I'm in my late teens, never really had a serious relationship, messed around of course. But I found out something about my self that blew my mind. I was overthinking everything. "When do I text her", "what's the ideal day to ask her out", "oh she doesn't want to fuck right now" blah blah blah. All in my head, and I would beat the shit out of myself for setting an expectation for myself I couldn't reach. That's not right. I missed a lot of shit with girls simply because I thought no girl would like me. When I was younger I had family issues, parents chose other shit over their own children ect. So it always thought, "she doesn't like me nooo, she is just being friendly, she probably says that to everybody" and I lost a lot of opportunities because of this mindset. I realised, "yeah girls can like me, I can be attractive" so on so forth. It feels good to have figured it out and it explains a lot of my neediness and my want to always prove myself to girls when I was younger. So yeah that's what I found out, maybe you guys can agree.

Tldr: realized a lot of my failed relationships and whatever have occurred due to me not believing I could be attractive or loved, its weird lol.