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| 10 | [deleted by user]Yep yep yep. Been through this shit a few times and played both roles. CHILL. | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 10:30 PM |
| 15 | Too many girls = having trouble picking oneThis is where I was last spring/summer. Fiance and I broke up in '17 and I dropped about 60lbs from depression. Then I finally got in pretty good shape again. I make a decent living so going out was never really an issue and unlimited chances to practice game and talking to women. And the Bumble/Tinder game really turned up. Constant opportunity for the first time ever. Ended up meeting a girl in December from Tinder that I just couldn't get out of my head. Luckily she couldn't either and asked … | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 02:36 AM |
| 19 | Finally got a kiss after 7 yearsIf she does then she does. That doesn't mean she won't choose you anyways. And if she doesn't then so be it. You had your moment with her, it'll happen again with someone else too. | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 10:28 PM |
| 18 | Finally got a kiss after 7 yearsYep. Put yourself in her shoes. If you're feeling like you wanna hold off but your date keeps wanting to kiss and maybe go further, you're going to start to back away. Take it SLOW. | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Went over to a girls dorm, watched Netflix no hookupYeah don't listen to the 2nd commenter. If she stopped you, she stopped you. Make plans again, but don't push for it. Put your arm on her leg, run your fingers on her neck...give her goosebumps and you'll be in. If you wanna go for the boyfriend thing too, then get up to get drinks or something and give her a quick, little steamy kiss behind her ear and ask if she wants anything. | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 05:53 AM |
| 8 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Wait until the gym starts to show externally before you get too down. I've been going everyday for about 4ish months and over the last 4-6 weeks I've really started seeing a difference in my arms, chest, etc. Even people at work are seeing it. I've changed my profile pictures to ones with me in a tank top or doing stuff where you see my improved physique and I'm matching with a lot more girls online and they're turning into dates. As allll of it happens, you also gain confidence. Confidence is a… | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Your “vibe” is a reflection of your inner state-of-mind. Don’t skip the inner-game, it’s just as important as outer-game (if not more)Troof | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Is this a weird first date?Nahh this is the coolest date. One of my first with my ex was helping me get my old basement set up. Hung the big tv, some shelving, knick knacks in their places, etc. Then we went and got dinner and brought it back and watched a movie in the completed media room. It was actually pretty great lol. | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 06:48 PM |
| 1 | The REAL way to deal with Shit Tests from women, from an actual womanDamn haha. | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 03:45 AM |
| 3 | The REAL way to deal with Shit Tests from women, from an actual womanWhat was your shit test? | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 03:16 AM |
| 10 | A girl grabbed my phone and put her number in it.Rule 2. Don't forget rule 1. | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 12:56 PM |
| – | A girl grabbed my phone and put her number in it.Rule 1. Be attractive | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 12:47 PM |
| 2 | How to react when you kiss a chick and she bites down reaaallly hard on your lip like she's trying to hurt you. It feels like she's trying to make you angry and piss you off.Clamming down is the best. | /r/seduction | 15/02/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | I'm improving!!Kids these days... | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 04:16 AM |
| 14 | I'm improving!!Ehh it can be kinda corny to just say "Soo what's your snap?". It just screams phone obsessed. At least to me and other professionals my age 25-30. I mean, we end up adding each other on Snap soon after, but to start with that is kinda weird. If it feels like a flirty, giggly vibe just take your phone out and open the contacts app to the "new contact" screen. "Hey, I've gotta get going in a sec but I'd love to grab your number." Done. | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Girls get bored when sexual tension is missingTrust me I know exactly what you mean and I didn't take it as one and done. It's gotten kinda close a time or two. I'm sure it'll get there. But we really have a good time together. Like a lot of the same things and she's just constantly goofy, smiling, and positive. Definitely a good influence on me. But you're right in that I've caught myself going back to being the "nice guy" a time or two and I quickly revert to more of an "alpha" mindset and regain control. She dances and even invited me to… | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Girls get bored when sexual tension is missingI'm legit not even trying to "close" in the sense of just trying to get some. She seems like she really might be a keeper so I'm just letting it take it's course and it'll happen when I happens. I mean, we even already have vday plans lol. Edit: but thank you for the kind words!! | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Girls get bored when sexual tension is missinghttps://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ahjpil/a_great_night/?utm_source=reddit-android | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Girls get bored when sexual tension is missingOh terrible. But I used some of what he said and plenty more that I've gained elsewhere and last night was my 6th date with a fantastic woman. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: online dating is deadUmmm not sure where this is coming from but.....no. | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 07:50 AM |
| 8 | Unpopular opinion: online dating is deadTry Speed Dating! I went out on a limb and googled it one day and found a place that does. I've done it twice now and both times have met, and vibed well great women. Still hanging out with the one from the 2nd time too | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 01:22 AM |
| 4 | How to game on snapchat?Yuppp. | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | A great night!Awh well damn. Every rejection is a lesson learned, bud. | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | A great night!Well I'm sorry to hear that. | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Keeping a conversation going with a shy girl without it feeling like interviewing her.Could be two things: She was just drunk and didn't realize she was being so closed off. She was just drunk and didn't care about talking. She may have just wanted the D. As for the friend, the bickering, and her leaving? No clue lol. Good thing you got away though because that could've just been a mess you don't want to be involved in. Edit: or maybe the friend liked you and she was being shitty and jealous lol. It could be anything. | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 06:56 PM |
| 3 | A great night!Haha. Supposed to get a big snow storm again tonight, we'll see. But we have plans to hang at her place and just Netflix and chill all day and stay inside, away from the iced over roads. So we'll see how it goes. | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 01:24 AM |
| 2 | A great night!Oh. Well cool! Lol | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 07:44 PM |
| 1 | A great night!Ehhh do think wording definitely helped break the ice that I wanted a kiss though.. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 07:04 PM |
| 1 | A great night!Makeout may have been a strong term. We playfully kissed for a minute or two. Edited in the story. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 05:54 PM |
| 2 | A great night!I knew it seemed like iffy, I just didn't expect my story to get nearly as much attention. Thanks for pointing it out and thanks for the good wishes. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 05:30 PM |
| 4 | A great night!I feel like I would be the primary source to know whether or not that's what I was going for. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 04:32 PM |
| 3 | A great night!No the implication was her place not mine. Like I already said, mine was a mess and so she wouldn't have to drive in the snow the next morning if it did lead to sex and staying over. I'm not sure what you're gaining here by talking shit here. Like just why? Go away. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 04:27 PM |
| 5 | A great night!Obviously taken out of context based on my last reply to you. I said I wasn't trying to get her into bed right away. Who gives a shit if we end up back watching tv or something. I said her place, mine, because mine was a mess. And I'm not saying I would've said no to sleeping with her if it went well, but that's wasn't my ultimate goal of the night. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 04:21 PM |
| 4 | A great night!I don't want to "control the environment" though lol. I'm not trying to seduce her just to get her into bed right away. But yeah this week was an abnormally busy week and I just didn't fucking feel like cleaning it haha. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 04:15 PM |
| 5 | A great night!We were goofing off making fun of each other for sucking so I just grabbed the ball and said something like "okay, let's make this interesting. If I get a strike here, I get a smooch right here" and pointed to my cheek. She just laughed and I wasn't sure how she took it because I said it as I turned around. Then when I came back she said "you should've made that bet earlier and you'd have gotten it already!" A little later I got a dumb spare and as I bent over to move a ball she said "well that'… | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 04:13 PM |
| 9 | A great night!Well I walked to around the table and when I saw the cuter one on the other side, I just blatantly walked back around and asked to sit down as I pulled the chair out. It was funny because they were all kind of surprised but I was just like "fuck it" I'll never see these women again anyways lol. I asked the cuter one her name and shook her hand and then went around the table doing it for the other two. I cracked a joke or two and then they just continued with their conversation and allowed me to … | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 04:09 PM |
| 5 | A great night!Haha thanks! Question: Would most guys not consider this? I mean, she's gotta get home eventually lol. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 03:03 PM |
| 8 | A great night!https://youtu.be/Ku_3qFPU2ds https://youtu.be/DD0QHOYkeak https://youtu.be/nw66ddhAUhg https://youtu.be/Ty2XWLmCIOc I didn't finish all of them if they started to get too chatty, but I just started trying to even watch videos about this over the last few days and just some small things they said are what stuck with me. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 02:14 PM |
| 13 | A great night!Two reasons: My place is kind of a mess because this work week has been nuts. I'm in the Midwest and we were supposed to get a snowmageddon last night and I didn't want her to drive the 30 minutes home in the snow. Didn't even start snowing yet lol. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 02:12 PM |
| 20 | A great night!Honestly, I really just learned to not go into it hoping for date #2 or hoping a kiss would happen, or hoping anything. I just went into it with a totally open mind. The restaurant she picked helped because I was trying different beers and we were sharing her flight of wine within like 30 seconds of it being on the table so it automatically kinda got us past the strictly platonic thing. Edit: I also learned from those videos I posted in another response to stop being so smiley and accepting of e… | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 02:10 PM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipI guess so but only if she seems interested. If she just says "no I'm busy" or is really short, I'd just pack up and move on. | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 02:42 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipOhhh gotcha. Well think up an excuse to be near her instead and just say "hey I'm gonna be in [insert city name] on Thursday, wanna grab a drink?" Or something like that. | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 02:39 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipDefinitely don't call her lol. And no, a don't close to home I'd an excuse to get together before we get back to it back at your place. You know her better than me but for her and where I'm from, a drink is easily just a get together. It sounds silly but "a few drinks" may sound like a night out but just "a drink" can be quick before heading back to your place which is close. | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 01:54 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipI'd just hit her up with a "Hey how was NYE?" And see how she responds. If she's super detailed and making conversation, then I'd ask if she wants to get together for a bite or something. If she's conversational but short, I'd just ask if she'd want to hang and grab a drink at a bar "not far from my place" to push the idea that that's where you want to go. | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 01:27 AM |
| 1 | She replied "I can't hang out tonight, maybe end of week."Yep | /r/seduction | 03/01/19 03:33 AM |
| 5 | Hey Chad, all Alpha Males, calling all men with big swinging dicks: stop being assholes in this forumI've never seen behavior like that in the sub. But it it's happening then yeah it should stop. | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Is this a good idea?Yeah I was shaky until you said you've both said you like each other. Just be ready to arrive at the club and find her dancing with other guys. Don't let that deter you though she's just at the club having fun. | /r/seduction | 31/12/18 04:55 PM |
| 2 | I want to stop masturbating for my new year's resolution. How can I effectively execute and enfore my resolution?I mean, if you find yourself laying in bed with that random urge, it probably isn't bad to indulge. But if you're just finding yourself bored and doing it too often then maybe that's where you should start cutting back. In terms of the virgin stuff, if you're just trying to finally do it, just dress in some decent clothes and make a habit of going to clubs. If you're shy, just keep doing it and you'll eventually get the balls to go out of your comfort zone and dance with some girls. At clubs, th… | /r/seduction | 31/12/18 04:40 PM |
| 55 | [F28] SHY GUYS: How do I tell a potential (but extremely shy) guy that I'm in an open marriage and want to play, without scaring him away?Yeah you can. Just be straight up. | /r/seduction | 23/12/18 04:32 AM |
| 2 | What does she expect from me?Yeah, have some fun with her until she leaves. | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 07:40 PM |
| 32 | Response to the post by u/elsipha and his strategies😅😂 | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 05:39 PM |
| 3 | I went solo at a bar and it went surprisingly wellThat's great dude. Good for you. | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 01:55 AM |
| 5 | Girl always texts me and flirts with me over instagram but not as much irl.Ask her out. Break the in-person tension. | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Saw my gym crush on Bumble, do I mention it during my approach?Goad it worked out. | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 09:10 PM |
| 2 | [ADVICE] As long as you approach her, it's a successI say this all the time 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 05:03 PM |
| 2 | [ADVICE] As long as you approach her, it's a successI'm glad different people post this kind of shit everyday. Always gets me back on the horse haha. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Got flaked on a date that was supposed to happen today.Lol | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Got flaked on a date that was supposed to happen today.Yeah the best advice is to turn into a fuck boy that juggles multiple women in an evening? No. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Seduction is making me depressed.It seems true though. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 11:46 PM |
| 16 | [deleted by user]Sounds like she's the one who should be thanking this sub. Lol. | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 01:50 AM |
| 1 | I finally did it...It's not ALL about sex..... | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 03:54 PM |
| 1 | I finally did it...Woo!! | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 03:54 PM |
| 2 | My first REAL approach today, it could have gone a lot better but I’m just glad I did something.Gets easier every time! Good for you for having the confidence! | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 11:01 PM |
| 0 | You're not getting any younger.Jesus Christ, you take things way too literally lol. SMH. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 05:54 PM |
| 0 | You're not getting any younger.I didn't say you wouldn't get rejected. It seems like you're not really understanding my intent here, either that or you just like trying to say people are wrong I'm not saying it's a math problem and eventually you'll get the perfect formula for 100% success, but if you walk up to a girl trying to be a sly player every single time and never altering based on their reactions, it ain't gonna happen. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 05:27 PM |
| 2 | You're not getting any younger.So you're saying you get rejected and just go do the same thing again? Ehh. Sure there will be some success just due to sheer odds, but you get better at things in life by learning as you go. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:39 PM |
| 2 | You're not getting any younger.Just talk to her like a human, now a Target or something to win. Like the old lady at the grocery store. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 01:15 PM |
| 4 | You're not getting any younger.It's fun to laugh at the bad ones. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Saw my gym crush on Bumble, do I mention it during my approach?Sure, if you can work your way into using the same or nearby equipment without seeming too forward, that may work, but unless they're showing some good signs, just be super careful. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:45 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipSeriously, I still struggle with the things I'm suggesting to you. Or at least VERY recently began doing this stuff lol. But yeah, in my opinion it was all a bit wordy but she reciprocated it just fine. She knows you more than just those texts. Just hit her up after the holidays. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:37 AM |
| 1 | I finally did my first cold approach!Go you man, I probably would've finally bailed at I like me too but that was a good read and honestly you should just laugh and prepare for the next one. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:34 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipShit that ain't bad man. She's responding with lengthy texts, not being short and cutting you off or giving a dumb excuse. If you can manage, I'd wait a couple weeks into the new year and just say "Hey we should grab dinner on 'insert day here'. Make sure it's either tonight (if you're just suggesting drinks) or a few days away (if you're suggesting a dinner). If she can't on that day, go further. You're initiating so it's clear that you want to, but don't beg for it. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:24 AM |
| 1 | I quit tinder and I feel happierThat's not only subjective but I'm sure varies greatly based on where you are and how old you are. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:14 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipYeah it sucks. Just don't get hung up on things you can't control. The anxiety is quite literally worthless. Take a deep breath and just say "fuck it, at this point nothing I do will matter anyways so peace" | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:13 AM |
| 9 | Guy either doesn't know how to talk to girls or only wants hookup when he's drunkLook, I swear to God I mean this in the nicest way possible, but this is exactly why so many guys are here. From his perspective: "I met this girl and she actually talked to me for a bit the first night." "I hung out with that chick all night at the party, she seemed to be really into me, but I wasn't 100% so I didn't make a move. "I don't want to seem clingy and text her right away so I'm gonna wait a few days and text her again. " Has a shitty week, realizes he forgot to text you, and texts yo… | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:08 AM |
| 2 | rejected and proudThat's what I tell myself too. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:00 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipPut yourself in her shoes dude, she may be getting over someone that meant everything to her for YEARS. Think about what she's truly going through right now and you'll understand. I say this because I got out of a VERY ling relationship earlier this year and I'm even still unsure if I'm all there for another one. I'm not expert at all here so wait for more advice, but I'd say to hold off on texting again for a bit. Give it a couple weeks and got her up then. If she's looking for more of a FWB ki… | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Amazing Date... Then she rejects me??It sucks but is so true. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 03:47 AM |
| 4 | Saw my gym crush on Bumble, do I mention it during my approach?Do. Not. Approach. Her. At. The. Gym. In the current climate girls feel anxious as it is, the last thing you want to do is make her uncomfortable in the one place she feels comfortable going and getting sweaty and gross to better herself. Maybe you can try to time up leaving at the same time, but don't let her catch you checking her out while you were lifting them because then shell automatically know you did it on purpose. Again, this could make her feel uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 03:45 AM |
| 3 | I quit tinder and I feel happierThen go back to tinder with your new game skills haha. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 03:42 AM |
| 9 | You're not getting any younger.This is where I got stuck a few months ago and I've finally broken free of it. I would feel like...if I'm not gonna ask you out for your number, what's the point in even talking? My time is precious here and don't want to waste it. Luckily I got past that. When you go into a conversation with literally zero intention of getting a number and are completely comfortable saying bye at any time, it's like a whole new level of confidence so you're not worried about steering the conversation or doing a… | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 03:38 AM |
| 16 | You're not getting any younger.Yep. It sucks to get rejected but you learn a little more about what not to do every time you realize she's lost interest. You'll replay it in your head and begin realize where it went wrong. Try and try again. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 03:33 AM |
| 37 | You're not getting any younger.Yeah this is important. Otherwise you'll just attach to a girl from the get go and become clingy and drag her down with you. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 03:32 AM |
| 2 | You're not getting any younger.Shorten it and I'll put it in a frame in some fancy font in my basement. Lol. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Did my neighbor try to hook up with me?Wish my neighbor would do this lol. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Catching feelings for FWBGo out with the new girl and try to get your mind off her. Maybe it'll help you "forget" those feelings....at least enough that you can continue to have fun for a while. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 02:47 AM |
| 9 | Approaching at least one girl every day until I get rejected / number close / insta date Day 1Upvote | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Need help - how to not turn a date into an interviewYep. Like I said, I personally like the silence and don't feel awkward at all, but when I see her starting to get fidgety is where I feel like I have to come up with something. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:03 PM |
| 1 | I got a girls number from approaching for the first timeThat could definitely be a good one. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 02:23 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]We all do lol. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 01:29 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I get where you're coming from, but the whole 48 hour rule is bullshit. If you liked her text her. But don't blow her up and don't be too wordy. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 01:21 AM |
| 2 | How to restart with a girlInterested in the advice you receive. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 01:19 AM |
| 1 | I got a girls number from approaching for the first time3 things: The girl in that store can speak freely lol. She just wasn't into it. What the hell is this pickup line? Good for you bro. Keep getting out there! | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 01:11 AM |
| 2 | About last nightHoly shit man. No, don't feel bad. Actually just last night I had a blast dancing with a girl at a club. We had some drinks spent probably 45 minutes together. We part ways a little later and I see her dancing with someone, so when she was done I went up to her to bring her near me and she literally waved me off. Like "shew fly, don't bother me", waved her hand at me to leave lol. Like, "bitch, I just paid for a couple if your drinks an hour ago. Fuck you" lol. I said fuck it and went and found … | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Number closing techniquesEh I'm sure it would work some of the time, but she didn't agree to give her number to you this way. Make sure if you do this the setting is right and you KNOW she'd be cool with it. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Number closing techniquesThat last big paragraph is really good advice. Keeping in touch via text while you're actually there would definitely make texting after you leave a lot less of a chore for both parties. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Number closing techniquesOne of two ways and has worked every time since I've been single. I didnt says they always text back but I've at least gotten every number and I'm NOT good at this whole pickup game. lol. "Hey I've gotta step outside for a call, give me your number real quick and I'll text you to find you." "Hey come here real quick, and I literally just hand her my phone with the 'New Contact' screen already up. " I've only used the first one once, but the second one every other time. Just did it last night act… | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Need help - how to not turn a date into an interviewYou can have my upvote bro. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Need help - how to not turn a date into an interviewYeah, I really don't mind silence. I actually like just kinda sitting together and just existing. But the girl always starts to get fidgety so I just come up with something and end up asking more questions. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Social life: The friends I make are boring goody two shoes. How do I make more "fun" friends now that I am out of college?Holy shit, even my church friends use dating apps. Umm yeah just start going to bars and talking to dudes instead of chicks and make some friends. It seems kind of weird at first but is actually a super fucking easy way. But also if you have extra cash, looking at your town calendar and seeing cool things you like (hobbies) and actually going out and doing stuff will definitely help. Plus, you'll probably meet chicks lol. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | one of the worst dates I've hadYeah wow, I just assume everyone is my age (26). Yeah a fucking 39 year old acting like a spoiled bitch is not okay. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:38 AM |
| 2 | one of the worst dates I've hadYep. Thank you for saying this or I would have | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:36 AM |
| 3 | one of the worst dates I've hadI think this is what I would do. I ALWAYS give people the benefit of the doubt fir way too long though lolm | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:35 AM |
| 1 | one of the worst dates I've hadI mean, obviously lol. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:34 AM |
| 2 | one of the worst dates I've hadThis is a badass, yet really proper way of handling this. Shows her you don't give a fuck and aren't going to put up with it. Hell she may text you later and apologize and ask you out again and end up being a totally different person. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:34 AM |
| 1 | one of the worst dates I've hadIt just doesn't make sense to me how people can act that way. I personally haven't ever actually been on a truly "bad" date. It's hard for me to imagine someone just being a persistent bitch for no reason lol. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Had my best club night yesterdayI would love this. I don't need to go shopping at the best stores in NYC, just take me shopping at the mall or local outlet and tell me those shirts or jeans are a bad idea and tell me what to buy instead. I've made pretty good friends with a girl who is kinda into fashion and photography. I've been thinking about asking her to go to the local Tanger Outlet with me and give her a $300-$400 budget and tell me what to buy and try on. I'm just still working on being that close of friends with her t… | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Had my best club night yesterday"let me put making out and fucking on the list for next time" 😂 | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Had my best club night yesterdayI don't know man, looking better than average REALLY helps lol. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Had my best club night yesterdayHell yeah dude, go you! Confidence is such a huge factor. It's almost like once you learn to just be confident, everything else kinda works out. Even if you get rejected, since you learned to be confident, you don't even get down about it. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:24 AM |
| 1 | little free-bee from Mark Manson’s “the subtle art of not giving a fuck”Ooohhh. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:19 AM |
| 2 | little free-bee from Mark Manson’s “the subtle art of not giving a fuck”What's it called. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 12:15 AM |
| 5 | Is anyone else experiencing less interest in seduction over time?Exactly. It's time for the OP to stop practicing when he goes out and treating it like the typical seduce/pull like he has been. It's time to approach the girl that 'dont need no man' and win her heart. But ultimately, I get where the OP is coming from. I haven't even been doing this very long (4-5 months at most) and I'm already just kinda ready to find someone that wants to stick around. Dating blows. I want someone I can come home to that will cheer me on and vice versa. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 09:14 PM |
| -1 | At the bar right nowNever mind. She's got a BIG 'ol ring on. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 08:32 PM |
| 2 | FWB helpI'd say he's just comfortable talking about her. Bring yours up randomly and gauge his response. An awesome FWB situation is when you're actually friends and can talk about exes and pasts without any judgement or negativity. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 07:01 PM |
| 6 | A total fuckin HagTouche | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Coming from r/foreveralone.. Somewhat intimidated by this subreddit.. Where can I begin?I haven't been here long, but based on what I've seen so far, yes they would be. Some might say "don't be a pussy", but they're just saying what I'm saying in a lot less words at the end of the day. Lol. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 06:34 PM |
| 8 | Coming from r/foreveralone.. Somewhat intimidated by this subreddit.. Where can I begin?You'll take the first one personally and it'll suck. You'll feel like you weren't good enough. You'll take the second one personally and you'll feel frustrated. The third one, you'll probably at least get a first date but then get ghosted lol. You're right. The ones that win the most, also lose the most. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 06:13 PM |
| 14 | Coming from r/foreveralone.. Somewhat intimidated by this subreddit.. Where can I begin?You'll probably be rejected the first time. You'll probably be rejected the second time. But eventually you'll get a yes, and it'll all be worth it. Plus, it's fun meeting people and learning about yourself on the journey. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 05:48 PM |
| 9 | Coming from r/foreveralone.. Somewhat intimidated by this subreddit.. Where can I begin?This is a fantastic summarization. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 05:47 PM |
| 17 | A total fuckin HagDamn. That's ballsy. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 05:34 PM |
| 6 | A total fuckin HagShe very well may just want to fuck. Lol. Put your effort into the date like any other, make sure she isn't damaged and vulnerable in some way, and then have at it. Have fun. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 05:33 PM |
| 25 | Girls get bored when sexual tension is missingDamn, thanks man. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 04:18 AM |
| 12 | Girls get bored when sexual tension is missingThat's where my head was too. I haven't been single for long and was in a very long term relationship so my first thought was afraid of coming on way too strong and scaring a woman. But looking back, there definitely were opportunities that I could've made an effort. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 04:10 AM |
| 5 | Girls get bored when sexual tension is missingI think I was trying to hard to not come like douche and just came off like a major softy with no appeal. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 03:19 AM |
| 5 | Girls get bored when sexual tension is missingYeah she was pretty great in more than one way, didn't even notice how good looking she was after a while because conversation was just flowing so well. I'm gonna reach back out to her again but I'll give it another day and just be more direct. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Girls get bored when sexual tension is missingI sent you a link to screenshots | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Girls get bored when sexual tension is missingI messaged you | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Girls get bored when sexual tension is missingPM me real quick | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 01:51 AM |
| 67 | Girls get bored when sexual tension is missingYep, I completely fucked myself. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 01:44 AM |
| 7 | Thank you r/seduction.Yeah just found this community this last week but I've already taken some initiative based on what I've seen and it's working so far. Lol. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 01:01 AM |
| 252 | Girls get bored when sexual tension is missingYeah I went on a couple dates with this chick that was a straight 10/10 and the day before we were supposed to go out again she cancelled saying she had a blast but doesn't feel the sexual attraction. It hit me that we laughed and did a lot of smiling, but I talked to her like she was my cousin the whole time instead of getting up close and being sure to touch and show that affection. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 12:58 AM |
| 17 | How do u react to : "I miss you""I've been thinking about you too, let's get together" | /r/seduction | 23/11/18 07:41 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Tinder pull, something that I noticed myself doing this time that was helpfulFuuuuuck lol | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 07:27 PM |
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