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| 449 | I served my wife divorce papers while she was blowing her date in a car | jaglio69 | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/25 05:59 PM | |
| 68 | I just realized recently that in 10 years of marriage, she never made me a cup of coffee. Not once. | jaglio69 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/25 01:26 PM | |
| 63 | Wife Crash and burn stories | jaglio69 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/25 01:08 PM | |
| 48 | False promises on separation | jaglio69 | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/26 07:01 PM | |
| 33 | When your STBXW bangs someone else | jaglio69 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/25 02:09 AM | |
| 27 | How soon did your wife get into a relationship with someone else | jaglio69 | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/25 04:01 PM | |
| 9 | She’s going to be so mad | jaglio69 | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/25 07:13 PM | |
| 5 | Married 10 years | jaglio69 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/25 08:10 PM | |
| 4 | Guys I am really fucked up. Really fucked up. | jaglio69 | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/25 07:41 PM |
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| 3 | Ex wife picsYou can’t fap to those anymore dude. I had a whole fucking catalog. About 7 months into the separation one day I deleted every single one and deleted from the deleted items folder | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 10:57 PM |
| 6 | STBX sleeping with someone elseShe sucks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/26 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Met someone - secondguessing everythingYeah she likes you dude just go with it don’t overthink it | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/26 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Wife agreed to work it out? Can I trust her to not change her mind?Counseling before you pull the plug. And if she does this shit again, which she might, fucking send her packing. You guys are fucking up by not going on dates and spending romantic time with each other that is insane not to do it for three years. You’re supposed to go away on little vacation vacations together too. When you go to counseling take accountability. But make damn sure she is held accountable as well | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 09:04 PM |
| 1 | I can’t face-to-face talk with my ex anymore – is this normal?Everybody has some childhood trauma | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/26 04:54 PM |
| 1 | I can’t face-to-face talk with my ex anymore – is this normal?My brother I’ve been separated for like 10 months divorce is almost there. At this point I have almost no in person interaction with her. She is pulling up in a parking lot and the kid is getting out of that car and getting into my car. All communications are text or through the fucking Wizard app. It’s kind of nice that not to have to deal with her smug face, so I get you. I think I need to be like this for like five years in order not to give a shit anymore | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/26 07:08 PM |
| 1 | I can’t face-to-face talk with my ex anymore – is this normal?Even if perimenopause is the cause, it is nevertheless happening so let it. Fuck it. And my motto is don’t be a doormat be an example for your kids that’s what I told my son and being an example for you that’s why I filed first | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/26 07:05 PM |
| 3 | I can’t face-to-face talk with my ex anymore – is this normal?Perimenopause + self-help reels targeted towards dumping your fucking husband because he’s a narcissist= eat pray love bullshit #freshstart meanwhile they are the fucking narcissist destroying their family for some imagined happiness they are missing out on | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/26 04:32 PM |
| 2 | I can’t face-to-face talk with my ex anymore – is this normal?Is she in mid to late 40s and does she scroll TikTok a lot ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/26 07:49 PM |
| 29 | Any other men here feel like you were left for dead?Leaving your husband and “living your best life” is having a moment right now especially on TikTok self-help reels. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/26 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Any other men here feel like you were left for dead?Yeah!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/26 08:23 PM |
| 0 | Feeling myself backtracking on leaving her… Advise meMy ex-wife is a fucking Cunt and did not respect or see me and my needs and things that are important to me. Same fucking situation as you. It wasn’t even that many things but she just couldn’t get there. Example I don’t like to use toxic soaps of any kind in the house and as soon as we separated she loaded the toxins up. Fuck her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/26 02:04 PM |
| 13 | Women Typically Don't Leave for a Worse Situation..... Exceptions to the Rule?Such a joke. I was married for 10 years. We both fluctuated in weight, but my wife was never obese. 5 foot 3 and about 130 with perfect D cups. In my opinion that was peak hotness. All of a sudden she starts doing crazy cardio every morning and upping her protein intake and all of a sudden she’s like 118 and wants out of the marriage. And her tits now look like 2 towels on a rack. anyway yeah some bitches lose a little bit of weight and lose all their integrity with it. They want to chase novelt… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/26 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Does it ever really get better/easier?Fuck that don’t ever take her back. Man she thinks you are LOCKED IN!! She thinks she owns you whenever she wants. Turn your back on that mess and focus on your own life | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/26 07:10 PM |
| 6 | Does it ever really get better/easier?SHE IS FOR THE STREETS. TURN YOUR BACK ON HER FOREVER. YOU ARE NOT THE DOORMAT. SHE IS. AND IN TIME SHE WILL REALIZE IT. FOR NOW YOUR FOCUS SHOULD BE SELF IMPROVEMENT ON ALL FRONTS. SPIRITUAL PHYSICAL MENTAL FINANCIAL. BE THE PERSON SHE WAS FUCKING HOLDING YOU BACK FROM BEING BRO. THIS IS NOT HAPPENING TO YOU IT’S HAPPENING FOR YOU. IT’S A GIFT. DON’T WASTE IT. I KNOW IT’S HARD TO BELIEVE RIGHT NOW BUT ONE DAY YOU WILL LOOK BACK AND SAY WHY THE FUCK DID I CARE SO MUCH ABOUT THAT TRIFLING BITCH? … | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/26 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Ex wants to meet upOh man if this was mine I would just say why don’t you just tell me what you want right now. When mine does this it’s always because they want to isolate me and then ambush me | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/26 12:13 AM |
| 1 | F herI know it hurts. It fucking stings. It tingles with cringe, behind the eyes. But you won’t feel like this forever. You will give less and less of a shit as time goes on and one day without realizing it you will give your last fucking shit. You will literally care less than zero. Hard to believe but that day is coming | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/26 09:18 PM |
| 6 | “Never move out”?Do not move anywhere until you speak to a lawyer first and then just do what the lawyer tells you to do | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/25 12:21 AM |
| 3 | My friend’s profound wisdomYeah and usually if she literally tells you she doesn’t want to be with you that’s a big red flag too lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/25 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Almost 1 yr after. Feel like she was the best thing I could ever hope for and what's the point going on now?40? You’ve got Oceans of time! But only if you start rebuilding your identity immediately and she’s not a part of it | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/25 08:40 PM |
| 7 | What was your "it's really over" moment?It’s a kick in the balls but trust me you’ll get over it way quicker than you think you will. You just can’t give a shit forever that’s not possible | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/11/25 09:16 PM |
| 6 | Divorce over dishesShe used to complain about the laundry so much. She would make sure to rub it in my face that it took her the entire Saturday and she works all week. I offered to farm it out, no that’s no good. I offered to do the laundry (because honestly I call bullshit it doesn’t take all fucking day bro) and no that’s not good enough. I even suggested she do smaller loads all week long instead of letting a pile up to the weekend. Fuck you to that idea also. She just wants to own this fucking chore and exagg… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/25 12:52 PM |
| 4 | Full Circle with Affair PartnerThere’s literally nothing you can do about shit like this. Just be there and be consistent for your kids you are a great dad | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | No one cares about menIs it a female friend or a male friend | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/25 06:49 PM |
| 5 | I got a numberWhat do you mean you’re not her type? That’s bullshit women don’t know even what their type is. A lot of times they end up with a dude they never thought they would be with. A lot of them miss out on really meaningful connections because they set an idealized visual criteria as the standard and disregard any nice guy if he doesn’t look like the idealized version of a mate that’s is in their mind. I grew up on Long Island New York and now reside in the Metropolitan area, this kind of shit is ramp… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/25 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Guys, when will my heartache fade?I REALLY needed to read this. Thank you for sharing. Stay strong and sober. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Guys, when will my heartache fade?I needed to read this. Sometimes I need a reminder. If you ever think not drinking sucks, just remember that drinking sucks infinitely more | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 07:56 PM |
| 8 | Guys, when will my heartache fade?I was married 10 1/2 years when we separated and we’re still going through the divorce. 11th anniversary date just passed. I’ve been separated for six months. I’m just about out of the woods on this thing. Work out eat healthy take care of yourself make your own decisions. Remember when you were with her and you had to run all your fucking decisions by her? Well guess what you don’t have to do that anymore. If she wants out let her go. Learn to love yourself. Then you’ll forget her. And then the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 06:11 PM |
| 9 | I terminated our sex -- right move?I think you should lay out your fucking boundaries ASAP and tell her you’re gonna walk unless she will make an effort to honor and validate these boundaries. Because you do the same for her and relationships require submissiveness and cooperativeness on both sides not just from one person | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 01:15 PM |
| 7 | After 20 yearsYou’ll be crying for months, you’ll be better in 6 months and mostly over it in a year. The Italians have a phrase. “Tutto Passa”. It’s very powerful. It means everything passes. And it’s true. I was married 10 1/2 years I’ve been out of the house exactly 6 months now, divorce in the works. I coparent and I don’t deal with her in anyway. Text only. And I only respond if it has to do with coparenting. I’m getting stronger every day and I’m almost out of the woods on this thing. A word to the wise… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/25 12:07 AM |
| 1 | How do I bring it upFuck a separation rip the Band-Aid off | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/25 09:12 PM |
| 4 | How do I bring it upYou go to the bank you get a bank check and you bring it to the lawyer and you fucking serve her ass | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/25 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Going to sports event with wife who ask for divorceI did this for a few months but when she made it clear we were not going to be living together I served her dumb ass papers. Fuck her | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/25 01:53 PM |
| 4 | Ex wife crashed date with new woman.Also if she kills herself don’t go to the funeral | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/25 04:13 PM |
| 5 | Ex wife crashed date with new woman.You should get an order of protection against her and show the new girl the order!! DO IT!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/25 04:13 PM |
| 8 | I just realized recently that in 10 years of marriage, she never made me a cup of coffee. Not once.Men sacrifice happiness for their family. Women sacrifice their family for happiness (and a lot of them regret it) | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/25 04:09 PM |
| 2 | I served my wife divorce papers while she was blowing her date in a carIf you say so | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/25 10:08 AM |
| 7 | I just realized recently that in 10 years of marriage, she never made me a cup of coffee. Not once.Many times. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/25 06:46 PM |
| 7 | I just realized recently that in 10 years of marriage, she never made me a cup of coffee. Not once.💯 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/25 01:31 PM |
| 2 | I served my wife divorce papers while she was blowing her date in a carYes | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 02:18 PM |
| 3 | After seeing my ex-wife with someone else, I really don't care anymoreWow I LOVE THIS!! And I am so proud of you!! you’re shedding weight because you’re literally shedding her psychic presence. You don’t give a fuck!! The new life you’re building is not for her to see, it’s for you to fucking LIVE!! And it’s amazing. The problems she had with you she will definitely have with the new guy or any other guy. A leopard doesn’t change its spots. but that doesn’t fucking matter anyway. you got the better part of the deal, an education on what you want in life. Look at y… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/25 02:27 AM |
| -3 | I walked away todayGo to counseling first. Maybe she needs a 3rd party to tell her she’s being a raging cunt. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/25 09:40 PM |
| 3 | New House RulesI don’t know you or her and I can’t wait for you to get rid of her. I need her out of the house now | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/25 09:21 PM |
| 11 | I’m trying my hardest to save my marriageThis is hard for you to hear but let that b**** go. You should both be fighting for the relationship not just you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/25 02:45 PM |
| 5 | I served my wife divorce papers while she was blowing her date in a carShe’s bipolar and off meds and in the middle of an accelerated attachment cycle | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/25 01:04 AM |
| 10 | I served my wife divorce papers while she was blowing her date in a carIt sure is | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/25 12:08 AM |
| 13 | I served my wife divorce papers while she was blowing her date in a carIt is!! one minute and 14 seconds | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/25 09:48 PM |
| 20 | I served my wife divorce papers while she was blowing her date in a carIt’s called an accelerated attachment cycle, most often bipolar people do this. Your ex was probably bipolar and unmedicated. She made up a whole narrative about you that wasn’t true (because they can’t bear to take any accountability ) and then discarded you and jumped right into someone else | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/25 02:23 AM |
| -6 | I served my wife divorce papers while she was blowing her date in a carYou don’t know shit bro. I have type one on my lip it barely appears once every three years. It has offered me immunity to type 2 genital. When I get tested for the virus it doesn’t even come up as detectable. Either one | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/25 02:21 AM |
| 18 | I served my wife divorce papers while she was blowing her date in a car10 years going raw dog and I never got it | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/25 11:49 PM |
| 9 | I served my wife divorce papers while she was blowing her date in a carOh he did. He recorded as he was walking up to the car | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/25 08:50 PM |
| 7 | Lovebombing, sex, and attn, oh my! Until it’s notGod that love bombing is REALLY addictive | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/25 02:41 AM |
| 5 | We broke upProud of you | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/25 01:05 PM |
| 5 | Wife Wants Divorce After 15 Years – I’m StrugglingMisery loves company | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/25 03:50 AM |
| 6 | Wife Wants Divorce After 15 Years – I’m StrugglingTry pairing it with unmedicated bipolar! What a doozy! Also they get brainwashed by TikTok and their fat cow friends who have no husbands | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/25 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Long time comingI don’t know why people sign up for this shit when freedom is staring them in the face | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/25 02:01 AM |
| 6 | Cunning Cunners.Which they don’t even get most of the time and they regret their bullshit | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/25 01:59 AM |
| 23 | Cunning Cunners.I don’t fucking think so!! The majority of the time women plan this way in advance, and they create some stupid narrative where all the blame is on the husband’s shoulders. Men don’t do that if they’re leaving they will fucking leave and tell you why whether it’s because of them or because of the wife. Women are full of shit, they take advice from fucking cows who have no man or who are unlucky in love, and together they weave some version of reality that doesn’t exist and the worst part is they… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/25 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Found out my wife hasn't felt the same for a year, devastatedWhy? She takes a shit in his heart every chance she gets. I don’t understand why the fuck people would hold onto this! Put your Michael Corleone face on! Send her packing! No emotion! See ya! Thanks for playing! INDIFFERENCE IS YOUR STRENGTH | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/25 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Found out my wife hasn't felt the same for a year, devastatedNo kids makes it easy. She’s for the streets kid!! Serve her with divorce papers immediately —nobody deserves to be treated this way. She made it clear she wants out now let her experience the reality of her choices ! and start rebuilding your life | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | I want to move on emotionally, but alimony won’t let meWomen are evolutionarily wired to leave you. They simply cannot be satisfied. They will always find a way to be dissatisfied. You’re damned if you do you’re damned if you don’t. If you go along with everything they say, they don’t respect you and they leave you. If you don’t go along with everything They say, you’re abusive and controlling. I’m not mad I’m just kicking facts here. After a certain age they all look the same anyway so find one that can make you a sandwich and don’t fucking marry h… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/25 01:25 PM |
| 7 | I want to move on emotionally, but alimony won’t let meI really don’t understand fucking marriage. Letting the government get involved with your relationship. Fuck that. I guess I understand if kids are involved but if there’s a way around it that’s the way | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/25 01:19 PM |
| 2 | How soon did your wife get into a relationship with someone elseFucking animal | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/25 01:24 AM |
| 10 | So it happened. Paperwork.If you don’t close the door in your heart on this chapter you might miss out on something really special in life. I have to tell myself that over and over again. If this is what she wants to do, let her and let go. Close the door on it so that your heart is open to meet someone else | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/25 02:46 AM |
| 3 | She’s going to be so madYeah! And gee I wonder why she wanted to only talk about it in person hmmmm 🤔 | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Just paid the retainerI also paid my retainer today. I was doing it myself on divorce.com trying to save us money. I don’t even wanna get divorced. I was talking to her about child support that she was going to have to pay some, it’s just math. It’s just a calculation and it’s compulsory it’s not an option to waive it. But you could reduce it with a good explanation so I was trying to talk to her about it and she said no I’m gonna talk to you about this in person not over the phone and I was like why? And she started… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/25 02:27 AM |
| 5 | How soon did your wife get into a relationship with someone elseHoly fuck | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/25 02:19 AM |
| 12 | I have conspiracy theory about TikTok and divorceThis is not talked about enough. Yes it’s true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/25 04:26 PM |
| 7 | New Girlfriend Suddenly Not Feeling ItIf that one thing I learned after Knapp going through a divorce after a 10 year marriage it’s that you gotta set fucking boundaries right in the fucking beginning. Fuck that. If you don’t set boundaries no one’s going to send them for you. you have to be willing to walk away calmly without emotion because the boundary requirement is not meant. And they will know you Min business and either comply or fuck right the fuck off. You don’t want this to turn into your next divorce to you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/25 04:55 PM |
| 6 | 5 years and losing my best friend hurtsI swear to God if you don’t take action another 5 years will go by in the snap of a finger. This is your life we are talking about here. Nobody has time for this wishy-washy bullshit man. For 4 months I have been trying to go along with my wife’s stupid program of stay out of the house and work on yourself and we can go on dates etc. etc. but we keep bickering and fighting because I’m coming from a place of rejection hurt and resentment. She has fucking broken up the family And gaslit me to make… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 05:00 PM |
| 0 | Here we go again. Divorce number 3Premarital assets are separate anyway unless you comingle it with the marital funds | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 12:36 PM |
| 25 | Here we go again. Divorce number 3A woman’s general nature is to leave you. They want you to do things, but if they see you doing them they lose respect for you. On the other hand if you don’t do the things, they get resentment towards you. It’s just a matter of time before they don’t like you anymore. That’s why old couples can’t fucking stand each other and sleep in separate rooms! How many old fucking people do you know Still married that are truly in love? I’m not buying it. At that point it’s just two people in a fucking ro… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 12:35 PM |
| 6 | She played me like a fiddle. She was playing chess all along while I was I was wearing my heart on my sleeve.Also she has turned everyone against you in her family don’t give it a fucking thought. You don’t care what anyone else thinks about you. And you don’t have to get closure by telling them it’s not true. They’re not gonna believe you anyway they are going to be loyal to their fucked up daughter. Because they’re the ones that made her fucked up! The best revenge is indifference, be all business. And now the world revolves around you! Let’s fuckin gooooooooo!!! don’t forget to eat healthy lift weig… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 12:32 PM |
| 6 | She played me like a fiddle. She was playing chess all along while I was I was wearing my heart on my sleeve.You can still have kids I didn’t have one until I was 43. Get that bitch clean out of your life NOW and cut off all communication. If she calls you tell her to go through the lawyers. Silence and indifference are your friend. Just work on yourself get comfortable with yourself do things with other people do things in groups make friends go on trips most importantly be able to sit with yourself in a room in silence and be comfortable no booze no substances you cannot be intoxicated this is a cruc… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 11:38 AM |
| 8 | 5 years and losing my best friend hurtsThis is like a mirror that she keeps dropping on the floor and you keep on picking it up and gluing it back together and then she keeps fucking dropping it on the floor again. You can’t even see your reflection in it anymore just some fragmented broken version of you. I really don’t think you deserve this kind of treatment. Do you? You either love someone or you don’t love someone. There’s no third option of “I don’t know“. Now I don’t know you people, And I know there is room for nuance in life… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 11:21 AM |
| 3 | Guys I am really fucked up. Really fucked up.Just got my 11 month chip | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/25 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Guys I am really fucked up. Really fucked up.She’s already in contract to buy a co-op. Our house is listed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/25 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Guys I am really fucked up. Really fucked up.It’s so funny because yesterday I told her, this is bad timing. If the situation was reversed and you had the chance to take a big chunk of my income you would be all about it! She goes congratulations you succeeded in hurting me just now. Because it means you don’t know me. I was like whatever you’ll get over it super quick I’m sure | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/25 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Guys I am really fucked up. Really fucked up.We can do this ourselves for $1000. We’ve agreed to pretty much everything.. should I be the bad guy get a lawyer and take her for alimony and child support | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/25 07:51 PM |
| 8 | Well gents, I think I’m going to be joining this club soon. Just venting.You are NOT defective | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/25 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Wife Crash and burn storiesI’m really glad for you that you fell in love again. When you divorced her were you feeling fucked up like you were never gonna love somebody that intensely again? I know it’s absurd to think this because of course I could fall in love again just like I did with her. My logical brain reminds me of that but my front brain thinks about her face and her kisses and the way we have sex like a key and a lock. All those things. Did you feel all of that and get scared that you wouldn’t have it again? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/25 12:48 AM |
| 15 | Wife Crash and burn storiesI came back to read this like four times | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/25 08:12 PM |
| 7 | Wife Crash and burn storiesI love this | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/25 02:22 PM |
| 6 | Wife Crash and burn storiesWOW | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/25 01:37 PM |
| 22 | Wife Crash and burn storiesTHIS!!! Once she got on TikTok everything went to shit!! And she got useless advice from women with no men. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/25 01:32 PM |
| 16 | My wife has gone insane.Holy shit I thought I had it bad! My heart goes out to you. She’s obviously suffering from some sort of pathology. As her husband my initial thought is you should just be as supportive as possible while at the same time maintaining your own personal mental and emotional boundaries in life. Which I’m sure you’re doing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/25 12:53 PM |
| 2 | How long did you get over?I’m married almost 11 years I’ve been separated four months and I am DONE. she is a nut bag. When it was good it was great. But she’s a different person now you just have to keep reminding yourself. A different person. Five years separation is wild | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/25 04:57 PM |
| 3 | How long did you get over?Why the fuck are you guys still married? If you die she gets everything bro grab your balls and seal this fucking thing shut | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/25 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Kicked out of the houseThis is not wrong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/25 12:56 PM |
| 6 | Ex wife going on big trip with new manI’m so sorry that you’re going through this. I know for sure it must be painful. Visceral in your gut kind of pain. I get it. All you can do is be the best version of yourself. That means being the best father, friend, brother, son, coworker, whatever. Always strive to be an example for your kids. They will figure out what’s what and who’s who. Please don’t resent her, it will only hurt you. Resentment festers like a cancer. It will kill you in the long run and steal you of joy. She’s frolicking… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/25 12:52 PM |
| 8 | She keeps surprising meAre you still ruminating about the kind of person she is? Saying shit like I don’t know her anymore? You guys are fucking divorced stop doing this to yourself. She’s just some chick, albeit the mother of your kids. Let her live the way she wants to live it’s none of your business. However I will say one thing, a 7 -year-old shouldn’t be alone. And a 15-year-old sibling is no substitute for a parent. This is not about an appropriate babysitter it’s about spending time with a parent! What’s the po… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/25 02:51 AM |
| 6 | Life is cruelYou deserve way better. Someone who loves you and is loyal not confused all the fucking time kick her to the curb in your mind move on and start healing. Forgive her internally for yourself. it’s time for your next chapter buddy boy | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/25 01:48 PM |
| 5 | Getting it off my chestWow. This is really tough man. I know you may not believe this now but everything is working out for your highest good. Out of this miserable experience only good will come. You are safe. Loneliness sucks, rejection sucks, I’ve had way more than my share. But I’ve had moments when I was alone where I had such love for myself, it brought me to tears. You are your own caretaker. Just keep focusing on taking care of yourself. Forgive everyone. Be at peace with your loss. It was in God‘s hands. God … | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/25 02:20 AM |
| 8 | Wife filed for divorceTake responsibility for your own life right fucking now. Do you think she’s getting back with you or something? She’s not. And for God sake get a lawyer so you get a fair deal out of this. You need specific visitation rights with the kid. You managed to get her you’ll get another girl don’t worry about it . And this is not unique it’s the oldest story in the book. Childhood sweethearts grow out of each other more often than not. Focus on improving your career improving yourself and focus on your… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 09:39 PM |
| 10 | My wife wants out and I'm terrified.Plus she has 2 or 3 fat cows in her ear telling her to leave you. And they are definitely single or divorced. Misery absolutely loves company | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/25 04:03 AM |
| 1 | I'm out and about, expanding my sphere of influence, and the ladies I've been meeting... tattoos everywhere, filler, botox, injections, face lifts, augmentations, overweight, etc. What's happened to America? Where can you meet unmodified ladies these days?Oh hell yeah that whole area. Montenegro Croatia Macedonia Bulgaria. Gorgeous | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/25 03:20 AM |
| 5 | What to do nextThe kids need their father buddy boy. You have to stick around so they could see you A LOT. You don’t have to deal with her, just coparent. You are so blessed to have two little humans who love you. I don’t recommend you move 2.5 hours away from them. I’m sure she would fucking love that. Just stick around and coparent. You love your kids and they love you and they need you, and you know what? You need them. Get yourself a nice place with two bedrooms for them if possible, if not just get a two … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/25 03:14 AM |
| 3 | I'm out and about, expanding my sphere of influence, and the ladies I've been meeting... tattoos everywhere, filler, botox, injections, face lifts, augmentations, overweight, etc. What's happened to America? Where can you meet unmodified ladies these days?Europe | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/25 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Wife’s New Perspective differs from RealityNo judgment | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/25 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Wife’s New Perspective differs from RealityShe will have regrets. But she will never ever tell you about it. Take care of yourself. Your happiness and the well-being of the kids is all that matters now. You can’t make a leopard change it’s spots so just focus on you | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/25 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Wife’s New Perspective differs from RealityBing Bong. Nailed it. I’m out of the house for 3 months so far and we banged today! and we are at the beach right now with the kids as I type this! Nothing makes sense but hey. Wtf are you gonna do. I’m just trying my best to take care of myself and when I really feel like its necessary I will set any needed boundaries. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/25 07:58 PM |
| 33 | Wife’s New Perspective differs from RealityIf I had to guess, someone is in her ear telling her to leave you. Maybe two or three people. I’ll give her some credit I’m not saying she’s incapable of her own original thought. But she’s probably been complaining about stuff for a while and now 2 or 3 unhappy fat cows who don’t have their own men, are advising her to leave you. (in between their bites of Pepperidge Farm) And they’re making it sound so good, good enough for her to take action instead of working on the marriage. But that’s just… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/25 12:20 PM |
| 4 | Struggling Again GuysI’m going through similar shit. I’m on an air mattress in a buddy’s spare room. She wants to stay married but live separately. We even go on dates and we banged a couple of times. It’s crazy. And she is definitely happier without me there . She said so many times. I’m gonna have to call bullshit at some point. Is yours late 40’s?? I think perimenopause plays a role to some degree | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/25 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Erased from life!Fucking brutal | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 08:33 PM |
| 6 | My marriage is overMake sure you get joint custody because if she gets primary custody, that guy is going to be raising your kid. (until he dumps her which is inevitable) then your kid will have double confusing trauma. JOINT CUSTODY | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 12:51 PM |
| 9 | I don't know how to get out.Just file for divorce. It’s very likely that you’ll be entitled to some alimony award for a set amount of time but this depends on your state | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/25 01:04 PM |
| 1 | She wants me, she wants me not, she wants me and everything else.DUMP HER! She can’t take your kid to another state that’s kidnapping. Just go through the legal system and get primary or joint custody | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/25 02:23 PM |
| -1 | Stock market Loss, she filed for DivorceShe does not sound like a keeper. And she definitely doesn’t deserve half of that money! But I don’t see how you can get around it. Even if you give her a proposal throwing her a small bone and file uncontested, don’t you both have to do a financial disclosure? She’s a shitty person | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/25 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Married 10 yearsOk | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Married 10 yearsThank you! We just watched TV together with the kids and when the kids went up to bed she lingered around and said are you OK? You’re going to sleep in the spare room right? And I said yes as soon as I’m done with this divorce proposal. Which I will email to you. She doesn’t have the upper hand, for the last 3 years my income went down while hers went up! She would have to pay me 3500 a month for 1.5 to 3 years! But in the proposal I’m going to tell her I’m skipping that even though I am entitle… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/25 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Married 10 yearsOk I’m back. We went to therapy. I was saying all the right things until the subject of me staying out of the house came up, I said for legal reasons I can’t do that anymore and things devolved. If you come back I’m leaving, etc etc And she was saying you don’t get it, you have to work on yourself and then you have a shot at this marriage. If you move back in we are getting a divorce. And I said so be it. So I’m on the couch right now and I told her I’m going to sleep in the spare room | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/25 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Married 10 yearsBipolar 2 in remission | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/25 01:49 AM |
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