I just wanted to highlight that it doesn’t really bother me much what other consenting adults do in their lives, but it does bother me enormously that because of mainstream media and bluepill subreddits here, many indeed start to believe that “open relationships” and “polyamory” are things of the future, they’re supposedly “progressive” and “open-minded” compared with monogamous relationships. Therefore, when one says that they prefer a monogamous relationship with no third parties getting involved either mentally or physically, they get bashed for being “close-minded” and living under a rock. As a man who respects traditional relationships values and demands faithfulness both in body and spirit from his girlfriend or wife, you’re re being censored and chased away from these places. Hell no, I’m not gonna feel like I’m wrong or “abusive” for telling my girlfriend that if she wants a threesome she needs our relationship first, no other way around it.