Why do you think some girls don't reply even if they have had a great time with you?

TagTeamStripper · 2018-10-12T19:10:02+00:00

Either she didn’t have as great a time as you think she did or she had a better time with someone else.

heyhellothere89 · 2018-10-12T19:54:23+00:00

Sounds like she just wasn’t attracted to you. I’ve had a “great time” on some dates where I wasn’t attracted to a girl but definitely saw that I wouldn’t want anything past that.

dimitrimarylucy · 2018-10-13T01:47:05+00:00

You fucking idiot.

Yeah, my angry coach persona is out.

You kissed her ON THE CHEEK?

Jesus dude. That tells her only one of two things:

I'm rejecting you. I only like you as a friend. I have no romantic interest in you. OR
I'm so insecure and lacking in confidence that I am scared of being rejected if I go for a real kiss, so I'll protect my ego and just kiss your cheek because I'm a pussy.

This is why she is not replying immediately. Don't ever text her again. You rejected her (in her eyes).

If she reaches out in the future, set another date but 99% you dun goofed and it's never gonna happen.

Learn from it!

_Zalos_ · 2018-10-12T21:47:31+00:00

Girls think you're.. cute,funny, x ,y and Z ..for Now. That's what you have to take away, they're emotional creatures and can switch up at any moment.

queenoftheharpies420 · 2018-10-13T00:06:29+00:00

she didn’t feel the spark and doesn’t know how to tell you

garry257 · 2018-10-13T12:32:05+00:00

I would've waited to see if she texted me to see if she was still interested in me. Sometimes they'll text me what you texted her a week later. Patience is the main key to not appear needy, most guys seem to miss that it's more than just not double texting.

LingeringGnome · 2018-10-13T22:23:53+00:00

Because they didn't have a great time. You are simply projecting YOUR great time onto her. Women who had a great time with you blow up your phone after the date.

also, four hours on a date is way, WAY too long unless she spent the night. I'm guessing you bored the shit out of her with too much talking, and then a very submissive kiss on the cheek.

She was attracted enough to you to go on a date with you. Then, on the date, you behaved in a way that killed her attraction completely.

I have a 45minute to 1hour first date rule, and we only meet for drinks. If I like the woman I'll go for the kiss within that time and/or ask her home. If I don't like her I make a polite excuse to go home alone. If she texts me, I friend-zone her or ghost her...just like this woman is doing to you.

Four to five hours is insanely long for a first date. Talk less, hit the gym and build muscle. Escalate more. Get to the point with women. Use honesty (otherwise known as charm). Always go for a real kiss on first date, and more.

199flags · 2018-10-12T19:20:02+00:00

Sounds like a potential serial dater. You could have played harder to get as well. Did you touch her during the date? Also, did this date take place in America? You're already in the needy category if you touched her and the kiss on the cheek with the text. All you can do now is ignore her and hope she comes back around if you're really into her. More messages will only dig you into a deeper hole.

Title	Why do you think some girls don't reply even if they have had a great time with you?
Author	Velcade6
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	October 12, 2018 5:43 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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