I've gotten laid multiple times with no strings attached. With some girls, it felt just plain empty. It was like jacking off. As soon as I was done, I wanted to get rid of the girl.

I love the feeling of being sexually intimate with someone - someone who is cool and interesting. Someone who actually has chemistry with me. I'm in college, and most girls I've come in contact with that I found actually interesting - I fucked up because I started getting needy for a relationship. Most girls on my campus love hookups. How can I leverage this opportunity and be happy with only hookups?

I've hooked up with girls who were interesting and who were boring. The interesting ones that I was into never wanted anything more than a hookup. Most want to keep everything casual.

I want to loose the feeling that I NEED a girlfriend who both emotionally supports me and is also sexually intimate with me. Where should I start to address this?