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No. I don’t want to change him ever. I just want someone who matches what I’d like in the future and if this guy’s not it then next please asap.
/r/RedPillWives02/07/21 02:02 PM
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@ezer Thanks, I appreciate your input again! I know there isn’t a guarantee though I do know he just wants these specific things done to complete a set. Yes I do enjoy travel but I’d rather be staying put and focus just looking after kids/family and perhaps keep holidays to the trips that are friendly to children. The earlier I settle then I’d be younger than most people and can still enjoy trips with a spouse together when they’re grown. From what he said before though I could be wrong, it soun…
/r/RedPillWives28/06/21 04:41 PM
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I will, I’m curious what do you mean specifically to be cautious about.
/r/RedPillWives28/06/21 01:02 PM
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Agree. Science already proved that working hours for women should be generally shorter than for men since the biology is different!
/r/RedPillWives26/06/21 02:40 PM
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Well I don’t think we’ve really talked about that yet. We do agree with how someone could have an easier life if they just want less things, we’ve lived in poorer, dangerous places and can really appreciate how we live now. I’m not too fussed with that in a partner - as long as they don’t force me into working more than what I believe is balanced. If you want to spend more then you work more. Since he works more than me I think it’s fine he spends more in travel as that’s his passion but he will…
/r/RedPillWives19/06/21 01:57 PM
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I like the idea being flirty! The whole just wanting to see his favourite trail I think I could mention when texting. I’m not sure with the coffee before work haha since he works different sites and where I work is far so it would be awkward. I truly respect a man who is the provider and definitely with dates, but I like to show a little something in return as my role being a woman after some time. So getting desserts/small gifts every now and then is totally my thing! Bring some things for a pi…
/r/RedPillWives19/06/21 01:16 PM
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Thank you, I think I may have worded my question wrongly earlier 😅 I do usually love and let guys lead when asking for dates, do you have any recommendations as to how I suggest an idea more along those lines when he asks? He’s not really a caller and not a heavy texter but I am haha. We send like about 3 a day from each side?
/r/RedPillWives19/06/21 12:54 PM
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Alright I’ll clear it up a bit more. 27/Education/Enterpreneur. I live a minimalist, simple life, got myself away from the 9-5 and choose my hours part-time for more balance, love cooking and cleaning and also very experienced with children (a nanny before). I’ve worked so much in myself, understanding what I really value and want in life. I bring good values for relationships (I highly respect men who can lead and very comfortable with that), all domestic skills and natural with children. He’s …
/r/RedPillWives19/06/21 12:49 PM
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I meant should I talk about this now. I don’t mean those hobbies but in the big picture, his large travel plans just doesn’t seem to align with my wanting to settle earlier. Goodness no I deeply respect people for who they are, changing them isn’t something I ever want to do. It’s just I’ve never had to bring up something like this before and maybe it’s too early? I’m just wondering if then I should wait, maybe I’m judging too much.
/r/RedPillWives19/06/21 12:30 PM
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I understand that and that’s why I waited too. I just wish that I at least mattered enough to be told a simple ‘I’m sorry but I’m just going through a lot, I need some time alone. Let’s reconnect when this is all better.’ Just even a text because I’ve always been clear and easy with communication.
/r/RedPillWives14/06/21 02:08 PM
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Thanks everyone and yes, I’m glad even though very disappointed. This is not the first time something had gotten more serious and it sucks. I’m trying not to be jaded, I’ve had breaks in between dating and learned more about myself and everything and it’s difficult, I’m afraid I’m just not going to have it in me to just trust any guy in a date that it would ever be worth it.
/r/RedPillWives14/06/21 01:03 PM
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Well actual protecting and providing also. With all these changes yes there’s still many chances for him to show he looks after you. It’s not that you can’t for yourself - but since he’s doing it for you is where the gesture lies. It makes it all the more special. Makes you really feel like you can respect him and admire. Checking noises in the night Asking how you are physically after long days Protecting you from people who are negative in your life Handling the handy labour at home Driving wh…
/r/RedPillWives28/05/21 01:15 AM
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Thanks I appreciate this perspective also!
/r/RedPillWives20/04/21 02:48 PM
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Wow that sounds horrible, definitely would not do anything like that! We have been going for dates as in dinner and a drink at the bar (nothing excessive), we’re getting along well and I’m just trying now to balance the physical side and the getting to know you emotional side.
/r/RedPillWives19/04/21 09:49 AM
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That’s quite an interesting question. I meant relationship status - boyfriend/girlfriend. I’d like to but I can’t hold for marriage! Even I have limits too. I definitely enjoy it - because my ex before had severe intimacy issues and wasn’t very affectionate, especially in public..I just worry that my date is seeing me now more for the fun, physical stuff potential than as whole.
/r/RedPillWives19/04/21 09:48 AM
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They can lie and enjoy wasting months and dates then.
/r/RedPillWives08/03/21 02:32 PM
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Yikes those are definitely the worst alienating experiences! Definitely would have preferred marrying at 22 😅
/r/RedPillWives08/03/21 12:13 AM
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Thank you..it’s been quite a few numbers already, I don’t know if you seen my comment before so while I’m not bothered I’ve stopped caring a lot. I have to really try having patience with people. There’s better ways to spend my time that I could enjoy more like my hobbies and being with friends instead lol
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 03:24 PM
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Then definitely not a partner worth having. Honesty is the best policy. Even if it means awkward moments admitting your sex life.
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 06:59 AM
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I hope lol
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 06:25 AM
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Haha after these years I don’t know what to think anymore. I’ve just stopped thinking about it altogether. I try not keep track how many dates. I already am since I go to some classes and I’ve met a couple people there too..but again it’s just people with no initiative and I’m not a chaser.
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 06:22 AM
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I’ve met with guys like that yes, for sure I don’t mind answering all their questions about my past relationships and my beliefs. I also do prefer to be fit because I’m big on health and gym, so I rarely see that but there’s been a couple. I wish I met someone more like him, because all I got was a guy who was too cheap to pay for parking/anything to meet, after interviewing me for like days. Then another who never texted back.
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 06:16 AM
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Yes I’ve been! Maybe it’s where I live but most people who also fill up the questionnaire like I do are unfit, mlady borderline mgtow type 😳usually the result is 0 people though haha
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 06:09 AM
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Ah you’re a WOC? So am I! I can see that attitude since I live in a Western country and it’s disgustingly normal here. What part of traditional in my profile do people not understand haha
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 06:08 AM
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That sounds quite intriguing actually! What app is this? I’ve been on kcupid, hinge..I usually mention I’m conservative, traditional within my profile as well. In fact it’s highlighted right at the top.
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 06:06 AM
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That’s so lucky, incredibly very lucky! I’ve been on for 3 years though not all the time, gone for more than 30 dates now..just never lead to anything. People who want casual, someone who claimed to be traditional then also worked as a male escort, people who just never reply again. I’m used to it, though I used to be jaded, I accepted it.
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 06:02 AM
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Cant you just talk about your libido then? Unless your partner is a virgin and in this case I’m not, I know my level. It’s something that can be discussed and a good partner will be honest.
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 06:01 AM
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Thank you, I love hearing your experiences and it’s a great reminder that really..it’s not just me here because it feels like it a lot. I’m in a great mood lately so I’m not emotionally bothered though I did truly wonder from a general perspective is this really it? Thank you for showing me the answer is no.
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 03:29 AM
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Glad to know there’s some actually sane people around! When I told a friend the story to make her laugh she just said..that’s how people are nowadays. It’s the normal. I could not believe it, I wish I had more acquaintances like people here in my everyday life. The toxic perspectives are everywhere and it’s so easy to feel like the pariah. So thank you.
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 02:01 AM
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Thanks so much. I wish I married then too and now I’m 27...I don’t like to think about it like that most of the time.
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 01:50 AM
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Thank you, I’m actually encouraged hearing this. You get all these situations around you and even your friends and you sometimes think..man am I just not going to get anywhere with my values in this society??
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 01:49 AM
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Well it’s never 100% yes, but I won’t be getting into commitment that quickly either, we’d have to be going on dates/dating for a couple months. My last relationship we went on like..6-7 dates before becoming together? Then you know that person is truly interested. You can vet during the process.
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 01:48 AM
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Thank you for the encouragement!
/r/RedPillWives08/02/21 11:05 AM
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I think you have a fair point there, I may have assumed too much from us both liking JBP.
/r/RedPillWives08/02/21 06:22 AM
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You’re right I’m the worst haha! I worried about something that wasn’t really happening, I look forward to it now, thank you!
/r/RedPillWives08/02/21 06:07 AM
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You’re right, I definitely have to start taking note. I also need to step back and simply look at the situation as plainly as I can. Surrendering to some extent is the key here when it comes to dating and vetting. It can be a little tricky at first. Thank you for your honesty!
/r/RedPillWives08/02/21 04:51 AM
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Thank you! Just reading this brought me hope and some more confidence, ironically I’m very proud of everything else I am. It’s simply been challenging in dating. I’m all for the female side of traditionalism, I love kids and happy to take all the housework, keep pure. Not even a blink in hesitation. Really. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWives07/02/21 11:11 PM
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Yes definitely wait for that moment and see what happens, it’s pretty clear if I think about it like that right? I definitely wouldn’t mind getting coffee, smaller things to contribute to. I might try the joke though I’m still not sure how to deliver it. I’ll think about it for now. Perhaps a snack! Thanks for the idea too, I’m not sure what he may like now, though chocolate wouldn’t be a bad idea hey, I’ll go into a nearby cafe dessert place to work and have a look! Also though, I did want to c…
/r/RedPillWives07/02/21 02:30 PM
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Thank you, I still get unsure sometimes of my values since I live in a fairly liberal city. I honestly couldn’t tell if he was just asking in consideration. Perhaps it’s because he’s suspicious. I’ve never had this at a first date. I was just surprised in the moment.
/r/RedPillWives07/02/21 02:23 PM
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Thank you, I think I needed to hear this. I’ve told this situation to some not very close friends and they all just sorta dismissed it and tried to convince me to ‘get modern’ as that’s how it is nowadays and I just..it’s a core value for me. For a second though I did feel bad since it made me think that I’m too different to find someone that would share my values. Born in the wrong era maybe, as yuck as that sounds. It hurt, too. I agree it’s a yellow light, are you saying that him making me un…
/r/RedPillWives07/02/21 02:21 PM
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Yes! I have been involved in some of the rotary groups, it’s a bunch of elderly women we just need knit things for hospitals, I think that’s about it. Now I just have to wait until it’s back on because of the restrictions 😂
/r/RedPillWives25/01/21 01:26 AM
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Thank you for this and I’ve read the whole thread! Makes plenty of sense, funny enough I have a knitting group where I could perhaps volunteer, I just didn’t know I could meet someone through there. I’ve worked with kids a lot though I tend to find it’s mostly women or married men there.
/r/RedPillWives24/01/21 11:42 PM
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