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| 15 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?I'll just stay 'regressive' and continue liking classically handsome men, then. Libfems need to fucking stop pushing women to 'like' men like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:51 AM |
| 4 | Who’s the best example of a HMV celebrity?Adam Brody, Leighton Meester's husband. Not even a whisper about him being LV. They are quite private, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 04:33 AM |
| 2 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonTHANK YOU. He seems like a love bomber | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 04:26 AM |
| 7 | Men who thump their fists on the table when trying to 'emphasize' a pointOooh I wanna observe this. My friends date guys who do the fist thumping thing and I know at least one of them breaks stuff when he's mad.... Let me keep a lookout for if they display physical aggression in front of physically stronger and more confident men. Unfortunately I can't stop my friends from settling for these people, they're too ingrained in a culture that glorifies settling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 03:38 AM |
| 105 | Taylor Swift’s “All Too Well”Taylor and I are kind of similar in age and I feel like we kind of grew up together, even though we come from such different worlds. I too was once naive and desperate for love. I feel more confident now and I think she does too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 11:41 AM |
| 164 | How to make it clear you will NOT go on a drinks date?Yeah if you tell them what you like, they'll pretend that's their behavioral standard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 01:40 AM |
| 2 | My family and friends push me to be a pickme & tell me I’m being too picky if I don’t want to date men I don’t find attractive.Every time you are 'picky,' you save yourself a lifetime of misery, arguments, 'compromise,' and constantly feeling upset or anxious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 03:06 AM |
| 16 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?That's hilarious!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Please carve my eyes out of my head nowWhy do they think the dick pic thing would ever work??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 03:25 AM |
| 40 | Today in 'having a kid together won't fix your relationship'Also dispels the myth that only 'ugly' or average women get treated like shit by their partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 07:53 AM |
| 71 | if you’re gonna get married they better talk about you like Stephen Colbert talks about his wife Evelyn McGeeAlso just noting that he looks pretty good for his age! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 12:21 PM |
| 15 | Don't settle for less 😆I have NO idea how so many women characters in this show fall for Joe..... Like, help me understand. I'm not talking about Penn Badgley, just Joe specifically | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 02:51 AM |
| 20 | Brian Laundrie’s remains found…Well.... he doesn't get to hurt more women. His parents are still shady AF tho. I've been watching too much 'You' on Netflix. When I read about the teeth the first thing I thought about was [SPOILER ALERT AHEAD] Joe's toes.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 03:30 PM |
| 113 | Watched a man be who he was when he thought no one was watching IRL. There are far more tricks to hide activity than I ever knew.I bet he gets 'father of the year' awards on Facebook, too... That is next-level gross behavior. I'm surprised none of the airline crew caught on?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 03:15 AM |
| 72 | quick and easy ways to vet: how to tell there is a mask in the first placeThere are 2 main kinds of masks, in my experience. The first is the love bombing, 'you can do no wrong because you're the perfect woman' type - this guy is very very earnest and suuuuuper into you (at first). Kind of a male pickme? The other is smooth, suave, controlled, arrogant, IDGAF vibe - he will almost never reveal any type of emotion. I think this type of guy is more of the red pill type. He's trying to get YOU to be super into HIM (wants you to be the pickme). I'm no expert though. Just … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 05:19 AM |
| 138 | Reading a relationship book made me realise I don't want a relationship that muchit's about a continuous performance. i don't want to perform or pretend, i want to vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:57 PM |
| 7 | The lack of attractive men out there is so dishearteningEXACTLY THIS. THIS IS WHY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 08:21 AM |
| 400 | Imagine you welcome a new baby and your husband responds by wearing earplugs to bed every nightLVM are like this with: Babies - "stop crying" Children - "stop talking" Pets - "stop barking/meowing" Women - "stop nagging" You'd think LVM would prefer social isolation but nooooo, we all know how much LVM hate being alone far more than women. They just want mute bangmaids and children/pets as toys to play with when it suits them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?I blame the phrase 'the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:27 AM |
| 17 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?This part about performative femininity. Is it pickme culture to constantly show off cooking/baking skills on social media, hoping the guy of the month sees it and becomes convinced to 'pick her?' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 02:15 PM |
| 12 | this girl planned a party for her boyfriend, when it was actually her secret proposal party, and a South Asian dating site wants us to believe it’s romantic. thankfully girls are catching on to this low effort bsYes, desi men are notoriously stingy. They'll splurge on themselves sometimes, but not on others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 11:03 AM |
| 224 | Funny?? - women are treated worse than pets.Beware the men who intentionally use their dogs to make themselves more appealing to women! LooK hOW compASSionate i Am | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 10:38 AM |
| 29 | Sex with a narcissistYes would love to hear from any experts on this group! One of my friends was with a narc who was so good at narc-ing he even turned some of her own family against her..... We definitely need more awareness about the different types of narcissism and common signs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 08:15 AM |
| 136 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the Victimit broke my heart when she kept saying 'i'm sorry' so many times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Even though women should not ask men out, I wonder if it would be safer for us if it were the norm.There was a post or some comment in FDS a while back that was basically like, even asking a simple question/conversation starter (nothing flirty, no innuendo) or a TINY bit of eye contact would be enough to indicate to the guy that you're not opposed to him talking to you. That's enough because if he's a LVM he will take that as a sign you're desperate for his lOve AnD atTentiOn (or SeX). If he's a HVM he will initiate courting you in respectful ways. This is merely a SLIGHT indication of intere… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 04:15 AM |
| 6 | What should you do when you can't trust your own intuition?Immediate attraction (based mostly on visual cues) and gut intuition are different things. I've often confused the two, though, in my peak pickme days. I haven't fully solved it yet. But I'm focusing on really simple things like: Immediate attraction - omg I WANT this dress Intuition - I know it's out of my budget though. I know deep down I would rather save this money Decision - I will purchase this one day if it makes financial sense to do so. I will admire its looks from afar, but I will not … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 04:08 AM |
| 10 | Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name?I also like the idea of combining last names. I know a few couple friends who did this. https://www.nytimes.com/2020/03/11/fashion/weddings/name-change-after-marriage-not-always-easy.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 03:50 AM |
| 17 | When a guys says he is a good listener'I'm a good listener' can mean a couple of different things based on the guy. Some possibilities: - Create a false sense of 'connection' so that you will want to have sex with him - Using vulnerable information to hurt you later - Can't carry a conversation - Can 'listen' but can't empathize. Often interrupts and makes judgements or assumptions - Manipulative 'nice guy' behavior - Has a rescue complex to 'save' you from your problems - He will expect you to share and be vulnerable but he will NE… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 04:42 AM |
| 15 | Men who have no talking gameGreat point about jobs!!! These so called 'quiet' guys I have met for dates work in teams often, in fields like management consulting, product management.... There's NO way they'd make it through the interview process if they can't actually carry a conversation. So on a date it's pretty much just low effort..... Gosh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:34 AM |
| 53 | Men who have no talking gameOMG! I've also had about 50/50 with men who go on and on and on, and men who speak very little..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 03:07 PM |
| 35 | How Twilight’s Purity Culture and 50 Shades’s Kink Culture Play Well TogetherCan you make this a post?? It's a fantastic list/comparison | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | When you are not attracted to a potential HVM... SighNext time don't tell a man you went for only one date with the reason as to why you'd rather not keep dating. No explanations. You don't need to explain yourself at that early stage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 08:47 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, we need to talk about this...so... more women in power? more women purchasing weapons? more women learning self defense? more women making more money? more women forming networks of support with each other? all of the above probably? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 02:03 PM |
| 54 | When men withhold feelings/emotions: do they have them or do they just not care?they'rE LoGIcaL anD AnALYticAL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:16 AM |
| 6 | He said he wanted a relationshipblock, delete, move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:13 AM |
| 2 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴oh yuck. And did she write a book about Jacob 'falling in love' with Bella??? (GROSS she's a BABY) Also, this series is the reason fifty shades of gray exists in the first place. barf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:06 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, we need to talk about this...oh God. Exactly. I am so fearful of the future (and in some countries the present I guess, like rural Afghanistan) for women who dare to 'disobey' thousands of years of patriarchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Finally got the guts to break off my 6 month situationshipLong may it last indeed! You are doing AWESOME! Wish I was that smart at age 21! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:13 AM |
| 13 | Ladies, we need to talk about this...I fear that the day will come women will be fined (or much much worse) for refusing to date, have sex, marry, put out babies, be bangmaids etc. all with LVM (who are the majority, let's face it). because it's our 'duty' to do those things and be subservient. I really think this might happen sooner than we think. I don't know how we can protect ourselves - physically and legally - if that happens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:11 AM |
| 7 | I finally left.This was so painful to read. I'm so sorry. But congrats on ending it. He belongs in jail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:07 AM |
| 59 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴Twilight. Never understood the hype about such a creepy story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many women still want to get married?Thanks :) as far as I know, prenups aren't a thing where I live rn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 09:59 AM |
| 7 | Why do so many women still want to get married?Since things go wrong more often that not, what if the woman (not the man) stands to lose more assets because of a divorce? Traditionally it is the man who has more assets but more and more women are becoming wealthy in their own right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 04:22 AM |
| 29 | What's coming next? Do you think things will get better or worse?is it just me or does it seem like he's trying too hard to be the woke supportive husband and father? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:16 PM |
| 105 | LANA Rhoades Cries remembering how she was treated in the porn industry. Co-hosts agree porn is influencing men’s behavior.Yes, we should!!! It makes me sad that these scrotes seem to equate 'performing sexual acts' with 'being a literal sex object.' She's still a human, and apparently women who do porn are objects and not human according to these scrotes. Sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:23 AM |
| 144 | LANA Rhoades Cries remembering how she was treated in the porn industry. Co-hosts agree porn is influencing men’s behavior.The comments on that video.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:47 AM |
| 7 | Would you be dating someone like this? Before he turned out to be a LVM (later part of the movie)didn't like him from the beginning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:45 AM |
| 146 | Pick me mother said to me that she wished she had forced me into marriage in my teens so she could have grandchildren"I suffered so you must suffer, too." Freaking narcs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 03:06 AM |
| 9 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.I would say for most fuckboys this is not the case. However, two of my cousins are 'reformed fuckboys.' One married in his late 30s to a late 20s woman and he is a devoted husband/father. The other married in his early thirties to a woman in her early 20s and he is a devoted husband/father too. The age gap does raise my eyebrows. They are too tired to be fucking around with other women since they both took on more responsibilities with the family business around the same time they married. I gue… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 03:02 AM |
| 2 | The eternal Hollywood fuckboyNever found him attractive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 09:15 AM |
| 5 | FDS position on lube?thank you <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 12:21 PM |
| 351 | FDS position on lube?My opinion: Women using lube because their bodies just naturally need more, even if they are aroused (speaking from personal experience here) - good Men using lube because they're supposed to use them with condoms to prevent breakage - good Men paying for lube - very good unless he's a fuckboi with lube storage Anyone using spit as lube substitute - NOT good Men thinking lube is a substitute for foreplay and turning a woman on - NOT good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 06:29 AM |
| 61 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!there are dozens of reddit subs with nude women's photos, faces and all so that their identify is 100% obvious. I always wonder whether they posted their own nudes willingly on the internet (why would you??!!!) or whether it is without their consent. so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 01:44 PM |
| 10 | SNOOPING 101Oh gotcha, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 01:44 PM |
| 23 | SNOOPING 101How'd they do this??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 01:18 PM |
| 9 | Division of laborOMG THIS. EVERY SINGLE GODDAMN DAY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:55 AM |
| 30 | “But sex is only a small part of a relationship.”AtTraCTIon groWS oVeR tImE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 10:30 AM |
| 13 | “But sex is only a small part of a relationship.”OMG NO WONDER sex isn't important to these people! I thought I was the crazy one for thinking it was an important part of a relationship!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 10:29 AM |
| 19 | How to tell if a guy watches porn?Read the comments over here :) Same topic https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/oq0nux/what\_are\_some\_tell\_tale\_signs\_a\_man\_is\_into\_porn/h6ckklg/?context=3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:35 PM |
| 58 | PiCk Me. I don’t require any effort or standards.Yeah, I don't know any women who would use the phrase 'gave him some hard dick.' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | I need help establishing my ground rules for dating.Do not TELL a man your standards and expectations. Watch and see whether he treats you the way you want to be treated or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 05:14 AM |
| 774 | Why do men think we are in love with them after 1 date?Because he wanted you to reply: "thAt's oKaY We cAN jUSt chIlL ouT. I doN't want anYTHIng seRIouS eITher. I'm totaLLy HapPY to JuST TakE thINGs at yOUR paCE.' His pace is just sex lol these men are hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else not dating becauseOh my god..... Keep blocking him. With time, you will heal from this experience. Remember you are better off without him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 04:23 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else not dating becauseI am a voluntary cel right now :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 04:20 AM |
| 27 | Anyone else not dating becauseSkating is amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 04:11 PM |
| 45 | Anyone else not dating becauseGlad to hear I'm not alone in this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 03:41 PM |
| 1 | is it just me or is it weird if a guy that isn't your boyfriend texts you too many winky facesNo such thing as 'way too strict.' And yes emojis are so cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 11:40 AM |
| 6 | Team Edward or Team Jacob: How Love Triangles Primed a Generation of Women for LVM (intro)I wish she wrote a series about the Volturi or the Denalis instead. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Date ideas that don't revolve around food but where he still pays something?this is perfect and such an easy way to vet out low effort men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 09:38 AM |
| 2 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?Saying "why don't you like (insert depraved sexual activity)? AlL gIrLS LiKE thIs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 09:20 AM |
| 10 | A common DM I get from scrotes - “you’ll be forever alone”. Let’s discuss this..There are so few HVM in this world. I would rather be 'alone' than with a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Got out quickOMG, this explains so much! https://www.businessinsider.com/the-types-of-people-narcissists-are-attracted-to-2018-8 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 05:48 AM |
| 6 | Vetting Men by their job positionCyber security. Means he can track and stalk your every move if he wanted to! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 05:45 AM |
| 5 | What are some tell-tale/subtle signs of a LV/NV man “warming” you up to physical abuse?Playful pinching or squeezing. Similar to tickling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 05:19 AM |
| 4 | How scrotes treat “The One that Got Away”the fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 04:59 AM |
| 6 | I want to get your opinion on the characters Billie and Cooper on the Netflix show “Sex/Life”They all suck in different ways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 04:48 AM |
| 4 | Filter questionsI agree with your approach! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:56 PM |
| 3 | 5 Ways to Weed Out Guys Only Looking for Casual SexWhy doesn't this have more views??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Filter questionsI tend not to ask too many questions. I just make some comment or observation and men almost always jump in with their opinion lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:45 PM |
| 4 | Filter questionsHow do you look up their internet history without needing Touch or Face ID? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Covert NarcissistGo for it! Moving is very freeing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:39 PM |
| 7 | ABV - Always Be VettingSide note I LOVE how you have written this, concealing any extremely specific information that will reveal exactly who you are. Good work on being clear enough for us to understand, but also protecting your identity!! Enjoy your queen time! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:36 PM |
| 2 | First date offer 🙄iF YoU'Re gAmE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Please we need to save her. He ghosted her and she still wants to be friends??? That’s code for secretly hoping for a relationship. This girl needs to realize the mistake she’s makingHE's still young???!!!! YOU'RE still young, girl!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 06:08 AM |
| 11 | A guy recently called me “cold and hard to read” .. this was after he sent me two gross, unsolicited nudes that made me want to vomit. Block and delete!And why do they think the only way to get to know a woman is to bombard her with a billion, extremely personal questions? Have you heard of 'show and tell,' dudes??!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 06:02 AM |
| 8 | It isn’t that bad…Condoms + fertility awareness, every single time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:38 AM |
| 9 | Don’t.do.this ladiesI got tired just from reading this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 09:25 AM |
| 7 | “Why are you still single?” And other questions I hate answeringI mock the people who ask me this question :P "I knowww..... I'm sooooo SAD and LONELY. Poor me. I'm so grateful to have people who care so much about my happiness!" Sarcasm is lost on these people but I still have a laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 06:03 AM |
| 4 | Legit fucking terrifying that men like this exist.armie hammer alert | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 09:27 AM |
| 8 | Iliza Shlesinger’s Ex-Boyfriend Lied About Everything—So She Made a Netflix Movie About HimReally liked this! To me it seemed way more FDS than 'Promising Young Woman.' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Audacity of FathersRight!!?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Audacity of Fathersthis is why women and girls are kept in the dark about pregnancy, risks, labor, and side effects.. they don't want us to know the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:00 PM |
| 29 | Another reason OLD is toxic. Tinder helping men cheatI have a bunch saved saying 'blocked' or 'red flag' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:30 PM |
| 17 | Another reason OLD is toxic. Tinder helping men cheatme too. this was my first thought. but yeah it can be used by cheaters too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:29 PM |
| 3 | UNICEF Report Says Pornography Not Always Harmful to Childrenwhat the FUCKING FUCK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:59 AM |
| 1 | You know what’s attractive? Men who take care of themselves.Totally agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 05:20 AM |
| 3 | You know what’s attractive? Men who take care of themselves.My ex had most of these BUT he was struggling a lot to achieve all of them which is one of the reasons he felt it wasn't fair to keep dating me. I was a PickMe so I said I was patient and I'd wait and support him etc. etc. (ugh, I know) but he broke up with me. I'm glad he did because he is STILL THE SAME after so long (we have mutual friends so I know how he's doing). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:40 AM |
| 5 | You know what’s attractive? Men who take care of themselves.Also I hate how 'go to therapy' is now the 'go-to' response when someone shares something very vulnerable about themselves with someone they trust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:33 AM |
| 3 | You know what’s attractive? Men who take care of themselves.I'm going to add 'doesn't sexualize little girls (or boys') bodies. Changes diapers, helps with keeping baby/toddler clean without worrying about coming across as 'inappropriate.' Why is it inappropriate to change your baby girl's diapers, bro? Oh oh and not having a problem with women breastfeeding in public or during breaks at work. Not a sexual function bro. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:30 AM |
| 19 | Signs from men who try to create a false sense of intimacy.Put this in the handbook! This one time on a date this guy totally future faked me on the SECOND date. He had other red flags too. So when he future faked me I just raised my eyebrow and was like "oh really? so you think I'm going to be playing summer games with you and your friends in 3 months?' He was so SHOCKED I didn't fall for it hahahah the look on his face xD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:16 AM |
| 4 | Remember ladies - if he doesn’t respond to your text within a reasonable amount of time he’s not excited about you.I also think it's a red flag if they respond instantly, all the time. To me it shows they're obsessed with me or have nothing going on in their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:12 AM |
| 6 | Why I forget things at his place.Or they do it to show off that they have a Rolex and can afford to 'forget' one? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 08:49 AM |
| 3 | How can I figure out what I'm truly physically attracted to, since we've all been coerced into having no standards?Think about whether you want his breath anywhere near where you can smell it or feel it. Sounds gross when I put it like that lol. But basically, even if a guy is 'good looking' by conventional standards and you don't find him unpleasant to look at, AND YET your body doesn't want to close the distance between you and him, it means your body doesn't want him. Your mind and heart might trick you but in my experience, our bodies don't lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Self Appreciation or Gratitude: what do you love about yourself?fantastic decision!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Self Appreciation or Gratitude: what do you love about yourself?thank you for this <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Self Appreciation or Gratitude: what do you love about yourself?<3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Self Appreciation or Gratitude: what do you love about yourself?amazing!!! thank you for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Self Appreciation or Gratitude: what do you love about yourself?Amazing perspective! Girls are socialized not to be 'angry' from a young age, lest we refuse to put up with BS as we age! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 06:05 AM |
| 8 | Green Flag BaitTrue. I have a finsta to follow female and financial empowerment pages. I don't want people to know my goals. #stealthmode Similarly, a scrote can have infinite hidden accounts. You just never know for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 03:20 PM |
| 6 | Watch Out for Negs and Men Who Are Jealous Of YouAnd how are they faring after having married down? :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 03:04 PM |
| 2 | A conversation between my friend and I. We are in our 40s and married with children. Made me think of you girls.oh cool, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | A conversation between my friend and I. We are in our 40s and married with children. Made me think of you girls.what's SMBC? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 05:41 AM |
| 6 | Size matters. Men need to stop shaming women for preferring big dicks.The more relaxed a woman is, the more 'space' there is inside, right? This 3 inch thing sounds like they want a woman to be tense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 05:34 AM |
| 6 | My aunt had FDS principles for decades. I used to think she was a crazy spinster. Now I realize that she is right about everything.What a queen! And so rare in the Indian community. Most women (and men) bow down to the pressure of getting married just to fit in to the community. Your aunt is awesome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 05:30 AM |
| 5 | If men really wanted to be good boyfriends/husbands, there would be more communities on it. But instead, we get communities where men share advice on how to use women for sex and other benefits. The internet is a reflection of men's true priorities. They can't lie to us anymore.Who would have thought that you could be rich and famous by telling men to clean their rooms and their bodies...... Heck, I'd have been jordan peterson if I'd known I could write that book.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:40 PM |
| 3 | How to reject men without fear of violence?lol omg can someone put the link here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 02:14 PM |
| 16 | How to reject men without fear of violence?Scrotes hate on resting bitch face 'RBF' because really RBF is about a woman's confidence and power within herself. It's unmistakable and freaks them the fuck out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 02:13 PM |
| 2 | OLD Red Flag Words & Phrasesor they have a feeder fetish!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 07:09 AM |
| 10 | What to look for in a HVM: The 8 C’syes, handbook please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 05:50 AM |
| 10 | OLD Red Flag Words & Phrases"Unorthodox/unique/intellectual/independent/rebel" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 04:12 AM |
| 40 | Nothing newlol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:37 PM |
| 9 | Nothing newFor real, the only answer!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:26 PM |
| 171 | Nothing newReminds me of men referring to their favorite vehicles as 'she' like WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:22 PM |
| 10 | Yep, not falling for it.Thank you <3 I'm a pretty private person IRL so that does help! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:20 PM |
| 28 | Yep, not falling for it.First off, I wholeheartedly agree that women are happier single than married to LVM, which most men are!! This is why I am HAPPY with the likelihood of 'dying alone' lol However, in my experience, both (married) women and men in the workplace are averse to unmarried female bosses. Averse to the point of not doing their jobs, not following 'orders,' being disrespectful af to said female boss during meetings etc. They just think unmarried women are LVW or NVW..... I've seen this happening to my ow… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Why BDSM is the worst idea, personal experienceOoooh I love the way you phrased it!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Why BDSM is the worst idea, personal experienceThere's this popular idea among libfems/scrotes that it's only kink/BDSM that is adventurous and keeps things from being boring; I don't think that's true. The kind of sex you describe can be WAY MORE adventurous and exciting, IMO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:01 AM |
| 4 | Shut down those random men who itch to have an argumentI no longer engage with, argue with, defend myself against, or CoMUnICate with LVM or LVW. It's futile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:52 AM |
| 6 | Shut down those random men who itch to have an argumentBecause a woman's true worth is in being a babymaker, according to him!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:51 AM |
| 1 | I like good abs and I can not lie...Yes working out together is awesome!! Sorry I meant 'gym rat' as in a guy whose personality revolves around boasting about how much of a buff dude he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Online dating strategies (research and warding off LVM)That's true! I used to use Snap for that with friends, as well. Thanks for pointing that out!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 03:07 PM |
| 53 | I like good abs and I can not lie...This. You don't want a gym rat but someone who takes care of themselves and their health, and has a hobby/fitness activity that's based on healthy things like self improvement, persistence, and motivation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 03:00 PM |
| 23 | I like good abs and I can not lie...I am so glad I'm not the only one. I get shallow-shamed for this constantly by family and friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:58 PM |
| 22 | Online dating strategies (research and warding off LVM)I'm no advocate of online dating either, but thought it might be helpful for women who are using them, or new to the experience entirely :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Trigger Warning - French court rules that 13 year old girl WASN'T gang-raped (actually, she was)I like France for their delicious desserts but that's about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Getting used to being treated wellgotcha :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 11:02 AM |
| 3 | Let’s talk about sexNah they lick what they THINK your clit is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 06:49 AM |
| 3 | Let’s talk about sexThere is nothing shameful about some women needing more lube, and some women needing less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 06:48 AM |
| 6 | Let’s talk about sexEven before porn, I doubt men gave a shit about women's pleasure. Patriarchy is timeless. *edit timeless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 06:47 AM |
| 24 | Getting used to being treated wellBe cautious. Most men who 'hang on to every word' and 'simp' as you say, are actually wolves in sheep's clothing IMO. Be careful because they might get clingy or stalkery when they find out you were never into them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 06:38 AM |
| 1 | I’ve had to use this so many times, sadly it doesn’t always work..If I'm in my parents' hometown and someone messes with me I pull the Draco Malfoy card and say 'do you know who my father is?' But I'm still using a man's name as a shield. How sad this world is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Please be careful not to give out any personal information about yourself!!!Plugging myself here but I wrote a related post on FDS a while back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Oh look, another libfem pickme "journalist" spreading lies about FDS. This was the author of the Verge article 🤡ahahaha she's going to see this post and comments and be all 'wOMen WhO don'T SuPpOrt oTheR WomeN (such as myself, Erin Taylor) AREN't reAL WomEN.' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 05:11 PM |
| 30 | Beware the Male FeministThat's disgusting. So sorry that happened to you. Libfems (and a certain sub type of liberals in general) LOOOOOVE to talk, talk, and talk about stuff like this. It's so draining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Human penises are shrinking because of pollution, warns scientist. Dr Swan believes that the rapidly decreasing fertility rate means that most men will be unable to produce viable sperm by 2045. These chemicals have long been known to cause infertility in women (PCOS), but men affected makes news.This made me think - how does this affect our choice to have children or not? I'm in my 'fertile age' but I don't want any child of mine to grow up or live in a Children of Men (the movie) world. Anyone having similar thoughts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 05:05 PM |
| 8 | Promising Young Women is an empowering movie for all women **Trigger Warningfrom the comments here, it seems like it's a bigger minority than you think :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 13 | Promising Young Women is an empowering movie for all women **Trigger WarningExactly. It was a 'slap in the face' for her to have to sexually lure then, and then to be murdered in the end. And somehow I had the knowledge these guys would have good lawyers and then be out of prison in like 6 months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 68 | Reproductive Strategythe 'mini me' trend is so creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:35 AM |
| 67 | Reproductive StrategyYeah it isn't PC to say celibacy is the best BC but it is! You could also avoid sex on your 'fertile days' (refer 'natural family planning') as an ADDED precaution with condoms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Found this on Instagram 🤢🤢Choriocarcinoma the world keeps women in the dark about pregnancy, labor, and risks... -_____- somewhere in FDS there's a separate post about this issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Found this on Instagram 🤢🤢Shit. This is too true! If an Indian guy doesn't even know how to cook and do his laundry, I'm out! It's one of the signs I use to vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:20 AM |
| 4 | Do not feel bad for having physical standards - women deserve to be with a man they find physically attractiveI am the same way! I know right away if I want to be physically intimate with a guy or not. If I don't want it, I feel all icky and clam up like you said. Unfortunately most of my girl friends are all about that 'attraction grows over time' life, so they have settled for their guys. But apparently women like US are the crazy ones! I think it's because society (especially older pickme women) has ingrained in women that they are worthless without a man, no matter how worthless the man himself is! … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:18 AM |
| 1 | "Women can have a man who is either attractive or a good person, but not both. If you want to date a hot guy, expect him to treat you like shit. If you don't want to be abused, you have to put up with having sex with someone you're not attracted to"yes!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?gotcha! :) You is bad and potentially triggering but I think it is important educationally, for women on how to look out for blood-red flags! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:03 AM |
| 39 | Men who don't ask questions (99.9%)this happened to me recently. monologues are such a turn off! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:29 PM |
| 4 | "Women can have a man who is either attractive or a good person, but not both. If you want to date a hot guy, expect him to treat you like shit. If you don't want to be abused, you have to put up with having sex with someone you're not attracted to"i wouldn't want someone to settle for me because i'm the 'ugly nice girl.' so i don't want to treat anyone that way either. i actually want to want the person. simple! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?haha. my motto is 'show don't tell' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?plenty of LVM are intellectual and well-read. they also tend to be slightly sociopathic with a good understanding of how OTHERS' emotions work. think of the guy in You on Netflix. he's super well read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?oh yes!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:17 PM |
| 8 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?when you're 'talking' and he prefers the sound of his own voice rambling on for 8 to 15 minutes (I counted) instead of hearing yours. it's like they want a human wall to just absorb the sound of their voice. SOMETIMES this could be anxiety or shyness but i am done giving men the benefit of the doubt. when you DO get a chance to speak, he questions, contradicts, dismisses or low key ridicules everything you say under the guise of 'intellectual disagreement.' this isn't philosophy or politics 101,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:58 PM |
| 6 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?I fucking HATE this. They think they're SO SMART when they do this. YUCK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:49 PM |
| 11 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?you're right but i'm also wary of those men who start off by talking about how proudly feminist they are (spoiler: they're not) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Be cautious of men trying to court you on/around valentines day.yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Be cautious of men trying to court you on/around valentines day.i'm like you! most guys don't have good enough taste to get me something i'd like lol i prefer to be consulted/included when they want to buy stuff. also, beware of guys who don't treat women well suddenly pulling out all the stops for valentine's. this is the 'grand romantic gesture' (barf) that's supposed to cancel out the way he treats women otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:53 AM |
| 3 | The Prince in Bridgerton - *not a HVM?oh Anthony and Simon are def worse! I didn't even want to get into their LVM-ness in the original post! the worst of all was Nigel who literally compared her to property. he's a NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 10:49 AM |
| 5 | The Prince in Bridgerton - *not a HVM?Great points! Lady Danbury is my favorite HVW in the show! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:12 AM |
| 3 | The Prince in Bridgerton - *not a HVM?That's a great point about the Prince accepting Daphne's choice! Anthony is supposed to be in his late twenties. Spoiler alert in the books - one of the younger brothers marries a woman in lower social standing because he can do that, not having the Viscount title, responsibilities, and having to continue the line of Viscounts. Also can we agree that 'historical romance' is one of the most anti FDS genres ever lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Seeking self improvement on my shortcomings that turn men off commitmentAll things for me to be conscious of. Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Seeking self improvement on my shortcomings that turn men off commitmentThanks :) I plan on it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Seeking self improvement on my shortcomings that turn men off commitmentI hear you, my friend! The emotional availability thing is definitely tricky. Honestly I think the rule of thumb just has to be that he has to love, want, need, and give (including emotional availability) to you more than you to him. Good luck to us both! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:24 PM |
| 5 | Seeking self improvement on my shortcomings that turn men off commitmentOoohh it may be a selection thing!! I've been using only online dating because I literally don't meet men any other way. I hate online dating though.... And thanks :) There's nothing wrong-wrong about me, but I am always looking for ways to improve! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Seeking self improvement on my shortcomings that turn men off commitmentAyyy now to find someone who'll fall in love with me for keeps ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | That Pickmeisha lifestyle....saw on IGMy poor eyes. I would rather 'die alone' than this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:06 AM |
| 4 | Pickmeisha attitudes can destroy friendshipsI think she's more LVW than pickmeisha (I think most pickmeishas are good people who haven't learned how to stand up for themselves and bend over backwards for a little bit of validation). I think we all have 'friends' like this. They tell you there's something wrong with you or your partner (or both) because they are JEALOUS AS FUCK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as a male pick-me?Yes, definitely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Something that I think more women should come to expect - having their own room when living with a partnerOH HELL YES. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 05:06 PM |
| 3 | What country do you think has the least scrotes and why?New Zealand? Iceland? Ireland? Or nowhere lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:23 AM |
| 7 | He bought me a pretty necklace and ring set just because! (Ring not shown, resizing)Congrats! But please keep yourself safe by not posting any identifiable pictures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:21 AM |
| 3 | I say, "It's mine bitch, it's just your turn. see yourself out."LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 06:17 AM |
| 7 | I say, "It's mine bitch, it's just your turn. see yourself out."Who taught men that women like this??!!! (a man or pickmeisha) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 06:17 AM |
| 2 | What am I supposed to want from a boyfriend or husband?thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 12:17 PM |
| 1 | What am I supposed to want from a boyfriend or husband?hehe, yeah :) this trust issue thing is definitely my achilles heel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 12:16 PM |
| 2 | What am I supposed to want from a boyfriend or husband?thank you! yeah, the hardest part for me will be letting myself be in love.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 01:38 AM |
| 5 | What am I supposed to want from a boyfriend or husband?thank you! will think about those. i am hesitant to let myself love because that means being vulnerable and being open to the possibility of getting hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 01:37 AM |
| 5 | How do you know if you’re too picky?I think you're doing great, and you have a full, rich life with or without a man! It could also be where you live, though. Some places have more LVM than others. When it comes to being picky, I think for me personally, having standards (not being picky) would be like this: 'I will not date a man who is xx years or older." Picky for me would be like this: "he's a great guy but he's not vegan, so I can't date him." This is my personal view about standards versus picky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Nobody will be able to tell me I was the loser of the breakup.YES QUEEN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Article Discussion - Why Do Smart Men Date Less Intelligent Women?Amazing!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 04:38 AM |
| 19 | Article Discussion - Why Do Smart Men Date Less Intelligent Women?omg yes. I can act doe-eyed SOMEtimes but i can't keep that shit up forever. ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 04:34 PM |
| 3 | 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️absolutely agree with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 02:54 PM |
| 10 | 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️Yes I'm SO turned on whenever I go for my pap smear or any OBGYN visit! I'm SO turned on whenever I insert a tampon. Not equating these to getting fingered (with consent) or raped, but just because something enters a woman's vagina doesn't mean she was horny AF and INVITED it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 02:52 PM |
| 7 | The only time men wouldn’t follow us.actually i feel even more unsafe because now the streets are more isolated and if something were to happen it's likely no one will be able to see or help. always be careful. buddy up with someone if you're going for a run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 09:53 AM |
| 2 | I Don't Want Him AnymoreJust make sure he's not trying to get a green card or something similar through you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 02:45 PM |
| 1 | I have a bf and he makes me very happyHow/where did you meet him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 02:32 PM |
| 5 | Men are co-opting FDS principles and it's concerningYas, definitely another fan here :D :D :D .................. I really admire ur sensitivity and honesty! That's so rare in a man these days! u must like me for me (just had to quote a song lyric)! And u noticed my comment and u replied sooooo soon! I didn't even have to wait! u must be really into me <3 <3 <3 ty bae I think I'm falling for u <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:14 PM |
| 10 | Men are co-opting FDS principles and it's concerningomg can you write the same comment but in LVM format LOL like you usually do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:58 AM |
| 22 | Finally met the HVM who will listen to me talk without interrupting!YOU ARE LIVING THE LIFE, MY FRIEND! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 07:32 AM |
| 28 | Highly intelligent women - are you with, or only date, other highly intelligent men?He sounds like a great guy. And remember, not everyone is supremely intelligent at EVERYthing. Chances are he's smarter than you at some stuff, and you're smarter than him at other stuff. Also there's not only the IQ. There's emotional intelligence, social intelligence, spiritual intelligence etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 03:55 PM |
| 8 | Only 6 months of dating and he proposed. Con used whether or not to say yes but I actually l**e him.this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 10:32 AM |
| -1 | Theory: A HVM has the capacity and interest to improve his lookshahahah gotcha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Theory: A HVM has the capacity and interest to improve his looksLol, I get the humor. :D but he's a good HV partner to her. I wouldn't say this if I didn't know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 11:23 AM |
| 6 | Sustainable and stylish clothing brandshttps://wwd.com/fashion-news/fashion-scoops/everlane-coronavirus-layoffs-retail-employees-customer-experience-1203549036/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:24 AM |
| 29 | Is marriage worth it anymore?I wish I'd found something like FDS when i was a teenager. Congrats and tell your friends! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 02:49 PM |
| 5 | New to this and went on a first date- need help letting go of my pickmeisha waysWait, wait, wait. AT LEAST 6 weeks to decide what kind of person and partner he'd be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 04:24 PM |
| 75 | Stop Smiling So MuchThis is related to the 'immovable mover' post; basically be your calm, strong, confident self. No need to go out of your way to people please. This is an FDS life strategy as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 02:50 AM |
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