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you're saying you were gonna tell her she's cute directly anyways, so basically you were going to reopen. Why not do that straight away? If you want to ease the tension before the open you can calibrate ("I know this is a but random" or similar)
/r/seduction04/09/19 07:41 AM
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Todd V actually said it's the worst possible opener because by asking for directions you are basically you're asking the girl to tell you to go away. You didn't show premise, so it's either "what does this guy want from me" or "he is trying to pretend he's just looking for coffee and has something to hide". Also even if she stayed you were going into interview mode and would probably end up drowning her in questions. You can avoid it by practicing cold reads for starters. It's advised that begin…
/r/seduction04/09/19 07:38 AM
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It's a shitty environment, but if you want to have a chance - try doing it with very low intensity and not-give-a-fuck attitude. Like, if you say "hey" in a very relaxed yet confident way without blocking her physically you don't put a lot of pressure and it's easier. I had a few good interactions in trams and almost every time it went like that. With one girl I even went with "hey. you studying?"
/r/seduction26/06/19 02:16 PM
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Not that I'm qualified to give any advice, but I was an inexperienced 19 year old who read models a year ago. I'm still shit when it comes to game, but some helpful things I did were: Manson is great, but don't believe all PUAs are assholes, check them out and think for yourself. Some RSD stuff and Todd V are great IMO. Find someone who's also interested in this to go out with you. Or even better someone more experienced than you. It will be much less awkward and you can get valuable feedback. M…
/r/seduction10/06/19 02:10 PM
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Thanks man! I love Todd, I even watched The System, but I find it hard to put his ideas into practice. It seems to me you have to already be on some good basic level to improve using his advice.
/r/seduction21/05/19 09:30 PM
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Thank you, I think you're right but it's a bit depressing. Friendships require so much time to build and you have fewer choices in social circles, so looks like it is much more difficult.
/r/seduction21/05/19 09:28 PM
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Yep, now I see that I was in my head worrying about physical escalation too much. Still, I have yet to fuck up a few interactions before I learn to do it naturally.
/r/seduction26/04/19 01:15 PM
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I know, it's fine, I can cold approach and keep conversations going. All I'm saying is that "say hi and your brain will do the work" doesn't get you very far, unless you're very good at improvising and have no anxiety.
/r/seduction20/04/19 04:25 PM
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The drawback of 1 and 2 is that I would say "hi" and then freeze until it's awkward and creepy. For some reason my brain doesn't automatically try to fill the void :D
/r/seduction20/04/19 07:21 AM
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Great post man, thank you!
/r/seduction16/04/19 09:54 PM
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Should I shut up and run away as soon as they mention their boyfriends? I'm keeping the conversation going just for the sake of it, not looking to steal someone's gf.
/r/seduction15/04/19 11:06 AM
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Thanks mate! Haven't counted but probably getting to 100 mark. Mostly rejections, but at least I had a few very pleasant conversations and a few flaky contacts. When did you start getting results?
/r/seduction10/04/19 10:34 PM
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Haven't gotten a single date from daygame yet, but I noticed that some of those tips worked well to keep the interaction going, thanks for the post! Saved :)
/r/seduction10/04/19 09:06 PM
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It's true, that you approach by yourself, but it helps my mood a lot. I approach more and sessions last longer. Also you can approach groups of two this way. Having like minded people with you is very beneficial.
/r/seduction05/04/19 09:13 PM
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It improves my social skills and self esteem massively. Also, it's still a pretty low volume if you want to see any results. I had tons of rejections, but also a few really charming fun conversations. Those were definitely worth it.
/r/seduction05/04/19 09:11 PM
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I'm far from an expert, but it sounds great. I like to throw in the word "date" as a joke since it makes my intentions clear and is fun, I think you used it smoothly with the movie comment. Groups are definitely harder and I hadn't had any success with such attempts yet. As for getting bigger volumes, something that helps me a lot - get a daygame wingman. I found one guy on reddit, then as we went out - bumped into another daygamer and he added me to my city's PUA messenger chat. Now it's easy t…
/r/seduction05/04/19 02:13 PM
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I recently opened random girls in trams with "hey. studying?" or "nice shirt with flowers" and the conversations were great. I think it's more about "how", not "what". Also, girls do not get approached that much every day, real life isn't tinder. I spent too much time caring about openers instead of opening.
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:08 AM
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Not exactly what you're looking for but Models and The Rational Male are pretty good.
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:04 AM
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She didn't initiate and refused to go to another place, so I doubt it
/r/seduction21/03/19 12:12 PM
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I study a ton of theory, and then do some random shit in real life, wondering why I haven't used what I have learned xD
/r/seduction28/02/19 07:06 AM
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Great job on calibration, cold read and qualification, I hope I get to that level soon :D
/r/seduction28/02/19 06:54 AM
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I get your point and you are right that pushing further would be low value and disrespectful. Thanks for taking the time to write this wall of text, I appreciate it :)
/r/seduction24/02/19 07:27 AM
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How can you lose friends? If you tell a girl you like her more than a friend and she ditches your friendship - she wasn't that good of a friend to begin with.
/r/seduction24/02/19 06:32 AM
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Everything makes sense except the last few sentences. Why can't I have attractive friends that I wouldn't mind having sex with?
/r/seduction24/02/19 06:28 AM
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Every rejection is acceptable. "Thanks, no" can be said both in a polite and a "fuck off" way. I think that had I been a woman, had a guy approached me without being a jerk - I would genuinely thank him, not just say "no".
/r/seduction19/02/19 07:24 PM
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Should definitely get her a chocolate bar for woman's day :D
/r/seduction19/02/19 07:18 PM
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Maybe, but it's probably better than sounding needy. What are your preferred alternatives?
/r/seduction19/02/19 07:17 PM
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Many girls I know like to wear rings for no reason. She seemed attracted to me, so I thought I shouldn't miss a chance. I have no interest in fucking up other people's relationships :)
/r/seduction19/02/19 07:13 PM
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Thanks! I think it's a pretty usual way to react though :)
/r/seduction19/02/19 07:09 PM
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He is good looking, but looks very confident and teases them well. Maybe his "game" isn't perfect because he's just direct, but you can't just ignore everything he does and say it's just looks.
/r/seduction17/02/19 10:29 AM
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Check out James Tusk. He has compilations of rejections.
/r/seduction17/02/19 06:51 AM
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Go there with zero expectation, think of the fact that you went there as a success already You haven't been to a party for 3 years - make curiosity your main goal This party is organized by school, so people have something in common and if you approach - it won't be totally random. You can go with boring openers like "how do you like the classes" or "how long have you been dancing" and it should work easily. If you go alone and haven't been at parties for a long time you may think "oh, those guy…
/r/seduction16/02/19 10:22 AM
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I asked girls out twice in my social circle and they had no idea it was supposed to be a date.
/r/seduction16/02/19 10:13 AM
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From my experience: The faster you ask her out - the more it will be considered a date. If you talked a couple of time and ask her out for drinks - sounds like a date. If you've known each other for a few months and you ask her out - you'd have to be more direct and tell her explicitly you're asking her out for a date, not just drinks.
/r/seduction16/02/19 10:10 AM
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Say "hi", when she pulls her headphones out - say you were testing the noise isolation of hear headphones. I tried it today and could talk to her for a minute, she was pretty nice about it. Guess it can work as an opener in such case :)
/r/seduction14/02/19 09:51 PM
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Wow, first of all thanks a lot for such detailed response, I really appreciate it! Actually I read a couple of books and watched lots of videos, I just never approached groups like that, so I tried the default direct cold approach opener to see what happens (spoiler: not much :D). Yes, my buddy didn't have a lot of time left and I had to go. It was impossible to hear what they were talking about, also there were no obvious things to comment on in their clothing/appearance. Usually it's easy if a…
/r/seduction13/02/19 10:01 PM
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I think she was so unreceptive, that anything less direct would be creepy and/or needy.
/r/seduction12/02/19 10:07 PM
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I feel you! On one hand, girls who go to clubs should be more easily approachable, but all the interesting stuff happens on EVENTS WITH PURPOSE, where unfortunately people go with friends and not to meet someone.
/r/seduction08/02/19 10:35 AM
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Haha, that's a good attitude! For me I think cold approach is easier because I got used to it a bit.
/r/seduction07/02/19 10:48 PM
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That's a fair suggestion. Could you please point out exact mistakes with how I was leading the conversation based on the dialogues I provided?
/r/seduction07/02/19 03:57 PM
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Thanks man! I never liked clubs, but maybe that's because I have 0 experience, that's why I'm trying to experiment.
/r/seduction07/02/19 02:19 PM
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Sure, it takes some practice, so I didn't expect to have an amazing experience, it was more of an experiment. I know the stuff about qualification, statements over questions etc. I think my speech is quite confident, though I haven't seen myself from the outside, so I can't be sure. Still, I think most people came to hang out with friends, not to meet someone, so it really makes it much more difficult to connect.
/r/seduction07/02/19 02:18 PM
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Same question, I came home at 1 AM because: I have to go to work in the morning Even if I didn't have to - it sucks to wake up at lunch time since mornings are awesome and productive
/r/seduction07/02/19 02:12 PM
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I did have some fun at the craft beer bar and the jazz show (I really love good quality music), but I didn't get a lot of fun from my interactions with other people, since they all seemed disinterested. And that was kind of the point of going out, so it would be really nice to improve those interactions next time.
/r/seduction07/02/19 02:10 PM
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Thanks man, that sounds like good advice.
/r/seduction26/01/19 10:28 PM
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I don't go 100% logical, but I mean it gets to a normal conversation level, where you're not only teasing, but also getting some info. Books, movies, music, universities, random stories etc.
/r/seduction26/01/19 10:27 PM
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There's plenty of smiling, a kid and some guitars. Photos are important, but I'm asking about situations when a girl matches with you, replies and the conversation goes on well. So the photos have already done the job.
/r/seduction26/01/19 10:22 PM
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Every relationship can have its own beauty without being a forever Disney marraige. That's good advice, thank you!
/r/seduction26/01/19 11:21 AM
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I'm 19 and she was my first gf. Lack of experience is part of the problem.
/r/seduction24/01/19 09:14 PM
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