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| 1 | Would you still go on this date?Cancel it | /r/askFDS | 02/11/21 07:25 PM |
| 79 | Passive men are a huge turn off, and actually dangerous.In my experience it’s an enormous red flag and despite any of his good qualities he will never really be the man you desire to him to be. You are probably never going to feel fully protected with him and there will probably come many times in the future that he will disappoint you in similar ways but on a larger scale. I’m not saying break up with him. If you can look past those feelings of resentment or contempt then that is your personal choice. I would start paying more attention to this kind… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 12:38 AM |
| 4 | My friend has her first date and she's asking me if this is okayTook the words right out of my mouth | /r/askFDS | 24/09/21 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Pickmes are brain dead 😑Yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Why are the comments saying this is cute?!I for real wanna get rid of all social media bc seeing shit like this is so— | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:52 PM |
| 5 | Acceptable Valentines Day Gifts?Following!! I’m stressed about this. If you want to, we can private message and brainstorm together | /r/askFDS | 13/02/21 11:26 PM |
| 31 | Omg this triggered me. This is such a common interaction I have with men...We are so tired.I literally hate this patriarchal society so bad...I want to isolate. FDS should make an island that only allows women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 12:50 AM |
| 39 | Omg this triggered me. This is such a common interaction I have with men...We are so tired.I remember one of the first times I met one of my boyfriends LVM friends, he was ‘joking’ with his girlfriend about how she should be an escort and how he would definitely jump on the opportunity to have sex for money if it was presented to him. When I didn’t laugh or react but instead started at him with a disgusted look and then looked at my boyfriend to make sure he wasn’t laughing, his friend acted like I didn’t have a sense of humor. I felt so shitty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 10:46 PM |
| 39 | Omg this triggered me. This is such a common interaction I have with men...We are so tired.cognitive dissonance >>> | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 09:05 PM |
| 178 | Omg this triggered me. This is such a common interaction I have with men...We are so tired.Then you have the pickmeishas who will either laugh along with these scrotes, or side with them when you get upset. It’s really hard to feel so gaslit by society. I KNOW I’m not wrong to not think misogynistic jokes are funny, yet I somehow end up feeling like the asshole for calling it out. Awful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 07:21 PM |
| 4 | Men feeling entitled to touch you?the other thing is he’s made messed up comments to me...one time I joked with him about how men love spoiling me. He asked if I had an only fans. I was like wtf. I talked to a trusted male colleague who confronted him about that and the he apologized to me later saying he didn’t know what OF was...I don’t know if he is just really socially awkward or plays dumb with me, but that is another big reason in uncomfortable with him touching me | /r/askFDS | 16/01/21 12:22 AM |
| 15 | Men feeling entitled to touch you?Basically I’m asking, is this a me problem? Or is this a them problem? I do not experience this with women. Do you need consent for platonic touch? | /r/askFDS | 15/01/21 09:44 PM |
| 29 | How do you even vet for this?This is the type of shit that makes me want to go my own way lol. Terrifying. I guess one potential way to vet for this is to make sure he is paying for the rental fully and is actively planning things out for the trip. For the second situation, same thing, make sure he’s buying your plane ticket as well as making the majority of the arrangements for hotel, activities, etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 10:35 PM |
| 7 | Proper timeline for an early 20’s monogamous relationship? (~20F, 24M)Yeah I definitely feel like getting married this young is dumb which is why I don’t want to...frontal lobe isn’t even fully developed nor is my life. My biggest struggle is that I do care for this guy and he has consistently made me the priority in his life since we’ve been together. He does a lot for me and while I don’t think he is the only person that would ever care for me like this, I don’t want to end the relationship bc I don’t want to lose what we have..idk | /r/askFDS | 26/12/20 09:31 PM |
| 4 | Proper timeline for an early 20’s monogamous relationship? (~20F, 24M)Yeah I’ve told him about not wanting to move in until engagement and we do talk about marriage with the implication that it will be us. He has said that he wants to marry me and what actually makes me feel more comfy about that is I’ve seen convos with his friends on messenger where they’ve kind of given him shit about that. I openly talk about FDS with him and the standards that come along with it, he doesn’t seem to take issue with any of them. Promise ring would be nice. I kind of thought tha… | /r/askFDS | 26/12/20 09:28 PM |
| 10 | Confronted my (27F) husband (34M) about his porn use today... This is how it went.Umm why is he your husband ? Please literally never talk to him again unless it’s to discuss matters concerning the pending divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Lol I got a message from a desperate LVM!Imagine literally ever sending this to anyone. Mental illness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:39 AM |
| 11 | TLC made a reality show called "I Love a Mama's Boy"Omg not coltee🤣 I hate how everyone hates Larissa lol, Colt and deb were AWFUL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:38 AM |
| 3 | PrettyScale - JustScroteThingzLMFAOOOO WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:37 AM |
| 3 | TW// What are the reasons for why you stayed in an abusive relationship?Literally!!! Idk if you watch his 90 day fiancé reactions but a lot of them absolutely make me cringe. I enjoy watching him a lot as well, and for a while I considered a career as a mental health clinician because of him. I soon realized that would not be my path because there is no ducking way I could be neutral with abusive clients. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 08:05 PM |
| 3 | The forever-gf trapDo you think I should still at least get an engagement ring before moving in? It’s definitely still too early for me to be comfortable living with him so we don’t talk about cohabitation as I’ve told him I’m not comfy. Eventually we probably will want to move in. Within the next few years if we last. I don’t want to live with family forever and don’t have much interest in finding roommates. Let’s say we move in together in 2 years, is it fair for me to expect him to foot all the bills? If we wer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 06:45 PM |
| 29 | TW// What are the reasons for why you stayed in an abusive relationship?A combination of things. In part, it was a sunken cost fallacy sort of thing. I also thought that I felt very connected to him sexually, but in hindsight he was very sexually abusive so I’m not sure what that was. I guess it could’ve been the vulnerability I felt with him given the abuse? Hard to explain that one. There was also the comfort aspect. From the beginning of our year long relationship we would spend a minimum of 3 days a week straight, together. Sometimes more. So it was nice at the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | The forever-gf trapYeah I’m scared I hope that my case can be different. I understand even if we don’t work out the world is my oyster, but i was hoping to keep this one :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:37 AM |
| 3 | The forever-gf trapSo do you think all relationships at this age are bound to fail? That makes me so sad lol:/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:36 AM |
| 31 | The forever-gf trapI’m 19 (soon to be 20), and I have a fear of getting married too young and potentially wasting my youth on someone who ends up being a scrote. At the same time, I refuse to be a forever girlfriend. I have a boyfriend and if all goes well, I would like to get engaged and married. My girlfriend time limit is 3 years max. But fuck it’s hard to imagine myself getting married at 23. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 06:08 PM |
| 11 | What are some high effort dates that your boyfriends are doing during the pandemic?My boyfriend took me 2 hours away to see the lights and go hot tubbing and to eat dinner. No dine in is allowed in my state right now so I got to pick where I wanted take out from. I declined going hot tubbing bc I just felt uncomfy so he took me to get my nails done instead. Then we went and bought some fun snacks and beer at h-mart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 05:57 PM |
| 9 | Relationship level up with attachment theory: how to learn secure attachment style?I don’t know if I’m an anomaly or what, but with friendships and family relationships, I am pretty avoidant. When it comes to romantic relationships, however, I am preoccupied to the extent that it actually can drive me crazy. I sort of mask as an avoidant in these relationships though because my impulse to cling and pursue is not conducive to FDS guidelines. I went to therapy for my attachment style last year actually. I don’t feel as though it helped much, but at least it was eye-opening in te… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:41 PM |
| 5 | Does the number/sex of siblings a man has make a difference?I’d say it’s a very nuanced thing. My older brother is what I would consider to be a HVM in a family context (he took on the role of being a provider for my mom and younger siblings as our step dad was a quintessential scrote with NPD, and let us be homeless many times). He is a very good older brother and has managed to be somewhat successful given the circumstances. Responsible with money, caring, a provider, etc. However, there is a huge amount of codependency between him and my mom due to th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:28 PM |
| 139 | What the heckity heck? Found on Instagram. What is the society making girls think we need to do this for a man?Lmfao do they really think getting jack hammered is a way of showing appreciation? wtf lol. Also I cannot even imagine myself doing that much for a man ever. Like even if he was my husband. what is going on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | He asked for a second chance and is now ignoring me again?Block him and move on. He’s playing games with you, and it’s time to cut your losses. The loser didn’t even pay for your $10-$12 dollar meal. How does this situation benefit you in any way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Just a reminder that some men never changeHoly shit lol. this gave me a good laugh, thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:25 AM |
| 14 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?omg no here’s one. after leading me on for an entire weekend & sleeping with me countless times, he breaks up with me hours after dropping me home. over text. I called him on his BS, especially the sex part, and this motherfucker had the audacity to tell me that he “only had sex with me because he wanted to make me happy” and that he didn’t actually want to do it. this shit is so funny to me looking back, wtf ahahhah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:00 AM |
| 9 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?Lmfao. That’s wild | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:56 PM |
| 14 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?“You only wanted us to take the love language tests so that you could let me know you want gifts” ???Even if that was true what’s wrong with that?? He was basically saying this to me as a way to say I’m manipulative and using him (he was unemployed at the time lmfao so wtf. Another time. His card got declined so I pulled mine out to pay for our things, didn’t want him to be embarrassed. Somehow I was wrong for that “next time don’t do that, we could’ve just not bought anything”. Um I want snacks… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:49 PM |
| 44 | LVMS and “post nut clarity”My NV ex would roll over after a 5 minute jackhammer sesh and either start eating whatever food he had neglected to put away, & go on his phone or YouTube. not even a kiss. he would totally ignore me, thought it was normal. My current boyfriend always cuddles me immediately after, then gets up to get me water and a warm wash cloth. Straight back to cuddle and kiss time after, and usually a little power nap in his arms 🥺he always makes sure to tell me how perfect and beautiful I am afterwards, or… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:41 AM |
| 5 | Dating a gamer is never the move.“Instead of this shitty behavior they do this other shitty behavior. It’s the move!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 09:16 PM |
| 12 | Rooting for this queen who unfriended her LVM husbandUnfriend? How about divorce ? Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 09:15 PM |
| 63 | The jig is up on older NVMFor a while (pre-FDS) I was looking for an older man to date on seeking arrangement. They are almost more disgusting and entitled than the ones my age. I was talking to a man named Anthony. He seemed promising and sent me a nice gift on cashapp. I was excited! This was before we met in person. I couldn’t take his call one day because I was in class. He started demanding that I have phone sex with him. I told him that I didn’t want to do that and that I was in class, and you should’ve seen the am… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:35 PM |
| 7 | What‘s wrong with having sex with „Chads“? No woman wants casual sex with an ugly or average dude unless she is a desperate one imo. Why do men want to LTR beautiful women out of their league but shame us for wanting sex with hot men only when casual sex is shallow?Lmfaoooo. Thank you for this comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 03:31 AM |
| 185 | Can We All Say Bravo To This QueenMen love switching up the rules when it benefits them😂 disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 06:40 PM |
| 15 | /r/againstdegeneratesubs made a change petition to ban fds lol scrotes madthat’s a good point. i guess I just view most incels as such pussies that I find them laughable, thats more of what I was trying to convey. you’re right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 07:29 AM |
| 191 | /r/againstdegeneratesubs made a change petition to ban fds lol scrotes madI don’t even think it’s possible for a female incel to exist. any woman (I repeat, any...men will fuck anything) can walk out the door, and find someone to have sex with them within minutes. When they call us incels it is total projection 😂 they are the incels, they can’t stand the fact that some of us really would rather eat a jean jacket than allow them to touch us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:11 AM |
| 4 | I don’t know how to navigate my relationship. Post FDS, I feel like I have completely lost my ability to trust.Hey, thanks for taking the time to reply. This was helpful. I guess I just have to remember, even in my past bad situations I came out even stronger, and I hopefully will be able to save myself from even half of that potential grief if I’m careful and continue to vet. I started to make a list on my phone of positive data points regarding my boyfriend, not to excuse any potential LV behavior in the future, but to remind me that so far, so good. | /r/askFDS | 23/11/20 03:42 AM |
| 70 | When a guy first shows he’s disinterested in you, pick up your worth and move on—something I wish I’d learned at 20.This is something I struggle with as I have a preoccupied attachment style in romantic relationships and some abandonment issues. It can be hard for me to gauge whether something is a sign of disinterest at times, unless it’s blatant. I have a tendency to assume the worst, and my impulse is to run, but each time, I have been proven wrong to do so (in my current relationship at least). This will be a toughie going forward but at least I have my FDS babes to guide me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:38 AM |
| 122 | /r/againstdegeneratesubs made a change petition to ban fds lol scrotes madLmfao. I have never once gave enough shits to call for a mgtow or incel ban. I don’t think any of us have. The way men’s egos are so fragile< they don’t want us raising awareness about their bullshit bc they don’t want to have to be better. it’s sad and pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:28 AM |
| 39 | Selfish LVM and giftsLol, I had to ask my NV ex to buy me gifts and explained over and over again that gifts (even tiny ones) were my love language. He accused me of using him for gifts (bullshit, he was broke as fuck and maybe bought me 2 gifts in the span of 11 months. Not to mention I payed for shit all the time I tricked myself into thinking I had to also buy him gifts. It was “onLY fAiR”. He revealed to me in a fight, after we exchanged gifts, that the only reason he bought one for me was so he “didn’t look bad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 10:43 PM |
| 20 | Ladies in relationship with HVM, where did you guys meet?We actually met at work! We worked opposite shifts so would only ever see eachother in passing and we kept it very cordial and professional. We were scheduled to work together one day for training purposes and ever since then, he’s been on my tail lol (in a good way tho!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:13 AM |
| 89 | Ex-boyfriend calls to “catch up”. Why?The girl he left you for dumped his ass and he’s looking for a rebound or temporary relief of some kind He realizes he was a douche and wants to make HIMSELF feel better about it He’s single (or even taken) and is trying to get the pp wet He is narcissistic and wants to see if he still has access to you, most likely will ghost after call He did the same shit to the girl he was with, and is now trying to rope you back in so he can have a repeat of hurting you these all seem plausible. you know wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:03 AM |
| 13 | In your opinion, how long into an official relationship is it acceptable/ expected for someone to say ‘I love you’?Omg this is exactly what I was starting to say in my comments, thank you for putting it into words. I have no idea what romantic love even is. I ponder this daily. I sometimes have impulsive thoughts like “I love my boyfriend” but what does that even mean? Because what I feel is definitely not unconditional, as per FDS guidelines I’m ready to leave whenever. Like you, I have unconditional love and acceptance for my mom and grandma, and I know I haven’t felt that for any romantic partner. I’m not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 06:54 PM |
| 12 | In your opinion, how long into an official relationship is it acceptable/ expected for someone to say ‘I love you’?Lmfao I remember my first boyfriend told me he loved me on our very FIRST date. Subsequent to him telling me some major sob story. Oh, and when I asked him about why he told me he loved me the next day? Gaslit me and told me that he meant it in a friend way😂my other nv ex said it about one month in. After threatening to break up with me and stonewalling me the night before, in an air bnb that I PAYED FOR!! I think after 3 months, it’s okay to hear an I love you. Anything before that is fake af. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 06:40 PM |
| 120 | When a LVM/NVM thinks he’s the prize...Judge Judy is such a queen lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:33 PM |
| 90 | Human decency? Don’t know her.As if the “ugly girl” is going to want anything to do with you after that? So delusional lmfaooooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 03:16 AM |
| 35 | Why do gamers attract such a culture of pickmeishas surrounding them?lol yep, this is really how it be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 06:22 PM |
| 18 | Whenever I deal with a douchebag at work...One time this 5’4 guy legit threw his room keys (hotel) at me and was cursing at me because they had apparently stopped working a few times. He was so weirdly hostile lmfao, that shit had nothing to do with me at all. I stared at him with the blankest look ever and simply said, “can I offer you a mask sir” and that “I am awfully sorry for the inconvenience” My non reaction prompted him to ask for my managers card😂 thank god for FDS bc old me would’ve been legit sad over the encounter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 03:53 PM |
| 28 | Day in the life of dating a D1 football player - OH MY GODlmfao. holy shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 04:32 AM |
| 3 | How do you deal with NVM who cat call you or make disgusting comments in the street?omg same except for the guy wasn’t really saying anything bad, he just kept trying to tell me he wasn’t following me. I watched him exit a bar and he was highly intoxicated. after he told me he wasn’t following me he kept trying to walk with me and wouldn’t leave me alone for a bit. It was a really sketchy scene and I’m still upset that no cars stopped to see if I was okay or not, I still had another few miles of walking till I got home and it was almost midnight :/ it ended up being okay but ug… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Brye - LEMONS [Official Lyric Video]This song hits different!!! 🎶I’m legitimately tired of being walked all over by these insecure babies who think that they’re men🎶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:22 AM |
| 31 | He deleted his video afterwards.Fuck I can practically see the comments of pick mes thirsting over that shit. I have so much second hand embarrassment from this tik tok that I am simply going to go to sleep lmfao oh my lord | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 05:24 AM |
| 86 | Social Opinions and Red Flag?As a woman I am always concerned about predators, especially in regards to my younger siblings. I don’t necessarily think this is a red flag and I actually think he’s right, but at the same time I don’t really know why he even brought it up, it seems early for him to be offering input on how you guys raise the kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:15 AM |
| 53 | men like this are why I’m happy being singleLol omg I bet there are pick me and scrote comments telling him he’s NTA and that his ~mental health~ is important!1!1 I can’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 02:55 AM |
| 4 | Dodged a bullet thanks to FDS (story in comments)Can’t see the comment with the story:/ I’m intrigued | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 01:45 AM |
| 20 | A man who has nothing to hide will hide nothing.My ex would log out of Snapchat so that he wouldn’t get notifications in front of me. I would get an attitude seeing a million different girls snap him. That should’ve been my first cue to gtfo. Sometimes I feel like a lunatic lol I don’t know how I justified that to myself. Like girl, he doesn’t gaf about you, clearly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 06:57 PM |
| 73 | When a LVM sabotages the relationshipThey literally never do. it’s always riddled with manipulation. I remember my first boyfriend and I had sex like 7 times the night prior, he acted like everything was fine, then broke up with me over text hours later. When I confronted him about the sex part and how it was ducked up, he said that he only had sex with me that night because he “wanted to make me happy” and “felt pressured”. holy fuck lol Next ex acted like I was a terrible person for jokingly calling him an asshat during a competi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 06:55 PM |
| 19 | Just a little something to brighten up yall’s day ☺️☺️😆😆this comment made me laugh thank you 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 04:57 AM |
| 13 | Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel HellerIt helped me understand my own attachment style and that of my ex. It is useful information but slippery slope in my opinion. Upon learning I had a preoccupied/anxious attachment style, I started to gaslight myself when my ex would treat me like shit. I would attribute my feelings to my attachment style rather than actually just accepting he was a POS. Had I found it after FDS, I would’ve had a different perspective and that would not have happened. I’m in a relationship with who I believe is a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 01:56 AM |
| 53 | The concept of female privilege??lmfao. literally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 02:58 AM |
| 33 | Father of teenage girl/stepfather of 2 additional teenage girls is a whole-ass-depraved-creep. Tries to gaslight wife by calling her a prude. Cringe with me.he’s ~JuSt jOkInG tHo~! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 02:56 AM |
| 58 | Father of teenage girl/stepfather of 2 additional teenage girls is a whole-ass-depraved-creep. Tries to gaslight wife by calling her a prude. Cringe with me.Society has really brainwashed us and it’s insane to watch it in real time. It’s amazing that she is attempting to justify his behavior or that anyone else would. I’m finna throw up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 01:44 AM |
| 112 | Father of teenage girl/stepfather of 2 additional teenage girls is a whole-ass-depraved-creep. Tries to gaslight wife by calling her a prude. Cringe with me.it’s awful. from a young age I was made to change into pants from shorts, change shirts, etc., because “men are around”. Wtf type of men are you allowing to come around your young daughters if they can’t even be trusted to not be disgusting and look at a kid. It’s a sad topic. I’m pretty sure this is very common and it’s unfortunate how much internalized misogyny is present in moms. the other conceptualization could be that they themselves were preyed upon for similar reasons. It’s fucked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 01:43 AM |
| 62 | Father of teenage girl/stepfather of 2 additional teenage girls is a whole-ass-depraved-creep. Tries to gaslight wife by calling her a prude. Cringe with me.Cue the comments of scrotes defending him/gaslighting OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 01:27 AM |
| 9 | I Feel so sorry for oglers’s partners .Never thought about it like this, you have a point. I’m exhausted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 01:13 AM |
| 22 | FDS has ruined my lifesame, and a lot of the abusive tactics (specifically negging) are becoming more and more apparent to me. with coworkers, acquaintances, etc. but it’s freeing in a sense, to know what’s going on. I feel like I have the upper hand in interactions now, understanding low value people & how they operate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 11:56 PM |
| 23 | I Feel so sorry for oglers’s partners .I stare back with a “what the fucks good” look. If that doesn’t work I will glare. it’s so uncomfortable dude. In the past I would pretend I didn’t notice, no more of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 05:44 PM |
| 359 | FDS has ruined my lifeDude I felt this post in my soul lol. My patience with males in general is at an all time low, like I really CANNOT lol. Same with pick me women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 05:41 PM |
| 3 | I need advice. After finding FDS I am having trouble at home with narcissistic father.it’s like my options are: move out and put myself in a shitty financial situation, plus leave my family to the wolves (I feel like I’m the only one who is strong enough to not fall for his BS manipulative tactics and constant jabs), stay and just watch everyone including myself be emotionally abused when he’s home (he usually is gone Monday-thurs as he has a 2 hour commute), or stay and constantly be at odds with him and potentially cause more stress for my mom. idk what to do and I hate seeing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:48 AM |
| 22 | Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true.tbh tho I have been “boom, roasted” by several pick mes over this. so it really wouldn’t be surprising to me if this really was a woman. I feel like if it was actually a dude the message would be far more hostile. Either way super sad that this is our society lol do better folks!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 11:43 PM |
| 7 | So here is how I got banned from r/sex. Are they insane? Link to OP in comments. And then the mod still won’t leave me alone after banning me.Crazy shit right? Lmfaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 10:53 PM |
| 5 | So here is how I got banned from r/sex. Are they insane? Link to OP in comments. And then the mod still won’t leave me alone after banning me.I agree it doesn’t help but I’m pissed. Its one thing when a man says something like that but to hear it from a woman? hits different for me lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 10:42 PM |
| 17 | So here is how I got banned from r/sex. Are they insane? Link to OP in comments. And then the mod still won’t leave me alone after banning me.Lol the pick me ass bitch told me I sounded like a selfish sex partner bc of that comment. Apparently not wanting to be physically hurt and traumatized by your partner is selfish. I’m honestly disgusted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 10:34 PM |
| 23 | So here is how I got banned from r/sex. Are they insane? Link to OP in comments. And then the mod still won’t leave me alone after banning me.Guys I really don’t even understand how this got me banned like this is insane. I don’t care about that sub but I’m really beginning to see that men genuinely are depraved and and disgusting & that women are not safe out here. Women are also very brainwashed :( I’m honestly sad that this is our world and idk what I can do to stop this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 10:31 PM |
| 16 | So here is how I got banned from r/sex. Are they insane? Link to OP in comments. And then the mod still won’t leave me alone after banning me.Lol yes. Because I said I don’t think most women are into being throat fucked till they gag/cry, slapped, and beaten during sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 10:19 PM |
| 22 | So here is how I got banned from r/sex. Are they insane? Link to OP in comments. And then the mod still won’t leave me alone after banning me.Honestly I am. The posts were disgusting and I was hoping I could be a beacon of reason for some of these people. even speaking up for women in the most non-confrontational way will get you banned. This does not sit right with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 10:17 PM |
| 11 | So here is how I got banned from r/sex. Are they insane? Link to OP in comments. And then the mod still won’t leave me alone after banning me.That’s what I don’t get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:49 PM |
| 22 | So here is how I got banned from r/sex. Are they insane? Link to OP in comments. And then the mod still won’t leave me alone after banning me.https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/jczoch/do_some_women_actually_enjoy_getting_throat/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Sorry the pics are kind of out of order, I’m at work. OP asked if women really like getting abused in bed and stuff basically. This was my response. Which is apparently sex negative and caused me to be banned. Are u joking 😂 then after banning me the mod still wants to respond to me even though I can’t comment. Fucking ridiculous. Got attacked by a pick me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Is this a joke? Lmfao.So this is what got me banned. Apparently this is sex negative. I feel like I’m in the twilight zone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:09 PM |
| 31 | Man considers his own fiancé ‘low value’ and tells that to her parents and her - and then wonders if he is an asshole. No doy, dickhead.Lol literally and if he viewed himself as high value he wouldn’t be with someone who he considers low value. so really he’s just a gaslighting pos & delusional lol hope she leaves him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 07:40 AM |
| 5 | Guy asks people with expensive car what they do for a living. Her response is 💯. I wish this for all the HV sisters here!Lmfao goals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 06:39 AM |
| 21 | To the frustrated woman still waiting for him to change: He won’t. An inside peak at their thought process....Yep, learned this the hard way lol. Thank god for FDS. A LV/NV man is simply that. It literally doesn’t matter how well you communicate your needs, how patient and understanding you are, how many excuses you make for their shitty behavior. It will all bite you in the end. They don’t care lolol. Better to have wasted a few years than a few years+1 day..they are not worth it and never will be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:09 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else really picky when screening girls to approach?there’s nothing wrong with being interested in objectively attractive people. Who you want date and approach is entirely your choice. It would only be an issue imo if you were treating less physically attractive people poorly | /r/seduction | 05/03/20 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls text with you, but when the time of the date is near, they suddenly cannot?Jesus lol | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls text with you, but when the time of the date is near, they suddenly cannot?I genuinely wish for you to heal from whoever it was that hurt you and gave you such a poor outlook on relationships, dating, and women. You say you’re not angry but it really radiates honestly and anyways I hope your bad experiences are replaced with good ones. | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls text with you, but when the time of the date is near, they suddenly cannot?well okay whatever. you seem super mad about it which again I don’t get. Like I’ve had plenty of run ins with terrible guys via online dating and I’m not mad ? it is what it is what works will work. but then again as a female I guess I do have more options so maybe that’s why I’m not as bothered. Not sure. But it’s nice to discuss these things | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls text with you, but when the time of the date is near, they suddenly cannot?I can’t speak for every other girl but I was definitely not raised entitled at all..I think maybe we just don’t realize how big of a deal it is to some of you. Like if I kind of stopped talking to a guy a week or so before we were gonna have plans I wouldn’t think that would be a huge deal to him unless we had been talking prior to that for a substantial amount of time? Idk. Anyways I think it’s a society thing also, we’re kind of taught that men don’t experience emotions how we would, so that p… | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls text with you, but when the time of the date is near, they suddenly cannot?yes true, I think if I am ever single again and want to do online dating, I’ll definitely do things differently. Knowing how much good can come of actually giving people a chance, and also knowing how me being flaky could hurt someone, it would just be counterproductive to behave how I used to. | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls text with you, but when the time of the date is near, they suddenly cannot?Mmmmmkay well if/when I’m single again I’ll do that. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 07:12 PM |
| 4 | Why do girls text with you, but when the time of the date is near, they suddenly cannot?I’ve done this to a degree but then again I don’t usually like plan the date out with the guy so it’s not as bad I think? It could mean a few things but the major one is just that people change their minds, also people get nervous, and ALSO (this one kinda sucks) a lot of people will lead you on by saying yes even if they don’t really intend to go because they don’t want to be mean/reject. Or maybe they just aren’t sure. I doubt it’s a you problem. This is pretty universal. My boyfriend and I me… | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Do girls check your Snapchat score?I mean I notice it? I don’t go looking for it. I don’t care about it at all. Anyone who does is weird. And if anything having a low snap score is better in my opinion bc it means you’re not being a hoe | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Tips for a first time cold approachYeah I feel like asking for her IG would be better. Especially if you leave a good impression and then wait a while to DM her. It’ll leave her thinking about you and wondering if you like her or not, which is how you’re gonna gain the upper hand. She may even DM you first | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Tips for a first time cold approachI probably wouldn’t say the sure if you’ll go on a date with me part unless she’s giving signals that the attraction is mutual cuz I can totally see that being super awkward if she’s like uh no thanks not that it matters I guess, rejection is part of life so who cares. You can try it | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 11:41 PM |
| 3 | What are some things you say to get her in the mood?Tell her how bad you want it | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Help with Tinder/bumbleComing from a girl (18F) anytime I’ve used those apps I only ever really respond to guys who are bold or say something interesting. Hey convos are boring. Hit your matches with cool facts or idk, there’s a lot you can do but I think you’re more likely to get responses that way | /r/seduction | 27/12/19 04:28 AM |
| 9 | Should I ask why she won't give me her number?Don’t ask why | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 05:43 PM |
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