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georeddit2018/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 07:24 PM
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Sorry for your predicament. We all live, make mistakes and learn.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/25 07:35 AM
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Communicate, but don't force it. Just let him know what is on your mind. The moment you want to be possessive of him or his time is when he's gonna skedaddle.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 11:26 AM
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I hear the same everytime. She gave up her career. Even if she did. They had the kid together. Divorce shouldn't automatically mean you ruin your ex financially and leave them destitute. It gets worse if you have to pay if she's the one who want divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/24 05:34 AM
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It's scam. Most Guys don't know until divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/24 03:40 AM
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I hope the discussion was not over text. Because she may use this against you to get full custody. She may be playing you. But if you need help or treatment, work on that and get better.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/24 01:55 AM
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Stay at home mum with kids is very expensive and can financially ruin you if the marriage dont work.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/24 12:43 AM
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Fight for compensation that's rightfully yours and don't sign any documents without a divorce attorney consultation.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/24 03:51 AM
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Logically, you won't want divorce because you care about your family and don't want to break family apart. But, you can't make her or force her to be with you.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/24 12:35 AM
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Please remember when you are ready to date again. The next woman will tell you she won't ever do that to you. She is not like your ex. Learn from your mistakes.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/24 12:33 AM
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All she had to say is that she felt scared and threatened. That it. That's what they used. Its fucked up. I wish young men get exposed to this destructive schemes that marriage that women tend to pressure men to leads to when they checks out and wants nothing to do with the man. I sympathize with you.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/24 12:31 AM
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Yes. Restrict her access to yoi money and account and only provide what she and kids needs
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/24 05:59 AM
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Its a Coorporation. I think most people don't know the ramification of marrying legally. Most learn during the divorce process.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/24 02:22 PM
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You can't negotiate or make her want you. She seems to have already checked out of the marriage. You'll have to accept her for who she is and proceed accordingly.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/24 03:36 AM
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Its time to change your paycheck direct deposit account and only transfer what she need for house upkeep. You are basically been treated like a ATM.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/24 12:24 PM
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How much is needed to get Mexican permanent residence. Also can't mexico extradite people to us if requested.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/24 02:39 AM
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My brothers ex told him her doctor said she can never conceive a child. After they broke up she got pregnant by her next boyfriend.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/24 02:03 AM
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I had an ex tell me to have sex without condom because she can't get pregnant since she's about to have her period in the next day. I said nope. Its hard to get pregnant when close to their period but its not 100% impossible. She got mad and I said no sex without condom.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/24 02:03 AM
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I don't know how many times I have heard the "my doctor said i cant get pregnant or its gonna be hard for ne to conceive" then you get a oppsie pregnancy. It happens a lot.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/24 01:58 AM
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She's not your problem anymore. The guy she left you for probably didn't work out and now she's seen that there nothing out there for her. Rightfully you still care for her because her self deleting will negatively affect your child. All you can do is tell her to seek help. You can stop her from self destruction.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 02:00 PM
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Don't leave. Ots your house to and you entitled to stay. Just be careful because she might accuse you of abuse and slam you with Temporary Restraining Order.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 04:30 AM
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If you aren't convenientally attractive, stay off dating apps. You will waste so much time and money swipping
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 03:15 AM
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Its always Jermaine's fault.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 05:23 AM
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Jesus christ! Where's the logic in this?
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 05:09 AM
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You don't get equity of you live in a rental, you just pay for the landlord mortgage.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 05:04 AM
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Good idea but Familu court does whatever they want.. I have heard cases where Judge subpoena all your hidden asset, and trust and they can use forensic accountants to get details about it all.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 05:02 AM
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Like you guys always say. The woman you marry is not the same you divorce. You also don't know what they are capable of until divorce. I bet she was telling you before marriage that she is not interested in your money.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 04:54 AM
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She is onto the next victim. It is what it is. Learn from this and be careful next time.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 09:42 PM
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I understand that you put your kids first before you. But you have to not care what people will say about you. The problem is that your kids will probably know that you are unhappy in the relationship and you don't want them using your marriage as a guide for their future relationship. People talk all the time about someone that they don't even know very well. Am guessing that you have discussed the issues you have with your wife and you see no resolution towards it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 02:47 AM
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Am sorry to hear your predicament. Are you worried about loosing half your asset, and is that why you feel trapped? I know its difficult but life is too short to be leaving your days miserable and unhappy.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 02:39 AM
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I RECOMMEND THAT YOU DONT FET MARRIED LEGALLY. YOU HAVE A LOT QTO LOSE
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 05:21 AM
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When people showyou who they are, you haveto believe them.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 05:07 AM
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She consider you as plan Z. The option that is safe and will accept her after been ran through.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 05:04 AM
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It's probably hard to instill "no marriage" concept into we young guys because we got too much testorone and we think with our dicks. The only way to really understand the message of no cohabitation ot marriage is for young guys to see people who have been destroyed by marriage or family law, or by actually getting married and experiencing what marriage is .
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 08:33 PM
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Regardless of how not very attractive you are now compared to when you were really hot, there will still be women who find you attractive. It cab be frustrating but you just have to do things and find a way to have fun without necessary seeking validation from women. If you go out expecting women to show you that they are attracted to you. You will be frustrated.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 08:28 PM
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We know you truly love her but she dont love herself nor respect you. You trying to a please her and convince her to stay in a messy marriage will only prolong your misery and suffering. You have to do what is best for you now.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 02:23 PM
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I am so sorry. That is a very diabolical tactic to use just so she get a upper hand in the divorce. Will you even imagine that she can claim such thing when you dated and married her? How did things go so bad for her to accuse you of such thing.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 01:00 AM
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Its same everytime. Its always the man's fault, isn't it? The wife mess up, but she get a pass. If the husband mess up, u crucify him. You also don't understand the dynamics in their relationship. The screenshot don't tell the full story.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 07:21 PM
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Its sad, very sad but in difficult times you know who is down with you. You have to take care of yourself. I have experienced something similar.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 02:56 PM
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Everyone will tend to blame you for what happen. Some will say you should have chosen a better partner. Who the hell marry someone knowing that they are going to abandon you when you need help the most? Most people won't proceed to marriage know such inforabout their partner.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 02:52 PM
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Double standard. You posted on Marriage sub reddit and everyone is blaming you. If you said such thing to your wife that you'll just fuck someone else, majority of them will call you misogynistic. About the screenshot you posted, how the hell are you supposed to make your wife feel beautiful, sexy. I am not married but thats seem like a lot of work.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 02:49 PM
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Since you are married. You will have to do a Post-nup. My guess is that you think she will not like the idea of pre or post-nup. That its self is a problem, a lot of women theses days loose there mind if you mention prenup without them even seeing the content or conditions on the prenup. If you are unable to easily talk about prenup and finances with your spouse, that itself is a problem.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 09:45 PM
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Man some of this women a cold as ice. She tell you you need to be out of the house (that you still pay for, am assuming) by the end of the day because she have a date. I have experienced something similar, emasculated behavior from an ex, and yes i was surprised and didn't belive what she was doing. Unbelievable.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/24 01:56 PM
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My problem with all this is your stayed you both dont want a child. She changed her mind without letting you know. She is pregnant and forcing you to become a father. And now you will be forced to financially support the child and her. I never understand the logic, to havinga child with a person who don't want it. Having a kid in a 2 parent household is stressfull to begin with but now you decide to be mom. Soto don't make sense at all.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/24 01:38 PM
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Divorce is the only way. All those weight that she won't loose for you, she'll loose it when she try to date other men. And WTF do 20 < 200 partner qmeans?
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 04:23 PM
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She is a nut case. She'll probably get away with the false accusations.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 04:15 PM
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Am afraid of her changing for the worst. I am afraid of the dream I had because most of the dreams I have in sleep tend to happen in real life. I dreamt that I was contacted by the authorities to stay away from my ex girlfriend, and ten month later she reported me to the cops and made up a story. I was contacted by the police to not contact my ex anymore and they were asking for my home address. That was traumatic experience for me because I never expected someone you cared about to involve poli…
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 09:35 PM
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We communicate daily and we meet every weekend.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 10:01 PM
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No we were never married. Sorry maybe I didn't clarify. Weve just been together dating and living separately for 1 year and about 4 months.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 09:45 PM
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Well, I posted in other groups but my post get deleted and flaged immediately after I post. This is the only group that allowed me to post and I know they will not sugarcoat anything they say here.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 03:48 PM
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All I dreamt about was that I was with her (it wasn't clear if we were married in the dream but we were together). We were walking around, like taking a tour in a construction site of a building and she fell into a hole. I never saw her after she fell into a hole. I called ambulance and I then saw myself next in the hospital sad and crying and it seems like she didn't make it after been reduced from the hole.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 03:24 PM
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Yes I did and was seeing a therapist all throughout last year until I relocated for a new job out of state.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 04:55 AM
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Could you elaborate on that.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 10:42 PM
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I already have a home. Just i my name and paid all the expense alone
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 06:50 PM
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Thanks. Do you have any other plausible justification for recommending I marry her. A lot of commnet here are telling to be careful because she can change for worse after marriage which is possible (even though I doubt it) .
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 06:25 PM
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We both talked about finances and we already have a plan. We both make about 100k. We agreed that I pay mortgage and she pay for the minor things like groceries and maybe power bills. We even talked about what decision to make incase there is complications during child birth. She want me to choose to save her rather than save the child if a decision need to made during child birth.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 06:23 PM
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The crazy dream that I also had while I was asleep. Dreamt that the marriage ended because of a fatal accident she had and she didn't make it after the accident. Its really looks like I am mind fucked right now. I dont want to leave her because she has great characteristics, but I can't waiting my time and my gut feeling to not marry her is getting stronger and making me feel scared and terrified.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 06:16 PM
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We are both sexually active and compatible.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 06:11 PM
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That's a good point. I don't think that she is hiding anything. She told me about her student loan, her good to fair credit score. But I could consider doing the background check like you suggested. She is also from a middle class family. Her father is a real estate owner of multiple expensive rental houses.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 03:37 PM
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You know most woman, won't go for that. I already brought that up commitment with no legal ties and marriage without getting the court involved. She want to be legally tied to me.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 03:35 PM
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We ear about the same. But I do have significant investment and assets. She is willing to sign prenup too.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 03:11 PM
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My parent were not really together when growing up. No abuse between my parents but they don't talk anymore now for many years.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 02:44 PM
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She is willing to sign that. So I am comfortable in that aspect. The gut feeling and hesitation to marry her won't go away. It just keep getting stronger
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 02:30 PM
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No I never have been divorced. I am a regular visitor on this group because I learn a lot about marriage from people past experience here. I was also involved in a past relationship with ex that ended up false allegation and police getting called on me.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 02:29 PM
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I hope this is not fiction. Am sure people like that exist. But this seem to be a crime.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 12:28 AM
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Wow. Cold heart. Want you to leave a home you pay for. Get your lawyer and stop texting her. Also becready for restraining order and abuse allegation . That typically what they use to get you out of your home.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 01:56 PM
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Kudus to her. A lot of people lie and great reduce their body count because they don't want to be judged
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 01:48 PM
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I never ask for body count. I assume she have a high count and request std test. You went through divorce hell before. I dont think it will be wise to live with another woman.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 01:45 PM
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She gone bro. She told you the truth about how she felt about you but you didn't want to hear it and I understand 0because you love her.. you also bent backwards for her and her kinks, which you seem to be uncomfortable with. You can never compete with the amount of attention she gets on social media. At the end she will get pumped and dumped and get a bad STD case.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 01:34 PM
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Some of this woman are out of their minds. She want you to pay for getting pregnant by another dude. This is unbelievable.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 10:57 PM
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I really hate hurting people. So, what were the gut feelings or signs that you had prior to getting married.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 07:32 PM
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Whatever you do. Yku need to accept its over and prepare for the end of the relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 01:02 PM
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Have had that many times. Most cheater will.lie.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 12:59 PM
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Nice. Back to da street.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/24 09:14 PM
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Am sorry. But what was her reason aside from not loving you anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/24 03:01 PM
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Look. It won't be worth it in the end killing yourself because of her. I dont recommend what you plan to do but I understand why you plan to do it. Of you do it, she wins and her mission to wreck you will be accomplished.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/24 03:00 PM
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You did good. You need to accept that its over. For sure, the unknown and been alone maybe scary, but life is too short to be fighting to be with someone who don't feel the same anymore. Take care of yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 01:09 AM
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The guy she's screwing dumped her. She knows you are the relaible guy and is using u as back up. I would proceed and give her d divorce she wants.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 04:28 AM
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Do you experience any side effect with finistride
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 04:24 AM
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Am not trolling. Just looking for advise from you guys.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/24 01:02 PM
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You are the back up guy, incase she things dont work out with the other guy.. Let her go.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/24 11:56 PM
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Derrick jxn 2.0.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 07:46 PM
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Live your life. Nothing creepy about going out to movies or bowling alone.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 04:30 AM
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Wouldn't that have a much risk to backfire. U may bring her here and as soon as she gets her papers. She dump u. There are ways that they can even expedite getting her papers, by proving that you are abusive or saying that you sex trafficked her. I knownits sound cynical but I have seen videos of women coaching them on what to do to get their papers.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/23 07:57 PM
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You won't know who you are actually dealing with until divorce/breakup. The mask all fall out. Mission impossible style.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 09:15 AM
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Why do some of us know the risk of getting married and still sign up for it? I am also kinda guilty of this.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 06:24 PM
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Kevin Costner, Dr Dre, and other regular guys.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 12:06 PM
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Having a kid with wrong women will still get guys to the family court.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 12:02 PM
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Accept that it's over and she will be dating other men. It's out of your control and find your own healing and way forward.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 11:57 AM
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Its over between you guys and you have to find a way to accept it. She is not coming back. Insanity is repeating the same thing and expecting to get a different result. Let go brother.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/23 12:23 AM
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You do realize that the only reason she want you back is because she got used and dumped, and you are her backup/planB. I would not even consider getting back because she will do it again when it's convenient for her. Its like prolonging your suffering.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 06:00 PM
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She want to keep using and having you as backup option incase she got pumped and dumped. Proceed with the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 11:21 AM
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People with sometimes blame you and say you choose the wrong person and say its ur fault.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 08:32 PM
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I'm so sorry about what you're going through
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 01:42 PM
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Its the typical dirty strategies that they use to have upper hand during divorce. You should get a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 07:57 PM
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Haha. You know, its always the men"s fault. Women can do no wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 07:16 PM
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Do not contact her at all, until your court hearing. No contact on phone or anywhere and get an attorney.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 07:13 PM
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Back up all text in a cloud.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 08:54 AM
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Am sorry about the divorce. I think they are built different and their feeling is For Right Now. Time is also not on their side, so they don't care who they destroy along the way. What matters is that they get what they want.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 10:52 PM
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Am glad your case was dismissed. It looks like filling a false DV is the typical strategie they use when they want to get rid of you My guess is that it cost you a lot of money to hire a lawyer to fight your case?
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 11:49 AM
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Karma is a bitch
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 09:09 PM
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You are been gaslight and manipulated, and you think everything is your fault.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 03:19 PM
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I only hope that there is not kid ninvolved. Don't beg or plead. She was never yours. Your turn with her is over.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 03:18 PM
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I mean. Most people won't refuse free money. Hes gonna have to settle her and pay her regardless of the prenup. Marriage see to be a scam which men falk for all the time.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 02:53 AM
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Lol, train station. Kevin don't want to catch a case.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 09:32 PM
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She's worth more by divorcing him.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 09:02 PM
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We shall see.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 08:53 PM
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You have a great point. The thing is most people do not know that marriage is a contract, until after they get divorced and see what marriage truly is and how they are treated by the court.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 05:54 PM
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I mean, most of the people I know are raised by parent to get married. I wouldn't call him a simp. He asked for the prenup for protection but it looks like she doesn't care about the prenup. Same with Dr Dre wife.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 05:35 PM
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I really don't know. But what I do know is that he's never gonna marry again.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 04:58 PM
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Don't fight it. Accept that it's over between you and her. Then take your time and find healing. You can't negotiate genuine desire. There is gonna be someone out there that will care and love you.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 03:41 PM
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Congrats.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 03:18 PM
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Just a suggestion. You will probably get more advice from a lot of men if you can give a brief summary of your situation. Your story seems to be very long.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 08:09 PM
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She has shown that her modeling career is priority over your marriage. For this to work, one of you have to make compromise. And now she needs space. "Space" is usually not a good thing but a code word for slow break up. Don't be surprised if she serve you with divorce paper or ask for separation.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 12:20 AM
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It's difficult and its unexpected. Do not plead or beg. Give the divorce she wants. And find a therapist or close friend to confide in.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 01:42 AM
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My advice/suggestion for you is that be carefully on the ladies that you engage in aexual relations with and always use Jimmyhat until you are ready to have a kid. Marriage itself is a nice concept, but in today's world its risky. All you need is to be involved with a wrong lady you get accused of somethind you didn't do. You have to do your own research and figure out if getting married is what you want or not.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 06:44 PM
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Get an attorney. No verbally agreement anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 06:32 PM
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Its takes two people for a relationship to work. Am sure its not all your fault.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 12:37 PM
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You can't trust majority of them. They will screw you over every penny. My guess is even if you take it to court. Your lawyer may bill you even more for that. Maybe you can convince your ex to file jointly, but I think its unlikely she will cooperate.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 12:36 PM
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You are right. Am just enjoying my time with her for the moment. I know my turn with her will be over pretty soon. Nothing surprise me anymore, especially since my ex falsely called a cop (a guy she knew but told me not to worry about) and tried to getting me arrested.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 12:22 PM
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I currently have a girlfriend who we've met for just 3 months and keep pressuring me into getting marriage. She shows me Instagram post of people getting married all the time, which is her subtle way of saying she want marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 09:42 PM
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I think being a man, our sexual drive is what drive us into the ruins and wrath of marriage
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 09:04 PM
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Whao. Scary but pretty accurate breakdown. They hoop in through marriage (which is IPO) and exit by cashing out at divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 09:01 PM
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She will volunterily lose the weight after dovorce to get another man. Give her the divorce she asked for. You'll be ok with time.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/23 02:47 PM
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Do what is best for you. We live in a selfish world. Think about what you want first, then proceed from there.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/23 02:36 AM
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You worrying about the wrong thing. Its over. So accept it and find healing.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 11:18 PM
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Time and been busy with other things will keep your mind off her. Accept it and it is what it is.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 08:42 PM
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Shred or burn the pictures. Probably wont do u any good keeping them.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/23 03:56 PM
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Shred or burn the pictures. Probably wont do u any good keeping th
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/23 03:56 PM
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I got a good laugh from your comment
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 10:47 PM
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She already fucked him. Probably already morned the loss and checked out of the marriage before telling you.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 05:47 PM
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Sorry for the end of your relationship. You may think you caused the end of the marriage but it takes two people to make a relationship work. It will take you some time to recover from this but try not to fall in love again to the point that when the person decides to leave you feel empty. Most things in life comes to an end.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 04:44 PM
2

Snoop through her phone or social media. You'll find all the answers there.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 06:59 PM
2

I know its definitely difficult to let go. But you have to do it. You can't make her want you.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/23 11:39 AM
1

People decisons and acts have consequences. She put herself in a terrible situation and she is reaping what she sowed. She invited those guys into her life. She is not your problem anymore. Tell her to get a therapist if she is looking for healing.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 06:41 PM
1

That Facebook page is so reprehensible. I mean if guys created a page like that, they will be so much bitching about it.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 10:34 PM
2

Damn. The truth is hard to accept
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 10:19 PM
13

Don't you understand that "our love is like no other love".
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 12:29 PM
11

"Am not happy". Time to get the bag and run.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 12:27 PM
5

Tell her to lawyer up and you also get your own attorney. I suggest everything that you guys agreed on to be notarized by the court.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 12:26 PM
1

So pretty much you can do anything right for her, even after all you have done. You are the only one who can save yourself. When people show you who they are, you should believe them.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/23 06:07 PM
2

Install camera and watch out for what you eat and drink. Some of them do poison there spouse protein shakes and drink slowly to avoid looking suspicious.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/23 04:05 PM
9

The anger you are feeling will pass away with time. She is gone, but your life goes on.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/23 04:22 PM
4

She's not your wife anymore. Do whats best for you.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/23 02:28 PM
1

What do we get from participating in this?
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 05:48 PM
2

She want to come back because you are her plan B. If her relationship with the guy she cheated with didn't fall apart, do you think she will still want to reconsider with you? Don't be the backup guy.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 05:36 PM
1

She needs space . It means you give ger her space and plan your exit. Why will you need space if you are enjoying the partnership in your relationship. Its a soft breakup before she tells u later that she want divorce. Let her go. Nothing good comes from "I need space".
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/23 05:06 PM
1

Damn. Have mercy on our brother.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 03:21 AM
2

I suggest you hire a bulldog lawyer who can play dirty.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 06:27 PM
3

They she gets about 400 mil. Half of his worth.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 03:18 AM
3

You beat me to posting about Tiger. Good for him he learnt his lesson and never married her. Looks like marrying any woman is betting your finances and hoping they won't turn against you when the relationships ends. Can't trust anyone this days.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 03:18 AM
1

But she thick.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 02:11 AM
2

The Junior College route seem fun.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 01:59 AM
3

I am even so paranoid of even having protected sex because I don't want want to be hooked to someone I don't know in case an opsie baby happens.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 01:56 AM
3

Abort mission.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 01:55 AM
7

I think you need more time to yourself. 9 month divorced, you probably need to just date around and don't commit yet. Also, she is a Lawyer. She know every way to fuck with you if things fall apart in the future. Be carefully.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 01:53 AM
4

You have every right to feel the way you are feeling. Even if you are partly at fault for the end of the marriage, I don't think you got married with the intention of breaking the family apart later. She decided to do that. And if you know all the information that you know now, you probably won't have been married. What is done is done. Its painful all you can do is mitigate the damage done and try and continue living your life.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 01:51 AM
6

Well, I think marriage for women is a social status thing for them. Like they are able to find a guy who is locked to them. Just like a lot of guys wanna be seen with beautiful girlfriends or women. And if the marriage ends they are rewarded. I think I have a better chance of understanding advanced calculus than trying to understand women.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 02:44 PM
9

Marriage is a means to an end for her. She benefit if the marriage last forever or if it ends. And human behavior can be unpredictable. The same woman who is smiling you today may be the one who will file false restraining order on you when divorcing. Time will heal you pain.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 01:21 PM
4

Am a PhD.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 04:03 AM
9

They don't make the guy that they are truly attracted to, to wait. They only make rules for others. You can't make that shit up. My guess she became a born again Virgin.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 04:02 AM
1

Accountability is almost impossible im today's women. I commend you.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/23 10:56 PM
6

Sorry man. There is hope. Keep fighting.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/23 02:57 PM
6

If you haven't, have a discussion with her about what us bothering you. You guys have been together for long, so discuss it before you abandon ship.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 02:29 PM
3

If you get a kid with her. You will be connected to her forever. Do whats best for you.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 02:26 PM
1

But she thick, with big ass and tit. Haha.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 02:59 AM
3

When people show you who they are, believe them.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 12:49 AM
1

Afghanistan.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 12:48 AM
55

You lucky bastard. You got out with your life intact. You didn't have cops called on you, you are not splitting your retirement saving and you are not paying her while you are not together anymore. You are lucky. Just learn from it.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 12:48 AM
8

I don't want to be a bearer or bad news, but you are totally correct. If you guys split and she stays here, if she don't work and she apply for government assistance. They will be paying her some assistance from your paycheck. I hope things work for you guys. But like a wise man in this sub reddit said, it doesn't matter if the women is from Mars, women nature is the same everywhere. I signed a support also for a friend of mine and I told him not to fuck me over after I learnt that I could be pa…
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 12:45 AM
5

I am going through something similar after breakup. Me deleting myself will only make her happy. You can still get your life back even after a failed relationship. I remember you posting dew weeks ago, please try not to do what you have in mind.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 05:02 PM
5

It's just a matter of time. she's gonna do the same thing she did to you to the new guy she's married to.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 10:00 PM
14

You probably need a lawyer. Because you don't want us reputation damaged by a psycho. Some of them use Shaming language to inflict chaos on damage to your life.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 09:49 PM
31

Sorry. Single moms have a reputation of doing stuff like that.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 09:43 PM
2

You guys can both share custody of the kid, even when you are not married anymore. Hopefully the marriage dissolution is peaceful if that's the route you decide to go with. Maybe consult a lawyer and see what you are up against regarding divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/23 01:23 AM
5

Do whats best for you and your child.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/23 01:06 AM
9

Pretty funny. "No, I will not buy life insurance. You don't need a monetary incentive to kill me"
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 04:17 AM
3

You guys on the subreddit are doing a great job. You don't know how many men you are saving throught your wisdom and advice you give here. Thank you. Funny thing is I also asked my dad for advise, and he told me to give her a chance also. I guess I will just keep to myself because I came from the gutter before I got to where I am today and I don't wanna be tricked by easy and free sex.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/23 11:16 PM
3

Am even having doubts about dating her talkless of marrying her. Everyone of my family and friends keep telling me to give her a chance. Its like I am the one who is not reasonable at all. They said I don't necessarily have to marry her and just date her.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/23 11:04 PM
3

I get what you mean, but the options you have is to either stay and continue living in the same situation, or leave (pay the cost of divorce) and then find a better partner.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/23 03:16 PM
3

Do you think if she was in your position, will she feel guilty about living you if the marriage isn't fulfilling to her?
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/23 03:04 PM
1

Your only protection from family court is to marry in Afghanistan and stay there.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/23 05:03 PM
2

I got a laugh from your comment. "It doesn't matter if this woman is from Mars...."
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/23 01:18 PM
4

Maybe go marry them and stay there in the mountains in Afghanistan, where they have penalty for adultery and divorce is not acceptable.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 01:02 AM
1

Sorry , that must be difficult to be in your situation. If she's not gonna change and work together with you. I would say, whats the point of been married?
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/23 01:58 AM
7

THE BITCH IS USING YOU. STOP HELPING HER BECAUSE ALL YOU GET IN RETURN IS MISERY AND SHE IS SLOWLY TURNING YOU INTO CUCKHOLD.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/23 11:40 AM
0

She have her sight on another man. And you should also get std tested. Get a lawyer and divorce her making everything official.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/23 04:13 PM
1

You married a parsite. All they do is expect and take and take. I won't be surprised if she have mental issues/problems. She sees no problem because you have tolerated her behaviors for 2 decades.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/23 01:30 AM
1

Its easier for her to claim to be a victim and everyone will gladly believe her. You can only control how you react to her shenanigans. You can't control her behavior.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 01:25 PM
10

If the marriage have no benefit to your life and kids, and she contribute more stress to your life and won't improve or change, you may have to consider to do what is best for you and the kids. Life is too short and tomorrow is not promised to anyone.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 08:40 PM
5

His wife is cold heart and ruthless. I wonder what made her to have no sympathy for the husband.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 02:03 AM
2

Looks like she doesn't wanna try to work things out and make effort to improve. Nothing more you can do other than to tolerate the marriage or find an alternative option for intimacy or divorce. Please realize that Suicide is not the solution to your problems.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 01:56 AM
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Sorry. Looks like her lawyer is trying to draw things out to get himself paid.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 01:48 AM
3

The moment she called the cops on you in the past should be the deal breaker. But I do understand love blinds us sometimes.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 03:52 PM
1

These women be crazy sometimes. You can't convince her to be with you. You have to give her space and proceed from there.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 05:01 AM
3

I like your response.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 12:43 AM
1

Keep fighting. Try and be careful with your new girl so she don't trick you into marriage again.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/23 09:56 PM
1

That a horrible experience you went through. Especially getting locked up for fasle DV. Looks like you need to get a lawyer to defend you, and please keep contact with the exGf that contacted you.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/23 09:30 PM
1

Would she do the same for you, I mean try to save you?
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/23 06:20 PM
2

Am wondering how long have you know her before marriage?
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/23 03:11 AM
7

You should do whats best for you and your kids.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/23 05:05 PM
1

Fuck. Its sucks that there's nothing u can do about it The more I look at this sub reddit, the more I never want to have kids or get married
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/23 05:50 PM
4

Sorry and am Sad for you. All the effort you put in for your family seem to be going down in vain since wife wants out. There is not much you can do other than give her the divorce she ask for.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/23 07:41 PM
2

This dont seem to matter in Canada
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/23 07:11 PM
11

Nice to hear that the divorce was not contentious. But I think she started getting more attention from other guys when she started working out in the gym and she couldn't resist it. She already wanted to leave you so she softly planned for you guys to take a break to see if the spark will ignite, but she already knows she is not coming back. Well people change and she's gonna keep fucking multiple guys on Tinder until she get tired of it or catch an STD and she may try to crawl back to you since…
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/23 09:35 PM
3

You want to really know if she is staying with you for your money and what you provide? Try this. Tell her you need to have a conversation with her. Tell her you invested in FTX Crypto and you put all your savings and also used your house as collateral to borrow more money which you also invested. Tell her that Crypto crashed and all the money you invested is gone. Tell her the FTX company that you invested with have filled bankruptcy. Tell her that you lost a lot of money. Also tell her that th…
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/23 05:55 PM
5

Fuck that. Only a selfish person will treat their spouse like that.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/23 04:02 PM
24

Then reason why she want to reconcile is because divorcing you have significant consequences for her. She has already messed around with the other guy and she have you as back up. Why will you want to be with someone who tossed everything you guys built away for a new dick? You may want to reconcile but you can hardly trust her again. The fact that you made her call the guy and break things off doesn't mean she won't find a way to still meet up with him. Her whoring around wil also expose you to…
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/23 03:21 AM
1

They are both possibly playing with you. Better believe that another guy is sleeping with her. I understand its a long time marriage and it will be difficult to let go. What her father says is not important. For the marriage to work, she also have to put effort for it to work. You should also realize that you are the only one that is getting stressed about this whole situation. She is out there partying and enjoying her freedom while you are getting stressed and hoping things get better.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/23 06:12 PM
2

Please consider changing your therapist. The therapist can't keep things confidential when they told your father inlaw about what you discussed.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/23 06:24 AM
6

Sorry Sir. Your relationship is done. There is no point for you to convince her anymore. You will only prolong the misery that you are currently in. Give her the divorce that she want and take time to heal. It takes two people willing to work for a relationship to work. She doesn't want the relationship anymore and the separation period that you guys had didn't help. So sad that family get destroyed frequently because one party is not happy anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/23 06:21 AM
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Congrats on your start to new life. One thing I will say is try to avoid getting into argument of any kind with her. So she doesn't have reason to claim you abused her. And maybe consider using the parental app for communication regarding the kids. I was never married but after breakup with long time GF. I went to pick up my stuff from her place and have a chat with her. She locked the door and told me to leave. I left but she still called the cops on me. I have never done anything to her to war…
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/23 08:24 PM
1

Fight fire for with fire. Now is the time to discuss with your lawyer how to use the evidence you have against her. And don't agree on anything that isn't suitable.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/23 02:49 PM
3

I know they are expensive, but you need to consultation with a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 08:02 PM
1

Some of the ladies are crazy. Please tell us who is she with now?
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 07:54 PM
2

She has a lot of influence from her friends. They telling her not to marry or get involved with you because you were divorced before. Even if you decide to marry her, they will still be telling her what to do which may affect your relationship together as a couple.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 07:52 PM
2

Another guy is in the picture. Sneak and look through her phone and social media. Let her go because she has already made up her mind. The more you beg and plead with her, the more you will continue living in misery.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 03:48 AM
2

Sorry. You have seen the light. Prepare for your exit and talk to a lawyer on your options. Hopefully you don't have a kid with her.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 03:02 PM
2

Sorry about the end of your marriage. The positive from all the stories here is that you guys are exposing the corruption and the deceit that comes with marriage. I hope more younger guys are able to see all these stories to heed warning before they sign there life away.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 12:32 AM
2

Yikes. I missed the title.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/23 11:20 PM
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Goddamn. You should be a writer. Your story telling is on point. But I am not sure if you are serious or if this is a joke.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/23 11:02 PM
14

Have a calm discussion about it with her and maybe couple counselling. It could be her hormones getting fucked up after birth.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 07:52 PM
3

Get an attorney. Work on yourself and whatever makes your rage. Sorry, wish that never happened. Also, ask for forgiveness from your wife.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/23 06:27 PM
3

Please find a family member to talk to. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Hold on Sir. Time heal wounds.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/22 09:29 PM
5

You can show her a video recording of her messing around with other guys and she still will deny it. She will keep using you as backup until the new guy is secured. Let her go back to the street where she belong.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/22 04:56 PM
1

Parasite. They take take take.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 04:49 PM
2

This is legal abuse. Not giving you access to a house you bought. I understand its now considered Marital property but that's fuckwd up
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 04:39 PM
1

You are right. Its bot like an just gonna do what she ask me to do. I kind of like i want to make her happy because she raised me and my siblings by herself and suffered a lot when we were young.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/22 08:57 PM
7

Time will heal and maybe find a counselor or therapist. The whole thing is out of control.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/22 05:55 PM
47

Let her go. She is not your problem anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/22 05:21 PM
4

Another problem that some of young guys face is that, its not easy to find a woman for sex and to have a relationship with this days. When we do find someone, we tend to hold onto them tightly and even ignoring abuse and red flags from them.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 03:38 PM
3

"She doesn't believe in prenup". Yikes. She knows what's up. The divorce is planned before the wedding.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 03:26 PM
2

Listen to me Bro. The woman you marry now will change and you will see the true version of her later. Also you don't know what your partner is capable of until when they don't need you and after breakup. Its your life, but if you gonna be married, protect yourself and tell her you will need prenup. You have a personal experience regarding your parent relationship. Be wise Bro.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 03:22 PM
8

I see life now in a more simpler context. Everything will come to an end and people tend to change.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 03:16 PM
2

Thanks for the advise. And sorry for what you going through. Hope things get better for you
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/22 06:35 PM
3

She doesn't care about you. Hopefully she is not justbusing you for your financial resources. And by the way, you can't make her love or care for you. She seems like a parasite. All they do is take take take.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/22 11:29 PM
3

Every relationship is transactional, i.e give and take. Stop doing all these nice things for her and getting nothing in return. Its is just not fair. She got a great deal by being with you and she doesn't have to change because you still keep doing nice things for her without getting nothing back. You also need to discuss how you feel to her and maybe seek counseling. Life is too short, and tomorrow is not guaranteed. If things don't improve, do what is best for you.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/22 11:25 PM
6

No matter how good the pussy is, Do not get married. You will only truly know the type of woman you are dealing by her actions during divorce or breakup.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/22 11:20 PM
13

They always think they can do better. Majority of them also think that every guy that want to bang them want something serious with them. They get pumped and dumped and they come to a realization of thier delusion.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/22 06:25 PM
2

One thing I have realized about divorce and break up, is that people will only show you who they really are and what they are capable of doing when they don't want you anymore. I bet my money on it that you never thought your wife will file false DV charge against you. Am sure you were suprised.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/22 02:25 PM
2

Am really sorry. But this doesn't sound Normal. This is abuse.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/22 01:46 PM
17

I think most people learn the hard way after experiencing it themselves.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 03:03 AM
3

These women for majority of the time get used and dumped. Am guessing thing didn't work out with her man and then she's coming back to you.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 04:26 PM
3

She's giving you more custody "for right now". When she get pumped and dumped, hopefully she doesn't come back taking you to court for custody changes.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/22 12:44 PM
11

Contact a lawyer. If she filed a DV against you you will be guilty until proven innocent and you dot want that on your record. Contact a lawyer and start recording interactions with her crazy ass.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/22 04:53 PM
1

Most things they do is 'for tight now'. They may feel different tomorrow or few years from today.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/22 11:09 PM
2

Don't ignore the possibility that she might be messing with someone else.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/22 11:07 PM
1

Well, its the typical "it's always the men's fault". Women can do no wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/22 01:46 PM
2

Due process is not applicable in Family Court. They do whatever the fuck they want there.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/22 03:55 AM
2

You are not her first choice and you can never satisfy her. She most likely have an eye for someone else. Take control of your life and get a lawyer. Just know that things might get nuclear once you bribg up Divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/22 02:51 PM
2

Wow. Insulted you didn't want to loose everything you have. Seems like you are been manipulated. I hope she doesn't file a TRO on you so she can have the house to herself.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/22 05:51 PM
5

My suggestion is not just order her, but tell her accompany you to the gym together. Maybe tell her to take walks with you. Also, maybe you can encourage her or buy her sexy clothes, lingerie, hairsyles, and dress that make her looks good. I am not blaming you at all. I am just suggesting things that you can do. Its also depend on her. If she wants to do things to improve herself for you. If she's not willing to at least try, then there's not much you can do. A good woman is hard to find, but I …
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/22 04:45 PM
14

Good women are hard to find. Whatever your sexual fantasy or interest his. Talk to her about it. If you are not attracted to her sexually anymore, then that is a different issue. My advice is don't throw something good away. You might regret it or you may not.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/22 04:13 PM
1

Am sorry. "Am not happy anymore" seems to be a common statement made when they vocalize divorce. I hope to God that I am able to find a partner, that won't play this bait and switch on me.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/22 12:06 AM
1

Sorry about your experience. Its seems like he surprised you.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 10:16 PM
38

"She doesn't want my house or money". She doesn't for now, hopefully she doesn't get influenced by dirty lawyers and relatives advising her to take you to the cleaners. Trust no one. Most people are out for what is best for them.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 09:11 PM
1

You are a free man, now that you can see everything for what it is. Sorry you had to experience all that.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 10:41 AM
1

Happy birthday
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 10:39 PM
2

Consultation with a lawyer will be best to determine your options.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 06:24 PM
8

I guess, that was the breaking point for you. I think there can be no love without respect.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 06:21 PM
8

Seems like a logic idea regarding the concept of marital propert. If you mention this idea anywhere else in reddit or on the internet, majority of the people commenting will be saying you have bitterness against women, or loser or whatever bullshit name they can make up.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 06:20 PM
3

She will not and can't comprehend whatever makes logic sense to you and everyone else regarding your relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 03:22 PM
4

Some of this women are snakes. How is she entitled to it if she don't pay any bill towards your parent house. Am guessing you are surprised that she want a cut from your parent house. Looks like you can't trust anyone.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 01:07 PM
1

I think you married for love and you were not expecting the bait and switch from her. No one really expect it. Do you think that what is making you happy can be fixed since you said she is a good person.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 12:21 AM
1

I understand. It won't be happy all the time. Guess there will good times and challenging time in marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 08:31 PM
1

I am not in a relationship at the moment, since May 2020. One of the issues I and my ex of 5 years had was me declaring at the start that I don't want a marriage license. We both had our issues, but she does not respect me. I hustle a lot and do several gig work in addition to my office job which my ex doesn't fully support me. Then i was in the process of buying a house in Spring 2022 and I only told her about it after my loan was approved. She got mad that I did not tell her that I was buying …
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 12:09 PM
1

Sorry. hard to take and accept. Don't fight it. Let go and find a close friend and family to vent and confide in. One thing I have accepted in this world is that we all do things mostly for the benefit of ourself, sometimes for our family. Divorce is what she want. Give it to her. You will find love again. Could be 1, 2 or 10 years. But you will again.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/22 12:01 AM
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No kids is a blessing. Beat her to it and file divorce. Nothing tends to make people like her happy. You can quit your job be available to her 24/7, and she will still find stuff to nagg about.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/22 01:42 PM
3

I suggest you Start recording conversations.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/22 04:13 AM
3

I understand. But I think you can't control control what she does. You can only control how you respond to her bulshit.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/22 09:43 PM
2

You are in a difficult situation. If you divorce her you are gonna be labeled as the bad guy and she might be vindictive. You also gave kids to worry about. But again you still need to live your life and do things that gives you fulfillment. Maybe a pros and cons list on a paper will help you decide on how to proceed. Also maybe you should try the counseling as the last attempt to fix rhings.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/22 07:34 PM
1

I heard that complications and pain that comes up many months after the surgery. Is that common or it really occurs?
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/22 11:29 PM
2

Sorry man. Let her go.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/22 10:18 AM
2

If she brings up the marriage talk. Tel her ok. But you will not get a marriage license. Write your own contract.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/22 10:06 AM
2

I think a guy with the salary, you should not have state married licence, because if you do and things go south. You will be made to be the ATM when divorce occurs. Keep casually dating and improving your life.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/22 05:24 PM
1

You will get better with time. Don't rush anything, take the time and maybe consider finding a therapist
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/22 04:09 PM
1

He is not devoted to you and want to see other people. You don't seem to want same thing. Cut bait and go enjoy your life. Life is too short for that shit
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/22 02:54 PM
20

Give her the divorce that she wanted. Am sure you probably begded her before when she wanted to divorce you. Let the Ratchet woman go.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/22 06:01 PM
3

You are the back up guy. May is suggest confronting he about her for been dishonest and let he know that you know she has a man. Of course she is gonna deny it.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/22 05:52 PM
8

Bitch is crazy. She filed for divorce and now blaming u for not wanting to fix things
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/22 05:50 PM
12

She is right. But watch out for the youtube chameleon that call herself to be Redpil. Few of these ladies figured out that there a lot of money and attention to be acquired by providing redpill content.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/22 08:15 PM
2

My opinion is to stay away. Far away from her. Too much baggage that you will have to deal with in the long run.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/22 03:26 AM
3

If you can pay. Use seeking arrangement
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/22 09:48 PM
6

Because they can and there's no punishment. They get rewarded with money, alimomy, child support payment and your 401k when they break up a family.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/22 08:19 PM
4

That is good. Keep pushing. It will be hard but you will survive. Please, if she ever come back after getting dumped by her boyfriends, do not take her back.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/22 07:47 PM
15

Sorry you are going through a difficult time. She is already checked out of the marriage. Its out of your control. Let her go. Don't wait for her. Get a lawyer and file for divorceand don't move out of the house.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/22 07:37 PM
2

Sir. If yoir wife knows about the affair and forgave you. I think that's a good thing. Regarding all the things that you don't like about your wife or things that she can improve on, do you think you can talk to her about those things. Maybe she will try and be better in those things for you. You guys have been together 18 years. I think you can be honest with each other, but if after trying and things don't get better. Maybe Divorce could be the next option. All am saying is that you seems to l…
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/22 07:28 PM
3

Did you mean Adam and Eve story in the Bible?
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/22 01:31 AM
5

Its over. She doesn't want to be the one to divorce and end thing so she doesn't become the bad guy. She is already fucking the new guy. She is not gonna tell you the truth. Its a hard truth for you to accept. It will be hard for you but you need to end this train wreck. Consult a lawyer and divorce. Also stop treating her nice anymore. She doesn't deserve it, because she is treating you badly. I know you love her, but she is gone she is not coming back. She will only try to come back after the …
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/22 01:06 AM
3

End it now and live your life. Learn from what you might have done wrong and do better. Life is too short. Dont try and convince her to stay if she wants out. Get a lawyer and seek therapy if you think you need it. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/22 01:36 AM
1

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7ygCnkUYElI&t=315s The situation is out of your control. Set her free.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/22 10:19 AM
6

No. No no. She turned asexual with you. She will be doing sex gymnastics with a guy that she is into.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/22 12:22 PM
5

I understand what you are saying. You cannot control her. You only have control of how you handle and react to the issue. This are the options that I think you have. -You can stay in the sexless marriage and be miserable, -You can stay in the marriage and find a girlfriend, but if you get caught it will mess things up for you -You divorce and pay her whatever the court requires and also try get custody of kids if you have one. Then you take time to heal and them start looking for a new partner. …
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/22 02:42 AM
11

Well, Its what she does that matter, not what she says. She says she loves you but she doesn't wanna be intimate with you. Her words doesn't match are action. Also, if you have discussed this issues with her and nothing change, would you be happy and content to continue living like that?
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/22 12:04 AM
6

Maybe she's looking for "true love".
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 11:42 PM
2

I like that.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 11:41 PM
6

He's getting way more than than. Will find it interesting if she marries again after this.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 09:09 PM
5

Haha. You said she stole it from Bezo.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 07:33 PM
10

Haha. Blunt and straight to the point.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/22 05:27 PM
2

Sometimes you have to stop giving a fuck or you will loose yourself mentally at the end.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/22 01:27 PM
9

Even when they are not your kids. You still do the best you can to contribute and provide for them. Still your wife is still bitching and its never gonna be enough for her. I think you made a mistake marrying her and taking the burden of kids that are not yours. Single mom are notorious for doing stuff like this.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 09:48 PM
4

Yeah. Its always "nothing happened".
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 09:27 AM
5

Yep. Draft up your own contract.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/22 06:21 PM
19

He must not move out, or else the wife can claim he abandon the home. He should ask multiple lawyers for advice before even telling the wife about divorce. Then he choose the best lawyer that he feels is good for him.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/22 05:48 PM
6

Its your life and if marriage is what you want go for it and be careful. Have you taught and ask her if she is willing to be married to you without a marriage license? Have you asked her about prenuptial agreement? Have you guys lived together to know each other well before marriage? Have you guys talked about how finances and money will be spent when you marry? Are you guys sexually compatible? Surely you love her, but you want to be protected in case shit goes nuclear in future.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/22 05:44 PM
5

They send me once a month. It is very obnoxious message stating that I should not ghost them, eventhough I don't know the person at all. And then they want you to go to their discord account. They are looking for someone to buy their products. Just ignore them.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/22 05:36 PM
2

Definitely. I will always choose respect. Love without respect is not not gonna last.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/22 05:16 PM
10

I once was fed up with my ex pushing for marriage and I asked her, "why is it so important for us to be legally binded by the marriage licence?". she responded that it is for security. She further stated that it is so it won't be easy for anyone of us to walk out of marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/22 08:26 PM
8

Its gonna hurt but you know what to do. It looks like they want the wedding and not really interested in you.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/22 08:04 PM
13

Looks like she only regret not finding someone to replace the ex-husband as the ATM. That's all she regretted.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/22 01:43 AM
15

The moment she started the online dominatrix thing is the moment that things started falling apart. Of course she will want to practice what she do online with you. The thing is you have no control over her behavior, you can only control how you react and handle the situation. Like you said, you have suggested counseling and she don't want it. She has also already told you that she will leave when she is ready. You need to prepare yourself for divorce and how to take care of your kid.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 01:15 PM
13

Snoop through her phone, Facebook and browsing history. You will find your answer there.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/22 05:02 PM
4

Do not leave the house.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/22 03:32 AM
4

Did you mean that you wife took 1.5 million from you during divorce. That a lot of money stolen from you. She must be heartless.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/22 08:14 PM
1

She is cold as ice. Am sorry you had to go through that.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/22 03:16 PM
4

Check her phone, browsing history and text message. You will find your answer their.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/22 05:48 PM
1

Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. She is doing what is best for her and her only. You have to look out for yourself and your kids. Fuck the cheater.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/22 02:36 AM
5

She want to be happy. So let her go. Its gonna be hard for you but its out of your control. This is one of the reason some advice against having stay at home wife. She turn to a lesbian and now you have to pay and help her look for apartment so she can keep doing the same shit that turn the family apart. How the fuck do this even make sense?
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/22 10:37 PM
3

She is having an affair. She doesn't want to divorce now, so that if the affair dont work out, she can come back to you. Check her phone, email and social media. You will find your answer their.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/22 02:56 AM
2

We live in a fucked up world. Common sense is not very common to everyone.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/22 05:03 PM
5

Get std/sti tested too.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/22 10:46 AM
2

Return the favor. They don't treat you like family. Ghost them too and stop doing nice things for them or your ex wife.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/22 03:55 AM
1

I am only angry because I could have been married and be in divorce problems. Am only lucky to be exposed to what marriage is and what problems come with it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/22 12:43 PM
2

Family law is like highway robbery. How is this acceptable?
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/22 02:04 AM
17

Your ex-wife entitlement is ridiculous. She seem to just expect to take and take from you like a parasite.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/22 10:16 PM
1

She is not happy anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/22 12:23 PM
3

I am sorry and feel your sadness. Unfortunately, the divorce and what she now want is out of your control. Since you have been a good husband and still its not enough. I dont see what more you can do. Have a conversation with her and let her talk about what the problem is.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/22 12:21 PM
14

Not sure, but is it possible to file for annulment of the marriage because its still very recent.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/22 05:02 PM
1

Here is my question. Why is it that the court and pastors don't provide people the terms and conditions before marriage, so everyone that wants marriage know what they are getting into financially. It seems that people get surprised about what marriage is when they experience the process of divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/22 11:33 AM
1

Whao, am sorry. At least your attorney gave it to you straight and told the truth.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/22 11:31 AM
35

The law allows it. They marry for security. Thats why they push men to marry them because if things don't work out, they are still getting paid.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/22 03:39 PM
1

A so sorry. You need to find a close friend, family member or therapist to vent to during this difficult process.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 07:34 PM
3

She is cheating. There is probably another guy in the picture.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 01:20 PM
9

The answer is always in her phone, email and browsing history.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/22 11:59 PM
1

Wow. Am sorry, its a mess and the situation must me stressful and mentally draining for you. Please take care of yourself and let this woman go, but still fight to get custody of your kid.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/22 01:04 PM
2

That hoe ain't loyal.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/22 07:41 AM
2

Haha
/r/PussyPassDenied19/08/22 12:07 PM
18

Everyone is out for themselves. That the world we live in. You don't want to experience getting fucked in the ass by horrible divorce laws. Listen and do what your lawyer tells you and stop telling other people about it. Because someone might tell her.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 03:20 PM
2

Am sorry you hard to hear the hard truth. It must be difficult heatibg that from the person whom you love.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 12:06 AM
2

The loneliness you are feeling will definitely pass. Time heals. I suggest try not to be home alone a lot. Try to go outdoors. Maybe go to a park.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/22 10:54 PM
1

How do you think she will react to you telling her you want divorce? Maybe try and consult a lawyer so you are prepared and know what you have to pay for your freedom.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/22 02:19 PM
6

Haha. Bumble been a full time job on itself. You are not telling a lie.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/22 05:03 PM
9

I think the laws today makes divorce an easy exit out of a marriage, even though some of the issue could be fix if both party want to put in the work. Majority of women have not much to loose by divorce because they still get resources from the man who they say they don't want to be with anymore. So its like eating once cake and having it at the same time.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/22 05:02 PM
5

Ha. I saw this one yesterday. She was release on 30k bond. The guy already filed divorce. My guess is she was hoping he die so she get paid the life insurance.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/22 07:44 PM
2

Why would you not want to sign prenuptial to protect yourself?
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/22 07:10 PM
1

Can't win either way.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/22 06:20 PM
2

Godamn. Very sneaky. Am just thinking if you had glanced through her phone long before the divorce and known earlier, You might have been prepared for it.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/22 06:18 PM
1

I have seen this shit with my eyes. I can't believe it. The person who is loving, turned nasty and disrespectful.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/22 05:52 PM
1

Grass is not always greener on the other side. I suggest you talk to her again about the relocation issue and whatever part of the marriage you find unsatisfactory. If you have things good with your wife, don't throw it away for a new lady who you really don't know well.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/22 05:50 PM
4

That doesn't seem right.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/22 08:12 PM
3

Another dude is in the picture. All the reason why she want to divorce is on her phone. You'll get your answer there.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/22 07:51 PM
4

So sorry. That must be a tough situation for you. It almost unbelievable that someone who use to say "I love you" is sometimes the same person who will turn ones world upside down. People that warns single guy to never marry know what they are talking about.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/22 04:18 PM
6

Am sorry. Looks like we men have no right.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/22 12:01 AM
5

I only read the first paragraph, and when I heard the "I want to be alone". I knew it someone else was in the picture.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/22 05:06 PM
5

She is not going to tell you the truth. And sometimes its better for you not to know. Nothing you do is gonna make her change her mind until she have her fun with the new guy. Its hard but Let her go
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/22 05:03 PM
3

I swear. Its always the itch of meeting someone new most of the time. And then they throw their family away. The way this is going and how marriage vows means nothing, getting married will likely be obsolete in the future.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/22 02:33 PM
2

I know how you feel Boss. But love should come freely and with respect. Thats what I think. You definitely still love her and you got your life built around her. But I think its better you bite the bullet now and suffer temporarily than to prolong this shitshow with her and then suffer severe consequences of gray divorce. You cannot make her love you. You seem to be a high earner. If its love you want, after divorcing her and you take time to heal. You will find somewhere lady who will appreciat…
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 08:50 PM
2

Try to think about this. Why do you want to be with someone who have clearly stated and showed that they don't love or respect you. Why?
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 08:26 PM
3

The other dude dumped her. And she is telling you she can't give you love. She seems to want to have her cake and have it. I don't think anyone deserve to be treated like second option. Just know that if the other guy show up again. She will gladly run back to him and dump you again. You need to do whats best for you.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 08:22 PM
9

Be careful. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/22 05:04 AM
1

Am sorry. You are in a tough spot. You are staying in the marriage to save and make thing better for her and the child. You also need to live your own life. Seek advise from a therapist or family friend about it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/22 08:14 PM
2

Try pickup sport games. Flag football, soccer or join a local cycling club. It socks been alone sometimes.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 12:22 AM
8

The thing is, if she finds him attractive, all the bullshit she complained about won't matter.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/22 08:27 PM
2

Sorry. She probably used you as a starter husband. Really hard to trust anyone.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 12:19 AM
7

I swear. I feel very sorry for him.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/22 03:41 AM
1

It's pretty funny. And of course, they calling everyone who support the video incel.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/22 08:15 PM
6

He is probably not gonna listen because, when guys are growing up, everyone expect you to marry and have kids.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/22 08:48 PM
1

Nicely done.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/22 08:46 PM
3

You have to accept the reality that she don't wanna be with you anymore. You can't make people love you or want you. You can only control what you do. Even if you kill yourself, she will win and be glad she dumped you. I know its painful but you will get over this. It may take years before you heal but you will. Find close friends and family member to vent and talk to. Getting a therapist may be helpful too.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/22 04:20 PM
1

So sorry man. Some people are cold and heartless. How can you marry someone for that, and then dump them.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/22 04:18 PM
1

Enjoy the new lady while it last. I recommend you keep your expectation with the new lady.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/22 04:12 PM
2

Goodluck to him. He had a lond distance (the wife was in Indonesia) relationship and then filled to bring her to US.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/22 04:12 AM
2

Do not cosign for anyone. Especially an ex. I cosigned a student loan years ago for my asshole of a brother. Now that I applied for mortgage. The Lender is asking for statement showing that the loan that I cosigned has been paid regularly over the years. I asked my brother for one year statement showing that he has been making payment towards the loan. He ignored me and won't provide me with the statement that I need to complete mortgage loan approval.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/22 08:21 PM
1

You are the man in the house. Dont just give her what she want. Dont agree to change in picking up the kids because she might use that against you in Divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 11:18 AM
2

He has too much to loose if he walk away and divorce. But he will still be rich afterwards.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/22 11:36 PM
1

Try to do what is best for you. At the end of the day, you will have to deal with the aftermath and consequence even if you try to do just what your family want.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/22 05:22 PM
3

That must be hard. Reach out to family and trusted friends to vent to. Talking to a therapist may also be great. Please do not beg her to change her mind. Contact a lawyer and also do not leave your house.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/22 06:59 PM
6

Its hard, but you should let her go.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/22 06:54 PM
1

Your comment "I did update ya donkey" is what made me laugh and say Bruh.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/22 05:36 PM
1

God damn. What can I say.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/22 05:38 AM
2

Bruh..
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/22 04:43 AM
2

Her action tell you everything. She is talking about sharing the other guy. You can't talk or convince her to like you. Let her go or she will keep playing with your heart. Once the guy dumps her again, she will come back to you just for attention.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 07:00 PM
2

You do not want to be the guy that she come to when she get dumped. She will leave again when another guy comes along. That's the way it. She is using you as a backup. Its hard but please Walk away.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 06:55 PM
1

The divorce is planed before the wedding. That's why they all scream they want high earner ( value) men.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 06:51 PM
2

I once asked an ex whats the big deal about legally getting married and even suggested we have a ceremony but without the license. She said she wants to get married "so that the spouse can't easily just leave her".
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 06:47 PM
2

You have a valid point. However, why will a partner pretend to be something before marriage and then after the wedding turn to something else? Is everything now a game?
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 06:44 PM
2

Sorry. If you decide to divorce. Be discrete about it and have several consultations with lawyers to have a glance at what's gonna happen before you tell her you want out. Try not to date during the divorce or get into another relationship. Have casual fling is cool.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 06:41 PM
1

4 guys. Multiply the 4 by maybe 5. Then you are getting close to the real number. Of course she isn't gonna tell the truth because their is stigma around higher body counts.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 06:30 PM
1

Am sorry but if she is with you and keep mentioning her experience with other guys that's she's been with. The guys she telling you about is where her heart is. She still unsubconsiously want them, but is just with you for the moment. It dosen't matter anyway because its your turn with her at the moment, then its gonna be another guy's turn with her later. All relationship comes to an end.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 06:24 PM
3

Merry Christmas. Stay strong.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 06:19 PM
5

Disrespect me one time, I give warning. Second time am out.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 06:14 PM
3

Am so sorry.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 02:37 AM
2

Am sorry for the troubles you going through.q My family is still pushing me to get married and tells me not to be scared of divorce rape. No one in my family or friends talk about this divorce problems. They keep saying it won't be a problem if I marry a good woman.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/21 06:48 PM
9

Thats a lot of money just for your freedom. I appreciate you guys exposing the problems that marriage could lead to. I am not married and I don't plan to. The issue is that almost every girl I meet want to get married, but I am still standing my ground and not gonna do it.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/21 01:30 AM
1

Since you know everything pertaining this case. Why don't you provide your evidence so that the guy can be sent back to prison. Maybe that will make you fee better. Please provide your evidence.
/r/MensRights29/11/21 04:11 PM
1

This happens frequently and its not fair. She is not going to comment and apologize for ruining a man's life because that will be acknowledging that she lied about her rapist. She also made a fortune by writing a book on it. I am glad that the guy was exonerated and is now a free man. Goddammit. Am just imagining spending the rest of my life in prison for a crime I didn't commit. .
/r/MensRights29/11/21 04:07 PM
2

Get a security pin on your phone. And browse the internet using Incognito or private so your activities online are not save in browser history.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/21 06:45 PM
12

Jesus. This is scary but true.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 12:22 AM
1

You are very wise.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/21 11:43 PM
1

Trust you gut and Get out.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/21 07:47 PM
1

Yeah wtf. That is fucked up. She had no love and used the guy to get what she want and discard him like toilet paper.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/21 04:10 AM
5

Please do not mary gain OP. The next Lady you meet will tell you she'll never do that to you.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/21 09:35 AM
5

That is unfair on you, but again it looks like this is what happens when people get married. She is getting paid for your own hard labor.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 07:14 PM
1

She can still hang out with him without telling you about it.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:06 AM
6

She is gaslighting you and making you feel bad even though you are doing spending a lot of time with the kids and still paying her. You might need to get a lawyer because the games she is playing with you seems to be unfair. Sorry for what you going through. I can only imagine how difficult the issue is.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/21 09:43 PM
5

Try snooping through her phone. You will see clues and probably find the reason of why she has been acting like that.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/21 02:34 AM
1

Have you considered that even if you wait until you marry her till you have sex. She may not be into the sexual stuff that you like or maybe you both then realized that you not sexually compatible? Those maybe something to think about.
/r/MGTOW224/05/21 10:14 AM
2

Until its time to cashout.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/21 07:52 AM
1

Sorry for going through that. It seems you still care and love her. But am thinking, what if you give her another chance and fast forward many years you now have a kid with her. Then you are pretty much tied to her with the child. I think its very hard to change an adult behavior. They have to wanna change by themself.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/21 04:40 PM
5

They always unknowingly snitch on themselves.
/r/MGTOW12/05/21 03:06 AM
1

You are right. It could have been worse if he married are and then after many year she blow up the family because "am not happy 😒 ".
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 04:30 PM
2

In my opinion, I think you are right. Both words seem to convey the same message. "Its all about me. To hell with everyone else". Just incase you are interested, I follow this guy on youtube. He also provide great intell about the nature of women and understanding them. https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCDbt-UiSX8Eip_pikIvRr1A
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 04:23 PM
1

The richest men in the world can't keep them happy. An average guy most likely have no chance doing that.
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 04:17 PM
1

That a classic Solipsism behavior.
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 04:16 PM
1

There is no point arguing with the comment. Some can't think from a logical point of view. It's all about feelings.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/21 02:44 AM
2

Am sorry. But I really don't understand the culture and why women decide they want divorce and then tell the husband to move out of the house. Why? The house most of the time is financed by the husband, but still when they are not happy anymore, then the husband must move out. It just don't make sense to me, why they always want the guy to move out and even ask for 50% share of a property that they didn't pay anything towards in the past.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/21 11:29 PM
2

Have you considered trying to be alone and solve this divorce issue before you go back to dating.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/21 12:29 PM
3

Sorry but when people show you who they are believe them. You can't make people love or like you.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/21 11:37 PM
2

Look at your story as if a friend came to you with the same story. What will your advise be? Will you tell your friend to work himself to death just to please a parasitic wife or Wil you tell him to find a way to end relationship with the wife. Honestly, I know its easier said than done. But only you have control regarding this issue.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/21 04:57 PM
5

I think you should keep your savings separated. In case you guys start to not enjoy each other company and she starts with the "am not happy anymore". You have your own savings to yourself. I had a friend whose wife withdraw all the savings in their account during divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/21 02:42 PM
1

Been married 18 years is a long time and am sure you have a solid bond with her even though she don't feel like that anymore. It seems like there's you just have to let her explore and do her thing, she has already left anyways. No point trying to be with someone that don't wanna be with you.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/21 01:56 PM
1

Funny shit.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/21 02:58 AM
2

That's the word. Psychopath. It's always about them. To hell with every other person.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/21 02:39 AM
2

Am sorry this happened to you. Karma is real and its not going to end well for her. It might take time but she is gonna get what's coming to her. Please reach out to friends and family to vent to or even a therapist. This is sad and am really upset.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/21 01:48 AM
4

We live in a fucked up world.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/21 04:21 AM
5

Don't not apologize for going through the laptop. Let her go find the thrill she is looking for, but you will not be a backup plan because that is what crazy women like her do. She was manipulating you mentally, saying she don't feel safe but she feel safe spreading her legs online.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/21 04:17 AM
1

They seems to know that they are been used as pump and dump, but they don't care and will rather enjoy the ride for as long as it last. I mean why should they care when they have 100+ message on dating profile everyday.
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 03:15 AM
1

It dosen't matter. You have to pay monetarily or in so many other unpleasant ways when dealing with women.
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 03:09 AM
2

Here's the thing, if you take off the cake and makeup on her face, you probably will be surprised at what she really looks like.
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 01:52 AM
1

Sorry. You just learn from it and don't throw your career away for anyone. Also, let the anger you have go away. Don't try to talk to her or argue with her, because you'll still lose at the end.
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 01:50 AM
0

It's hard i know. And you must really love her for choosing not to move on. Here is the thing Bro Try and think about this, "Why will you want to be with someone who doesn't wanna be with you"? You have tried keeping in contact with her, and you said she is now condescending and talking down on you. I think its time to accept that you two are not together anymore and find a way to move on to someone else. You were able to have a relationship with her in the past, then you should be able to find …
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 11:39 PM
1

Check this out. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_s7aAcNQbJI
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 06:59 PM
5

Can you provide context on what she does that makes you hate her?
/r/MGTOW209/03/21 03:45 AM
1

Set up a meet up time asap. You are not the only guy she's talking to.
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 06:38 PM
4

Do I last try. Ask her to hangout. Invite her over to your place or go to her place. Then escalate from there. If she gives you excuse of not been available and don't wanna reschedule. Keep it moving. Its Tinder ma dawg. It's 1 girl vs attention from 50 dudes.
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 06:37 PM
6

She needs your attention even when she knows she don't like you like that. Its mental gymnastics that they play. Once she find who she really like out of all her options then she cut you off and you will be ghosted. Use your energy into something more productive or find a girl is gonna be begging you to plow her back.
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 06:24 PM
20

You are wasting your time. She is not that into you and next time when a girl does that in front of you. Its a wrap. Just leave. Summary. She is not that into you.
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 06:14 PM
6

Bruv, you are 28. Why do you give a fuck about what a 60 year woman thinks. You should be busy with your own life. Block the bitch and don't respond to her anymore.
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 02:47 PM
13

Stop torturing yourself. If she was that into you she would have suggested a different day to hangout. Trying to be friends with her won't do you any good. The appointment was for a dick session. Let go of her and find someone else. Nothing good is gonna come from this.
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 02:43 PM
1

This is a good example that men have no right regarding reproduction. The broad already determined she's gonna keep the baby even though she barely knew the guy and the guy don't seem to want the baby, but again he should have strapped up.
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 02:40 PM
2

Why did you fuck without wearing a rubber?
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 03:10 PM
4

Pls if you gonna date again. Don't tell them any negative things or issues you are going through. Majority of them don't wanna know and they will run when they hear any of your problems.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 12:47 PM
3

Thats the way it it, am sorry. The truth is, its not that you were not a good match. The truth is that she believe she have multiple options and will go for guys that give her tingles which after sex will dump her after sex. But the guys that actually have genuine interest in her which she called "kind or good guy" she will not give them a chance until she hit the wall and need a provider.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 12:43 PM
13

They always tell men in difficult situation to man up. All the fucking time.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 11:51 PM
46

You will get through it at last. Just keep fighting till you get a reasonable decision from the judge. We men always adapt and find a way. And sorry for going through this difficult time. Did you ever think she could do something like this when you married her? Am Just curious.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 10:28 PM
34

Man. I am speechless. Looks like Greg Adams was right. The hope strategy is not a sure thing. I once asked my ex why she really want to be legally married after she's been bothering me about it. She said "I want to make sure that whoever i am with can't easily just leave later"
/r/MGTOW219/02/21 04:44 PM
1

Monsanto is too big of a company with top notch lobbyists.
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 07:34 PM
4

If he is happy, let him be. Am sure if he could get girls that he was actually attracted to, he won't have to settle for less.
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 07:33 PM
1

Majority of them want guys who can solve their problems and therapists boyfriend. You check out and see majority of women dating profile bio states the follwoing: I want a man to do this, do that, make me happy. Rarely do they ever mention what they bring to the relationship other than sex.
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 07:31 PM
1

You don't owe them relationship too just becos you fuck em.
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 07:53 PM
1

I heard it on Jokers channel too. Am sure the lady would have told him at some point that: "I will never do that to you" "Am not like that".
/r/MGTOW213/02/21 09:59 PM
9

Thats all cool. But why can't a man and woman who love each other live together and procreate without having big daddy government into their romantic life. A guy who had a partner for many years did what you suggested in Canada. They weren't living together when they were in relationship. After breakup. The lady took him to court. She won and the guy have to pay about 50k a month for ten years. How do you like that?
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 04:00 PM
2

Look man. If a wife is what you want. You have to have a tough skin and not really be offended by entitled girls who who had a video chat with. This girls don't care because they have several options and offers from men. You have your life set right financially and physically. So probably just need a little game to get girls. Also. Try to lower your standard in the girls you want. If you are into a 7, date a 6 and see how it goes. The truth is evern if you find the wife you are looking for, they…
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 07:41 PM
11

Am not part of the problem since I have seen the light. I dont bother dating anymore cos I know it most likely not gonna end well and everything is always the fault of men. No accountability to women. Also what the fuck has the world turn into? You as a man can't show any sign of vulnerability or weakness to the woman you are with. If you do, majority of them run away from you: but when they show weakness most men will console them and try to be there for them.
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 08:53 PM
27

The 60 year old guy is not good enough, but she will milk all the resource she can get and discard him for guys who just wanna pump and dump.
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 08:18 PM
27

It's starts like this. All I want is you, I don't care about money. Then you loose your job or can't afford to contribute to the Disney trip she wants. Am really worried about our future.
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 01:15 PM
10

Oopsie, I swear I was on the pill. You know I am against abortion.
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 01:12 PM
2

DO NOT TAKE THIS CUMDUSTER BACK. ITS GONNA END IN PAIN JUST LIKE THE FIRST TIME.
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 05:53 PM
13

A vast majority of them are dream killers. And love you for what you can provide now and in future. You can deal with them but we aware of the risk involved.
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 04:06 PM
3

I know its not easy letting her go but do you really feel free from her telling you why she left? All she is telling you is how she is a victim of her own making. You were in a bad place for 4 year and I don't see in the text anywhere where she asked about how you are doing. One thing you should learn from her dumping you is that you were not good enough for her even though you did your best.. Am not saying that something is wrong with you or that you are not attractive. But you can never satisf…
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 02:48 PM
17

Its because you have a different pov from the subreddit you commented. Its like going to a Christian sub reddit and arguing if they are sure that heaven is real.
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 02:38 PM
1

The guy played the long game. Checked in after sex to get the text as evidence that it was consensual.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 04:26 PM
1

She looks like a can of busted Pillsbury biscuit dough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 03:56 PM
1

She can't get additional welfare from the government with abortion and she can't take the father to court for child support. Its a win win situation for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 03:53 PM
1

This is the problem with society. If a woman is reckless and have kids by several men. They give her a pat in the back, console and help her. If a guy keep knocking up multiple girls and impregnate them. They call him a loser and no one try to assist him or give him the help he needs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 03:52 PM
3

I really don't know what the fuck this world has come to. All this entitlement cos of the thing between her legs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 12:08 AM
4

"Why are you men holding me accountable for my past. I had no choice. And I now want to wait to be married before sex". Probably what she is thinking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/21 11:52 PM
1

If you feel like you want to explore other girls, why not talk to her and explain the issue to her. Some girls are cool with their man seeing other girls. Maybe if you try out other girls, you may not like them or maybe you will. Be honest and talk to her about your dilemma.
/r/MGTOW205/02/21 12:07 AM
5

The female moderator in deadbedroom also banned me for giving a young teenager advice on leaving his gf who won't have sex with him for a long time.
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 10:54 PM
7

Consider Changing you phone no. She knows your weakness and will continue taking advantage until she fond some1 better and then she disappear from your life.
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 10:49 PM
13

One of the reason why I felt uneasy about been with my ex. We both agreed to have no kids. Then her sister gave birth to a boy and has been bothering me that she wants kids and I told her I don't. Her reply was that "if you dont want kids, I may have to start poking holes in condoms". That made me speechless.
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 09:11 PM
26

She told you one of the children is not your. And she still expect you to pay. Am really sorry. You unknowingly married the devil.
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 08:39 PM
7

Stop feeding her free attention. That is all she came here for. No point arguing with her cos she won't think logically.
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 07:01 PM
44

I do follow the group. Its makes me a little depressed seeing what happens to couples who were ones in love and the betrayal that occur at the end. It's makes me think twice before getting back into another ltr or even casual fling.
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 06:00 PM
1

Just curious. Do you talk to her and let her know that you only do things to please her and that she dosent even consider your own pov regarding the things that she want?
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/21 03:52 PM
1

Ask her why. Talk to her.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/21 04:14 PM
1

What i don't really understand is after they break up with you. Then they move to the next guy easily like you never existed. While you been in love is mourning the relationship end.
/r/MGTOW228/01/21 02:58 PM
1

Keep ghost mode strong on this thotiana.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:35 AM
1

This same girl you are worried about won't give 0 fuck about you if the roles was turned around and you are the one begging her. Don't respond. She reap what she sowed. She wanted a new cock and got used and dumped. She probably taught she can do better than stay with you. Fuck her. She can go to hell.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:32 AM
10

You are plan b. Plan a didnt work out.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:29 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW2/comments/l3lu49/a_warning_for_any_potential_ltrs/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/MGTOW226/01/21 07:01 AM
2

Sorry. Next time go straight to the point make your intention clear from the beginning. You learn from mistake. Don't be too hard on yoirself.
/r/MGTOW226/01/21 06:52 AM
2

I understand. She might comeback when her new bf dump her. Moreover, what advice do you have for a young guy like myself because all this stories make me sacred of ever getting married, even though personally I prefer to have a family and monogamy.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/21 05:17 PM
3

Am sorry but this is frightening. You guys were together for 16 years and she decided to blow everything up after going out with friends. Looks like its true that you can never make them happy.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/21 04:29 PM
4

Lay down the pipe real good bruh.
/r/MGTOW222/01/21 12:55 PM
9

Lol. I heard retainer fee to get a lawyer during divorce can range from 8k to 25k. Ma ma mia.
/r/MGTOW222/01/21 04:46 AM
3

Can't turn a 304 into a housewife.
/r/MGTOW222/01/21 04:35 AM
11

Hypergamy alert.
/r/MGTOW222/01/21 04:32 AM
12

Her body count. Multiply the 70s by 2. How do you like that. Hope that makes you love her more.
/r/MGTOW222/01/21 04:25 AM
2

Its your turn with her for right now, enjoy it until she pull out the "am not happy" card.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:45 PM
7

Multiply her 13 body count by 3. She didn't tell you the truth
/r/askTRP21/01/21 02:55 PM
23

Looks like you can see the light now. If you had ended your life over the girl, her life will continue and she won't care, but you will cause irreversible and eternal pain for your parents and family.
/r/MGTOW221/01/21 10:35 AM
2

Anyone notice that she didn't try to beg him or convince him to make things work. The monkey branch was in the process and on the way to happen.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 02:10 AM
1

😁😆
/r/MGTOW220/01/21 05:38 PM
3

She don't respect you and also don't love you. She dosent even give you one of the above listed qualities you gain from been with a woman. My question is that what's the point of staying in such relationships?
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/21 08:13 PM
1

Don't worry. Your girl is not like the other girls. Rigjt?
/r/MGTOW216/01/21 06:34 AM
6

He's not gonna listen. He's probably gonna learn the hard way. Like he said, his gf is not like the other girls.
/r/MGTOW216/01/21 06:29 AM
3

Sorry Bro. This must be hard on you. Please keep in contact with a therapist to have someone to talk/vent to. Also maybe keep in contact with a close friend who you trust and discuss your problems with. The only thing that you can do since you relationship isn't working anymore after you've tried is to seek your own happiness but find a way to still be in your kids life. Since you said the only thing that makes you happy is spending time with your kids. Maybe try and talk to a lawyer to see what…
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/21 03:21 AM
1

Holly cow. Like wtf.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 06:41 PM
1

Sorry for dealing with situation. But I have a question, when you first meet your wife, did you ever taught she will treat you like this. Did she show any sign that she was this bad?
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/21 10:27 AM
2

I feel you and what you says make sense. Tough love from trp may help him. I think him blaming himself for the divorce and still thinking about his ex is coming from a scarcity mindset and thinking she is the "one" and the best he can get. I myself currently have the same problem like him but I am trying hard to shake it off and get better.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/20 12:50 PM
1

Don't do that. They will roast you like crazy. You really don't wanna post there.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/20 12:23 AM
2

Bro, this is pretty dark. Am having hard time understanding how some of this girl operate.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:21 AM
1

Spice things up. Stop doing the same routine with her.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 07:06 PM
2

Always wear a condom. Maybe get a plan b and get her tested for pregnancy.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:51 PM
1

You can't make her do shit bro. You can either refuse to accept the behavior and end things or you tolerate this even when you've told her multiple times and she don't care. Either way she seems to have to respect for you. I bet if you dig through her phone you will be surprised at what you find out.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:46 PM
1

Live your life for you. You aren't a kid anymore at 24. Unless you still live with your parents or depend on them for finances. Just do what make you happy. If you still depend on them, keep doing your own thing and lie to them until you are independent and then you can do whatever the fuck u want to.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:38 PM
16

Lets think about this. You said she ventured back to dating app when you guys are serious. Why will she open dating app if she really have what she want in a guy. Am not saying you are not good enough, but she was not satisfied. She was definitely looking for better option. She is not that into you, and she probably settle for you. Get out now. You may love her now but you really don't know her until when the divorce start. Most people will show you who they really her at the end, when they can'…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:18 AM
2

Don't be afraid of the unknown. Baby step, 1 step at a time and you will adapt to the new lifestyle and find someone who fit your lifestyle. Be in contact with your old close friends or even start calling your family just to be close to somebody. Also, maybe spend more of your time doing extra work or overtime just to keep you busy.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 01:48 AM
0

I think he do still speak well considering he never went to college.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 09:52 PM
1

Sorry that must be tough on you.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/20 07:57 PM
1

Walk away. You are been friend zoned.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 11:52 AM
2

I feel you. So who initiated the divorce?
/r/askTRP19/12/20 11:48 AM
1

You right on point. But he's playing with fire. The crazy is coming out subtly.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 11:45 AM
1

"I want to get married" "When are you gonna get me a ring" "Marry me know or leave"
/r/askTRP19/12/20 11:44 AM
1

Look bro. Do what makes you happy. Every1 is out for themselves. If you were in same situation, she will branch swing to other guys with a stable good future career.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 11:40 AM
9

Bro. You do you. I really feel sorry for you. I used to be you who used to believe these girls who say "Am not the like the other girls" "I don't do that". Come to find out she's been doing community service to multiple guys on Tinder after breakup. And the next guy she get in relationship with, she's also gonna tell him the same story, am not like the other girls, I don't do this and that. Look bro, you gonna have to learn the hard way.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 01:39 AM
2

Enjoy your turn with her. Its gonna come to an end. Find another option to keep you occupied and then won't have to deal with her drama and games.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 01:01 AM
2

She is slowly fading away and hope you get the hint. People still find a way to hookup even in covid times. Give the new girl a shot. Its every1 for themselves out here.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 12:50 AM
16

Multiple her body count number by maybe 5. Do you really think she will tell you the truth.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 12:47 AM
3

Think about it this way. Your ex at this moment don't give a fuck about you and is sucking another guy. Why will you let her live rent free in your head. Find another replacement and find a way to forget your narcissist ex.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 05:26 AM
9

Love you for right now as long as you keep showering me with attention.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 01:59 AM
3

Man, this is a fucked up question She don't like you like that. Abort mission.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 08:16 PM
1

Leave this cheater ex gf alone. Listen to what everyone is telling you and consider what they are saying. This is never gonna end well for you bro. You stay with this girl you also risk getting diseases and her pushing a pregnancy that's not your to you. Dump the bitch now while you can.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:14 AM
1

Choosing to bring a child to the world when the guy already said he dont want a baby.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:55 PM
1

Its hard wired in most men. The ones who are totally able to stay away from women and live the monk lifestyle might be able to do so after experiencing divorce rape and having first hand experience of the nacisit nature of women.
/r/MGTOW230/11/20 03:56 PM
2

Always escalate. She wants the D but you didn't give her, so she left.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 12:31 AM
1

The positive: you accomplished one thing in your bucket list.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:53 PM
1

Why not leave now when he can than possibly getting baby trapped.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:08 PM
6

Yep. They still fucking.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:06 PM
1

Cant blame him, he was young and didnt know better. He loved her unconditionally and was repaid with unkindness. Sometime a man have to learn the hard way to grow up and be better. Am sure he learn his lesson and know better now.
/r/MGTOW227/11/20 05:24 PM
1

The classic phrase they tell guys "i am not happy" "something is missing". Majority of them don't love men, they love the validation we give them and love how we make them feel. Thats about it.
/r/MGTOW227/11/20 05:21 PM
3

I am so happy that you two have no kids. This should be a easy breakup between you both. Sorry you going through this. Do what you got to do. Rub one off by yourself. Talk to your close trusted friends about what you going through and always keep moving forward Brother/Sir.
/r/MGTOW227/11/20 04:58 PM
1

Free validation they get online even which also sometimes come directly from good looking attractive guys who can't get laid but just validate her just to bust a nut, then bounce.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 02:19 PM
1

It ok. You cry now, but you'll laugh later at the end.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:59 AM
1

It is what it is bruh. Hypergamy is real. No need to be mad at girls. Just accept them for who they are m
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:55 AM
5

Just really curious, why do some people turn into a total different person/enemy when a relationship ends? Am just wondering and thinking such people would have behaved in a loving and caring manner at some point during the relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/20 02:44 AM
2

All the best with the court hearing.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/20 03:52 PM
1

From 1 african brother to another. Is this the best woman you can have? Do you intend to live your life been disrespected and raising a child with a bitch of your girlfriend. You do realize that you don't have to be with the girl just because you impregnated her. You could be involved with the child's life even though you are not with the mother anymore.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 11:13 AM
8

I see you are in a difficult situation. I don't really have experience in this kind of thing but I think its better to stay away from having sex with her so you can get used to been on your own. Unless you think you can still be able to just have sex without any emotional connection with her. I guess that may be a hard thing to do since you've been together for so long.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/20 04:04 PM
1

Congrats. Would you ever consider getting married again?
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/20 03:00 PM
4

Sorry you going through this. Try and find a way to cope and keep moving forward.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/20 03:14 PM
3

I understand how you feel. But your life must go on.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/20 11:53 AM
20

All hell break loose after telling her that. Most of them don't wanna hear the truth no matter how nice u say it.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 12:26 AM
5

You can have kids without getting married.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 06:47 AM
1

Its social programming and ignorance. Will have done the same if I didnt know better
/r/askTRP08/09/20 06:39 AM
3

I swear a lot of this girl have mental problems.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 05:05 PM
1

Look enjoy your turn with her while you can. She's not yours. It's just your turn for right now. Tell her you guys are done if she goes to the date.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:53 AM
1

I think its the way you text them. What you do is talk to the girl on tinder to get to know her preferably the same day and ask her when she is free. Ask for her number and set up a date with location and time preferable at night/ evening time. You don't need to be texting her before the dates and asking her if she is still on for the date unless she contact you.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:24 PM
29

Don't trip Bro. At least you know u dealing with an entitiled princess. Don't bend over your own rules for a girl who will most likely ghost you.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 12:34 AM
9

That should tell you she settled for you. I think only a mentally retarded person will say the shit she told you while you both were on a date. Listen, when people show you who they really are, you should believe them. You've been having great flag but this is the first red one. Don't contact again until she reach out to you and turn her to side piece. Nothing serious from now on.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 06:17 AM
1

Do you have friends who are experienced and are already fucking? They may be usefull resource to consult with.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:40 PM
1

Not necessarily if he ain't getting any at the moment ma nigga. All am trying to say is that his past or present experience about women and dealing with relationship will make him qualified to give you advice about it.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:34 PM
8

Would be a good idea only if the father is actually a leader and knows what he is doing in his relationship.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:30 PM
3

What qualities do you want in a girlfriend? Does she have majority of the qualities and are you ok with her just staying with you just because you provide her a stable life and resource?
/r/askTRP23/08/20 12:11 AM
3

Look Bro, I understand it sounds like a joke now, then next she will intensify her shit test and call you worse names. You just need to check her and show are by your actions that you won't tolerate any further disrespect. They don't stop but will keep poking you with test to see how far you will allow it before you lay boundaries for her.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 09:08 PM
11

Your girl has a foul mouth.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 08:52 PM
8

Look man, I know the pussy must be good, but are you really gonna let her walk over you with disrespect. She is not gonna stop but will keep on disrespecting you with disrespect. Ignore her but when you meet next time,, you need to call her out on this bulshit. They don't stop but intensify the disrespect.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 11:50 PM
12

Next time keep your side flings to your self and stay away from the fucker who snitched on you.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 10:34 AM
3

"Dont worry about him, he's just a friend" "Don't you trust me"
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:51 AM
1

Ask her out. Yu got nothing to loose.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 12:07 AM
3

Your girl have mental problems. She need help and you need to stay away asap.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 11:35 PM
14

It means you should "be her dancing monkey".
/r/askTRP20/08/20 11:30 PM
1

Funny shit.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 05:59 PM
1

Block her no, block on social media. Take some time to yourself and find another girl.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 05:58 PM
13

Do not apologize. Don't do that. You already lost and been friendzoned for a long time. She can go crazy all she want if she can't take a joke. Again don't apologize.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 05:45 PM
3

Why is it disgusting, if that's what he prefers and the two have mutual feelings for each other?
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:53 PM
1

This is you only option.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 09:00 PM
1

Most women will always leave you and there's nothing you do that will satisfy them (they always want more). You will be hurt for now but you have to accept reality that its over. Talk to friends and family for emotional help and try not to derive your happiness and self worth from women.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:25 PM
1

Tell her you had stuff to do. Then go straight to the point and ask for a date.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 10:36 PM
3

In my opinion and experience, online dating is a waste of time if you are not really attractive. Some might get lucky regardless. You may be better off opening a tinder account just to fuck.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:29 PM
10

Sleaze ball gang all day ma nigga.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 06:37 AM
3

Choose a major that will make you the most money. Dont go study some useless major which might be hard to get a job after college.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:22 PM
8

Please explain further. I cruise around in my bike but I dont get any feeling synonymous to sex from biking.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 01:22 PM
1

She sounds like a freeloader.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 02:20 PM
4

Ok. I understand.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:31 PM
26

Her action already indicates she wants out cos of your bankruptcy situation. I would focus on getting your finances together and worry less about her. It's during difficult times that you'll know who really genuinely got your back.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:17 PM
3

Always pay attention to their action and not what they say. Move the fuck on Bro. Hanging on to her will continue to hurt you.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 08:18 PM
4

Accept women for who they truly are. You will be liberated and then just continually live you life, therefore no revenge needed.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:41 AM
1

Poetic justice. You on point bruda.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 01:12 AM
53

Look. Committing suicide because of a girl wont change a thing but rather make you look pathetic and a loser. In fact the girl will laugh about you and still continue fucking other while you are gone. I know you having a tough time. Find a way brother and get up. Talk to therapists and your family for emotional help.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 06:43 PM
2

Nah bro. Am one of his students.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 05:37 PM
9

Sell them a dream, fuck me and toss me to side of the road.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 02:02 AM
12

Doesn't matter. It's the effort that count.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 03:33 PM
4

Keep trying and making moves on her. She must like you to allow you coming over, kissing and all that shit. Dont give up yet.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:10 AM
1

Some will like you and some wont. That's the way it is.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 10:23 AM
4

Man. This shit is true.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 09:04 AM
2

Stop giving a fuck. Keep doing your own thing.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 02:02 AM
2

Bro, enjoy your turn while it last. She'll do what she wanna do. You just have to decide if you can tolerate the behaviour.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 10:28 AM
2

Ignore and withdraw attention. If she really wanna fuck, she'll change and be all over our dick.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:43 AM
3

Don't respond to her when she calls you. block her no. Spend your time on productive things. What she says don't matter, only her action matters.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:39 AM
1

Sorry, she is probably getting too comfortable or not that into you. The problem I see is that you had to threaten her with breaking up before she turned into a sex fiend and had sex with you last night.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 12:30 AM
2

Shes probably searching for attention. Keep ignoring her.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 03:47 AM
7

His advices is on point, logical and against how men are programed to behave socially. I learnt a lot of dating game from him. His videos are just always long, but not boring.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 04:31 AM
1

Stop feeding her attention. Shes an attention whore who isnt interested. Move on.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:26 PM
1

Change shit up Bro. Whatever you doing isnt working.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 06:30 PM
1

Listen Bro. She needs you now cos of how you make feel. Enjoy your turn now cos she will leave when someone better shows up.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:59 AM
1

Help us unthot this little thot.
/r/MGTOW08/01/20 03:49 PM
0

Better for you two meet each other at a somewhat middle location where you both live. Don't trip Bro and waste your time cos she might flake on the date. Have a back up just in case. Rescheduled for a time that is convenient for you aswell, not just for her alone.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 07:52 PM
8

She wanted to fuck which i why she came to see you. Communicate with your actions and not words. Next time dont ask if she's in the mood. Just go for it, starting with foreplay prefarably. If she pulls away, pull back and try again few minutes later. The thing is, you learn from mistakes and can't win the all. Also, text is for setting up dates or meetups. You dont wanna be her pen-pall. I would say you are better focusing and investing your time on your class/studies than worrying about the bit…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:41 PM
1

Do you like crazy and unstable girls? Girls that love drama? If the answer is yes, go ahead Bro.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 03:59 PM
14

Get your money back dawg. If the scenario was reserved and it was you talking shit about her and owe her money, she will go all crazy and make your life hell untill to get hee money back. Its not your problem that she is broke. Get your money back, if she don't pay take her to small claims court.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:15 PM
1

Find other girls and leave that bitch alone.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 05:56 PM
1

And start saving for future alimony payments.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 03:54 PM
11

You are not getting sex and the attention hoe is not letting people know you two are together. You are 17. Leave and look for another girl who will give you some.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 03:50 PM
1

Pursue your purpose bro. Lift, work more hours (overtime if you can), find another girl and make more moeny
/r/askTRP25/10/19 04:56 PM
2

Sorry dawg. Looks like we men are fucked either way in this metoo era. If i were you, i will go with Mrskinnypennis comment just to get evidence. Looks like ur ex is one of those bipolar girls.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 04:52 PM
3

No sex, no attention or small talks from you, Period its done. She is using sex to control you. Just let the bitch go. Ignore her calls and find another girl (am not sure you are gonna be able to do this cos it seems like u still into this girl).
/r/askTRP24/10/19 03:15 PM
1

Bro, you believing her word that she is clean just lke that. If you catch something from her she will get defensive and deny it. Never believe her unless you see a recent std test result.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 06:10 PM
2

Block this gold digging bitch on phone. Why do you give her all this attention.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:44 PM
1

Replace her. Case closed
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:37 PM
1

I have experienced what you talking about. But regardless, if you dont approach you get no pussy. Youll have to face your fear, be rejected and try other potential opportunities again until you get what you want.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 05:01 PM
5

Unles you have money reserved for child support payments.I wouldn't go raw at your age.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:57 PM
1

Money and success is the ultimate equalizer Bro. Focus on engineering major that will make you the most bucks, electrical, chemical, chemical or software engineering, or any other major thats lucrative. Be successful bro.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:41 PM
1

Ignore. you cant react to every unimportant thing that people throw at you.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 02:38 PM
1

Look Bro she doesn't give a fuck about you, she will do whatever the fuck she want. Probably use u to get free shrooms too. You dont wanna be friends, just ignore her and be cool about the whole thing.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 02:32 PM
0

Smash...
/r/askTRP06/09/19 03:08 PM
1

You shouldn't be asking question like this. What benefit do you get if she won't choke on your dick. Or you can be her puppy and let her use sex to control you until marriage. Man, fuck this bitches using sex for manipulation. Find another girl, damn it.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:38 PM
3

Make sure you fuck her to sleep.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:29 PM
3

Yep. She's not special. Never put her on the pedestal or you'll fuck thing up.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:10 PM
1

You cunning mudafarker.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:06 PM
3

Listen. Everyone is giving you solid advice. Make sure your major in college is something that is lucrative and you won't have trouble getting work when you graduate. Always strap up and never bust a nut inside college girls.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 10:36 PM
2

Hard NEXT NIGAA!
/r/askTRP01/09/19 10:02 PM
6

I think you handled the situation. She will do whatever the fuck she want to anyways. Look Bro. I have been following your story. Dont be a dickhead. Just fucking give her breadcrumbs validation that she wants and tell her few times when going balls deep that you love her. You not expressing it is making Her go crazy. She wants to hear you say it to believe that you are really into her. Also, why are you fucking her without straping up? Do you really want her to use pregnancy to trick you into m…
/r/askTRP01/09/19 04:45 AM
3

Ignore, delete her no and don't respond.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 03:53 PM
6

She is now too comfortable with you. Phone is for setting dates and not calling for hours or texttng all day.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:08 PM
5

Dont commit into LTR if you wanna fuck around. Just because she said the three letter word dont mean you ltr her and accept it like a puppy. Decide what is good for you.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:05 PM
2

I used to be you in college. When anyone you find them showing interest in you. Introduce yourself and get her number. Then call her to set up a date. Some may reject you but practicing will help u develop confidence. You seem to be an attractive guy, which helps a lot. Just be more confident and don't give a fuck who is watching cos you are the one who's gonna be balls deep later in the girl.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 05:17 PM
1

Next time it happens. Don't respond. Just shrug it off and find something to keep yourself busy at thag time. I Reduce the no of time you see her during the week too. Try to be unpredictable and switch shit up. If she is still into you she'll come around, but if she doesn't then you move on.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 06:44 PM
1

Dont waist yourtime with her. She found a better offer and she isn't interested. If she ever contact you again, tell her to come hangout in your apartment. She'll probably say no but you have nothing to loose anyways.?
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:44 PM
1

You are already balling Bro and have no problem approaching. Move on to the next.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 12:37 PM
0

What the fuck is this? You are married and shes giving Blowjobs and hjs with condom. Pls explain why you are allowing this?
/r/askTRP11/07/19 12:28 PM
1

Invest on yourself and focus on your purpose. You cant loose money this way.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 07:04 PM
2

Youve got a great point. But what about the time spent and sleepless night raising the kid?
/r/askTRP03/07/19 05:13 PM
1

Definitely. Most of them are cold heartless bitches. Scrolling through phones for their next simp.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 01:34 PM
2

Its ok Bro. You tried but you'll learn from the mistakes and do better next time. Telling girls that you are a virgin typically is a turn off for most of them. You should make up a body count when she asked. She was ready to fuck, and you should have just undressed her and do little foreplay before leaving your nut hanging out. You shouldn't have asked if she wanted to go for the real thing. Just lead, do it and no need for the question and also about condom preference. Talk less and escalate qu…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 12:44 PM
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