare. Next, time she may not be so lucky and end up dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 12:19 AM
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She she relocate back home close to her family, continue in her job, seek financial counseling, maybe personal therapy and AA if she is not able to stop drinking. And learn to love the idea of being a stepmom. Now for the guy dating her, run.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 11:27 PM
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I thought guys weren't concerned with other men's drama. Anyway, where has LewisCross gone? Did PPD ban him?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:28 PM
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You guys must have had great parents. Love theTRP bit about women loving their kids. Lots of children are not loved unconditionally or at all by their parents. TRP should take mothers off the pedestal too. It is society that dictates how motherhood is experienced and the role of mother. In another time and place unwanted kids were sold, killed, or left to die outdoors. There is no such thing as love. A man loves a woman because of the way she makes him feel. A woman loves a man for the same reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 03:32 AM
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I don't think MGTOW are looking for anything but to live life free of women. They have their answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 12:09 AM
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She really didn't chose him over her career. The last paragraph indicates she was employed in one location, then moved back closer to him and had employment, but they both grew tired of her commute and he invited her to work with him. She had her career the whole time just chose to change the location of her career and then left to work with him when the commute got in the way. She has turned herself into a martyr for love but she truly sacrificed noting but a change of location.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 03:46 PM
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This is how I dated. Dating for me was not strictly about fun but each guy was screened for his potential as a BF and after I turned sixteen as a potential husband. Because I didn't want kids there were more serious discussions has than your average girl. No point in falling for a guy who wanted kids when that was a no go for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 02:52 PM
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When you keep running into women like that you must ask yourself what is it about you that attracts such women. You are locked into a pattern of chosing the wrong women but expecting a different outcome. Everyone has a type they go for. But if this type is toxic you must either force yourself to change your type or forgo getting disappointed by the same repeated outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 08:43 PM
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Been there, did it, and still doing it as are other women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 08:17 PM
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So you are saying she marries a guy making good money and he stays because his money got him an attractive wife and she doesn't resent him because he has money. But under your description, he will leave anyway because the once attractive wife will become old and being a higher income guy he will get a more attractive and younger woman. So she loses either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 07:49 PM
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Or, she could judge him on the merits of his character and the reasons he is broke, stand by him, encourage him, and grow with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 06:34 PM
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My sister was the favorite and she bullied my brother. He just basically lived in his room. With girls bullying guys it is more psychological. Now as an adult, he is very shut off and a loner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 12:46 PM
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Marriage has never been known as a happy institution. The men complain as a form of comradity and the women do the same. A lot of times there are one-up stories as to whose wife or husband is worse. It is a way to safely release stress and bond with members of the same sex.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/18 12:01 AM
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When a man knows himself and is certain of who he is and what he wants out of life or a relationship this knowledge of self is called frame. A man with a strong frame gets what he wants and a man with a weak frame settles for what he can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 04:28 PM
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Men are great to talk with. Women are too indirect and want you to read their mind and then get attitude when you don't. Work setting; Man: "I need you to work on x,y,z today. Done Woman: "When you get a chance....". Got busy with something else. Woman: "Is x,y,z done?" No. Woman: "Well it needed to be done today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 02:17 PM
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A man with good character and morals is hard to find. So I brought up marriage to him and he agreed. We discussed out roles and married as teenagers. I saw the boy become a young adult and the young adult become a man who then became a middle-aged aged man. Some girls wanted to date and party, some wanted to go to college, but I wanteda husband and I will forever be grateful to him. That is the why, no romance, no dramatic story but two kids who decided to make a go of it in 1988. Thirty years l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 03:29 AM
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All of the girls and women I know dated and married guys of similar income and looks. I actually married down the economic ladder by marrying a guy with a poor, food stamp single mom and deadbeat dad. My mom was a teacher and father a factory worker who divorced but my lifestyle was above his economically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 03:14 AM
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I has a conversation with another poster as to why I did not think "in love" is necessary for marriage and can actually be detrimental because it focuses too much on feeling over substance displayed by action. In traditional wedding vows, the promise is made "to love" not to be "in love." But people tend to substitute one for the other. The quote reminded me of an apt description for marriage. You may not remember but a long time back you asked me something to the effect of how I came to my unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 03:10 AM
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She's only been married since 2015. So are you really asking how can average guys land hot women out of their league, as in how can you change their preferences but keep the male preference for hotness? You can't. What you can do is date and marry a girl similar in SMV to you and stop trying to date out of your league while ignoring the less desirable women who might actually love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 02:54 AM
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"Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgment and decision." Fromm
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 02:28 AM
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Who says he can't?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 01:13 AM
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Her youth by itself will give her an extra hotness point or two. The 20 somerhing may not be hot to her male peers but to a guy 40 and up she is hot in comparison to what he has at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 01:07 AM
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Check in on them when she is old and saggy around 50 and he is screwing late 20s and 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 10:21 PM
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I am attracted to body parts such as hands and lips. If I can imagine having sex with you without being revolted then you are good to go with me. I'm more interested in the performance than the looks of the performer. When I did date, height was not that important and dated guys equal in height to me, but did marry a taller man with lovely hands. I also dated thin, average build, and chubby guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 10:18 PM
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No. Let's say the man is good looking and she is good looking and both are in their 20s. She may feel confident that she can compete with women of similar age but this will change around her 30s. If her husband ages a lot better than her, he will no longer be pulling women close to her age who she could compete against but much younger women who she no longer can compete against. A hot 20-something will beat out a "looks good for her age" 30-something. Her inability to compete will cause her sev…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 09:58 PM
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That slow burn you describe gets tossed aside very easily for the new burning cinder. Women will dump a husband for the new in love feeling and the men who stay married will spend all their free time with the mistress while pretending they are full time husbands and not basically leaving their wife divorced while married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 04:49 AM
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Yes but never to the same intensity. New love cannot be recaptured with an LTR. The thrill can never be the same. It is like watching a suspense movie and being on edge. Watch the movie twice and the tension is lessened. You may still enjoy the movie but you can't recapture the original feelings the movie generated the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 04:36 AM
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If it is work than you are not talking about the same type of "in love" I am. I am talking about that crazy in love that blinds you into chosing a partner not suited for marriage. This type of in love takes not work because it is chemical and blinds both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 04:22 AM
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The spark goes away anyway because monogamy kills it. The in love high is not sustainable for most that is one of the reasons why couples are at greater risk of divorce within the first five years of marriage. They think in love lasts forever. It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 04:13 AM
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If I had to guess these women were probably blinded by being "in love." The "in love" feeling led them to overlook moral character flaws. So, if you want a LTR don't let being in love fool you into making a bad life partner choice. Just ignore the in love feeling because it is just the drug that gets you hooked to the person and will fade because monogamy kills novelty and the cheating begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 01:03 AM
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Women have a tendency to be more sexually fluid but there are lesbians. It has nothing to do with tingles or BB since in the US they can now marry and women are increasingly less reliant on male income.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 01:59 PM
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I imagine I'm the guy because I know the girls are faking it. At least with the guy you get a proof shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 01:43 PM
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If it works for them. But somehow having a romantic getaway and then being handed the total cost invoice for 50/50 takes the umph out of it. Most women still want their romantic adventures and to be reminded why they chose the right guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 04:19 AM
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Since you say mostly men, I will assume women can post here and not have to go under automod. Casual sex tends to be equal because the encounter is so short that gender role expectations are negated by the extremely short duration. In a relationship, a man spending money on a woman is a requirement IMO especially if married. A man who refuses to spend money and demands that every bill or night out be split 50/50 will not be viewed as a good provider and she will lose respect for him consciously …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 04:08 AM
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Around 830 women a day die from childbirth and/or related complications. http://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/maternal-mortality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 03:53 AM
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What are you really upset about? You have a GF, but yet on another post you are bitter because you can't plate another girl you have the hots for. So you lose your shit that a male friend picks up your GF while you are actively posting about another girl you want to get with who leaves you bitter because she plays games and won't get with you. Now you have the audacity to worry that your GF is cheating with the guy who picked her up. You are actively trying to cheat so turnabout is fair play. Ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 12:59 AM
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You are bitter because you felt entitled to her returning your feelings like she owed you which she didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 04:45 PM
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This is really not as gendered as you are making it. As a woman, I would have gotten a employee to help because women can't help with other women's kids either. Just like of a kid is showing out at a restaurant, got to take it. Movie theater for a Rated R movie and the kid is screaming, got to take it. Moms do no wrong. If a woman tried to help that kid, if mom is a bitch it won't end up well either. Because helping the child implies that the mom is a slack ads who shouldn't care for a puppy muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 03:09 PM
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They say AWALT means AWALT to varying degrees. But when you read their writings or FRs and advice given they imply that all women share a strong uncontrollable predisposition to branchswing. In short, yes if they really believed this they would only plate and certainly not be interested in a LTR or marriage. I suspect most are just posting to impress the young and gullible. Because to really believe half the shit they say the logical outcome would be MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 04:34 AM
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That is a bit of a jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 02:56 AM
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The weirdest is that most describe hypergamy and branch swinging as a given for every woman. But, then look for a LTR or marriage. And don't forget the divorce rape cautionary tales. The most damaging is the above attitudes because a good relationship relies on trust, and when it is just your turn why bother. It's like showing how the casino operates but thinking you can beat the house. One or two might but most won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 02:27 AM
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From observing over age 30 family members dating, it is getting the man or woman who doesn't come with relationship war wounds, a crazy ex, and kids in tow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 02:17 AM
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You don't have to fall in love to have a GF.. Just find a girl you are content with who you enjoy fucking. Let her fall in love with you. Being in love blinds you because it is a form of temporary insanity. Lose the crazy, gain perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 02:12 AM
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Marrying and older man with money makes her smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 08:50 PM
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I'm female and prefer heavy metal. Every thing in life is not strictly based on gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 04:29 PM
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If you are married, cheat and your spouse kills you, I'm the dream juror your defense attorney wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 12:36 PM
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Letting random strangers with gender issues advise you is always a great idea. All advice will most certainty be objective and not biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 12:34 PM
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Slut shaming was one of the productive ways society kept hypergamy in check. You can't reign in hypergamy without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 02:00 AM
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Women are known to fake orgasm. So the men who think they are wonderful in bed may rightly think so because their partner gives all indications they are by her performance art. http://www.nbcnews.com/id/38006774/ns/health-sexual_health/t/sorry-guys-percent-women-admit-faking-it/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 04:46 PM
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Have something new and original worth discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 04:29 AM
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So, you still live your parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 02:04 AM
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Money turns a woman on because money represents power and power arouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 06:13 PM
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So let both dad and mom stay home together and raise the child. When the house gets foreclosed on they can tell the bank, "but we engaging in unpaid work."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 05:54 AM
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I think my too long reply further down explains in detail better. But yes both the SAHW and SAHM are financially dependent like a child upon their working husband. It is the circumstance of their financial dependence which casts them as non-adult in the financial arena, not their personality or them as individuals. Once they enter the workforce they take on adult financial responsibility of bringing in money to support their family by sharing the financial burden of paying bills just like the hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 04:48 AM
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I'm talking about a dependent being less adult like in circumstance. A SAHM is just as financially dependent upon her husband as a teenager who still needs his parents to give him an allowance. Dad is footing the bill for the mom to stay at home just like he is footing the bill for a teenager in school. Even if the couple both worked and saved money for the wife to stay home, this income saved by the wife is similar to a teenager working and saving up for a car. The money saved by her is used no…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 01:30 AM
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I'm not equal to my husband in power but as an individual I am. And no, outside of this sub no one knows this, not friends or family.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 11:42 PM
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If you feel that way about higher level dread then are you really red? Sometimes I think guys associate with MRP to make a stand for masculinity and not what the group really teaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 07:30 PM
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I like things the way they are now. But since we are doing a little bit of Internet fantasizing why not. I would like to change legal marriage to recognize egalitarian and conservative Tradcon-ish forms of marriage which are distinct forms of marriage. The egalitarian marriage would be subject to existing laws, provided the law works towards fairness of outcome regarding gender upon no fault divorce. The conservative Tradcon-ish marriage would allow men and women the right to require corporal pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 05:20 PM
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He is doing what every man or woman does towards the end of a relationship. Hope it can be saved. Now his after break-up post will probably give you the RP word vomit you seek.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 03:17 PM
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I read the most up voted comments. There were such gems as she is immature, don't waste your time, she is cheating, move on. If people were defending OP, they were buried way down. The vast majority of replies and those up voted agreed with OP that his GF was not behaving appropriately. Exactly how long did it take you to find that one comment siding with his GF? And when you found it, why portray it as representing a majority view for that thread with the top comments are siding with the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 02:33 PM
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RP works around the contradiction you be in a short by saying post wall women branchswing to men they perceive to be better. The man may not be better on paper in a side-by-side comparison but he is perceived, she feels, he is better than her current guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 12:53 PM
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Well for whatever reason the OP is all up for it. Her life. But once her guy goes down this path, the whole "Oh, Captain my captain" romance thing will quickly turn sour when she realizes his ship is christened Titanic 2. But she can always dingy out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 05:21 AM
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BP: Take a bath RP: Take a bath
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 01:45 AM
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It's apparent that you are not having the sexlife you want or you would not be so fixated on this. In ultimate BP fashion, have you communicated your needs or shown your husband what you enjoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 01:20 AM
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I read a RP post recently about a woman being too "fond" of Mr. Buzzie and the guy got insecure. I wonder if the guy realizes that some point women find it easier to do themselves when guys pull this shit. I read the link. There were two suggestions, the above book scenario and the story about the guy who fingered his wife in the bathroom and stopped before climax, where the man is advised to deliberately deny and control his wife's orgasm. And then they wonder why they get starfish. Why not. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 12:42 AM
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Do you need sex ed or something? Turned on is very different than dripping wet. Dripping wet is an indicator of extreme arousal. If you are fine with your partner leaving you hanging, cool. But it would piss the shit out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 12:15 AM
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"Wife is doing dishes? Pick her up, carry her to the garage, pin her to a wall, and makeout with her hard and fast; then just fucking leave and go sit somewhere with a book. She’ll be in the garage dripping wet wondering what in the actual fuck just happened to her." MERP fantasy. Most women will not be dripping wet. If she is and you know it but refuse to carry through and get her off, she won't be wondering what happened but grab the vibrator and finish what you could not compete. Don't even g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 12:04 AM
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This is not mystery but a form of dread so she can wonder between his dieting, lifting, DNGAF, IOIs is he out meeting someone. The better and more adult way to provide absence to make the heart grow fonder is to say "Hey, babe, me and the guys are hanging out Saturday. Just wanted to give you a heads up."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 11:46 PM
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"Woman: “Where are you going?” Man: “Out/Who knows/I’ll figure it out when I get there/To Slay Dragons/To pick up a hooker/etc……….” The thing is with the above MERPs would go batshit crazy if the roles were reversed and the woman said "going wherever, I'll have Chad text you when I leave." I don't do games like this. Nor do I respond to actions done to deliberately to manipulate me into feeling insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 11:38 PM
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Not going to lie, I sort of fucked over myself but that is on me. But women will move in on your guy while pretending to be your friend. So that is one aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 08:18 PM
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Pretty much what the New Testament teaches about how one should act towards his fellow man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 08:15 PM
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IRL I just get used. Every female friend just takes and takes, by burdening me with their problems in life and never are there when I have a problem. So I dumped my friends and didn't look for any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 08:13 PM
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Pass
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 08:03 PM
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Anyone can cheat. All you can do is try to stack the deck in your favor. Who is the most likely to spend the weekend passed out drunk? An alcoholic, a former alcoholic, or a guy who doesn't drink. Which one would you chose if you valued sobriety?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 08:02 PM
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I don't have female friends because I don't trust women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 07:59 PM
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I married my husband for his morals and character. When I dated I didn't go for the Chad bad boys, and there were plenty in the 1980s, because they don't make good husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 07:57 PM
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"Tingles Uber Alles" roughly translates to feelings above all if I am not mistaken. Pretty sure you used this term in reference to the wife. But really this statement reflects the need of both husband and wife. You don't really love your spouse. What you love is how that person makes you feel. Does a man love a harpy wife who makes him feel emasculated? He might stay married for the kids or fear of divorce rape but staying is not the same as loving. Does a women love a man who berates her and ig…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 07:54 PM
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Most guys, but not this guy because he doesn't even get himself. "Little whiney bitch"....what else am I to be but myself? AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 07:31 PM
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So really you just gave useless advice so this guy can blow up his marriage and life after that DV charge. I mean there is amoral and then their is amoral advice combined with irresponsible advice rendering it useless advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 07:21 PM
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No. Domestication will turn out to be losing and the relationship will crumble. She will think they are the same but the likely outcome will tell a different story. He will either truly settle down and she will get divorced because "he changed and is now boring" or he resumes his old ways and she will divorce because he is inattentive, doing his own thing, and probably plating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 07:16 PM
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You guys have to get narratives straight. Either divorce rape is real and women "cry" abuse all the time to the judge or they don't. If this guy does not have some type of established kink in his marriage, then spanking would be considered abuse. It's like you totally forgot about AWALT when it is divorce time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 06:59 PM
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A woman taming the badboy is increased status among her female peers. She did what the other girls failed to do. Yes his badboy ways gave her tingles but marriage gives her status among other females and tingles for a few years. Why go through the trouble? Adventure. Arousal. Status by marriage. Rich guys are hard to find and rich doesn't necessarily mean rich and crazy Chad badboy. The end goal isn't domestication but winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 06:20 PM
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Pretty much all of them. It is one of my favorite shows. But I have missed some of the last season and this one. I think Gloria and the Dad have a way better relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 04:04 PM
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I always thought Claire showed mild contempt for Phil. Her character comes of to me as being stuck with him, like she really would enjoy a redo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 03:59 PM
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Lee Holloway and E. Edward Grey from the movie "The Secretary".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 03:55 PM
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Why? Nothing special about the story
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 01:07 PM
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See it in the middle. Guess that ha what I get for not reading the whole post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 04:44 AM
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In highschool. I had a crush on a guy in one of my classss "Mark". One day Mark came by my work with his friend. His friend asked me out and told me that Mark was too shy to ask me out but he asked Mark if it would be okay to ask me out. He did. We dated about a year and married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 04:40 AM
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You forgot to issue a spoiler alert.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 04:22 AM
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What is up with having to be a catlady. What is wrong with reptile lady? It's always cats. Die alone and they will dine on you a lot sooner than a dog or a reptile, unless your reptile has free range and is very large.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 04:21 AM
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It is not gatekeeping when I say "for me" but an opinion. You have not addressed any of criticisms in the article I linked which articulate in greater detail points of contention I'm skimming over. But I'm assuming since you run your BDSM off of Bitter Moon and FSOG that you are more partial to imitating hand-fed media images. Too bad the article linked didn't include video and maybe you would have watched it to understand what FSOG got wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 11:21 PM
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It is about a woman willing to do acts of BDSM she does not enjoy in order to hook this guy. The movie you are defending is BP all the way. Hate to share part of the ending to the movie series but she shows him love and he settles into marriage with a kid on the way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 11:02 PM
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So you too were fooled by the glitter of that which wasn't gold. If you want a good BDSM movie, this wasn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 10:48 PM
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No I'm not on fetlife, but I do believe the practioners in the article linked do a much better job explaining the how FSOG got BDSM wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 10:44 PM
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Had to go to the website. So I'll explain briefly why FSOG was shItty kink which incorporated some BDSM props. The girl was not a sub but a girl engaging in acts to get the guy. She did not really enjoy pain for pleasure or domination for being controlled. She played along to get the guy and sometimes enjoyed the kink in the process. He was never in control and she was never under his control. Wearing the outfit and buying the props looks like BDSM on the outside, but BDSM happens in the mind as…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 06:13 PM
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Many RPers do not and refuse to understand what a total, non-BDSM piece of shit FSOG was. It was boring and he was not a Dom and she was not a sub. There was absolutely no dominance in FSOG. This movie is nothing but a chick flick with some kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 05:50 PM
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".. "he took her to the back alley and had his way with her". " Really? This needs to be explained to you. I thought you were RP. He took what he wanted and she liked his taking. Pretty RP 101 aka "caveman sex". Dominance. And, who cares what I find exciting. You need to figure out what gets your wife going. She is dropping hints. No one can hold your dick and do it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 05:21 PM
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My mom did not suffer until her affair partner ditched her. Then the tears began. My dad didn't get the chance to look after his own kids because he was kicked out the house. My mom was a teacher who taubut he a shift factory worker. He went on to live in a rundown mobile home He did not go to the mall to meet a woman. He took the kids to the mall. The woman he met just so happened to be on her break and noticed him. Small talk. Some dates. Married. Had he not been at the mall on that day, at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 06:21 PM
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My parents divorced when they were in their mid-to-late forties. Mom did the dating thing, got a LTT, broke up and invested her life in her children and grandkids. Dad, who was a meticulous man who kept his place clean, had a set routine, and was a very black and white thinking guy remarried. He dated but knew women were looking for a paycheck because he confided in me that the women didn't really want to know him but wanted to know his occupation. One day while it was his weekend for child cust…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 02:18 PM
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Congrats on making a new friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 06:53 AM
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Men have both a spontaneous desire and responsive desire sexuality. I've read commented on this before and got shot down because it does not fit the TRP narrative or they don't understand the phrasing. It is very hard to change the "men are visual" narrative which leaves no room for anything else. All done. Human sexuality is fascinating. But for all our new and open-minded views on sex, many of these are contained within the narrative of "men are visual", "sex is dominance", "men want sex all t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 01:02 AM
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A convenient set up there. "Show me the proof". Attach research. "We researchers with every single person 24/7 from the date of commitment to their death? Self-reporting bias." M'kay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 10:10 PM
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You do realize that commoners also cheat. Adultery is not the exclusive domain of the top percentage. Most people aren't rockstars so why base the phrase "options" on a group of people who do not represent the life experience of the masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 09:44 PM
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Most people don't commit adultery. We will never know their exact reasons for not doing so. But because most married people do not commit adultery and the sexes freely intermingle in society, at work, at school, extracurricular activities there is good reason to think that non-cheaters are making conscious decisions to pass options by.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 09:23 PM
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Maybe the only greater good is that their conscious would not allow them to engage in a behavior they themselves would not like done to them. Not all sale their personal convictions for pennies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 09:18 PM
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You can dissect and over think any phase to such a point that its meaning is so distorted that the initial phrase is rendered meaningless. An example, "murder is wrong." Why? We are all going to die any way so the crime of murder is not about killing and taking a life, but stealing time away from the person. It is not about death but theft. Back to the general undisected original phrase. If all that prevents infidelity is the lack of options, then the adultery rate wood be much higher. There are…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 09:07 PM
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"No that’s bullshit, I’m personally faithful and I personally have options,..." You made my point. You say you have options to cheat but stay faithful. Your faithfulness in the face of options disproves the idea that you are only faithful because you can't find any other woman. You are faithful because you have chosen to be and bypass the options you mentioned. Don't know why you got so triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 08:56 PM
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As to your corollary, "as faithful,....as the alternative options we have," this is said by persons who believe that their lack of fidelity is a given for all and that no one is capable of acting based upon their personal convictions. It is their personal excuse and rationalization for engaging in societal frowned upon behavior and ultimately refusal to be accountable and stand by a choice of action they made.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 08:49 PM
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Money buys respect, power, infuence. Getting a woman based on good looks is not much different than getting one based on money. The woman derives enjoyment from the good looking middle class guy and a huge lifestyle boost from the rich guy and maybe advancement for her career due to the influence his money buys. One guy is her eye candy used for his looks and the other rich guy is her benefactor. What works for the military is for the military. But the military ultimately is funded by money too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 09:56 PM
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They got the cash, cars, houses, and a rotation of beautiful women. Sounds like TRP wet dream. To think otherwise suggest that jealousy or envy may be at working in viewing these men as trash for getting prime pussy and the best lifestyle money can buy. Their winning is a reflection of another's failure to thrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 09:02 PM
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Well I'm an introverted outsider with low self-esteem. This had held me back more in life than anything else. If I had believed in myself I probably would have gone to college and made something of myself. But insecurity and self doubt won. Doesn't help I've been depressed since age 8. The traits I admire in others are being of good character and morals. How someone treats another tells me most everything I need to know about their reliability as a friend or partner. As far as my shortcomings an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 03:28 PM
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Most men and women do mate guard to a certain extent. I employ the Mike Pence or Billy Graham rule for myself and require the same for my spouse as precautions against temptation. This was all known and discussed upfront. But you ultimately cannot control whether or not your partner leaves for another and cannot make him stay when they he is ready to leave. Each person must mate guard themselves and close off their own avenues of temptation. When both husband and wife do this the chances of adul…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 02:45 PM
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Many women do want kids and having a man in their life to become a mother is now optional. So I'm not sure where you get the idea that women only have kids because a man makes them. There are plenty of single mothers by choice, lesbian couples having kids. If your last line is implying that a man would have made me nave kids you are wrong. I would never partner with a man who wanted kids to begin with. When dating I screened out the guys who wanted a family. It was not fair to them to continue d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 01:17 PM
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The childbirth rates are dropping in the west so this narrative and man/woman/offspring will need to be adjusted and hypergamy will become more focused on status and looks with less regard for offspring. I don't have kids because I didn't inherit the mommy gene and according to falling western birthrates more women are saying no to children or limiting their numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 05:56 AM
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What?! Men posting on social media for group validation and status among other men. That can't be because TRP adherents say only women engage in the social media validation Olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 01:12 AM
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But there are different qualities of wine and values assigned thereto. Men may be said to age like wine. But which wine? Boxed wine, or that low value twist off top wine found at your local gas station, but most will not age like and a high quality vintage wine which goes up and up in value over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 10:37 PM
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True but I think no one has a valid reason to be secure in a relationship, and if they are they are either naive or they have an over inflated ego and think way too highly of themselves. Lots of people who thought themswlves secire get blindsided by breakups and divorce. A little bit of personal insecurity keeps one humble and one's ego in check and makes for a better, more cooperative partner. Some insecurity may actually allow you to be the best version of yourself in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 08:59 PM
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Answering from a female, no pill prespective. Insecure women are the best, as long as they are not obsessively insecure and overly needy as a result. A low level of insecurity keeps both partners from complacency in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 08:06 PM
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I include the "firewall" because where I live paid sexual touch is illegal. If prostitution was legal I imagine the man or woman who just wanted to cuddle and pay nicely for it would be a much sought after clientele for the easy money. But prostitution is illegal here so men and women who want to be cuddled have to find a cuddle party or take their chances with an unregulated cuddler service provider. Legalized prostitution would give the seeker access to a regulated industry with safety measure…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 04:50 PM
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Why would I be suspect of two attractive guys watching football by the fire? This does not make sense as a response to what I typed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 04:38 PM
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Yes I could be attracted to a man who had a "professional service" cuddle buddy. It's just a different form of legal paid touch. Ever had a massage by a certified massage therapist at an upscale legit facility? Hiring a cuddle buddy and using his or her services is not much different. Person touching person in a non-sexual manner for the non-sexual gratification of the one seeking the service. Right now cuddling services are in their infancy and it remains to be seen if this "takes off" or dies …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 04:17 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/affectionado/201308/what-lack-affection-can-do-you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 04:01 PM
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There are informal cuddle professionals who charge for their services and cuddle parties. The fact that yuri friend is getting her cuddles for free makes her smarter than those who pay. I see nothing wrong with getting a cuddle buddy provided you can find one without secret hopes of becoming a sex buddy. Humans need to be touched. Female. No pill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 02:51 PM
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I'm voting by flip of the coin. At this point, I believe the politicians represent themselves and not the people. Or I might just stay home and order a pizza. That would be just as effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 02:45 PM
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Never said I believe the criticisms were valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 07:44 AM
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Relationships have never been easy for the most part. The complaints about women are almost as old as time. Each gender sees the flaws in the other gender. Look up some ancient views of women and their lack of inherent qualities according to the men of that time giving voice to the said complaints. TRP and MGTOW are just the modern versions and continuation of a script set a long time ago by men who seek to control and do not like that women prompt uncontrolled feelings of longing in them. I bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 03:40 AM
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Looks may attract the man but a good, pleasing personality keeps him. Not all women get approached a lot. Average and below don't do well in social settings, besides being quick pump and dumps. Attractive and above women get the male attention in the same social settongs. Men have a stronger sex drive for more partners at any given time and women areore prone to lose interest in a monogamous BF or husband after several years, due to boredom and wanting addition males. Neither are naturally set f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 12:16 AM
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