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NAH, SISbuddingQueenie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 06:08 PM
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LIES MEN TELLbuddingQueenie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:33 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYbuddingQueenie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 12:48 AM
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DISCUSSIONbuddingQueenie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 11:59 PM
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REMINDER 👑buddingQueenie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 06:58 PM
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LIES MEN TELLbuddingQueenie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 06:21 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?buddingQueenie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:38 AM
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DISCUSSIONbuddingQueenie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:28 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYbuddingQueenie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:43 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYbuddingQueenie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:44 PM
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#JustLVMThingsbuddingQueenie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:38 AM
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LVM LOGICbuddingQueenie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 06:37 AM
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LIES MEN TELLbuddingQueenie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 06:16 AM
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"hold up a relationship" to LVM like this winner = feed him, fuck him, clean his house, take his kids to school, be his therapist, stay with him when he cheats, wipe his shitty asshole. Pfft, yeah, as if a woman divorcing that kinda mess is somehow worse. Stay mad, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:28 PM
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Ew. This sounds like one of those 4chan dudes that have "Would you fuck her?" threads along with hidden camera nudes and videos. Dump the fucking loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:33 PM
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Here's the annoying thing: there's blue, red, green, light blue, light green, pink. So many different colors. And he chose the one she said NOT to choose. At that point, just don't bring it to her at all. Or stop being a stubborn idiot and just do that small favor cause it means something to her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:55 PM
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Her opener was lame. True. On the other hand, those are basic as fuck requirements. A job, car, and house is too much? What is this, highschool? And silly scrote, females do the picking. Always. In every species. Including yours. You're just weeding yourself out. Thank you for that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:01 AM
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It's cause hate against women on Reddit is normal and a-OK. That's why they'd ban a space to talk about misogynistic subs against women This logic only makes sense if you're a selfish LV reddit male admin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:22 PM
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They are special in that they're not very common. 😥 To most LVM, this is actually a high bar to not do any of those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:58 AM
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I bet you even spent so little at a time so you wouldn't notice. Gold-digging scrotes are way more common than the ones they try to shame us as.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:53 AM
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Honestly I'm so glad women shaming these scrotes is actually becoming more mainstream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:50 AM
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Yup! So basically, not much has changed. Yayyy Also, I like your username!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:44 PM
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If you think Johnny Bravo is bad, wait until you see Pepe le Pew. That's the most rapiest cartoon I've ever seen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:57 PM
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"Thanks for blocking me" "You're welcome :)"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 05:21 PM
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I used to have a FWB (other than the wife part) back when I was younger and naiive and this nails it PERFECTLY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 09:49 PM
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In manspeak, "all men do this" = "I know I'm a disgusting freak but if I lower your standards to think all men are like this, then you'll accept me" Nah, that won't work on us FDS women, disgusting pigs. I hate that fucking phrase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:58 PM
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I know everyone is focused on the child portion, but did you guys see the guy who said he had thoughts about torturing and raping women? It was suggested to him that he seek consensual BDSM. Ladies. A guy who had thoughts about TORTURING and RAPING women. Real ones! This is why it doesn't pay to be a kinkmeisha. The guys have the REAL THOUGHTS of doing it to you for real. You're just playing along with a ticking time bomb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:27 PM
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Hook-up means sex to me. A man who is granted your body, or the possibility of using it, for the first time should be celebrating and thankful, not analyzing you like you are a used vehicle with an odometer. If its kissing/making out that you mean by hook up...Same thing. He's a dumbass. Drop and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:22 PM
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🤣 You girls crack me up. This thread is on point. 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:13 PM
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"You deserve to be raped! You deserve to get hit! You deserve to get KILLED!" smack "Wait, why did this happen? Women are so mean! They're so emotional! MGTOW!" Violence is never the answer but when you go around openly threatening people, shit might start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:12 PM
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Omg it's you again! Yes! I'm so happy you're making more. The tiny pink little note at the end. 🤣🤣🤣 We're your biggest fans!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:04 AM
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That last sentence was a real WHAT THE FUCKKKKK moment in my head. "if he genuinely was so repulsed by me". Why are you sticking by someone who you feel thinks about you in this way? And if you're not physically attracted to her, let her go, you pig of convenience. He probably just keep her around for a free ego pick me up or some extra income. It's clear he doesn't care about her otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 09:30 PM
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Why would he even try? Seriously? I wish they could be honest just once so we can ask them what the fuck they are thinking when they try shit like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 09:20 PM
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Woah, that's super freaky to learn. But honestly, these guys are going to be super thirsty that they're going to out themselves before they even say hi. Just add your extra reason to the pile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:43 AM
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I'm nosy, so I looked at your comment. That lady that responded to you is such a dumb pick me. So embarassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:44 AM
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This is seriously nothing we haven't experienced before. Men only think with their dicks. They disagree with even a small opinion you have and it's one of the following: slut, ugly, fat, gold digger, bimbo, picky. This is just exhibit #234083049821109 of men showing off their fragile egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:53 AM
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For my ex's birthday, I took him to an international convention, all expenses paid. For mine, I was craving a $5 chicken nugget meal, hinted it to him 3 times, and he, puzzled, ask why I didn't get one then if I was craving it. I ended up paying for it myself. This unfairness was ONE of the final straws from the ton of other things he did. Useless loser. I found FDS after I dumped him and I couldn't be happier being single and working on myself. Men are worthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:56 PM
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Exactly. She'll play around with him for a while and dump. Then he'll suddenly realize who the true love of his life is, what a mistake he's made, OP take him back, blah blah. Men are so predictable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:51 PM
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I bet you if you wait a while, and then make THE SAME JOKE with the genders reversed, these cumbrains would gobble it up and suck each other off about how they're the better sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:25 PM
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Omg the creepy eyes at the end. 🤣🤣🤣 This is awesome! Please keep making these. I busted a gut laughing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:39 AM
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Cumbrain insults are so predictable. Fat, ugly, slut, golddigger, bitch, hoe... Yawn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 09:13 PM
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I GUESS you're a human with a life and happenings but WHAT ABOUT ME?? Please surround yourself with support during this time. ❤️ And block this guy's negativity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:50 PM
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I love the gym. But I remember doing some squats and some guys staring at my ass every time I performed a squat. Like the ticking of a clock, very predictable and obvious leering. I felt like throwing the bar at their fucking eyes. IM NOT YOUR PORN, CUMBRAINS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:41 PM
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Because it reminds them that you are actually a person and not just a pornstar they get to fuck in real life. Don't take it personally. Cumbrains are like that. Be happy they show who they are very quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:35 PM
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Oh my god, I remember watching the whole video with a smile on my face and full on belly laughs He thinks his "talk fast" bullshit makes him smart until he's faced with an actual professional with real arguments. That interview was delicious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:32 PM
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Trust me, they never change. A pick me friend of mine had a baby with a NVM. I wondered if the irony of having a daughter after treating women like shit would help him treat women better. Nah, he's still the same shitty scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:29 PM
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My lord, I had no idea he'd gone so downhill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:25 PM
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Holy fuck, this sub is on fire with the responses to stupid male degradation. 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:58 PM
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I love your clapbacks. These loser men are so predictable cause they only think with their dick. List of insults: slut, old, golddigger, ugly, fat. Pick one (or all) of the above. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:49 PM
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Perfect response. 👌 I knew there must be a response to that stupid saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 12:17 AM
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Dump him and get a second dog. At least the second dog will be more obedient and less disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 08:38 PM
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Imagine the outrage if the genders were reversed. We'd be getting ridiculed. "What? You need a man to take care of you?" They're so pathetic. They think they need a national holiday for themselves whenever they do a single chore. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 08:34 PM
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Exactly! You are 100% right. This is also why men don't live as long too. They can't even be bothered to throw some healthy veggies and spices in a Crock-Pot. Hence, the "bachelor" lifestyle of TV dinners and take out. No wonder we naturally carry the children lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:39 PM
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This is hilarious. If even they know their joke is stupid, they shouldn't fucking say it. Good job 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:01 PM
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Very good point. I mean, even hormonal birth control aside, these wastes of space can't even wrap their fucking dick without complaining. Tells you all you need to know about how freaking whiny they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:54 PM
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My mom is an elementary teacher and one day walked in on her students laughing at the idea of boys playing dolls and playing house. "Boys and girls, do you realize that the boys who do that learn basic house skills and learn how to care about others?" She said that her kids were blown away by the suggestion. I wonder if she's right. They're not taught empathy but roughness at a young age. Maybe she has a point, just like this little boy does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:44 PM
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Men: "We're the strongest and smartest gender" Uh-huh, sure. 🙃 Not even when all the work is done for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:40 PM
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Yet another example of FDS principles working like a charm. They think you're worthless until they realize they're the disposable ones and you're the prize for men dying to please and woo you. THEN they want you. Boy bye 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 08:47 PM
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They bring a lot to the table! ​ It's just in the form of STI's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:46 AM
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Am I the only one who laughed at the choice of song anthem? 😂 Fitting for a lazy unimpressive fuck like this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 11:59 PM
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They're right, I totally forgot! Next time, I'll place my asshole on my back instead. This is probably an angry, bitter incel though. They have the same dumbass logic like that, all across the board.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 05:32 PM
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Exactly! "Hmm. I'm not feeling Chelsea but maybe Sarah today" It's like they think we're a daily lunch item they get to pick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:44 PM
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I just want to say we have the best mod team! So nice that you guys are asking us our opinions. Thanks <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:37 AM
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Eww. How the fuck did we get to the top of the food chain when men have the mental capacity and restraint of an air-humping dog? When they can't even pull back FOR THEIR OWN SURVIVAL, they're fucking defective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:29 AM
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Shh, he's trying to make it the women's fault. You're hurting his circular reasoning. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:26 AM
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I made the same exact mistake too! But we're definitely worth them doing all that extra work. You're right. 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 08:31 PM
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Your progress is amazing by the way! I'm really sorry those jerks didn't give you a proper kudos. You deserve one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 04:02 AM
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I'm an only child and a loner by nature, so being single has been very comfortable for me. I love focusing on my goals of getting more fit, love taking care and loving my puppy, and just love experiencing life on my own or with the occasional friend. You have to find value in life other than having a man by your side. What are your dreams or aspirations? Interests? Ever thought of getting fit or learning some new weird skill? Passion for life's obscurities will help you. Just have fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:22 AM
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Thank you. <3 We all learn at some point. Thanks for making this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:19 AM
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When he started losing interest, I kicked it up full-throttle and believed in "maybe he's truly busy" and "just text him first". Led to me being an absolute pick me to a man when I was fit and young and he was 15 years my senior (and I earned almost double him, still), out of shape, with a huge pubic beard. I get angry at myself and my dumb past but now that'll NEVER happen again. I learned my fucking worth. The biggest pickmeishas become the biggest queens when they wake up. Don't beat yourself…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:07 AM
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I'm AMAZED at the responses! Wow! So many calling her a pick me! Has FDS really gotten that popular now? Amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 08:05 PM
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Oh my god, that's a brutal one. I love it. Double-whammy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:33 AM
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When they say "I trust him"... Um, do you know how many revenge porn nudes there are floating around the internet from girls who said the same thing? I never understood that argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 09:04 PM
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I bet you he's one of the "golddigger worriers" with the way hes treating her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:22 AM
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I like corny puns and stuff but as AN OPENER? That's when yo're supposed to show a girl you're interested in her. Lazy jokes like that as an opener show that you're either immature or want to do it to post on the internet for shits and giggles (and we know which case this one is).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:04 PM
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"You don't want a girl that doesn't like your sense of humor" (Has 10,000+ upvotes) Um, not a lot of women take kindly to copypasta elementary-level jokes as an OPENER but okay sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:13 PM
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Exactly! They ALWAYS brag about how they're the biggest and strongest but when it comes to lifting a can of fucking chicken noodle, it's too hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:55 AM
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And men like joking about how terrible marriage is to their wives. They can't get any more of a better deal than having a wife and still complain while scratching their hairy nutsack and doing nothing. Lazy pigs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:04 AM
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This is a great way to view this! Instead of beating ourselves up, analyze our mistake and strike them down next time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 03:02 AM
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This woman is a top friend, honestly. She tried everything she could behind the legal bounds of her job to tell her friend. Goes without saying but what a fucking shitbag. I'm sure this guy would have played house with these two women forever! LVM have NO moral compass! My grandma dated a guy for a while and he had a whole other fucking family in another state that he lied to as well. And they dated like 6 years too. As for the pregnant woman...weren't there any signs? You're having a baby to a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:59 AM
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Omg this is fucking horrifying. They're being downvoted for saying she can do whatever the hell she wants with her body!!! I know I shouldn't be surprised but !!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:52 PM
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"My wife is defective. She just stopped working. I feel sorry for myself." What the hell is in the water that these men are drinking?? Seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:39 PM
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Stay if you want to stay, leave whenever you wake up on your own. You cannot save everyone from themselves This is EXACTLY what I've learned. I've stopped being the "you need to stop doing x" friend. They're not going to listen and they're just going to resent me each time I tell them. People eventually learn from the experiences in their life and I shouldn't be intervening each step of the way. Who am I to do that to others?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 10:45 PM
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Then OP keeps the baby, they'll break up, then she'll be the next "toxic ex" for the next unsuspecting girl. Just as he planned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:50 PM
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Wait for him to complain that she "trapped him". When they complain about women trapping them with babies, almost 100% of the time, they've whined about condoms at some point or stealthed like a rapey jackass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 10:34 PM
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This shows that "give him a chance" is their way of saying "be our communal sex toy or get some insults from us". Absolutely pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:53 AM
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Omg if I could read the triggered responses you'll get from lurkers on this one. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:51 PM
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Poor little victim. He felt "cornered" He sure didn't feel cornered when he looked around for someone a decade younger while neglecting his own family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 12:12 AM
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You're not a real FDSer until you've gotten one! 😂 Cross-post to /r/FDSSuperFans!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 12:09 AM
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You know what really annoys me about the "You're making it a big deal!" argument men use? Is that if it's not a big deal to you but it is to me, you're my partner and you're supposed to care anyway about how I feel! Like if someone says "I hate when you say x, please don't say x", it costs you more to be a dumbass and argue my preferences than to simply say "Alright sweety, I love you and care. I won't say it." Low value men do not equal love or empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:35 PM
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Exactly girl, well said! 1000% with you. Preferences are wayy different than a dislike for a whole race. 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:39 AM
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I agree with you. Casual racism lite is not cool. I was disappointed and surprised to see this post on FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:22 AM
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Anyone notice the username of the guy who posted? FDS historian? Wow, we are the talk of the town!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 10:26 AM
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But why was MGTOW quarantined and FDS wasn't? 😭 It's just not fairrrr! They can't even see the reason when it's right under their noses!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 03:29 PM
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I like how you explained that little detail of the sub we were posted in. Honestly, EVERY sub that's had us crossposted seems so desperate to frame us within the context of their sub just to hate on us somehow. You hit the nail on the head. They're so desperate to throw shade
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 05:09 AM
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Even if it DID go to the correct person...can you imagine how much of a low-functioning cumbrain you have to be? That you mention (what seems to be) online camgirls that make your dick hard to your friend? Lizzy dodged a bullet. You go, girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:19 PM
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Why even waste your time with clowns? Block and delete. Your time is better spent elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 04:43 AM
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FDS avoiding abusive men is misandrist and hateful. Being glad you didn't kill a woman you're with is funny and a-OK. We should reference this post next time they complain about us. 🙄 Double-standard freaks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 12:59 PM
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Thank you! You read my confusion. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:21 PM
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Don't you know! The protected classes from "stereotyping" are age, sex, race, sexual orientation and porn-watching! They sure do protect their stash. Make a negative comment about it (WITH STUDIES) and it's like flies to shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:20 AM
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Why is a calcium deficiency important?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:06 AM
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Idk about child molesters but 100% hypocrites behind closed doors. I have an uncle who wrinkled his nose at me over playing "scary games of the devil" (the Slenderman game when I was in middle school) but harassing his wife for more children/ hitting her was a-OK. She divorced him and I never speak to him. Taught me a lot about those very loud types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:42 PM
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I did the exact same thing, waiting and seeing if he would reach out. If you're already having doubts he will, 99% of the time, he's a forever ghost. I did it and NEVER heard from the guy again. I even bumped into him at a park once and he never reached out/said hi. You probably have one of those low effort ones too. You're worth more than these little games, girl. Better guys out there for you! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:46 AM
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Definitely drop him like a bad habit. You should be on the forefront of this guy's mind if he's talking to you. He is either doing this because he's not over her or to make YOU want to live up to standards ("My ex was so hot and fit!") Either explanation is sinister. 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:31 AM
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This sounds exactly right. I knew there was some underlying sinister feel to it, I just couldn't place it. 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:29 AM
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"Her crying really pissed me off" Sounds about the empathy level of a LVM. AND SHE DUMPED HIM. 👑 Im SO happy for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:59 PM
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This is the BEST ending I've ever heard from these shitty AITA posts. Love me a great story of a LVM getting dumped by everyone and a great queen levelling up. 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:52 PM
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They always want to fuck without a condom but when they want to hate women they put on the "women make kid leeches" hat on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:28 AM
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He sounds so manipulating. Glad you got away from that loser. These guys are a dime a dozen. Not sure why cause they always end up alone through their manipulations anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:19 PM
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Thank you for this! Had an enormous downvote brigade on a well-meaning comment and a group chat invite to a celibacy group? People are fucking weird. Your warning came on just the right day. Thanks for keeping this sub great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 04:14 AM
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Because they "love" him! It's the number one reason and whining I hear from pickmeishas when I ask them why they don't drop the shitty sack of driftwood from their life. When emotions get in the way, a ton of people will fall for it. It's just a matter of realizing that the warm fuzzies doesn't turn a man into a gem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:02 AM
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It's a way to take advantage of the conditioning we've been given as women. Same reason why the ones who make a repulsive comment never stand by their original intent ("What sounds good right now? Anal! Oh my God I'm just kiddinggggg"). They are cowardly and never own up to their actions. It's why we women are the ones in charge of vetting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 07:13 PM
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The annoying thing is that not everyone with corona has fever, even. So on top of his stupidity, others might still do the same, bypass the safety checks, and not get caught. That mother is probably furious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:39 PM
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It's just a way to deflect, I think. It changes the conversation from "pedophilia is wrong" to "what types of pedophiles are there?". Lazy deflection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:36 PM
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Girl, I'm not downvoting you. And not sure why I'm being downvoted either. I merely threw it out there since people are isolated and might need someone to talk to. I've been on there for years too as a listener and thought it'd be a great resource for others if they need help. I guess it was an extremely controversial suggestion for some reason? Sorry, everyone, I guess?...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:12 PM
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The fact that the videos had HUNDREDS of views before it was taken down...not even the users reported it or were disgusted enough by it. Surprising. Not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:19 PM
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That last one is incredibly annoying. 🙄 Black and white thinking, ANYTHING to avoid realizing that women's ability to consent can be taken away by assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:17 PM
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Agreed! Mirroring has always worked well. Helps you a ton and trash takes itself out every time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:14 PM
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At this point when a guy is seemingly normal, I wait for the porn sickness to show up. It always happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:12 PM
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You can switch your accounts to vent as a member... But if that's not up your alley, then that's fine. I hope you can find some friends during this pandemic. I just thought it'd be nice to point out a resource in case you need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:31 PM
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There are venting sites with well-meaning people. I know they're not friends but they can certainly help you if you need to vent. https://www.7cups.com/ https://blahtherapy.com/ This will help you in low moments while you start making friends. :) Edit: Not sure why I'm being downvoted. We're all going through a rough and isolated time. The more resources, the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 02:54 PM
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You invited him to your house during a pandemic and you went full paragraphs when he was saying he was no longer interested. Block and delete next time. And girl, stop bringing them to your house during a pandemic!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:46 PM
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He's right! We should be paying EVERYTHING for them just to prove that we can and that we're not broke!!! Pay for the roof above their heads, the food they feed their potbellies with. You know, cause otherwise we're broke!!! They're so full of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:41 PM
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Unfortunately, that's what some of these young females like. I call them females bc some of them don't conduct themselves as women, the same goes for the males too Notice how 3/4 of this comment talk about the women being at fault and then a VERY quick mention about the men (just to not be called out) There's STILL guys in the comments victim blaming. A bunch of trash men out there, ladies. Despite their whinings about women picking wrong, I'm sure they're out there still polluting the dating po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:38 PM
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Will there ever be porn that has them actually being a nice person? I'm 100% sure this is some stupid porn fantasy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:35 AM
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Oh yeah, scrote rotation, you're right! 😂 Oops, I guess I repurposed it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:17 AM
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Ew just the end conversation where he said he was busy. What a gross dipshit. Glad you got away! Don't be surprised when he comes slinking back like a roach. Use the bug repellent if he does. 🦗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 10:50 PM
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Which one? Id like to watch it too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 10:48 PM
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It's not FDS vernacular; Its just a word I made up. 😂 My definition: Scrotation - The useless state of being a scrote Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 10:30 PM
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They always show their scrotation at all times. You reject them? "ENTITLED BITCH" You are into them? "ENTITLED BITCH" You are indifferent? "ENTITLED BITCH" I bet you my entire savings account that every man on that thread considers himself a "good man"in the "where are all the good men?" subreddit. 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 10:01 PM
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I don't remember the quote exactly but it says something like "Women think clearest before sex. Men think clearest after sex" It has happened to be true time and time again. Remember. You are most powerful before sex. You are not attached. You havent given anything of yourself up yet and you're vetting while he's still having tunnel vision just to get you in bed. But yes, this is why we advise to wait a while before sex. Men do the bait and switch a ton and it never works out well. Just keep thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 09:58 PM
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I'm so glad you found it a positive experience and we were able to help you when you needed it most. There's a reason I've been on 7cups for many years and these thank you messages are why (even if it means dealing with a redpiller once in a while 😉).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 09:51 PM
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Oh my God is that the title of a REAL porn vid??? I knew they were depraved but that's absolutely insane. How can they sexualize everything in that way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 09:40 PM
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Question aside, he sounds so perfect! I got to keep my hopes up to find one like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 09:18 PM
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Ikr? They conveniently forgot the Washington Post article we were on. Now why would that be? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 07:10 PM
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I'm active on listening sites (Blahtherapy and 7cups, as an example) and I've helped loads of women on my free time get away from their terrible LVM partners and love interests. I recommend them if you're still interested in helping--much lower percentage of losers! :) The lovely reviews and thank yous you get make my day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:55 PM
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Whisper is the low value male paradise. Every single one on there is a thirsty negging worthless pile of cumbrains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:48 PM
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Not only that, it's a cop out! These losers barely go above and beyond for their WIVES later on. They just scratch their hairy testes and wait until someone feeds their pot belly. LVM never go above and beyond no matter how much you're worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:10 PM
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You're looking good! Sorry you have to wade through the losers, OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 01:43 PM
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Exactly what I was going to say! This should be the top comment. We need to be aware of these dumbasses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 01:42 PM
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When people say "Well, you're going to end up alone", this is the alternative y'all. So keep your standards high af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 01:35 PM
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How is it "pussypassdenied" if she declined the date? It's not like the guy said "You're a woman but you're going to pay half"? And if the "pussypassdenied" is the pickme comment at the bottom, I STILL don't get how that's an own. "You still don't have a man". Girl, not everyone is shifting through trash cans to hope it's gold. Jesus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 01:32 PM
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If I could be a fly on the wall and hear the lurking scrotes rage at this post and angrily type DMs. Well done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:34 PM
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A bunch of pick mes in the YouTube comments saying how they watch porn too. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:42 AM
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Wikipage found: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Controversial_Reddit_communities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:29 AM
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"comfortable with unprotected sex and the consequences!" Male. Fucking. Depravity. Translation: If you get and STD from me or by some miracle get pregnant, you're on your own, loser!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 02:28 PM
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Yeah, with faces or identifiable features, especially full body. Not just like a simple dick pic. Edited to clarify!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 12:21 AM
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I don't mean dick pics but a whole body pic like they demand from women. Pics that show his whole body and identifiable features. I've seen a trend of them asking for pics like that but never showing the same risk themselves. But you're right, dick pics are a dime a dozen lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 12:11 AM
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First off, there are a ton of comparisons to us to incels because it causes people's fur to bristle and is an easy way to spread hate for this subreddit. We are not incels because: We do not condone the rape, enslavement, physical/sexual abuse of men We do not do petty things like chadfish just because we "hate" the opposite gender We get PLENTY of sexual and romantic offers We have multiple posts evidencing our drive to become better ourselves (filter by weekly update posts or "Level Up") We si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:10 AM
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Fixed. Majority of my advice remains the same. When you close the gap, you'll have issues with him taking care of his health as well as yours. Just think carefully about this. I would think about getting serious with this guy. He's showing reckless behavior early on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 05:26 AM
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Throw the whole man away. This is why lots of women are getting increasingly discontent with their partners during this time. Being with them so much amplifies issues. Who knows, maybe he got YOU sick. He's endangering your health. The US SURPASSED ITALY AND CHINA for number of cases and his line of thinking is why that is. Also, do your best to get tested. Your health depends on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 05:21 AM
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Damn this better just be karma farming for a lonely neckbeard out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 10:20 PM
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Women: I love you and want to spend time with you. Please put the phone away so we can spend time together. Men: SHUT THE FUCK UP NAGGING BITCH They think it's so cute and funny that they prefer games over their partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 05:39 PM
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Woah this is actually a super cool site. :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 05:01 AM
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That user chadonsunday is obsessed with you! He made a copypasta dedicated just for you! How romantic. https://imgur.com/a/dw3ZWU1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 05:00 AM
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"Sources?" "Here is a list of news sources fit for every political diet" "Lol I don't like one source. Youre stupid" "Did you look at the other sources?" "EAT SHIT AND DIE!" Sounds about right, honestly. You can even give them every single peer reviewed article in the world and they won't even click on it to educate themselves. It literally takes A FINGER to click. They use 5 of them to jack off to porn everyday. Willful idiots. Bonus idiot in the end. Hilarious how the guy pretending to argue i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 04:42 AM
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Because we're supposed to be quiet girls that step in line, suck their dicks, and wash their clothes while they demean us. They're angry we have the audacity to realize that we are human and are worth more than that. They whine and cry that we call them scrotes but they're totally fine with calling us bitches, sluts, and gold diggers for simply wanting some respect in a relationship or even friendship. We have staked a tiny corner of their website that is NOT centered around them and their onlin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 01:47 AM
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Let me guess: is the main theme of the answers "COMMUNICATE"? Such a vile man. Yes, caregiver exhaustion exists. That DOES NOT (!!!) mean you take it out on the person! What fucking garbage. This post made me more angry than most on here. The fact that we women have to constantly question because we're told "wOmEn eMoTioNaL" is why this woman is posting this question. I need a break
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 01:21 AM
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We can all only hope to have a nice relationship like that one day. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 07:33 PM
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Oh my lord that's awful. Especially since he could have disclosed about the herpes. I'm so sorry about what happened to you. Internet hugs! Please ignore the stigma around it (I notice you didn't mention it on your post) or the useless shaming from men. It's not a fault to want to trust the partners we love. I don't have it but I heard that as long as you take your meds and don't have sex during flare-ups, the transmission rates are extremely low. The right man will understand that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 05:30 PM
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I have HPV. Honestly, there is no test for men even in a medical office. Only women as abnormal cells tend to show in the cervix. On the bright side (or silver lining?) most healthy people fight it off on their own. A large percentage of sexually active people will get it at some point in their lives and there are many strains of it that DONT cause cancer (I got the vaccine before being sexually active that protects against that). Still, it's obviously better not to get it. But when I got it fro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 04:40 PM
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It's not so hard to ignore an uncontributing partner when you see it with your own eyes right in front of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 04:36 PM
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You should be a man translator. Perfectly translated 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:52 PM
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Haha your reasoning for the "Nah Sis" flair is hilarious. Honestly, reading these is a guilty pleasure of mine. Poe's law applies cause you honestly can't believe how selfish and depraved their reasonings get to justify themselves as being victims over mothers protecting their children. Also the "I'm scared of false rape claims :(" argument DRIVES ME INSANE! INSANE! When do men ever worry about single digit percentage probabilities? I've NEVER heard men cry about probability of pregnancy for usi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 07:13 AM
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You know what's the sad thing? Birds are true equality partners when it comes to mating. But that's probably because there are VERY few birds with penises. So most of the males need COMPLETE consent from the female to mate and hence dance, sing, whatever. Otherwise, they're like the ducks that just rape whenever they want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 06:42 AM
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He freely comments about what a piece of shit he is throughout the whole post. Not because he's remorseful but because HE KNOWS people will call him out on his shit. Men like these are cowardly and only care about themselves (and MUH PENISSS) so he said this in the hopes others wouldn't hold him accountable to his actions in the comments. Glad he's crying over her. Even if he's sad his personal ego stroking machine is gone. Fuck him. Glad the sister levelled up. 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 06:36 AM
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Once you get used to it, you can't live without it. It's honestly one of the best things I've bought as far as beauty goes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 06:53 PM
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Don't you get it? It's rules for me and not for thee! If you don't have a smelly white ballsack, you're always at fault! They always turn around and get abortions for their mistresses too. Fucking hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 06:52 PM
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Your last comment on there deserves a standing ovation. He didn't even downvote it because it was sound enough for him to understand. Well done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 12:15 PM
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"Seduce her inner murderer" Wow these men change their tune fucking quick if they have to take responsibility for once in their lives! What happened to the whole "Women are blood thirsty and kill their own babies" argument if they're trying their hardest to convince us to abort? This is why male shaming is worthless and means nothing. Just a way to pin the blame on us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 12:09 PM
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This is the one I got: https://us.braun.com/en-us/female-hair-removal/epilators/silk-epil-7 Epillators save you money (no shaving cream or razors) and last waaay longer with that silky feel. You get used to it after a few uses. I really recommend them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:56 AM
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I was just last night laying in bed and cringing at the things I've done for worthless guys in the past. The important part is that you've woken up now. Forgive yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:42 AM
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If the tables were turned, would he be pissed? And if he says "Nah, I'd be okay if you did it too, I'm only joking!" and you start joking like that about a coworker, I bet you my entire coronavirus pantry that he'd be seething and jealous as fuck. And even if he IS okay with it, the joke is in extremely low taste for his work environment. You don't shit where you eat. Yes, so many things wrong. Glad that you saw that red flag a mile away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:19 PM
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At least it spreads awareness to what's normal for us! I think there was a post on here that said that they think women naturally have NO hair. It doesn't come naturally buddy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:06 PM
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I've had this issue. Honestly, I just did the slow fade on the friendship. I stopped becoming her friend and more like became her unpaid relationship counselor whenever shit went wrong. And she NEVER listened to me about dropping him. Imagine a crack addict complaining about their life failing over their addiction. But mention they get help and take steps and they defend it with their life. At some point, you have to think about what is best for YOU. Foster your other more healthily-balanced fri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:34 PM
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What annoys me is that when they do it in front of you. Like "Oh well, I couldn't get the one I REALLY wanted, so you'll do". And have the whole thing happen in your face thinking you'll be fine with it. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:25 PM
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He knows it's bad probably. Or is ignorant but just doesn't care because they're too self centered to care except when their dick is involved. Wankies > truthies. Keep up the truth spreading! We always need more voices talking about it. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:37 PM
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Did he respond? You slayed him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:01 PM
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Skip to 3:41 and watch for a minute for maximum laughs. (For the uninitiated, an epillator is a tweezing device that gives you the "just shaved" feel for a whole month. I highly recommend it.) These men are ROLLING DICE to see who gets epillated next. This is what I do every week to keep up appearances. Even if you ladies don't epillate, have you ever sugared you hoo ha? Waxed? Been told that something of your appearance is less than by a man that doesn't even do it himself? I'm not kidding: I h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:48 PM
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This hurt me to read, especially the last sentence. I remember that exact feeling and multiple moments like that many times. I'm just glad we've woken up so we don't have to experience that ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:12 PM
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Yeah but then how will the pickmes get validation?!?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:07 PM
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Look at the upvotes of that girl with zero self worth versus the one calling out the porn sickness. The upvotes say it all. Bunch of losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:30 PM
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"Hey everyone! I'm doing asshole things to my gf. She called me an asshole. Then her sister called me an asshole. And I myself feel that I'm being an asshole. Am I being an asshole?" Who'd a thunk it, babe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 09:39 AM
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I scooped them up...and threw it in the garbage can This made me laugh so hard. XD He was probably like aw man, I'm going to have to start all over! I'm not going into breeding. Although I do feel guilty when I see him making his nest so lovingly :( The thing with breeding is they aren't called the Siamese Fighting Fish for no reason! They'll either kill each other (!!!) or mate and have a TON of babies. And then the babies grow and they can't be held together too long. And the way bettas are so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:08 AM
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I love this post! Crock pot recipes! Yes, I'm the crazy crock pot lady of our group, hi everyone! 😂 Starying hip hop dancing in my living room. It's so much fun. Enjoying nature walks with my dog. Perfect opportunity to go out there and exercise in remote nature areas. Spring cleaning Casual Gaming Love seeing you all busy as ever and levelling up. 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:55 AM
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Aweee male Bettas are so sweet. Have you seen the bubble nests they make as they hope for love? I think it's so romantic. I have one and they're such beautiful fish. Are you going to get into betta breeding?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:47 AM
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Why are you so afraid of being alone? I'm currently alone in my place right now. Tranquility with my dog who loves me and my aquatic pets just doing their own thing. I watch netflix if I want. I clean my apartment whenever I want. I practice some hip hop dance moves in my living room and jam out. I work out in the open space and enjoy nature. I play my instrument and learn cool songs. Seriously, what is there to fear? You have so much to gain and everything to lose than to be wiping the ass of s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:35 AM
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This reminds me when I was naiive and did the laundry thinking my ex and i were a team. I asked him to get the DONE laundry for us. Would you believe that he shifted through and picked ONLY HIS laundry? I'm not naaive anymore. Motherfucker you have hands, do your own fucking laundry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:06 AM
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Both of them are pickmeishas. Nasty on all sides
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:12 PM
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I had a guy hit on my friend. Then when she rejected him, he started HITTING ON ME. Dude, you were two feet away from my friend, I saw it all happen. Not all girls are as dumb as you. I'm NEVER going to be a pick me for a guy that thought I was second place. Scummy asshole. I still remember his scorte audacity years later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:35 PM
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"You guys are supposed to be the love package for MEN. Now if you'll excuse me, I'm going to mail you to two men I know. Get ready to give steady flow of sex."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:12 AM
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He can't even THROW it to her. Nah this is bullshit. He's just a lazy selfish scrote. What a surprise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:41 PM
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Funny how he laughed AT YOU when he doesn't consider why it's so hard to find someone who's not addicted to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:39 PM
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Dictosterone needs to be added to our FDS vernacular. 😂 Gonna use it from now on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:35 PM
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Oh wow this is perfect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:33 PM
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You forgot "crazy cat lady". It's just a way to pin the blame on the woman. Choose the wrong guy, and it's you're fault you're abused. Choose the "right" guy (by their standards) and you're the mommy to a grown ass man. Choose nothing at all and there MUST be something wrong with you! You crazy cat lady! You must be fat! Women never win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:27 PM
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I have not enjoyed the isolation and solitude of being single at my age Have you thought of getting a pet? I know it sounds condescending but I'm being serious. It helps to have that company and that guarantee of love and acceptance if you give it. My life immediately grew more warm when I got my german shepherd dog. :) Just a thought, friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:22 PM
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Ew they're disgusting. Yes girl, there's more to music than collaborating with people who mock you to your face. They don't deserve your talent. Go be talented elsewhere please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:16 PM
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Just social conditioning at work. As intended!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:00 AM
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Sounds good! And if you ever need someone to talk to or just to vent, my DMs are open. Sexual harassment is awful to go through and you're strong for going the legal route. We're rooting for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 12:25 AM
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Please update us about what happens! We care about you and hope you get justice. Stay safe from those dirty pigs, sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 12:20 AM
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"I watch a lot of pornography and am obsessed with sex" This isnt a flaw but a behavior that you keep choosing to follow and engage in. A lot of women in FDS don't and won't agree with this at all. If you truly want a HVW, you need to walk the walk with us too. That means dropping the porn sickness. Yes you have other good traits but we won't settle for "good salary and tall" if we have reason to believe that we won't be treated well. Watching porn is one of those tenets we believe in.
/r/askFDS20/03/20 08:50 PM
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I play a wide variety but I like investigative type of games that make you think so I play Town of Salem a lot. But I've seen this in almost every game that has chat enabled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:05 PM
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Thank you! I was so confused by what they meant. That actually helped explain a ton. 👌 Sounds like a fun little group. I'll probably go and get verified real soon. 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:02 PM
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There are videos of people playing it out of context and audience freaking out unnecessarily: https://ifunny.co/video/nN1weZ6L7 https://youtu.be/-FnDp6V3GkY You could be right but this actually seems legit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 10:54 AM
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Omg this is hilarious. We should have it as our ringtones. But it'd be depressing to see all the porn sick men turn around in confusion. Never mind. Dating is such a joke sometimes. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:57 AM
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I love how she clapped back on him. Queen response girly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:31 AM
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Oh yeah, thank you! I knew about them, I was just wondering what part was fun; I just didn't understand that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:27 AM
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Oh yeah this idiot messaged me when I first started posting. This guy and ElijahthePotato are going to die without passing their genes. So that's a net positive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:25 AM
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Ew that's so fucking disgusting. There's seriously been an uptick of these nasty comments EVERYWHERE. When these men that are porn sick are cornered and the pickmes cater to them, they all show their colors, don't they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:04 AM
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What do you mean? I'm out of the loop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 01:54 AM
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The only thing I see as a plus is that these men will be more porn sick than before and out themselves even quicker. But it's sad that this is becoming a quick trend. Instead of bettering themselves, they somehow make themselves worse than before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 01:28 AM
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This is also exactly why LVM WANT to date right now. They know pick mes will take anything right now including non-dinner dates. And there's no better filter for a woman with low standards than her risking her community and her own freaking health to meet you for a low effort date. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 10:34 PM
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Yes! This was starting to annoy me. What the hell are these people thinking?!?!? They self Darwin all on their own. The governments are saying STAY AT HOME. Not cause they're mean and hate you at the moment but because they're WANTING TO PROTECT YOU AND OTHERS. "You won't have to date if you're DEAD" - pickmeishas and LVM logic. 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 10:32 PM
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Plot twist: An FDSer satyrizing pickmeishas and their LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:14 PM
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That's nasty. I bet those teachers who shamed you are somewhere contemplating why that one creepy guy won't take no for an answer. It starts at a young age. Need to help nip that shit in the bud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:13 PM
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Then they turn around and call us a hate subreddit. For hating abuse and abuse apologists? We'll wear that badge proudly then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 08:35 PM
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What happened to the whining that women are more emotional? I don't see them supporting that theory in the comments. She hurt his feewings so CLEARLY he had to react, like the unemotional sex that they claim they are. Right? Fucking hypocritical monsters, the lot of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:17 PM
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This is probably a BDSM kink. Porn sick pig strikes again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:12 PM
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Have you ever thought that maybe it's their rationalization on why they don't put in any effort? Because it's wasted effort since we "dont" orgasm? Could just be another manipulation tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:10 PM
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Kinda sad how it's EXPECTED that we don't get off as women. They're so selfish. When they're the ones feeling the kick is when they see how it's wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:56 PM
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I talked about this a few days ago! Basically: if they make a comment to what would otherwise be a neutral trait, such as black skin, blonde hair, etc, it's a porn category and you're an ice cream flavor for his dick. My comment of similar traits: Hair: Blonde, Brunette, Redhead Skin: Bronze (for black women) Body: Petite, curvy, big beautiful woman (bbw) Ethnicity: Asian, Latina, White If they say anything to the effect of "I never thought I'd date a petite latina" (or point out a combination o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:53 PM
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I have heard this story time and time again. My finances and debts are SEPERATE from my partners. I'm not going to be a massive financial pick me to a guy who'll dump me at the first whiff of another willing woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:56 PM
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"on and off boyfriend of almost a decade" Omg girl wtf???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:32 PM
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Why is this the case? I always wondered this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:07 AM
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I think honestly, a lot of us are in the same boat. Just be as productive as you can with the hand you're dealt. Ideas can be: Programming Puzzles (brainteaser/jigsaw) Cleaning/Organizing your house Work from home/school Read a book/listen to audiobook Learn a new skill. I'm going to start hip hop dancing at home using my smart TV and YouTube. Workouts at home. A lot of women are allowing their health first priority right now before dating so just take this time to entertain yourself and grow as…
/r/askFDS16/03/20 10:26 PM
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Woah I didn't even think about this angle. Interesting. Thanks for the warning to everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 08:21 PM
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Everyone gets tired of being pumped and dumped even as a hand sanitizer lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:51 PM
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They're just terrified that they can't easily use women anymore and that women are picking up on this. Your first question hit the nail in the head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:00 PM
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"laundry list of stuff they want".Like not being played or cheated? Not being abused? Not being lied to? Not being taken advantage of? Not being manipulated? He states our demands for ourselves as if they are really crazy when it's basic shit. "Not all women can get high value men" If not a lot of men dont meet these simple qualities to match every woman, then what does that say about men as a whole? Lastly, there's been users on here that say that if a job can't find a suitable candidate, they'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 06:49 PM
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Isn't it amazing how even committed men fail these? Look at /r/relationships posts. So many women posting and complaining about some variation of the above missing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 06:27 PM
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If they stay stupid, they will be easier for women to block and ghost. They're also a time waster. Men are simple. "DID ME WIN FIGHT OR NOT???" They are NEVER engaging us genuinely. So just ignore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 06:31 AM
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This is the book I use. It has super easy recipes and I haven't tried one that I didn't like. Amazon link, but I saw it on ebay for less than $5, even. A little searching if you're craving something in particular also helps. I like cheap recipes that are easy, delicious, and < 45 carbs. Here's some things I've found: Pumpkin Pie Oatmeal Banana Nut Oatmeal Aromatic Basmati Rice The rest are in the book I recommended. Even my coworkers are on the crockpot train now and ask to borrow it all the tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:23 PM
8

No, two slow cookers. Or crock pots. I essentially use the weekends to meal prep with them then during the week I bring my prepared meal trays in. I'm sure an instant pot works the same too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:12 PM
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I realized the magic of crock pots and it changed my life! I now meal prep my breakfasts, lunches, and dinners super easy with my two crock pots in as little as a day. This week, I had pumpkin pie oatmeal for breakfast, bean Melody soup, ginger carrot soup and basmati rice for lunch and still deciding on dinners. Seriously, if you love meals that are essentially "done" with 5 minutes in the microwave and are looking for a great way to diet, this is for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:05 PM
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It's only a way for LVM to jump on the sexual liberation train that women are getting swept up on. "That's right, babe, you can do anything you want! You're a strong woman! And that's why you'd let us become polyam....no? Then you're a prude. Don't you want to be liberated?" And when the girl is inevitably coerced into agreeing, it all goes downhill. Surprise, surprise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 08:08 PM
118

This made me laugh so hard. 🤣 Whenever I see the cutesy ending in these stories, I think "Now where's the REAL version?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:47 PM
25

My mom's friend has a daughter who is with a LVM. She would complain and break up with him multiple times because she works and he was unemployed and played games all day. She even wondered what was the best way to let him know that it's hurting her feelings. 🤡 She decided it would be a good idea to marry him anyway. Felt like bumping her forehead and calling her a clown when I heard that. Dump. The. Loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:30 PM
64

Lmao whenever you get called an ugly bitch online with high standards, this is the guy that's talking to you. Dumb scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:28 PM
25

It's crazy how they can try to actively undermine others. Look at this loser who tried price gouging hand sanitizer at over 2000 times their normal selling price. Stay safe out their ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:46 PM
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He's salty that his porn sickness got called out. And that by his own standards, he labeled himself a perv. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:58 PM
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Thank you for your responses! That all makes a lot of sense. I'll look into it for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:51 PM
23

Even if you're NOT dating them they have an insane fucking ego. I had a "friend" and I treated him nicely and helped him get a job as connections in the field usually do. But he did the thing where he kept mentioning that he had a gf everytime we talked until I ghosted him from one day to the next. You DO NOT have a gold penis everyone is after, you loser. Hate when they do that. IF (and a big if) you decide male friends are actually a thing, still apply FDS. It'll save you from dumb male egos t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:47 PM
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So glad this catching on with younger women! This is great news! I'd say just keep an open mind. What I'm doing is living my life as if I'm not looking for one (I'm not actively looking but gathering more tips for myself to use). But keep an open mind in case you stumble upon a good one that does everything right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:42 PM
7

Makes sense. The thing that always stops me from reacting is the fear that they have a gun. If a LVM is lazy enough to catcall instead of going through the trouble of courting, he might be lazy enough to have a gun do the talking. How do you deal with that fear? I would definitely call them out otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:30 PM
7

How do you asess how dangerous they are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:23 PM
46

Wtf I didn't know there were even case studies about this. Please save these links. These are good to keep in handy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:22 PM
13

Maybe orbiters?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:53 AM
54

Where is the "WHAT ABOUT THE MEN?!?!" DMs? They forgot those lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:31 AM
8

Agreed! These guys are dumb af but we need to stay on top of their tactics and be prepared. They even have vids meeting and humiliating the people they chadfished. Just an example: https://youtu.be/TLpELZX_3BM We need to stay sharp! LVM are always looking to hurt us somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:24 AM
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Yeah, I completely agree. I've never liked apps anyway. Never been on one. The idea of being available to LVM at the swipe of a finger strikes me as SO derogatory and contributes to their porn sickness mentality of abundance. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:58 AM
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That I'm aware of: Hair: Blonde, Brunette, Redhead Skin: Bronze (for black women) Body: Petite, curvy, big beautiful woman (bbw) Ethnicity: Asian, Latina, White If they say anything to the effect of "I never thought I'd date a petite latina" (or point out a combination of the traits above as what would otherwise be a neutral trait), then run the hell away! I had a guy say "Wow, you're beautiful. Are you native American? Latina?" This might sound like an innocuous question but you could tell he w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 01:58 AM
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I'm not on any dating apps and I've accepted that I may remain alone for the rest of my life without a partner and that's okay. If a man comes my way? Great. If not? Still great. I'm working on myself and my life to not care that much about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 01:27 AM
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When on dating sites, men make fake dating accounts and use a pic of a super attractive guy (incels deem any guy who they think is attractive to women chad) to catfish women online. They then use these accounts to stand them up or even meet them irl and berate them for daring to date someone attractive. It's becoming a growing practice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:00 AM
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Please do not EVER limit your career and education opportunities for a man. One time, I was in an LDR and I was being offered a really nice-paying job but I would have to work that summer full time. He said that if I took the job, he wouldn't visit me that year since I would be pretty busy. Guess who's paying my bills? It's not the LVM I dumped lol. Always look out for yourself. As has been posted a lot in this sub (too lazy to dig it up right now), "Your career will never wake up one day and de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:51 PM
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I think it's all a matter of personal opinion. For me, it's when I am actually 100% happy being on my own. If you are so happy with your life right now that you can actually be happy without a romantic partner, then I think it's time. This will allow you to be discerning and make sure that the person you choose is amazing and will add to your great life. But like I said, it's different for everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:34 PM
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Also, it's a way to make themselves have the upper hand, even if it's fictional. Look at the 60 men who agree with him. They were probably all rejected at one point and want so badly to have a vengeance story too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:28 PM
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They put women into categories thanks to the porn speak language they usually use. You think your hair color is just a neutral trait until brunette and blonde are actually porn categories. So if they use their porn speak to label you a confident woman, it's just a way of saying you're doing the right thing in a LVM lense. I'm happy they use their porn speak. Helps you run the fuck away faster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:17 PM
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MuscleT is a super fan of this group. It's almost an initiation to receive a message from him. Don't waste your time engaging him. He has the typical LVM brain that is intimidated by women having their own standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:24 PM
14

Men: Women are so emotional. Always the victims. Men: BUT THE POOR LITTLE ANGELIC MEN! 😥😥😥😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 06:29 PM
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Don't beat yourself up, we've all had some pickmeisha stuff done before we arrived to this amazing sub. What matters is you're here and you're learning! A big welcome to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 06:26 PM
10

Lmao his big booty video shows the hypocrisy crystal clear! You deserve a medal for even going through his channel; I could barely stand a few minutes of his mouth diarrhea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 06:15 PM
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I've heard of men go a step further on what you said of defending the men by throwing a blanket statement and saying that single moms are to blame for how they are. And villifying ALL single moms. They never realize that moms become single because the dad is either a lazy piece of shit that makes life harder or he "went to buy a pack of cigarretes".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:50 PM
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He's completely right, women have it easy! Don't you ladies date the random Johns that send you dick pics and open with a sexual comment on Facebook? We got it made! Exhibit #273538236 of "Women are always the boogeyman"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:45 PM
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"Everyone there" Let me guess, were these mostly men okay with it? Girl, this IS disgusting. You have it stuck in your mind for a reason. These poor women are represented by two words on a list. Women are simply there for their pleasure and they find that hilarious. Now...why are they friends with you,you might ask? Let me see. What do YOU provide THEM? Reliable friendship? Kindness? As a woman, you serve them. They established that. PS: What do you do, u/tueogb? Dump these pigs and get better f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:39 PM
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Imagine having pretty much all crazy porn acts a green flag for you to do EXCEPT this one boundary. AND STILL BREAKING DOWN THAT ONE BOUNDARY! Fucking porn sick pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:35 PM
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I'm so glad you have a nice little group of animals. :) They really are a lot of company, aren't they? I have a German Shepherd and I never feel alone. Even too accompanied sometimes, haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 06:23 AM
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Why don't you get pets again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 06:05 AM
72

"Women are so bitter! They want a man that TREATS THEM WELL. And theyre sooo bitter, that they don't fuck every guy they come across that offers them a $5 chicken nugget date. Can you believe that?!?!" I'm honestly happy low value incels exist like in the comments. So satisfying to see how unhappy and alone they are because women want better for themselves. They self-darwin all on their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 05:55 AM
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I'm not even going to open the link and say this: I'm betting there is AT LEAST ONE comment on that thread defending him saying that he was drunk and to forgive him. And that it's all her fault because she consented to sex in the first place, which of course, may include side effects such as bruising, oxygen deprivation and possible death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:38 AM
99

You know how when a kid wants a puppy, you explain they're a lot of responsibility cause you need to feed them, love them, walk them? Men are that kid, but they never grow out of that frame of mind. Kids are just human puppies to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:48 PM
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I don't know about this. This spells bad trouble. You're attracted to him. He's attracted to you and starting to throw hints. He's your BOSS with a family. And he has power over you to start moving things around if he doesn't get his way. Plus, this could start animosity between your coworkers. Not to be alarmist but, start looking around for other possible jobs just in case. If anyone has the upper hand in the situation and something bad happens, you're the one getting the kick to the curb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:34 PM
65

Basically raising a man child that you fuck. So gross and weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:34 PM
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I think it's a way women brainwash themselves into believing they have a chance with a guy. "I'm tired of waiting, I'll just make it super obvious and he'll say yes!" When in reality, the guy isn't that enthused. They say "We dumb, no see it, hurt durr". But if a woman came along they were truly into, they'd drop the act and gather the balls to pursue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:32 PM
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One time, I said "Oh, good luck then. I'm not into casual dating". He stepped the fuck up real quick. But honestly...you like him. And he thinks you're only worth a drink. Really think about this; it's not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:29 PM
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Omg 💯 accurate. You forgot the part where he continues pretending he's a pseudo-intellectual and mansplains the fuck outta you. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:17 PM
14

Yes! That part stuck out to me too! Like wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:16 PM
8

They ain't around anymore. 🤷 Both professions have a scummy culture. I stay the fuck away anyway. Cringe moment: She thought it was romantic when he pulled her hair when she was throwing up one night. 🤦🤡 High school girls can be dumb af sometimes. She's woken the fuck up now since the kid at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:07 PM
6

This such amazing advice! I love the last half about checking his ability to respect. 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:02 PM
123

/r/choosingbeggars 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:57 AM
30

Please tell me this guy is history. If we did half the shit they do to us, they would sing a whole different tune.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:53 AM
30

That was so terribly depressing to read. My word. I'm trying to figure out why so many women have bought into the "boyfriendly/husbandly duties" thing. Even as a former pickmeisha, I never bought into that at all. Makes me wish women as a whole could become an entity I can just hug. We've ALL been through so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:25 AM
6

Awesome advice. I've never heard this one. Need to add this to my personal toolbox.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:49 AM
24

You know what always makes me throw up mentally? When men talk about "husbandly duties" we need to do. Do you not have a hand? Not even when we're IN the mood do they make an effort. So...nice for what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:40 AM
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"Gurl make pp hard but i no bangs her. But girls are always for bangs, right? What do?????" 177 people agree with this moron. That's at least 177 poor girls out there dealing with these morons. Kill me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:37 AM
39

This hits home. One of my best friends was pretty much a pick me. Got off on how sexually liberated she is, bragged about cops and soldiers she'd sleep with. Then she picked this super sick puppy. This guy would fuck her in cars. He had a DUI and would inhale like an old grandpa with his smoke and weed while driving extremely recklessly. I would talk to her and he'd stride up between us and start sucking face (ewww). And. Now she has his child. Yup. I'm sure she loves the child but regrets him. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:31 AM
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I was bored and met up with a guy for just friends for an afternoon. We were just talking and he says something about how he's cheated on his gf their entire relationship! At my bewildered expression, he says it's fine, he just doesn't leave because SHES BUYING A HOUSE AND HE LIVES IN IT! This poor poor girl! I so wish I knew her to let her know what an std-infested dick she's housing for free. I don't make friends with guys anymore. Guy friends don't exist. Also, congrats on dumping the guy! We…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:21 AM
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• Guys can be cruel when they lose interest. Don’t let it get to that point. If you feel their interest decreasing, listen to your gut and leave. This is so true it hurts. I've gotten to that point a few times before and, as we all know, they definitely don't extend any favors. Never. Ever. Again! I kick myself remembering my past pick me. You're worth the chase, girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:15 AM
81

Ewww this guy is so nasty. He admires them "like any guy does"? When they start saying "All guys do x" or "Any guy does y, deal with it" FUCKING RUN. Also, the art explanation was the most hilarious thing I've ever heard. Dumping low value men is a fucking art for me. 🎨🖌️👩‍🎨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:49 PM
47

"I guess it could be worse. He could be having sex with them" ...could be? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:42 PM
36

Look at your whole post. You're reacting like this over a guy you hooked up with. Not even with a guy who we've been on dates with do we react like this. Your pickmeisha is showing, my girl. But just learn from it. Have them EARN your attention. When you saw him give a single half-ass heart emoji was the time to block. You're worth way more than a single tap on a screen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:00 PM
5

Wow this is a lot of amazing information. Thanks so much for this. I'm not child inclined at all but on the off chance I change my mind, I'll do this 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:48 PM
13

I actually told a male classmate when I was explaining something "I'm not done talking". His bewildered and subdued expression as he shut the fuck up and let me finished was glorious. Edit: The amount of classmates who will mansplain you're on work to you is remarkable. Especially if you're in CS. My lord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:24 PM
16

Complaints about penis size stem from frustration over male partners not putting effort to the pleasure of their partner. So after them not putting effort, women try to enjoy the next best thing they get out of the interaction, which is size for a lot of us. If he doesn't give an effort AND his penis size is small...then what are we even doing? It's also a preference thing as well, like you mentioned. Mostly, try to give an effort in and out of the bedroom and you shouldn't worry too much about …
/r/askFDS12/03/20 07:41 PM
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There was something I read to the effect of "A man who doesn't care about you can live across the street and it'll still be too far for him to visit you. A man that cares will travel around the world." It's completely true. This goes for ANY excuse the lazy LVM make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:06 PM
72

We have to worry about hatfishing, beardfishing, personalityfishing and now dickfishing?! We're gonna have to conduct like a physical inspection before we go on the date now. Like when someone buys a horse 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:49 PM
1

Search by the tag "Level Up" on our sub. We have a ton of examples of us discussing how to better ourselves.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 01:25 PM
13

I would suggest spending less time with her, yes. Think about replacing each one of the "setting me up with men" with "trying to take me to church" or "trying to make me vegetarian". You are focusing on you right now and that's an important value and boundary of yours that she is not respecting. Nurture your other friendships. A Pickme will get annoying after a while. I have a friend who texts me and I already know, like clockwork, that she's texting to complain about her bf (who she is planning…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:01 AM
2

"Coronavirus seems to hit men harder than women and the women aren't (somehow) demanding the virus cater to equality...That means that the WOMEN ARE TRYING TO KILL US!" Wow, where's the tinfoil hat emoji? Seriously need to create one lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:55 AM
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I honestly don't even understand the "work husband" stuff. Do you have a "grocery store husband"? Or a "study husband"? It seems like something Pickmeishas and their cheating low value men created to cast a cloak over their nasty side piecing. Truly mature people don't shit where they eat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:11 AM
39

Fresh out of high school, I wasn't looking for anything in particular when I was asked out. Cool, I was given a time and place at a restaurant. I got there on time and waited. And waited. And waited. And every second I waited, I would seethe more and more. When he finally arrived after an hour, he said "So are you ready to go to the restaurant?" And I said "You're going. I'm not going anywhere with you." And I walked straight back to my car and blocked his number in the parking lot. The scrote-a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:04 AM
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I bet you to this day he's still crying about how his "mean" ex abandoned him all alone! 😥 Thoughts and prayers for the poor little victim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:03 AM
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These are the same guys that complain that there aren't enough women on dating apps. Um. Maybe cause you're convincing them that there is more trash in the sea than worth the trouble?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:10 AM
12

Took the words right out of my mouth. 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 09:18 PM
53

Demeanor changed? How did he react? It's so nice hearing when they finally get their dumb shit thrown back in their face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:27 PM
5

Had a choosy beggar come up to me. He seems nice at first. Asked me my number. A little bit of texting. Whatever. Then from him..."Hey you want to go to the movies? But I'm kinda broke so you'll have to pay for me lol" Left his asinine ass on read. Ignored, later blocked. Are you insane to be asking a woman to pay for you? Want me to wipe your ass too, sir? They remind me of the little boy toddlers where every woman walking past is mommy. And they'll just sheepishly tug at your skirt and whine t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:23 PM
7

This might sound lame but I bought 2 crock pots and cook for the week on them! I hate cooking but I've found this process makes life waaay easier. I choose my 3 recipes. Order the ingredients online. Throw in pot. Done. Do you know how nice it is to eat something like Pumpkin Pie Oatmeal in the mornings? Or aromatic basmati rice with carrot ginger soup and bean Melody soup? I sure do. Losing weight while eating great. 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:55 PM
1

They just never grow up, do they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:47 PM
24

We are shamed if our ass, boobs or waist are "subpar". When confronted, they say that it's "just biology" they can't help. Well men. Size matters. It's "just biology". 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:39 PM
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"...tells me I have different personalities from all the men I slept with" Oh my word, she married a manosphere guy! They believe that women are a simple cummulation of all the men they slept with and that's where a woman's "personality" comes from! I sooo wish I was joking. And he said "run a train on" her? That's porn smut language. I feel so bad for this wife. I hope she gets the f out soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:51 PM
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I think it's even more sinister than that! I think it's less to do about simply getting women and more to do with finding women with low self esteem who will put up with their mantrums and baggage. Look at the red pillers and the way they talk about the women they're dating. It's all just a score in a game for them to find the greatest slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:42 PM
2

Just the mere whiff of commitment will send them running, even if in jest. Sounds about right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:38 PM
52

They make it sound like you admitted you're a crack addict. How awful of you to decide to be a responsible mother!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:26 PM
18

If it helps you girls feel better, my mom is Mexican and she says that this culture only helped her take even less shit from men. She'd get spanked in public and she'd run after them yelling at the top of her lungs. She'd get groped on the bus, she'd pretend to step back and "unknowingly" slam her heel on their feet to hear that satisfying hissy breath of pain from them. And in dating, she was a discerning queen who'd drop men at the hint of a neg (when she said she wanted to be worker, her lawy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:52 PM
3

I was about to comment the exact same thing. German Shepherds are such an amazing breed. And they WILL protect you. And best of all, they genuinely care about you. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:11 AM
2

I overheard a convo of some women and a man waiting in line at a store. A second man walked in, then walked right out after seeing the line. The first man noticed this and noted that men usually don't bother waiting in line. One of the women said "That's why we carry and raise the children." I looked and, yup, ALL the ones who chose to wait instead of bailing were women. Men honestly take advantage of our patience. If it weren't for our naturally-nurturing tendencies, they'd all be punted to the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:16 AM
1

That's a great accomplishment! Take more than 5 minutes cause that celebration signifies a ton of blood and tears. You deserve it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:07 AM
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His "...just like that?" actually says a lot. It means two things: he thinks lowly of you being a single mom and, therefore, thought you were willing to put up with his shit. Also was that you, OP? Cause that was an awesome and heart-warming shut down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:03 AM
5

They're calling you moody for putting up boundaries. They know that they don't owe you anything, so don't feel bad about realizing the same. Block, be frank, ghost, whatever you need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:10 AM
2

In scared man-speak, it translates to "Please don't make me pay for you. I won't be able to afford my cheetohs now from my mommy's weekly allowance." Ironic how the most broke men are more scared of their "riches" than actual millionaires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:09 PM
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who is busy in the kitchen That hurt me to read. Already busy in the kitchen at 2 weeks...not even an anniversary dinner yet. 🤡 Keep your eyes open, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:04 PM
1

So basically "Please help me convince myself that being undervalued by strangers is something I should be okay with". Your wish shall be granted in Incelddit, girl. Please wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:05 PM
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I wonder if they've fallen victim to the "hot girls are bitches" trope shaming from low value men and overcompensate as a result. I wish they could learn that these are the guys they need to run the hell away from, not embrace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:57 PM
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It's a way of them getting back power. ...like every man in history always wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 08:58 PM
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