| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 86 | I realized I have some sex anxiety . Need help | gloshotta | /r/seduction | 18/11/17 09:27 PM | |
| 34 | 3 months in. Former 22 year old virgin. To they guys down rn u can do it | gloshotta | /r/seduction | 30/11/17 08:13 PM | |
| 16 | Should I tell my partner about my performance anxiety. | gloshotta | /r/seduction | 01/01/18 04:55 PM | |
| 8 | Text game rules for when she text you daily | gloshotta | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 02:11 AM | |
| 6 | What does it mean when a girl says she talks about you a lot ? | gloshotta | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 04:31 PM | |
| 3 | How do I act as a boyfriend | gloshotta | /r/seduction | 29/12/17 01:06 AM | |
| 0 | Ok so I need advice | gloshotta | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 10:54 PM | |
| 0 | Best ways to break rapport | gloshotta | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 04:42 AM | |
| 0 | What should I do ? | gloshotta | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 11:20 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Should I tell my partner about my performance anxiety.She was cool about it. She respects 100% of the time and chases my validation because I've done everything right. So she was almost happy to talk about it because she wants me to fuck the shit out of her . Which I have 1 time before but mainly I've just gotten head from her cuz I'm lazy . I'm so in my head it's ridiculos. Because I feel more pressure because this only has happened with her. So it makes the anxiety worse. I could fuck another girl no prob with no pressure | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Should I tell my partner about my performance anxiety.Been talking to her for about 3 months. Just got together a few weeks ago. I let her bring it up and it took her a while to build the confidence. I could tell she was thinking about a relationship a few weeks before we got together but I didn't wanna bring it up because If she wasn't ready it would have blown up in my face . Always better for it to be her idea | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 05:03 AM |
| 19 | Should I tell my partner about my performance anxiety.This gives me so much confidence. Thank you. I'm talking with her in an hour | /r/seduction | 01/01/18 07:45 PM |
| 7 | Should I tell my partner about my performance anxiety.Yes and the neves are still there. I can't get hard at all. It calms the anxiety briefly but I get more anxious cuz I'm not hard. But when I'm not with her I get hard easy. My heard pounds so fast that it's uncomfortable as fuck | /r/seduction | 01/01/18 05:03 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when a girl says she talks about you a lot ?I just honestly don't have a very good self esteem so it's hard for me to accept that someone likes me when I don't like myself that much | /r/seduction | 22/12/17 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Being too afraid to have sex with girls? Even when I know they really like meI have had bad sex anxiety with this girl I've been messing with. But I just tell myself to calm down and focus on the moment. When u get in your head you get anxiety. So I normally go in slow with a lot of foreplay and I make myself comfortable. It's gotten better | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 04:16 PM |
| 2 | What is your most recommended YouTube channel that deals with seduction/self improvement?Corey Wayne | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Had a chat for 3 hours with a beautiful Chica I randomly planned lunch with. How to follow up with her and keep her interested in me? 20/m never had a gf nor a date or kiss before. Any help is appreciated.You do got this bro! Watch Corey Wayne videos on YouTube . He changed my life in 3 months. I was a 22 year old virgin who only had 2 kisses. Now I got an awesome girl because of his work who fucks my brains out lol | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Had a chat for 3 hours with a beautiful Chica I randomly planned lunch with. How to follow up with her and keep her interested in me? 20/m never had a gf nor a date or kiss before. Any help is appreciated.Flirt with her. Go out on dates a lover would go to not a friend. Just don't act like just her friend . And on the first date go for the kiss. Best and quickest way to find out if she likes you so you don't waste anymore time | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 11:53 PM |
| 4 | Had a chat for 3 hours with a beautiful Chica I randomly planned lunch with. How to follow up with her and keep her interested in me? 20/m never had a gf nor a date or kiss before. Any help is appreciated.Less is more. Just set up dates. There's nothing u need to do besides that and have fun and hook up. Don't suffer from the illusion of action | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 04:57 PM |
| 8 | Keep eye contact?Just wait till they break and then look to the side . Never look down or break first. I've gotten laid primary from good eye contact. No joke. I had deep eye contact for like 15 seconds with a girl in my class. Now she's my fwb. Obviously u still need to do other things right. But it's a good tool to have. Because it only helps | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 04:12 PM |
| 26 | How to ask for casual sex without pressuring someone?I would not feel uncomfortable if a girl said that. I would be happy as fuck lol. But maybe just start flirting and using sexual innuendo to see how he acts. Then ask him | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 12:52 AM |
| 2 | 3 months in. Former 22 year old virgin. To they guys down rn u can do itJust have continence in yourself. You are the shit. This is how u have to think. People will perceive you and treat you the way you perceive and treat yourself. Confidence is way more important than looks. If it that wasn't true there's no way my semi ugly ass would have this girl all over me. I've said it so many times but Corey Wayne knows his shit. I've applied what he teaches and it changed my life. I was 22 and a virgin. Never seen or touched a pussy . Then I started self improvement and al… | /r/seduction | 01/12/17 03:45 PM |
| 4 | How straightforward is too straightforward?Waiting till the final day makes you look like you have no confidence to come ask her | /r/seduction | 01/12/17 01:45 AM |
| 6 | 3 months in. Former 22 year old virgin. To they guys down rn u can do itJust focus on not being needy/ being weak whenever talking to her. And just focus on having fun | /r/seduction | 01/12/17 01:43 AM |
| 7 | 3 months in. Former 22 year old virgin. To they guys down rn u can do itStarted working out again and changing my self talk. Mainly changing how I think about myself | /r/seduction | 01/12/17 01:42 AM |
| 4 | 3 months in. Former 22 year old virgin. To they guys down rn u can do itHe helped me so much bro | /r/seduction | 01/12/17 01:42 AM |
| 2 | What do you do if you cant set up a date for 2 weeks+??Even better | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 08:31 PM |
| 1 | What do you do if you cant set up a date for 2 weeks+??I would just wait a week then text her to set up a definite date. Don't be texting her just to talk | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Text game rules for when she text you dailyShe's an awesome girl so I won't give her away :) I just don't wanna make shit stale by texting 25/8 | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 08:35 PM |
| 4 | Text game rules for when she text you dailyI like this test | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 05:37 AM |
| 3 | Text game rules for when she text you dailyI just don't like texting 200 texts a day. Cuz she responds instantly. | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 04:51 AM |
| 1 | I'm pretty yet I still can't get a boyfriend.You are pretty. Don't worry about a boyfriend. Just be yourself and have fun | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Girl suddenly went cold after second date. Where did I go wrong?Same shit happened to me with a Chinese girl I fucked. Don't iniate convos and let her come to you at her own pace. She prob thinks things are moving a little fast. If you ease up she will come back. . It's worked for me | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 12:07 AM |
| 3 | At what point do you demand the girl initiate?Only text her to set up dates once a week. Never text her just to talk when you're not in a relationship. She will start to reach out if she likes you and all u gotta do is set up dates. If she texts you to talk go along for a little but in the end you can't build attraction over the phone you can only ruin it . | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Why would a girl say this while at her place?Hard to tell bro without actually being there. But probably so you'll leave tbh. I wouldn't bullshit u to protect your feelings | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Why does everyone assume pickup is about manipulation?Because it is a game. Girls naturally play it. Men have to learn it and that process makes it seem like manipulation but it's actually just being a real man. And for some guys they need to consciously change how they act. Therefore some think its manipulative | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Insecure af...what can I do to atttract girls?U are not ugly bro. I'm probably the same rating as u and I still have been pulling | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 03:22 PM |
| 9 | Is it a good thing or a bad thing when girls assume your a fuck boy when you first meet them?It's a shit test . Means they are interested | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 03:14 PM |
| 1 | What should I do ?That's what I'm thinking. She wants me to chase but I won't because I'm a 3% man. And she's used to guys that chase her. Next time we hangout I'm not gonna iniate anything and see how she reacts. I can tell she's holding back. Thanks for the input. I'll say the blue balls thing because I'm very straight up with her so it wouldn't be something that would be too farm She's coming to my place after break and we are gonna cook dinner together and I'm gonna get a bottle . So if i get blue balls that … | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 12:01 AM |
| 0 | Short men, do you have better luck with women shorter than you?If u think you're the shit regardless of your height you can get girls. If I don't make my insecurities a big deal and actually feel secure with those things. Then the girls I talk to don't care either. It's all confidence confidence confidence. I got laid only from eye contact and I consider myself below average with an 8 | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 04:45 AM |
| 9 | I realized I have some sex anxiety . Need helpThanks bro makes me feel less pressure | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 02:55 AM |
| 3 | I realized I have some sex anxiety . Need helpI haven't lied about my inexperience but I haven't told her. But yeah it probably would take away some nerves but I'm not gonna disclose it without her asking | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 02:53 AM |
| 25 | I realized I have some sex anxiety . Need helpI was thinking this would help deff gonna try. It makes me even more worried cuz I already had sex with this girl ( barely because of anxiety ) the bad sex turned her off but I've gotten her attraction to go back up to where she's bringing up sex in subtle ways again. | /r/seduction | 18/11/17 09:50 PM |
| 6 | I went from nudes to flirting with emojis, help me please asap lolDeff a troll lmao. Good laugh tho | /r/seduction | 16/11/17 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Need input on what I can change.Biggest thing is EYE CONTACT . I got laid mainly from making good Eye contact. Never breaking until she does. I'm so early in my journey I'm still learning. Just trying to stay positive. And whenever I feel inferior I tell myself that's not true | /r/seduction | 16/11/17 12:42 AM |
| 1 | What should you do when a girl agrees to be with you for hanging out but you're both busy that until school goes on break you can't hang out.Since you got other girls it's easier to have an abundance mentality. I think u just need to set up a date and then wait till then. If she flakes then don't waste ur time with her anymore | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Need input on what I can change.I can relate for sure. Perpetual friend zone guy. It's because I lacked confidence. You need to believe in your heart you are high Value, you are the catch, and they need to earn a chance with you. So far on my journey it's worked out for me. But everyday I get thoughts about not being good enough . Now that I'm aware of my subconscious I can begin to challenge those beliefs. | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What should you do when a girl agrees to be with you for hanging out but you're both busy that until school goes on break you can't hang out.I'm dealing with the same thing kinda but I already slept with her. I have class with her every other day. But it's annoying cuz she wants to text and snap all fucking day . I wait to respond a while when I'm doing things. And sometimes j won't respond. I don't have to iniate anything besides dates | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 08:20 PM |
| 2 | What should you do when a girl agrees to be with you for hanging out but you're both busy that until school goes on break you can't hang out.Make a definite date now for when u are both free. Then get off the phone | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Eye ContactWhy one eye. I've been making strong eye contact and I see people say that and I don't know why | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Being a virgin is ruining my life- is there even a point?All of them. Just look for the titles that pertain to your current situation. But the book which u can find online is the holy bible. Corey Wayne's how to be a 3% man. I have another date on Friday with a different girl. I'm so happy my life is changing and I see hope instead of just feeling bad for myself. I am not 100% confident in myself but everyday I get a lil more | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Being a virgin is ruining my life- is there even a point?So we go to college together. On the first day of class my math teacher made us get numbers from the person sitting next to us. Which happened to be this girl. I asked her to study with me and eventually we started doing that everyday so I asked her out . During the day of the date we were at the library and she wanted me to help her pick out what she was gonna wear that night. I went to her dorm we were alone and she started brushing her hair and shit so I walked up and told her to get it over … | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 12:41 AM |
| 1 | It almost all comes down to neediness, doesn't it?You have a point. If you come in with an attitude and confidence that's not outcome dependent then you can't lose. You can be happy you tried because there's nothing to lose. Fear is holding me back. And the fact that I can't get rid of this acne. I don't wanna approach till it's gone. I don't even like looking in the mirror. I avoid it as much as possible. But once I straighten that out im gonna say fuck fear and be outcome independent | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 06:38 PM |
| 38 | Being a virgin is ruining my life- is there even a point?Sure. To start I still have a long long way to go. My confidence is improving a little bit everyday. I hate how I look and I'm trying to get over that. I started to build confidence by holding eye contact till the girl breaks it. I literally got laid mainly because of eye contact. I eye fucked this girl I sit next to in math. And flirted and teased her constantly. She associates me with positive energy because I try to be positive about everything now. I lost my virginity on the first date with … | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Tips for first dates?All you gotta worry about is have fun & hook up . Go for the kiss at the end if not earlier. Cuz u don't wanna waste your time. doing this you will find out if she's actually into you | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 03:42 PM |
| 59 | Being a virgin is ruining my life- is there even a point?I was a 22 year old virgin till 3 weeks ago. I started listening to Corey Wayne and reading his book and I got laid two weeks after. And now i have 2 girls chasing me. Before I was doing SO much wrong . I'm 5'5 btw. Height doesn't matter as much as you think. Being confident and portraying high value is most important. Looks are second. | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Will a girl come back after learning about your inexperience?Thanks bro I'm trying to own it and that's the best response " I guess we have to practice more". Gonna use that if it comes up | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Will a girl come back after learning about your inexperience?If she's not responding just go about your life and don't contact her. Only talk if she initiates | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Will a girl come back after learning about your inexperience?I lost my virginity 2 weeks ago and I was hammered and did so bad that she just wants to be friends now 💀😂. I did not accept friend zone so I walked and never looked back. Now she trying to get my attention | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Best ways to break rapportOk thanks for the response . I had no idea how much stuff I was doing wrong | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 12:35 AM |
| 10 | 19yo virgin. Advice?I was a 22 year old virgin till last week. I started watching Corey Wayne for 3 weeks and got laid | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 01:29 AM |
| 1 | I'm 22 and a virgin. I've never gone further than making out with a girl. I need help. Please, anybody.. Pretty sure I'm a lost cause.Book is called how to be a 3% man | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 01:29 AM |
| 1 | I'm 22 and a virgin. I've never gone further than making out with a girl. I need help. Please, anybody.. Pretty sure I'm a lost cause.U can find his book for free online. And all of them are good. He has real life info. Not some dumb Pickip artist advise. I was in your boat a couple weeks ago. And I already feel like a different person | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 01:29 AM |
| 2 | I'm 22 and a virgin. I've never gone further than making out with a girl. I need help. Please, anybody.. Pretty sure I'm a lost cause.Look up Corey Wayne. Read his book. Watch his YouTube videos. I lost my virginitu last week I'm 22. And I only followed Corey's work for a month | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Give me your do's and don'ts of first dates please!That's an unreal accomplishment . I'm working up to that. Was a 22 year old virgin until I started listening to Corey Wayne a month ago . Check out his video about first dates on youtube | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Ok so I need adviceI wouldn't be opposed. But I'm not desperate ATM. I was just curious what you guys thought cuz I don't wanna waste my time. Thank u | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 11:50 PM |
| 0 | Ok so I need adviceOk that's what I was thinking. I'm just trying to fuck so I'm cool with that. She does my homework for me too. I'm just not gonna accept friends only | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 11:31 PM |
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