I've evolved from a dork to a confident guy. Learning about seduction have not only made me confident in my dating life but also in my career. I used to be needy and unhappy being single. Now, I'm happy and content and don't need anyone else in my life to make me happy.

The problem is that I get flaked on so frequently that right at the time a girl agrees to go on a date - I know that she's probably going to flake. I never get angry at them. 99% of the time I get flaked on. I get stood up. It feels like getting slapped in the face - again and again and again. 19 out of the 20 dates I set up never workout. Today, for the first time - I got stood up at the last minute. The date was at 8pm and she texted at 8.10 saying she can't make it.

If I spent this much energy in my career, I would have been somewhere else.

I've decided that I'll stop attempting to date and focus on other areas of my life. Please advice.