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| 2 | You lived without her. You can live without her.Sorry to hear that bro Sometimes I wonder if being the dumper can sometimes hurt even more than being the dumpee So many self-doubts, and overall overthinking | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/24 06:56 PM |
| 6 | You lived without her. You can live without her.Yeah but the tough this isn’t about power, but about the emotional attachment I actually dont want to break up, but its just my plans dont longer align with having this relationship | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/24 04:01 PM |
| 14 | You lived without her. You can live without her.Right now im struggling with this exactly, but in the scenario where ill have to break up with her, but dont want to Thank you, this was very helpful | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/24 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Are you making her orgasm ?You can message me bro, PIED fucked me hard a while ago but I'm actually getting out of it right now it's great | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/22 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Will inviting her over AGAIN for sex will seem needy/desperate?Actually you're right, overthinking is something I have done in almost every aspect of my life, I'm stopping it, thank you! | /r/newTRP | 26/12/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Girl I dated apparently got a boyfriend, but we still have another date next week, how to handle this?You're right, I guess I still need to get with more girls and develop more abundance | /r/newTRP | 25/12/21 04:36 PM |
| 0 | Girl I dated apparently got a boyfriend, but we still have another date next week, how to handle this?I didn't meant like now, with potentially I meant something like "she's cute and actually fun to be with, maybe in the future I could see it happening" but obviously not after meeting her so recent And yes I'm still on it haha | /r/newTRP | 25/12/21 02:28 PM |
| 1 | She hard rejected my kiss, then after some minutes, she pulls me for the kiss, wtf?Thanks man, yeah, second date Netflix and Chill and got sex, i think I'm starting to get this red pill stuff haha | /r/newTRP | 23/12/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Finally lost my virginity... Or did I? FUCKlNG ED, what happened?Yeah, maybe 47 days wasn't a good idea haha, i don't think my libido was on healthy levels | /r/newTRP | 22/12/21 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Finally lost my virginity... Or did I? FUCKlNG ED, what happened?Yeah man I've practiced nofap before because I'm also against excessive masturbation and porn, but always doubtful about their community, but this time it's just nuts, their only answer to this is that it's definitely PIED and that you need a longer streak, 4-6 months up to a year sometimes, that's just CRAZY Yeah performance anxiety sounds about right, I've had waited for years to be with a girl and when the moment came, even tho I don't think I wasn't feeling "nervous" i definitely wasn't flow… | /r/newTRP | 22/12/21 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Finally lost my virginity... Or did I? FUCKlNG ED, what happened?I think you're right, since I noticed I couldn't get hard I started focusing only on that I think I handled it decently since even tho I think at one point I looked disappointed and focused on that, i continued making out with her and chatting as usual. The weed brownie wasn't a buffer in this case, i didn't actually planned taking any, I told her I had around in case she wanted and she suggested eating a bit, and it was almost insignificant, but it did made me feel sleepy so that's why I had su… | /r/newTRP | 22/12/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Finally lost my virginity... Or did I? FUCKlNG ED, what happened?Yeah it sounds right, I was not only virgin but i was also kissless until like a month ago, so maybe I'm just not used yet to being intimate with another person, or being naked with them lol Maybe it's a weird question to ask a stranger but whatever, if you were me would you just jerk off now? I kind of have blue balls now and I think continue to NoFap may increase anxiety now haha, or maybe it's an excuse, I will continue seeing her and a couple of girls I'm dating tho | /r/newTRP | 22/12/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Finally lost my virginity... Or did I? FUCKlNG ED, what happened?Yeah man and I didn't even used hard grip when jerking off, and even the porn I watch it's kinda light (sometimes not even porn), so maybe it isn't fap related | /r/newTRP | 22/12/21 03:28 PM |
| 5 | She hard rejected my kiss, then after some minutes, she pulls me for the kiss, wtf?I guess that's it, maybe I was just imagining it but during our talk after the failed kiss I could almost feel the tension rising up as I was not "butthurt" | /r/newTRP | 20/12/21 03:05 AM |
| 5 | She hard rejected my kiss, then after some minutes, she pulls me for the kiss, wtf?I swear it, I'm super noob at this but implementing kino, frame, etc... Is like magic | /r/newTRP | 20/12/21 03:03 AM |
| 0 | Chapter 2: Getting over your Anger, because women don’t deserve itCan't read the whole thing right now but amazing stuff, and apparently a bit too philosophical to most in this sub, who can't comprehend why would you separate the feminine and masculine moral, as they see it as if there was an absolute objective true and only moral, which will make their life's only harder. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | After her big work promotion, chubby wife doesn’t want sexI know it's complicated and I wont pretend to understand it, but I'd say just go for the divorce man, seems like the most obvious thing you need, the only thing stopping you is literally what family will say and money, but you'd be free. You said it, you're not even attracted to her anymore. And you won't be hiding and cheating, so it's a win win. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 12:01 AM |
| 6 | What Logan Paul and Floyd Mayweather can teach us about winning in lifeI agree and I believe people are misinterpreting this in the comments It's not about the show itself, yeah, it is garbage entertainment It's about its subjects and how they're being criticized/hated for doing it, still they are making a shit ton of money on it | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/21 12:21 PM |
| 30 | How to not "fast forward" through life?I think this is it, when I feel all my days are the same, time goes faster | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Fixing teeth later in life?This. The Teeth topic is getting pushed just as the cosmetic surgery is, most of the times you won't need it, your face has not to be perfect, unless you are fucked up imo you shouldn't fix it and use that resources in your diet/hustle/passions Just lift | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 02:04 PM |
| 17 | Using a slut financially?If anything in this context you're her slut lol Jk man just enjoy it | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 08:23 PM |
| 2 | She's not yours, it's just ...IMO it's fine the way it is because our problem is not that we feel her's, we usually feel as if she belongs to us | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 01:41 AM |
| 12 | Dealing with significant SMV increaseSecond this | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being a virgin? I feel miserableYou speak too much truth, and I have thought about that. Maybe I'm putting too much effort in things expecting them to bring me pussy, sometimes I have thought "Well, assume I get a perfect shredded body right now, what am k gonna do with it? I'm still gonna be here laying alone, with a shredded body" Thanks | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 04:04 AM |
| 2 | How to stop being a virgin? I feel miserableI have thought about this, but in a way I give the benefit of the doubt to these thoughts because that's literally the only thing I've never experienced (in terms of human bonds), i have a great relationship with my family, with my friends, but none with women (except a couple of female friends), and I feel that that's not even natural | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 12:28 AM |
| 10 | How to stop being a virgin? I feel miserableYou may be up to something, idk could it be fear of rejection maybe? But wouldn't say my libido is inhibited at all, I'm mostly horny everyday | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 11:04 PM |
| 2 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?I have this issue, and I'd say it's also a problem on my facial expressions, like trying to show a laugh or a face I don't even know how to explain when someone questions my actions. I'm trying to justify myself. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 11:46 PM |
| 5 | A very powerful tool you should add to your lifting arsenalTaking enough rest so you can lift heavier, imo people always underestimate resting times | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/21 02:45 PM |
| 7 | Any of you had success getting laid still at parent's home and in small mattress?Well that's definitely a great advantage, I'm also saving a fuckton of money thanks to living rent free (even tho I still help my dad) Well now the dumb question: how big is your mattress? I have a small one (Twin) and idk how comfortable is it to fuck there | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Am I the only person who is in severe scarcity/drought in these lockdown days?Yeah I do believe so, leaving all opinions about the virus aside, IMO the vaccine will drastically change the confidence of most people to go back to normal. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 05:18 PM |
| 8 | Am I the only person who is in severe scarcity/drought in these lockdown days?Oh man definitely, I was just starting to get out more before quarantine. Now I'm alone all the time, my friends don't want to hangout at all, they just play videogames. I work from home, I feel alone all the time. And when I finally went out in a social activity, I felt more anxious than in a long time, I felt the scarcity really bad. But it is ending soon brother | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 06:15 PM |
| 21 | Have you ever acted like a woman before discovering TRP?Oh man same here, I used to pride myself on having female friends until a couple of them started joking about me "being the gay friend even if I was not gay" | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Good looking but anxiety is ruining my ability to get girlsSorry I got no advice. But goddamn was just looking for this, I'm in a similar place, my looks isn't the problem at all, is my social anxiety, how I tend to just stay silent or barely talk and then afterwards kick myself for not doing a thing. As you say, exposure is very difficult in these times, but there's always a chance, let's not use this as an excuse. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls cheat because of “female nature/psychology” but guys don’t ?Both men and women cheat but women have more chances /thread | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 09:47 PM |
| 26 | Why do I still act awkward AF around people I used to be super beta/awkward around?Definitely, sometimes I still feel like a kid around some family members because i see them as the "superior adults", Eve tho I'm an also an adult now. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 07:46 PM |
| 24 | How long until you look jacked?Fucking this man. I remember seeing some scenes of guys without shirts on movies and thinking "damn this guy is jacked" and seeing it now like "wtf this guy was small" | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 12:52 AM |
| 4 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.I think that feeling is because somehow we feel that work shouldn't exist or is not inherent of life. It is. Before our system we would have to kill our own food, survive, run, found water, etc... We came to the point where you just need to do some kind of easy and fucking safe work and you can buy anything you need. Life has never been easier. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 07:26 PM |
| -1 | Johnny Depp and Amber Heard situationThis | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 07:36 PM |
| 2 | In your opinion how will people's behavior change after pandemic?The media has definitely created more panic that it should. But the virus is real, and the measures of quarantine are totally justified. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 06:45 PM |
| 2 | In your opinion how will people's behavior change after pandemic?I don't think people behavior will really change, and it's interesting to see other comments have the same point of view, because if you read comments outside of TRP, most people believe this will change a lot, that people will learn something out of this. I guess some people really like the idea of having something big happening and changing stuff by itself. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 02:16 PM |
| 3 | I don’t get it...I’m pretty muscular and lean but girls aren’t looking at me/giving me IOI’s. What am I doing wrong?Idk man, there is a girl on my morning bus that fucking stares at me like crazy, I used to lock eye contact and it gets very tense, I don't find her attractive so I avoid her now, but I can notice that she's looking straight at me a lot even when I'm not, tbh I even feel like she has some kind of mental illness, I don't think thats normal at all. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 01:44 PM |
| -1 | You're Not an Introvert, You're Just an AssholeI've always hated the Introvert and Extrovert tags. I don't think they exist at all, at ALL. IMO there are just social and antisocial people. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/20 01:21 AM |
| 3 | What is your daily routine?Fuck I wrote it wrong. I meant that I want to do boxing on Wednesday. Good idea? How do you schedule your lifting sessions and boxing training? | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 10:44 PM |
| 7 | What is your daily routine?I opened Reddit with a question and this is perfect. I lift 4x/week, want to incorporate at least a day of boxing. "Recovery wise", if I lift MT TF, could I lift on Wednesday and still recovery well? | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Whats with all this blackpill crap?I'm from Mexico, and once in the bus station I saw a short, skinny, ugly dude, with a tall hot blonde by his arm. Blondes are in no way common here. He wasn't attractive, neither had money because we were in the bus station. That was a very redpill moment. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 05:18 PM |
| -2 | I was insulted badly out of the blue, and can't get over itI think that’s a funny moment and keeping poker face would have been super socially awkward | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 01:07 AM |
| 3 | There is nothing worth watching on YouTube anymore when it comes to the Red PillI love his channel, Idk what it is about his “talks” that I found very inspiring to hear in the morning while I prepare breakfast | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 01:43 AM |
| 4 | The problem with women that have tattoos, and why its a major red flagYou have some points like “they’re calling for attention” or “poor decision” (in some causes this is awfully true) But overall this is a dumb thread, women who get tattoos are not that different from women who do, so why should we care? This is more just complaining about something you like. And it is pretty objective too, there are men, maybe not the majority, that even prefers women with GOOD tattoos, there is a lot of tastes and tattoos it’s such a small characteristic, it’s not like they’re … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 11:09 PM |
| 18 | Made over a mill by age 34, now more depressed than everYou just described heaven man. OP should absolutely do this, money is the only thing needed for heaven. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 05:36 PM |
| 5 | Should I go to this party?Idk man, I’m considering it just because i barely go out with friends, so I thought of the “Always day yes to social events” | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Should I go to this party?I think you’re right man, these kind of friends all have very negative habits. And there will be not girls ffs haha | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 11:07 PM |
| 5 | Lets PURGE ourselves. What's the most beta thing you've done?There was a girl who was obsessed with me, I kinda rejected and years later I got ONEitis for her, idk why that happened too much to me. She started talking to me again so I was like FUUCK YEAH. Long story short, we went on a couple of dates, I started to pretend we had the same interests, agreed to every opinion of her, music tastes, and as she is vegan, I even started to suggest that I was interested in being one. It’s still a mystery why she stopped talking to me and got a boyfriend quickly a… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Recommended books?Being aware is already a great achievement and it gets easier since then, good luck on your journey! | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Recommended books?That’s great man, well, 20 years old and right now I felt like I isolated myself because of my Videogame and porn addiction while in my teens, now I’m trying to get back in track, what about you? | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Recommended books?Would it be too similar to The Rational Male? | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Recommended books?Looks interesting, I’m gonna check it out | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 08:40 PM |
| 5 | Dog just died. How to hold frameExactly this. There is something such as healthy grieving, you can be emotional while remaining rational. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 07:01 PM |
| 42 | What is Push/Pull exactly? Where to startlmao I was gonna explain the PPL workout | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Honestly? Im physically feeling pathetic and i want to fix it but i dont know where to start or how.We are in similar situations man. 20 yo kissless virgin. One of my closest friends is pretty incel, video game addict, super nerd looking, not intelligent at all, skinny af, below average. He is one of those who share cringy images on fb about how Videogames are his life. He would lie about having girlfriend (and about other stuff, I’m sure), he even lied about getting laid, and I know this because he told me he lasted 4 hrs, she came like twice but he couldn’t, and he told me that out of nowher… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 01:59 PM |
| 18 | Exercise shaming in the wildI’d rather being an addict to the gym than to burguers and video games | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/18 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Is it possible to become the alpha in your social circle if you've been in it for 3 years?I think he meant that he has already been 3 years in that group. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 05:45 AM |
| 1 | How to get friends?Thanks man, I appreciate it. That’s a good tip I didn’t thought about, looking for things in common. I’ll try to talk to more strangers and do this, thanks a lot man. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 01:56 AM |
| 1 | How to get friends?I will see what other activities to join, in thinking in a band. And that’s a funny thing, I joined the club, and after the first class I realized that 90% of the times there are only women, and in like 1 of 7 classes there was one guy or two, which I started to be friend with but he stopped to go haha. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 01:52 AM |
| 2 | How to get friends?That’s a good idea, but as u/TheFlyingPro says, there are not fraternities in here. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 01:49 AM |
| 4 | Is music or sports a better hobby?Idk your age, but since you said “kids”, I assume you’re around 15 maybe. If you raise your SMV enough, you could be fucking girls in their late 20s, or in their 30s if you don’t mind. But that’s assuming girls your age won’t find you attractive for being in a band, which imo is very unlikely they won’t. Being in a band is great. Sports are always a great hobby too, but personally, if you enjoy both the same way, I would go for music, because you are already lifting. But as I said man, think abo… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Is music or sports a better hobby?This | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Is music or sports a better hobby?I’d do what you enjoy more man, both are amazing hobbies, and if girls your age don’t appreciate your music, then fuck older girls. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else actually been really good looking their entire life but fucked up opportunities constantly due to mental issues and blue pill conditioning?YES. A lot of girls chased me during my teen years and as a kid, but i had a several case of Oneitis TWICE, and this made me think “They’re not as good as The One” so I never really tried anything. And here I am, a 20 yo virgin in rehabilitation | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth joining a high smv group of guys if you’re the lowest smv there?Absolutely man! I even envy you, that’s a great chance to improve your SMV and learn a lot from the group, even if you didn’t get laid (which I think it’s unlikely) And ask yourself, would you rather hang out with them or with a group of virgins who jack off and play Fortnite all day? | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Is it worth joining a high smv group of guys if you’re the lowest smv there?Fuck man this comment is biblical | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 01:27 AM |
| 2 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?I’d say they are beta if it’s an addiction. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 02:30 AM |
| 5 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?Masturbating. I have come to the realization that this is the addiction of my life , in terms of addictions, I never struggled with smoking, or with drinking, or with sugar, and I quit video games pretty easily, but masturbating is my drug addiction, my longest NoFap streak has been 22 days and I really struggle to go beyond that. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 02:29 AM |
| 10 | Got bullied, was too timid and nervous about the consequences to fight backIt’s funny how they always say “violence is not the solution, report them to the principal” like what? They are just gonna stop and start to respect you for that? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 03:07 PM |
| 1 | I want to create a brother Redpill subreddit. Would appreciate some mod response.Jaja qué mal pedo cómo está el feminismo allá, y se lo está contagiando ya a otros países cercanos. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 09:33 PM |
| 6 | I want to create a brother Redpill subreddit. Would appreciate some mod response.Apoyo la idea! Yo también he pensado en el sub en español. Por curiosidad, por lo que describes, eres de Argentina cierto? Jaja | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 03:24 PM |
| 1 | How to act in severe disrespect to motherYou’re right man, I’ll work on that, thanks | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 05:38 AM |
| 1 | How to act in severe disrespect to motherI agree, I really think it can come to a point of disrespect that it is not worth to keep talking to them if they won’t stop if I ask | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 05:37 AM |
| 1 | How to act in severe disrespect to motherIt did bother me at that time, I was definitely a pussy, and it was also too much tbh, at the point that some of the girls at my class would said to them to stop disrespecting. It doesn’t bother me as much now, but I will try to act differently and more mature in case it happens again | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 05:34 AM |
| 1 | How to act in severe disrespect to motherYou’re right, when I look back at my reactions I see an little angry kid, it is hard to not care when they didn’t stop saying shit tho, but I think my reaction encouraged it even more, thanks | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 05:31 AM |
| 9 | Blue pill virgin - Am I being played by this girl? (Its been a year)Thing done wrong: -Buying her things -Asking for dates after seeing no interest the first time -Waiting 12 months -Having hope after 12 months -Believing the “too busy” bs -Saying her that you love her Things done right: -Asking for advice here Ghost her, absolutely. This girl is not interested and there’s nothing wrong with that, they are many other and better women. Keep lifting, go after other girls and read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 08:20 PM |
| 7 | Is it possible to become sociopath? If no is there any other way to get rid of empathy and guilt?This sub should be 12+ | /r/askTRP | 23/06/18 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Becoming photographer to date models?If you are a porn photographer maybe, otherwise, models usually see them as just something that holds the camera for them | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Girl asks me straight up if I wanna bang“Depends of how well you cook” | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 01:16 PM |
| 26 | Don't do easy dopaminesI used to be like you in that aspect, every fucking moment. I would really recommend you to leave it a little, learn to be comfortable with silence, with yourself, and cut that music dependence. The best about this is that you'll start to enjoy and appreciate music even more! | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 11:53 PM |
| 4 | Beach game without the body for itYou can start in your house using only your body or lifting heavy objects, there are not excuses | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 01:45 PM |
| 4 | The Ultimate Indicator That You Are Making ProgressPlease make one, i think this is a great perspective | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 03:11 PM |
| 8 | Get comfortable with being uncomfortableYou talk to girls for threesomes? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 12:28 AM |
| 1 | I always shake during confrontations. How do I stop this?Hahaha i can relate in someway to you: when I was younger, I didn't have any problem at physical confrontations with my classmates, but when it was about insulting each other aggressively, my mouth always started to shake, I tried to smile and keep my cool but I could feel my mouth out of control. As someone said already, I think it is because you haven't been in many fight situations, you get nervous because you don't know if you can really handle it, try boxing or martial arts, I'm going to do… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to be happy and daydreaming about a new girl?Is perfectly fine to feel happy! But always keep in mind that happiness can't be exclusive from being with a girl, you have to remember that you can produce happiness, build a happy life yourself. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 07:39 PM |
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