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At church
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 06:21 PM
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I find it interesting that my man watches more streams of games than he actually plays games. He'll actually sit down and play maybe 1 or 2 big title games per year, but he likes to have twitch streamers on the TV in the background. It tells me he enjoys the culture of video games more than actually gaming. He got a VR headset for pick up and play games for exercise (think boxing). It's quite entertaining to watch.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/18 08:32 PM
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The only time I've ever turned him down is if I get that UTI feeling. I haven't actually gotten a UTI for many years, just that irritation.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/18 07:14 PM
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Male hamstering. He enjoys when you're dolled up, but doesn't want you to think he's attracted to sluts. Just nod and smile, and keep doing what you're doing.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 09:09 PM
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nah, he's not an alpha but he's still my captain :) he doesn't really care about red pill stuff, it's more in my own personality to desire these frameworks and categories to understand the male experience (since I cannot first hand obviously). I just want my kids to be prepared for real life
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 03:01 AM
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I've never been with an abuser so I can't say. It's a problem that women face.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 05:06 PM
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Feminism is women trying to be men, there's nothing feminine about that. Feminism is harmful because it encourages women to work against female nature to chase things like power and influence Exactly!! When women try to be masculine, it brings disharmony and inner malcontent. What I will never, ever support, is the idea that women don't deserve to take their rightful place among the male dominated professions. You don't have to act like a man, speak like a man, or dress like a man to have a care…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/18 03:30 AM
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Look, there's no need to sacrifice truth and historical accuracy in order to push a certain viewpoint and I don't feel bad calling out intellectual laziness when I see it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/18 02:04 AM
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I wouldn't trust anyone with less than a master's degree in women's studies to lecture me about the political and socioeconomic history of women. I mean, seriously? Can't we just say that men and women are not the same, but equivalent and leave it at that? Why taint the red pill with this pseudointellectual nonsense?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/18 01:09 AM
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My b, it was the sticky
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/18 04:54 PM
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Oh I didn't see anything against it in the rules page
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/18 04:39 PM
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Uhh... how much do you want this guy? Can you lift weights and bulk up at the gym? At least you'd be physically better off than just getting fat. edit: Women struggle with osteoporosis later in life - everyone should strength train at least a little bit
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/18 04:05 PM
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My disposition towards sex is that if I'm tired, I won't turn him down but he can do all the work :p
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/18 04:03 PM
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First - it's blue pilled society that's trying to make "mother" into some kind of dirty word... You took care of him when he needed it. Nothing wrong with that. The only time when it becomes unhealthy is when you base your identity upon your man being totally dependent upon you. I see all these men in their 40s, 50s, 60s show up in the doctor's office and you bet your dollar that their little old red pill wives were the ones insisting on them going to the doctor in the first place. Men are so fo…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/18 06:21 AM
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Good fucking job, A+ Crazy will rear its head with or without your input
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/18 04:07 AM
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I feel so grateful for my boyfriend. I have ADHD and literally cannot take on the mental load even though I want to. So he bears that burden. When I cook, he immediately does the dishes right after me. When I have appointments, he always reminds me even though I don't expect him to remember. When I lose things, he just magically knows where it is. I'm so lucky to have him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/18 12:05 AM
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SURGEONS. I think this is a common issue among them, especially when they're younger. They have trust issues. They want to be in charge, and control everything. You want him to trust you to be his first mate. You don't just want to be a passenger on the ship. Start small, convince him to handle responsibilities and decisions for certain things and work your way up. You're a contributing partner to this relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 07:41 PM
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lol I figured. thanks for the heads up
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 04:25 PM
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While I mostly agree, this is still on the superficial side of things
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 03:10 PM
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Despite being extremely red pill, I am honestly a little tired of the patriarchy and here is why - we are bombarded by masculine values in the workplace and the media. Even feminism is telling women to adopt male values, stupidly enough, by devaluing the feminine. I just want to bask in the sacred, irreplaceable domain of womanhood without criticism from all ends. Where is that matriarchy? The one that accepts women need to be strong, powerful, and maybe even divine in order to serve their men a…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 02:22 PM
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You don't show him how other men want you. You show him why you are better than other women.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 02:01 PM
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Keep in mind older men have a higher chance of making kids with autism
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 02:17 AM
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I'm sorry this has been your experience and I will not demean it by saying it's all in your head. Clearly it's not. Others have given you tips about appearance, so you I won't go there. But this is where I would recommend going to TRP and reading their stuff about maintaining frame in your interactions with others. Speaking from personal experience, you and many, many other women experiencing this kind of disrespect - you cannot passively accept your circumstances. This is something that won't c…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/18 11:40 PM
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Much better :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 02:57 PM
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This really isn't adding up here. You're born with a high SMV, and quite intelligent. You've had boyfriends, lovers... and yet not once did a man inspire your femininity? You're highly astute and perceptive. Receptive to the praise of others. Yet, you've never observed the behavior of men around you, and what they find attractive? You never bothered to take notice of the girlfriends of young men, or the wives of the accomplished? Because you were probably too busy looking down on them, both men …
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 06:55 PM
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Clinically, men are more likely to be carriers of STDs with no symptoms. So yeah, dude's been with 50 girls it's a high chance he's gonna have something and not even know it. Gross.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 06:14 PM
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I'm happily not :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:42 PM
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Then he needs to vet in a way that doesn't make him look weak.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:01 PM
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First off, 2-3 months is still the dating phase. Seems pretty reasonable. It seems ok, right? Maybe he's not secretly a loser, right? I don't think you understand just how aggressively valuable woman can vet men. There are so many factors it's insane, and things you don't discover until later. The only ones who want her to take her chances on the weak maybes and what ifs are weaker men shooting above their league with the odds stacked against them. We bear all the biological cost of childbirth a…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 04:57 PM
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It's the ones without a messy past who should care the most. Asking explicitly (early on) signals weak intuition, weak social acumen, and possibly weak sexual abilities. The red pill woman with a clean past does not want to be an easy target for this guy, but she will react with grace, probably tease him back a little. The Stacey you just wanted to bang now knows you're low value and doesn't even want to be slutty with you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 06:14 AM
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If he has to ask, he's already lost.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 01:15 AM
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Just sounds like these bitter men haven't fully swallowed the pill yet and are too fixated on trying and failing to get women out of their league. Notice how the valued contributors are never bitter... these fabled NAWALTs they are supposedly so desperately after are not as uncommon as they think... just not hot enough for them to give a second glance or repelled by their tactics. There was even a post in TRP awhile ago stating how game is less effective on "average" women. Unless indoctrinated …
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 03:11 PM
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I know it's so ridiculous. Protip: Use a flathead screwdriver and insert the head under the lip of the lid, then twist. It changes the lid just enough to break the air seal so it can be opened normally.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 04:56 AM
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I used to do all the parallel parking 😀
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/18 03:42 PM
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I'm kinda in the same boat as you. 26, left relationship of 6 years. My goals are a little smaller than yours - I have ADHD and I don't want it to define my life. I want to pare down my belongings, build a cohesive wardrobe, and get organized with a daily consistent routine.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/18 04:23 PM
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I whole heartedly believe in this.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/18 06:14 PM
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I think agree and amplify is the only technique that I do pull off well. I'll have a look at amused mastery
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 10:07 PM
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I had to post about something else and felt like this was too identifying :l
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 07:59 PM
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IT'S NOT ABOUT FAIRNESS don't even worry about that. Life isn't fair. The guys have nothing to do with each other, you can't compare them that way. Like one doesn't "deserve" sexual stuff just because you did it with another. Listen to women who date men about dating men, don't listen to men who date women about dating men.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 03:34 PM
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That's ok. I think you know yourself pretty well and that's always a good thing.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 03:23 PM
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If you discuss your concerns and he still doesn't want to be exclusive then spend less time with him, and break it off
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 05:15 AM
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If you can't even express this request, then perhaps you should have individual counseling before suggesting marriage counseling
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/16 07:05 AM
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Move on! He's just not that into you. Men pursue. I'm sorry :( You want to give him the benefit of the doubt, but if there were things that came up he would have told you if he cared. 2 months isn't a long time. Don't wait around for him anymore
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/16 04:30 PM
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That's not what she said. It's literally in the first two sentences
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 03:26 PM
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I really wish people would stop saying things like this, and especially here of all places. It's a false equivalency to say that because OP doesn't fit in with women around her, she can't get along with 50% of the world's population. It's a cheap feminist statement that gives automatic "bonus points" for having a vagina and sounds really great at first but falls apart when you really think about it. In our every day lives there's an limit to all the people we see, we're obviously not even expose…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 02:50 PM
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Because it's relevant?
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 03:13 PM
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I will caution you that just because you've decided to yield for now doesn't mean that you're not allowed to talk about it anymore in the future, or decide that it's a deal breaker.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/16 05:29 PM
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We do it around once or twice per week. At first I was unhappy about it, then stress from work gradually lowered my libido so I want it about once a week now. So it kind of works out
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 05:00 AM
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I find it a weak and pathetic complaint personally. Oh no, rpw isn't doing what I want
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/16 04:55 AM
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old sluts how to reel in a BB Well even if that were true, isn't that the whole point of red pill, that men and women have conflicting goals? Of course he's not going to agree with us here, the same way we're going to find their "pump and dump" rhetoric distasteful
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 02:18 PM
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YES I hate when people think they're so clever by using that term. It's slang for a man who can't do anything right, ie, always fucks up. It has nothing to do with sex. Anytime someone uses the word "fuckboy" as a shaming term for men interested in sex I automatically assume they're an SJW.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/16 03:01 AM
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What is positive light?
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/16 07:19 PM
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Can you give some examples of enlightening things? I have a bad memory so that rules out thoughtfulness unfortunately
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/16 06:49 PM
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I think humor and good naturedness is important, but it's hard to develop that in the first place if people are averse to you. Weight isn't an issue for me. Trust me, I wish it were
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 02:26 AM
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Interviews for this type of thing by nature are disingenuous to me. What are the odds someone wants to write a reasoned and unbiased article? They're either offended, neutral, or interested. The latter two don't require interviews in order for someone to get traffic on their shitty blog. They're going to learn on their own and post their own experiences. It's only the people who hate the idea who are going to write some inflammatory blogspam with an "interview with the inside" in order to get cl…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/16 03:07 PM
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Working 10 hrs/day over 6 days is exhausting. When I did ~13hrs/day for 5 days it really took a toll. But I still found the time to text my boyfriend before bed. There was a time when he was working long shifts in a different state but he still found the time to text me. I still felt like I was in a relationship and on days off we'd spend the whole day together lounging about. It's not really the quantity, but quality of time together. I don't think you're getting the emotional connection you ne…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/16 03:17 AM
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I agree. He doesn't need to work at his job and work for his family, that just seems weird.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/16 03:06 AM
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I got my first real medical assistant job with insurance benefits! How do I fit in at work? There are two middle aged women, one has been training me and I think they both like me but are generally floating on different tasks. There are 2 girls around my age and they are friends. I think one of them doesn't like me, but I'm confident we can at least work together. I think I'm only friends with that guy who likes to joke around, scare people, and gets along with everybody. IDK, I just don't want …
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/16 10:03 PM
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Freakonomics says that the wage gap, even when considering men and women in the same profession, is due to the fact that women take on more responsibilities of caring for children or aging family members than men. This causes them to seek different types of positions that allow more time flexibility, and results in less pay. Men and women start out at the same wage but men are more competitive and ask for more raises.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 08:44 PM
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I would listen to your instincts here. You find it unattractive because the behavior you're describing sounds like these guys are insecure about their own intelligence, and that's not really something you can fix. A smart guy who's secure in himself isn't going to debate you in a field he knows nothing about lol
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 12:49 AM
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You just have to suck it up. You're an adult, not a child anymore. Part of being an adult is learning how to handle your own insecurities instead of relying on someone else to handle it for you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 03:52 AM
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I thought soy increases estrogen in men. In women the benefits are up for debate. Anyhow this is a nice recipe for those new to tofu but I had to LOL at the blogger, asians have been always eating tofu this way and there's no need to bake it first for goodness sake.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/16 08:27 AM
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Wow. I'd like this blog if it weren't for the fact that this girl has a whole post about the flak she gets from marrying a white guy, how it's sooo racist to her, and a whole beauty post dedicated to "keeping your ethnicity a secret" wtf? Issues much?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/16 06:27 PM
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He picked a side and it wasn't yours. He's acting crazy widowed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 01:32 AM
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You didn't split on bad terms so why not
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/15 02:06 AM
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I don't see what's so bad about making simple meals of meat, potatoes, pasta salads, whatever he does like. Try cooking things in different ways. Vegetables are only unpleasant if you make them as such. For example, I hate salads unless it's made the way I like it. Steamed vegetables are disgusting. If he doesn't like the texture of something, then change it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 12:56 PM
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Hit the gym, learn something new, and pick yourself back up to either try again or a different approach.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 01:02 PM
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I was agreeing with you :l My boss wasn't telling me in a "you should know better way", she was saying "hey, fyi this is what they like to do, so watch out, be polite but don't apologize to those types".
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 04:15 AM
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I actually don't say anything most of the time, and I scolded them because one of them started yelling at me for pushing their bins closer together (they spread it out wide along the curb) so I could park there, something they legally didn't have a right to enforce in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/15 07:06 PM
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It's not teasing, we have a lot of old rich people with entitlement conplexes. For example, the other day one of them kept complaining her way into being seen even though she had no appointment. I don't argue with them, but it just proves that people aren't "against me", just out for themselves. I think you're exaggerating to make a point, I don't lash out at everyone. The majority of the time people are rude I don't say anything.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/15 07:03 PM
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I agree with you, except I don't want dominance in my relationship - he's just not there to be dominant. I feel like I always do have to be defensive because I don't have a good sense of what is/isnt important yet. Like if I hadn't scolded my neighbors about the trash bin thing, I'd be parking far from my apartment at night and walking down badly lit areas, just because they thought that the curb belongs to them. Whereas people cutting in line isn't as important, but I have to say something anyw…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/15 02:56 AM
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I feel like it really is day to day life, and mostly with employees. Maybe it's because I live in LA county? Examples include hassling me on a return (even if I'm within their policy but it's rare), or someone loudly insinuating that I'm stealing because the BIC pens in my cart look like BIC razors from their department, telling me that my gym membership never existed, people that cut in line, old people who like to give me a hard time for fun at work (my office manager even said they really do …
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 04:29 PM
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Ok... I'm assuming you're both American/Americanized? I don't think you are a plate. But I think this guy also needs to get the fuck over himself. If you have also been a good partner to him, you're exclusive, spend quality time, act as each other's emotional supports, there's really no reason why you aren't bf/gf at least by 6 months exclusively together. By the way you describe, his definition of a "gf" sounds more like a fiancee. But it's not, in American society. Ask him what his reasoning i…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/15 12:12 AM
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Yeah... they don't know what they're talking about. It's definitely different in women. I was also a straight A student. It doesn't matter.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/15 08:51 PM
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Spot on. It's a throwaway, no need to be so vague about the illness.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/15 12:52 PM
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The comorbidity of ADHD and depression is like 20-30%. Consider getting DxTx for ADHD. The primarily inattentive subtype is more common in women, which can manifest as feeling "useless", lazy, or being unable to get things done without gimmicks. Getting medication made my life 1000x better.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/15 03:44 AM
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I think you're getting knee jerk reactions but let's think about this for a moment forgoing all gender stuff. Your SO was mad about not getting pizza. You're arguing with him about plausible reasons why the pizza guy is not at fault. It doesn't really matter whether or not the pizza guy left too quickly. I would be mad as shit if I were hungry and my boyfriend took some stranger's side over mine. Next time, just don't even argue.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/15 02:24 AM
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I think it's pretty simple, mediocre guys don't like other guys who improve themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 01:13 AM
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They are so goddamn sad. Like they just want a sounding box but don't dare post in trp.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 04:10 PM
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We text a lot and in person we ask about each other's day. He will simply say "it's really stressful". He can't actually unload on me because I wouldn't even understand the technical stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 03:31 PM
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Thank you for the advice and reassurance, I really needed it. I feel a little more confident in how to interact now. And I can't wait to try new recipes from the other thread this weekend!
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 07:12 AM
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That's amazing, I will definitely tell him how proud I am.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 07:07 AM
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Wow, that makes so much sense. Admiration instead of "sympathy" downplaying stuff, that's what I've been forgetting. I do admire his ability to solve problems. I feel like I have a missing puzzle piece, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 06:58 AM
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Do you mind sharing some of the things you did to overcome? I have all of those problems except 2 and 3
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 06:09 AM
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Omg these sound amazing. I know what I'm doing this weekend.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 06:02 AM
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Thank you. I feel guilty sometimes too.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 05:32 AM
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It's modern, but think the relationship between claire and francis in house of cards is pretty red pill. They have their conflicts but are ultimately a team with francis as the leader.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/15 10:40 AM
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A lot (most?) gals here are in LTRs so I guess it doesn't matter as much. It doesn't to me, at least
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/14 03:42 AM
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Many things he wrote are not choices. For example, you're either "stupidly uncynical" or... you aren't. You can choose whether or not to express what you think, but once you know something you can't just 'unknow' it. You can choose whether or not to be cold, or express your situational disbelief in the goodness of everything, but what you actually believe is shaped by countless things that are out of your control. Our brains literally store and recall emotions for the purpose of streamlining the…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 06:20 PM
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Wow. That sucks for most people who didn't happen to grow up in this happy fantasy world. I can pretend, sure, but in no way can completely disregard actual life experience in making decisions and my perception of people. If my SO secretly hopes for this he's going to be disappointed :l
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 05:11 PM
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If there was no meat in the house he couldn't have gone to the store with your daughter? Do you have just 1 car?
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/14 02:54 PM
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I guess it depends on the tone
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 09:29 PM
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Maybe he has bigdickproblems and wants to avoid the heartache of sexual incompatibility before you two get too close. Like if you know you can't handle beyond X size he just wants to warn you now
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 05:18 PM
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Why do people always say things like this? When asked about their intake, they just go off about how healthy it is instead of giving an actual number.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 06:52 AM
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You deserve mad props for even trying in all that mess. I've seen more diversity of opinion in theredpill than in these feminist subs.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/14 04:48 AM
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What are your reasons for doing the PhD program? And if you've got such a lucrative career, why don't you use that money to do nice things for yourself like buy pretty clothes, makeup, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 08:19 PM
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I agree with you, I don't know what I said to indicate otherwise
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:15 PM
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http://redditlog.com/snapshots/1161293
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:18 PM
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You hit the nail on the head. I actually replied to some guy (woman? but there was a Mr in the username) who said that it was "sad" how his young male coworkers (who make good money) presumably just go home and play video games instead of pursuing women. And it would make him happy if any of them were to date his daughter. I shit you not. Like it's not the lack of diversity in their hobbies he's concerned about, it's the fact that these men don't care to actively go out to end up as some post-wa…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 05:43 AM
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This was posted in twoX, where parents were lamenting how their sons don't care to engage with girls anymore, because of all the bs and risk, as if young guys having fun with their friends without girls is such a horrible thing.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 03:00 AM
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It depends on how long you've been exclusive, how in love you are with each other. It was around 8 months for me. The point is, I'd always be suspicious of a guy with a female bff because you can bet anything that at some point he was in love/wanted to fuck her and she probably turned him down and friendzoned him. So the question would be, why is he still around? What is she contributing to their relationship? Is he a forever beta orbiter, waiting for her to finally settle for him? There's a dif…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 08:18 PM
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Honestly this "female bff 4ever" situation after a certain amount of time dating would be a deal breaker for me.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 06:14 PM
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I dunno what you could have done... There's a lot of things going on here. By shaming your bf she was shit testing him and also asserting her dominance over you. If you said something to confront her, she'd probably enjoy it and manipulate the situation somehow. By remaining silent it's like letting her 'get away with it'. IDK what the best response would have been. Maybe "What's wrong with being a meat head? I like him that way :3"
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 05:50 PM
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Yes the songs are designed to reach as much audience as possible. The way that they are so compatible with all those experiences is what solidifies it as a generic image in my mind.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 06:28 AM
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I thought it was the opposite. I think the caricature of her always being the 'girl who can't find a decent guy and has dramatic breakups' is too ridiculous to be real. It's just her image that panders to young women who have bought the belief that they should have whatever they want just because they are women. Same goes for Trainor, it's not like pop artists write their own songs these days.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 05:53 AM
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Even if you flip the genders: "my wife will get me off but won't have penetrative sex with me for a month because she wants to practice self-control" still sounds fucking weird.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 10:47 PM
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Say you purposely didn't mention it so you could share a celebration together at a better time.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/14 11:14 PM
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Relationship goal: Don't spiral into frustration and throw a tantrum in front of SO :( Last week I couldn't find software that did what I needed to. I complained because had to use a program made for engineers instead and learn to code everything by hand How will I know if I achieved this goal: When I successfully control my temper and take time to calm down from the situation Self improvement goal: French twist, I'm starting to think it doesn't work well with boob-length hair.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/14 05:51 PM
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That's really good, thank you
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 08:50 PM
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My partner gets the same way. Do you have any advice for long distance comforting?
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 07:22 PM
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I guess. It's not really a big deal but I find it irksome that we're seen as the more accessible side of TRP to beta men.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 07:15 PM
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The guy who made that post was a troll - his post history was full of TRP hating and I'm disappointed that people actually took his question seriously instead of insta-banning.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 07:05 PM
5

RPW DOES NOT EXIST TO JUSTIFY ITSELF TO YOU. You have a judgemental bitch attitude. Get out of here and educate yourself. But you have no intention of that, do you? Your post history is filled with trolling TRP. You know you can lurk and learn pretty much everything you need to just by actually reading the top posts, but instead you decided to come here as a man in a women's forum and make a whole new conversation dedicated to you. Pathetic and attention seeking.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 06:47 PM
5

I'm afraid my love for weightlifting/strength training Doesn't matter if you're a man or woman. Everything else being reasonably equal, being strong makes you more useful than someone who's weak.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 07:19 PM
8

This is a waste of money
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 07:18 PM
1

I'm sure it gets easier too, kids get older and just want to do their own thing
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 01:46 AM
3

I didn't say kids don't need quality time, I said that your spouse comes first.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 08:16 PM
5

I don't have kids but I'm sure like... basic needs are priority for children. I think they mean to say that your spouse's feelings come first, quality time with your spouse comes first.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 07:19 PM
7

lol I saw that over there. Cue hamsters trying to spin everything in the worst way possible to justify hypergamous inclinations.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 07:16 PM
17

What amuses me is that she's trying to be sooo ironic and feminist by judging George clooney by standards that we judge women. >Poor George. He dated every B-list model he could, but never got a ring on his finger. Implying that men can be sluts >Maybe finally Clooney can get a shred of happiness in his lonely, barren life. Implying that he's alpha widowed >He’s 16 years Alamuddin’s senior and has a taste for models and cocktail waitresses. He’s proudly commitment-phobic. He’s rich, but then aga…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:17 AM
10

You know that you ultimately can't change anyone's actions except your own. Please don't stop working out and getting healthy! And if you feel defeated, just remember that it's never too late. My grandmother is in her late 70s and she went and lost about 10 lbs just because she felt like it. You wanting to get fitter is like dread game to him, and he's responding the worst way that a man can, by getting clingy. It's shameful. Don't give into it. As the guys tell each other, maintain your frame. …
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 09:05 PM
9

Who knew that loving and taking care of your man was such a radical idea? /s I could do without the religiosity, though. Even if someone is religious, is it really necessary to call upon the bible for something so basic like being pleasant to your life partner?
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/14 11:50 PM
6

It's not really her campaign, she was just chosen to be the face of it. I highly doubt that she really gives a shit if guys become "more sensitive ".
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 05:36 PM
5

I understand your struggles. Depression and a shitty childhood leaves you a distaste for opening up and being vulnerable. It's hard being positive, because your experiences don't support that kind of outlook. Unfortunately, those are things men are attracted to.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 05:16 PM
9

I dunno. I think this is the one area that a woman should be able to put her foot down. Bad lifestyle choices creep up on you. But don't nag, just take action. Eg. make the meals healthy, swap out unhealthy snacks for better ones. Do it with his input. Don't stress him out with extraneous problems. It'd be a deal breaker for me if he's not even going to make an effort to take care of himself.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 07:50 PM
-1

I don't really belong here, I'm a girl in a committed LTR. But what on earth do you call this? I don't think hamstering is the right word, but I've noticed there is so much shaming on all sides. On the men and women's rp.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:20 PM
1

Maybe she's an idiot, but he chose that idiot.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:16 PM
0

Wtf happened to this subreddit?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:14 PM
0

lol dude I never claimed amoral == immoral. You need to get your definitions straight. It is neither right nor wrong for this guy to hit on the girl in question. Nowhere does this say that the guy and the boyfriend are friends. If you go around expecting that every man on the street treat the sanctity of your relationship with the utmost respect by not hitting on your gf, you're gonna have a bad time. You are not their buddy, they owe you fuck all. If someone actually "steals" your gf, it's only…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:10 PM
2

Why assume that this guy hits on his friend's gfs?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:43 PM
-1

Your own sidebar says sexual strategy is amoral
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:42 PM
4

You're assuming he's only hitting on her. He could be hitting om countless women all the time. So what if she doesn't budge, maybe he thinks it's amusing. There's nothing "unacceptable" about it.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 03:47 PM
-7

Why is he putting down the other guy for being persistent? He has no commitment to the boyfriend.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 03:41 PM
1

That was bad wording, I meant to convey that if someone is judged as a horrible person because they crave sex from many different women, or if they crave commitment from the most wealthy, powerful man around, then it's also saying that if they were a good person then they wouldn't want these things at all which is inaccurate. People who are giving into their every whim are dangerous, yeah, but that's not what this is about. Men who are giving in to their desire to remain uncommited and using wom…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 03:17 PM
2

I never said that women should say "fuck it" and be selfish, and I'm not specifically referring to you. I'm saying that morals aren't supposed to be assigned to biological drives. Women who are always "trading up" need to recognize what they are doing and decide if the benefits of those choices outweigh the consequences. I think it's a terrible idea, and it's good to criticize what are terrible ideas, but I don't think it's in line with rp to shame someone for basically taking mate selection to …
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 02:57 PM
4

It's in a woman's nature to be selfish, to secure the best genetics and resources for her young. Is it not reality that women are attracted to wealth and power? What's the use in trying to deny biology? It's been reiterated countless times that redpill philosophy is amoral.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 05:20 AM
2

When things like this happen I've started to think "Don't let it grow". Not even in your own head. Because minor issues will grow only if you "feed them", and if something is just an insignificant annoyance it's best to just forget completely.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 09:28 PM
0

Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 03:46 PM
1

If you can't just cut her off, you need to set boundaries and be firm with them, like having basic respect for one thing. Don't be an endless source of validation. Her behavior is like this towards you because you've enabled it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 08:38 AM
1

How do you join the private subreddit? Maybe r/makeupaddiction doesn't purposefully cater to the beginner, but at least they're actually a public subreddit?
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 08:26 AM
1

If you can stomach YouTube tutorials, look at those. There's r/makeupaddiction, which has recommended products both high-end and drugstore, and a lot of tutorials if you search for them. If money is not an issue, go ahead and buy stuff at Sephora, but there are many drugstore versions of high end products that are almost the same thing, and work just as well or better.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 08:24 AM
4

Women and men have different goals
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/14 09:49 PM
2

I agree this seems fake. What kind of man gets pissy when being told something completely practical (assuming the tone isn't disrespectful)? This sounds more like a woman's way of thinking.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/14 04:54 AM
2

How do y'all even find the time to do it multiple times per day?
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/14 02:36 AM
1

Not if he likes it and asks you to be that way
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 04:38 AM
2

All you have to say is that you are no longer interested in maintaining any kind of relationship. He's playing you, the less you give him the better.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 05:03 AM
2

You're missing the point. Of course it's obvious what and why the guy is doing. Whether it's natural and amoral or not is of very little importance here. Who cares? OP has oneitis and she needs to end the relationship and move on for HER benefit.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 04:46 AM
1

Yeah but it was your choice to post the reddit. Your explanations make a lot of sense though.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 05:40 AM
1

And it doesn't bother you that they just took your post and probably made money off of it?
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 10:31 PM
1

I'm curious about the legalities of lifting reddit posts for their news websites. I know that reddit claims unrestricted use to anything you post, but I don't know about other websites posting reddit content.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 09:20 PM
1

I'm just wondering what kind of weirdo just polls a stranger at the gym like that
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 06:07 AM
3

Were you friends/acquaintances?
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 03:20 AM
2

Yeah, only someone who doesn't cook would be ignorant enough to believe eating out is cheaper.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 10:14 PM
5

Maddox is really great
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 07:37 AM
1

I would find ways to flirt, tease, subtly appreciate the little things he does that make him powerful, keep being affectionate, but I would not initiate sex at all
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 07:25 AM
1

It's pretty obvious he feels bad and just doesn't want to risk disappointing you
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 04:10 AM
1

Hm what about the weekends?
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 12:43 AM
0

o_o what did it say?
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 12:21 AM
1

So you feel used and unappreciated. Have you tried communicating this in a non accusatory manner? Maybe he's eager to fuck in the morning because that's when it's easy to stay hard. You can blow him in the evening without finishing and then have penetration. Is his job draining? What are other things he does for your relationship? What are you contributing?
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 12:14 AM
1

Ah, so he is probably hurt by the first accusation
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/14 07:24 AM
8

Am I reading this situation right: OP's boyfriend is in contact with an ex after a long period of no contact. He is not cheating but he allows the ex to flirt with him. He enjoys the attention and the ego boost from her texts, which means he is not getting that feeling from his current relationship. That's a pretty typical response I guess. Here's where I don't like this guy. OP tells him that she's uncomfortable with him talking to ex and wants him to stop. Instead of being firm and telling his…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/14 04:52 AM
1

I don't deny that. It's just sad that the criteria for that approval from other women has been warped by modern feminism to include, 'don't be feminine' and 'don't seek out an alpha, masculine mate'
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/14 07:21 PM
0

It blows my mind how women today are afraid of being fucking ostracized by society just for being women. If your feminist friends actually confront you tell them to check their privilege because they obviously have too much of it if they have the time/energy to be butthurt about what other people want from their relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/14 12:45 PM
14

lol it is very relevant. You have multiple kids from multiple women. No RPW should listen to a male equivalent of a slut.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 11:40 PM
8

^ This post here is a fine example of why you don't take advice from random guys here arguing for their best interest Just look through his post history, he's a mess
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 09:02 PM
6

Ooh aren't you a special snowflake?
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 08:57 PM
2

I am on there. Most posts are by women who are already in LTRs, which I'm interested in because I obviously want to keep my boyfriend happy. But they don't discuss strategy to the extent and depth that guys do here.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 06:21 AM
1

I understood it. I wanted to know if it would not be smart to date a guy who is already alpha.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 02:16 AM
1

You are assuming an awful lot in your definitions to the point where your GNG doesn't exist. A genuinely nice guy can certainly judge women based on looks (what guy doesn't?), he doesn' have to be a doormat, or a saint.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 09:22 PM
5

Weight without height is pretty meaningless dude
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 08:58 PM
3

The sad part is that this is exactly what thin people do. They actually listen to when they're full and stop eating.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 08:47 PM
1

He might genuinely prefer fatter women but this is unlikely. I agree with the others that he is not so RP. An RP man would be happy and supportive of your efforts to get healthier. As for you getting "too muscular", as if you can accidentally achieve a huge amount of growth - that's utter nonsense. Just ask anyone in the fitness world. As a man, he should know better.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 06:41 AM
1

Why are you asking here first, instead of r/theredpill?
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 03:49 PM
8

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 06:49 AM
1

Both giving and receiving. Last non-occasion present I got him was a hair trimmer, I think it's the anticipation and surprise he likes most. Maybe the next time I bring over food I won't tell him what it is
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 05:33 AM
1

Sometimes I'm too chicken to even ask...
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 03:28 AM
2

Thanks for all the advice :) I've already learned to stop saying things like "aww thank you but you don't have to buy me things" because I realized it's totally pointless to say. I don't want to manipulate him but I thought maybe there were things I could do like change up my look when we see each other. But I know that even if he thinks that I look nice he won't necessarily say it out loud. So I think I will mention one day that my love language is words, and as you said, just drop it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 10:22 PM
3

Pretty much this. My parents were struggling to make it on their own after coming to the states - no family already established here. I don't know if this is also a trait of "poverty" but my dad is a hoarder and my mom doesn't throw things away, even paper. So our house was always cluttered - I couldn't invite anyone over, there was never any space and my parents couldn't "afford"/had no interest in buying containers or organizers. Everything got lost and I didn't really have my own possessions …
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 09:30 PM
0

I really should step up on the gifts myself. His hobby is really technical so I don't want to risk ordering something wrong but I've started to bring him home cooked food (we don't live together)
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 09:22 PM
0

He was the one who suggested the book in the first place. This was awhile back, so I guess that means I wasn't giving him enough gifts. I have since then, though
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 09:07 PM
5

I do appreciate his gifts, but it's just deeply ingrained in my upbringing to not find love in gifts, so they don't speak to my love language. I also have a guilt complex about people spending money on me. I know he doesn't see it that way, but I don't want him to feel like he has to buy my love.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 08:38 PM
2

Weight loss - I eat whatever I want as long as calories are within appropriate range. It's ok the eat more or less calories in a day as long as you have a healthy average long-term. When I was younger my weight would yo-yo from strict dieting following by binge eating. Now I don't really care and I'm the smallest I've been and maintaining easily. Nutrition - fruits, veggies, plenty of protein, non whole grains like white rice (easier to digest), omega-3 Hormones - birth control for clear skin Su…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 01:12 PM
1

What are your ages?
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/14 11:15 PM
1

Your whole post makes it sound like he's out to get you. He is your husband, not some stranger. You guys need to sit down and have a candid conversation about what he actually wants, don't just fly off the handle about what you think he wants. I find the whole tone of your post that of a bitter, already defeated woman. What was your relationship like a year ago? Were you meeting each other's needs then, or constantly fighting for what you want, as if you'd just get screwed over unless you kept i…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/14 10:13 PM
3

Is this guy a counselor? Very revealing
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/14 07:27 PM
2

Yes, (2) does sound likely, but they were also together for 2 years. Let's say OP did everything wrong. That's a long time to put up with horrible behavior, and she's left to speculate what went wrong... after 2 years with the man, why doesn't she know? This leads me to believe they both at least suck at communication. Constant nagging is obviously a character flaw, but because 2 years seems to me like a lot of time to be together without longer term prospects, I didn't think right away that OP …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 05:03 PM
2

Thank you for the explanation, this makes much more sense. I didn't mean that a woman should have sex with multiple guys, just literally date a lot of guys at once to speed up the process of finding the guy she wants - is that still bad?
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 04:21 PM
2

But what about the part in the welcome message that says advice for men from women is pointless and therefore so is advice for women from men because men and women's strategies are at odds with each other? I don't really understand the role of TRP guys on this sub for women. If it's in the woman's best interest to get a high quality male to commit to her, shouldn't she be doing all the things that TRP hates, like dating multiple guys, rejecting as many as possible, keeping some around as plates …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 08:14 AM
1

I just didn't want to buy those things if I don't have to, but maybe someday
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/14 11:13 PM
5

Lol, what's the purpose of hilighting her entire narrative as if it were some incriminating piece of evidence? Even if she slips up and comes across as henpecking, how is that an automatic dealbreaker? I agree with OP, relationships aren't just fun and games, after 2 years usually people are at the stage of working to solve problems together. OP does need to work on her communication, but he can't just create huge fights out minor issues. This indicates he can't communicate either, and then cuts…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/14 03:51 PM
1

I don't exactly have anything against healthier substitutions if it tastes same/better, I would just really like the know when something is a substitution (it doesn't always say) and I don't want to buy ingredients that I'll use once and never again.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/14 03:12 PM
2

I didn't know that about Pinterest, but that makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/14 03:07 PM
2

Wow, thank you for all the suggestions! I do have trouble following recipes exactly, I just start doing my own thing and if it turns out well I'll forget what I did lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/14 08:09 AM
1

You have to keep in mind, it's makeupaddiction. Think about it from their perspective, even if you don't have a feminist bone in your body, but you're really into makeup, you don't want to hear a statement that dismisses your hobby. They don't take kindly to people saying that OP is "already beautiful" or "looks better without makeup". It's always down voted, and rightfully so.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/14 06:48 AM
2

I think it's more like you should lead by example in letting go of the jealously. He shouldn't question you either.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/14 06:43 AM
5

Well you're already good at it, it's not like you can just take it back? I don't see the harm in having a useful skill. You don't have to act like one of the guys.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/14 02:12 AM
0

For me it would boil down to who has the most tiring job all day
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 08:07 PM
2

What sexism? It's not about hard and fast rules applying to each and every man and woman on this planet. The women here are looking for a certain type of guy but even then nobody is looking for the exact same thing and behaving the same exact way.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 07:22 AM
1

What's your favorite example/resource on class and elegance?
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 06:41 AM
2

I'm sure someone else can explain everything for you since I'm on mobile (hence all the edits) but the way I see it is that you either share these values or you don't. You don't have to agree with everything but if you can't relate to any of rpw then there's not really any point of following the sub, is there? Some women just identify with traditional values. If that's not for you then it's just not. And no, nobody is here to entertain pure curiosity about why they should agree with rpw in the f…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 06:30 AM
3

I mean if you don't agree with any of these things (which you are grossly over simplifying anyway), then you don't have to. Nobody is forcing you to be here. It's not meant to be appealing to you. It's about self improvement. If you're not the least bit selfish, manipulative, disloyal, etc then that's wonderful. What's the problem here?
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 06:14 AM
6

Can I ask you guys something? With a bigger age difference, I can't help but think about how sooner he'd die compared to me :( Is that an issue? Am I just being morbid?
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/14 06:19 AM
2

I'm glad you finally understand
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 06:46 AM
4

Deteriorating relationship lead to cheating if you're dating a cheater.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 03:55 AM
4

She would still not be at fault for his cheating. For a deteriorating relationship? Sure. But cheating, no.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 02:39 AM
6

Actually, that's exactly what I do mean. If a couple agrees to be sexually monogamous and one partner cheats, it is entirely their fault because they made that decision to cheat without breaking up with their partner first. It's cowardly and spineless. I'm not talking about what led up to the actual decision to act and I'm not being gender specific. I don't know why you're so insistent on defending cheaters.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 02:06 AM
8

A girl could let herself go but it doesn't excuse cheating. It's on HIM to end the relationship if he's going to sleep with someone else. Otherwise he's just a coward.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 12:48 AM
1

The back pain started with a work related injury, but is taking forever to heal for a sprain. Worker's comp physical therapy has been helping minimally. It's not even that bad now, but I'm not used to it. It's been around 3 months since the injury and I'm beginning to fear I'll just have to deal with the ache whenever I bend/squat/workout for the rest of my life. Then I remember I am young and the unfairness makes me even more resentful. I'll have to get myself one of those rollers... Sleep is u…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/14 06:28 AM
2

I get really bitchy and emotional if I am in physical pain (back pain, stomach/head aches), which is happening a lot more than I'm typically used to. Any tips to overcome this?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/14 05:38 AM
5

Can someone help me out with this? I'm not against other women reproducing or making arguments in favor of doing so. But time and again, and this thread included, the language is always to have kids or to have a baby. They're cute. They rely on you. No one ever says they want to have a teenager, or a future adult, but before you know it, that's what they become. The idea of bringing a future adult into the world is far more daunting to me than "having kids".
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/14 05:32 AM
3

I see this advice a lot around here... why? I don't think every woman looks good with long hair. Certain styles work better for different face shapes.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/14 08:16 AM
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