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Wear whatever makes you look good. I keep my skin clear and stick to lipstick and mascara and eyeliner and its fine but do whatever works for you and what highlights your features the best :) I think you can look good wearing natural makeup without looking like you're wearing a ton. Haha awww. Don't feel insecure about dressing up a little bit. I used to be scared wearing high wedges to class but At the end of the day, no one will think you're standoffish or bitchy for wearing nice clothes. It a…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/15 09:32 PM
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Make sure everything you wear fits well. Add color into your wardrobe! And try some lace. You can wear jeans and a nice blouse and maybe wedges/nice sandals/heeled boots and look very feminine if you feel cold in a dress. Also, do you do makeup? I'm in college and I want to get better at it but makeup helps.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/15 08:39 PM
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I'm pretty fitness so I go to the gym and stay active. I don't mind going on a run and I also love learning German. I'm pretty big into cooking/baking and love hosting brunches in my dorm haha.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/15 02:41 AM
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Interesting. I haven't really gotten too into MBTI but I'd love to learn. Thanks for sharing.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 11:33 PM
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Haha no. I don't but Im going to.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 10:31 PM
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whey protein cupcakes
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 03:18 AM
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Wise words and well said. Yeah, I'd next him.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/15 10:32 PM
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ah haha!
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/15 12:03 AM
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Where is Tempest's post?
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/15 10:25 PM
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Right now, I've kinda figured out my value system. Definitely figure our your value system as you learn more about the people you're surrounded by. I like being friends with people who are smart, motivate me, are feminine but like being sporty/active. Personal dealbreakers for me are girls who use social media too much, girls who love partying/drinking, and girls who have no real hobbies.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/15 10:24 PM
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ENTP
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/15 12:08 AM
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Ah wow you're tall! I guess I'd just grow out the hair and then style it. Biotin, using a wooden brush, and neem oil all seem to help people.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/15 07:49 AM
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Lol as someone who used to have a ton of band crop tops and love going out to concerts (I was a self-proclaimed hipster), I totally get what you're going through. If you can and want to save some $$$, sell some of your clothes on mercari, vinted, and poshmark. It really helped clear up my closet and gave me extra cash. As for style, Idk what kind of style you're into but I bought a ton of dresses, try to wear heels when I can, and bought clothes that fitted better. What's your current hair style…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/15 04:15 AM
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really? that's cool. I use MFP to track my daily macros. Didn't know it had a social media aspect to it
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/15 04:09 AM
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Ah nice. I took italian for four years. It's a beautiful language
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/15 11:31 PM
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Get your hands on "The Surrendered Single". It really helped shape the way I view men now. Even though you're youngish, that book really made me think about things from the male perspective and have more of a respect for men. Also, keep away from Tumblr. That place is a hotbed for feminism. Changing your mentality will take time and it is not something done easily. What hobbies are you into right now? Set short term and long term goals for yourself. Begin to work on things like cursing, basic da…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/15 10:27 PM
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Спасибо :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 01:00 PM
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I'm doing the same. Good luck to both of us :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 07:34 AM
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which foreign languages? I'm pretty much doing the same thing and trying to learn Russian and German
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 07:32 AM
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Take care of your skin by avoiding sun damage and using sunscreen and a retinoid prescribed by a dermatologist. Also, dry brush your skin regularly. Stay stress free. Be happy and stay active/in shape. Dress well for your age so don't shop at the juniors section when you're like 30. Limit alcohol consumption and avoid cigarette smoking.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/15 09:32 PM
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I think it's better to err on the side of innocence. You really don't want to become the super sexy vixen type who men use to pump and dumb because that reputation is unrecoverable from. I've been called "innocent" because I don't really enjoy big parties or heavy drinking but that's not a bad thing at all. These guys are putting you on a shelf (aka you're LTR material) and soon enough, you'll find someone who is looking for the same thing.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/15 05:49 PM
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Congrats Camille :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/15 12:37 AM
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Nice! I love self improvement threads :) I've taken the last six months off and I'm starting the next six months by doing a couple things as well to improve my daily habits. Using a retinoid to improve my skin texture Learning how to curl my hair and do a side braid Use the X Effect to do things more efficiently Increase calories '---> gain muscle & lower waist/hip ration b/c I look like a stick right now haha. Have fun and avoid consumer based activities as much as possible (tv watching/etc.) a…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/15 12:36 AM
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What's the quality like at eShakti?
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/15 01:53 AM
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You can find modest clothes anywhere just have the taste for it and be picky when you shop at any store. I've used Sammydress, Forever 21 (but be picky in terms of the style and I try to avoid trends like boho/grunge, etc.), Anne Taylor, some H&M stuff, Lilly Pulitzer has some nice shift dresses, LOFT, JCrew, Tobi, Marshalls, Jack Wills and TJMaxx. Le Bomb shop also has some nice dresses that are form fitting but modest.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/15 01:52 AM
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stick to activities during the daytime and early mornings esp. on weekends to eliminate any partiers who wouldn't be up at that time b/c they were wasted the night before. crossfit gyms if you're into that, hiking meetups on meetup.com, etc.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:56 PM
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Yup. I studied in Brasil for a few months specifically in Sao paolo
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 03:17 AM
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Not surprised at all. They love their white men.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 01:22 AM
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Lol. Parents are from indian/saudi
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/15 10:07 PM
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My drunk guy friend once told me "you're like a 7.78 which really means you're like an 8". Guess ill take his word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 06:56 AM
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Yeah Ive seen that. Seems like men don't know how to lead their relationships and women don't know how to follow the lead of their man so gender roles are reversed. Regardless, I feel like people should respect each other and not have to sacrifice a part of themselves for another person. It's a sad unfortunate reality
/r/askTRP03/08/15 10:17 PM
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Yeah, honestly unfortunately that's the best thing to do. I don't think it could work out and relationships from hs to college dont last
/r/askTRP03/08/15 08:58 PM
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I LOL'ED
/r/askTRP03/08/15 06:24 PM
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or if you're in college they just avoid eye contact completely and stick their heads into their phones as someone tries to talk to them
/r/askTRP03/08/15 06:23 PM
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Nah, if he wants some other chick, he can have her. You do you. It's on to the next one.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/15 06:18 PM
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Elite daily should be renamed Beta chump daily.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:39 AM
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Lol he still hasnt married the Bella twin he's dating.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 11:29 PM
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Eh, I'd argue that her look doesn't have much to do with hitting the wall but rather becoming complacent in her appearance when she got married. Like you can control weight gain. She just really slacked off.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 03:11 PM
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The first step is probably the hardest. Lost a bunch of friends but it didnt end up really being a loss for me. Most of my "friends" six months ago loved smoking weed and were huge facebook attenton wh-res. None of them had any legitimate hobbies and hanging out basically revolved only around weed and alcohol. I know it might suck to end these relationships but it's for the better. your quality of friends will improve. And if you like drinking, then just get a side group of friends who you drink…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 03:08 PM
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Haha yeah! Ive been following her since high school. She is great :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/15 05:20 PM
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Haha idk I just like wearing headbands even though I get super sweaty and lift really heavy stuff. Having a no cursing policy is good
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/15 12:18 AM
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Wearing a cute head band, wearing lots of bright colors/nice workout clothes, and not cursing in between sets ;p
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 11:22 PM
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Those with deadlifts, glute bridges, and hip thrusts. Also yoga :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 07:03 PM
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You may or may not be his plate. That doesn't really matter. Is he giving the commitment you want? If not, and assuming you're doing all the right things, it's on to the next one.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 06:59 PM
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Yeah my family is pretty religious
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 03:43 PM
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Yup especially with weigtlifting
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 03:31 PM
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It's nice but it sucks because I don't really have well developed glutes yet. Thanks! Good luck to you too!
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 02:19 PM
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Hey! I just got into fitness. Im pretty skinny naturally but I want to gain a little bit of muscle mass. I just started doing Jamie Eason'z live fit trainer and I want to get more toned. Im usually eat 1000 calories a day and sometimes even less but now im eating upwards of 2000 a day
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 02:05 PM
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Yeah, totally. It's pretty ideal and works well for us. Low divorce rates, people are pretty satisfied with their marriages, lots of kids. Was surprised when I first came to college and met girls who had a very different mentality about this sort of thing. To each his own, I suppose.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 05:08 AM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 04:10 AM
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18
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:22 AM
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Grew up in a mixed traditional household where basically this was drilled into my existence since I was young: Get married young (under 23 in my fam) because women have more choice and guys like young girls. Career is important but it really doesn't matter as much as how you take care of yourself. There was more of a focus on health and beauty in my house but we knew we had to grow up and be smart. It's just that my parents never motivated me to go into a career as time consuming as an anesthesi…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 01:35 AM
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Well, we were taught about safe sex growing up and that it's harder to have a baby when you get older in health class in high school. I don't think fertility was a primary focus. Safe sex was more emphasized.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 01:22 AM
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Yeah that's so true. It'll get better with time and with some work. I made a list of things I wasn't happy about myself six months ago and That helped a lot. It's overwhelming at first but when you make progress, it feels good. Also, I feel like all girls these days are "perfect" or whatever they say on social media. That's not realistic. Look at yourself. Ask yourself about what makes you happy and start changing those things to become the woman you and ultimately the guy you want to marry woul…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 09:45 PM
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I felt the same way when I swallowed the red pill six months ago. Before, I never really analyzed the world around me in that way but once I began to see living examples of a lot of things that are talked about on this and TRP, I was shocked. At the time, I guess you could say that I had a lot of options in terms of dating guys. At the time, when I was dating, I had little regard to any of the dates I went on and I didn't take any of it seriously because I had the mentality that there was always…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 09:17 PM
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I use smittenkitchen.com She's a food blogger from NYC and her recipes are on point. My favorite recipe is for the strawberry chiffon cake
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 06:09 PM
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Listen to this guy
/r/askTRP23/07/15 06:17 AM
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A girl from my college was having a casual conversation. Not exactly sure what led to her talking about her partner count but I remember not asking about it bc we were just talking about guys. The thing about promiscuous women is that they'll eventually let their partner count be known even if you don't directly ask for it. She's 21 and lost her count after like 18 guys. Now she's dating this reaaaaally naive nice guy but they haven't had sex yet. At the time, I didn't know much about RP but wow…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 04:23 AM
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Wear a sexy little black dress, blow him and make him steak.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/15 04:16 AM
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Sounds like what a woman wants and not a man.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/15 04:15 AM
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yup i get that. I used dread game on my friend and she cleaned up her act and ended up in a relationship and stopped hoeing around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 12:57 PM
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Most sjw's major in gender or women's studies with a minor in bs at my uni so I say yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 04:52 AM
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Beginning to think this is true. I know a ton of sloots on my college campus who are in relationships with guys in fraternities. Guess my campus is really bp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 04:42 AM
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That's interesting. so it's kinda like a minor form of reverse dread game?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 04:40 AM
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Oh i live in the States cant comment on the situation in India
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 01:13 AM
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Basically any religion can be fundamentally red pill-esque but spinning plates or doing any sort of that would not go down well. Although they do believe in traditional gender roles, that's definitely not something that's unique to Islam. Also, there's an entire chapter devoted to women exclusively in the Quran which I would say would not bode well to the typical RPer.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 05:04 PM
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Yeah women do see value in social media but social media is pretty dumb tbh. Don't stoop to a level of an instagram attention whore. You'll just get attention from women who are bottom of the barrel. Source: girls in my old friend group who thought they had a wayyyy higher Smv than they really did
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 04:54 PM
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Half of my family is Indian and if you don't get married by 23, you're essentially screwed over. I know maybw one woman who decidwd to put her career first over her man and married when she was 30. She ended up working out her marriage but obviously had to make some major compromises and accept the fact that her hubby makes less than her and is much older but they're still together, have a great marriage, and 3 kids.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 04:47 PM
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Going to meetups some of which I wasn't even that interested in just so I could see if I could carry a conversation with people I had nothing in common with helped me kill my social anxiety
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/15 09:34 PM
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Oh well they were both Born Muslim but my dad converted to Christianity later after moving to the US. Hope that cleared things up.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/15 09:31 PM
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Go for it. Also if there's a group for girlfriends or only women join that too if you're interested. Meetup is great for meeting ppl with similar hobbies
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/15 07:02 PM
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Ive had some luck with meetup.com and I've met a great group of girls on it. We ended up going to happy hour the other day and even though I'm not much of a drinker, I ended up having a lot of fun anywAy. I used to be pretty anti-bars too because I always felt that relationships really can't be built in a place like a bar but it reAlly depends on the people there and the kind of bar. The meetup I went to started out as us just meeting up at a happy our and ended up in a tapas restaurant. Check o…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/15 09:28 AM
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Dad is christian and Mom is Muslim. Grew up pretty red pill and honestly I like traditional gender roles. I like the idea of getting married young and starting a family. I like how a guy leads in a relationship should be the captain and lead while my Mom follows along. Of course they're not perfect and disagree sometimes which is normal but they've lasted 30 years together. I want a relationship with a man similar to the one my parents had. Things were definitely different back then. I feel like…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/15 08:43 AM
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Will do. Im still learning but we'll see what happes
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 02:48 AM
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Ive been red pill for a while. The sub is interesting. It can be a shark tank but it's really the only place where guys can vent so I try not to read it too often lol. I guess it makes me reconsider a lot of things about what a guy wants in a woman and a wife. It definitely has an influence on the kind of woman I need to be for a man. I'm pretty big on self improvement and ive changed a lot of things about the way i dress, going to the gym a lot more, and quitting drinking. I still have a long w…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 07:21 PM
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Lol this reminds me of the time I was on my second date with a high Smv guy and I brought him back to my place and my roommates kicked him out and cursed him out. That date didn't go down well. Note to self: don't bring a high smv male and if you end up dating or being in a relationship, don't tell any of your girlfriends. They are vultures.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 04:19 PM
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Yeah we have a lot of foreign exchange students at my college so it's easy to find a group of people who speak a certain language. Aww that's cute! I want to get better at languages in general. It's just such a uaeful skill
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/15 01:54 AM
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Yeah I'm aware. So many of my friends get their "news" from elite daily. Baffling really.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/15 03:57 AM
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I've used okcupid before. Make sure you set your settings to "looking for a relationship". As for other stuff, under hobbies I've listed that I like to cook, talked about my favorite recipes and how I like staying in shape by going to the gym. I also talked about how I like taking care of kids and volunteering. I probably wouldn't directly mention being feminine or acting like a lady. I would just describe things that would imply that. I felt like a lot of the guys in my area who were Naturally …
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/15 03:53 AM
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Haha yeah it does.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/15 03:47 PM
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Not sure if srs or..:
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/15 08:31 AM
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I'm nearly fluent in french and pretty good at Italian because I've taken it and have friends who speak the languages in hs and college. I wanna learn German and maybe Russian. Or turkish because I have a bit of family from there. French has helped me with cooking certain recipes and a lot of people near me speak French. At one point, I thought about moving to Germany. I just really like learning about german culture. Not sure if I'm going to end up moving though. Might stick to the US even thou…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/15 08:29 AM
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For hair, I use coconut oil masks. You can also buy nice masks at Lush or make them yourself. Coconut oil is good if you have dry/damaged hair or if you use lots of heat styling stuff. Also leave in conditioner works well too. For skin, I moisturize my face and body twice a day. Also I've been wearings sunscreen lately. Helps prevent sun damage in the future. For health in general, I've noticed that drinking lots of water and eating lots of protein and fat has been helping. I try to limit my car…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/15 08:22 AM
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I think you know what you want and I wish you the best of luck. It's not exactly an issue you smooth out. It's more about screening for better compatibility in your future partners
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 04:26 PM
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If you think it's worth it sure but if you screw up some how or he loses attraction, he will use this as leverage against you. Also, he might end up meeting some unicorn out there who fits those standards. I think you might save some heartbreak and trouble if you end up finding someone who accepts you for your low partner count. I honestly don't think it's that hard to find a guy like that.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 07:25 AM
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The guy you're talking about seems pretty RP. He definitely seems to have a certain set of standards. I don't think you can or should try to change that. He will always undervalue your existence and you will be more appreciated by a man who thinks that not being a virgin is a prereq for marriage. It's on to the next one. You still have time and you can find someone with similar values as yours.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 02:06 AM
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I'm glad that online dating worked for you! I wouldn't be so against it if people in my generation took it more seriously but I totally agree that it's a great tool for introverts.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/15 11:58 PM
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Yeah, I agree. It's pretty dumB. There are times though when I feel like you just have to be a girl with a camera. Most of my guy friends have maybe 20 likes on their pro pic. Most of my girl friends (this is also regardless of attractiveness) have minimum 50+
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 12:14 PM
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Yeah I agree with this. None of my friends take online dating seriously and it is pretty weird.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/15 12:11 PM
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There's also the whole thing about being photogenic. There's this friend of a friend who looks great in pictures online and then when you meet her in person, you can see through it all.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 12:18 AM
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Wow that graph makes me sad knowing that most couples are not meeting eachother through church or their families but are seeking a connection through cheap thrills like bars and the Internet. Although I'm not against online dating per se as it can be used as a useful tool to meet people, deleting the OkCupid app from my phone was one of the most eviscerating experiences ever. It made me realize that dating is serious business and that dating online has become a joke because of people's ridiculou…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/15 12:14 AM
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I agree with most of this but how can a girl "let the men come to her" but also "ask a guy initially"? I don't recommend asking a guy out.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/15 06:26 AM
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Hey I'm 19 and you should totally check out some of my previous posts as I've addressed this issue. It's good that you aren't giving up sex too easily but there's a fine line between being a slut and dressing attractively. What kind of clothes do you wear? How much do you curse? How do you carry yourself? A guy will always see a woman as sex. That's just basic biology but there are ways to get around this. I personally would stop trying to date guys on campus and aim for guys who are atleast 25-…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/15 06:25 AM
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There is A LOT of truth in this post. I live in a big city in college and the men are pretty feminist and the women sleep around a lot. It's the worst situation to be in. Definitely, when it comes to dating, I try to date outside of the big city and find guys who are more masculine and in general have more masculine hobbies like fishing, hiking, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/15 06:18 AM
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I always offer to pay but then again, I've never had to pay for a first date. After, I've gone dutch and paid my share.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 04:36 AM
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Reminds me of the girls at my university. Not surprised. Sad you had to see this in action but once again, RP is true.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 04:32 AM
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This.!
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/15 02:21 AM
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I agree with you. She's not a good influence but dread game works sometimes surprisingly well even for friendships. She might have to distant herself for a bit and her friend will wonder where she went/what's she's up to. This gives her the opportunity to lead by example. She should guide OP if she wants this relationship to last. Otherwise I can't see it lasting.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/15 02:21 AM
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Hypergamy is real but don't beat yourself up about it. Just because lots of women cheat, doesn't mean YOU necessarily have to be one of those people. Take accountability for your actions. Don't end up being someone's plate and make sure you are satisfied with the relationships you sign yourself up for. If you aren't truly happy with the person, just end things.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/15 12:36 AM
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He just wants to have sex with you and doesn't see you as anything more. Trust your instinct in a situation like this. Delete his number. Let him go.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/15 12:33 AM
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The first step is acceptance. Accept the fact that history is behind you and that you can make a difference by changing your actions. You should not define your self by your past. Everyone makes mistakes but few people are truly able to let go and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/15 12:32 AM
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Lead by example
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 07:37 PM
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This is true. I showed some of my friends when I was down their of my blonde blue-eyed ex-boyfriend and they freaked out. They really do love their gringoes. I didn't realize how bad it was until I showed them the picture.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 05:12 AM
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I just came back from Brazil and here's the rundown. Sao Paulo has a bunch of hipster chicks. A lot of them are feminists or act like this if you ask them questions about being in relationships with guys and their expectations. It's funny how people idolize Brazil like it's some perfect place on earth. I wouldn't say so. Most if not all girls I knew had Instagrams and had huge followings on social media. Then again, they do have a lot of family on there so it's not like a huge attention-whoring …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 05:10 AM
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Lead the relationship. Put her in your frame. Take her out on dates to places you want to go. Be in control without being controlling if that makes sense.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 05:03 AM
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At that age I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 07:21 PM
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Most men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 07:21 PM
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Regardless it's not a turn off for me to pay for my own share. I don't mind it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 01:30 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 04:08 PM
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Ah sorry! Missed that. Just talk about it then and hopefully the issue will resolve itself. It's interesting how sometimes the worst fears we have are ones that we project on to other people.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 06:21 AM
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I think women need a sexual strategy to get alphas but betas, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 05:57 AM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 05:54 AM
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As a woman, I always offer to pay for dates. And by always, I mean always. It doesn't matter if it's the first or second or third/twentieth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 05:53 AM
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Wow. That is bad. Haven't witnessed that happen at my university in person but I'm sure it exists.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 05:31 AM
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Oh, have you seen the trailer to a movie called "Trainwreck". RP-ers can have a field day with this. Basically, it's about a post-wall career woman who sleeps around a lot until she meets this beta doctor....and the story goes on.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 03:22 AM
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Lol. I go to an American college so I know of girls who have banged atleast 17-20 guys by the end of it. Not to mention the amount of guys they've made out with on the weekends "just for fun".
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 03:11 AM
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Take for instance a healthy 28-year-old woman. In my experience, your average American woman has had anywhere between 12 and 23 sexual partners by this time. Let’'s call it an average of 17 I know girls with this number count by the end of college. Yikes.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 03:08 AM
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Ah yeah I've read this yesterday. There really is no going back. Lol. If anything, the girls in my friend circle have stayed on the CC and have not changed since freshman year. They're still optimizing and branch swinging in hopes of something better. The girl I talked with the 15+ count is actually surprisingly dating a guy who has been a friend for a couple years and he is really beta. Strange how she mentioned that "they haven't had sex yet since they became official". Lol hearing that was an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 03:04 PM
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Well, think of a slut as a car with depreciating value. The more chads she fucks, the more accomplished she feels. The more Chads she has, the less she needs one stable man in a committed relationship. The more chads she has, the more she is alpha widowed and any guy who comes by and isn't up to those standards are inevitably f-cked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 03:01 PM
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I think a lot of this also has to do with college culture. At my liberal college, dating is kind of a joke. The guys who truly want to date are the most beta men you will ever meet. The girls on the other hand are pretty masculine because they know they want Chad from the first day on so already girls feel like they'd be losing out if they said with some beta guy instead of potentially chasing Chad. Dating is a joke at my college because people date casually. People don't date with the intention…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 02:58 PM
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For men, paul newman. Did whatever he wanted, had a pretty RP marriage, and is a great role model.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 02:52 PM
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Haha. It's so strange to agree with a statement like that being born and brought up here but it's also tough to not agree when your friends refuse to date guys who are only above a certain height limit and expect men to do all the legwork in a relationship. Most of these girls I go to college with want Chad T and will probably rack up a partner count of 10+ before graduating. Turns out my friend who I thought I dated around, actually "lost count after 15 guys". Well then. I don't think most Amer…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 02:48 PM
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Haha anytime. American women are not perfect by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 02:36 PM
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so like r/fPUA?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 06:50 AM
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Wow. As an American female who isn't white, this is pretty spot on and describes a lot of the girls at my university. Most girls at my uni don't even think about marriage and a lot of them are not even dating because "college is fun" and they still "want to figure out themselves first". They are all going to study abroad next year and are planning on "hooking up with hot guys" and "living independently". They all think that getting married by 23 is too early and there is no rush to get married/d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 06:23 AM
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INTJ here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 06:12 AM
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Yeah, this is true but they can't meet up late at night though.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 01:02 AM
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Haha I'm guessing she's a cultural Muslim because there's no way she's in an LTR with you but also fasting and believes she can't have sex with you. If she's religious or she is more than cultural Muslim, you're going to have bigger problems. Are you Muslim and do her parents approve of your relationship? I can't see any of this lasting.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 12:59 AM
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I get that my posts are repetitive. For me self improvement is a pretty red pill thing I am doing. I get that I don't have a boyfriend at the moment, but I'm trying to get better at that. I'm not sure why you're hounding me down for not having a bf. I'm sure there are plenty of red pill woman or women in general who are single and struggling with that. I'm trying to be productive and doing a bunch of things to raise my SMV in addition to making my life better. I don't understand how I'm not doin…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/15 11:08 PM
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yay! I love success stories!
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/15 04:48 AM
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be beta aka be the good guy lmao
/r/askTRP19/06/15 10:01 PM
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She's not that into you. next.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 03:32 PM
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i LOLed
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/15 03:24 PM
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Well, what I meant was it's okay to be emotionally vulnerable to a certain extent. It's okay to let a guy know that you feel good when you're around him. Just don't over do it. I wouldn't confess my love to a guy I just started dating. That's kinda ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/15 03:19 PM
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The problem is is that the men you are having sex with/doing things sexually with don't get the opportunity to get to know the other side of you because you're giving this up too easily. When you meet a man, make sure you introduce yourself in the most feminine way possible and tell a guy about your passions and interests. This adds to your value and heightens your SMV. Any guy can get sex. What is it that makes YOU special?
/r/askTRP19/06/15 04:03 AM
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I'm 21 so I'm in a similar boat as you. First of all, yes having a high SMV is important but it's a tool that needs to be USED. Without a game plan or actually talking to guys, having a high SMV is useless. You're going to have to go on more dates with guys to become more comfortable with them. As for the loneliness issue, get more involved with hobbies and your passions. Find other things you enjoy so you don't feel like guys are the only thing that can fill that void in your life. As for Tinde…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/15 03:59 AM
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Man first, career/accomplishments second. When you go out rowing, you're putting rowing first but also offending your boyfriend. I'm not sure if rowing is the problem you have but there might be some underlying reasons beside that as to why he is pissed off. Rowing is a symptom to a problem you have.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/15 03:56 AM
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That doesn't mean we can't have influence on other people through our actions.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/15 05:01 AM
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Nice! This is awesome!
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/15 03:59 AM
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Lol most girls don't even read the description and just skim it over. You could claim that you're a murderer even and probably get away with it. Pictures are way more important. As for the response rates, "you look like a serial killer" is a great one because it initiates a response. Most girls would probably be like wtf no.. And respond inevitably
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 06:21 PM
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that's good to hear. diet is way more important. keep at it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/15 04:36 PM
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Walk around town, go to a movie, literally anything
/r/askTRP17/06/15 05:19 AM
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I feel like this is something that is happening to some friends of mine as well. It sucks that you have to have crappy role models but good on you for taking time to work on yourself and being self conscious. That takes a lot. Do you.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 05:18 AM
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Have a birth certificate with the name chad on it
/r/askTRP17/06/15 05:16 AM
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You don't need drugs to rediscover yourself. Cons outweigh the pros
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:14 PM
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Ugh yeah there is that which is why office romances can get weird.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 12:13 PM
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Ooo totally skimmed over that. That's pretty true. I feel like American girls fall into the all or nothing categoy. They're eother amazing looking or just not at all.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 06:33 AM
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routine. implement it.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 05:02 AM
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she's probably banging all these guys. next.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 05:01 AM
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um no
/r/askTRP16/06/15 05:01 AM
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I didn't think of it that way at all. Point taken.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 07:05 PM
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Ooo. I have a bunch of friends who have been alpha widowed. Honestly, the best way to get over it is delete all contact with the guy and become the best possible person with the highest potential SMV possible. Lose weight, go to the gym, gain confidence, cut your hair so it suits you better, wear better makeup etc. Then, start looking for guys who are alpha but want a relationship. It's gonna be hard to get over a guy like that and even harder if you had sex with him but if you improve yourself …
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 05:16 PM
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First of all, he doesn't seem like captain material. He also doesn't seem very red pill because he left the decisions up to you. Also, it's a major red flag that he said that he goes on dates every Saturday. Dating to him is a casual thing. You want someone more serious. As for the shows you watch, it's okay to not like some feminine things. Should you talk about it? Maybe if it comes up. As for dieting, good for you on losing weight. Have you considered doing keto/lifting weights?
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 05:07 PM
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This is good advice!
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 01:10 PM
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Anything could be going on. If he said he'd text you, just let him lead and see what happens. He might lose interest. He might be busy. It might be a 100000 things. Stop focusing on him and start focusing on yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 12:22 AM
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Hey! That's awesome! I appreciate the compliment. I saw your previous post on RPW. Congrats on the weight loss! I think it's interesting that you grew up LDS. I always thought about converting especially because I love how Mormons place such importance on being feminine and relationships. I wish I had discovered RP a few years ago but honestly, for now focus on developing yourself and being the best woman possible. Don't be too hard on yourself and you have a lot of time to change and grow.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/15 06:48 AM
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Don't make the first move. That's a very masculine thing to do and he needs to initiate if this goes anywhere. I would flirt with him a lot. He might not want to start an office romance but it might work out. Best of luck.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/15 04:27 AM
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Not true. She might not get the most alpha of alpha males but if the attraction is there, a man will wait assuming the woman is worthwhile that wait. And im not saying they have to wait forever.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/15 12:50 AM
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Thanks! It's been a tough road but I can't wait to see the results
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/15 12:48 AM
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That's a good way to think of it. We agree. End of conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 10:55 PM
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I've been in a similar situation recently and it's not that simple since there's a lot of factors involved. By that definition, yeah she might be a plate per se but I don't think either OP or her guy had those intentions to begin with which is why I don't really see her as a plate even though she gave into sex, she did offer herself to him in other ways. I think they both went in with similar intentions of possibly wanting a relationship, never discussed it, and OP got screwed over when he didn'…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 10:19 PM
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I don't think she was an fwb, maybe a plate if that, even. I think the guy wanted a relationship but maybe wasn't sure, OP gave into sex, something bad happened/the guy realized something about her or something about his life, and just ended it. This all happened because of bad communication and bad timing. This is why communicating the actual words "I want to have a relationship and nothing less" is the BEST thing a woman can do in this situation so she can't be tossed around. Fuzzy intentions …
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 09:54 PM
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Ah okay! That's good to hear. Keep up with that. I wouldn't take it personally and I would just move on.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 08:37 PM
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Well, use this experience as a learning lesson and a stepping stone for your future LTR. First of all, don't ever under any circumstances have sex with a guy before he commits and even when he says "I am ready for a relationship", you might have to wait a couple dates even after that. You talked about how he treated you but what did you do for him? Like when he had the surgery, how did you support him? I get that you guys weren't even in an LTR at that point but there could have been things you …
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 08:11 PM
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seems like she's the "strong independent" ...wait for it....wait for it..."need no man" type.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 06:06 AM
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You have too many options and men can smell that from a mile away. Period.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 06:00 AM
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I think you should avoid her because she has a kid. Does she even want to settle down or anything? It seems like you guys are looking for different things.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 05:57 AM
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I DIED AT THE LAST PART.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 05:53 AM
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Hey! We're basically twins in body size and age! I know it's super easy to look at your body and be critical but seriously, don't get down on yourself! I have some acne scars on my face from hyperpigmentation and I totally get how you feel! There's tons of makeup that you can use on your legs. Dermablend makes some stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 05:02 AM
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Anytime. Thanks for reading.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 01:58 AM
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Hey! Haha yeah, I've been buying a ton of makeup and trying out a bunch of different things. Figured it's summer and I want to change thigns up a bit. Giving myself three months to focus on myself has been great and I want to keep doing all these things until I get a better hold of things. I hope it works!
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 10:01 PM
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That's a toughie. Not going to lie but first, I taped myself cursing and would listen to it afterward which helped me become more self-conscious. I usually end up spending more time thinking about what I say now before saying it but there are times when I'm just thinking of the curse word. I've found using replacement words helpful. Like I used to say, "Oh, i got to go to some s--t this weekend" but now I say "Oh, I have to go to some stuff this weekend." Also being around people who don't curse…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 09:49 PM
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hahahahaha.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 09:34 PM
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For skills, I've been learning a lot about beauty makeup. Ive learned how to curl my hair, I'm learning how to do highlights on my hair, and I know how to do a french manicure. I also have been trying to get better at cooking and learning new recipes that are healthy. I just started keto so I've been getting used to eating veggies and foods that are high in fat. I've been going to stores and figuring out what makeup and what dresses look good on me. As for hobbies, I love going to the gym! Lifti…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 05:11 PM
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Aww this is soo sweet! I'm glad you're working on improving yourself and I can't wait to see your progress!
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 04:44 PM
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Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 03:02 PM
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As a girl in college in the US, I can understand why you say this. I think girls are fine until they go to college. College really gives them a free pass to ride the CC without consequences when college is really a great time to pursue a lot of things besides that. I hope anybody who reads this realizes that change is possible.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 03:02 PM
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Well, yeah I do have moments where I slip. I curse sometimes if Im mad but I keep a journal and notice it more because Im more aware of it. As for things like partying, Ive given that up for good and I tell people that I don't drink. Never had any problems there. The main thing you have to do is staying involved and making sure you're having fun doing other things so you don't go back to the way you were. I don't have much free time and when I do, I go out and do fun things. Maintaining frame an…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 02:11 PM
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thanks! Ill be posting updates
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 02:06 PM
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Thanks it's taken a lot of work to get here but improvement at any age is important!
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 02:06 PM
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I'd probably say letting go of my past relationships with people and realizing they were built on nothing substantial (drinking and partying). Deleting the guy who nearly plated me was tough because I felt like I had a connection with him but I kinda realized that if I was still friends with him on skype, that'd mean I still cared and I don't anymore. I need to have higher standards for myself and start enforcing them. It's weird saying this as my old friends still send me snapchats of them gett…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 05:42 AM
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Hey! In a similar situation. Not dating at the moment, taking organic chem in college and I have a super busy schedule. Sex is not something that I think about because I do a ton of things to keep myself busy. It sucks to not have a boyfriend right now but I just don't focus on that because I have other things that I'm super interested in. get involved, go on a hike, go to a new restaurant. Satisfy yourself in other ways
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 09:53 PM
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this. is. dumb.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 05:29 AM
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I'm so jealous! That sounds awesome. The dating scene at my college is abysmal and girls have a strong sense of entitlement and most of the guys who want relationships are sooooo beta. I figured some Mormon guys would be pretty beta but I mean that's normal. That's definitely something I really love about Mormonism, that dating is emphasized and getting married young is important.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 12:06 AM
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TIL tortoises have bad organizational skills. No but seriously, I have MyFitnessPal on my app and I basically translate that into macros I need for the week. I budget out how much I need with my macros. So I tend to buy a lot of protein, fats, and not too many carbs.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/15 01:18 AM
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I've noticed this as well! The other day we were walking down the street and a not so attractive guy complimented my friend on her looks and she was offended and outright mad. I guess a lot of girls think that if a guy with low perceived SMV hits on a girl who thinks she has a much higher SMV, then therefore she might be low SMV as well. It works the other way too. If a girl on my college campus sleeps with a hot alpha, she tells everyone about it because her SMV depends on the guy she can get w…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 06:11 AM
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That's such a good attitude to have. I had a roommate who I lived with who I thought was a role model as well because she was in a committed relationship. Turns out she was the most anti-RP person I met because she treated her bf like a doormat.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/15 01:07 AM
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Ah nice. I always wanted to go to a school like BYU. What is the dating scene like over there? I go to a very very liberal university and most people are not remotely RP becaus that would be "sexist"
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 09:19 PM
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Haha I totally get that. Im 21 too and it's borderline impossible to find women who are feminine and have similar rp valued as me.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 09:17 PM
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This hurts to read but this is some great RP advice.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 06:52 PM
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I've been in this situation before and it's terrible but you've gotta do what's right for you. If you don't next him, you're just wasting more of your precious time when you could be spending it with some other guy who is RP and is willing to commit to you emotionally and physically. When I read this, "He said, she has a special place in his heart that no one else can take.".......you've gotta next him. He's got a serious case of oneitis.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 06:50 PM
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Nope. My old "best friend" (we're not really friends anymore) likes to ride the CC, talks about the men and women she sleeps with, and drinks a ton of alcohol. Gave up that partying lifestyle 3 months ago and it's not really appealing to me anymore. I wish I had some real RPW friends. The closest I have are some people I know through a church group and my Mom.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 06:49 PM
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Idk the way the poster describer her problem was strange
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 12:53 PM
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troll?
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 05:03 AM
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Well, she needs to start meeting men and stop putting her career first. Also, is she attractive?
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 05:00 AM
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Adding this onto my reading list. Hope your niece feels better! That must be tough.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 03:54 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 08:21 PM
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Lol this place is for women?
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 08:21 PM
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Aww
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 08:20 PM
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This is great. I've adopted a "no cheap thrills lifestyle" for the last two months and it has not been easy. As a college student who is surrounded by drinking and partying and who has given up both, I've had to find other means to satisfy myself and "have fun". This meant doing more fulfilling things like volunteering and going to the gym. It has forced me to realize this: There is NO such thing as immediate satisfaction. You must work on yourself. Self-improvement takes time and even though it…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 03:37 AM
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Agreed! Bringing cookies/baked goods on someone you've been dating works well too.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 03:25 AM
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Ah okay. Yeah, so when looking online I believe you can filter for ethnicity
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 01:55 PM
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Haha lingerie is sexy to guys who find lingerie to be sexy. Ask what he's into? Maybe he likes a girl who wears yoga pants around the house? Some guys are into that.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 11:44 PM
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As someone who has used online dating, it's kind of a nightmare. I've had a bit of experience with this. I really would suggest against online dating but if you do choose this route, you need to be careful and have a very good way to filter out guys. On your profile, make sure you're looking for a relationship. Even then you can still get guys who are shady and don't want a relationship but a relationship kind of girl (if that makes sense). Make sure you have clear pics. No selfies (doesnt' look…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 11:43 PM
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The girl is the symptom to the problem. You chose your career over your man. Unless you start making time for him, it's over.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 11:35 PM
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Agreed. I'm a millenial and I've seen people hanging onto their LDRs even in college. It's ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 11:33 PM
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Is this a good way to meet other quality, possibly RPW women? Jw.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 11:26 PM
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actually one of the best definitions of trp i've seen on here
/r/askTRP28/05/15 11:21 PM
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Haha I'm not saying they wouldn't do it but most sorority girls on my campus use it for attention whoring and that's about it. It's also funny matching with other people on campus and people just use it as a joke for the most part.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 09:22 PM
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Most girls I know at my college use Tinder as a joke. None of them really ever take it seriously and I think they use it as a way of assessing their SMV (well the looks part) so they can match with people who are hopefully good-looking. I don't know anyone who has used it seriously or met people off of it.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 07:36 PM
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I love this success story.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/15 07:32 PM
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LTR is not gone. There are still people out there who want LTR's but you probably aren't looking at the right places or not having the right intentions in mind. Like, if you meet a girl at a party for example and there's a ton of people and alcohol, you're just setting yourself up for bad situation and it's just easier to have sex because the environment is set up for that. Invest in yourself first before others.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 07:30 PM
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I know women who do this except they date under thinking that just because the guy is unattractive, doesn't mean he would break up or have the potential to be alpha. Doesn't really work on both sides, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 07:26 PM
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I didnt read your post history. That's messed up but I would have just dumped her after that
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 06:40 AM
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Lol so you're happy you used her. Honestly, if you're not happy with her, you should have broken up with her instead of manipulating her like that. I don't get what your gf did wrong.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 06:31 AM
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baking him stuff, making him food, generally supporting him, letting him open up to you about his problems, listening to him
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 05:05 PM
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Ideally, yeah I agree with you but I still think OP should have a talk. Her SO is probably not a big texter so he probably doesn't understand why she would like him to text more. People express themselves in different ways.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 06:26 PM
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appreciate it
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 02:57 AM
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lol you don't.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 12:31 AM
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Haha yeah. This is so on point. I see girls Instagram quotes from his writing and all I can take away from that is that the girl is a major attention whore.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 12:22 AM
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I'm glad you're aware of yourself and your surroundings but I'm not writing this just for you. I'm writing this for anyone out there who is around my age or not and is dealing with going from BP to RP. I think taking responsibility of your own actions is one thing but that isn't going to stop me from looking around and seeing what other people do. I love analyzing my surroundings. I love seeing how girls act because there are a lot of RP truths I see in the conversations girls have. I don't thin…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 12:21 AM
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Haha alright true. The girl I knew was an English major. I think it's funny that she quoted Bukowski. I'm guessing she's not familiar with his work!
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 12:12 AM
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It's the way of the world.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 12:06 AM
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Haha. He is super RP but if a girl quotes him, yeah you're in for some baaaaaaaaaaaaaad news/trouble. Girls who quote Bukowski are 99% of the time, insane and/or think they can be an alpha male.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 12:05 AM
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It doesn't have anything to do with anything. It was just me using myself as an example. People change. That's all I mean.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 12:05 AM
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Oh god. A girl who posts Charles Bukowski quotes are a major red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/15 11:58 PM
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Yup, The Rules Revisited had a post about that first point I made. Yeah, I can't really comment on things I haven't experienced but as a college student, I've given up on college dating and guys at my college. Better to aim older.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/15 11:52 PM
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I'm not worried about them. That's not the point of the post. The point of the post is recognizing the differences between being RP and not. When I came into college and didn't know about TRP, I viewed the world differently and then I transitioned. This is my perspective on how things have changed and my insight reflecting on my own behavior and on what others do around me. I don't inherently care about them but you have to be able to take a look around and notice how your actions compare to oth…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/15 11:45 PM
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Yeah, of course. It's always you vs you when it comes to self improvement but there's a huge difference between RP-women and non-RP women on my campus.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/15 11:36 PM
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I don't curse nearly as much as I used to. I wear dresses. I wear make-up and I'm getting better at it. I don't hook up with guys. I don't party really. I have a lot of girl friends and I don't have guy friends.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/15 01:09 AM
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Eh. I'm like that too. I wouldn't nag him about it but maybe set something up so you do something for him and he sends you like a good morning/good night text?
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/15 01:06 AM
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Haha yeah anytime! Lol yeah those were the good old days. Now, dating is a really casual activity.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 01:17 AM
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Wow! Good for you. College relationships are definitely really bizarre. My campus is filled with weird mismatches.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 07:22 PM
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Haha I'm in college and I'm 19. I've seen my mix of weird things. I've seen my stoner roomie fall in love, my other roommate treat her bf like a doormat. Love is weird especially when you're young. I totally get where you're coming from but ignore em and focus on your self. I don't think what you expect is unrealistic but you probably won't this mentality in a lot of people. Most of my "friends" love hooking up, are riding the CC b/c it's summer, and have given up on love.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 11:25 PM
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yeah i don't get how a hot babe can be anything less than a 6? lol
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 01:02 AM
5

this guy......
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 01:57 AM
3

Care packages, handwritten letters with your scented perfume (idk if you wear perfume), things to remind him of your times with him
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/15 10:18 PM
14

Haha I always laugh when guys on TRP are like "Yeah, I was with an HB 7 and her friend is an HB 8". Lol. I just use the binary system with guys. You're either attractive to me or you're not. Makes life a lot simpler.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/15 10:17 PM
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Yeah, I think most people without makeup are like 5's which can turn into 7's with proper skincare/hygiene/makeup. I reserve 9's and 10s to models?
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/15 10:15 PM
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Haha true!
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/15 10:14 PM
1

Hey! Ah okay yeah I realized it was something like that. They were getting really annoying but I'm glad you did that! I'll stick to raising smv posts.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 06:04 PM
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Haha absolutely! My roommate treats her bf as a doormat and it's even more disgusting to be now. Also when women talk about being strong and independent feminists, I cringE
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 09:57 AM
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Lol I guess it was too controversial. In the beginning when I wrote this, I totally forgot to include a section about having the talk before having sex. Also, a lot of RP guys who had a totally different perspective on plating women were commenting on this. Glad you liked it though
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 09:45 AM
1

Good to know. Thanks for the insight
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 05:03 PM
2

Good to know. But wouldn't be ideal if wife material was a bit of both? I mean if you're going to marry her, she can't look like a super modest chick who can't give you a hard on. Does this mean that some guys will settle for a better personality in the long term and compromise for worse looks?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 06:17 AM
1

I guess it might seem redundant to give that kind of advice but honestly, I guess I have a 19-year-old's college perspective and pretty much every girl on my campus is like this. Even the "feminine, girly" ones who wear sundresses (but do a ton of unfeminine things) still have issues attracting the right guy and still wonder why Mr.Right hasn't been knocking down their door. I'm just reiterating things I've learned from my life because I see this stuff every day. It's dumb and might seem redunda…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 03:59 AM
1

AUSTIN POWERS!
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 03:55 AM
1

Agreed! You can totally have chemistry without sex. There's wayyyy more to a relationship than sex.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 03:53 AM
1

pretty much laughed at the "as a man" part and the Tinder situation.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 03:52 AM
1

Yeah, agreed! I think a lot of people forget about the importance of having the talk
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 03:52 AM
1

I mean that's kinda why I wrote the "intentions" part. You kinda need to go into the process with an expectation that you want to be in a serious LTR. At some point whether it's the first date or the third date, you want to know whether this guy wants an LTR or not. Better save your time, right?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 03:51 AM
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Agreed. As an RPW, I'm not looking for a guy who wants instant sex
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 03:50 AM
1

good to know. So what matters more to MMV?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 03:50 AM
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I agree to an extent and yeah sex is important. Should a girl wait 10 dates to have sex? I never said that. Even if you have sex after 3-4 dates, a girl needs to have the talk with her man about whether he wants to be exclusive with her. There's no point in adding notches to a women's belt if she doesn't seem anything serious. This post isnt meant to attract beta guys but honestly, it's almost impossible to have an LTR with a true alpha. He is probably going to have a lot of alpha qualities and …
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 05:54 PM
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Agreed! Keeping that number as low as possible is good. Also, my post has a lot to deal with environment because a lot of my friends expect things like ltr's from guys they met at parties or Tinder (not the greatest situation to be in). Im obviously generalizing here but if you want to keep your number low, you're going to have to screen hard and put yourself in an environment conducive to relationships and building them
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 05:45 PM
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Yeah I guess I should have renamed the thread. Im basically just trying to say that there are ways to showcase yourself in the best way possible and there is a greater chance of meeting this person in certain environments. Like for example, there are certain environments that are conducive to men finding plates to spin. Bars and parties with lots of drinking are examples of that
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 05:43 PM
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Yeah, agreed. Okay I added it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 03:19 PM
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Oooo yeah Ill add that to the intentions part. I thought that was kinda obvious though. I guess this is to avoid situations in being a plate
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 03:15 PM
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Well, start with things you like eating? Start simple with pasta dishes, etc. When I first got into the kitchen, I knew I had a sweettooth so I started baking. Once I pretty much mastered that, I got into cooking.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 12:21 PM
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Yay :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 12:19 PM
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There's a lot of things that go into making a plate or having that status. For some guys, that's all they want. For other guys, they recognize your value and will take that to their advantage and plate you. Don't end up as one because it's going to take a lot more time and effort to unplate yourself instead of starting from ground zero and making a good first impression on the guy from day 1.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 12:18 PM
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Thanks! It did!
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/15 11:50 PM
2

Good luck with finals. My last one is tomorrow! I'd like to try to curse less during this stressful week!
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/15 11:18 PM
1

Yeah I go to a school which has greek life but it isnt huge here either. It's medium-sized. It's not easy finding that balance but you kind of have to create that sort of experience for yourself in college. Intramural sports are great. Really you can pursue any of your passions or hobbies.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/15 03:54 AM
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it's like this too! Most of the Indian guys hang out with most of the Indian girls. They even have their own fraternity and they all hang out with each other. The guys are pretty alpha. The girls are total sloots and love turning up on the weekend. Then, once you get outside of that weird social circle, there's Indian girls who date white guys and not so attractive Indian chicks who are either fat or too into their studies.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 12:54 AM
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This! I never thought of it this way.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/15 12:36 AM
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Yeah I go to a private school. That's great! A lot of the religious organizations, conservative ones. Volunteering and charity orgs are great for meeting new people.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 04:31 PM
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True!
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 11:08 AM
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Yeah it's more about what works for me. Im trying to abstain as much as the possible from drinking/cursing but having the self awareness is nice. It's been a learning experience
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 11:08 AM
1

haha yes
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 05:20 AM
1

yeah I know it's super vague advice but find things in your life worth improving and then improve it
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 05:03 AM
1

Yeah, I think not cursing, not drinking, and not partying has led me to a better group of people: people who are not into this kind of stuff and are spending their time doing something with meaning like pursuing their passions or volunteering.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 04:17 AM
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Well, I personally believe that cursing, drinking, and smoking are not feminine behaviors. It's both self improvement and deals with maintaining frame/femininity. Also, it's all about environment. When a women curses, she creates a negative image for herself. When a women drinks, she is probably at a party and possibly surrounding herself by men (in college). If she drinks, she could act foolishly. Drinking, partying, and smoking is not conducive to creating a proper feminine environment. When I…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 02:42 AM
1

Haha this is the exact reason why I want to get married between grad school and college.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 12:19 AM
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Realizing you're not perfect, fixing your flaws, working on bettering yourself everyday, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 12:04 AM
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Hey! Haha me too! It's been a long road but I'm glad that I've changed/am still changing for the better. Well it's the end of the semester. I'm part of a professional fraternity on campus and that's helped. I also volunteer at a pro-life maternity clinic and the women there are great role models there! I'm glad you're looking at colleges. I definitely did not want to go to a party school either but it's kinda unavoidable at most schools. At some point down the line, you'll find yourself in stick…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 11:59 PM
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Yeah, just get her into beauty, style, etc by exposing her to it or you could just lead by example. I noticed when I stopped drinking, people around me drank less at parties.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 10:20 PM
1

yes! i'd love to do it!
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 10:18 PM
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Yeah, agreed. I wouldn't mention "Red pill" but I'd bring up concepts and stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 08:10 PM
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I think optimistic women are common but I think it's harder to find self-conscious/critical women who actually can look at themselves and realize what they've been doing wrong is wrong and that they do indeed need to change. It's so hard because these days girls in this day and age are "perfect" according to social media. Every girl regardless of how pretty is "perfect" and "Amazing" and "beautiful". It's bs if you ask me. But yeah, I agree. I hope that people read this and get motivated.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 08:04 PM
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I guess you can call me an optimist but I guess I wrote this as a wake up call to anyone out there. Hope it helps regardless.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 07:56 PM
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Tell her to improve herself (looks, skills, etc) first and that she still has time. The reason why she ended up in this situation because she accepted being someone's plate. She needs to start demanding more and offering more in order to make her future relationship possible.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 07:52 PM
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Yup, I'm glad I discovered this at 19 but even if you're older, it's never too late to stop.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 07:48 PM
3

i loving the nemo references
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 06:48 PM
0

i like ur username
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 06:45 PM
3

hahahaha. the school of fishies.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 03:00 AM
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fish buddies hahaha
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 01:05 AM
2

Lolol
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 04:52 PM
1

Ah okay thanks for the info! Im going to use the facial razors for my sideburns and bellabe for the rest of my face
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 10:53 AM
1

Thanks for the info. I might buy a facial spring remover. I wonder if they're worth it
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 10:35 AM
1

Looks good! I just bought a pack of facial razors and This might be dumb but you can't cut your face with it right?
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 10:04 AM
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Nah, you seem genuine. Faults range from not being feminine, nagging, having the right expectations, working on your SMV, finding a guy who matches your SMV and not having unrealistic expectations, focusing on how you can better yourself and your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 01:32 AM
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succinct but accurate
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 10:33 PM
1

That's interesting. My dad is from the Middle East! It's strange. I always go to class in a sundress and heels sometimes. I love having masculine men and feminine women but people would like to differ. Nice to meet someone who agrees though!
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 10:11 PM
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You will be happier in the long term. Long term happiness > short term casual sex. Remember that.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 09:48 PM
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I'm just being honest. I've been in the same situation and it's better if you call it quits and find a guy you would be genuinely happy with in the long run. If you want an LTR, go in with those intentions and leave with them too. Don't compromise.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 07:55 PM
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Nope, it's all about the way you carry yourself
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 07:43 PM
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You could do that but it might be unwise to waste your time. Instead, find guys who are genuinely interested in a relationship. Honestly, if a guy tells me anything along the lines of "I don't like labels", "I don't want a relationship", "Relationship is not what I'm looking for", I'm done with him because that's exactly what I want and I know he can't give it to me. Obviously, there are exceptions but I have short-term dated guys and if they tell me they're not ready to commit or be exclusive b…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 07:39 PM
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I would say it's on to the next one. Because guys are the gatekeepers of a relationship and he said no, you probably will not be able to change his mind in that respect. Giving him sex is not going to win him over at all. If you genuinely want a relationship, I would find a guy who is looking for one and pursue him.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 07:29 PM
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Yeah anytime! For me the red pill is all about self improvement and because Im single at the moment, I thought I'd help anyone else out if they're on this path too. I cant wait to get my teeth fixed. BHA and AHA treatments are great! Unfortunately, I can't use them as they react with the meds my dermatologist put me on but it's definitwly a great way to get good skin. Thanks for the sugar wax tip. I personally shave and it takes forever but it's okay. I totally agree with the patch testimg! I ca…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 04:56 PM
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thanks for the info :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 05:49 AM
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Yeah I kinda just want to get better at applying eyeshadow and having full face coverage at events. Also I just want to know what shades work best with my face. My makeup is pretty natural looking and I dont plan on changing that really.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 05:49 AM
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Yeah, I'd love that. Ive stopped eating dairy.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 05:47 AM
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Haha hijack away! I love conversations! Yeah I just found out about curling my eyelashes :) I don't really wear makeup on the daily basis aside from eyeliner and lipstick. Just working on getting my skin in the best shape possible. Im actually using the one with ferulic acid in it but I dont think I linked it above so thanks for reminding me about that.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 05:18 AM
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Yup! Ive been drinking about 80 ounces of water a day which has been helping and I eat pretty healthy. My acne tends to be hormonal. Im going to look into the biotin and phytoceramides. I agree! I want my skin cleared before I put any makeup on.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 05:15 AM
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Yeah, I agree. I personally love dressing up for dates but smiling and being positive/likeable is way more important.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 03:00 AM
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Yeah, I'm on ziana right now.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 02:28 AM
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Great blog! Yeah, I quit drinking a couple months ago and stopped going to clubs/parties. My quality of life has improved. As for others, I have no idea what they're doing but as long as you focus on yourself that's all that matters.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 02:22 AM
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You're welcome! Yeah, I totally understand being on a budget but I mean it's all going to pay off in the end. Ugh, wearing sweats and on their phones sounds awful. I miss walking into a class and actually being able to talk to people. Best of luck to you too! I totally will be adding pictures and stuff as I go along. It's only the beginning. You should totally contribute!
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 01:42 AM
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Yup, agreed! I never realized how important sunscreen was until I started using it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 01:31 AM
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Hey! Yeah, I definitely plan on buying things and trying out samples. Yeah, threading here is expensive and I have to do my chin, lips, and eyebrows. It just adds up since I'm living in a big city so it ends up costing around $30 and I usually have to go every 3 weeks which is way too much. Threading is great. Yeah, I totally understand that! It's great that you're spending more time on being feminine. It's hard especially when we have a million things to do but I love pampering myself even on a…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 01:31 AM
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Ah okay. Yeah, I'm trying to avoid salicyclic acid as it makes my skin peel and dry up. Yup, you're right! I'm storing in a dark place like a potato.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 12:36 AM
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Yeah, it does when used in combination but you should try it out for sure. My entire complexion is lighter as a whole. Go to a dermatologist and check out /skincareaddiction. Using on a retinoid or using exfoliants helps too.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 12:21 AM
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I'm guessing that's when you start dating the girl and after you know her well enough? RPW has a different idea of femininity (e.g. dresses) but you definitely don't need a 5k dress to impress a guy. A sundress can do.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 12:12 AM
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thanks for adding this! i'm from the US so I had no idea this thing existed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 12:08 AM
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Will do. Thanks for the info.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 11:54 PM
2

Thanks for the recommendation. Apparently, the new formula is not as good according to some of the Amazon reviews. Kinda love my moisturizer right now but I'll try it out.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 11:48 PM
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Thank you! I'll be posting more about my progress and can't wait to hear about more about everyone's RP journeys. Haha, embrace your age. But yeah online dating has just become a giant cesspool of hookups and beta orbiters constantly messaging people lol. Can't really see anyone in my generation actually LTR-ing someone through online dating anymore because it's too accessible and too easy. There's just no filter. I've tried POF and OKC. POF is worse in my area. OKC is slightly better. I'm sure …
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 04:26 AM
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red pillers don't shame hypergamy. they accept the fact that there are hypergamous women out there and act accordingly. so, if a guy sees a guy as a slut, he'll treat her that way. but if a guy sees a girl worthy of an ltr, then he'll treat her differently
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/15 02:35 AM
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I mean I feel like a girl is going to talk about size if it's just not average-sized. It's dumb but whatever.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 01:16 AM
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Lol I just think size isn't an issue if you don't make it one
/r/askTRP02/05/15 01:11 AM
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Yeah, we'll see about that. Both of them are pretty rusty.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 12:17 AM
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good list
/r/askTRP01/05/15 11:41 PM
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only on trp. as a girl, size literally doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 11:35 PM
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Maybe he's just not that into lingerie? Or you misread something? Or he's had a rough day.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 11:26 PM
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Should have read this five months ago when I thought that being with a "player" equated being with an alpha which meant it was okay. Agreed. It is our duty as RP women to maintain feminine frame at all times and not end up with players/plate spinners
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 09:23 PM
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Nope. I wouldn't sext my SO. Trust issues and privacy issues. Also, you might end up regretting it in the end so be careful. Why not just wait until you're in person and show off yourself in person?
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 08:56 PM
2

Agreed. Logic > emotion. It's just better that way.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 04:43 PM
2

Lol Bernie is an idiot. Good for you though!
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 04:40 PM
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Agreed. It's hard pill to swallow but honestly, if I was ready for LTR right now I wouldn't want my boyfriend to know that I have any guys' contact info at all.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 04:15 AM
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Haha yup! It's one of the reasons why ever since I joined RP, I deleted all contact info for any guys on my phone because it's too tempting to have that kinda stuff and you don't want to start being like "oh this guy and i were talking about this or that" even though you don't want to give off those vibes of talking to someone else.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 03:31 AM
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I think both works. Being casual and feminine is fine it's just not my style per se.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 02:28 AM
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nope, nope, nope source: my experience
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 02:19 AM
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Gosh, that sounds awful. Well, she's a stoner too so I guess it's a case of low SMV going for another low SMV person LOL.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 01:55 AM
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HAHA. No, I'm in college. So, no husbands yet. But one of them treats her bf's like a doormat and the other one is falling for a stoner.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 11:12 PM
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Ooo sorry misread that! A cute crystalware piece, baked goods, frames, house decor would be good
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 04:35 PM
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What are his hobbies? Get him gifts based on his hobbies.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 03:42 PM
1

Haha Ill keep this mind. Im single and they're all in relationships with betas.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 01:39 PM
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Hey! Thanks for the support! It's hard but I guess quality over quantity. For now, I'm keeping my BP friends on the side as I transition into a better group of friends. Either way, I think having good values is more important than being surrounded my tons of people without ones. Yeah, I agree. I'd rather meet ppl in real life. I'm planning on taking some cooking class through meetup and joining some exclusively women groups too. Thanks for the tip! I'm usually on there haha. IRC is great. I can'…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 02:27 AM
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I only said as a woman because it was The Red Pill (not TRP women), haha. I'm totally not. I work out five days a week and I don't want to give up my lifestyle to end up like them.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 01:00 AM
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Yeah, I mean as a woman who wants to become a doctor, it's absolutely ridiculous that we as a society has to watch a society go down in flames as people become increasingly complacent with being fat.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 09:40 PM
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As a fit woman watching this made me cringe.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 08:39 PM
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Haha this is great! I don't think you're lowering your SMV as long as you don't turn into some unfeminine hippie who is unkempt. Stay true to your passions and be feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 05:21 PM
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If I had a SO, I would.... 1. Cook him steak 2. Bake for him if he was a sweettooth 3. Be able to schedule time for him to make it convenient 4. Buy beer
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 07:30 PM
1

Haha yeah I agree.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 05:26 AM
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Haha. Oui! Yeah, ive been pretty athletic all my life. Ill check it out
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 04:04 AM
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Haha yeah med school shouldn't be too bad. Becoming a general physician takes the shortest amount of time. I kinda want to have my life together by 25. I kinda want to get married or engaged before med school. Im fluent in french and I was thinking about doing philanthropy work in france and possibly even being a doctor there. Haha i think you might be in the minority here though! Most guys on here don't want a super educated woman because strong and independent usually also means slutty and mas…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 12:54 AM
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Yeah, it is what it is.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 11:12 PM
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Haha I spend about an hour at the gym. I'm fit. Yeah, I mean I don't know if I could survive in Brazil either. We'll see I guess. I just feel like it'd be easier. There are so many things that I love about European men moreso than American men. I just want to settle down and have kids and finding a guy here to do that seems pretty difficult especially at my age. I wouldn't mind working as I am planning on going to med school to be an OB/GYN or a pediatrician so I have time to spend for my husban…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 11:11 PM
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I get it but I don't want to get it, if it makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 06:42 PM
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I agree. The ceremonial stuff is nonsense to me. Honestly, I just want a good guy. A diamond is nice but investing in a house or in my guy's career is better. Relationships are definitely more important to me and I like that mentality a lot! Hahaha. I've been learning a bit of German and Im going to start going to meetups where I can learn to speak German better with fluent German speakers. Also physically speaking, it's weird to admit to this but I've never dated a guy who didn't have blue or g…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 03:52 PM
1

interesting. good to know.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 03:48 PM
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Yeah, I don't get it. I was at CVS yesterday and saw a girl in sweatpants and uggs with her boyfriend. They both looked pretty sloppy and IDK if I could reduce my standards for a guy who wanted that from me.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 03:48 PM
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Yup, it's a hard red pill to swallow. I hate men who say sorry. It sucks. Yeah, all the masculine guys I know are in frats. STEM, not so much at my college.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 03:47 PM
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Nah. My parents are mixed (Middle Eastern/Caucasian) but I live in America. I'd love to talk about more about it. PM me.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 03:45 PM
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lol
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 04:52 AM
1

nah it's just laziness and bad food.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 04:22 AM
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eh i've got a flannel dress and probably bring some boots as well. lol probably no make up.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 02:59 AM
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haha sure. let's go with that.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 02:58 AM
2

Haha yeah I love the 'burbs. Yeah i definitely miss the fields!
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 12:27 AM
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HAHA! We're twins! Yeah, I go to school in DC so it's not the south but I kinda wanna move to the south or midwest to get these kinds of guys. Ah where in Florida? I have friends at UMiami and most of my friends there are party sorority types. None of them want LTRs or are LTR material. I definitely want to raise a family on a farm and I want my guy to be as masculine as possible. Buy sundresses, rompers, cute shorts, and skirts :) Seriously, it helps!
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 09:23 PM
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Not surprised. My roommate who is a complete mess was like, "Why are you going on a run? Why are you playing pick-up soccer games?" but really it all just translated to "Why are you not hanging out with me?".
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 05:39 PM
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Yeah, makes sense. That's why I ended up things with him because there was no point in keeping it going if I knew we weren't going to see each other. Cheating is dumb. It's like if you didn't see a future and you know you can't commit, suck it up and just stay single.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 04:05 PM
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Thanks for the support haha! Yeah, I get tons of clothes on sale and it takes little or no effort. I shop at forever 21, zara, urban, h&m, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 04:03 PM
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Ah wow. I had no idea. It's definitely tough dating a military guy especially with the distance. I don't think I could do it and the idea of an LDR doesn't jive well with me.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 03:33 PM
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Makes sense. I was dating one for a while but when I realized he was leaving for training, I had to end it because it seemed pointless to pursue something short term.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 03:26 PM
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Point taken.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 03:25 PM
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Yeah, I might go back to the online dating pool but right now i'm goint to work on finding guys through activities I do.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 03:00 PM
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Agree! I want a true alpha haha. Wouldn't ever date a guy who was intimidated by my style or looks bc he probably has other insecurities as well
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 02:57 PM
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Agreed! And that's great you met him so young! It's always nice to hear success stories. Im definitely not going to dress down. I love my style and it isnt over the top :) I have been dating older (23 - 26)
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 02:56 PM
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Idk turquoise hair is not common? I havent really experienced it? As for the masculine women, that definitely is a thing if you look out for it. The other day, my roommates told me about how they thought guys wanted to talk to them on the street and they were very aggressive towards them. Yeah, that definitely sounds like American tourists for sure which sucks bc we're not all that bad!
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 02:51 PM
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Haha I hope he does! Yeah, I was thinking about moving to AZ for med school
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 02:48 PM
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Haha I don't have any like that?
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 02:47 PM
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Well im 19 and i kinda want to find guys online first myself. Looking for ltr material online at my age is kinda shady haha
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 02:46 PM
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Haha thank goodness!
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 06:22 AM
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Yeah, I'm beginning to understand that. More of the girls on my campus are pretty sporty (wear leggings, snapbacks, sperry's, or sneakers) to class. Idk if I want to do that but it's understandable.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 04:27 AM
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Haha no green eyes but he's cool.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 04:25 AM
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Agreed. None of my clothes is designer and I always shop at stores that are pretty inexpensive.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 04:23 AM
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Haha. Oh, I'm sure. Well, dressing well is great. I didn't say it can't impress men but I will say that it makes me feel, look great and I was raised to be feminine naturally. I'm just being who I was raised/born to be. That being said, dressing like a man to get men isn't really any better.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 03:40 AM
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Word. Haha this is brilliant
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 03:31 AM
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Yeah, I'm definitely not turned on by it. It's kinda awful actually. I'm going to continue to embrace my femininity and if that's not what guys on my campus want, oh well.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 03:30 AM
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Agreed. This is just based on my campus and some observations I made
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 03:29 AM
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Haha there's this mixed asian/white kid in my class who pulls off the track suit look. I'm sure you look good!
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 03:05 AM
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good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/15 02:51 AM
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lol. not sure if srs or...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/15 02:45 AM
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Haha, wow. That really is pretty surreal! Haha I think track suits are kinda cute if you're athletic.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 02:45 AM
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Yeah, I'm not like super dressed up. I usually pair the wedges with jeans and wedges so it's kinda girly. It's weird how guys are receptive to that? I guess I'm going to try out different styles and gauge reactions.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 02:42 AM
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Yeah, I don't wear designer clothes. I just like to look pretty. Lots of sundresses and stuff. I wouldn't call myself high maintenance but I was kinda worried that I could come off as that. I've been wearing soccer jerseys with jeans and wedges and I feel like that's been getting a lot of attention but I mean it's tough because I don't wanna wear that everyday? haha. Thanks for the advice. Will keep this in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 02:30 AM
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ah okay. get involved in your community, volunteer, use meetup.com, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 01:45 AM
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Meetup.com is a nice place to begin. What are your hobbies/interests? Does you hang out with your husband's friends?
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 01:41 AM
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Haha okay? I guess that's good to know. I just don't really want to change my style. I wear tank tops and plaid shirt sometimes but it's not really my ideal look.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 11:48 PM
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Haha cheesecake factory is nice! Been there once. If I knew you better, I'd send you things popsicles from here. Yeah, it's just that Even though im working on my smv and stuff, it's hard to meet guys off campus. I'm not going to do online dating but I guess have to go out more and do more things in the city.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 11:38 PM
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Haha yeah that's what I look like. Ive been trying to put on muscle mass though. Ugh. I don't want to worry about intimidating people? I hope that's not a thing. Like im relaxed, not some stuck up fashion snob. Dressing nicely feels good.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 11:26 PM
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Wait?! You guys don't have popsicles in Germany? Ah okay. Good to know. I always thought German men are super masculine and that girls there are traditional. Ah, that does sound pretty awful. I kinda want to get married once I graduate but Idk if that is even a realistic goal.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 11:15 PM
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Agreed. Yoga pants ... Are for yoga/other athletic activities. Haha yeah I agree. Why would a guy want to date another man? Ill check it out. Ive been meaning to become more flexible.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 11:10 PM
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Haha yeah I get that. Those hippie girls are pretty attractive! But when I'm talking about jeans and a t shirt, even if the 60s and 70s women wore nice blouses and bell bottom jeans (still stylish for the time period) not crew necks or even v necks with sweats and uggs haha. Fitness is definitely important. I just didnt emphasize that because im tiny and petite and It's kind of a given that women who are thin are obv more attractive than their counterparts.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 11:09 PM
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Hahahahaha this is hilarious. Kind of amazing those neckbeards really do exist.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 11:06 PM
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Haha yeah like if I feel lazy I still manage to wear "nice" clothes lol. Maxi skirts are nice.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 11:04 PM
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Haha. Good. I'm glad to know men like you exist. I wear yoga pants when I go to the gym but I change them immediately. There really are no excuses.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 10:50 PM
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A lot of things. My mom always dressed me in knee-length dresses that were pretty. I really like the 50s. I love skirts and dresses. I wear maxi dresses too. I like lace a lot and things that show off my figure without being tight. I get a lot of clothes from forever 21, sammydress, stores in my neighborhood, zara, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 10:49 PM
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Ah, no. I didn't target the fitness/obesity issue. I guess it's something I've taken, unfortunately for granted. I'm really into fitness. I just talked about fashion and general upkeep because a lot of RP women are super feminine, love dresses, take care of their hair, etc. I guess your perspective is interesting. I've come to terms with the fact that some men are just not attracted to girls who are super feminine or like wearing dresses. I think both are important. I wouldn't go around bare-fac…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 10:47 PM
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Haha. Oh, don't feel conceited! You're not and you're probably doing things right. I'm the same way. Don't change your way. Stay true to who you are and hopefully we'll both find the guy we're looking for. Haha as for the flip flop thing, okay I'm from the northeast so it doesn't make sense but yeah I'd understand if I was where you are.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 10:42 PM
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Oh, I know that. I'm not limiting myself to my campus so I'm going to start dating men in the area again and date older. We'll see.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 10:40 PM
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Yeah, I just don't get it. I don't get American style or fashion or whatever that is. Yeah, I dated this guy who was slightly older. Had his life all together and attractive but he was too much of a pushover. He was too apologetic, said sorry too often (for things not worth being apologetic over). I felt like this dynamic wouldn't work just because I kinda wanted to be the submissive one and I wanted him to take the lead.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 10:38 PM
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Ah okay thank you for this insight. That is very interesting. Is this a long distance thing or are you living here now? I am attracted to German men (I guess I just love their features) and I always thought they were super masculinized (sorry for stereotyping). Again, unfortunately, this is a western problem. 25 is too young to get married? Wow, that's insane. Every woman in my family gets married by 23. 25 is the cutoff. Haha. Lol. I feel like SMV and RP stuff doesn't even matter to the men on …
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 10:35 PM
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Yeah, I've noticed that the guys on my campus are too feminine which is why I'm attracted to more of the ROTC guys or guys at the local military schools. Pretty definitely is not sexy. I think American girls my age know how to be sexy but not know how to be pretty, if that makes sense. I'm definitely holding on to my values and I'll have to filter as I go along.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 10:13 PM
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I'm guessing you go to a super liberal school b/c my school is like that. My school is ridden by feminism. This was before I was super red pill. The guys I described are guys I dated about 8 months ago. I don't think American guys are bad or anything but after swallowing TRP, it's hard for me to justify being in a relationship with one if they don't have the values as me (i.e. follow traditional gender roles). I'm not sure if I'll be able to find what I'm looking for in the US but right now, I'm…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 09:43 PM
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The whole potato sack thing is great. I don't really understand all the girls who start dressing under when they get boyfriends. I think that a woman should dress great regardless. I also don't get guys who I've gone on dates on who are like ("Oh you look nice but you know you could have worn leggings to be comfortable" as if wearing a dress takes more effort?) This is wonderful!
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 08:26 PM
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lose weight look at your face and any imperfections. go to a local dermatologist or if you're into diy stuff check out /skincareaddiction get good at putting on makeup. you have no fashion sense? check out pinterest and go to some local stores and buy dresses. I've never seen a girl look bad in a dress unless it's like horrifying. I'm guessing you're not good at makeup so go to a department store and ask them for what would look good. Find out some good tones/colors and then buy all of these sha…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 06:31 PM
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Well, I'd rather look cute than hot. Do you want to have sex with these men or do you want to gain their respect and be their girlfriend?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 06:27 PM
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I thought she was South Asian?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 06:26 PM
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Yeah anytime! I don't think you need to be perfect for your SO. I mean you should do everything you can that is possible and I'm glad you want to please him but even in a relationship you need to find and do things that make YOU happy. Like for ex, I play soccer for fun and I'm probably not going to give it up if I had an SO but I would find time to make for my SO and do other things to satisfy him. Never lose sight of who you are whether you're in a relationship or not.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/15 04:15 PM
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Yeah anytime! For me dehydration worsens my skin tone and eye bags drastically. I agree for cursing, i usually end up cursing a lot when other ppl curse a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/15 02:20 PM
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My roommate who just "got turnt up" and had a five shots of tequila is utterly jealous of you and just came back into the room complaining about being single. So. that. happened. No but seriously, what you have is better than what most people have and you're so young! The grass isn't really greener on the other side.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/15 06:34 AM
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Well, what are you doing to make yourself happy? Have any hobbies or interests? Maybe, spend more time on them. Just because you're RP doesn't mean you have to put on a facade of perfection 24/7.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/15 06:32 AM
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Yeah I already work out. Im naturally pretty skinny. Like 5'4, 110 llb. Working on getting more of a butt. The French thing is for me and I might move to France once I graduate college
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/15 05:08 AM
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That's awesome. Yeah, making a dress is pretty difficult. I was almost about to go to fashion design school to become a fashion designer and I know how to make sketches and stuff but I've always wanted to learn how to sew dresses. I'm sure she looked amazing (and better than most of the girls in my generation haha).
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 10:42 PM
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It's a journey and I have a lot of changing to do but Without the red pill, I wouldn't be able to be the person I want to be.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 10:01 PM
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Yeah, will definitely be posting more on here before I start a blog. Yeah, I just started wearing sunscreen to prevent hyperpigmentation. It's good stuff and hopefully will keep you good looking even as we age. I dont really wear sunscreen elsewhere but Hmm ill think about it so thanks for that. Fitness is great. Ive been doing some weight training and hiit.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 08:15 PM
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Yup, water is awesome. Ive noticed my eye bags are more prominent if I don't drink enough. Thanks for the info. I might try it out. Yeah, definitey get a tailor or learn how to sew. Ive been trying to learn new skills too. Even something as simple as sewing a button is really undervalued these days
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 07:51 PM
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Ah wow that's very pretty. Vintage dresses are cute! I noticed that I've been looking pretty dead and it's really just b/c I don't drink enough water. How is the dead sea mud cleanser? I was thinking about trying it. They sell it on Amazon. Haha yeah, keeping a journal/calendar is honestly a great way to accomplish short-term goals.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 06:04 PM
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This might be lame but I still listen to Arctic Monkeys and The Strokes. Some of it is pretty BP but it sounds good. Halestorm is kinda bad-a..
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 03:39 PM
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Not sure. Depends on your skin type. With blemishes if you suffer from hyperpigmentation or scarring, you might want to start exfoliating your skin 1-2 times a week. I use a water/rice flour mask and it helps brighten and whiten my skin with a tretinoin treatment (ziana)
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 02:27 PM
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Yup. You can use a variety of different oils. Sunflower oil works well
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 02:25 PM
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Thanks camille :) Definitely use meetup.com. There's a ton of great groups out there.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 02:25 PM
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Yeah keeping a journal had made me more conscious about it and now im spending more time to talk so I can think of words to say other than curse words. I want to get my count down to 1-0 haha
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 02:23 PM
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Nice. The oil cleansing method is great
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 12:06 PM
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Yeah, I agree. If you wanna be feminine, do it but I don't think you need to do that for your fiance if he likes your style.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 07:08 AM
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Red pill is all about self improvement. Why wouldn't you be able to be more feminine if that's the life you wanna lead? Also, clearly your fiance doesn't mind you being a tomboy so why does it matter?
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 06:17 AM
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Yeah, there is an engineering school but it's over two hrs away and I kinda don't wanna drive all the way down. Haha yeah tbh I don't hang out in bars and any likeminded young female who wants an LTR probably wouldn't either. I feel like alt/punk/hipster bars attract masculine women? Haha the girls who are engineers on my floor are pretty gross looking not because they're ugly but because they've just let it all go. As of right now, I'm going to "do me" for a while and improve my appearance/get …
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/15 09:02 PM
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Haha yeah the shipping charges add up. There's a ton of cheap cute stuff on sale at lulu's.com, forever 21, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/15 04:02 PM
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Well, just do the best you can :) That's all I'm saying and hopefully your skin will clear up/is fine. Have you been to a naturopathist? They can do food tests and see which ones are causing allergies/acne. I used to have bad hormonal acne and now it's all gone :) Its a journey but you'll make it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/15 02:38 PM
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Yeah, I'm not surprised. It's unfortunate but it is what it is.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/15 03:08 AM
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All the things I've ordered are good. I think it really depends on what you order. The stuff I ordered shipped immediately and looks exactly like the photo but everyone does have a mixed experience. Then again, some of the stuff on the website looks trashy (esp. the stuff where there are pics of imitation dresses of Kim K) avoid those. if you wanna stay safe, maybe look at the customer reviews or look at the photos.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/15 12:26 AM
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Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 01:42 PM
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idk what are you looking for? it's a numbers game for men.
/r/seduction20/04/15 07:24 AM
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she's not that into you....
/r/seduction20/04/15 07:23 AM
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That's good but to guys, your actions might not seem like they justify your thoughts. When I think of a woman in the air force, I'm going to generalize and think she's powerful, wants to be dominant and not think she's sub & housewife material. I'm not saying give up your dreams but when pursuing them, be wary of people's impression of you and don't change :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 03:45 AM
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Honestly, I have no idea and I'd love a better answer to this question. I guess it's just an inner gut feeling.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 01:14 AM
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Leave him. I'll be rooting for you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 12:45 AM
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IT'S ON TO THE NEXT ONE. Sorry, had to be kinda dramatic but it's true.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 12:23 AM
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Oh this is a HUGE issue. Here's what I do: I have the talk before having any sort of sex. Just asking something like "What are we?" can gauge his reaction. Still he could be using you as a plate. Just make sure the thing you have is built to a point that you can ensure commitment and that there aren't any red flags. Remember that you're the gatekeeper of sex so don't give it up too easily but really, if you guys are both going in with the same intentions you should probably want to have sex at s…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 12:22 AM
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Haha yeah I love German men and Bayern Munich. Not sure if I have acquired a type but every guy I have ever dated is German/Irish & they stand by their values and I love that. As for France, I would only go there since I'm nearly fluent in the language.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 12:17 AM
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Yeah, it does. The small fits me and I'm a curvy 5'4, 110-llbs?
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 12:16 AM
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Hey! Like any experience, it is what you make of it. Follow these rules in life/in college/elsewhere and you're good to go. I honestly like college but I wouldn't date/LTR anyone who goes to my college. To be honest, I don't date frat guys (not LTR-material), or guys who are feminists (we've got a lot of them here). Even though I get invited to parties, I almost never go to them and if I do, I don't interact with guys there (not LTR material) nor am I interested in drinking. When it comes down t…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 12:15 AM
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Hahahahaha feminism. This is true. My parents have been married for 25 years and I'm proud of that. American culture definitely is not helping though and nearly all of my friends have divorced parents. It's ridiculous. I myself am thinking about moving to Germany or France. Not sure if finding a serious guy who wants to commit to an LTR there would be easier but sluts have made it too easy for men in the US to not commit. It sucks for people like me but c'est la vie, I guess?
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 12:09 AM
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this.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 08:34 PM
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It seems like you are doing things right but you are picking your career over men and you should realize that. Even though that is your passion, you can't have your cake and eat it too. I don't think that getting married past 25 will kill your chances but I will ask you this question: do you think you will be the same kind of RP women that you are right now even after you are in the Air Force? Think about it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 05:56 PM
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Ah wow. That's ridiculous. If I've learned anything from RP, it is that men care more about a women's actions not words. Yeah, I personally wouldn't be able to LTR someone like that unless she went through some extreme change and even after that I'd still might judge her. As a woman living in America (even though I have parents who aren't Western), it's definitely tough for both people like me who want to LTR. I look around me and it's like looking at a minefield of women and there's a big part …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 05:54 PM
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Yeah I go to a mid-sized college in a big city so word doesn't spread as easily but if you are really notorious/known for something everybody knows. There are girls who go to frats every week and they've been branded with bad repitations. Even though my mistakes weren't to that level, Honestly, I wish I followed these rules as freshman coming into college but even a though I'm a year late, I'm glad to know I still have time to change things around.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 04:56 PM
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Yeah, this is a tough one just because I've seen a lot of my friends end up getting boyfriends and then they stop taking care of their appearances and carry themselves in a worse manner. I feel like self improvement needs to be more emphasized in this subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 04:03 PM
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Yeah I agree.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 12:17 PM
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Fair enough
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 12:17 PM
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Anytime and they're cheap :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 12:15 PM
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This dress: http://www.sammydress.com/product1501046.html http://www.sammydress.com/product1477428.html http://www.sammydress.com/product1462752.html
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 06:59 AM
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focus on making him and yourself happy. like for ex, what skills do you have to offer? what activities do you do together? get better at those.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 06:57 AM
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haha I mean I don't think guys who curse are that attractive either soooooo yeah
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 06:47 AM
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Haha. No. Cursing is not classy in any context.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 06:44 AM
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That's great. I agree. I hate it when people say "I'm bad with names." It comes off as insincere. People who remember names are awesome and genuine and sharp.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 06:43 AM
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Yeah, I didn't realize how much of a turn off cursing was until I recorded myself cursing and kept a journal of how many times I cursed throughout the day. It was eye opening but necessary.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 06:42 AM
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Haha it sounds more natural to not curse
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 03:20 AM
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Yup i agree. Cursing degrades a person's character
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 03:17 AM
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Agreed. Being charming and talking to people especially strangers is great. It makes you and them feel more confident.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 11:31 PM
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Agreed on the plates part but not cursing raises your smv and gives a man a different perception of you
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 11:30 PM
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Just bought five dresses for about $100 from sammy dress :) ill post the links later
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 09:33 PM
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Yup!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 08:20 PM
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Hey! Been lurking for two months or so now. I'm 19 and in college. TRP used to bother me because I always thought the idea of pleasing a man sounds dumb but I've honestly taken some time to notice my own character flaws and I'm glad to change/keep changing
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:59 PM
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It's kinda gross when you get all sweaty and you have armpit hair. I play soccer and I prefer being shaven in that regard
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:56 PM
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Feminism is the bane of any western country's existence. Seriously. Even in college, I see more guys being gentlemen than girls acting like proper ladies. It's so sad to admit but it's true.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:17 PM
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This is great.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:15 PM
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Yeah, good idea! I'm thinking about joining college republicans on campus? Idk the girls seem feminine and guys share similar values. Also, they all love the 50s haha. I honestly can't see a home ec club surviving here either but it's less obvious for sure than a feminine student union. I love baking so I bake all the time for the clubs I'm in. Again, I don't have time to create a club like that but I'm totally going to try to find these kinds of girls who are slightly more conservative but love…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 05:34 AM
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Yup, agree with that too. You definitely have to earn your place as his gf.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 12:40 AM
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This part kinda sucks and I hate to say this but labels kinda do matter especially if you're a girl. It's how you get defined in his mind and he might just use that gray area to his advantage.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 09:41 PM
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Honestly, I guess I just kind of hate it when guys say they aren't into labeling things because it's the final step/distinction b/w plate and girlfriend status. I do agree that actions count more than words in your case but then again, it's questionable and I guess I'm the kind of person who doesn't want to be in a gray area position. This is my mentality: I'm either your girlfriend or I'm not. I'm either attracted to you or I'm not (1 vs 0). There's no in between in any of that.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 09:18 PM
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I'm in a city which has it's advantages and disadvantages. People are more liberal but there are options to escape it if you so choose. One thing I've been doing is going to coffee shops and book stores more and avoiding bars, clubs, and frats. It helps for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 09:15 PM
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I think it's all bs honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 07:43 PM
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Because you said that he treats you like a girlfriend. Treating someone like something is not the same thing like being one. I was in an unfortunately similar situation before this where the lines were pretty murky. Honestly, if you guys don't agree to specifically being boyfriend/girlfriend, you aren't in a relationship. When a guy says he doesnt want labels he might think of you as a plate. I would say it's on to the next one. You're treading murky waters.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 07:41 PM
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Skills. Cooking is great. raising your smv is great. Improving the overall love of your face is good. Just being feminine and anything you can do to improve yourself is good
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 07:36 PM
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He's using you and you're never going to be more than a plate. Politely end things and it's on to the next one. Also, in the future don't do anything sexual before agreeing to be exclusive. Once a guy sees you as a plate, it's hard to unsee that
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 07:34 PM
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My school is way too liberal for that. Honestly it sounds like a great idea but I can't imagine how this club would survive as ppl here think if a woman does anything for a man, she is not a strong, independent women. I would personally start this club but I don't have time for it as I already have two board positions in other clubs I'm involved in. This is a great idea nevertheless.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 04:09 PM
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It's not that I'm not looking for older men. Actually I have been dating older (in the 23-26 age range). I love the idea it's just that it's harder as an undergrad to find myself in situations with them unless I do online dating.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 04:05 PM
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Haha nah I honestly don't care for a lawyer or a doctor. It's just that there is a huge law school library and library for the med school next to my dorm which is why I brought it up
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 04:03 PM
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Haha alright. I suppose I can start studying at the law school/med school library but the idea of approaching a guy in a library is kinda scary. I don't want to come of as aggressive or anything. I'll definitely try this this weekend.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:08 PM
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Unfortunately, we don't but Im joining the club soccer because it is my passion. It's all girls though! I've stopped cursing, I've started to smile more, and I think I have a pretty fun, friendly personality
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 02:18 PM
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Yeah but that's the thing, I feel like I can provide more. I can bake for him, take care of him, watch futbol matches with him, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 02:15 PM
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I'm 19. Yeah but how do I meet these guys? I barely have any contact with anyone in the phd/law/medical programs because I'm not in them/don't really have any friends who are that much older. It sounds like a good idea but idk how to go about it?
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 02:14 PM
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Congrats :) i'd love to get to know you. Im a red pill women in college and it's been tough
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 02:48 AM
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Have a journal and write down your daily goals :) Post stickies everywhere motivating yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 01:55 AM
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Honestly, as someone who has dated a guy who I wasn't sexually attracted to and then did date and LTR-ed one who I was sexually attracted to, it's a bigger deal than most people think. Being sexually attractive is different from just being sexy. Honestly, you've gotta ask yourself why you're with the person in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 01:53 AM
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Ah wow. I'm in college right now and I'd love to help you out with anything :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 01:34 AM
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On a daily basis, I try to keep it as natural as possible but I do use makeup. I have eye bags so I'm trying to get rid of that by using creams. I use a bit of under eye concealer, liquid eyeliner for my eyes, mascara, and a lipstick that matches my lip color. Sometimes I use blush or bronzer.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 12:54 AM
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Awesome. Honestly, just do you right now. Focus on you for now. Enhance yourself. Find things, meet new people, explore the world. Volunteering at an animal shelter is awesome.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 12:53 AM
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Downloaded myfitness and I track my macros like crazy. I do the 40-40-20 ration but I think I eat more protein than I probably need. I do a bit of HIIT and some weights. At home, I do wall-sits, donkey kicks, and squats (without weights).
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 12:52 AM
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Take some time for yourself and learn a new skill. It could be something simple like learning how to cook a certain meal or trying something new like ballroom dancing. Literally, anything to take your mind off. Also, even though we are red pill, we are people too so don't stress yourself if you're not doing things the RPW way. You're human.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 12:46 AM
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Also...just thought of this. Whenever my friends curse (I'm distantly friends with this masculinized feminist chick), I take a moment to myself, breathe, and think so I don't end up cursing. It's weird but it's grown on me.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 12:43 AM
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Honestly, start getting in the habit of saying replacement words. I used to say "shit" a lot and I started staying "stuff". Things like that should help. Keeping a daily log of how much I cursed also helped. Haha. It's kinda a weird thing to do but it made me more aware of that bad habit.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 12:40 AM
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Yeah, honestly have the talk about being in an LTR before you have sex . As for cooking, that's great that you're putting effort into the meal. Hopefully it turns out well :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 04:54 PM
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Haha I don't think it's really an issue? I mean it shows that you're taking care of yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 04:39 PM
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Good advice. I think it's also easy to start cursing esp. if a guy curses (I used to do this) but now I don't anymore since it's soooo unladylike.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 04:16 PM
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definitely.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 03:45 PM
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Yeah, I started dating this guy and sometimes he would say things that would remind me of this guy I dated before and I'd be like "Oh... Nick did this or Alex did that". It's just a bad habit. I guess I would say that you should try to not do that and try to not bring it up. Like don't go out of your way to mention that stuff is what I mean
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 09:31 PM
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