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Its satire
/r/seduction23/10/23 01:46 AM
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Your venting is refreshing lol, I can relate. The main difference between us is I've been focusing on improving my life constantly along the journey.
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:42 PM
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money is like 1 factor of self improvement and once you have enough it has diminishing returns. you really dont understand women. putting all your eggs in 1 self improvement basket is a common mistake. there are also buff dudes that struggle to get laid too.
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:23 PM
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Yea I actually think this occums razor answer is on par.
/r/seduction23/09/21 09:19 PM
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So your saying game itself is the what women desire most and the rest is icing?
/r/seduction23/09/21 09:17 PM
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maybe a dude isn't working at the time, but he could get a 6 figure salary if he interviewed for a few companies.... or maybe he juggles several jobs but doesnt have a lot of money cause hes taking time off
/r/seduction23/09/21 11:30 AM
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shit everyone is focusing on the one example I gave even though I put "Ill give one realistic example, but I think this applies to all aspects of life."
/r/seduction23/09/21 11:29 AM
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how do you explain the fat dudes with girls though
/r/seduction23/09/21 10:47 AM
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this is like saying bees "attract" the flowers, its bullshit advice OP should wear a dress and lipstick. WOMEN attract. MEN hunt, gather, and seek out mates
/r/seduction22/09/21 09:49 AM
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The only problem with this is as a guy you gotta be the one initiating and making moves. How do you manage not wanting a gf but also putting in the effort to get one?
/r/seduction28/08/21 09:21 AM
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True
/r/seduction26/08/21 09:53 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction26/08/21 04:01 PM
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Yea they gloss over it usually, maybe i need a male therapist that's had a few partners
/r/seduction26/08/21 04:01 PM
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I've never had a therapist that was good at talking about sex
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:36 PM
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Thats too risky i risk never getting laid doing that, vast majority say they don't want hook ups
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:34 PM
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Don't lead them on emotionally? I gotta use game to get laid bro
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:25 PM
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I tried they weren't helpful
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:23 PM
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That could be a factor. I did have a traumatic event at a young age to fear sex though. I usually don't feel bad when I see attractive woman just a lot of sexual tension and desire
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:11 PM
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Specific event also I've never struggling making a girl orgasm.
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:10 PM
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I get fear of approach but so does everyone, there are a lot of factors to that fear, this is probably a part of it I think I've gotten through the most of fear of rejection.
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:46 PM
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I was traumatized as a kid to be afraid of sex.
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:44 PM
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I have confidence, but also this fear. I've also felt it was cruel to hookup like that so i haven't, but I'm in danger of spending the rest of my life alone if i don't solve this, I'm an over 2 year dry spell now
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:16 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction25/08/21 06:48 AM
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Take your gender equality bullshit elsewhere. The whole premise of this subreddit is women and men are different. Women don't need to practice seduction, it's optional
/r/seduction25/08/21 04:19 AM
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Have you ever felt embarrassed being seen with someone?
/r/seduction25/08/21 04:17 AM
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You don't know what it's like to have a dick Scary looking? Lol
/r/seduction25/08/21 04:05 AM
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Good point
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:58 AM
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Go back to twoXchromosomes
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:58 AM
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Look how judgy you are on how i treat people, fuck off simp
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:57 AM
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It's less meaningful as a girl cause you only need 1 stat to get options: be fit You could have no money or personality and be bored with all your options On the flip side a dude could be fit and go completely under the radar of women without other skills/value
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:32 AM
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Wealthy, charismatic and fit. I've only ever had 2 out of 3
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:38 AM
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Sadly she wants exclusive only
/r/seduction18/08/21 10:31 PM
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I have this strange thing where the more I'm attracted the more nervous i get about escalation. It's a sad irony, the more i want it the harder it is
/r/seduction18/08/21 09:48 PM
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What's the best way to find social clubs?
/r/seduction16/08/21 08:32 PM
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Doesn't matter how much muscle you have if you don't got the balls to cold approach
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:56 PM
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Dang this is Q/A was good to hear
/r/seduction06/08/21 02:57 AM
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Makes sense. I think im in a gray area here, it messes with my self esteem so i think it does affect me. I might have more confidence with better income
/r/seduction30/07/21 10:26 PM
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She's fat though, it's what I get for relying on online dating, makes a good friend though
/r/seduction30/07/21 10:25 PM
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We have like opposite problems, I'm a reasonable conversationalist as I've met 250+ people over the last couple of years but struggle with approach anxiety. Sounds like you should work on your conversation skills independently of women.
/r/seduction28/07/21 04:52 AM
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I like your attitude, i think there is a lot of wisdom here. I actually am trying to quit smoking and I have sciatica / back pain. These two are really bad for relationships so I should probably at least improve on these two, but after i think you are right not to neglect talking to girls still, i am lacking on my confidence here, maybe you are right about the ego thing. Perhaps I'll get back into approach by the time my nicotine anxiety is gone and try to stay social in the meantime.
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:19 PM
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I've had the exact same thing happen. A girl accused me of being upset on a dating app when I wasn't. I think girls love getting reactions out of guys especially if it's upsetting and just do it for some extra validation. Sometimes they expect you to be upset even if you aren't. There is a lot of toxicity in online shit with women. It's why cold approach is better, you cutt through the bullshit.
/r/seduction19/07/21 05:37 PM
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I agree the fear never goes, it takes some level of courage
/r/seduction16/07/21 05:34 PM
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Be ready to break a dozen eggs before you get to eat one So true, dating world can be rather savage on a guy learning the ropes... it feels like walking a tight rope sometimes to get laid
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:58 PM
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Thanks, you live in a foreign country? I once lived in a Spanish community for a year to learn the language.
/r/seduction11/07/21 12:06 AM
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Called a girl cute and ran a little game, surge of emotions went through me. She was going threw a divorce though and had to turn me down.
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:29 PM
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A lot of these can be solved by approaching many girls so you don't get attached to one
/r/seduction09/07/21 04:44 PM
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I agree, i feel better when I at least step up to the plate even if I don't always bat. I don't really even need to beat myself up, just need to keep showing up and it'll happen.
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:06 PM
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Yea, perhaps so, we gotta man up
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:20 PM
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Yeah, working out really has a secondary impact on emotions and doesn't seem to be my core problem, your mentality is good, just gotta not overthink it
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:17 AM
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Yea overthinking may be part of the problem, i gotta get back to basics, thanks for the response
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:57 AM
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Stuck on starting with cold approach, i dress fairly well but I can always look into better. I think my posture is fine from all the stretching and workouts over the years. Plain Jane approach fear is where I'm stuck and it's frustrating.
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:17 AM
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Shave your head and dress well, let the games begin
/r/seduction03/07/21 04:11 PM
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I also found focusing on self esteem may help with approach anxiety if I wanna come at it from another angle. It takes weeks to do though.
/r/seduction26/06/21 07:08 PM
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