| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Men lie to women about their wantsI agree that men are oblivious and not self aware | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid careMeaning you barely see them most days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:13 AM |
| -3 | There is no real evidence men struggle more in getting sex/relationships18/27yr olds should be focused on friends/work/study anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 02:18 PM |
| 0 | There is no real evidence men struggle more in getting sex/relationshipsStats show men and women are having sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 02:16 PM |
| 1 | There is no real evidence men struggle more in getting sex/relationshipsIts worse to be single in older years because there is less distraction. Being young its easy to put extra time into study/work/friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 02:15 PM |
| -1 | There is no real evidence men struggle more in getting sex/relationshipsAnd last source shows most men and women have experienced hetero sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 12:58 PM |
| 0 | There is no real evidence men struggle more in getting sex/relationshipsYou have no evidence. Women have babies with all kinds of men in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 12:57 PM |
| 0 | There is no real evidence men struggle more in getting sex/relationshipsAre you scared of statistics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 12:56 PM |
| 3 | There is no real evidence men struggle more in getting sex/relationships"Men still cheat more than women overall, but the gender gap is narrowing among younger generations." https://www.mcooperlaw.com/infidelity-by-gender-age/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 12:56 PM |
| 2 | There is no real evidence men struggle more in getting sex/relationshipsNo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 12:53 PM |
| -1 | There is no real evidence men struggle more in getting sex/relationshipsOkay where are the statistics to back up that OPINION | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 12:53 PM |
| – | Its better to be ignored than ridiculedWhat positive ecperiences do women get for being unattractive lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 09:14 AM |
| -9 | Men have so it so easyYet those guys always have a gf way out of their league | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 04:34 PM |
| -6 | Men have so it so easyFunny because I done all those things that you say are so hard for men and its easy hahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Men have so it so easyHaving the potential to be attractive for 14% of adult life isn’t the advantage you think it is when men can literally just be decent humans and stay attractive for 100% of their adult life lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 04:31 PM |
| 6 | Men have so it so easyYeah because there isnt enough 18yr olds to go around so men settle and generally treat their older partners like shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 04:26 PM |
| -3 | Men have a large access to casual sexYou completely missed the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 11:37 AM |
| -1 | Men have a large access to casual sexA lot of Gay guys have had kids naturally... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 11:36 AM |
| 3 | Men have a large access to casual sexIf you pulled a random guy off the street, most women would NOT be attracted to him sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 11:35 AM |
| -4 | Men have a large access to casual sexSexuality is a spectrum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 11:19 AM |
| -3 | Men have a large access to casual sexThats great advice. Lots of women end up dating other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 11:18 AM |
| 9 | A woman who actually loves you would never accept one-sided open relationshipsObvious to some. Others believe in a fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 01:52 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?So you can only think of one? No women in 2026 is talking about a napolean complex nor are they commenting it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 01:16 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?Well DUH, but they also dont have the same level of hunger as fat people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 01:15 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?You're so offended that i pointed out some people are naturally skinny. Lots of people are, they never have to diet in their lives yet love to be loud online about how lazy fat people are when they have no clue because they've never been in another body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 01:14 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?Oh no someone was slightly passive aggressive now im going to go cry wah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 01:12 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?what common insults do women say to men then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 01:09 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?Okay what insults do women call men? Because land whale, pig, hamplanet all exist to bully women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 01:02 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?Okay what insults do women call men? Because land whale, pig, hamplanet all exist to bully women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 01:01 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?Women couldn't care less about unattractive men, we leave them alone and dont attack them online and bully them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 01:00 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?Tall guys with broad shoulders take up lots of room on planes, same issue. Lots of different people smell. Youre just vain and cant stand to think others arent trying to look good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:59 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?Well yes some people are skinny without thinking about it. Thats not a surprise lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:58 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?Maybe check this thread already examples of guys who hate fat women who are in fact not bots | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:57 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?That really doesnt sound that bad compared to how vile men are to fat women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:56 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:55 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?This is so illogical to be mad at strangers for their appearance. You need to calm down, its weird to have such an emotional reaction to others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:53 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?Havnt seen women doing that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:51 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?GLP1s have only become widely available over the last couple years and theyre very expensive. You do know fat people arent inherently bad people, you seem so mad at them for no reason lol. CHILL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:50 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?they dont, thats the thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:49 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?Its so widespread that yes it is men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:48 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?If it was EASY why are so many people fat? Literally no one wants to be fat. Youre just a naturally skinny person who doesnt know what youre talking about lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:48 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?Well as already commented on this thread saying stuff like hamplanet, pig, land whale etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:46 PM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?They actually don’t. It’s rare to find comments from women making fun of those aspects. I mainly see women supporting men, like on toupee videos of men getting their hair done - women are always hyping them up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+"Men spend time defending adult people right to be adult." shows youre viewing all adults as the same and all can date each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 01:18 PM |
| 6 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+So you think that an 18yr old who is either still in highschool or just finished has the same maturity as a 35yr old? Not all "adults" are the same. We shouldn't dismiss that young adults can be vulnerable to creeps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 12:14 PM |
| 16 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+At least your honest. But it does also prove that traditional marriage and the nuclear family is the worst choice for women and is unsustainable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 12:02 PM |
| 8 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+Because I want to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 11:59 AM |
| 9 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+Youre wrong there I've thought age gap relationships were gross ever sice I was 17. The whole "bitter old women" trope is laughable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+Denying reality and holding on to hope is all I hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 11:51 AM |
| 4 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+Im not policing anyone Im showing the proof based on statistics. Youre focusing on outliers. If everyone focused on outliers no one would drive a car in chances of being in a car crash lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 11:51 AM |
| 4 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36165033/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 11:46 AM |
| 8 | Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36165033/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 11:46 AM |
| -2 | Being a provider male is simpingBeing a provider makes you a man. Non provider men are so feminine to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 01:22 PM |
| -4 | Men present a false narrative in datingFailing in what? You know nothing about me lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:13 AM |
| -5 | Men present a false narrative in datingOkay then please tell the men on this sub to stop pretending they have low standards haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:12 AM |
| -5 | Men present a false narrative in datingYes of course men dont want to aproach dating by cost/benefit analysis because you already know its a better deal for yourself. Best way to remain privileged= pretend said privilege doesnt exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:12 AM |
| -16 | Men present a false narrative in datingStop perpetuating the narrative that men have it harder than women in dating Be honest that most men do have high standards for what they want in a partner when comparing to general population of women Clarify when youre saying men have it hard in dating you mean for getting casual sex that doesn't benefit women whatsoever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:10 AM |
| 11 | Men present a false narrative in datingIt makes things more fair in relationships when kids arent involved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Men on here are contradictoryYeah the two biggest things men exclude are age and weight yet those are the two categories that so many women fall into | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Men on here are contradictoryEven if a women says this very few women claim to have low standards. Unlike men who try create the narrative theyre so hard done by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Men on here are contradictoryYeah exactly you have high standards just like every other guy in this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 09:32 PM |
| 5 | Men on here are contradictoryMore than you would think. So many young women in the US have boob jobs. And UK too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 09:31 PM |
| 7 | Men on here are contradictoryIm linking studies now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Men on here are contradictoryIm not going to spend hrs compiling accounts that display this contradiction lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 09:00 PM |
| – | Men on here are contradictoryOh yes please link the evidence of a peer reviewed study | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:48 PM |
| 4 | Men on here are contradictoryOh yes please link the evidence of a peer reviewed study | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:48 PM |
| -3 | Men on here are contradictoryIts pretty obvious you see it on this sub all the time. Additionally, try telling a short guy to date fat women and he will have a fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:47 PM |
| 0 | Men on here are contradictoryYes because memes are some how evidence now? how delusional you are to think this proves anything lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:45 PM |
| 13 | Men on here are contradictory"Here’s yet another reason why women have better self-insight than men: They are less likely to overestimate their own level of attractiveness. At least this was the finding of a new study published in a recent issue of Cogent Psychology." https://www.psychologytoday.com/nz/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:44 PM |
| -1 | Men on here are contradictoryMaybe only 5% of men have good personalities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Men on here are contradictoryEvery man says that lol. Other men do but not me!!!! Yeah sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Men on here are contradictoryYes, this really highlights how men exclude women over 30, proving my point men have high standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:41 PM |
| -4 | Men on here are contradictoryYes, this really highlights how men exclude women over 30, proving my point men have high standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:40 PM |
| 5 | Men on here are contradictoryIf youre excluding most of the dating pool by your standards then yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:39 PM |
| – | Men on here are contradictorySo men only want her at her best? Seems contradictory considering they judge women for only wanting men at their best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:39 PM |
| -3 | Men on here are contradictoryPlenty of men have the opinion they have low standards while actively excluding most of the female population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Men dont being anything to the tableThese laws exist for a reason lol Equal Pay Act of 1963Title VII of the Civil Rights Act (1964) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:13 AM |
| -9 | Men dont being anything to the tableYes, I would love to be valued for something that is highly profitable and sort after | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:05 AM |
| -10 | Men dont being anything to the tableIn dating. Not the workforce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Men dont being anything to the tableI think hiring managers should hire based on merit, not based on prejudice due to low intellect like you're implying they should do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Men dont being anything to the tableThere would be no logical reason not to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 10:55 AM |
| -1 | Men dont being anything to the tableIf its a physical job then sure I can see why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Men dont being anything to the tableThere is nothing wrong with women not wanting to be in a relationship with men because they don't bring anything to the table. The ultimate equality is that people have the right to choose whether they be in relationships or not, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 10:51 AM |
| -5 | Age gap relationships are a bad deal for womenDepends if you lack intelligence and like to have the odds against you and enjoy much more inherent challenges in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 01:06 PM |
| 0 | Age gap relationships are a bad deal for womenIf youre over 25 I think its fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 01:05 PM |
| 12 | Age gap relationships are a bad deal for womenI've been grossed out by old men and arguing the same opinions since I was 17. But of course used a few old crusty guys for money. Definitely have never been attracted to a guy over 30. But keep coping lol. I would also like to point out that young women aren't dumb, they do realise that men insulting older women includes them in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 01:00 PM |
| -2 | Age gap relationships are a bad deal for womenI've backed my opinion with statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 12:58 PM |
| 0 | Age gap relationships are a bad deal for womenYou’re playing dumb, as per usual. Yes, OBVIOUSLY different life stages are a negative. If the woman is in her clubbing days, going out and having fun, and he’s in his 30s and past that stage, then there’s going to be a disconnect. If she’s 21 and doesn’t want kids for another 10 years, and he’s 31 and already at that stage, there is an issue. Abusers target people who are more easily bent to their will - young and impressionable. Hence why older guys love young, impressionable women who have le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 12:58 PM |
| 5 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenIt is a gotcha because it destroys the narrative of parenting being enjoyable that no one ever admits irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 12:24 PM |
| -2 | Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less"Yeah pay your bills without having kids and being an absent parent. They probably cally their nanny mom instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 12:23 PM |
| – | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenMostly get discarded by the guys who begged her to have a kid then dipped when they learned its not all sunshine and rainbows | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 12:16 PM |
| 2 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenYou're the one who wants to be a 24/7 caregiver. Not sure how youre going to have a life outside that unless you dump them in childcare straight away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 12:15 PM |
| 7 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenWho said I didnt have kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 12:14 PM |
| 5 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenStressed moms are the miserable ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 12:12 PM |
| 21 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenThere has never been any privileges of being a mom, idk what youre talking about. It’s not weird at all for a woman to complain about pregnancy and childbirth - it is physically extreme and sometimes dangerous. What is weird to me is that men don’t acknowledge this or do anything to support women in return. Men often fail to recognize the sacrifices mothers make - just like you are doing now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 12:07 PM |
| 4 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenIts funny that you think that's all there is to life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 11:55 AM |
| 28 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenYou save more money by not having kids Not guaranteed Not guaranteed Do you want to build something that is just a lot of work with little reward Kids are notorious for NOT doing chores. And create more chores than they help with. More of a hassle than joy LOL or you could treat yourself every day if you dont have kids Not guaranteed/ unlikely LOL again, pregnancy and childbirth are 1000% worrse than periods Looking after children is WORK Your comment really shows how ignorant men are about this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 11:48 AM |
| 10 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenYou get paid, that's literally why people go to work. Being a mom is unpaid labour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 11:32 AM |
| 5 | There is no benefits to having kids as a women"I prefer to live my life for others because I’m a slave to the patriarchy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 11:31 AM |
| 8 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenHaven't met a single dad who does as much for his kids as the mom does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 11:29 AM |
| 10 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenIf men were good dads there wouldn't be so many kids where their dad isnt in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 11:23 AM |
| 10 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenI love cats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 11:19 AM |
| 9 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenYup, just would be good if society in general could understand that having kids is a terrible decision for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 11:18 AM |
| 15 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenBeing the primary caregiver is a negative because it means the man isn’t doing his equal share and the women is burdened with all the shitty tasks of parenting. Some women want a sense of identity, not for their whole purpose to just be being a mom. Men avoid responsibility by focusing on hobbies instead of helping care for their kids. Most people can’t afford to raise kids comfortably in this economy. Women put in 100% of the effort in creating the child, and are still often expected not to eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 11:16 AM |
| 7 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenAs I said birth rates are dropping globally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 11:09 AM |
| 12 | There is no benefits to having kids as a womenWhat exactly is there to like about being a mother? I don’t see how no longer living your life for yourself, but for someone else, is enjoyable. Many children are also ungrateful. The reality of parenting includes lack of sleep, the constant 24/7 responsibility, dealing with tantrums, and ongoing cleaning and cooking. Check out r/regretfulparents | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Men only want women at their bestIn this economy the middle class barely exists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Men only want women at their bestIt is pretty normal for women to be attracted to a guy who can provide a comfortable lifestyle for both her and her kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 10:46 AM |
| 15 | Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less"Because her cheating just erases years of work in the home? That is completely seperate for cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 10:29 AM |
| -8 | Divorce rhetoric reveals that motherhood is "worth less"Why have kids if youre not even there for them lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Men don't want the average womenIf that was true why are so many men obsessed with airing their preferences for younger women in their early 20s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 01:46 PM |
| 5 | Men don't want the average womenGuys of all ages tend to find women in their 20s most attractive and view older women as not attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Men don't want the average womenMany young women are choosing to be childfree, so it's not like dating younger has any guarantees. Having kids as a women is illogical and has no benefits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 01:41 PM |
| -4 | Men don't want the average womenThe problem is that age brackets don't exist with men when every man wants a 20-year-old. So those 20yr old guys also have to compete with older men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateFunny you think we currently have equality in the workforce. Men have it way easier. Because of patriarchy men are always chosen for higher paying jobs. A women has to work much harder to get into higher paying positions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateYou do realise that a meal is economically nowhere equivalent to sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateYou're the one who wants a woman to look beautiful without makeup. Even supermodels wear makeup so you must be expecting some genetic 10 lol. Women say this all the time they dont care about muscle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateBold of you to assume men get more generous as the relationship goes on. More like they get less. If he didn't pay for stuff at the start theres not going to be a magic moment when he decides to be more generous. From an economic standpoint, the “worth” of sex is much more than a meal. So men expecting sex in exchange for a meal is like expecting a house in return for buying someone a coffee. Men love plastic surgery and makeup. That's why the porn stars they watch are surgically altered and the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 03:00 PM |
| 4 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateYeah I guess to you it might be funny that women have more risk of physical violence in dating. Even funnier to think men might be nicer and pay for stuff in dating to make it more appealing for women. But no. Men would rather just complain about how hard dating is and never actually do anything to make dating more enjoyable for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateIgnoring the underlying nature of men and women that has existed for centuries isnt going to make it go away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateGetting an expensive education absolutely will make you more likely to get the job. The recruiter will have more reason to offer you the position. Just like how a pretty woman who puts in effort will get more guys willing to pay for her. I’m not sure what analogy you’re trying to make. Actually, initial attraction is a big part of first dates, so it is people’s “role” to look good. You only pay for dinner for your wife? Wow, that’s stingy. Sometimes I shout my friends or family - it’s really not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 02:28 PM |
| 0 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateTypical man playing games. A women has to act like shes going to pay in order for you to be generous. Mind games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateIt absolutely is a burden to date men inherently biologically. Men always want a women who looks like a 10 but she just needs to be the top 0.000001% of population who naturally looks that way - real realistic. Has no one told you women don't care about your muscles and gym obsession? it makes you less attractive. Already explained that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 02:15 PM |
| -1 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateMen say they're natural providers, not women. I think men are not natural providers at all. Most men don't want to wear condoms and put the burden on women to take birth control. I think the point is that women want to look good for dates. They want to put in that effort. Yet men don't return the favour. They don't put the same amount of effort into their appearnace and they also dont put in effort i n other ways like paying. Men doing nice acts for women in dating isnt some big bad sexist thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateYeah true. There's no reason for women to have kids. But every man I've met dreams of traditional family life. A childfree women generally isnt even dating men because theres no point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 02:03 PM |
| 0 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateDont lie. Men love makup and its evident through their actions. Exactly there is no attraction and compatibility when a man isnt willing to pay the bill. Yeah i guess. Thats why birth rates are plummeting because women dont owe men a nuclear family when they wont do the bare minimum. Of course, another dramatic man who thinks paying for a dinner means womens right should be taken away! And yall really wonder why youre lonly haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateI dont understand why people are going on so many dates. Obviously arent selecting well on the apps if you never make it to second dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 01:55 PM |
| 4 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateYour flair says trad-pilled just so you know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 01:53 PM |
| 6 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateThats actually great. I as a women couldnt think of anything worse than having kids. Let men do that shit with robots, it will be much better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Men should be happy to pay for the first date"natural providers" is a term men use to try make them look good in society. Nope it gets pushed on women because men aren't willing to wear condoms. In fact men never make sacrifices in relationships. Yeah we all know men dont put effort into their appearnaces that why they ellicit zero attraction from women. You do know its possible to be generous without trying to take away women rights. Its not that hard of a concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 01:51 PM |
| 4 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateI can't remember a time when men birthed kids or actually played an equal role in parenting or actually were good enough in bed to make women to want to sleep with the average guy. Or how about I cant remember a time where men didnt beat women in almost all crime statistics. But hey i guess its super tough a woman made you pay for dinner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateThis is what I mean by men reacting very dramatically to the idea of paying for one meal. I think it just shows that men aren't natural providers and the impact of declining testosterone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateI think this plays into the idea that chivalry is dead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Men should be happy to pay for the first dateOne dinner date isn't expensive at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 01:33 PM |
| – | There is no proof that men struggle more in dating than womenThinking 2% difference proves anything in one study shows your lack of analysis skills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 01:31 PM |
| – | There is no proof that men struggle more in dating than womenBecause women aren't attracted to guys they don't know. I had to come up with exaggerated examples because mens desire extends to corpses and animals (male desire is worthless). The analogy is to get guys to understand what its like to have people youre not attracted to hitting on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 12:59 PM |
| – | There is no proof that men struggle more in dating than womenI'm guessing you like it when people you don't know want to use your body? you like it when gay guys or women triple your age come onto you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 12:55 PM |
| – | There is no proof that men struggle more in dating than womenOlder women are constantly told by men they have no value. So no older women do not have it easier than their peers. When guys say average they mean young pretty and thin. Which is the top 10%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 12:52 PM |
| – | There is no proof that men struggle more in dating than womenHere's a source that shows both men and women both experience singleness. Men struggle more early and women more later. Showing men do not struggle more than women in a life time when it comes to romantic partners. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/#:\~:text=Roughly%20three%2Din%2Dten%20women%20ages%2018,later%20in%20life%20than%20women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 12:50 PM |
| -1 | There is no proof that men struggle more in dating than womenFor your analogy to make sense you would have to 1. prove women in general have abundant options. 2. prove that what men are offering is meaningful to them Being rich has advantages for every person. Having lustful men wanting to use your body has zero value because it poses more risk than benefit. A vibrator has more value than a lustful man/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 12:41 PM |
| – | There is no proof that men struggle more in dating than women"You should be happy you can choose from this wide array of garbage" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 12:36 PM |
| – | There is no proof that men struggle more in dating than womenTake the "bait" provide one reputable source that men have it harder lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Men can’t really claim to know “the truth” about female attractionI think a lot of it is projection because men will be attracted to any woman who is thin and young. They dont have any depth to their standards, so they assume women are just as linear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 11:48 AM |
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