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Self-improvement for a single woman

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June 20, 2015
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Title Self-improvement for a single woman
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Upvotes 30
Comments 29
Date June 20, 2015 4:34 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/3ahbu2/selfimprovement_for_a_single_woman/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/self-improvement-for-a-single-woman.166323
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[–]satsukisuki 8 points8 points8 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Oh how I wish I became RP in the age of 19... Thinking about it, I could've avoid many stupid things I've done, not to mention years wasted on partying. So I'm really happy for you, that in such a young age you can spot mistakes you've been making and decided to change. I'm truly impressed!

[–]bicepsblastingstud5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Just keep in mind that most of what you've listed is what I would term superficial stuff. After your looks, your biggest asset in finding a good partner will be your personality.

[–]_wingnut_ 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

What are you doing that will prepare you to be psychologically yielding and deferential to a man? These are all field reports of nothing

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[–]StingrayVC4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Get experience. You don't need to be in a relationship to get experience at this. Defer to men in your everyday life. I'm not saying to pick a man and defer to everything he tells you to do, but when the opportunity arises and a man gives a rational suggestion or tells you to do something, do it and do it with a smile.

Heck, it can be at the hardware store where the clerk says go to aisle three to find this item and you respond, "Yes, Sir" smile at him and say thank you. Not only will it make his day, every little bit is experience.

Your at school and your professor tells you to do something. Naturally, your going to defer to him because of his position, but how are you going to do it? Graciously.

All of this is experience.

**Do I need to say again, that obviously I'm not talking about doing stupid things because a man says to do them? No. Use your head and practice whenever a good opportunity arises.

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[–]_wingnut_ 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Don't suck up to the unicorns

[–][deleted] 0 points0 points0 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]_wingnut_ 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They just get deleted

[–]FiveLions-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Okay, I won't

[–]Samantha_Simpson 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

First of all, good on you for taking the initiative for trying to learn as many new things as possible! My personal opinion is that skills such as knowing multiple languages will only help you, and they may help your future SO as well. But the most important thing to remember is that RPW is an attitude much more than a set of actions. While obtaining a particular attitude/outlook on relationships seems like a much more nebulous concept than learning a new skill, there are definitely some things you can do to help you get there.

For example, one really important thing that has helped me a lot is learning to listen to people. I used to be very shy, and even though I was indeed listening to others, they would never get that impression because I would fail to make consistent eye contact and did not physically give any indicators that I was listening. Ever since I learned to overcome my shyness, I've been making sure I make consistent eye contact, nod in approval, occasionally interject words like "Yes", "Uh-huh", and "Right" to show that I agree with their point, and perhaps most importantly - smile at the person talking! This has led me to become much more successful socially as people now feel more comfortable talking to me, solely because I give off indicators that show them that I am both interested in them and supportive of their thoughts. I personally believe learning to demonstrate genuine interest in a person will go a long way in any future relationships you may have.

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[–]_wingnut_ 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

How will reading "how to make friends and influence people" make her more feminine, yielding, deferential and submissive to the right man?

Do you find female Realtors attractive?

You keep giving women advice for men

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[–]StingrayVC3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

Reading books won't give you a higher SMV. It's sexual market value. That is what wingnut is trying to get across to you. You have to attract a man before you can work to keep him and no book, unless you use it to improve your posture, is going to do that for you.

Step one, be attractive. Step two, learn to keep a man. You can't keep a man you haven't attracted yet. You will do that by learning to be feminine, by being alluring. Looks are great, but that is only the very beginning. That is your first three seconds. What are you going to do after that?

[–]_wingnut_ 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Where are you, bitch

[–]StingrayVC0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love you, too, wingnut. I'll try to stop in tomorrow.

[–]_wingnut_ 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

How exactly do you believe it will raise your smv? You seem to be really confused about all this. Nothing will raise your smv but looks and a pleasant demeanor and feminine dress. playing competive sports and reading books on how to be more masculunely charismatic arent going to help you. Almost nothing your updating about repeatedly is "rpw" in any lean ngful sense. Get a boyfriend then update us on how you are working at being feminine and deferential to him

[–]itsnadya101 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I get that my posts are repetitive. For me self improvement is a pretty red pill thing I am doing. I get that I don't have a boyfriend at the moment, but I'm trying to get better at that.

I'm not sure why you're hounding me down for not having a bf. I'm sure there are plenty of red pill woman or women in general who are single and struggling with that. I'm trying to be productive and doing a bunch of things to raise my SMV in addition to making my life better.

I don't understand how I'm not doing those things already.

Like anything else, it's going to take time and effort.

I don't think as a single woman, I should be attacked for not being red pill enough. I am single and it's a part of me but I'm looking to improve and get into a relationship. This is a process and I'm commenting on every step of the way.

[–]_wingnut_ 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You're not self improving in any rpw way and your posts don't offer any guidance or insight to any RPW

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[–]_wingnut_ 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Well you won't be posting your redpill women content free posts about it here anymore

You are an argumentative 19 yr old know it all who can't stop trying to dominate me in this discussion, I'm sure you'll be veryyyyy submissive to a man one day Lol

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[–]_wingnut_ 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

How do you think reading that book will make you more feminine and alluring to masculine attractive men, exactly?

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[–]_wingnut_ 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Playing an aggressive sport will make you very yielding, feminine and submissive to a masculine man cough

Nothing you're doing is right, these are not RPW posts and this will be the last one.

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[–]_wingnut_ 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thats nice, but it's not rpw, maybe Twox is better for you

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