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| 0 | If men knew how sexless most relationships are, they wouldn't be so depressed about single life.Don’t argue with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 08:30 PM |
| -1 | If men knew how sexless most relationships are, they wouldn't be so depressed about single life.Life is sad, the post just reflects that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 04:31 PM |
| -1 | If men knew how sexless most relationships are, they wouldn't be so depressed about single life.This is a fact, not an opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 04:31 PM |
| -1 | If men knew how sexless most relationships are, they wouldn't be so depressed about single life.There’s nothing to debate here. Anyone with half a brain knows that if your wife was your best option at the time - you weren’t even her 10th best option. All the “Chads” she’s had before settling for you have imprinted her big time. Imagine fucking only 10 out of 10 Victoria's Secret models for a few years and then realizing that none of them will ever stay with you long-term and your only possible choice is 4 out of 10 Jane from the office. You wouldn’t be that enthusiastic about sex with her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 09:02 AM |
| – | Can women be “squares”Evidently so, as your flair would rightly suggest. I’m ok going to the office, grocery store and back home to watch /read something interesting. I’d rather watch other people go to all these places then go there by myself. It only seems good on paper, but then you have to drive/ take public transport, be in crowded places with people you don’t know or battle against hot/cold weather and harsh conditions in nature -why go through all that when you watch 1 YouTube video where someone does that all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:13 PM |
| -1 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.Yes. If you're below 5 in looks, then obviously it's not gonna work like that. But there are cases when a 6/10 or 7/10 believes that he's 'average', while he has the potential to not be that and turn into that thug/hobo/lowlife or athlete/musician 'alpha', provided he recognizes his true value to women. Nobody forces you to be an overweight bland schlub lying on the couch all day drinking beer. You can get ripped, get tattoos, change your attitude and social circle and you're gonna find yourself… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.Yeah, but I don’t think women do these things just for fun, most of the time it’s to get something out of that “alpha” - his attention or commitment. Since beta’s attention and commitment come easy, she doesn’t even need to try. I’m not a conventional Chad by any measure, but once I found myself in a situation where 2 women who knew each other had to compete for my attention. It was wild. They were both hot. I intentionally paid most attention to only one of them. In the end, the woman that was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:22 AM |
| 0 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.That’s not a “shot at good life”, fuck that shit. And if someone’s average today doesn’t mean he’s gon be average forever. There are so many ways to grow and most men reach their sexual peak around 35 anyway, when they have a great abundance of choices, provided they took good care of themselves in every area of live that matters. There will be multiple enthusiastic hot young women ready to jump his bones and have not just a year but years of wild crazy sex, and that had who had her fun and now … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.Well done brother! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 05:44 PM |
| – | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.Blue pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Does female sexual strategy discourage familiarity, comfort, and security?3 in total. I’m now married and in a dead bedroom. In the relationships before that I was cheated on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Does female sexual strategy discourage familiarity, comfort, and security?2 times a week or so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Does female sexual strategy discourage familiarity, comfort, and security?Tell this to my wife who is willing to have sex like once during the whole vacation which lasts up to a week or more and there’s literally nothing work or hobby related there, just relax and enjoy - still nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 10:28 PM |
| 9 | Does female sexual strategy discourage familiarity, comfort, and security?I’m a living example (as well as many other guys, I’m certain) of a person who was cheated on twice exactly because I gave more than i took. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:38 PM |
| – | Why does female sexual strategy discourage comfort, familiarity, and security?Manlet 5’7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 01:03 PM |
| – | Why does female sexual strategy discourage comfort, familiarity, and security?Yeah, but what if you are handsome but not abusive and make decent money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 12:50 PM |
| 1 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.Only for the unattractive. If you are PHYSICALLY attractive, she won’t give a fuck if you live out of your car and last took a shower 6 months ago. I’ve seen this with my own eyes more times than I wish I had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 03:46 PM |
| 4 | How will sex robots affect dating?Women would rather share an alpha than settle for a faithful beta (alpha as in FIRST - physically attractive, SECOND - financially and socially successful). If you’re physically unattractive you can never be alpha in any woman’s eyes regardless of your other characteristics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 08:17 PM |
| 5 | How will sex robots affect dating?It will be a dream come true for women because finally, they'll be able only to share the sexual alphas and all the unattractive orbiters won't ever ask them for sex. We'll have the top 1% of men with harems of hundreds of women, the top 20% with multiple women, and the rest living with sex robots. Sadly, even after generations, all men won't become attractive alphas just by virtue of being an alpha's offspring. So the balance will remain or become even worse, like only the top 0.5% of men being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 06:40 PM |
| -1 | How does one make sure that a gf/wife sees him as a lover first, bf/husband second?No, it’s actually the opposite. I acted too weak and supplicated too much by being a typical beta simp blue pill boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 07:37 PM |
| -1 | How does one make sure that a gf/wife sees him as a lover first, bf/husband second?Because she’ll eventually devalue you and start looking for a sexual alpha, it’s obvious. My previous 2 relationships ended like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 04:36 PM |
| -2 | Delusional red pill talking heads.There are lots of ugly blackpillers around, so you can have a whole harem if you want. | /r/askMRP | 22/02/23 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Wife wants a long-distance marriageYes, I wanted to kill myself a few years ago after my second gf cheated on me, but it turned out I didn’t have in me to even slit my wrists. | /r/askMRP | 20/02/23 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Wife wants a long-distance marriageNo, but despite reading the materials from the sidebar and understanding them logically, I still cannot implement these things effectively. It's more like I'm faking who I am but as soon there's an unusual shit test/comfort test I just lose frame. I guess years of female upbringing and being the beta in all my relationships cannot be overridden in a few months. | /r/askMRP | 19/02/23 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Wife wants a long-distance marriageDivorcing her right now is not my best option legally. I would be in a better position if I divorce her later or if she files and I do not give my consent. She has 0 respect or desire for me anyway, so she can go wherever she wants, it doesn't mean that I'm going to patiently wait for her with a dry dick. | /r/askMRP | 18/02/23 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Wife wants a long-distance marriageShe doesn't want to divorce me apparently, but she said she would be ok with me filing for divorce. She cannot take much even in case of divorce because I had planned my exit strategy even before marrying, but this shitty attitude and caring so little about your husband is just fucking annoying. | /r/askMRP | 18/02/23 10:36 PM |
| 7 | Wife wants a long-distance marriageOf course, you’re spot on. | /r/askMRP | 18/02/23 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.Exactly for that reason. I give her too much certain and am too much of a “nice guy”. It takes tremendous effort to get the nice guy out of your system after decades of programming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.It’s more that she feels she needs to do that to keep me rather than wants it | /r/askMRP | 15/01/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | “Low libido” litmus test.I could not disagree more. A chocolate is something that you can remove from your diet and don’t lose a wink of sleep over it. If you remove sex from a relationship it dies and becomes a fucked up business arrangement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.I’m not outright ugly, more of an average-slightly below average (think Elijah Wood). But the question is if do the work is therefore a chance that those women who saw me as betabuxx would eventually change their perspective? | /r/askMRP | 14/01/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.Thanks, solid advice. Would you also say that being a “natural” introvert is BS beta programming? I’ve always been on the shy side, not to talkative or sociable. It takes effort for me to speak with any random person anywhere. | /r/askMRP | 14/01/23 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.Makes sense. STFU is hard. All the years of beta programming make it very difficult, so now I have to consciously stop myself from saying stuff at the point when a thought of saying it appears in my mind. | /r/askMRP | 14/01/23 09:14 AM |
| 1 | “Low libido” litmus test.You’re not “obsessed” with water if you can drink it whenever you want and in whatever amount, but let’s put you on a drip-feeding system when you can only get water if you meet certain requirements and let’s see how “obsessed” you’ll become over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 09:11 AM |
| 1 | “Low libido” litmus test.How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.I know. Trying to peruse the sidebar to learn what I can do outside of my physical appearance (I’ve changed my wardrobe and I do lift every day, that the maximum I can do about the physical part. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/23 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.She fucked me only at the very beginning for about 1 month, then the quality of sex plummeted. After the fist sex tho, she said it wasn’t that good anyway. Yes, I’m willing to walk away, but I doubt I’ll be swimming in pussy, because I’m objectively not that attractive. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/23 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.What program do you follow? I do full body and include compounds in every workout. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.It’s the same thing every time, 100% failure rate. She’s never said yes to my advances. Excuses, however, do change, ranging form “I’m not in the mood” to “there’s a mosquito in the room”. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.5’7” 150 pounds, look like Elijah Wood or Daniel Radcliffe. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/23 04:02 PM |
| -9 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.Wow, that’s some next level teenage outrage. You’re probably doing NMMNG as we speak. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | “Low libido” litmus test.If you’re a Chad sure. There are plenty of unattractive, short guys that are ripped and barely get any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 03:32 PM |
| 0 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.Yeah, I know and it's hard to rip all this conditioning out of yourself. Whenever she provokes a scandal or blames me for something my natural reaction is not to escalate it further because she's a woman. Whereas, in reality, if a flat-broke Chad were to tell her to STFU it would make her even more attracted to him. In fact, if any man tells a woman to kick rocks in a situation like it would probably only increase her attraction. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/23 02:47 PM |
| -7 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.Golden advice. Better than OYS and go fuck yourself. Actually something constructive that can be practically applied . | /r/askMRP | 13/01/23 02:10 PM |
| -12 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.Where does all this anger come from? I probably work more than you, I work 10-12 hours every single day and go to the gym every single day. These beta traits however haven’t gotten me very far, so I’m here for advice from people who are more experienced than me in this area. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/23 02:02 PM |
| -4 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.I understand the OYS principle, but I've already tried so many things and none of them seems to have worked. Dread was effective once, but it cannot be sustained, I can't keep shoving other women in her face. | /r/askMRP | 13/01/23 08:53 AM |
| 2 | “Low libido” litmus test.Why do I always meet these low libido, frigid women?! - Brad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 08:05 AM |
| 2 | “Low libido” litmus test.Well, let your husband do all the chores and be a supplicant workaholic- let’s see how your desire for him increases. I bet it’ll go below zero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.How was I supposed to know? In fact, my first gf was a virgin when we met and she was very kind, supportive and displayed no signs of insecurity or other problems of this sort. Yet she cheated because, in her words, “there was too much of you”, in other words, I showed neediness and weakness by being “a nice guy “ to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.This is the only way she’s gonna keep respecting and wanting him. If she stops talking to all other women, starts praising her every day she’s gonna think he’s lower level than her and she need to move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Men in their 20s and 30s: How often do you have sex with your wife? What’s the quality of that sex?Great, I’m not too familiar with the terminology, does STFU stand for just shut the fuck up, meaning stop complaining and just do it? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/23 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Men in their 20s and 30s: How often do you have sex with your wife? What’s the quality of that sex?What can I do then? I go to the gym every single day now, work and study, learn new things and participate in events outside of the house such as language exchange. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/23 10:37 PM |
| 6 | Men in their 20s and 30s: How often do you have sex with your wife? What’s the quality of that sex?For example, I start kissing her on the neck, embracing her from behind, slightly touching her lower back, she reacts positively to it, but then says some excuse, such as “I just don’t want it tonight/ it’s too cold/hot, there’s a mosquito in the room, there’s noise outside, I’m tired/ too full, etc”. Once I wanted to watch a vaguely sexual movie and before I could put it on, she preemptively said “Sexual movies?! I’m just not in the mood tonight, if you only knew how hard it is for me to get in… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/23 10:35 PM |
| 20 | Men in their 20s and 30s: How often do you have sex with your wife? What’s the quality of that sex?Yes, she initiates this duty sex once a week. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/01/23 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.What made me unhappy is the lack of sexual charisma and attractiveness. I cannot believe I have to live in this type of a situation. Other women comment and say that they’ve never rejected their partner, while all I get is rejection. I will abstain from giving any “advice” anywhere from now on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 09:37 PM |
| 0 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.She said that she has to spend hours or days to “get into the mood/vibe” to have sex with me. It shouldn’t be difficult at all if you’re attracted to the person you’re with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.Yes, the saddest part that with her ex it was the other way round. Based on what I know, she only rejected him once, all the other times she asked him for sex and was trying to make it more exciting. With me, she said “you have no idea what it takes to get into this sexual mood/vibe”. Well, of course, if you have to tune yourself into that for hours, it means you’re not attracted to your partner whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.We have no kids and our jobs are not extremely stressful, but she still rejects me all the time, sometimes even before I ask her for sex. For example, I suggested to watch a mildly erotic movie and before watching she said “why are we watching this, I don’t want to have sex tonight, I don’t feel like it”. Madness. She never feels “like it” except for when “it’s time” to put out in her mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 09:15 PM |
| 0 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.It works because at least I’m now in a position which is a little bit better than the previous one. But yes, overall it’s not ideal and I wish I could find someone decent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.I look weak in her eyes if I keep showering her with compliments. She probably interprets it as me begging for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.Sure, I'm not talking about things one cannot change (like dick size you're referring to). I'm talking about things I can influence and can give more of, such as more sex, more compliments, more gifts, more trips, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 06:40 PM |
| 0 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.Actually, I find her very attractive and want her all the time. I'd tell her more compliments on the daily if it weren't detrimental to my sex life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.You call whatever, it doesn't change the reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.censoring what sounds unpleasant to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.What the fuck are you talking about? "Horny teenage", don't you want to have sex with your gf/wife every waking moment of your life? If not, check your T levels. "Cuck fantasy"- I hate that BS, but I keep seeing these posts about women cheating because of dick size, and my dick is nothing to brag about, plus I've already been cheated on twice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.I've talked with her countless times about it. A couple of days ago I brought it up again, saying that she's not even willing to consider my point of view and that I need sex more often, but she just got angry and escalated it into a scandal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 04:51 PM |
| -5 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.I know plenty of women. In fact, I've been cheated on twice in my previous relationships by 2 different girls, not only because I don't look the part, but also because I don't act the part. I showed weakness and insecurity by showering them with compliments and gifts, and in return, I got coldness and betrayal. Now I try to be much "colder" and "reserved" and, at least, I got a wife that gives me "duty sex" every now and then. We've been together for 3 years now and I've noticed that the moment … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 04:48 PM |
| 5 | Study shows that the "Happiest couples have sex once a week""aversion to sex" my ass. She has no aversion to sex, she just doesn't lust after ME. If you put her favourite movie star in my place her "aversion to sex" is going to go out the window. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Conversely, if my woman is being playful with other men - it's a major turn-off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Solid advice. That’s what I’ve started doing. Last night I felt so miserable and it was about time for her to give me duty sex, so she offered it, but I refused. Does she really think I’m that gullible to believe that she didn’t want me the whole week and rejected me, then, all of a sudden, on Saturday she wants sex. Nonsense. Two can play at that game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Even if it’s true and it’s her low libido, then increasing it won’t make her want ME more, just want SEX more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?I know and almost expect it. I’ve already been cheated on twice by my previous gfs. If sexual appeal is lacking there is NOTHING a man can do. You can become a shredded billionaire, but if the problem wasn’t caused by the lack of money or extra weight it won’t work. I look like a friend zone guy rather than a sexy guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?That’s 100% true. Even in the case of my wife, I have hard evidence that she herself showed me early in our relationship that she constantly asked her ex for sex when they were together and was rejected many times, she was willing to do the exercises and buy toys to experiment more with him, but with me, she only pretends she wants me once a week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Unattractive, no options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Yes, she doesn’t even allow herself to do anything I ask for. I could ask her to put a dress on if we’re going out and out of spite she’s put her jeans on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Why did she ignore you? Did you find out the reason? I was cheated on twice in the past as well. Also, I have like 5 matches in a year with gold subscription on dating apps, so this won’t work for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Agree wholeheartedly. Going to the gym every day again and working on my career and education. Hopefully I will become shredded in 1-2 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Yes to all of your questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?I said it a million times - I look like Elijah Wood - 5'7" teenage-looking man, on top of that my dick is underwhelmingly thin AND short (5.1" by 3.9"). One of my exes said that sex with me is akin to no sex at all, although I did many things to please her (with my fingers and mouth), but she just needed a bigger, thicker dick I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?dead bedroom doesn't mean no sex, it means very infrequent and often "duty" sex. I get it about once a week or every 2 weeks. I want it every day, multiple times per day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?I know that and expect that. It surprises me why she even married me if her sexual attraction to me is nil. Maybe just out of spite to show her exes that someone finally committed. Honestly, I hope to die before she leaves me or something, because I see no future for myself when it comes to sex and relationships, and since I have a very high sex drive, it would be torturous for me to jerk off until I die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?You're a lucky man. I don't even go to doctors anymore if something happens hoping that I'm gonna be gone sooner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Yes, I guess for me it's a choice between duty sex once in a while or no sex at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 05:57 PM |
| 12 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Thank heavens not. It would be challenging to have kids if you barely have sex anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?do you get sex often from your partner? how attractive are you objectively? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?I can almost guarantee it's the 1st option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?I'm trying to make her cum every time and spend up to an hour on foreplay and using my finger, but in most cases, it does nothing for her and she still has to finish it herself. My dick it seems literally gives her zero pleasure. She doesn't even moan, I doubt that she can even feel it well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Yeah, basically you have to become a shredded millionaire with over-the-moon confidence, while an unemployed Chad with a horse dick will fuck her on the side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 04:34 PM |
| 0 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?I’ve already addressed it in my countless other posts. I’ve been obsessed with it for year and now am doing penis enlargement as a last resort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?No, after she saw my dick for the first time I saw all the happiness disappear from her eyes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?My wife won’t even let me do this. No adventurous sex with a beta provider like me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 01:37 PM |
| 10 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Would be good advice if I were somewhat attractive, but I’m definitely not. I’ve never met a woman in my whole life who actually and genuinely wanted sex with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 01:33 PM |
| 1 | How to learn to exhibit this behaviour “senseless boyish joy, physicality, wit and daring ideas”?Regardless of my situation, I’ve noticed that other women find it attractive as well, so learning this might be the key to success for many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?She can do it herself too. This is the problem. What’s the difference between having sex with me and her masturbating by herself then? The only difference is that the hand on her clit is mine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Can you give examples of “senseless boyish joy, physicality, wit and daring ideas”? Really, I just want to learn. I grew up in a very cold and passionless culture and family environment with no such things. I’m very cold and reserved, even shy. I don’t know how to get this out of me. How do I completely change my personality and become that adventurous boyish guy? How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 01:03 PM |
| 4 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?I think that the only thing going for me is my reliability. My wife said before that in her early 20s she wouldn’t have even looked my way, because she went for “other types of guys”. Of course, we all know what type - Chads. But now that she’s learned the hard way that she could not lock down any of those Chads, and the clock is ticking, she thinks that a reliable hard-working beta would be in order, exactly the type of guy that won’t cheat as he has no options anyway, will bring home money and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 12:59 PM |
| 0 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?I'm trying, I've been studying A-spot, deep spot, G-spot stimulation and squirt, tried to apply it, but she just rejects it, lays there for 5 minutes, feels nothing and says that I have to move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?I'm not rich, but it seems that she's always had commitment issues with her previous partners. They all left her and didn't want anything more than a fleeting relationship. I'm the first one who agreed to commit long-term. She supported me in other areas of life, but in sex, it's always been one-sided. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?But I'm trying to learn. I've watched countless webinars and read lots of materials on how to properly stimulate all the right spots and on the importance of foreplay. Yet, when I tried to apply this, she was like "come on, just put it in already and be over with it" (implicitly), as if she didn't even expect me to do anything that would make her orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 11:23 AM |
| 12 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Yeah, sadly, that's true. On the other hand, very few women would want to have sex with me, period. Once I met a girl who found me quite attractive and slept with me on the first date, but the went ghost after sex. Actually, it's happened a couple of times. I try to work on my sex skills but not all things can be fixed. Like one girl mentioned in my previous post - she "saw stars" for the first time with a guy who had an above-average dick. I cannot compete with that. My fingers just won't do it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?I guess he's hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?We have sex about once a week and yes, I have to wait for her to initiate. That's not my kink, I'm 5'7" average-looking guy with a 5" thin dick, does it sound like a guy who has many options to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 10:26 AM |
| 3 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Yes, it's exhausting tho, to keep playing these games all the time to make her want you more. I bet that attractive guys don't have to do it at all, they can be shy or socially awkward - who cares?! He's hot! Whereas, us, average guys, have to this dog and pony show all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 10:21 AM |
| 37 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Prior to meeting her, I'd been single for 7 years straight with no pussy whatsoever. In my mid-20s! This fact alone speaks volumes about my ability to pull women. Dating apps are a bad example, but I didn't get any matches there at all when I used to use them. I even paid for the Gold subscription and still got only bots and chicks with attitudes that were unimaginably below what I even remotely consider attractive. Maybe if I keep working on myself, in 3-5 years I'm going to be in a better posi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?Yes, we've spoken about it many times. Every time I bring this up it leads to a scandal and her saying that I'd better go and find someone who wants sex more. But I can bet all my money on the fact that she's only "low libido" for me because I have hard evidence from her past when she borderline begged her ex for sex when they were together and she was the one getting rejected. Once I managed to call her bluff and she actually said that the reason she doesn't want sex is because there's nothing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 10:09 AM |
| -2 | Describe the physical characteristics of your ideal partner for sex and relationships.Yes, just to prove my point that guy like me, albeit not ugly or fat, still cannot even hope to be genuinely attractive for the vast majority of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Describe the physical characteristics of your ideal partner for sex and relationships.Good to know, very down-to-earth requiremetns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 03:51 PM |
| -1 | Describe the physical characteristics of your ideal partner for sex and relationships.Wow! That's something new. I'd still fail in the dick department (girth about 4.5" on a good day, usually less), but get a pass in the others. Perfect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Describe the physical characteristics of your ideal partner for sex and relationships.You should've seen my wife during ovulation. Provoking scandals left and right, implicitly saying: I just don't fucking want you, I need someone more attractive to have a child with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 03:46 PM |
| -5 | Describe the physical characteristics of your ideal partner for sex and relationships.I can bet they were still within a certain range (e.g., "no lower/smaller than..."). Would you be attracted to a 5'7'' average-looking guy with a 5'' thin dick? Of course not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Describe the physical characteristics of your ideal partner for sex and relationships.I know that, do you think you're blowing my mind with this? I'm just swimming in the ocean of despair at this point, feeding my confirmation bias and understanding that suicide is my only option looking forward, so at least there's a minuscule change I will be reborn as a chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Describe the physical characteristics of your ideal partner for sex and relationships.Congrats, bro. I could probably meet only 3 of these - 2, 3 and 5. The rest I can't change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Describe the physical characteristics of your ideal partner for sex and relationships.They might or might not differ. For example, some studies claim that women prefer a bigger dick for one night stands as opposed to LTRs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Describe the physical characteristics of your ideal partner for sex and relationships.Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 03:25 PM |
| 0 | Why are open relationships so taboo?I don't need a woman like this in my life. You can think whatever the fuck you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 03:13 PM |
| 2 | How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable?This information is gold and needs to be taught at schools. You have to just BE ATTRACTIVE, what's so hard to grasp about that? Sadly, I had to learn it the hard way as a 5.7" average-looking guy with a 5'' dick. After 2 failed relationships and being brutally cheated on twice, I realized that there were only 2 real options for me - 1) kill myself, 2) find a woman who would settle for me and get passionless duty sex from her once in a while. Since the first option was too radical, I went with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 11:00 AM |
| 0 | Why are open relationships so taboo?This is what I’m talking about guys. She was unhappy with her bfs dick size, because her ex with a horse cock used to give her “mindblowing” orgasms. She first wanted to ask him to use a sleeve, then cheated on him, now she wants him to be a cuck. Proves my point 1 million percent. It’s ALL about your size and satisfaction you can give in the bedroom. If you’re lacking, she’ll happily continue to use you, but find that sexual satisfaction elsewhere. Don’t be that guy, if it comes to shit like th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 09:07 AM |
| 0 | Tips to avoid a sexless relationship/marriageBut social media shows that they thirst over looks, money and social status. How can an AVERAGE guy can try to be that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 10:39 AM |
| -2 | Sexless marriage is a form of abuse.wOmEn OwE yOu NOtHiNg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 05:25 PM |
| -1 | Sexless marriage is a form of abuse.I’m not entitled to anyone’s body. I told her many times: “if you don’t want me physically, leave “. Yet she didn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Sexless marriage is a form of abuse.I checked my T some months ago - it’s 13nmol (within the normal range), so TRT is not recommended. I wish I could solve it like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Sexless marriage is a form of abuse.Lol, 100% true! But you still need to pay all the bills, “because it’s your responsibility as a man”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Sexless marriage is a form of abuse.Yes, I am. Because I have zero options. I look like a hobbit from LOTR, and my dick is nowhere near big enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Sexless marriage is a form of abuse.Thank God! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Sexless marriage is a form of abuse.You’re right, I don’t have any options. I just look small all around like a teenager despite being in my 30s now and going to the gym pretty regularly. My dick is also nothing to brag about. I tried online dating some years ago and it was a disaster, tried meeting women in real life - most just looked at me with disgust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 09:19 AM |
| -2 | Sexless marriage is a form of abuse.I don’t . Men that don’t want to have sex all the time seems extremely strange to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Sexless marriage is a form of abuse.What are you talking about? Is it hard to say “I don’t find you attractive whatsoever, let’s go out separate ways”? No one’s holding your there by force. But it’s another story of you want to have your cake and eat it too, I.e. get the security of a marriage but give nothing in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Sexless marriage is a form of abuse.Don’t stay with people you’re not attracted to, let alone marry them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Sexless honeymoon - a sad realityI’m not a rich guy and there’s not much she can get from a divorce. We’ve been together for more than 2 years now and decided to get married. But the sex was always lacking- she’s never been very attracted to me, however, neither were all the other women I’ve been with in my life. So I have nothing to compare it with. It’s just a sad reality of being an unattractive guy, what can I say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:23 PM |
| 0 | Sexless honeymoon - a sad realityI got no options, my man. I’m a 5.7” average looking guy with a thin 5” dick. Even if I manage to get a chick once in a while, she won’t stay long after the 1st sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Sexless honeymoon - a sad realityI wish it were a troll post. I wish one day I would wake up and be a 6” tall handsome guy with a 7x5 inch dick. But in reality only this 5.7” Elijah Wood looking hobbit is staring back at me when I look in the mirror. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:19 PM |
| 0 | Sexless honeymoon - a sad realityExactly. If you’re average or below average in looks - you’re done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t this exhausting?Yeah, before Tinder and Instagram it used to be much better. An average guy like me could get an average girl easily. Now it’s like 1000:1 odds not in your favour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:05 AM |
| 0 | Isn’t this exhausting?If you only knew. I’m not trying to prove anything to a random Reddit stalker, sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:03 AM |
| 0 | Isn’t this exhausting?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t this exhausting?I think I had more sex as a broke student tbh than I do right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Isn’t this exhausting?After that. I don’t have too many options, as I’m not that physically attractive and it might take me years to find someone so I take what I can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t this exhausting?I’m married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | I’m doing fine financially and professionally, I have an ok personality, but the reality of being physically unattractive still haunts me.It’s all due to the lack of girth. Sometimes after pumping with crazy edema I can feel muuuch more - because the surface are of my dick gets way bigger due to the water trapped in the tissues. But often I cannot pump before sex since it takes around 30 min or more to get that edema, which would make spontaneous sex impossible or kill the mood. Of course, I could feel everything with my fingers and they could feel it too, but with my dick I just can cover this perimeter to touch all the walls at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | I’m doing fine financially and professionally, I have an ok personality, but the reality of being physically unattractive still haunts me.The smallest I can find in a regular pharmacy, which is usually still big. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | I’m doing fine financially and professionally, I have an ok personality, but the reality of being physically unattractive still haunts me.Don’t you think I’m aware of this stats? This problem has been the cornerstone of my life for many years now, I feel like I know everything about it at this point. But it doesn’t change the reality of unsatisfying PIV sex and lack of physical attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 12:08 AM |
| 1 | I’m doing fine financially and professionally, I have an ok personality, but the reality of being physically unattractive still haunts me.Yeah, 5” in length is not that bad, girth is key. I saw some porn where there were supposedly 5” guys but due to their girth it looked big. My shit still looks like it got stuck in development at 13. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | I’m doing fine financially and professionally, I have an ok personality, but the reality of being physically unattractive still haunts me.I’m already pumping, because I’m trying everything to increase girth. I even wanted to do surgery but there are potential complications that can lead to sepsis. Wearing cockring as well. It’s not really delayed, it’s peak girth, that cannot stay like this no matter what you do. All this experience has taught me is that most men have no fucking idea what it’s like. Just an extra 1” of girth completely changes your sex experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | I’m doing fine financially and professionally, I have an ok personality, but the reality of being physically unattractive still haunts me.So what that I’ve been living with her for 2 years? People live together for decade without really physically wanting each other. The last thing I want to do is be humiliated for something I can’t really change, but at least here I can vent. In my previous relationship the gf cheated on me, in this one - it’s virtually sexless, she brings up the memories of her ex all the time and is suggesting threesomes with other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 11:46 PM |
| 0 | I’m doing fine financially and professionally, I have an ok personality, but the reality of being physically unattractive still haunts me.Sometimes it was good, but most often - just a waste of time since she didn’t feel much and I could barely feel anything too. The sensations of PIV sex usually started to appear right at the very end when I was about to cum, because then and only then my girth would be at 100%, which is impossible to sustain through the act itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | I’m doing fine financially and professionally, I have an ok personality, but the reality of being physically unattractive still haunts me.Why not? I’m just describing the size, since it matters A LOT, especially girth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 11:32 PM |
| -1 | I’m doing fine financially and professionally, I have an ok personality, but the reality of being physically unattractive still haunts me.How do I know? Women are probably attracted to my stability and whatnot. In sex it’s just about foreplay to get them wet (during which they might be fantasizing about their hung ex to get themselves wet - who knows), but 1 thing I know for sure - if I leave it be, I’d sooner turn into stone than get some physical affection/sex initiation from their side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Continuing my previous post about “open relationships” and “polyamory” - what an absolute joke!The best comment thus far. If you’re a high SMV guy ain’t no way she’s gonna share you with someone or risk you leaving. If you’re a beta bluepill guy - then yes, let me get all the resources from you, while I can get sexual pleasure elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Continuing my previous post about “open relationships” and “polyamory” - what an absolute joke!Yes, if there’s not even a hint of the things I’ve just mentioned. However, to me it seems strange, it’s like going to have a cup of tea in a brothel. There are tearooms for that, no need for a brothel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Continuing my previous post about “open relationships” and “polyamory” - what an absolute joke!Well, that’s another problem. If you think that sex with me sucks - say it, and we’ll part ways immediately. No need for an “open relationship” type crap. I’m completely fine by myself and don’t need a half-assed relationship. I can literally eat the same exact food everyday and be cool with it. Same goes for other aspects of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Continuing my previous post about “open relationships” and “polyamory” - what an absolute joke!I’m not trolling anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Continuing my previous post about “open relationships” and “polyamory” - what an absolute joke!Any form of physical contact outside of a friendly hug and formal ball dance is a no no in my book. Any form of flirting is unacceptable either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Continuing my previous post about “open relationships” and “polyamory” - what an absolute joke!The people on the internet giving advice are not included in the relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Continuing my previous post about “open relationships” and “polyamory” - what an absolute joke!I don’t what you’re talking about. I’m 30 and been in 2 monogamous relationships. The first one ended because of her cheating. But on my side, I’d happily keep having sex with the same woman for years and years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Continuing my previous post about “open relationships” and “polyamory” - what an absolute joke!This is just an example. I’ve been called “close-minded” before for not understanding why a girlfriend need to go to night clubs to dance with other guys. They said “oh, you’re so insecure, you should let random guys touch your gf however they want and be cool with that”. And it was only a hypothetical scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:34 AM |
| 1 | “Open relationship” and “polyamory” are a total nonsense and utter garbageI’m a man and hate opening it up to any third parties. It’s like opening a Pandora’s box. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:08 AM |
| 2 | “Open relationship” and “polyamory” are a total nonsense and utter garbageI hate the fact that the idea is being normalised and popularized to an extent where people start to believe that monogamy is something “old-fashioned”, “non-progressive” and “close-minded”. No it’s fucking not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:05 AM |
| 0 | “Open relationship” and “polyamory” are a total nonsense and utter garbageNot sure if someone can find “treasure” in a pile of rotten garbage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:02 AM |
| 1 | “Open relationship” and “polyamory” are a total nonsense and utter garbageMan I’m tired of tiptoeing around these issues and pretending I’m cool with that, when I cannot even stand the idea. Just wanted to say it straight without being censored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:01 AM |
| 1 | “Open relationship” and “polyamory” are a total nonsense and utter garbageI have no gurus pal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 08:56 AM |
| 2 | “Open relationship” and “polyamory” are a total nonsense and utter garbageLike I said, if your intention is to be free to fuck whomever you want, stay out of relationships. I don’t see why we need “relationships” like this at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 12:27 AM |
| 0 | “Open relationship” and “polyamory” are a total nonsense and utter garbageMy man. This sub is a breath of fresh air in this insane asylum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 12:24 AM |
| 0 | “Open relationship” and “polyamory” are a total nonsense and utter garbageThey’re a disgrace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 12:24 AM |
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