I've gotten into the dating scene recently, going on at least one date every week, sometimes two in one week. So far, the ones I've been in went pretty well. We talk and talk, until we realize we've been talking for 3-4 hours straight. Great. But the problem is that I don't know how to escalate. I've only had sex with one, another one we made out, but the rest just ended in a hug, and the conversation wasn't sexual at all, it didn't create that sexual tension you want.

So my question is how do I create that tension. I tease them, and I'm quite flirty, but I feel like it's a bit too innocent, and I don't know how to make it more direct.

Bonus question: since I'm at it, how do you portray more sexually in dating apps? I feel like I only attract the relationship type of girl, which is fine, but sometimes you just want something casual.