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Calm down, it hasn't even been a day since you sent the follow request, maybe he's busy and hasn't been able to check IG. If he accepts it, send him a message asking to hang out. If he doesn't accept it, don't do anything.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:44 AM
1

Anyone who uses someone with complete disregard of that person, for their own personal gain, is someone I'd consider bad.
/r/seduction31/01/22 12:40 AM
1

What?
/r/seduction31/01/22 12:36 AM
3

Just take "no" as "no" and you'll avoid any problems. If you want to risk it because she might be playing games, that's up to you, but it's not something I want to be part of, and definitely don't recommend.
/r/seduction30/01/22 09:58 PM
1

Not if you respect their reaction. If she rejects you, ok, don't push it, and just move on.
/r/seduction30/01/22 07:10 PM
3

Nothing happened and there's nothing going on with #1, so you're not obligated to have some sort of "loyalty" towards her. You're single, #2 is single, and this is what single people do. You clicked better with #2 and that's it.
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:39 PM
0

You're not her priority, which makes sense, she hasn't even met you. She's talking to other guys too. Talk to other girls, don't fixate on this one. Wait till you have that date to actually judge her. She might enjoy the conversation she's having right now, but like I said, you're very low in her priority list because so far you're just another one of the many guys that has come around.
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:25 PM
2

If you want to view the world that way, that's up to you. Maybe you're speaking from experience, I speak based on my own. I didn't mean that you will only attract good people, but bad people are easy to spot. It's not hard to see what wants to use you and who doesn't. You might miss a few, but overall it's easy, because their morals and behavior don't align with yours. But anyways, live as you wish, everyone has their own opinions.
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:22 PM
1

You can surround yourself with honest people, people with good intentions that do want the best for you. It's not a crazy concept. In the end, you attract people similar to you. If you're a good person, honest, who cares about others, you're more likely to attract people like that. If you're superficial, waving around your money, you're gonna attract people who are also superficial and just care about money. Tell me who you're with, and I'll tell you who you are.
/r/seduction30/01/22 02:54 PM
2

I guess it's because he's always been like that. He's been criticized since he became famous, and he hasn't given a shit about it since. He doesn't put out a fake image, so there's no surprise when he says/does something outrageous, it's just what he always does. Don't see why people would want to live a life like his, it feels empty and sad, surrounded by liars and people who just want to use you.
/r/seduction30/01/22 02:42 PM
41

I would assume gay men hit on anyone average and above... they're men after all.
/r/seduction30/01/22 11:13 AM
1

You talk to people and just figure out on your own what works and what doesn't. Having female friends makes it easier to be comfortable around them. A lot of guys who aren't good at flirting, put women on a pedestal and think they're so different from guys, but they really aren't. They're just normal people who want to have a normal conversation and laugh. Being able to do that, to have an interesting conversation, gets you half way there, then it's just adding some flirting and teasing, and you…
/r/seduction28/01/22 10:54 AM
1

That's up to you, OP. I think if you can mentally handle it, hear her out, people can change and can feel regret. That being said, I do not recommend going into it with the hopes or even the possibility of making up. You should never get back with her, no matter what, but if she's remorseful and wants to apologize, then why not hear her out. Though you gotta expect a lie, a manipulation, that's also a possibility. That's why I say it's up to whether you can handle it mentally, because if you thi…
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:25 PM
1

As a guy, you have no choice but to pursue, so once you're in, just give back what you receive. If you're trying and not getting the same type of vibe and effort, either move on, or just copy what she's doing.
/r/seduction24/01/22 07:54 PM
99

Talk to him, maybe he feels the same way. If he does, you might want to consider getting serious with him. If he doesn't, then yes, it's better to stop hooking up, otherwise you'll get hurt as your feelings will get stronger.
/r/seduction24/01/22 01:12 PM
16

Do what feels right to you. If you enjoyed the kiss, tell her she kisses really good. If you just want to hold her, do so. I guess it all depends on the situation. Sometimes the first kiss comes when saying goodbye after a date, so either you part ways, or you might end up having sex. Sometimes it's in the middle of the date and you just keep walking around, or stay on the bench holding each other. Just do what you feel it's the right thing to do, don't think "ok now I have to do this" let yours…
/r/seduction23/01/22 08:00 PM
14

Pretty certain she wants to kiss you, so honestly, there's no way you can fuck it up as long as you keep it simple. Just sit down close to each other, talk, initiate some physical contact, look her in the eyes, and lean in for the kiss. It's normal to be nervous, she will be too, but that's part of the thrill, it's why it makes the first kiss so exciting.
/r/seduction23/01/22 06:57 PM
37

I always test the waters with some physical contact. If she's not into you touching her arm, or thigh, or simply being very close to you, then she's not gonna want to kiss. If she's ok with that, she's most likely going to want to kiss you. Then just go for it.
/r/seduction23/01/22 06:40 PM
2

Go to therapy, because this is bigger than just seduction, this will affect every aspect in your life if kept untreated.
/r/seduction21/01/22 11:24 PM
6

Dude, decorate it how YOU want it. Only thing the girls will truly care about is if it's clean.
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:26 PM
4

I know, that's exactly what I said in my first comment. But generally, or at least in my experience, women that just want sex won't blatantly tell you "I'm here to fuck". Usually I get there "I'm not looking for anything serious, just want to hang out, chill, and see from there", which yeah, it gives the impression that they want sex, but it's not always the case, some girls "just want to chill" without sex.
/r/seduction19/01/22 10:14 PM
2

If she doesn't reply after a few days, I'd just forget about her, she's clearly not interested.
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:58 PM
14

True, unless you're a pretty hot dude, then they don't care to admit. Otherwise you do have to play along with the stupid games that'll eventually lead to sex. I'm ok with needing some sort of connection to have sex, like you don't just wanna open the door and go straight to banging, but it'd be nice if they were upfront about just wanting sex from the beginning.
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:28 PM
38

Not bad at all. Plenty of women just want sex, so look for those.
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:12 PM
3

You might be more attractive, but if you're projecting them this insecurity you're projecting us, that's your answer as to why they don't like you.
/r/seduction19/01/22 12:12 PM
4

Always go for the bill, even if she grabs it and gets up, you get up after her and tell her you want to pay, or at least split. But once it's done, all you can do is thank her and owe her one. You guys don't really know each other, just met once, so some mistakes will be made, don't dwell on them and just move on confidently. Don't let her believe those "mistakes" define you. I always text the same day. Just say you had a good time and what to do it again, and suggest a new day. If she's into yo…
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:18 PM
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I think nothing really went bad, especially not until the bill, that's when you should have been a bit more confident and say either you pay or go Dutch, but her paying the whole bill doesn't bode well for you. Also her giving you a gift on a first date is quite uncommon, nobody expects that, so you shouldn't worry about not getting her anything, just next time pay for the date and just confidently tell her you owe her. But don't show insecurity because that'll kill you. She sounds like she genu…
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:42 PM
1

You're in your 20's and she probably is too, having a boner when you like someone is quite expected. She's not gonna be grossed out by it or laugh at you, so who cares? Just keep enjoying the date. If she notices, she'd most likely find it flattering, at least she knows you're into her.
/r/seduction18/01/22 01:13 PM
1

Just treat her like you normally do minus the flirting. She's still a friend and a coworker after all.
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:49 PM
1

Perhaps we have different views on dating, maybe due to age, as your view seems very traditional, one that's not very common with young people nowadays.
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:48 PM
1

You don't think dating goes both ways and she needs to put as much effort as he does?
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:12 PM
1

The problem with that is he'll be putting her on a pedestal. He can't forget that he's the prize too, it goes both ways. She has to work hard to get him too.
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:49 PM
1

Just tell her to text you wheneve she's ready and that's it. If she texts, great, if she doesn't, oh well it is what it is. Either way, keep your options open.
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:28 PM
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Sometimes that happens, and it's normal to feel overwhelmed because you want to make time for all of them, but you also have a life, but you don't want to wait too long with one cause you might lose her. That's when I just stop trying to meet new girls/swipe on apps, and focus on the ones I'm currently talking to. Normally after a date or two, you're gonna cut off a few you don't match with, and then go back to just one girl, or none at all.
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:17 PM
0

I live in The Netherlands
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:53 AM
18

I'd go for it a third time, and if she still gives you the cheek, either stop contacting her, or straight up ask her what's up with that. Some girls don't like to kiss on the first date, which is understandable, but if after 3 dates she still doesn't want to kiss, either she's stringing you along for attention, or you're just simply not on the same page when it comes to kissing and affection, and that'll affect the relationship going onwards.
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:22 AM
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Technically it's not wrong, but I still wouldn't go through with it. For me it's weird to be 20+ and hook up with an underage person. But it depends on where you're from, people are more, or less, ok with that. Where I currently live, my female colleagues don't see it weird or creepy if a guy whose 25 fucks a girl who's 17, because the age of consent is 16, so why would it be bad? I figured girls would be the ones against this since it seems predatory to me, but they're the ones who seem more en…
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:04 AM
8

I think this "don't talk to people at the gym" is taking way overboard. Obviously don't talk to them while they're in the middle of their exercise, but when getting some water, going to the lockers, or just walking from A to B, there's nothing wrong in saying hello, nodding, or a quick smile, especially if it's people you see often. They're still people, you're not really bothering them by saying hello, you're just greeting them and moving on. If they reciprocate cool, if not, no big deal. You'r…
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:25 AM
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How so? Literally had the same experience a month ago. Went on a dew dates with this girl, we kissed, we texted daily, but after the second date, when she left and we kissed, I just didn't feel "it". She's a very nice girl, and the conversation flowed really good, yet I just didn't see us together. I don't know OP's girl's reason, but I do understand the feeling of everything going well, yet you just don't feel it.
/r/seduction16/01/22 06:20 PM
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She just wasn't feeling it. What she said was just a rejection in the nicest way possible, but don't expect a friendship, just move on. The more she got to know you, the less she was into you, it happens, don't let it get to you, because you might be in her shoes at some point. Keep on dating.
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:08 PM
1

In my opinion, a cafe or a bar are the best options for the first date. It's informal, cheap, allows you to be closer to each other, and it can be quick if things don't go well, no pressure to stay longer.
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:18 PM
2

When you're close to 30 I'd guess, depends also on whether you have a baby face too. It's tough to attract women around your age when they think you're 5 years younger.
/r/seduction09/12/21 10:02 AM
0

Alright man, no problem. If what you're doing is working for you, don't change, keep at it and enjoy the results.
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:13 PM
0

Don't you think if everything goes wrong for you, that maybe you are the problem and not the girls? I mean, clearly some other guys are managing to get them, so why not you? This anger is just blinding you to the real problem: you.
/r/seduction08/12/21 09:53 PM
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I think the advice should be "don't try to force a conversation". Conversations end, that's normal, but some guys feel like they have to lead every conversation, that if it ends, it's because they didn't do enough, so they'll just try to keep going, forcing the conversation, even when there's nothing else to say, which in the end, gives a bad impression to the girl. It's also not valuing yourself enough. Guys shouldn't forget that they are the prize too. You put effort into getting her, but if s…
/r/seduction06/12/21 09:37 PM
16

At a club, the easiest way is to join them while dancing, but don't come from behind, it can be creepy. If a girl sees you having fun, she'll naturally gravitate to you, because she wants to have fun too. If you're at the bar ordering a drink, you can just ask the girl what she ordered, and take it from there. Clubs are loud, so it's tough to talk, most of the interaction and attraction comes from non-verbal language. Appear confident, well dressed and groomed, smell good, and smile and have fun…
/r/seduction12/11/21 02:10 PM
2

Don't put much thought into it. She's been playing hard to get because you're not top tier for her, meaning, she prefers other guys but comes to you when she has nothing. Don't feel bad about it, just put her to the side, and go for other women. If this one wants to fuck, fine, go for it, but don't expect anything more than that. She's playing hard to get, but you gotta play impossible to get, that's when she'll come back to you, but you can't give her much though, because she clearly pulls back…
/r/seduction09/11/21 11:52 AM
2

I'd think she's messing with me, then after she's gone I'd regret not playing along.
/r/seduction31/10/21 02:22 PM
2

I thought that was well-known. Sure, game matters, but looks matter too. Us guys are similar in that aspect too. How many times have you been all over a super hot girl who was quite bland? Also how many times have you met an average girl whose personality is so great you feel attraction towards her? Some people stimulate your mind, while others your body. Both can create attraction. The ideal would be to stimulate both, but you can still get some if you can do one, you just gotta play your cards…
/r/seduction20/07/19 11:24 AM
1

You talked to a girl and she was enjoying your company. It doesn't matter you didn't get her number or whatever, you still did the right thing and it gave you positive results. It's a victory. Next time try to get her number when the friend pulls her away.
/r/seduction05/07/19 08:21 AM
1

That's exactly what I'm missing, the "spark". Yeah, conversation flows really well, no awkwardness, but there's just something missing. I'm going on dates with girls from dating apps, it's not the best way to meet girls, but I feel like it's the easiest. I'm not the best at going up to a stranger and talking to them.
/r/seduction02/07/19 12:51 PM
9

Is that really perfect? Is perfection a girl that goes on dates with other guys while she's in a relationship? I get it, you're thinking with your emotions right now, but think about it rationally. Assuming she breaks up with her bf and goes with you, what makes you think she won't go on dates with other guys while with you? If you're ok with that, then sure, stick around and wait. If not, then move on.
/r/seduction01/07/19 06:45 PM
21

She went on a date while she has a boyfriend. Doesn't sound like the type of girl you wanna stick around for. Put yourself in the boyfriend's shoes, and think about how you'd feel if your girlfriend did all you guys did. Step away man. Forget about her and find a better girl.
/r/seduction01/07/19 06:41 PM
1

I feel sort of the same way. I'm really comfortable being single, even though I do want a girl, when I go on dates, I'm usually glad to be home and be alone again, even when the date goes really good. I've been on quite a lot of dates in the past month, and I'm getting tired of it, I miss when I was by myself, even though then I wanted someone. Don't know what the hell is my problem
/r/seduction01/07/19 02:04 PM
4

Well usually I meet them at a bar, have some drinks, and just talk. Usually we talk about us, getting to know each other
/r/seduction29/06/19 08:20 PM
4

But what type of questions are good? Something that is not too direct. I want her to know I wanna fuck her, but I don't want her to think I'm desperate.
/r/seduction29/06/19 05:59 PM
2

Depends on your approach. I've been fascinated by Discourses from Epictetus. Sure, it's a complicated read, but if it was easy to understand we wouldn't need of that book anyways.
/r/seduction18/06/19 01:04 PM
7

Start reading some stoic philosophers like Epictetus, Seneca, Marcus Aurelius... you don't need of anyone else but you.
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:35 PM
32

I was gonna comment this exact thing. Focus on oral at first. Make her cum, and even if you don't last too long with PIV, or it's a bit awkward, she still enjoyed it, she still orgasmed. Make sure she comes through oral before having sex, and you should be good. Eventually it's just practice.
/r/seduction15/06/19 04:02 PM
9

Talk to girls wherever you go, and don't think about your virginity. Think positive, and think of the conversation with the girl. If you guys click, get her number, ask her on a date. Go with 0 expectations. More often than not, you're gonna fail, so going with no expectations will avoid you getting bummed out when things go wrong.
/r/seduction12/06/19 03:59 PM
13

Some of us don't have an abundance mentality because well, there's not an abundant amount of girls interested in us, hence why we can't stop thinking about this one girl we went on a date once. It's not the right mentality, but it takes time to build that mentality. Either you create that abundance by talking to a lot of women, or you find a different mentality to get you to stop focusing on that one girl. I'm working on this because I don't have an abundance of women into me because I don't app…
/r/seduction08/06/19 08:43 PM
1

Well we're talking, all good. So I'm glad I didn't give up like you said.
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:07 PM
2

Yes, I fucked up with the kiss, I get it. But what would be the best time to text her then? Not too early not too late?
/r/seduction05/06/19 10:12 PM
2

Yeah, I fucked up at the end, but the other 3 hours went perfect. How's it game over?
/r/seduction05/06/19 10:05 PM
1

Without even trying? I'm gonna have to disagree with that. I'm asking for advice on how to deal with this situation with her, what I don't want to do is give up without even knowing if she's still interested. I'd rather get rejected, or ghosted, than give up.
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:57 PM
1

Yeah... it all went great until the goodbye moment, when I should have gone for the kiss but I didn't.
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:55 PM
1

Yeah I don't go on dates often, not a big fan of them, so I don't have much experience
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:15 PM
1

Why don't you text after the first date? Why is it better for the guy to text? I texted her first when we matched, and I also set up the date, I feel like I've shown enough signs of interest. Definitely not gonna wait a week.
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:14 PM
1

Sounds reasonable. I don't want to wait too long, just don't want to appear needy. Why wouldn't she text me though? That's also one thing that makes me doubt.
/r/seduction05/06/19 08:58 PM
1

She knows I'm interested, I told her after the date. My worry is to appear needy by texting her the next day. She also hasn't texted me, which also makes me wonder.
/r/seduction05/06/19 08:55 PM
2

Yeah, I should have totally gone for the lips :/ I didn't apologize, but I did acknowledge the awkwardness of the situation and she just laughed it off and said it's normal. We already agreed on the day we're meeting, just not time yet. When should I message her though?
/r/seduction05/06/19 08:40 PM
1

I completely agree with that, but that thought didn't go through my head at the time. 10 seconds later I was already regretting not going for it.
/r/seduction05/06/19 08:38 PM
2

We were standing a bit further apart, and the conversation wasn't flirty at that point, I didn't know how to transition for the kiss. I'd do it differently if I could, but man, don't know what went through my head at that moment. I was smooth all night until that moment. I don't have other girls lined up 😅 I'm talking with some through apps, but not to the point of setting a date. Isn't waiting till Friday too long without talking?
/r/seduction05/06/19 08:32 PM
3

When it comes to the conversation, I do what you said, and it works. My main problem is I see girls looking at me (more than just a glance) and when I meet her eyes, my face remains the same. I don't know what to do, if I should smile, or remain neutral but acknowledge them with a head nod or raising the eyebrows. It's that step I struggle with.
/r/seduction08/05/19 11:58 PM
1

Alright, I get it 👌
/r/seduction08/05/19 03:35 PM
1

You already bore the fuck out of people and you don't even talk. Trust me, it's better to ask "what did you do?" than be like "uhh... hmmm..." The point is not to get them hooked with the first question, it's not easy, and especially if your social skills are 0. The point is to learn stuff about someone so then you can engage in a fun conversation with them.
/r/seduction08/05/19 03:28 PM
2

"What did you do this weekend?" "What do you study? Why?" "What do you want to do when you graduate?" Stuff like that. They're simple questions, but they will allow you to know stuff about the person, which then you can ask them to elaborate on, or stuff like that.
/r/seduction08/05/19 03:23 PM
1

Stop. First of all, stop trashing yourself. What you repeat to yourself, is what sticks. The more you hate yourself, the worse you're gonna get. You act like being socially adept is what gives you value, but it is not. These thoughts are in your head all the time when you're around people, and they're the reason you suck at conversation. Get out of your head. Ask simple questions at first, get to know a but about the person, and listen. Don't think of what you're gonna say next, just listen so y…
/r/seduction08/05/19 02:47 PM
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How?
/r/seduction08/05/19 02:34 PM
3

It's not just to women, but also men are attracted to confidence, whether it's on women or men. Confident people are more open being themselves, which also allows you to be yourself. They allow themselves to be more vulnerable and that creates comfort in others because you know they're not hiding anything. They also tend to be better conversationalists, funnier, interesting.... insecure people can end up being an annoyance because they make you walk on eggshells quite often as to not hurt them; …
/r/seduction25/04/19 08:09 AM
2

Wait what? Am I missing something? You turn girls' heads because you're fit. You look good because you work out regularly, not because you walk. Walking is good, but you'd have to walk a lot daily to notice any changes physically. Walking daily regular distances like most people just keeps you healthy, it's exercise after all, but it doesn't make you fit. So maybe I misunderstood the point of this post; mind explaining? I'm also one that chooses to walk if possible, mainly because it's free lol …
/r/seduction24/04/19 11:55 PM
10

I have two friends whose bodies aren't toned and they get lots of hot girls. One of them has a bit of a beer belly, while the other one is really skinny (and dresses a bit like a hobo lol), but they're both smooth talkers, confident in themselves, funny, and they are proud of being themselves, they don't filter themselves. Watching them I've realized your looks don't matter as much as we think they do, it's more important to know how to talk to a girl, and how to carry yourself, than how hot you…
/r/seduction16/04/19 08:14 AM
12

Too many guys think looks is all that matters and that's bullshit. Y'all have never seen those guys who are objectively average looking but are so smooth they pick up hot girls? They're confident in themselves and they are fun. With those 2 things you can get beautiful girls even if you're just a 5. Stop relying on your looks, if you're getting nothing, 99% sure your looks ain't the problem.
/r/seduction05/04/19 01:10 PM
6

As much as I like going crazy with some electronic music, there's nothing better than Latin music to dance to with a girl. You don't even know how to dance that music, just go with her flow, her movements, and you're good. Eventually you'll learn. I'm from Spain, and I've been to clubs with different type of music, but reggaeton, is the best to get girls. I don't even like that genre too much, but at a club, I'm always down for it. So even if you don't like Latin music, just go to a club that pl…
/r/seduction06/03/19 07:35 PM
4

It depends on the situation and what she does. Pay attention and if she makes a mistake, says something embarrassing, or something like that, tease her about it. An example is a new coworker I have. On her first day she dropped a plate, and I was like "wow first day and you're already breaking plates... smh". You could tell she was a little bit embarrassed of course, but she was laughing. She knew I was joking cause I said it with a smile, but instead of reassuring her from the get go that it wa…
/r/seduction13/02/19 10:03 AM
8

Tease her. If she plays along, she's game, if not, move on. Teasing is fun, and I use it as a way of a filter. If she doesn't play she either doesn't like me or she's boring, so either way, it's time to move on. A lot of girls like it though, it's fun, especially because it separates you from the "compliment guys" (guys who compliment them all the time). Just do/say what you find fun. Girls that play along are the type you should keep talking to.
/r/seduction12/02/19 11:54 PM
3

Some shittests can be fun, but this is just manipulative bullshit.
/r/seduction06/02/19 03:33 PM
5

It takes me some time to get comfortable when speaking to strangers, but I've realized that you gotta be the one asking questions and letting them talk. It puts the spotlight on them, and people like talking about themselves, so they brighten up when you seem interested in their life, and their energy transfers to you, making you more comfortable and more willing to open up and be more warm towards them. I'm still quite shy at first when it's a 1-to-1 convo, but I'm much better than before.
/r/seduction04/02/19 01:15 AM
2

Do you think she knew?
/r/seduction02/02/19 09:14 AM
4

Why? Why would they prefer a guy that has no experience and is most likely gonna last very little, to a guy that has experience and is more likely to last longer?
/r/seduction01/02/19 11:49 PM
22

Congrats man. How did she take that you were a virgin? I always wonder what non-virgin girls think of having sex with a virgin guy. I didn't tell the girl I lost my v-card with that I was a virgin for fear she'd be turned off.
/r/seduction01/02/19 10:40 PM
1

Nice, thanks man
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:51 PM
5

When you first meet a girl, or are introduced to one, do you go for the hug too? Or you only do that if you've already met her? In my culture we give one kiss on each cheek, but since I moved, every girl just extends her hand for a handshake when met for the first time, which I find very impersonal, very cold, but I'm not sure if I should be more bold and go for the hug.
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:06 PM
1

What do you do with your hands when you're standing still? It feels awkward to just let them hang.
/r/seduction13/01/19 09:42 AM
4

These people aren't "Alphas", they're insecure people who think because they can get a girl, they're the shit, but they clearly lack much more in life and personality. That, or they're just trolls.
/r/seduction01/01/19 04:23 PM
29

Shitests are kinda fun when you're in it for something casual. In the end it turns into banter and back and forth teasing. Now when you want something serious, shitest are annoying, it shows the girl isn't looking for anything serious, or if she is, she's probably someone you shouldn't get serious with.
/r/seduction04/11/18 10:18 AM
2

Sounds extremely petty. You dodged one right there.
/r/seduction21/10/18 05:46 PM
14

Stop doing it for the women. I know it sounds weird considering we're in a seduction sub, but if you're too self conscious of your actions, just trying to doing everything perfectly so that girls like you, from the outside, it looks weird.... sometimes creepy and even desperate. It looks unnatural. Just focus on improving yourself. Confidence. Straight back, relaxed shoulders, head up. Do it because it's fun for you. Find the fun in approaching girls and in the rejection. Don't take it personall…
/r/seduction12/10/18 01:39 PM
4

Go for it and don't give a fuck if you get rejected. HS is a place were the strongest feed of the weak. Sounds crazy but it's true. The guys that never gave a shit about others' opinions, no matter how eccentric or weird they were, never got bullied or laughed at, they were respected because they didn't show signs of weakness. Bullies bully those that are easy targets, and those are the ones with low self esteem, or those who show lack of confidence. If you take rejection like a man, no matter h…
/r/seduction02/10/18 02:14 PM
4

No. I'm a skinny guy, skinny/fit, but still skinny, and I can attract women. I've also sometimes wondered whether me being skinny is why I'm not attracting as many girls as I want to, but then I realize that I do attract girls, but only when I'm comfortable. What I mean is, when I'm self conscious, I don't attract women, cause my whole vibe is wack. It's when I'm relaxed and comfortable that I attract women. That's why I suck at getting women I don't know, but I do get those I've known for a bit…
/r/seduction23/09/18 02:17 PM
3

I can relate. Dealing with customers face to face every day, opens you up and makes you more comfortable around people, because you can't just hide, you gotta talk, and that's when you realize most people are cool with having a small chat, and some of those small chats turn into fun chats, which can eventually lead to something more.
/r/seduction11/09/18 09:24 PM
3

Same here, that's why I find it difficult and bold to do anything cause I feel it's not professional. But if I only see her at work, how can I go after when not working?
/r/seduction03/09/18 04:08 PM
1

Ok, will do. Thanks, man!
/r/seduction03/09/18 03:35 PM
1

My fear is if I'm misreading the signs. I'm 99% sure she was into me.... but what if not? I've never been this bold with a girl, so I'm kind of a newbie in this aspect, and when it's in the workplace, it's more nervewracking. I also add that when I offered her the pin machine to pay, instead of grabbing the machine she grabbed my hand holding the machine. Don't know if it means something, but most people instantly remove the hand when they touch my hand in that situation
/r/seduction03/09/18 03:22 PM
2

I thought of that old trick lol but I'm not that ballsy. I fear it can go the wrong way and screw me over. It's quite a bold move
/r/seduction03/09/18 03:13 PM
11

Teasing works amazingly. Though it also works with those you don't want it to work with. Teasing comes natural to me. I do it simply because it's fun, not with the purpose to land a girl, which means I do it with everyone, so that has lead to some girls I just considered friends to end up getting a crush on me. I suck at starting a conversation with a stranger, but I'm glad I'm great at teasing. If it's fun for you, do it/say it.
/r/seduction30/08/18 01:44 PM
1

There's always a chance, but the chances are less than an awkward hot guy, and even less than average confident guy.
/r/seduction23/08/18 07:56 AM
19

I'm 6ft. Skinny fit though, but I do style my hair and I believe I have a proportionate face (though that topic has never been brought up with anyone). I have been told I am attractive by many girls. In HS my class ranked the most attractive people and I was #1 of the guys (maybe we were just an ugly class lol). Also like I said, I don't have a problem getting a girlfriend, which I take it as, I'm attractive to girls. And yeah, some girls have randomly told me I'm attractive, though it doesn't h…
/r/seduction22/08/18 06:29 PM
3

Sounds interesting. I'll give it a try. Thanks!
/r/seduction22/08/18 03:43 PM
4

Any books you recommend?
/r/seduction22/08/18 02:47 PM
112

True. You may get attention from girls, but you won't keep them. I'm attractive (not a 10, but still, attractive), but I'm not good at starting things with people (not just girls). I think it's social anxiety, but the fact is that I'm not good at talking to people I just met, or simple strangers, which leads me to suck when it comes to picking up girls (simply because I just don't even try). I'm good when I know the person, and I think I'm quite charming once I trust and am able to open up and b…
/r/seduction22/08/18 01:33 PM
2

Just bring up serious topics. If all you do is flirt and joke around, that's all they're gonna do with you. I'm a goofball, I like joking and playing around with people, not just girls in general, but with them I'm flirty, obviously. I tease girls a lot, but I also have deep and serious conversations with them. I bring up some of the topics, and some they're the ones that bring it up. They know they can have a serious conversation with me and trust me because I've let them know that besides me b…
/r/seduction20/08/18 12:35 PM
12

Talk to her about it. Get serious with her and explain the issue. Let her tell you why exactly is she doing this, and reassure her that you love her and she doesn't have to worry about other girls. If she dismisses the issue and blames it on you, tell her if she keeps doing that, she's gonna lose you for real. Right now, the only threat to your relationship is her attitude.
/r/seduction20/08/18 12:23 PM
2

I wouldn't call it selfishness. It's not all about you, but it is about thinking about what is good for you and not being a doormat. You gotta help others, that's a very manly trait and a trait girls desire in a man, but you can't let others walk over you and put helping them before your pwn happiness. Sometimes you gotta say no.
/r/seduction19/08/18 10:28 PM
11

I agree with the part that we should care, but you shouldn't obsess with being the best. You're never gonna be the best, and obsessing about it is gonna make things worse. You should just work on improving yourself, but without obsessing about it. Be realistic. Girls don't want guys who are obsessed about being the best, it makes a guy look unnatural. People have flaws, we all do.
/r/seduction16/08/18 12:12 PM
2

I don't know how far away you're from your job, but 9 to 5 is actually really good, it leaves you plenty of time for your own stuff. But if your commute is very long, then I'd understand. My job is at 20 mins biking from my place, so if I apply that to your working hours, I'd get home at 5:20, leaving me until 11pm to do whatever I want. That's almost 6 hours of free time. So go to a bar after work, especially if you're into sports, when the sports season begins, sports bars are great to meet ne…
/r/seduction18/07/18 10:31 PM
3

Has there been a day when you didn't approach 2 girls, or you almost didn't approach 2 girls? Also, what's your thought process on those days you just want to stay home and chill without interacting with other people? I admire the fact you're actively pursuing a conversation with a stranger, not the fact they're girls, but a stranger.
/r/seduction18/07/18 05:46 PM
36

So the man you want to be is based on how many women you can get? That's where your value is? Is the man you want to be a liar and a deceiver? That is sad.... very sad. Cheating is never the answer. I don't care whether you want to be with other girls or not, you simply don't cheat. You break with your girlfriend and then go for other women. You want to have the cake and eat it too. It doesn't matter that she will never know if you cheated, it's about integrity and being a decent human being. Th…
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:54 AM
3

Make her have fun with you. Don't just do the same thing all the time. I see lots of guys just grabbing the girl from her hips and rocking sideways like if you cradling a kid. That's boring, and the girl is gonna look for someone who will entertain her. Also, make a move. It's very likely the girl wants to at least make out, so if you do nothing, she's gonna think you're a wuss. Be passionate, show her that you want her, and if she doesn't reciprocate, then move on. Just like you gotta make her …
/r/seduction16/07/18 08:54 PM
1

Sounds like she's trying to show that she has other options, in order for you to treat her better to not lose her. She wants to be the one in control, like she doesn't need you cause she can have any other guy, so you better work hard for her Either that, or she's worried you're with other girls while on your trip and wants to do the same thing she thinks you're doing. Like: "since he's with other girls, I'm gonna be with other guys ".
/r/seduction05/06/18 10:41 PM
1

Just be honest. Just like one guy said, if you were a loser, they wouldn't be asking you that cause they know the answer... matter of fact, you probably wouldn't even be with them to begin with.
/r/seduction22/05/18 09:51 PM
2

"Hahaha there's plenty of women out there. Bye". A woman that is worthy, and who is truly interested in you, won't say/act like that. No reason in trying with this girl, I don't care if it's a shit test or not, last thing I need is to be with a girl who thinks she's above me.
/r/seduction13/05/18 11:13 AM
19

I never send a second text, but if it takes her 3 days to send a reply, I'd assume she just doesn't want anything and is just stringing me along. She doesn't need to give me an answer, but everyone has at least 10 seconds in their day when they can say "hey, I'm busy, I'll text you later" or something along those lines. I just think it's disrespectful that if you care at least a tiny bit for someone, you ignore them for 3 days
/r/seduction10/05/18 10:27 PM
1

I'm not a huge fan of the scale either, but I gotta say it's more easy to understand. Words can be more subjective than numbers, like for me, cute is actually more based on her vibe, so a gorgeous girl can be cute too. Hot is mostly focused on body, not face. But others think differently, so a number is something most people understand the same way, but I do agree that it's a bit objectifying
/r/seduction03/05/18 06:20 PM
5

"I've noticed I limit myself to 6 and 8's" this is what most guys do, we limit ourselves to the average and slightly above average girls because we think the 10's are "too much for us", "stuck up", "conceited"... or whatever bullshit excuse we can come up with so we don't get rejected by what we really want. This is why in my experience, the 10's are actually quite nice and even more approachable than a 7, who is constantly approached by guys. I see 10's being more insecure than 7's because they…
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:24 PM
2

Girls aren't all the same, so of course one tactic isn't gonna work for all. It's not contradictory, it's just that every girl is different. Most of the advice here is given in order to pick up a slutty girl, that's why they say be direct, and go for the kill, because it's the best tactic for slutty girls, but when a girl isn't slutty, it's not gonna work, here it requires more time. If all you want is sex right now, then be direct and go for the kill. Slutty girls will accept (not every single …
/r/seduction22/04/18 01:50 PM
1

I don't. I just don't know how to start a conversation, and not just with random girls I find attractive, but with everyone. I'm great at keeping a conversation going and jumping from one topic to another, but the start is what I suck at. That's why I also suck at online dating. All of my relationships except for one, came from being friends before (the other one was surprisingly from a dating site), and all of my hookups have either been friends or met at a party/club, which means there's no ta…
/r/seduction22/04/18 01:27 PM
16

If failure stops you from trying again, better just drop life altogether. You're gonna fail more than you're gonna win, not just with girls, but with everything. I constantly failed classes in High School, but I kept going, kept failing, but in the end I would pass. I never had to repeat a year, though I was close during the last year, but I tried harder and I passed, and thanks to that I got to study abroad for 4 years in my dream country. I could have dropped out after the first failure, but I…
/r/seduction20/04/18 03:16 PM
2

It was good for you to walk away, but you left the door open. Do you really want to be with a girl who flirts with other guys while in a relationship? I don't know what your intentions are with her, but if you want something serious, she doesn't seem like the right type. If you just want sex, then I guess you can go for her once she's single, though I personally wouldn't. I'd drop her instantly.
/r/seduction04/04/18 12:04 PM
3

I realized that some years ago, but I haven't changed. I want to, and I'm trying, but I always end up falling into the same train of thought. I know my true personality can get girls, and a lot because it has happened in the past with lots of female friends, but when you move to different countries and you don't have any friends and you have to go out specifically to meet people, it gets difficult for me. I start overthinking things and I blow it. I'm not my true self and that screws me over.
/r/seduction31/03/18 01:13 PM
1

If you're not kissing after 15 minutes (and that's pushing it) at a college party, move on. Don't stick with a girl for the whole party expecting to get something. You gotta set yourself a time limit. If after X minutes nothing physical happens, move on.
/r/seduction30/03/18 10:27 PM
2

Depends. If it's moving fast and as good as I want it to, I see no reason to pull back and come back later. There's been girls I was making out with them after even less than 5 minutes, I'm not gonna walk off if after that, it would actually make it worse, in my opinion. If she doesn't show 100% interest, or is going a bit slow, then yes, walk away and come back later, but if she's basically all over you, stay and pull her right away.
/r/seduction30/03/18 10:25 PM
29

The "I can have lots of guy friends and flirt with them, but you shouldn't do the same with girls" attitude reminds me of what a cheater/manipulator would say. Maybe I'm wrong, after all, we can only assume based on what you said, but basically what you wrote was red flag after red flag after red flag...
/r/seduction25/03/18 06:47 AM
4

Yep, just like those who only have their Instagram. They're there for the attention and the followers
/r/seduction18/03/18 10:27 PM
3

It's a good foreplay for the actual thing. It's pointless if it never becomes reality. If you have a girlfriend, it's a great thing to have fun with if you two can't be together that day. In the end, you know you're gonna fuck. It's also a good way to get to know each others' likes and dislikes, and to come up with new ideas for the real thing.
/r/seduction16/03/18 02:59 PM
11

Depends on what you want of that woman. Finding a woman to fuck is quite easy if you put a bit of effort. Finding a woman to spend the rest of your life with, that's more complicated. For some it's easier than for others, and that mostly depends on who they are as a person and their path in life.
/r/seduction15/03/18 08:37 AM
1

Don't wait too long to text her, and when you do, try to be fun (not necessarily funny, though that's great too). Get her interested. If she gave you her number, there's chances you peaked her interest, so take advantage of that and increase that interest more. If she doesn't reply anyways, just forget about it, maybe she gave you her number because she wasn't sure how to reject you.
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:13 PM
2

Free? How does it work?
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:09 PM
12

That's why I ask for it, not demand it... lol
/r/seduction14/03/18 11:34 AM
0

Next time just laugh and leave, without saying a word. She was a cunt by saying you that. If her friend wanted to reject you, she could have say so without being rude. There was no need for that, so you shouldn't let it faze you. You actually dodged a bullet, so be happy for that.
/r/seduction10/03/18 11:29 PM
1

She wants a relationship now, while you don't seem like you want one. Why would she waste her time on someone who isn't ready for something serious? Maybe she's just trying to play it "cool" just like you, but I think she's just tired of wasting her time on you. 3 months, she tells you she wants something serious, you say no.... I'd probably move on too if I was her.
/r/seduction10/03/18 11:21 PM
2

Wait... she's worried guys don't see her for who she really is, and only want her for sex, yet he doesn't want anything serious and fucks with a random guy right after meeting him? Sounds like she really is what guys think she is :/ if I were you, I'd just do what I want, meaning if you want something serious and she doesn't, then move on. If you just want sex and she's down for that, then go for it. Don't complicate your life with other peoples' problems
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:04 PM
1

It's weird because I have the courage to move to a different country alone with no job, trying to start a new life. I have the courage of just walking into a business ask for the manager, nd ask if they have a job opening. But when it comes to cold approaches, I chicken out. I can get girls and flirt, but most of them either approach me or they're friends/friends of friends.
/r/seduction03/03/18 09:38 AM
4

Perhaps you're right, women are attracted to status, and having a gf increases your status. That being said, I find it quite low and a bit of a loser move, to have to lie like that in order to get girls. I think honesty and being real is better. If being real doesn't get you girls, then maybe you got some changes to make.
/r/seduction02/03/18 09:48 PM
1

Zomboy - Like a bitch
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:21 PM
77

I may be a cynical fuck, but I'd be so wary if I were in your place. She seems soooo into you even after you just met, I'd feel like she has a dark reason for all that. But anyways, let's assume she's good, don't say anything about your inexperience, just go with the flow. I get the fear of disappointing, we've all been there, but she says she really likes you and that you're nothing she has ever met before, so, is she really gonna throw that away because of a bad first time sex? If her answer i…
/r/seduction26/02/18 04:35 PM
1

"Only been with one guy" right, like I'm gonna believe that 😂 it's like when a random hookup says she's on the pill... don't risk it dude
/r/seduction25/02/18 10:52 PM
1

It definitely is when it's the receptionist and he sees you sneak out of a hotel room at 12:30am
/r/seduction25/02/18 10:42 PM
2

I feel you. The first sex after a long drought feels amazing. Happened to me a few months back while at work, this 31 year old milf (I was 21) out of the blue said how I was the best looking guy at work. She then proceeded to tell me her room number (I worked at a hotel) and that she'd be waiting for me after my shift ended. I thought she might be kidding, but it had been a long time getting nothing, so I said fuck it and went up to her room. She opened the door just in her underwear and we fuck…
/r/seduction25/02/18 03:12 PM
4

Is it still considered a creampie if you have a condom on? I'd be worried shitless about having an STD if I were him
/r/seduction25/02/18 03:07 PM
3

"I want a relationship, but all guys want is sex.... anyways, you wanna fuck?" Lmao and she wonders why she's single.
/r/seduction25/02/18 10:16 AM
28

True. I've read many things on here that seem to come right out of a movie, they sound ridiculous.
/r/seduction23/02/18 10:20 PM
4

You're right, though it also depends on the situation. I suck at initiating a conversation with a girl, but I'm really good at maintaining one, flirting, teasing, and getting them hooked. I shouldn't be someone you take advice on initiating, but I am someone you could take advice on flirting and getting a girl interested in you. Gotta try to see the strengthd and weaknesses of the poster, though I doubt many people will actually check someone's comment/post history deep enough to know, especiall…
/r/seduction23/02/18 10:19 PM
1

I only have Facebook and I barely even use it, so no, simply because it's just not my thing, but I do believe it can be done.
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:45 PM
1

Depends on who that girl is. If she's someone you know or know of each other's existence (like in this case, they're both from the same school), I think it's ok, as long as you don't act like a creep about it. Sure, approaching in person is obviously more attractive, but if you play it good it can work if done through social media.
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:28 PM
2

The double standard lies on whether the receiver is attracted to the messenger or not. Many guys message girls on IG, and the attractive ones aren't thought of as creeps, it's usually the unattractive ones (or the ones that actually say something creepy in their message). You shouldn't overthink this message, just treat it like any other message. Maybe she's interested, maybe she's just looking for a convo. Go with the flow.
/r/seduction22/02/18 08:06 PM
6

Tease her. You gotta play. Say something you find fun, maybe some girls won't dig that, but it's fine, you don't want a bore anyways. Backhanded compliments tend to work great if you say it in a jokingly way, smiling so she gets it. In the end she needs to know you're just playing, but still find her attractive and interesting.
/r/seduction17/02/18 09:41 AM
2

It's great that you stepped out of your comfort zone and did something you HAD to do. You shouldn't worry about then number thing, if she's interested in you, she'll text, if she isn't she won't, so even if you got her number, her interest wouldn't have been there. But you shouldn't worry about that stuff, because your win today was doing the approach, so be happy you did that, and next time try to approach two girls.
/r/seduction16/02/18 01:35 PM
2

Thanks, man. Really appreciate it :)
/r/seduction15/02/18 12:45 PM
2

Hmm guess you're right. I shouldn't worry/care what others think anyways
/r/seduction15/02/18 12:03 PM
1

You can talk at a wall, but you can't talk with a wall. Talking AT a girl is basically a pointless conversation that leads nowhere. Talking WITH a girl is when both of you are engaged in the conversation, when you listen to her and are interested in what she's saying.
/r/seduction15/02/18 12:01 PM
5

I would move on if I were you. She stood you up once, that's disrespectful.
/r/seduction15/02/18 11:59 AM
1

I think the point is to not give your whole attention to a girl you're not attached to yet. Like you meet a girl you really like and you're talking to her, but you haven't yet made it official. Don't get obsessed with her, just go with the flow and if it doesn't work out, just move on to another girl. But if things do get serious, then of course dedicate your attention to her, don't over do it. If you're always brushing off women and not taking any of them seriously, you're gonna end up alone.
/r/seduction15/02/18 11:57 AM
2

You're just funny. That's your problem. You gotta add a spark to your humor. I'm a funny guy too, and what works the best for me to get girls to like me is teasing them. It's fun/funny but at the same time it creates a sexual tension, because that's what you need, sexual tension. You have to try to push the boundaries a little bit, though try not to cross the line, especially at first since right now you're just the funny guy.
/r/seduction15/02/18 11:51 AM
1

Just whisper in their ear while you're dancing and grinding that you wanna take her home.
/r/seduction15/02/18 11:17 AM
3

Don't you feel awkward dancing by yourself? Won't people think you're a loser? I want to try going to a club by myself but I feel awkward and think people would consider me a loser
/r/seduction15/02/18 11:13 AM
7

If she stops responding, move on. If she really wants to talk to you, she'll text you.
/r/seduction14/02/18 07:36 PM
17

Congrats man! You know, I can relate to you cause all my relationships have always been with female friends, after some years of building that friendship. Meeting random girls I find attractive and building something from there seems difficult to me. Most I can get is making out with a girl at a club and sometimes casual sex, but outside of that environment I have trouble with it. I don't see myself approaching a girl at a coffee shop for example.
/r/seduction14/02/18 10:00 AM
3

Stay strong and don't take her back. She's manipulative. She wants the cake and eat it too. She wants the comfort of having a bf, while the butterflies and excitement of being with someone new. Whether she's saying the truth about you being her true love and not wanting that guy anymore, it shouldn't matter. What's done is done, anf she fucked up. If you take her back all you're telling her is that she can cheat and you will forgive her, ergo, she'll do it again. I know it sucks and it's difficu…
/r/seduction13/02/18 06:12 PM
1

When you get that anxiety look at people. Don't look down, look at them. Realize they're the same as you, and they're all doing a simple activity you know how to do, which is talking. There's nothing weird about that. If those people can do it without people thinking negatively of them, you can do it too. You're scared of being judged, but when you look around, you'll realize people aren't even paying attention to you. So just go up to a girl and introduce yourself while looking into her eyes. A…
/r/seduction13/02/18 04:36 PM
3

I don't agree with what both of you are doing. You're getting between two people, and she's keeping you on the hook while disrespecting her bf. Ok, what if she breaks up with her bf and date you, who tells you that you aren't gonna be in the exact same situation her bf is right now in a month or two? She's clearly not loyal, and you're clearly not her number 1 choice. You've been in her life for several years now and she has always chosen other guys. Everyone's always complaining how partners ar…
/r/seduction13/02/18 04:31 PM
1

I talk like I talk in real life, so it feels more real and I don't run out of things to say
/r/seduction13/02/18 04:21 PM
4

You're most likely not the only guy she's dating/interested in, hence why she doesn't wanna give you any other contact info. She's waiting till she knows which guy is best for her. I say just keep swiping and dating, and keep talking to this girl, but maybe back off a little, cause right now she has the upper hand and she knows it.
/r/seduction13/02/18 04:04 PM
1

Thanks man
/r/seduction11/02/18 08:50 PM
2

Same approach in bars?
/r/seduction11/02/18 08:37 PM
2

Just play along. If you get mad about her comment it's just gonna ruin it and show that mere words can affect your mood. Just laugh and play along
/r/seduction11/02/18 12:45 PM
1

That makes sense. And how would I go with approaching a girl at a club? Talking is difficult because of the loud music, and just going up to her and start dancing can be seen as creepy, no?
/r/seduction10/02/18 05:32 PM
2

The Netherlands. I'll edit the post and add this detail. Apologies
/r/seduction10/02/18 01:47 PM
7

Lol true. So how would I approach a girl in one of those places?
/r/seduction10/02/18 01:47 PM
2

Always maintain eye contact, don't break it unless it's necessary. Also, a girl holding strong eye contact with you doesn't necessarily mean she likes you, she may do that with everyone, so go to that Chipotle again and see if she does the same with others. If not, and if she holds strong eye contact with you again, then play along. Smile, and if you feel bold, compliment her and/or ask for he number.
/r/seduction10/02/18 11:46 AM
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I'm not usually that straight forward with girls I recently met, but I decided to try this with this girl. Being cocky (in a funny way, not serious) works for me, it's what I tend to do since I don't really take myself too seriously and I like it when the girl teases me and we end up teasing each other. But with this girl it didn't work out. I was 100% sure she was into me, though. She was constantly looking at me and being around me, so I thought she was into me. Guess I misjudged her. No biggi…
/r/seduction09/02/18 11:47 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction09/02/18 11:42 PM
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Yeah, I get you. I think I went in too hard with this one. In my head I thought it was pretty clear that I was just joking, since it's kinda arrogant to say that to someone, but yeah, considering she barely knows me, it might have been too much. Thanks!
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:53 PM
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Yeah, I understand. I'm very sarcastic, so I use it a lot, but what I mean is that if when I start talking to a girl I barely know by text, should I start by teasing her, or be a bit more serious? For example, this girl I mentioned, I've only met her one time and we barely spoke, but I saw her checking me out a lot. So I added her on Facebook a few days later and I texted her first and said "I saw you checking me out the other day >.> " I obviously was just teasing her, but she kinda took it the…
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:41 PM
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I shouldn't start with jokes either? Last girl I texted I began with a joke and she seemed to have taken it seriously, so after two texts she stopped talking xD
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:32 PM
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