This may be a small mini-rant, but as of lately I have seen many ladies who comment here becoming defensive and sassy over articles being posted, or even the advice that was given to them - when they asked for it. Most do a great job, but let's just kind of clear something up/talk about something for a quick min.

This shows a lack of personal security within yourself, the lack of power you can maintain to keep a strong frame as a Red Pill Women, and that you very well still are stuck in the ways that "because we are women, things should be written nicely and portrayed in a ray of sunlight."

Maybe being RPW means different things to different people, but the fact is that one of our main jobs is to be secure and in control of our emotions. Our men are our captains and they lead, but they expect us to be reliable. If they are not around and there is a decision that needs to be made then you need to be the type of women he can rely on to be emotionally capable to pull through. This also isn't just all for your SO's security, either. It's creating a better and stronger you in this case because superior women can maintain proper composure at all times. We are all here to develop ourselves further and to figure out ways to become better. Becoming snarky and defensive shows your true feelings rather then being transparent and in control. Just because a member, an article, WHOEVER is being direct and straight forward does not mean they are coming off as rude or taking up a tone. What you're failing to see is the message behind what is being said and why it's being said. So maybe before you become defensive, or before you get a bit bent out of shape over some topic that is coming at you a bit harder then you would prefer, just remember that some of us have gotten passed this phase of transition and know that it is in fact a stage, which is why there will not be compensation for your lack of moving through this stage already. You will learn to read things without having any emotional ties lingering, you will learn to leave the feminine emotions out of your thought process, and you will step back and be a lot more at peace with yourself when you are truly in control over your mind.

I can tell you that learning to control your emotions can and will make a major impact on positivity in your life and those around you. You need to be strong for your SO, your children, and yourself. You need to know wrong from right and the importance of it without hinderance.

Rant over- Correct me if I'm wrong as well, but I just thought this was a main point for RPW's thinking.