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depressedjoecz/r/seduction03/08/18 07:38 PM
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Yeah but this comunnity as an overall became quite toxic imo. Which was inevitable I guess.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/20 04:21 AM
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It is only book I have ever read and it is fantastic. Gave me huge motivation and after reading it, I even took some action... eventually those changes didn't last and I basically forgot why it gave me such a huge rush of euphoria and motivation, but I think I should read it once again and you should definitely too
/r/ExRedPill30/06/20 01:25 AM
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This is one of those few posts which aren't toxic, this sub is in a deep need of more posts like this. Thumbs up to you. If you are tired of those PUAs and still want to watch some inspirative content, I can recommend "How to Beast" you probably came across some of his videos already. He was lost and then turned his life around, he gives always some tips on self improvement or mindset and his videos are somewhat of a vlog style, but not regular vlogs. Short vlogs with some tips which aren't bori…
/r/ExRedPill12/03/20 12:34 PM
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This is one of those few posts which aren't toxic, this sub is in a deep need of more posts like this. Thumbs up to you. If you are tired of those PUAs and still want to watch some inspirative content, I can recommend "How to Beast" you probably came across some of his videos already. He was lost and then turned his life around, he gives always some tips on self improvement or mindset and his videos are somewhat of a vlog style, but not regular vlogs. Short vlogs with some tips which aren't bori…
/r/ExRedPill12/03/20 12:33 PM
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I see it again and again, people just think in black and white, epsecially here on reddit. You can start as "pure" nice guy and develop into something different, but it is unlikely you really are/was pure NG. Just as there aren't lots of pure introverts and extroverts, there are small number of pure nice guys. The danger is identifying yourself as one, because of few occasions in your life where you acted like one, or have been acting like one in the past. Peoples personalities aren't binary, we…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/20 11:37 AM
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So it's basically confirmation bias
/r/ExRedPill02/03/20 12:58 PM
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Yeah but if I don't have social circle with girls in it, could approach is fastest way to find at least some casual hookups isn't it? I get it, it will take ton of approaches before seeing any results, but that's just normal I guess. But I get you, it is definitely more important to improving myself, personality is what gets girls, but I think I should definitely approach as much as possible while improving myself also as much as possible, isn't it true?
/r/ExRedPill22/02/20 04:43 PM
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I feel you. I have witnessed it too, but you know what? My sister gave me hope. She had 2 partners in her life, no hookups, no FWBs, no ONS. Just 2 guys and she is still with that 2nd guy to this day. She is just 19 so anything can happen, but so far she has been very faithful.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/20 04:39 PM
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Well, I dont necessarily like crowds, but if I like that particular music, I kind of enjoy it even though it makes me little anxious. I have a feeling that approaching a girl in a club is less awkward and easier than walking up to some girl on the streets, isn't it? By gaming do you mean PC games or gaming girls in daytime? 😁 Because if you mean PC games, I loved them but now I don't enjoy them at all, it is waste of time. I would rather reward myself with some good movie instead. Also, when I m…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/20 07:54 AM
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Dude 😅😅😅 You are too deep in it, blocked.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/20 01:24 AM
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I am actually glad you did that. I gotta say my posting frequency has reduced greatly. When I created this account, I was seriously fucked up. To the point where I cried every day, hence the name. It was those times when I was vulnerable af and fell into TRP thinking, reddit was huge distraction for me back then and it still is distraction, but it is now much better. When I went to 1st therapist, he basically told me that I could use some depression pills, I refused. And I am glad I did. Believe…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/20 06:28 PM
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I will definitely check out Shawn. Robert Glover sounds familiar to me, he wrote some self help books, didn't he?!
/r/ExRedPill21/02/20 11:54 AM
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If he makes you laugh constantly throughout the day he is funny guy after all, isn't he?! 😁 It makes me feel good that you are "average" and it works. Most people are average and still are in relationships which is great point but the question is, are they happy? Aren't most relationships broken? But yeah, I am getting into conclusion that I don't have to be top 20% man, although I would love to and would have it easier. But if I think about it, isn't it actually good thing that I believe that I…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/20 11:52 AM
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This is gold but honestly I don't know what to say. I have to think about this deeply, organise my thoughts on this. Could I send you DM later? Because you made some great points but I am kind of confused at the same time. I gotta think.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/20 11:44 AM
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Yeah to be honest I think that most people who fall into red pill have similar story to mine (maybe you can relate too) We weren't socially successful from young age and instead of going out and taking action, we choose the easie, familiar way.... going to the internet for all those answers, tactics etc. And eventually we made it for ourselves 100 times harder because of that
/r/ExRedPill21/02/20 11:38 AM
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This is pretty interesting perspective! Damaged people generally attract as well damaged people so it is no wonder that you hear things like "all women are the same" or as true redpillers would say "AWALT"
/r/ExRedPill21/02/20 11:35 AM
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This is great, I didn't expect so much responses, you got me thinking. You see, I don't even know what I believe anymore. Maybe I am halfway in throwing up the red pill, because I felt that something is "off" even while writing that post. It was more like spitting out my worst fears, not exactly sharing my 100% convictions which is great and I didn't realise it at all. I think that those things I wrote need to be looked at as a spectrum. Not black and white. Noone is 0% confident or 100% confide…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/20 11:32 AM
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Sounds reasonable. I should also add that I never really told them about red pill philpsophy, I just told them that I feel particular way and I believe in certain things. I guess I should tell them about red pill and seduction related subreddits which is what fueled and probably started all those beliefs in the first place, right?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/20 08:09 AM
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I would definitelly feel more at ease with woman for some reason, I really dont know why, but I thought that male therapist could relate to me much more, you know? So do you think woman could help me just as much as man would?
/r/ExRedPill18/02/20 08:12 AM
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I should have not read this post. But I will give my opinion. I think some bits of RP/Seduction could be useful, such as trying to escalate sooner than later. But I cant hust imagine how that happened. You asked her first if she is okay with sex? Or she told you so when you were naked? I just cant imagine she would resist if you guys were naked and you just went for it. Also if she was drunk and horny at that time and that dude escalated quickly, I imagine he had it much easier than you if you g…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/20 09:25 AM
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I see, thanks for this
/r/ExRedPill08/12/19 10:36 AM
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But still wouldn't be chances of her cheating significantly lower if she was dating the high value one? Also I have issue what is even red pill and what is not. I feel like lot of red pill beliefs are also widespread in communities like r/seduction and simillar others.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/19 10:30 AM
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Ok I should kill myself then
/r/seduction21/07/19 11:30 AM
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Wow, great one. I would love to know more, just sent you a DM.
/r/seduction21/07/19 11:30 AM
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Well, its maybe because of my environment, but I always thought that anything past 18 is considered weird and "late" isnt it that case? Do you think there are any benefits to being late bloomer?
/r/seduction21/07/19 11:14 AM
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I am hitting the gym regularly. My clothes are also nice. My diet could be definitelly better, I am not eating enough to gain weight. I weigh 135lbs at 6ft. But good physique won't magically draw chicks to me, even if I would be 200lbs ripped. Taking action and actually approaching girls would, but I am asking which route works and which don't?
/r/seduction02/03/19 03:48 PM
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I am actually curious what some online rando thinks about it. As weird as it may sound :D
/r/seduction22/02/19 01:00 AM
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I was somewhat depressed for about 2 years, then it got better but things like this can somehow trigger my old depressive thoughts. Yes I know what is happening here. This is one of my first experiences being with a girl, I am inexperienced and didnt even kiss anyone since then so it is quite logical I got somehow attached to her even thought nothing really happened besides kissing. I know that I need to sleep with as many women as possible in order to forget on her. Or do you think otherwise? A…
/r/seduction21/02/19 03:40 AM
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I am probably addicted to porn. I am trying to abstain but it is very hard to do so. Its been just few days since I saw my last piece of porn.
/r/seduction20/02/19 03:15 PM
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I am sure I dont. 3 years ago I couldnt even go 3 days without masturbating, usually multiple times a day but for the past 2 years or so, it suddenly dropped and I dont know why. Maybe because I am stressed out because of my situation with girls
/r/seduction20/02/19 01:55 PM
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Yep, I quit weed month ago and will never get back to it. I wanted to go down on her, but... her pussy honestly smelled like cat food.. is this normal? And How can I learn good technique when I am inexperienced? What is the best way for 23 year old guy who had sex once to gain experience as fast as possible? I have a feeling that If I would managed to have sex with some girl, it would be horrible experience for her and would never want to see me again... or am I wrong?
/r/seduction20/02/19 01:17 PM
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Well, I am more than month without weed and dont feel any difference. I never had problems with erections when I was alone, but for the past year or so I feel that my erections are like 9/10 in firmness. I also go to the gym, but only 3 times a week. I otherwise live very sedentary lifestyle. I really dont want to get on ED medication unless it will be absolutely necessary. I want to try hooker, I tried it when I was 19 (this is how I lost my V-card) I would tell her that I am inexperienced to m…
/r/seduction20/02/19 12:59 PM
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This is great one. I agree.
/r/seduction04/08/18 09:11 AM
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1 - sure, they are damaged before even looking up what PUA means. I mostly agree with you. It is mostly about what posts you are reading I guess. If you can find those solid posts from TofuTofu they can be very helpful. But lets be honest, there are lots of posts by other people which do nothing but hinder you inner game if you are anxious or depressed in the first place. They could be useful for someone with solid inner game. But for those guys... its doing quite the opposite. Its just reminder…
/r/seduction04/08/18 09:07 AM
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What if I told her "Well, we will see" then grabbed her ass and passionatelly kiss her? Would this be bad approach? Or what If I told her "Well, its your lost" and then grabbed her ass and kissed her? :D
/r/seduction03/08/18 09:01 PM
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Yep, I have also read that high fat diet helps (if we are talking about healthy fats ofc) with testosterone levels. I have also started lifting so it should help too. But I am 6ft 120lbs ectomorph, it will take some time to build muscle and I am fine with that. I care about test levels mainly.
/r/seduction28/04/18 09:09 PM
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Its funny, because when I went to that prostitute, I basically walked there with a boner. Just when I saw her it was instant and that was after night of heavy drinking. But that other girl is about 6.5/10, maybe 7/10 in terms of physical beauty. She is pretty, not stunningly pretty, but still pretty and I wanted her for a long time. I daydreamed about it lots of times I gotta admit. Thats why I was nervous all day and didnt even eat much. Maybe it contributed to limp dick too combined with few d…
/r/seduction28/04/18 12:16 AM
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Cool reply man. Thanks for it. So you think this isnt some kind of disaster? I see everyone around me having sex and dating since 15 so I thought I am major weirdo because of it. But to make things clear, I am not virgin anymore. I lost it to hooker at age of 19(I honestly dont care, but girls could find it disgusting and sad) but yeah, you could say I am "almost virgin" lol :d
/r/seduction27/04/18 10:13 PM
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It was psychological issue. Otherwise I have no problems getting it up. I am in early 20s
/r/seduction17/03/18 01:41 PM
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Yeah but basically you are saying that chances are pretty small, maybe even non existent if we are talking about trying to pick up beautiful attractive girl.
/r/seduction05/03/18 10:59 AM
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So I am basically dooomed
/r/seduction05/03/18 10:53 AM
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That would be awesome. Now, I understand that it is individual but how long can it take before I will be good at it with regular gf? Assuming I am open minded and at times quite passionate person.
/r/seduction01/01/18 09:35 PM
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Well, I do not know if this this my case. I cannot talk from experience but I liked when I talked to her dirty and she moaned with "yees" it was very hot but it wasnt enough.
/r/seduction16/11/17 02:37 PM
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Yes I think this is best approach. When I went to that club, my mindset was that If I will not escalate with this one, I will talk to another as fast as possible before negative thoughts gets to me.
/r/seduction16/11/17 02:35 PM
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Well, this happened like half year ago. She wasnt even my girlfriend but I have idealised her in my head and put her on pedestal. No wonder she rejected me
/r/seduction23/02/17 09:14 AM
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Apples and Oranges
/r/seduction11/11/16 12:59 PM
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