| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 33 | Reading List For A Beginner | buckybuck | /r/seduction | 10/02/10 07:28 PM | |
| 15 | Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel. | buckybuck | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 06:56 AM | |
| 5 | Friend Zone | buckybuck | /r/seduction | 01/02/10 06:06 PM | |
| 5 | Alt / Punk Girls? | buckybuck | /r/seduction | 02/02/10 05:31 PM | |
| 3 | Younger girls | buckybuck | /r/seduction | 07/10/10 07:56 PM | |
| 1 | So how many women are you actually seeing / fucking? | buckybuck | /r/seduction | 05/02/10 01:26 PM | |
| 1 | Elevator Shoes | buckybuck | /r/seduction | 17/06/10 11:47 AM | |
| 0 | Was this an IOI? | buckybuck | /r/seduction | 30/04/10 04:13 PM | |
| 0 | Boston area sedditors, I need two new roommates... | buckybuck | /r/seduction | 30/06/11 02:38 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | The old sedditor locator is outdated. Let's start a new one!Boston. | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 11:45 AM |
| 1 | The old sedditor locator is outdated. Let's start a new one!North America | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Boston area sedditors, I need two new roommates...Did so using my main reddit username, here | /r/seduction | 03/07/11 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Boston area sedditors, I need two new roommates...I'm 34. | /r/seduction | 03/07/11 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Boston area sedditors, I need two new roommates...You mean you need a new place 8/1? PM me, my landlord isn't happy with one of the roommates I am losing (behind on rent), and is trying to make him move out a month early. | /r/seduction | 30/06/11 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Boston area sedditors, I need two new roommates...One room is $580 / month and the other is $565 (slightly smaller room with a sorta half-closet). Electric / Heat are not included, but the apartment comes with a working dryer and a washing machine that just needs a new part, and should be working by the move-in day (Sept. 1). | /r/seduction | 30/06/11 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Sedditors in BostonOut of curiosity, do you need a place to live? Long time sedditor here, located in Somerville, and just found out my two roommates are moving out and I need to find replacements soon as possible. PM me for details if you might be interested. I think having a fellow sedditor or two as roommates might be pretty awesome. | /r/seduction | 30/06/11 02:36 PM |
| 1 | It's time for me to fucking grow up. (A small rant.)Couldn't feel more empathy for this post. I'm finally meeting up with some Boston Sedditors soon, and plan on jumpstarting my passage into PUA-dome soon after. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Sedditor LocatorWe're organizing a meet sometime in early 2011, hopefully January. If you think you'd like to try and make it, let me know and provide an email address. :) We have three potential attendess at the moment, including myself. -Dan [email protected] | /r/seduction | 15/12/10 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Sedditor LocatorWe should hook up at some point. I recently cut the hours from my second job so I should have weekends free for the first time in two years (thank god). I'll PM you then? | /r/seduction | 01/09/10 12:03 PM |
| 4 | Sedditor LocatorBoston | /r/seduction | 16/08/10 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Inspired by pooflinga, calling all PUAs willing to go out sarging... for fun, to teach, to learn and of course to pick up. Please post a comment with your location, age and level of experience... my suggestion for experience is f-close count in last year. (self.reddit.com)Boston, 33, never tried using game before. 0 experience, complete AFC. Want to try this shit out, will soon. This explains why. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel.Since you're giving out so much detailed advice, let me ask this question. Many Sedditors have commented that I should drop her as a friend. I knew this girl for 9 years when she had a boyfriend in the 90's, during which time we built a normal, platonic friendship with none of the bullshit that I described in my post. That all came after she broke up with her boy. Should I keep her in my life as a friend? That is, a friend who I treat much differently than I did before. Worlds differently. | /r/seduction | 28/07/10 09:09 AM |
| 0 | Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel.Point taken. Ignored her all day today. I have no intention of initiating contact until / unless she does, and then I'm not sure if I'll tell her how I feel, or just act cold. We'll see, we'll see. Have to get out of the mindset that I still might get her two or there years from now. Fuck her. She's a fucking bitch. | /r/seduction | 28/07/10 09:03 AM |
| 0 | Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel.Wait. So...a lot of people are advising me to get out, have fun, date girls, and in time she'll most likely come running back to me and want me. And, if that does happen, I /have/ to turn her down? Is that how this works? | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 10:38 PM |
| 0 | Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel.What did they do? How did they react? | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 08:28 PM |
| 0 | Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel.I'll think this over, it's worth considering. I'll be honest, I think I can be a platonic, self-respecting friend of hers, and still take her up on some banging if this PUA stuff works like everyone says it can, and she follows me around begging for it. Bad idea in your opinion I take it. We'll see. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel.I can't say this isn't possible. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 04:29 PM |
| 0 | Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel.This woman is not your friend. Women that act this way are not a >friend. A friend wouldn't treat another person this way. A friend >wouldn't use another person when they felt like it, then spurn them >when they had no use for them. I have to disagree here, because I'm still friends with people that have done mean, fucked up things to me. I have done mean, fucked up things to some of them, too. People screw up, and sometimes you drop the friendship and sometimes not, depends on what happened. Sh… | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 03:46 PM |
| 0 | Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel.She's my best friend, so I don't think I'll be dropping her from my life. I value the friendship, but if she wants it to be platonic from here on out, it will be. And I will not be around as often to listen to her problems (especially boys), I'll be out with girls, or busy in my room with one. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 01:18 PM |
| 0 | Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel.Maybe I should clarify something: this girl isn't just one random friend, she's been my best friend for about five years running. I don't intend to dissappear on her, or stop being her friend, but things are going to change dramatically and I'm going to be around far, far less often. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel.The wasting is over, I just need to get past the anger and regret before I start sarging. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel.This helps. After we signed off following the dramatic showdown, I felt like the anger might have been a mistake. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel.No, I waited…I think about a month. There is a lot going on in both our lives, and there never seemed to be a ‘right time’ for the talk. | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Completely suckered. Anger and self-loathing is all I feel.Unfortunately, I am past the point of doing anything to get this girl into bed anywhere in the near future. I reacted to the news with anger, resentment, and basic AFC behavior. No changing that now. I can't expect push-pull to work, now. Might have been a good idea before, but now? And, you're right about the last part. A gf, or dating several girls, would possibly cause her to begin to see me as attractive. And I'm definitely thinking by then I might not care, and honestly, that pisses me off … | /r/seduction | 27/07/10 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Good Evening Gentlemen! I'm Shots, and I'm here to help you.I asked here once before about tips on escaping the friend zone. The best advice I read was, in a nutshell, to become unavailable because you are out doing fun things, preferabaly with attractive & fun women. I'm on my way to giving this a shot, but I would love to know if you have any more tips or ideas. And a more specific question: she has a tendency, now and then, to come on to me very strongly, but never go through with intimacy (I just don't think I should). But she has no problem touching… | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 02:34 PM |
| 2 | No Excuses. (Developing Self-Discipline)Good point about the 'try.' I will quit! | /r/seduction | 17/06/10 03:14 PM |
| 2 | No Excuses. (Developing Self-Discipline)Thanks for the pep talk. I could use this. Going to try and quit smoking today, and work on some other things once that's accomplished. Lord knows I NEED more discipline in my life. | /r/seduction | 17/06/10 11:54 AM |
| 1 | What are your favorite peacocking accessories?I am not a PUA, just a guy reading up on it for now. May try some of it out in the future. I have a Septum ring (curved barbell) in my nose. For weeks at a time I keep it hidden by putting a retainer in the hole (I work two jobs and cannot wear it out at either one) but when I do go out to a bar or party, I like to wear it. The girls I dig love it. Problem is, at 33, I'm starting to feel a little odd wearing it. Sometimes. | /r/seduction | 10/02/10 02:06 PM |
| 2 | "Flirt school" for women in London. Part of what they teach is how to avoid PUAs.If 'old school' routine PUA isn't practiced anymore, what's taken it's place? Noob here. | /r/seduction | 10/02/10 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Great PracticeEr, sometimes I'll sit there waiting to start a conversation, and EVERYONE is just clicking next, next, next. I don't know about this thing. | /r/seduction | 05/02/10 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Friend ZoneYou know what's annoying about it? If I asked her, she'd be all about it. Every time I've ended up in a relationship, she's been all about telling me how happy she is for me. Grrr. | /r/seduction | 05/02/10 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Great PracticeI've found it difficult to get anyone to talk for more than a few minutes. However, holding up my (awesome) kitty cat worked on a few girls. | /r/seduction | 04/02/10 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Alt / Punk Girls?Hrm, I should get back into drums and just form a band. | /r/seduction | 02/02/10 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Alt / Punk Girls?I think I have the look down. Although, at 33, I had begun thinking about retiring my Septum piercing. Then again, I am told I look more like I'm 25. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/02/10 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Crosspost IAMA: Another PUA Doing an AMAI came across the PUA community via an IAMA post months ago. Since then I've been feeling around the internet, slowly acquainting myself with the community and what it teaches. In any case, I eventually mentioned to a few friends that I was reading about PUA stuff, and in ever case the reaction mirrored reddit's. Total hate and derision. Undeserved, too, in my opinion. I'm still not sure if I want to really give this a try, but I might. If I do, I will be keeping it a secret from just about ever… | /r/seduction | 02/02/10 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Friend ZoneHah! Did you ever escape? The thing here that keeps me from just moving on is that I seem to be teetering just on the edge of the Zone, perhaps. We /do/ fool around, just nothing 'major.' In the past, a couple years ago, we did something major. So, yeah. Wish me luck! | /r/seduction | 01/02/10 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Friend ZoneDefinitely am doing this. For Xmas and her recent Bday I got her very nice, thoughtful gifts that she squealed over, and took her out for a nice dinner + drinks. Can't say I don't love spending time with her and getting her nice shit. Basically it seems like I have to put everything in reverse, and do the opposite of what comes naturally right now. | /r/seduction | 01/02/10 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Friend ZoneThis makes a lot of sense. She's openly said to me a few times 'I just need time to decide.' Of course, she has /forever/ to decide, and takes it! | /r/seduction | 01/02/10 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Friend ZoneNo problem there. I work 75 hours a week at two jobs. But, what little time I have to spend being social is often spent with my friend. She considers me her best friend, and same here. I'll see what I can do in this regard. Should be easy enough. | /r/seduction | 01/02/10 07:33 PM |
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