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| 1 | Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs?RemindMe! 5 days | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 08:37 PM |
| 1 | How To Have Sex When You Live With Your ParentsWhat do you mean by good game? How did you learn that? Can you give an example? | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Top 12 guides I’ve found from Reddit to improve quickly & get more girls instantlyRemindMe! 4 days | /r/seduction | 12/09/20 11:10 AM |
| 1 | The Real Reason You're Not Getting LaidRemindMe! 21 days | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | The Real Reason You're Not Getting LaidRemindMe! 50 days | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | The Real Reason You're Not Getting LaidRemindMe! 30 days | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How would you approach a girl you see everyday going to work?What do you mean too invested to not care enough? | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Do you usually go for girls that are a lot fitter than yourself?Okay, I understand. But do I (should I) hit the gym or confident and witty approach should be enough? | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 07:43 PM |
| 7 | Well that quickly took a 180Can you elaborate why? | /r/seduction | 24/02/18 11:04 PM |
| 3 | How to get out of friendzone and build sexual tension on the phone?This. This is golden. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 12:20 PM |
| 1 | What do you write a girl who ignores your messages?I accept that. But why haven't she (silently) unfriended me yet? | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 05:49 PM |
| 1 | What do you write a girl who ignores your messages?She never unfriended me. why? :) no, I don't take the hint. | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 01:34 PM |
| 1 | What do you write a girl who ignores your messages?So... I'll have nothing to lose if I write again and ask her out, right? | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever lacked the courage to approach a girl because you thought you were not enough for her?Right. What I'm saying is that if I can envision it, I go for it. And basically I envision it with girls who most guys find 10's. | /r/seduction | 05/05/17 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever lacked the courage to approach a girl because you thought you were not enough for her?I'm tall , handsome but don't live such an entertaining life... | /r/seduction | 05/05/17 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever lacked the courage to approach a girl because you thought you were not enough for her?May I ask how you do that you go for a 7? I mean, why would you go for a 7 if you can go for a 9 or 10 too? Me myself would only go for 10's. /u/recyclablebanthas ? | /r/seduction | 04/05/17 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever lacked the courage to approach a girl because you thought you were not enough for her?Also: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/697den/have_you_ever_lacked_the_courage_to_approach_a/dh4k331/ | /r/seduction | 04/05/17 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever lacked the courage to approach a girl because you thought you were not enough for her?What I'm more afraid of is.... what if she said yes . Keeping her is harder than getting her. | /r/seduction | 04/05/17 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever lacked the courage to approach a girl because you thought you were not enough for her?Thank you!! But... I fail to understand you. :/ What do you mean by saying I "must do your best to fact-check it." ? Also, what does it mean? "Then when some doubtful thought is running through your head, you must honestly see if it indicates some rule. If it does, then you shouldn't see situations in life that contradict the "rule."? On the other hand: if the girl's instagram is full of photos of her training for (and participating) at "spartan races", like spartan super madrid 2017 this is som… | /r/seduction | 04/05/17 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How to stop putting girls on pedestal, if it is clearly (objectively) obvious that she is way hotter than you are?Of course, you can always stack the deck against yourself by going in believing that you're beneath them. One question: deep inside am I so afraid of admitting that I lack confidence (however on the surface I admit) that I am "rationalizing" it instead by thinking they wouldn't find me attractive if I were them, and I should let go? | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 08:21 AM |
| 1 | How to stop putting girls on pedestal, if it is clearly (objectively) obvious that she is way hotter than you are?Thank you. But... now I really don't know how do I fact-check if I see a (for me at least) hot girl? :) | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 06:36 PM |
| 0 | How to stop putting girls on pedestal, if it is clearly (objectively) obvious that she is way hotter than you are?I would never ask out a girl who is not as attractive as I am. (not saying that I'm that attractive.) I'm just saying that no matter how smart, funny, rich, kind or funny she may be if I don't find her attractive, I would never date her. So... why would she say yes to me? Just because I'm smart, funny, rich, kind or funny or confidently pretend to be? Deep in our guts we all know that she doesn't match him . Or if they somehow get together, it is against all odds. Which is totally acceptable, an… | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 03:37 PM |
| 1 | How to stop putting girls on pedestal, if it is clearly (objectively) obvious that she is way hotter than you are?I linked those girls for their looks, and not for their "obsession over their appearance". Their obsession is not attractive to me, but their body is. | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 03:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell a girl that you want sex with her? Or do you tell her at all?and.... what do I write her after 4 years? We're no longer friends on fb, don't even know if she's in a relationship or not. But oh, she's smoking hot! | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 02:28 PM |
| 0 | How do you tell a girl that you want sex with her? Or do you tell her at all?I only want to have sex w/ her, and see where we go from there. | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 02:16 PM |
| 0 | Dark seduction techniques?curious if there's any | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Eye contact question.I am curious as well. What I found (my experience), that if you hold eye contact but do nothing else, you may come off as creepy. Others say you won't, just hold eye contact no matter what. Best way should be: hold eye contact AND smile (even better smirk). The rest will come. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 11:18 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?Out of my league means, I can't envision it. That is all. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Staring at the girl's eyes... I can do that, and I hold my gaze. However I find smiling somewhat awkward while looking at her?ok, well said. Now I know what I wanted to say, having read the comments. Staring -and only staring - whithout smiling or approaching is creepy. At least that's what I think. | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Staring at the girl's eyes... I can do that, and I hold my gaze. However I find smiling somewhat awkward while looking at her?Hard to guess if you're ironic or giving good piece of advice? | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as out-of-my-league? Many says no, but I guess so...In fact I'm a lawyer myself. :) What I'm talking about is that I dress AND act like this and not this , whereas I suppose a girl like this would only glance at (and date) the guy in the 2nd pic. And I'm not necessarily talking about looks or dresses, please try to imagine the personality behind the photos, and you'll get what I mean by "classes". | /r/seduction | 17/01/17 08:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you seduce a tinder-girl? What do I do and how do I seduce her so that she keeps on thinking about sex?What would be a reasonable excuse to go have sex? How and when do I escalate and kino? | /r/seduction | 29/12/16 10:24 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a group?Hi, sorry to interrupt you (all), but I find your friend (point at one) pretty. | /r/seduction | 29/12/16 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Can't fall in love with so much abundancewhat is your profile pic? | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else good looking but bad socially?what is skater trash talk? | /r/seduction | 21/12/16 09:28 AM |
| 1 | I know it is situation-dependent, but normally do you go for a kiss on (after) the first date if you only want sex?it always depends if you could escalate at all, doesn't it? | /r/seduction | 19/12/16 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Saw my ex's new boyfriend walking their dog on the way home from work before. Triggered a hectic spiral of obsessive thoughts.May I ask what you'd do when the 2 of them (or 3 of them including the dog... :) ) were walking towards you hand in hand? Just curious for the right "suave" behaviour. Of course, it depends on your relationship with your ex, but take OP's post as an example. | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Saw my ex's new boyfriend walking their dog on the way home from work before. Triggered a hectic spiral of obsessive thoughts.https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/hit_someone_for_six | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 04:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to a girl you wanted to date a second time but turns out she has a boyfriend?I totally understand the situation. The "reframed" question is: how do you tell her in a polite way that "I wanted to hire you, I have friends to have coffee with" ? | /r/seduction | 25/11/16 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to a girl you wanted to date a second time but turns out she has a boyfriend?True. But do you answer to her something at all? or just unfriend her (on facebook too)? | /r/seduction | 24/11/16 07:59 PM |
| 2 | A small collection of my rejectionsRegarding number 3... how do you avoid interview mode? That's my mistake as well, and I just don't know what (not) to say/ask instead of a bunch of questions. | /r/seduction | 03/11/16 03:11 PM |
| 1 | [Question] It's been my third date in a row, and I couldn't/didn't escalate kino?Great point! No, I don't flirt. Actually (although I have had a few girlfriends) I don't even know what flirting is or how to do that properly. I ask her, she asks me, we tell stories, listen to each other... But hell no, I've just realized I don't flirt! :/ How do I do that? | /r/seduction | 10/09/16 07:52 AM |
| 2 | [Question] It's been my third date in a row, and I couldn't/didn't escalate kino?and... how am I physical from the very start? What do I do? | /r/seduction | 09/09/16 07:29 AM |
| 1 | [Question] If you 'confess' to the girl and she says "I don't know what to say to you..."... what does that mean?I "confessed" 3 weeks ago, and I thought her silence was because of that, but it turned out it wasn't. Anyway, she knows I like her. We would be spending 3 nights in a tent, sunbathing together, go hiking, etc. Get drunk together... So at when and how do you think I should escalate? | /r/seduction | 29/07/16 10:13 AM |
| 1 | [Question] If you 'confess' to the girl and she says "I don't know what to say to you..."... what does that mean?She called me yesterday, saying that she broke up with his boyfriend and didn't want to talk to anybody, that's why the radio silence. And that we can go camping. Now what? She knows I like her. | /r/seduction | 29/07/16 07:14 AM |
| 1 | [Question] If you 'confess' to the girl and she says "I don't know what to say to you..."... what does that mean?She called me yesterday, saying that she broke up with his boyfriend and didn't want to talk to anybody, that's why the radio silence. And that we can go camping. Now what? She knows I like her. | /r/seduction | 29/07/16 07:12 AM |
| 1 | [Question] If you 'confess' to the girl and she says "I don't know what to say to you..."... what does that mean?I really really appreciate you thoughts recyclablebanthas, thank you!! However, I showed this thread to one of my friends, and he said I didn't provide you some important background information, that is: I have always been somewhat flirting with this girl. I said to her that "I find you very sexy" " I think you are very hot" or "I can't wait to see you in your bikini".... things that normally a friend doesn't say to another friend of the opposite sex, if you know what I mean. And she did not get… | /r/seduction | 16/07/16 10:31 AM |
| 1 | [Question] If you 'confess' to the girl and she says "I don't know what to say to you..."... what does that mean?I've just come across a thing in r/getsuave about abundance mentality. "Go for that kiss, because the "win-win" is that she kisses back, or alternatively she lets you know that she's not interested in you in that way. Now you can stop wasting your time." Actually that's why I'm glad. | /r/seduction | 16/07/16 07:45 AM |
| 1 | [Question] If you 'confess' to the girl and she says "I don't know what to say to you..."... what does that mean?So what am I to do next time? Should I make my intentions clear at the first place, or if I don't and become friends with a girl, just shut up for good? | /r/seduction | 16/07/16 07:19 AM |
| 1 | [Question] If you 'confess' to the girl and she says "I don't know what to say to you..."... what does that mean?I appreciate your thoughts, and I am not arguing with you , don't get me wrong. :) I just fail to understand... does it always have to be this way? 3-years friendship is gone because I said that I liked her? This is sooooo stupid. I would never ignore a female friend even if I had a girlfriend just because of this. I mean I didn't say something like "I love you", I just said "I like you"- I guess it makes any difference. But for her, seemingly not. So. I am won't be pursuing her either with call… | /r/seduction | 15/07/16 06:37 PM |
| -1 | [Question] If you 'confess' to the girl and she says "I don't know what to say to you..."... what does that mean?To be honest, I am glad it happened like this. At least she knows where we stand, I never liked 'fake' friendships. | /r/seduction | 15/07/16 05:49 PM |
| 1 | [Question] If you 'confess' to the girl and she says "I don't know what to say to you..."... what does that mean?So... she has chosen moving forward by ignoring me? ... | /r/seduction | 15/07/16 05:46 PM |
| -1 | [Question] If you 'confess' to the girl and she says "I don't know what to say to you..."... what does that mean?Well, I would either say "look I like you too, but I have a girlfriend..." or I would say "thanks, it means I am handsome :) " but whatever I said I would never let this stand between our friendship let alone not answering calls... | /r/seduction | 15/07/16 04:57 PM |
| 2 | How To Talk Man To Woman And Avoid The Friend Zone (in 45 seconds)i didn't get that. What does it mean? | /r/seduction | 03/01/16 10:00 PM |
| 0 | [Question] How do you deal with a girl who friendzoned you?What about asking her in a funny but serious way: "you know that I like you and find you very sexy, right?" This should ring the bell that I want more than friendship, no? | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 09:00 PM |
| 0 | [Question] How do you deal with a girl who friendzoned you?How do you move on? If you don't talk to her, she'll most likely to get offended. Not answering her calls, never sitting next to her.... it just seems inappropriate. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you escalate?Thank you! Oh, I forgot to mention that her mother really thinks that I am cute and very handsome. My question to her was... I really wanted to know why on earth would she show me to her mum. I wanted to know the situation... was she just showing me as a classmate who helped me during exam, or was she showing me as a hot guy... I am curious about your opinion. My friend suggested that I should do nothing, not even answer the phone or meet her, but one morning I should write her an SMS: "I have d… | /r/seduction | 05/12/15 12:03 PM |
| 0 | How to get in contact with exGF again?All I want from her is a one night stand. She was extraordinary in bed... | /r/seduction | 04/11/15 04:59 PM |
| 1 | How to go on with the conversation after a good start?I am planning to meet her again. I'll go and try to meet her same time I saw her yesterday. maybe she's walking her dog everyday around this time.... Although chances are low, how should I approach her, what shall I say if I meet her again? | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 11:25 AM |
| 2 | How do you beat the "out of my league" feeling?Thank you! | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 04:32 PM |
| 6 | How do you beat the "out of my league" feeling?I don't get that. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 11:28 AM |
| 1 | How to date ex-girlfriend?Why nope? | /r/seduction | 29/03/15 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How to date ex-girlfriend?I believe she was really offended that I dumped her. How to make her like meeting me again? | /r/seduction | 29/03/15 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to a rejection?"better than not trying." really? :) sound cool, thanks. | /r/seduction | 25/03/15 06:37 PM |
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