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Hey man, it's been 5 moths since I wrote this post. I want to be as honest as possible with you... Going out to pick up girls just for the sole-purpose of picking up girls will fuck you up, especially if you have major anxiety. Focus on just socializing with people during the course of the day. Sure study some pickup material, but never use it religiously. Understand this too. An opener will only get you 10% of the way there, there is not point in stressing out if it's good or not. Just say hi, …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 03:30 PM
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I go in indirect, ask for directions, and then do like a lowkey transition where I say "so you're from here (or not from here)", try to talk about her for a few minutes and then say I have to go and tell her "you're pretty cool, we should hangout sometime, what's your number?" and then dip. This works, I just need to men; I'm too afraid of rejections. The reason why I'm doing direct game is so I can be honest about my intention, which is "You're attractive, I want you".
/r/seduction09/06/16 11:45 PM
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yeah i tried doing it like this before, it definitely works, but girls kinda give you weird reactions when you try to number close them. too much pressure is def the problem, need to loosen up and make it more about the girl, not myself
/r/seduction09/06/16 02:04 AM
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lol this is so simple but true
/r/seduction09/06/16 02:02 AM
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I think the weirdness comes from the shame, because it feels like I'm the only one whose doing this. Incorporating daygame in regular daily activities is a good way to not feel the shame, but it's also much slower. I think you just have to accept the fact that if you're going out to daygame don't be half-ass about it, just be honest to yourself. does this make sense?
/r/seduction09/06/16 02:00 AM
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yep yep. doing it alone feels weird because there is no outlet to release that nervous energy.
/r/seduction07/06/16 08:20 PM
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haha
/r/seduction07/06/16 08:04 PM
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yeah involving myself in more activities would definitely help. I think it depends on who you watch, I watch tom torero, and the natural lifestyles, they have pretty good advice on life in general. But I totally understand what you mean, it's just an overload of information.
/r/seduction07/06/16 08:04 PM
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mh. yeah, it's a difficult situation cuz I really want to improve my social skills, but at the same time I really don't have time to go to events and stuff like that, so I do daygame for 2 hours everyday.
/r/seduction07/06/16 07:59 PM
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yep yep. I do take it too seriously, need to loosen up, and just make it more fun.
/r/seduction07/06/16 04:32 AM
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good to have someone who's on the same level as me. I guess we just gotta stay patient and keep pushing.
/r/seduction07/06/16 04:31 AM
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that'll probably make their day.
/r/seduction07/06/16 04:26 AM
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haha I like your name. My artist name is zniwa. I don't think I said that I'll throw in the towel, I just said that I have to pay him the $100. Maybe I fucked up. But yes, I truly believe in your philosophy. My philosophy is exactly the same. I think giving up is just saying I give up on life, and this is who I am and I can't change. People that want to achieve something, are the ones that say "with time and effort I can become the person I want to be". And yes there are hard times when you just…
/r/seduction08/04/16 05:52 PM
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You sir, deserve an Oscar.
/r/seduction10/03/16 04:03 PM
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Goddamn, Jesus!!! Yes! Yes! Yes! This man knows what I'm talking about.
/r/seduction10/03/16 04:01 PM
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yes, fuck self improvement. sit home and jerk off. that's exactly what this article is trying to encourage. thanks for reading bro. (:
/r/seduction10/03/16 02:10 AM
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damn, you're so right. I'm a dumbass.
/r/seduction10/03/16 02:09 AM
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right
/r/seduction10/03/16 02:08 AM
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What?
/r/seduction09/03/16 04:08 PM
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I'm not sure I explained it well enough. But at the beginning I thought this guy was a coach, as he claimed. We met up, he didn't really introduce himself, he just started looking for girls and complaining about girls. This is what made me nervous. And when he approached that receptionist in "night game" mode, I knew that this guy had been consumed by game, and he wasn't aware of the environment or the situation. At this point I was embarrassed because of the way he was acting, all alpha (in a c…
/r/seduction09/03/16 03:50 PM
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Lol, that's cheesy, but true.
/r/seduction09/03/16 03:50 PM
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Yepyep
/r/seduction09/03/16 03:49 PM
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Right. Some people just overdo it. It's good to implement some ideas from "game", but it's also good to have a personality
/r/seduction09/03/16 03:49 PM
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Yeah that's def a turn off
/r/seduction09/03/16 03:47 PM
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Thanks for reading!
/r/seduction09/03/16 02:47 PM
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Yeah, it was spring break. This dude didn't know though because he already graduated. And like I said in the article, he was a "coach" so he claimed. And this article isn't about me getting better at game it's just to show how game can affect your life if taken too seriously.
/r/seduction09/03/16 02:38 PM
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Short, fun read. But not a how to book. I wouldn't recommend it.
/r/seduction08/03/16 11:48 AM
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This is exactly what I did. I'm about 3 months in. I already started talking to girls, had an instant date. But I'm slowly going backwards because I haven't been going out. Really need someone to be my accountability buddy. Shoot me a message if you down.
/r/seduction26/02/16 02:59 AM
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Yeah bruhhh.
/r/seduction22/02/16 04:38 PM
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Yeah man. It's definitely hard, but it's worth it.
/r/seduction21/02/16 06:04 AM
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You can use learnt in the same context. Learned is just more popular. And it sounds way cooler too ;)
/r/seduction21/02/16 06:02 AM
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Yeah man, you just gotta do it. I abandoned most of my friends because I knew I was doing this only for myself, It feels great when your friends think you're cool by having this new skillset, but its not about that it's about if you are happy with what you are.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 01:40 AM
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Dope. I'm not in college because I can't afford it but I've been doing an approach a day almost every single day and it's really starting to lift my mood.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 04:54 PM
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Lol that's a good one. Thanks I'll check him out.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:39 PM
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Yep. that's the way to do it
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:38 PM
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I know, I watched the video.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 03:14 AM
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I watched some of his videos in the past and I agree he is very good. His style is very chilled out, he mostly uses body language, and that's mastery when you can do that. Right now I'm mostly interested in Tom toreros style and Jon matrix (similar to Justin). But it's always good to reference from others.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 03:09 AM
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Haha this made me laugh, in a positive way! You're very right about the subtle touching, and especially with shy girls. Mystery really points this out, it's not good to just hold a girls hand right away you have to build compliance (that's where I fucked up), and you do this by just brushing against her first and baby steps. Also talking is a good way to occupy a women's mind but using body language is the way to get into her pants.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 03:04 AM
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Haha, whenever I don't want to go out I always think of those guys and it becomes a motivator.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:57 AM
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Yeah man, I literally just throw myself into the sets because I know that thinking about approaching won't help, you just need to do it. It's fucking scary, and obviously you'll be horrible at the very beginning but with time and persistence it becomes a fun hobby.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:56 AM
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Yeah, that is the biggest thing that stops people from taking action. You need to discipline e yourself to go out even if there's resistance. Thanks for reading!
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:53 AM
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Hey this is actually good advice. I should have bought that coffee, but the thing that came in the way was my anxiety about not being cool, so I need to become more aware and relaxed during my interactions. But that comes with experience. I'll prob text her something clever soon and if she doesn't respond then I'll drop her.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:51 AM
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Right now I really don't put too much pressure on analyzing my sets, I just try to open, talk and leave (no numbers). But analyzing if def important if you want to learn, but for me I just want to overcome my anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:47 AM
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I tried this today and the girls opened up more. This is a really good tactic for beginners because it takes a lot pressure off of the set, it makes it more direct. And yeah being direct is important, don't hide your dick!
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:44 AM
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Yeah girls don't want the blame, you need to be responsible for what happens. And this why leading is so valuable because it takes the pressure off of her.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:42 AM
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Yeah man, I noticed that she was very open when I did that. And mystery teaches very basic concepts, this is why I love his book.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:39 AM
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Haha yeah it's definitely hard during winter but if I can Daygame during winter I can Daygame during.g any season . Thanks for reading!
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:38 AM
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The reason why I am reading this book is just to gain a broader prospective on game. And mystery basically introduced the concept of game, so its always good to learn old school game. I know that people criticize the mystery method but It's definitely an interesting read.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:36 AM
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For people with no social skills it wouldn't be a good idea. But if you're intermediate then it's good to get that experience.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:33 AM
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I really appreciate your comment. And yeah the best teacher is failure. I definitely will!
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:32 AM
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Altough it is cold ass fuck in Chicago
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:30 AM
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The good thing is that there aren't many people, so if you're a beginner like I am it's less social pressure.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:30 AM
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The girl was definitely attracted to me, she was giving off iois, to be honest I think once you get pass the attraction phase its actually good to pay for the girl. But again you could be right lol.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:29 AM
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Masturbation without porn is OK, it might kill your productivity a bit but it won't harm your brain. Porn in itself will make you feel disgust and will eventually make you depressed. (My experience)
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 01:54 PM
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Yeah thats definitely a good way to overcome excuses
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 10:22 PM
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Lol right. someone fucking read the whole article.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:42 AM
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same reason why I shouldn't have analyzed your comment, it just created judgment and for no-reason but to satisfy the ego.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:40 AM
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Because it's the first approach. and I'm not learning how to seduce, I'm just giving people a guide for overcoming social anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:31 AM
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Haha, yep. You're totally right. I honestly think that the media plays a major role in hindering the growth of an individual's consciousness. But on the other hand, it isn't as bad as it seems because the world couldn't function without worker bees. People that are aware of the truth are able to create anything they desire with ease because there is no competition.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:13 AM
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I am very upset... that you didn't get what you wanted from this article, hopefully, next time... I'll make the title more specific. (:
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:05 AM
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I think you're definitely right, but for people that aren't able to open girls directly yet should just focus on overcoming social anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 01:59 AM
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This article is intended for people who can't even open their first set and I definitely haven't acquired enough knowledge to identify what worked and what didn't in my first set.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 01:54 AM
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I become very anxious when I talk to people or even when I am around people, so for me approaching a cute girl on the street is totally unreal. So basically what I did in that period of two months, was train myself to overcome my anxiety. I went out just to walk around the city or sometimes when I felt brave, ask strangers for directions. I wasn't trying to have conversation, I was just trying to get use to being relaxed around strangers. After about a month of this I started to have short convo…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 01:43 AM
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Yeah that is definitely true, but that's how it's suppose to be. We are raised not to stand out but to follow rules and work for others, and this might seem like a bad thing but it really isn't. The people that are aware of this matrix that we live in are the ones that can escape it and it makes it that much easier because we don't have a lot of competition. If everyone were to be an entrepreneur then society would crumble because there would be no worker bees. Hopefully that doesn't sound too f…
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:40 PM
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it's definitely time! lol
/r/seduction17/01/16 11:37 PM
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Yeah man. Sometimes it's good to have those "failures" because they make you recognize what you're missing.
/r/seduction17/01/16 11:36 PM
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