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I will be sure to read that book. She does escalate sex sometimes. 1 in 3 it’s her to escalates.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:43 PM
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My questions is how you ever introduced toys into bed? Is there an article or anything you can link me to?
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:41 PM
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Haven’t been on RP in a while. What Agency? The way she acted was normal. The usually hugs and kisses when she walks past.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:40 PM
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I do talk to others girls. But if I start having sex with then what’s the point in a GF. GF cost time and money. If there no sex is there any point in having a GF
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:27 PM
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It’s the first time like you say.ive rejected sex a few times in truth because I’ve been busy.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:11 PM
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Will stop hinting. I could get a plate. The other day walking through the mall. I saw two teenagers judge each other and giggle when I walked past them. I’ve looked after myself. But what’s the point in my relationship. A GF is there for sex
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:11 PM
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Maybe I have missed a few signs. But I spend two days away from her. I hit the gym three times a week. Plus I go to the library to focus on my studying. There are times where she has said that I don’t spend enough time with her because I’m doing to much. Career, studying and gym. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. What is MRP? Married red pil?
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:09 PM
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This is the first time she has rejected sex. There has been times before but they were genuine for instance food poisoning. Guess I am young and my partner my not be as turned on as me all the time. I will build some dread. What do you mean escalate throughout the day? I do that by dropping hints. Such as kisses her, then maybe later touching her body. Maybe I’m just doing it wrong
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:05 PM
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I understand and this maybe what she hinted at. It did get into a routine. Always before bed time. There was no surprise just a regular routine. I’ll stop dropping hints. And yes I need to find new positions
/r/askTRP02/09/20 01:38 PM
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I could have it more but I’m away for two days a week. Plus gym, work and exams. In my head I feel it’s done
/r/askTRP02/09/20 01:36 PM
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Thanks. Yeah didn’t want her to finish me off because of pitty. Going forward shall I just cool of the sex. Pretend I can go without?
/r/askTRP02/09/20 01:23 PM
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What does A-A mean. And I will remain my cool like you say. I’m just great full for my boss for allowing me to join. While other wouldn’t. But the end for me is financial freedom and never to work.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 09:11 PM
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Thanks for the reply? Which sub is that?
/r/askTRP12/07/19 06:07 PM
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Thank you. After she double texted me. I've told her she has blown this out of proportion and misunderstood my text. She said sorry for overreacting. Thanks for the advice, I will apply this going forward
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:18 AM
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Don't make a big deal out of this. Like other have said just say "cool, see you there"
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:24 PM
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I also hate texting to. Sentences can be easily misunderstood and as you say, blown out of proportion
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:11 PM
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Anyone I'm close to, she seems to add them
/r/askTRP09/03/19 10:34 PM
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She met them once, works with one of them, the rest are my family and cousins. She only ever met them all once, there isn't a need to add them I fell
/r/askTRP09/03/19 10:34 PM
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I agree, if I find out she has message any of them. I will just walk out. And cut all ties.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 10:33 PM
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Very true, One theory I have, is that if she gets close to my friends and family. It would make me think twice of ever ending the relationship
/r/askTRP09/03/19 05:18 PM
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It's just social proof she after like you say. She doesn't really go out with her actual friends. Just seems to be adding all mine. Who are older and none of them are single.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 05:17 PM
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We used to go out once every week. However the two weeks we haven't, as we had a leak in our house, so we have been fixing and repairing. Everything has been fixed so we have plans this weekend. And she hasn't seen other women hit on me in a long while. We used to work in the same building and she used to get Jelous, as I did get a lot of female attention (because I bring the fun and I'm easy to get along with) I think she is to comfortable, I'm gonna get back into the gym, and maybe start going…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:24 PM
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This is excellent advice. I have told her in general when we are dating, that if I ever have a girlfriend who cheats on me, I'm dumping her the second I find out. Your last sentence- pay attention to her behavior. What do you mean? Do you mean- - she acts distant? - sex life reduces?
/r/askTRP28/02/19 01:18 PM
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I've over reacted, and made something small big. I've made a mistake
/r/askTRP07/01/19 08:28 AM
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I'm not offended. I just explained that she needs to consider a person background before making a just like that
/r/askTRP07/01/19 08:20 AM
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She opened has opened up a bit more. Holding hands etc. but she still is quiet
/r/askTRP07/01/19 08:15 AM
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Yeah she is Mexican. Well part Mexican
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:34 AM
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it was glossed over when I happened. I didn't think that anyone would be upset. But there is someone who is upset.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:10 AM
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What put me off, she doesn't acknowledge that how it can be offensive
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:02 AM
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I will be honest, it has put me off her
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:58 AM
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Don't like to repeat it, was just a typical joke about a Mexican
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:53 AM
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It was bit of a racial jest, I couldn't let that go. I have always hated that sort of thing
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:47 AM
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A bit of a racial jest
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:46 AM
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Thanks for this analysis. I think your spot on that it could be a comfort test. I remember her telling me something along the lines "some guys find it disgusting". So it's safe to assume that and ex BF must of reacted negatively. So assuming this how do I proceed? I feel this is a chance to build something more and show her I am different from other guys she has dated. I've grown up with young cousins so I'm used to shit, piss and bloood everywhere. So the plan? Just escalate as you say, slowly.…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 07:44 AM
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I guess I'll just start kissing her and see where it goes
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:21 PM
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I've never had sex with a girl who is on her period. What happens, just a bit of blood? Is it painful for her?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:20 PM
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I'm gonna to tell her. I'm going out Friday night, meet me at x bar!
/r/askTRP13/08/18 06:43 PM
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Should I just ask her out? Or wait until the next night out, and just isolate again?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 04:07 PM
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Thanks I needed this. So shall I text her today, and tell her to meet me a x bar. And we will take it from there?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:58 PM
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Thanks, I will try this. I've just seen on here, that you can say "close your eyes" and proceed. Do you think that is a good way? I want a few tricks up my sleeve
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:27 PM
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Thanks that's a good point. I will say it. In the meantime I was thinking keeping my distance. I think we are all going out in a few weeks time, so I'll just make my moves then and there. If she gets I touch, which I know she will, I will just keep it short and sweet
/r/askTRP24/07/18 06:52 AM
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I understand. Even if she wants to branch swing I'm okay. I'm a firm believer of the TRP saying that you can never make a women love you. It's only your turn, like a rented car. He's just some guy. And that's a good way to ask her out. I will isolate and escalate. I will deffo try and go for the kiss again, and this time pull the trigger
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:35 PM
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Okay I will try it, but it's always her who texts me first. Double texts when I don't reply. And that date is a good idea. Obviously if she says no, then fair enough. One thing I forgot to mention. When all our friends went out the other day, and I got flirty with her. She text me at night, wondering if I got home okay. She didn't text anyone else. I do agree that I shouldn't risk the social circle. But without sounding big heeded, I made the circle. I bring the laughs and jokes. If I go home th…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:25 PM
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I agree there is a fine line between IOIs and friendzone. Ill ask her out when I see her next,
/r/askTRP09/06/18 09:26 AM
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I didn't cancel it, they HR person just said after 4 without a day.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 07:04 PM
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Jesus I just want a bit of adivce form people who have done this before
/r/askTRP02/03/18 12:45 PM
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Haha genuinly not. She is not that pretty, It stared as a game, because every time I used to talk to her. The BF used to turn around to look.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 12:40 PM
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So a girl seeking my approval. how do I test it? Tease her about this? or do you mean, get her out on a date and go for it.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 02:29 PM
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dont respond, she gave you no reason as to why she is busy. she didnt even say yes, she just said she gad free nights. best option, ignore her for a month, and ask again
/r/askTRP20/01/18 01:33 PM
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my last few weeks, i just come on to see your replies. heres to another great year on seddit
/r/seduction01/01/18 01:10 PM
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Just taking one, then concentrating on the other girl
/r/askTRP29/11/17 04:00 PM
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Don't girls go out with guys in the friendzone. They don't see them as a threat. So are happy to spend one on one time.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 02:18 PM
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So I have a few girls who I feel I may have a chance. Good signals. The only time I see them is during college hours. So only way to get them out is sending a message? Too meet me at a bar I'm at?
/r/askTRP19/11/17 07:51 PM
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Yes this, Not like my friend who asked her out in the view of a relationship. But asking them out with the view of fucking. Is there any specific way you do it?
/r/askTRP19/11/17 06:11 PM
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On the face you would think the girl. But it's always her who is clingy, calling him when he is on nights out with the lads
/r/askTRP19/11/17 05:09 PM
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It is Christmas, and people are just around the weekend. And in truth I'm to tired to go out for work. I just don't get why she said "yeah can do" if she just said busy then yeah I would understand. Or just ignore my text. Anyway as you say, I have to move on. Keep working on myself. Time always heals and something good always comes
/r/askTRP18/11/17 09:26 PM
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Ahh that's actully very true, My rule has been if a girl says no once, move on forever. But as you say it wasn't at outright rejection. Should I message her and try again? Maybe after the new year. And your right, I need to keep getting my fuck count up. Yeah there are other shy girls, but they don't tend to be in bars and clubs. So it's hard to meet them
/r/askTRP18/11/17 08:53 PM
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Maybe, I do however treat them the same. Lots of teasing and banter. Taking time to reply to them. But I do slow the escalation process down
/r/askTRP18/11/17 08:34 PM
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You are right, I will wait a day or two. And ask her. If she says no then it's her loss
/r/askTRP17/11/17 11:58 AM
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Okay thanks, should I wait a day or two? Then just offer a time and place and date. And I havnt said anything about me, the banter was mostly me teasing her, and her doing it to herself or me.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 11:57 AM
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I don't really know what I was waiting for. In your view, do you think she is actully interested? Or it was just a nice way to tell me she isn't interested
/r/askTRP17/11/17 11:33 AM
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So would you suggest, wait a few days and bang a time and date? And yes I need to schedule
/r/askTRP17/11/17 11:06 AM
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Thanks, I'm going for it. One question, I haven't seen her in a while. Must of been over a month, she came and said hello to me in the mall
/r/askTRP19/10/17 12:30 PM
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Yeah my mental barrier which I have created is stopping me. I'm just gonna do it one sort at a time and enjoy with ride. And I agree alpha fucks and beta bucks. Who cares if she is rich
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:03 PM
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Yeah he never knew. I would say we did it for about 4 months on and off really. TBH the guy is Beta, I see him for no reason argue with the post man. Then he stromed back into his house like a little girl. Even if the guy was aware I doubt he would say anything to his wife.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:39 PM
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I never want to be a BB. I'm just gonna ask her out and see how it goes. Any advice on the actual date. She hasn't dated much and keeps her self to her self. I reckon I have to be quite flirty and forward due to her lack of BFs?
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:32 PM
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Your right, fuck the long term. No need to jump the gun. One step at a time. It starts with a date to see if there is any potential.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:30 PM
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So a lady down my street. One day while sat in my car, I was looking at her. She saw me doing this and she pushed her car mirror in with her bum. In my head I'm like "it's on". The next day we both left the house at the same time, we we walking to the ships. So generic game - teasing, touching and complements. I then ask her if she is married (I know she is married, wedding Ring etc and a guy lives at hers.) she hesistates then says "no" We get back home, and just dive in for the kiss. Yes I enj…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:30 PM
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You right about all of it. I think she would have already thought about it. That's what people do. We can tell the status of a person. We can tell if they a rich or popular within 5 mins of meeting them. She clearly doesn't care as she is the one doing all the teasing. And your right I'll get her on a date and escalate.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 04:41 PM
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I don't know why, but everything I do is plan for the long term. Even if it may never happen
/r/askTRP08/09/17 04:19 PM
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I just wasnt mentally prepared. Im just gonna, Im just gonna get some of the old payful banter then jus ask her out.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 10:16 AM
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Thanks. And the thing is your right. She will know of my status. If I can know her status, she surly knows everything about me. and yeah her parents are rich. I do agree, I am not a slacker, I work and want promotion at my firm. Its not like Im working part time, and living with parents for a free ride. and agreed, Next time I see her, Just get some teasing in. and ask her on a date and see whats what
/r/seduction04/09/17 10:45 AM
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I think this is what I mean. SOIs, to make it clear you not here as a friend.
/r/seduction22/07/17 03:10 PM
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I agree with this, in my teen years I used to text girls a lot. It blew my chances. Attraction is created when she has a good time with you and she misses you when you are not there.
/r/seduction22/07/17 02:03 PM
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Just a fun way to drop a hint
/r/seduction20/07/17 02:46 PM
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I do agree, but college has finished, so the next time I am 100% sure of seeing her is after the summer
/r/seduction20/07/17 10:59 AM
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I do agree, but college has finished, so the next time I am 100% sure of seeing her is after the summer
/r/seduction20/07/17 10:59 AM
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Your actually right. Around college in the days I know I will see her, I am mentally prepared so I can have fun around her. I have her number? Should I message her this week?
/r/seduction20/07/17 07:53 AM
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I think it was a shit test? maybe to see if i am still into the other girl? maybe to see if I am 'bitchy' about the other girl?
/r/askTRP15/07/17 06:36 PM
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wow this is great advice. I feel the chance has gone but in future this is fantastic advice and I cant wait to use it. Its been a day, so not sure. I guess as you say, ignore it, dont bring it up and just pretend it never happened. However I will give it a while. In the morning she tagged the whole group in some facebook post, she im sure she is pretty cool with me. In regard to signs, just a quick run through. Am I correct thinking she likes me. - her feet and body are pointed towards me (she n…
/r/seduction13/07/17 02:06 PM
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I guess its a learning experience, so next time I will be ready. I guess my friends did help me by saying the things they said
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:01 PM
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AA?? Okay great, so how do you think I handle it? all I said was yeah, then led girl one and the guy into the class. shit test is a good sign tho?
/r/askTRP13/07/17 12:54 PM
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okay, she has responded to all the others. but ill just move on for now
/r/askTRP13/07/17 12:15 PM
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Issue is she is shy, and she has so many boys after her. I feel like I had a chance because as I kept her in her toes and she always replied to me. She replied faster than me
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:35 PM
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thanks, you are right she would not encourage me to ask girl 1 out. Thanks, she does throw a few IOIs, for instance when she talks to me her feet and body point towards me. While when she speaks to my guy friend it doesnt. She seems to notice strange things, like how I was driving In front of her, or once when I walked out abruptly when me and a couple other friends were working together. She said 'i thought you were gonna come back'. she once got jealous becuase I used to drive this blonde girl…
/r/askTRP03/05/17 06:48 PM
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She just like that, there was this guy friend. She would touch him randomly. He made a move on her, she rejected him.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:27 PM
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ahhh this does make a lot of sense. me and girl 1 both had conjunctivitis the same week Girl 2 said to girl 1 the other day after girl 1 said she had the illness 'chamanderbro had that too' girl 1 says 'I didnt catch it off him' I guess this is what you are trying to say. They are not that close. I asked girl 2 if she knew girl 1 one was dating. girl two just said ' i dont think so' So if girl 2 knew that girl one wasn't interested in me, she would actually say that to me, rather than being ambi…
/r/askTRP03/05/17 06:15 PM
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she is my friend, but she is very rotten. She craves constant attention.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:00 PM
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could be, or I think its becuase im the only male friend she has who doesnt want to sleep with her? or cos she justs likes my attention. so anytime girl 2 mentions girl 1, I just ignore
/r/seduction03/05/17 05:31 PM
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very true. In truth girl 2 doesn't have many male friends, The ones she does have want to fuck her. I think im her only guy friend who doesnt, and she knows that. Im just going to trust my gut. Girl 1 knows a like her. so when I see her I will keep the flirting and teasing going. If she pulls away them, I have my answer
/r/askTRP03/05/17 03:22 PM
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maybe your are right. This maybe speculating, but I think she is afraid of losing her female friend too? And I agree attention and time, does mean a lot to girls. Ive made the mistake in the past when orbiting girls.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 02:50 PM
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thats a good story, in my example the girl is somewhat interested? A friend who witnessed said it means she isnt interested. With regards to the sentence that the girl would come out and hang at your house. This girl is similar, In a group situation if other are talking to her she will try and provoke me into a reply by saying something about me
/r/askTRP05/03/17 05:27 PM
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So in my example the girl is somewhat interested?
/r/askTRP05/03/17 05:24 PM
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We have all been there.... when you start having emotional conversation for hours on end you end up in the friendzone. Just move on, next time keep it more short and keep it flirty - so teasing her and escalating
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 09:31 AM
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Just generally tease her about something. if she does it back she likes you. And for pull, just take interest in her, for example she talks about shopping, just disagree and say how boring that is with a smile and a nudge
/r/seduction05/03/17 09:21 AM
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yeah so build a bit of rapport, then up the flirting
/r/seduction19/02/17 02:43 PM
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My question is, I dont want to sleep with her, but I fear she will go around telling people in our small town she does.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:52 PM
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If I dont reply she will double text and even triple text. I do agree I am trying to hard
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:39 PM
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I feel sometimes if you SMV is to high a girl wont be attracted to you. Like they know you will just use them and dump them when a better looking girl comes along (which is true)
/r/askTRP03/02/17 12:28 PM
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