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| 0 | I went to the club but I need a hand understanding the dynamics.Of course brother you can do what you want I’m just helping your chances. You can approach every girl in the bar and still have no luck. My point is that you don’t want potential girls to see you approaching other girls. And seeing them as a last resort. You got to value yourself first. Don’t be desperate | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 11:45 AM |
| 1 | I went to the club but I need a hand understanding the dynamics.Dance floor is difficult you cannot really hear or talk to them. It’s all about body language. Don’t approach girls dancing. Instead find a spot with a friend and start dancing alone. Make it seem like you’re having a fun time without women. This is attractive and makes them get interested. If they make eye contact or move close than shoot your shot | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 11:41 AM |
| 1 | I went to the club but I need a hand understanding the dynamics.Yeah obviously 😭 so you saw a hot girl dancing and thought you could make a move?? NH dude you need signs. Like if she keeps deep eye contact. If you just go around touching hot women you’ll be in jail | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 11:39 AM |
| 2 | I went to the club but I need a hand understanding the dynamics.Word of advice. First off be able to tell different gazes from women. There’s like the oh he cute let me check him out quick. Doesn’t mean anything. But some girls will give this seductive look which is a green light. If a girl seems to move closer it’s not by accident/ and also use the 123 method. See a girl you like and wanna approach. Say ok on 3 I just go. That way you don’t overthink it | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 10:20 AM |
| 2 | I went to the club but I need a hand understanding the dynamics.It definitely gets better with experience. You don’t want to seem like a lost puppy, clinging to some girl. Face it dude you’re at a bar they’re not dating material. That’s why her friends were tag teaming lol. Don’t take it seriously it’s all about having fun. But I will say this, do not wait around for a girl: it looks desperate. Catch a signal, approach her and say your intentions. If no move away. Life is too short to cling to that bullshit | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 09:56 AM |
| -2 | Round 2: What's the best move?You’re bad at this wow. You’re not even escalating dude. You just text her on an app and not ask for a number that’s boring. Don’t make a move in public. You have so much detailed plan but it’s terrible. You’re overthinking. Just ask to come over and watch a movie | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 09:48 AM |
| 3 | I went to the club but I need a hand understanding the dynamics.You need to grow some balls and strike on the first sign. The first girl gave you signs but you were too scared to make a move. So you think oh maybe I am getting a second or third chance with her friends. There is no forgiveness with dating. Either make a move or leave: don’t wait around for leftovers. Not a good look | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 09:45 AM |
| 3 | Important of having connection not just s*xWhen you bang physically it may feel good but it’s shallow. Only interested physically. But when you get to know them then sex is more intimate’s more that body more soul | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 09:43 AM |
| 3 | How do you deal with expectations, obsession, and flake anxiety with women?Nobody is perfect unless we get lucky. Women are complicated they have lot of mood issues. Once you understand their nature you won’t take offense | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 11:16 AM |
| 1 | I’m just going to cut my shit off and be a UnicOh yeah totally no offense to women but having 3 of them in rotation is too much stress. Hell even one of them is rough haha | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 09:46 AM |
| 1 | I’m just going to cut my shit off and be a UnicIt’s really not much different that drugs. You can live the life and do as much coke as much as you can every day. Sure it’s fun and feels awesome but it’s not a great life to live I guess haha. Best bet is to keep 2-3 girls in rotation | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 09:39 AM |
| 1 | What makes you have a lust or sexual desire for someone, but not necessarily want to date them?Her personality | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 09:32 AM |
| 1 | I’m just going to cut my shit off and be a UnicThis ain’t some breaking news dude obviously sex is fake 😂 | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 09:32 AM |
| 0 | second date - Horror MovieHolding hands is a big gesture. You’re willing to let the public know yall are a thing. It’s cringe bro. You don’t need that to make her like you. It just becomes desperate. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 11:42 AM |
| 1 | second date - Horror MovieWell dating is a game and maybe she’s giving you a chance. Just go with it and don’t hold hands haha. Try to be better than last time | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 11:29 AM |
| 6 | Flirty smile when girls walk past youLike think of it like this. As a man you decide to walk one way. And a cute girl passes by. You can’t just change your path because of a girl seducing you. You’re better than that. Approaching is best when youre in a spot and see a girl than go up to her. Never want a girl to think that she influenced your decision. You’re a man and you make your own path that others follow. Idk if that makes sense I’m ranting haha. Dating doesn’t make sense: you need to act indifferent even if you like them. Ne… | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 11:09 AM |
| 8 | Flirty smile when girls walk past youIdk what you’re saying because I totally agree with your comment. I’m just saying sometimes when you pass by a cute girl at a bar or party and yall smile. You don’t need to change direction and follow her. That seems bad. Of course if the timing is right approach. But it looks better that you aren’t phased and keep it moving. Abundance mindset. Yes she is cute but there’s a ton of cute girls. No need to stress. Probably see her again. But I guess it depends on the situation | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:59 AM |
| 1 | How to bail?Go with it. If you can talk to ugly girls it’s the same as hot ones | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Flirty smile when girls walk past youYou’re overthinking it you did the right thing. If a cute girl smiles at you, smile back and say hi. But keep things moving. Don’t chase after her like a lost puppy. Have self respect. The idea is that maybe you see her again and then you make a move. But alpha men or whatever you wanna call it. They don’t need any girl. They call the shots. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:22 AM |
| 2 | second date - Horror MovieFirst mistake was holding hands when you barely know each other 😂 girls are aware of this shit and don’t want other guys to get the wrong idea. Maybe she likes you but it’s not solid yet. If she says sex after the third date then don’t rush things because it’ll blow up in your face. Girls can be hoes but they don’t want to feel like hoes if that makes sense. Asking her to a movie is pretty obvious you wanna bang. Like you don’t think other guys have tried with her? | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:20 AM |
| 3 | How do I overcome seeking validationYOU are the only person who can truly believe in yourself. Fawning for approval from others is an up and down battle. It’s inconsistent. Because people don’t realize the capabilities you have. But you do. So don’t sell yourself short. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:18 AM |
| 4 | Indirect gameBecause if you’re attractive and the girl is attractive it’s unspoken word. Yall both want to bang and pro guys know this: they don’t even have to mention sex. It’s implied. Hard to develop but makes it much easier | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: Non verbal gesture that make you have butterflies in stomach.There’s an article I read that makes a lot of sense. It’s about pitching your voice. By talking slower and speaking from your diaphragm you get a deeper voice and come off as more confident. You don’t want to be that yappy guy with a high voice gaming a girl unless you’re a model . It takes practice but possible: signals high testosterone. Lot of people aren’t aware that how they speak; not what they say; it’s pretty important | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Are men are more emotionally fragile than women ?The thing is men usually hide their emotions. Society even tells us that we shouldn’t be emotional. This leads us to have poor emotional health. So when shit hits the fan, we tend to get overly emotional and hurt. But women usually express emotions. They talk to family or friends about them. This makes them more emotionally healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:22 AM |
| 4 | Need Advice. The more girls I hook up with the more I miss my ex.I know people say to hookup with new people to get over a breakup. I kind of disagree. You got to focus on healing 100% from the breakup before you even start to consider new people. Because your heart isn’t in the right place now. You’ll just keep making the same mistakes over and over until you learn. Take time to heal and focus on yourself first. Forget your ex, the only one you should be loving is yourself. You might be looking for a relationship instead of a hookup. If so, you need to fix y… | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 04:05 AM |
| 87 | Getting laid as an introvert?Don’t entertain them. Make them entertain you. You’re not some dancing monkey. The key is to keep them engaged without needing to say much. Just let them do most of the talking. Or if you’re not feeling it then just get their number and leave. Sticking around for long can hurt your chances so it’s good to not be so available. | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 09:48 AM |
| 70 | "Work on yourself bro" is actually bad advice for young dudesSince when does work on yourself only mean getting jacked, getting money and having status?! What planet do you live on lol. Technically talking to girls and practicing social skills can be considered ‘working on yourself’ too. It all depends on what definition you wanna use. For me working on yourself means having healthy relationships, healthy self esteem, setting/achieving goals and being a good person. You’re too focused on external things, true self improvement comes from within. Then the g… | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Not feeling confidentI was a 21 year old virgin and I went to a big university with slutty college girls so it was much easier to get laid. Location matters! But I will say this. Confidence is like the waves, it comes and it goes. But self esteem is forever, it is the base of confidence. You can’t be truly confident if you have low self esteem, girls will smell that a mile away. But improve your self esteem and the rest will follow. Even complaining about not getting laid is a issue. It should happen naturally. Real… | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | This girl keeps disrespecting me. How to handle this?So like in this situation, just letting her leave? Or just ignoring her completely? | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 06:31 AM |
| 1 | This girl keeps disrespecting me. How to handle this?Genuine question, how do guys keep their emotions in check? What are some habits that help? I was raised by a woman most of my life so I feel like I have a lot of feminine energy. I never really understood how some guys manage to keep grounded all the time. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | This girl keeps disrespecting me. How to handle this?I feel that and I’ve tried to limit my time with her by not initiating text anymore. I wasn’t thinking about her much and I was focusing on my life for like two weeks. Then in a matter of 15 minutes or so she managed to suck me back in. Since she was very nice to me this time and it just threw me off. A lot of people are throwing around the term self-respect, but can you elaborate more? I know it’s a dumb question but I’m genuinely curious. How should I have handled the situation better? | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 06:27 AM |
| 1 | This girl keeps disrespecting me. How to handle this?Another chance at what? She hinted at sex but that was early in the night when she was with her fling. So I didn’t really take her serious. I thought I acted fine and not needy up until she was with me at the end of the night. I think I could’ve brought her over if I had more skills. So I’m new to this, I guess I should’ve just let her leave with the guy. But wouldn’t it make me look bad to continue talking to her, after she just leaves with a guy in front of me? Like I don’t know how I’d have s… | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | This girl keeps disrespecting me. How to handle this?Because I invested so much time and energy into this person. To see her lose interest and gain it back again, definitely makes me feel like I’m doing something right. I can’t help but think, if I had my shit together I could handle this situation. But I don’t so it’s like looking at a missed opportunity. Half the people say she is dissing me, but half say she’s not. But you agree, that she’s doing that? What specifically would you say? Because I’m bad at setting boundaries with people, especiall… | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 02:13 AM |
| 1 | This girl keeps disrespecting me. How to handle this?Because we always see them out at the bars. And sometimes when I get rejected or can’t find other options, then it’ll be a dry night. In the moment I figure, it’s better to leave with some girl than to just leave alone. Not to mention, it’s like every man for himself at the bars sometimes. If you’re able to get a girl, then you’re better off than most guys there. I can’t lie if im not feeling confident, it feels nice to have a girl show interest and approach you. | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | This girl keeps disrespecting me. How to handle this?Yes I know, she has her cake and gets to eat it too (or however it goes). Basically she can fuck random guys and I’ll still be there waiting for her like a little simp. Of course she can fuck whoever she wants, but it seems like she gets extra joy from having both options. My friend says he didn’t think she would leave with him, but I don’t know if I’d agree. Maybe she was just messing with me but who knows. I don’t know why I’d want a relationship with a girl like this. It’s seems we vibe well … | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | This girl keeps disrespecting me. How to handle this?Like literally I’m not even joking, it’s the most popular bar in town. All the hot girls go there and it has the best music and vibes. We actually do bar hop quite often, but we keep ending up at this one because the others are often dry. The bouncers also let us cut the line and don’t even check our ids. I know I think there was disrespect from both sides. But like I said, she was dancing with her fling all night so I assumed they would end up hooking up anyways. I didn’t let it bother me and I… | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 01:23 AM |
| 2 | This girl keeps disrespecting me. How to handle this?It’s not like I haven’t tried to move on. Like I said, I went out of town to a different bar and women were approaching me. I come back home and go out with my friends and the girls here show less interest so it’s much harder. I wasn’t even thinking about her that much. But we run into them as soon as we get into the bar. Not to mention, my friend is trying to get with her friend. She’s attractive and seems to like my friend back. So I was just hanging around him and the girl he’s talking to. Bu… | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 01:12 AM |
| 2 | can you rate my dating profile picture 1-10I’m not a female, but I’ll give you a 6.5 Hands in your pockets make you look weak. Keep them by your side. Or just crop the top half Tuck your shirt in properly and lose the wrinkles. Iron it beforehand to look more professional. A cleaner haircut might help. It looks like your hair is the same length all around. Try getting it shorter on the sides to accentuate your face. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Am I Undateable/Unf**kable?You got to lose the weight, otherwise you’ll never get the results you want. I don’t like public places for pickup, I prefer bars and clubs or other social venues. Girls are too on guard at places like the grocery store. But not everyone likes bars, so maybe look into clubs or social gatherings. Also word of advice, PUA doesn’t work for everyone. It’s easier to just be yourself, try to make a joke and just be cool. It’s not about what you say to a girl, it’s how you say it. Which stems from bein… | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Question: How to know whether you’re giving up too early or walking away with your self-respect intact?In my opinion you shouldn’t face any resistance. If she likes you back then she’ll make it easy to talk and hangout with her. But if she’s on the fence, shes just going to waste your time. If you like her then ask her for her number and ask her on a date. If she declines both then just move on. If she gives you her number but no date then maybe she’s semi interested. At that point, pull back and let her chase you. Nah don’t persist at all. I’ve learned this the hard way, girls will just get over… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Can an introvert loner get a gf and how?It’s not just being mysterious, it’s holding a masculine frame. You don’t want to put more energy into a conversation than the other person. It’s much better to choose your words carefully and speak slowly than spouting whatever comes to mind. It doesn’t matter how attractive you are, if you say the wrong thing then it’s over. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 04:28 AM |
| 9 | Can an introvert loner get a gf and how?I’ve learned that being an introvert helps in many ways. You aren’t known as a blabbermouth so people will trust you more. Girls will find you mysterious when you don’t talk a lot. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 02:14 AM |
| 27 | Tips for cold approaching in collegeI went to community college for two years and I never talked to many girls. I transferred into a university and talked to more girls than ever before. Personally, it felt like a lot of people just focused on school and work during community college. Very few chances for interaction unless you make the first move. Things get much different when you live on campus with them. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Do you think flirting forces attraction in a girl?Flirting just helps communicate with a girl who is already attracted to you. But attraction needs to happen first. You can attract girls with your words but you better have your shit together. Most guys don’t have this luck, so you got to attract them with your confidence and appearance. Honestly most of the time some girls will find you attractive and some will find you ugly, that’s just how it is. You can’t attract everybody. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 08:32 AM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Then how do I make that work? Or is it too late? | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:49 AM |
| 1 | How to handle girl flaking on date?Yeah she didn’t respond so I don’t think she’s very interested. But she showed high interest this past Friday. Except I got needy on Saturday so I think I lowered it again. Not much I can do at this point | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | How to handle girl flaking on date?Okay I kind of figured that I should maybe confirm it beforehand. I’m not sure I phrased it correctly. I just casually said, “we should grab food instead of getting drinks if you can still meet today”. Well she didn’t respond which makes me think she isn’t ver interested or is playing games. My other theory is that she may like me but she’s avoiding attachment. Since I was showing signs of neediness after sex maybe she’s paranoid of it happening again. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | How to handle girl flaking on date?I’m 25 about to be 26. I know it’s a turn off to still be living with my parents. But I graduated college at 24 so I’m still trying to save more money. Hopefully I can move out in the next few months. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | How to handle girl flaking on date?Yeah I know you saw my past posts. I was going to avoid her and try to move on. But then I texted her Friday night after giving her some space and she was interested in meeting up with me and my friends. I was confused because she seemed to be showing high interest again. Then as we were texting later at night I inferred that I would see her tomorrow. But she was like oh what so we’re done talking tonight? I thought she was busy with friends but she insisted that she wasn’t doing anything. So I … | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | How to handle girl flaking on date?So since my last question was needy and unsure, do you think a follow up message would help? If so how would I phrase it to sound better? Yeah that’s true I don’t want to let it seem like it bothers me. I’ve acted dramatic with her a couple times already and I think it made me look bad. I didn’t realize it in the moment but now I do. I should stop giving her so much attention. It’s like it being hard to get her just makes me want her more. But at some point I need to have self respect and not va… | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Alright I’m not going to lie, I broke all the rules. I texted her again, saying to meet me at the bar. This time I knew she was out at a bar because she posted it on Snapchat. So she insisted to meet her at this other bar. Me and my friends tried but we were denied so went to another bar. Well this girl kept reciprocating, despite not showing any interest over text before. At first she said she didn’t want sex, she wasn’t like that. But she was willing to hangout in a group with all our friends.… | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 09:31 AM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Yes I am 25 still at home and she is 22 so I get that she’s likely to wanna sleep around more. I feel insecure sneaking her into my parents for sex when there’s other guys who have their own place. Like how do I even compete with that. It’s very odd to me. When I first met her, she said she was looking for a relationship and I just wanted sex. She kept saying she really liked me, wanted to meet my dogs, wanted to sleep in my bed. Then when we were about to have sex the second night, she was worr… | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?The what? | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Damn so only one or two insecure comments, and now my chances are at 0%? Even after we had all these positive interactions and memories together, all it took was one insecure text? It’s so dumb. I’m going to see her around at the bar so should I just ignore her? And yes I recognized it but it’s happened before so it’s very frustrating and sad. They suggest I need multiple options, but few men have that. I’ve been trying to work on myself and nothing helps. If I see a girl who likes me I try to g… | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?You’re making a lot of assumptions to prove your point. I did communicate, saying I would try some foreplay. She just wanted me to screw her. She didn’t fake an orgasm, you just made that up. I suffer from having a big dick and not knowing how to use it. Even this girl complimented me on my size during sex, not to mention she was silently moaning. So I’m not sure what I would do better other than last longer. The advice to just practice sex more is way harder than it sounds. You must be a woman … | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?You’re not wrong. But in my experience plenty of men struggle to have options. Women don’t have this issue, men will usually come up to them. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Okay dang that’s solid game/advice and I’m going to revisit it to make sure I understand what you’re saying here. It makes sense, having hope just translates to more neediness. I’ve been in this habit of asking if she’s going out the past couple weekends. I ended up texting her one more time, just to figure if I should delete her number or not. She actually responded but said she was out of town. I don’t know if she was just showing pity toward me or if there’s some interest. So I texted her bec… | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 06:30 AM |
| 9 | This could just be a coincidence but in my experience whenever I'm toxic a girl wants to be with me but when I'm genuinely nice and not toxic to girls they usually dump me. Why?Girls like drama, which is why they obsess over Lifetime and True Crime documentaries. They like the rush of being with someone who’s kind of mean. They don’t like nice guys as much because they’re boring and predictable. Not to mention the sex is better when you’re more aggressive. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 05:37 AM |
| 10 | Why do girls do this?Girls don’t often know what they want. They say one thing and then do another. Then they wonder why guys are always insecure. Because we have no idea what your true intentions are lol | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Yes we already slept together. Exactly girls will usually want to meet again if they enjoyed it. And she did come over a second night in a row. But then after that then she seemed uninterested. No she’s definitely not married, she got out of a long term relationship. But maybe she’s attached to another guy. I have no idea to be honest, which is why I got insecure and started asking. I also wanted to know for my safety lol. But yeah I will try and approach her again. I don’t think I should text h… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?But isn’t it possible for a guy to have a better hand and become less needy if he works on himself? Why’s it gotta be so black and white? I want to say I’m mentally moved on, since I haven’t been texting or talking to her. But then I keep having thoughts about her and last night I even had a dream about her. Or I see her post stories on her Snapchat. It definitely makes it hard to move on and forget about her. That’s good advice, I will try and act like none of this ever happened and hope for th… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Let’s say I try my best to avoid being needy around her and just do my thing. Isn’t is possible for a needy guy to become sexy if he works on himself? Or will the girl always see him as needy? | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?I don’t get it though, how are my chances completely killed from being needy? Can’t I prove to her that I’m not as needy as she thought? Like if I work on myself and she sees that I’ve improved? I wouldn’t mind hooking up with her again but I realize that it may take time. I don’t really care about dating her but it just sucks to be thrown to the side so quickly. I was 100% willing to do a friends with benefits if only I didn’t screw up | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Alright I’m kind of confused. I took your advice and instead of giving her space, I reached out again through text. I asked if she was going to the bar again. She actually replied this time, saying she was out of town. I kind of felt relieved and hoped that maybe there’s still a chance. That was Friday night so it’s been a few days since we’ve communicated. I haven’t reached out again because I feel like texting too much makes me look needy and insecure. I figure that I will just wait to see her… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Yeah I definitely regret not just buying her the drink. I thought it made me look assertive but it just made me look weak and petty. I definitely want to try again, maybe offering to buy her a drink again like you said. My only concern is that she’ll probably be with her friends or maybe even talking to another guy. In that situation I’d feel intimated with approaching a group, especially if she might be talking to a guy to replace me. I only met up with her recently because I texted if she want… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Okay that’s fine I would definitely hook up with her again, I don’t need a relationship. But I’m just worried the sex wasn’t great so now she’s got a taste she knows what to expect. I figure if we hooked up already, then it’s a possibility. Especially since I’ll see her around. But the way she’s being makes me think she’s completely lost interest in sex too. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 10:21 PM |
| 5 | Why is it that only old women check me out?Older women just have the confidence to say it and they know what they want. The young ones might think the same thing but are too shy to express it. When I go out to bars the older women are usually way easier to approach. Maybe try dressing different, idk how you dress but if you dress conservatively then older women might find you handsome. A lot of times I see younger girls with guys who follow fashion trends. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?It’s not even because of her I don’t think. I had a toxic relationship last and the breakup was bad. So in a way I feel like I’m carrying my past trauma into my new relationships. My last ex made me feel really insecure and needy. But I just find her attractive. Not going to lie I didn’t think she was physically attractive at first. But when I got to know her, found out she has a good career and took initiative toward things, I completely got attached to her. I took another posters advice to not… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 03:28 AM |
| 0 | How to increase interest without being desperate?You’re right about the first part. I’m just confused because she seemed like she wanted me, beyond just the sex. I just feel like I’ll see her around and maybe she’ll talk to me again. As others have pointed out maybe hope is just pathetic. I just can’t believe she moved on so fast, especially since I’ll see her at the same bars. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 10:17 AM |
| -1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Only because when I met her she stated she was looking for a relationship not a hookup. So I got used to that idea but we ended up hooking up instead. So when she acted weird I assumed it was because she didn’t hookup often. So I tried saving it by saying that I’m not opposed to a relationship. But now I realize maybe I’m completely wrong and everything she said was a lie. I should’ve judged her by her actions not her words. Even when I met her my friend basically told me she was easy since she … | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 10:12 AM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Ok but for example I’m going out tonight to a different bar with friends. So should I try to initiate by texting her again? Or should I wait until another day when I’m at the other bar and see her in person? Because I want to give her space but if I need to take initiative than I think I should try before it’s too late. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:27 AM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Yeah that’s what I expected because she came over a second night, so I thought sex would make her like me more. I lasted fairly long and tried to do different positions, but I guess something else might’ve happened. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:11 AM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?So is it too late to try and initiate things? Like if I offer to buy her a drink and she talks to me. Or she just walks away and I continue to avoid interaction. Or if I text her to meet up? | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:10 AM |
| 0 | How to increase interest without being desperate?So I should go out of my way to avoid her? Or should I just be cordial and say hi but that’s it? | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:29 AM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Okay but what do I do if I see her at the bar? Just say hi and move on? Isn’t there a chance that she may be interested in me after some time? I won’t text her or initiate contact anymore but I feel like if she had sex with me once than it’s definitely possible. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:12 AM |
| 2 | How to increase interest without being desperate?But how do I take the initiative to show her my personality if she doesn’t respond to my texts? Do I try to approach her if I see her at the bar? I didn’t do anything really. We talked for a bit prior to meeting, but I didn’t think we would hookup. But when we were talking at the bar that weekend we seemed to have really good chemistry. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?That’s a possibility since she acted different after sex. But she brought up wanting a relationship when I first started talking to her. Except she initiated sex so it makes it confusing. I brought up being open to relationship but she didn’t really respond to it. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | How can I regain this girls interest again?I appreciate the response. Yeah I agree, part of me wants to be glad that I had sex without having to text or go on pointless dates. I got what I wanted and it should be easy to move on. But the other part of me feels lonely and fed up with one night stands with random girls. It felt nice to finally have a connection with someone and then to have it disappear completely sucks. You’re right tho I need to talk to other girls. When you say don’t chase, I shouldn’t approach her at the bar right? So … | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | My Friend has Messed up a Key Opportunity. What do I do here?That is a good point. Problem is that with covid all the bars require you to be seated. So if you’re not with anyone than you’re likely sitting alone. I could try joining a random table but people seem very territorial with who they let sit with them, especially if there are guys with a bunch of girls. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | My Friend has Messed up a Key Opportunity. What do I do here?I feel that, that’s a good way of looking at things. Looking back I should’ve just went solo. How do you suggest I break it to him? He’s been a friend for the past year and he is accustomed to coming over to my place to pregame and even hitting up my roommates. Do I just tell him to work on his shit? It does suck also going alone because there are usually tables we have to sit at due to Covid. So by going alone I’d have no choice but to sit alone at a bar. It is also my last month of college and… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 10:02 PM |
| 2 | My Friend has Messed up a Key Opportunity. What do I do here?Yeah that’s true I’m not used to expressing my boundaries very often. Like I’ll tell him nicely to not do something but I don’t think it works well. But he doesn’t seem to get the message so I should be more assertive with him. I should’ve done what you said, telling him to go home. But as you said, it’d feel conflicting if I am not already asserting my boundaries with him. I also think he’d argue with me, saying he didn’t do anything wrong and that it was their fault. You said before to let him… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 08:59 PM |
| 3 | My Friend has Messed up a Key Opportunity. What do I do here?I’m just confused how I could possibly lead interactions with a friend like this. I feel my energy shift when I’m with him, I become insecure and less confident because him fucking it up is inevitable at this point. Maybe I’m just making excuses but I find it hard to hold frame when I associate with him. Also I am new to this thread so I need to read more of the sidebar But yeah I do need to work on enforcing boundaries and being less of a nice guy. I guess I don’t want to be mean before but now… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | My Friend has Messed up a Key Opportunity. What do I do here?That’s very straightforward but you’re right I can’t stand this drama in my life anymore. Even if that means I’ll just be a loner it’s better than that. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 07:28 PM |
| 1 | My Friend has Messed up a Key Opportunity. What do I do here?Well he is specifically my one friend. And I’ve been lonely so I thought having someone to talk to would help, but it’s clearly not worth it anymore. I wish I had a better wingman to go with but I don’t. I’m not sure I thought he could learn and work on his behavior. I was in a similar situation before but I fixed it. I guess I need to realize I can’t control him or save him. I’ll try my best to find new friends | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Poor social life in college, what to do?I’ve told him but he just brushed it off like he didn’t see a reason to watch it | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 07:33 AM |
| 0 | I was told girls get over breakups better than guysWhy do you even care if you dumped her? Just move on. If she’s sad about that then it just means she didn’t have any options lined up. Or she was really into you. Either way she will find some guy to fuck eventually | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 09:10 AM |
| 3 | Can you become a chad?No looks are definitely not disregarded at all, my mistake. It definitely helps separate you from the average looking dude, leading to better chances. I just meant it’s harder to keep a girl around when your personality isn’t on point. As another commenter said, I believe personality consists of behavior and attitude. If you’re not doing anything productive with your life then your personality will suck. Basically just setting goals for yourself and developing good habits/hobbies | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 09:04 AM |
| 1 | LTR won't delete her best friend, who just so happens to be her ex.My rule is that if I’m dating a girl, she can’t bring up her ex because it’s just downright disrespectful to their current partner. I wouldn’t worry too much about her ex keeping contact, as long as you don’t think she’s going on dates with him. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 09:01 AM |
| 1 | I think I have a fetish but girl thinks it's weirdIf it bothers her then tell her to shave it off lol. I’ll never get why girls are bothered by that yet they will shave their legs 24/7 and leave a bush down there. Makes no sense | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 08:59 AM |
| 6 | What causes a woman to become a feminist/activist?A lot of times they have had an ex boyfriend who acted like an immature asshole which gave them the impression that all guys are the same. Or they are secretly lesbians | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Can you become a chad?Looks don’t mean shit to women. I had what some considered ‘good looks’ in college. But my personality was shit so even if I attracted them, it wouldn’t lead to anything. You don’t need status and money to attract women either. All these things give you extra confidence but if you don’t believe in yourself 100% than you will never pull it off | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 08:56 AM |
| 3 | When woman leave LTR,does she always has another man?No it was beta. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 06:52 AM |
| 3 | When woman leave LTR,does she always has another man?I’m in this situation. She said she wanted space and didn’t plan on moving on fast. So I downloaded tinder right after the breakup because I felt she had options lined up. It felt shitty because she found out but how else am I supposed to find other fishes. So two weeks later my friend saw her on tinder. After she didn’t like how I did it so soon, she did the same after a little longer. I kind’ve know that she’s probably using it for sex because nobody wants to just date right away. It’s hard to… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 06:06 PM |
| -1 | When woman leave LTR,does she always has another man?I’m in a similar situation. I prolonged the breakup by talking her out of it. After a month she finally made the decision and was probably finding guys in the meantime. And I made it hard for her to move on. My point is, is it weak to take a girl back after she sleeps with a bunch of dudes or dates someone else? In my heart I don’t let that stuff affect who I care about, but it makes me think she needed dick to make her happy and now she comes back. Like it feels kind of shitty. But I know I lov… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | I completely acted like a beta. How do I seem more fun?Exactly why I refused to buy dinner and settled for tea. Yeah she did insult not only my manhood but my intelligence as well. I should’ve said I’d buy it over text and change my mind in person just to piss her off. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | I completely acted like a beta. How do I seem more fun?I was being an idiot and thinking with my dick, since her friends were kind of hot. But then I realized I was supposed to be with the one girl since I met her. No I’m still skeptical about TRP in general since it’s kind of a niche discussion. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | I completely acted like a beta. How do I seem more fun?I just don’t understand how women could be so heartless as to let their friend take advantage of some guy. If it was reversed and a guy was doing this stuff I’d feel so shitty. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | I completely acted like a beta. How do I seem more fun?I’m just a little skeptical about everything I read on TRP, since people on here have different opinions and not all guys who get laid read this stuff. I still post on here because it seems like I can relate to what the guys mean with women being cruel. Like if I did half the things on here I would get charges against me. When I try this stuff with girls I come off being creepy or weird since I’m so inexperienced and don’t know how to act. Plus alpha males are being demonized in our society. Har… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | I completely acted like a beta. How do I seem more fun?Okay I’ll admit Bumble is clearly for feminists but it does encourage the girl to make a move first, which unnecessary, allows them to show me their actually interested enough to send it. I’ve actually fucked a couple girls off of here. It’s not as good as Tinder but it’s another source. They didn’t all eat my food, only one of the girls. She had like a pop tart and some chips which I don’t care about. Plus she said thanks before she left . I understand they saw me as some Beta but I thought som… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 08:39 PM |
| 2 | LTR Deleted our pics together.Dude you’ve known her for 2 months if she doesn’t want your guys pics on her personal profile than thats her decision. She probably feels like she’s too invested in you | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 05:50 AM |
| 1 | I just got dropped from my fraternity for girls threatening me over something I said.No just verbal evidence which is why I’m so confused. They haven’t contacted me at all about it just the fraternity. Yes I did get booted but I’m not sure I can sue | /r/MGTOW | 01/11/18 10:47 PM |
| 2 | I just got dropped from my fraternity for girls threatening me over something I said.I said you should take your top off if we win | /r/MGTOW | 01/11/18 10:46 PM |
| 9 | I just got dropped from my fraternity for girls threatening me over something I said.I said to take off your shirt if we win a game. | /r/MGTOW | 01/11/18 01:08 AM |
| 11 | I just got dropped from my fraternity for girls threatening me over something I said.Well apparently since they’re on probation and couldn’t risk them going to the university | /r/MGTOW | 01/11/18 01:06 AM |
| 9 | I just got dropped from my fraternity for girls threatening me over something I said.I said something like take your shirt off if we win in a joking manner while drunk. They took it personal and now here we are | /r/MGTOW | 01/11/18 01:04 AM |
| 1 | How do I better handle hookup situations?I will try that but it also sucks because she might tell other girls about me which would hinder my chances even more | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 07:05 PM |
| 1 | How do I better handle hookup situations?Okay can I ask you what should I do? I’m mad because by stepping in between my bro and this girl I made myself look desperate. My bro isn’t mad but the girl doesn’t want anything to do with me it seems, even though I have her number. I want to move on Idk why I got feelings for some girl acting slutty. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I better handle hookup situations?Well I’d of settled for making out and possibly fucking her another night. I don’t understand though, girls usually fuck guys in college when drunk. I see it all the time at bars and frat parties. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | How do I better handle hookup situations?I know but I’d settle for kissing. I read her but didn’t know how to lead her there. Like do I just grab her hand and lead her? | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do I always attract chubby girls and not hot ones? I feel like a chubby chaser and it’s so annoying.No it’s my purpose to be good enough to fuck them. You know what they say happy wife happy life. Well the wife needs to be hot to be happy | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Why do I always attract chubby girls and not hot ones? I feel like a chubby chaser and it’s so annoying.Okay but my question is how do you give up sex without relapsing to watching porn everyday. I also don’t know if I feel good trusting a hot girl to put out for me as it doesn’t happen much. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do I always attract chubby girls and not hot ones? I feel like a chubby chaser and it’s so annoying.Okay because another guy on here said that’s it better to fuck chubby girls than nothing as it’s easier to move up the ladder to hot ones. But if I were to give up that sex for hope of being with a hot girl, I feel I’d go back to porn which is bad | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do I always attract chubby girls and not hot ones? I feel like a chubby chaser and it’s so annoying.Okay because another guy on here said that’s it better to fuck chubby girls than nothing as it’s easier to move up the ladder to hot ones. But if I were to give up that sex for hope of being with a hot girl, I feel I’d go back to porn which is bad | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | What are common dopamine releasing behaviors we should try to avoid?Isn’t porn okay once a week? Idk why but I can’t seem to finish when I’m getting head | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do I always attract chubby girls and not hot ones? I feel like a chubby chaser and it’s so annoying.What do you bag | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do I always attract chubby girls and not hot ones? I feel like a chubby chaser and it’s so annoying.What do you bag | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Why do I always attract chubby girls and not hot ones? I feel like a chubby chaser and it’s so annoying.I guess I’m saying I try for hot girls, fail, then settle for chubby girls. I just don’t want to be that guy who is dating a chubby girl but not trying to be shallow | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 06:52 PM |
| 1 | I got to second base and then got outOk this girl just told my frat that I acted creepy toward her. Now I’m in trouble with them. I might even get dropped. I’m done trying this red pill when trying to game random women | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | I got to second base and then got outAnother thing, she told the frat that I had in that I acted creepy towards her. Now I’m in trouble with them. Fuck these women | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | What is creepy behavior and how do I avoid it?I’m not ugly I’ve been considered handsome but I’m definitely not a super hunk | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 02:27 AM |
| 1 | What is creepy behavior and how do I avoid it?“You aren't repulsive to women because you are creepy. You're creepy because you are repulsive to women. It's sad, but it's pretty much true. Ugly guys can still be "not creepy" so long as they act in an asexual manner towards women. Chads can still be "creepy" if they are acting in a sexual manner towards an attractive woman while in view of unnattractive women.” I’m still trying to understand this, so the better you look the less likely your considered a creep? So I’m better off not making sex… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | What is creepy behavior and how do I avoid it?Your saying chads can’t be creeps? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 08:25 PM |
| 0 | Girl asking to be smoke up. How do I handle this?Okay so I rebuttled with, “how about you pay this time;)”. She just replied oh no you buy now and we’ll buy the next. So I just asked if guys usually give her free things | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 09:33 PM |
| 2 | I got to second base and then got outTell me broski | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 01:41 AM |
| 2 | I got to second base and then got outI wish I knew then | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 01:35 AM |
| 2 | I got to second base and then got outOkay noted!! | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 01:28 AM |
| 2 | I got to second base and then got outYes mostly feminists | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 01:20 AM |
| 1 | I got to second base and then got outHow should I have played it? Are you saying I shouldn’t try to put myself out there to get laid until my cast is off? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 10:51 PM |
| 1 | I got to second base and then got outWhy? Because I’m a newb to this thread and didn’t even know ASD till now. But I’m making progress as I’ve never been brought home by any girl before. Yes it’s my fault. I knew it the second I asked her. But tbh I only knew kissing shouldn’t be asked for I never knew everything else is too. I just don’t know how to take off a girls clothes w/o asking. Sperg? I’ve stopped messaging her for sure. I already moved on as I had a date with a girl just today. I’ll take this as a huge learning lesson tha… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 10:48 PM |
| 1 | I got to second base and then got outI’ll try to ignore her but I’ll see her whenever our frat/srAt gets together to pregame and stuff. Plus her friends know my face now I fractured my wrist and I can’t lift for two months. I actually started the book of pook and it’s quite good | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | I got to second base and then got outI should’ve suggested my place right ? I didn’t want to risk her saying no and just going home anyways | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 05:41 PM |
| 2 | I got to second base and then got outIt’s funny because I saw her talk to this other beefy dude before we left. He asked if I was her boyfriend. He definitely caught her interest. It just sucks because that’s such a low percentage. There’s so many ‘Chads’ at this school it’s hard to beat them. Is it something I did or do you think she wasn’t interested from the start? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 05:33 PM |
| 1 | I got to second base and then got outI physically can’t lift for two months. As far as reading do you mean redpill material or something else? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 05:27 PM |
| 3 | I got to second base and then got outWhat does that mean? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 05:13 PM |
| 1 | I’m going to be in a arm cast. Is this going to hurt or help my smv?It’s my last two years in college and I just recently lost my virginity so yeah kinda | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 08:24 PM |
| 1 | I’m going to be in a arm cast. Is this going to hurt or help my smv?I’m just saying I don’t want to give up sex for an entire 2 months. And no thankfully it was no my jerk off hand. But then again my less dominant hand feels better | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Seeking Validation Through Phone NumbersYeah that’s a good rule of thumb right there I really wanted to ask her to leave but it was a Greek pregame and her ‘sisters’ were telling her that they were leaving in 15 minutes. I don’t think they would’ve let their semi drunk friend leave with a stranger. I actually fucked up and gave HER my number. Now I’m mentally worrying whether she’ll text me or not. Well I guess I learned my lesson. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Seeking Validation Through Phone NumbersYeah that’s what a girl told me once. To not ask and just do it. If I may ask, what’re some body language cues I should look for? | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Seeking Validation Through Phone NumbersI’m just terrible at kissing a girl confidently. You know, like without asking . I prefer to be in a isolated setting | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Seeking Validation Through Phone NumbersI believe I sort of did this with the hot tub idea. But I think I messed up by giving her my number instead of vice versa | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Are girls that hang within my friend group off limits?Damn well now I know | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Are girls that hang within my friend group off limits?Okay thanks a lot man I’ll go ahead and check that out. Also this is random. But I was sitting next to a hot chick during lecture but I didn’t say anything till the end. I just told her that her perfume smelled great and she laughed. I didn’t intend anything so I just walked away. Is this a beta move? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Are girls that hang within my friend group off limits?Okay I’m having trouble “flirting” with her during the group. Especially because one of the other guys says he has a crush on the one girl. I don’t want to be a dick and take his crush. But at the same time it pisses me off he’s not making a move. Also what’re some lines that I could use that are more sexual. I usually ask her basic questions to get to know her | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | How to I transition from sex with unattractive women to attractive ones?Okay and can you elaborate on why I should keep the 6s? I always thought that’d I’d rather be jacking it. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 02:53 AM |
| 1 | How to I transition from sex with unattractive women to attractive ones?How do I do that ? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 01:10 AM |
| 1 | How to I transition from sex with unattractive women to attractive ones?Okay the thing is that I appear very beta in front of hot women. I’ll usually ask boring questions and lose her interest rather fast. Then I resort to getting a Snapchat and walking away. It doesn’t really end up well. Another thing I need to stop is setting expectation. It’s like every time I go out, I have this expectation to pick up a girl or get some contact info. But I think this sets me up for failure | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 08:40 PM |
| 2 | How to I transition from sex with unattractive women to attractive ones?Okay can I learn to control by jealousy and anger from getting rejected or losing a girl to another guy? I think this really stops me from getting higher grade girls | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 08:36 PM |
| 9 | Attracting Women by AccidentMaybe I am a hobo that’s autistic, now how do you feel you douchebagel! | /r/askTRP | 18/12/17 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Meeting Up TonightFor sure man Ill keep you posted!! | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Knowing When to Approach and Not ToTrue true, if I may ask what groups did you join? I'm thinking about joining this ski club but it costs a lot to go on events. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/17 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Knowing When to Approach and Not ToI'm not getting frustrated for you suggesting that, I'm pissed because I've honestly been putting forth a lot of effort to get to know people. Nobody on my floor even leaves their door open. My roommate is the same way and he rarely wants to eat with me at the dining hall. I'm a shy guy so it's harder for me to interact with strangers on a personal level. Like I've been attending different frat events and meeting people there but none of those kids really like me unless I join. Nobody's blaming … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/17 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Knowing When to Approach and Not ToWell wtf man I'm already joining a frat and trying to be cool with people on my dorm floor. What else am I supposed to do when people aren't that cool to begin with. I'll see if I can join a club maybe but that's all I can think of doing. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/17 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Knowing When to Approach and Not ToYeah well my first year here I don't have many lol. The ones I do have either live in a frat or an apartment. A couple guys in my dorm including my roommate go with me occasionally. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/17 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Knowing When to Approach and Not ToYeah that's what my issue is haha. What do you suggest about large dining halls? I usually go alone and feel lame for sitting alone. But whenever I sat with some random girls they usually feel freaked out. Maybe it's better to sit alone in this situation . | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/17 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Knowing When to Approach and Not ToYeah but I feel like this takes so much longer. Especially at a big university | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/17 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Sorority WeekWhat do you mean by wait a few days to gauge interest? Since she already told me she was busy what else is there for me to text back? Also by "if she continues to initiate", your talking about her texting me first and not the other way around? Ok so basically your saying don't respond right now, then later on during the week ask for her to tag along for dinner or something. Then if she flakes with that attempt then just stop trying altogether. The problem is that sorority week is happening all t… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 08:03 PM |
| 1 | I Need HelpYea that's what I read with another post on here. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/17 04:43 PM |
| 1 | TinderHahahah okay that was a good one, I'm just not sure how she'll react. Is it the more ballsy the approach the better chance of getting laid? Obviously there's more risk with that one. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/17 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Cute Girl in ClassRight, so maybe sit somewhere else and talk to other women. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/17 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Setting Up a Date on CampusAlright yeah so she already gave me a day, next Wednesday she said she's free, but she didn't give me a time. With classes starting I'm trying to figure out if I should ask her schedule that day or just give her a time and hope it works. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Setting Up a Date on CampusOk so I understand what your saying and it helps a lot with my knowledge of dating. But as far as my specific situation should I just tell her a time and expect her to accept or counter? Or do I ask what's her schedule like? | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Strike 3Alright so I messaged her telling her I'm going for coffee on ___ @___ ,care to join?" I probably shouldn't of asked like that. She responded with "I'll have to check my schedule I'll let you know if I'm free". | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/17 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Strike 3Ok, that basically answered my question. Just curious, but why wait a few days if she already responded last night. Wouldn't it be easier to just set something up for today if she's able? Also, if I told her to meet up a couple days later, wouldn't she lost interest by that point?! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/17 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Strike 3Great advice man I wish I'd seen this earlier. So, i actually messaged right as I added her. As a result she responded but not until 1 am last night. Except I was already asleep by that time. Now I feel like I need to make a move. I'm going to try to invite her for coffee on campus. The only thing is we have differing class schedules so do I just tell her I'm grabbing coffee and hope she responds/counters?! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/17 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Strike 3So she messaged me back at like 1 am last night but I had already been asleep. Not sure if she was looking for a late night hookup or what. I just didn't want it to seem like I was waiting all night for her to respond. I'm now trying to figure out a plan to meet up with her again. I might tell her something like " I'm heading to grab a coffee on campus , care to join?" | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/17 01:02 PM |
| 3 | Strike 3You know I should've tried to touch her in a non creepy way during our conversation. That might've changed the end result in this situation. But yeah your right I was following them like one of their girlfriends. No wonder I was clearly in the friend zone. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/17 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Strike 3Right my issue was trying to get the girl I wanted away from her friend w/o it seeming odd. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/17 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Strike 3Tell me what I could've done differently?! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/17 02:42 AM |
| 5 | Strike 3Bro that was honestly a mistake | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/17 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Your Main Focus Should Not Be WomenI NEED SOME ADVICE!! I just transferred into a University and I'm having trouble getting women. I'm also a virgin still so it seems like i have yet to cross the barrier of experiencing a sexual life. Recently I went to a frat party and the girls there were interested in the other guys. I tried my best to be confident, had some drinks, but I came off a bit thirsty to the women there according to my roommate. Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place but I thought frats were good for finding women. I'm… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/17 03:44 PM |
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