I’ve been taking some advice from you guys. I tried to go in for a kiss rather than asking. It worked out great because she seemed to be into me the whole time. I got her to follow me, to leave the social event where we were at to go grab food.

After food we just kind of walked to her place. It all seemed so easy. But then when we got there she got all anxious because her roommate saw her with me. Apparently she doesn’t bring guys back much.

So we go to her room. We’re on the bed so I go in for the kiss and we start making out. Halfway through I ask if we can turn off the lights. I’m not sure if this killed the attraction. Because she kinda hesitated. But we’re making out in the dark.

I get her on top of me and it’s heating up. I start grabbing her ass and putting my hand down her pants to touch her bare butt. At one point I say “want to take your top off”. She said no thanks. Soon enough she got off me and said she’s not trying to go further. She claims it’s because her roommates felt uncomfortable.

Well I figure we’re both drunk and I shouldn’t push things. I go to leave her place and kiss her one more time. I ask if she had weekend plans but I didn’t get a sure response.

Now the thing is that I did get her number after she initially went for Snapchat. But I already sent her two messages when I was drunk. The first was an initial “hey this is so and so”. The second was when I was drunk and made a joke about the food I left at her place.

No response yet. I don’t want to seem desperate by sending a third message. But I really liked her and she was pretty cute. I thought about sending a final “ hey it was great spending the night with you” or something along those lines. It sucks because I got so far . What do you guys think?