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[–]BuyerOfCoins 98 points99 points100 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Do whatever you want. Seems you are keeping up a fake persona for this girl if you miss her too but don't tell her. Look dude in reality, the fact that you're scared of telling her you miss her is beta. Being alpha is doing what YOU want, if you miss her tell her. If she leaves you for that or thinks less of you, good riddance.
[–]Griz-Lee 15 points16 points17 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This
[–]morejuicethanzues 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah this is it
[–]catgotyourtongue_jpg 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What’s with you men so afraid to say how you really feel?
[+]zjamesc -11 points-10 points-9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have to play into female psychology lol it’s not being beta by planning it out, it’s just being smart.
I can’t disagree with that comment enough. An alpha doesn’t just do whatever he’s feeling.
I usually say something like “oh yeah, what do you miss?” Then if she ever asks if you miss her just be like you know the answer
[–]jonzey231 16 points17 points18 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I've been thinking about you too, let's get together"
[–]DarkskinJesus 11 points12 points13 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Something along the lines of we should do something about that
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Man everything in life is contextual, we don’t know the details of your relationship. Some girls I would say “It was forever or never” for the emotional push, some I would say “I kind of miss me too” to joke around, some I would say “Got some big news” then change the subject just to draw her in, some I would just say “So chill w me.” There’s literally nothing anyone can tell you without knowing where she’s coming from when she texted you that.
[–]justanobserver26 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
takes notes
[–]TooMuchEverything23 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OK listen up here buddy, either you tell her you miss her too or she's going to not feel wanted anymore and even if she sticks around for a while, she'll leave you eventually
[–]Moderatorrecyclablebanthas 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What Buyer of Coins said, with one addition.
There's nothing wrong with missing her, in general or saying that's the case, if it's true.
But if you NEED her too much, that could mean you are going to smother her. Figuring out where this line is though, is sometimes not easy.
But in general, you should have your own life, independent of her, that she supplements. She shouldn't be your whole world.
[–]a4thpipeforsherlock 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Um, do you want to get together again or not? You're overthinking this. Whether you come off as alpha/beta doesn't matter. If you're not interested, move on. If you're interested, say, "Miss you too. Let's hang." Simple Simon.
[–]discutingfatbody 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“prove it”
[–]The_411 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good to meet you, Miss You
[–]LionVenom10 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
“Begone thot.” The state that you’re just kidding and that you miss her too.
[–]_BatsShadow_ 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Damn no wonder you have to come to this sub
[–]LionVenom10 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t have to come anywhere.
[–]ghostiewm -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If "beta" to you means not mannish, then something along the lines of "and I crave your presence, darling, and I'm outside your door ready to do something about that" is the alpha thing to do. Because alpha's do.
[–]entropynewton -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Leave her on, "message read."
[–]ancoree2 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I find that rly hurtful
[–]LingeringGnome -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I'd miss me too."
[–]NakedCarp -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Snap a silly selfie and send it. Say “Here ya go, does that help?” Make it silly but as if you’re the biggest prize there is.
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