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| 1 | I burnt my lip at new year's party. Now it looks like I have herpes. I have to say no to sex now.This girl went cold turkey after I texted her that I burnt my lips and can't meet. No replies. Lol. | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Is she a gold digger?Haha. This is how it is. It's a software company. People who stay here pull all nighter coding sessions all the time and bringing a girl over and disturbing everyone is looked down upon . | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Is she a gold digger?The cost of living is extremely high where I live. My job gives me free shared apartment. This is how I have money left to do all these things. I value experiences more than having a nice home. I don't believe in owning a nice house. At this point in life, I want to travel and work in different countries and cities. Therefore, I'd rather rent a cheap place for a temporary period. | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Is she a gold digger?I agree with the three top rated replies to this thread. It's ok to pay if she doesn't have the ability to pay. However, I completely disagree with your 'rule' that in this day and age when we talk about gender equality -- that the guy 'always' pays not considering the financial situation of both people. What if the girl earns 6 figures and the guy is an intern? | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Is she a gold digger?I understand that the first paragraph of my post may look like I'm bragging. However, I felt it was necessary to describe the situation. Otherwise, how would you've understand my financial situation and compare it to her financial situation? I don't feel like everyone is out for my money. I've went out with 4 girls last month and I didn't have that thought. It depends on the relative financial situation and people won't be able to give sound advice if they are not aware of it. | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Is she a gold digger?Thank you. After reading the replies to this thread, I got a completely different perspective on this situation. Thank you for making me understand that I've been trying to be a 'provider' and she is not 'gold digging'. However, one thing that I wonder sometimes is that was it my game and personality which attracted her or my money. I recently started earning money. When I was broke, I was extremely bad with girls. Not having money was one of my biggest insecurities. I think having enough money … | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 02:53 PM |
| 1 | How to stay sane having a rotation of 4+ girlsNotice I didn't say clingy 'because they text me'. I said clingy 'and' text me 'everyday'. And one girl literally gets pissed if I reply late. I was at work the other day didn't feel like replying. So I replied 7 hours after she initiated the text. She said 'wow, that took a really long time.' 'I feel like someone forgot me' | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Where do you fuck if neither person can be brought back home?Hotel. /thread | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Second and third dates ever - a few questionsI'm happy for you. So far it's going well. The only thing you need to work on is to initiate makeouts. It's very important. If a girl has to ASK you to make out that means you're not manning up enough. Also, there is no best time to kiss. If you think about THE best time then I assure you that most of the times you won't make any moves. The key is to escalate. It's good that you did a lot of kino in the second date. You start from simple places like elbow, then escalate to moderate ones like low… | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Boys worry about game, men worry about logisticsA mock scenario won't help you. A mock scenario is just that: a mock scenario. Basically, you need to know exactly how to get a girl to a bed if things go in the right direction. The closer this place to your date venue, the better. Depending on the girl, it is often easier to get her to bed if you have a legit reason to take her to the room (this reason is not sex). I play the guitar, have a portable disco light, speakers etc. I often take a girl to my room to show her the cool disco light or t… | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 06:03 PM |
| 4 | We live in the fucking future!! Getting laid in hillbilly country on Tinder.It was fun reading this. I'm staying in a new city for an internship. Used Tinder to hookup and seems like she wants to do it again. FUTURE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 05:37 PM |
| 1 | My "best friend" keeps hitting on the girls I likeI found out that the girl I liked is actually giving him a lot of attention. The girl started flirting him with first. He reciprocated. Do you still think he is a piece of shit? I think this girl is an attention whore so I stopped talking to her (even though I still like her). If a girl I like hits on my friend and really likes him then I think I should not be angry towards my friend for reciprocating. Just because I liked a girl first and declared my intense liking for the said girl to my frien… | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 08:12 PM |
| 1 | My "best friend" keeps hitting on the girls I likeHahahah | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 11:44 AM |
| 1 | My "best friend" keeps hitting on the girls I likeI don't know whether he has better game than me or not. Competition is good if it's benefiting both the parties in terms of growth. However, look at the updated original post: he tried to sabotage my career. Apart from this, because I own and manage my own team at a company, travel and give talks at conferences as well as study at college, I have very less free time. However, my inner game is strong and girls love how passionate I am. The "best friend" has a lot of free time (he doesn't study mu… | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 11:40 AM |
| 1 | My "best friend" keeps hitting on the girls I likeChanging roommates provokes a lot of drama in a small campus and is usually very hard to do. I'll change roommate next year. For now, I'll just bring the girls when he is not in the room or I'll tell him to fuck off before the girl comes. Oh yesterday I called a girl and asked him to leave the room for an hour. He said "Why don't you introduce me to her? I'll leave after saying hi". I said "no, not happening. I want some privacy." He asked me to introduce him to her THREE more times and I kept s… | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 11:25 AM |
| 4 | My "best friend" keeps hitting on the girls I likeOn the bright side though, since he's caught oneitis with that girl, he's probably not gonna try to hook up with whichever girl you're gonna hook up with next. Hahahahahahahah | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How to get rid of a girl who stalks youI'm glad I'm smart enough to not follow bad advice. The replies to this thread are perfect examples of why you should not follow advice from random strangers on the internet without analyzing the practicality of the said advice. This situation can get pretty serious and dangerous (she is crazy and may try to kill me or damage my property if it gets worse). Following wongoli and letsgetrandy's suggestions is a sure way to make sure I'm on the path to hell. I'm just gonna talk to her friend. I'll … | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Mind blowing quote I heard todayI still remember a really important quote from the legendary book "Models". "Don't approach her thinking 'I wonder if she'll like me'. Think 'I wonder what she is like'" Think of approaching women as a scavenger hunt. You are trying to see beneath that flesh of body- what she is really like and whether you two are compatible. Once you take looks out of the equation- it's much easier. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 05:45 PM |
| 20 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?This notion of "league" only exists in your head. I used to think that I was one of the least attractive men in my school. I was hitting on a super hot girl : 8/10. Most guys find her attractive. I made a move and got rejected. Her good guy friend told my friend that "[fitnessfreak6] is way out of her league". These are the EXACT words. My friend told this to me. I felt bad. I felt really bad. However, just a few weeks later, I ended up sleeping with a my personal 10. She was way hotter than the… | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 05:37 PM |
| 0 | Stepping out of friends with benefits zoneHookup with her a few more times. To be FWB or a fuckbuddy, you'd just have sex with her and not hang out together and do the other relationship stuff. The day after you have sex with her for the first time: you should text her someone short and fun. You can mention that whatever happened was fun. To step out of the FWB 'zone', you need to know the differences. Most guys would love FWB type of setting but I can understand that you want more. If you want FWB: Invite her to your place to "watch a … | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Working extremely long hours. Social life is crashing. Please help.I complete my pending job tasks during the weekends. The work is supposed to be of 25 hrs but it ends up being more like 32+ | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Do I still have a chance?Updated for you too. Check my reply to abstractpickuoartist | /r/seduction | 02/01/17 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Do I still have a chance?Thanks! Update for you: I asked her to meet and show around the city. She agreed. 2 hours before the meet she texted me saying that she needs care of her grandmother for something. I had already planned something else with my buddies the same night as a backup plan. I read her text and was busy with friends so I didn't reply. She called me 2 hours later. I couldn't pick up. I called her back half an hour later. She told me that the plans with her grandmother didn't turn out to work. So, she is f… | /r/seduction | 02/01/17 03:05 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being desperate for a relationship?Completely agree. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 16/12/16 04:53 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean if a girl talks about her crush to you after having sex?I just listened to her and made fun of her for getting nervous. Did I pass the test? :P | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 02:38 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean if a girl talks about her crush to you after having sex?What do you mean by testing me? Testing me for what? | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 02:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm giving up on dating.I'm talking about setting up a date and then getting flaked on. When asking out they say yes. Some flake when I start communicating about logistics, others flake in the last minute. | /r/seduction | 25/07/16 07:14 AM |
| 1 | I'm giving up on dating.I understand. How should I frame these logistic conversations without seeming serious? I never put the 'date' label. | /r/seduction | 23/07/16 05:30 PM |
| 5 | I'm giving up on dating.I ask myself this question each time a girl flakes. I've read articles and advice on why girls flake and as far as I know, I implement all these advices. | /r/seduction | 23/07/16 02:54 PM |
| 5 | I'm giving up on dating.I'll tell you what happened in today's case. I knew this girl from school. We were acquaintances. In school, she'd complimented my body a few times (I workout and have a fairly nice body). I moved to a different state to start college. I came the city where my school was. I randomly bump into the girl. The girl offers her number and says that we should meet up. I text her and ask her to meet the next weekend. She agrees. On Thursday, I text her compliment her a bit and ask to meet at a bar on Sa… | /r/seduction | 23/07/16 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Bringing girls back but not hooking up?Read my comment in the main thread It's relevant. | /r/seduction | 03/05/16 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Non seduction books that have helped me with womenIntimate Connections: Changed my life. Please sure not to read it passively as an entertainment. DO ALL THE EXERCISES. | /r/seduction | 03/05/16 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Bringing girls back but not hooking up?How did it go? | /r/seduction | 03/05/16 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Bringing girls back but not hooking up?I'm speaking from experience. Getting a girl back to your room and not making a move does these things: She loses attraction: 3 girls came to my room. I failed to make a move. One of them stopped texting and flaked on all future plans, the 2nd one hooked up with my friend (it hurt alot) who she wasn't attracted to when she was with me, the third one friendzoned me. You'll almost never get a second chance: You're lucky that you guys are spending a night again. This rarely happens. One of the thre… | /r/seduction | 03/05/16 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Beaten up at college, is my reputation gone?It's a very small college and everyone knows about it because the guy kept telling it to everyone. | /r/seduction | 07/11/15 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Beaten up at college, is my reputation gone?what kind of attitude should i have towards the incident? | /r/seduction | 06/11/15 03:27 PM |
| 1 | How to brag without bragging? Am I being too humble?Are you serious? Using my real name instead of a fake name, I assume it'll be good for random pickups in a bar. However, I think it is too pretentious for college. | /r/seduction | 02/07/15 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Is it a bad idea to ask a girl out by text?Yes. I've done this once and I pledged to myself that I'll never do it again. Makes you look like a pussy. And it's very easy for her to ignore your text. | /r/seduction | 30/06/15 10:08 AM |
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